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| 31 | I’ve had more intriguing conversations with cats at this point. How many dates will I go on where a guy believes the date went swimmingly, and the whole time I never got a word in edgewise? oy veyOMG that just unlocked a repressed memory. I was dating a guy for a few weeks and had told him I wasn't comfortable having sex early on, and on like our 5th date he said, "I just feel like you have walls up and it's really hard for me. 😢" Mind you, he said this while we were cuddling after he'd tried to have sex and I had said no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 89 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?He looked down at me after he finished during sex and asked, "So.....Did I get ya?" Like that was how he asked if I had an orgasm. That was 4 years ago and I still cringe thinking about it. 😖 (Spoiler alert: no, I did not.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:15 AM |
| 6 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?There was a thread I saw recently (maybe on Ask Men?) that asked how men got past being cheated on. The overwhelming majority of the guys who replied talked about how they basically were devastated and never recovered after they were cheated on. Like that one relationship basically destroyed them and they were never able to get over it and a lot of them turned to substances or became depressed for years. I understand that being cheated on is obviously very upsetting and causes trauma, but I'm wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:59 AM |
| 19 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?I was so upset by those comments. The last guy I wasted months of my life on told me allllll about his ex on one of our very early dates (classic story, she was "crazy" and he was really "traumatized") and I wish I'd reacted like that queen did. Instead, I reacted like all of those ridiculous commenters: "Oh he opened up to me, sO bRaVe and VuLnErAbLe of him." Lo and behold, he wanted to go slow emotionally but fast physically, he never gave me any emotional intimacy, and he gaslit me whenever I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 19 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?This is INSANE timing - this just happened to me last week! We have been friends for years and we always talked about how our friendship is strictly platonic. Then last week, he started hitting on me and asking if we could "hook up without ruining our friendship," and when I said no, he started talking about all the sex toys he has that he could use on me. I haven't talked to him since and my other friends are making me feel like I need to just forgive and forget but I can't shake how grossed ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 22 | LVM attempts to pretend to be a doctor to attract a woman. That woman is actually a doctor and calls him out on his BS.I went on a date with a guy who had a mirror selfie on his profile, in which he had on a white lab coat and a stethoscope. I'm studying to be a doctor and so I thought, "Great, we'll have something in common regardless of what type of health professional he is!" When I asked him about it on the date, he said, "Oh, that was just a Halloween costume." And then laughed it off and made a self-deprecating comment about how that probably made him "lose some points in my book," which I think indicates … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:12 AM |
| 27 | You got me 😂Omfg hahaha a guy did something similar to me once. After he finished he looked down at me and said, "Did I get ya?" And it's haunted me ever since. What on earth possesses them to think that's a sexy way to ask about our orgasms?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:12 PM |
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