| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅Amen literally I’m the same, my mum didn’t understand why I was so upset when he was broke and useless but my argument was he wasn’t physically violent and didn’t call me ugly 😅we live and learn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | The sunk-cost fallacy in relationships is a MYTH. You’re never “too far in” to leave someone who doesn’t treat you like the queen you are! #LevelUp2021You are gorgeous! Things come when you don’t expect them but be proud you’ve not settled for less, it’s really hard but you’re so strong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | I finally left!Thank you so much! I am, I’ve got 2 kinds of therapy on the go at the moment, it’s so so hard but I really know I am strong so I can do this thanks to the help of lovely amazing souls like you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I finally left!That’s a relief honestly I even complained to my family and they said my standards were too high! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:33 AM |
| 6 | I finally left!Sending so much love. 💗💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 11 | I finally left!I know it’s so hard to explain, his excuse was that I can’t expect him not to do it, but yes I can. Rather be single forever than be with someone who goes against my boundaries! Glad I’m not being insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 10 | I finally left!Aw bless you, nice to know there are people out there who understand I also had substance abuse issues too and recovering- obviously not nice in the sense we both have been there but good to have someone to relate to! It’s so so hard I feel like I’m lost but we have this, I wish you every bit of luck you’re stronger than you think, thanks so much!!!! xxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 14 | I finally left!Oh yes for sure! I can’t wait I’m super excited! I finally can find out who I am. Thanks so much💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 6 | I finally left!Thank you!!! Yes super hard to look at the bad bits after a breakup up but it’s good to be free ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 5 | I finally left!Thank you so much my love! Hard to see the plus side right now but it’ll get easier x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 5 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Either evil or nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:47 PM |
| 67 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?What a lovely excuse of a boyfriend! God their words are scarring but I really pray you never changed your body for him or for anyone!!! You are amazing the way you are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 74 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Hahahaha I’m sorry I don’t mean to laugh but what a pathetic excuse of a human being! I’m so happy you see your own beauty! You’re hot until you reject them, what a sour man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:24 PM |
| 30 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?That’s so upsetting! But he’s attracted to you as you are attractive inside and out, although I know it’s hard to feel loved at times especially through school where it’s a breeding ground for childish boys and their bulling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:23 PM |
| 45 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Oh god they are so insensitive! My mother tried to kill both of us in a car and I told my ex boyfriend and he said to get over it. They really know how to make a situation worse. I hope you’re in a better place now ❤️❤️sending hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 54 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I hope you don’t believe anything they had to say! That sounds awful but I’m glad they’re in the past now. That negative energy from your upbringing leads you to relationships with people who are also negative, like my parents who put me down, I became attached to men who also put me down! But I’m happy you’re seeing their no contact as a positive thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Sorry for my late reply. That’s such a lovely comment thanks so much for your brightness xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏I’ve hated my brother for their actions and pushed him away. I’ve tried to convince them that what they’re doing is wrong! But they kind of just tell me I’m not the parent, he can barely do anything for himself and it’s really sad, he has crippling anxiety. I feel bad for him I really do but he needs to take control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Hahaha! Thanks for that, I think in some ways it’s made me so independent so I hope future me is thriving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 26 | Unreal Pickmeisha / LVM comboOh god that poor girl I hope she was alright :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:55 PM |
| 152 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Yep. I was the guinea pig and forced to get a job as soon as I turned 16, had an earlier curfew, no boyfriends allowed to stay over. My brother has never worked a day in his life, he smokes tons of pot, stays out all night and his girlfriend practically lives with us. They say it’s because they realised they could be more lenient the second time around, but even at 22, I’m still constantly told not to stay out late at night or get too drunk, whereas my brother gets his drug habit funded by my da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:05 AM |
| 6 | LiterallyOh yeah I know! Not brave enough to openly write it on here because they know they’d get blocked from the page and they enjoy scrolling through way too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 14 | LiterallyI know right! They take everything so literally 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 24 | LiterallyI’ve had 3 guys message me now. Telling me that they hate me basically and I’m a piece of shit. All of them are from incel groups and are teenagers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:22 PM |
| 82 | LiterallyGot scrotes private messaging me. Stupid ignorant men lurking calling me out loool. Show yourself on the sub big man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have any infographics displaying gender inequality stats?That’s amazing! Thanks so much for that, I shall check it out!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else used to think they were high libido just because that’s what men like?I’m proud of you for leaving! I always thought I had high libido. I was a stupid stupid 15 year old but turns out my libido wasn’t high. I was told that enjoying sex was wrong so I was shamed for it. I was told that women who masturbate are dirty. so we do have to question- do we actually have high libidos or do we think we do because we are told that any woman who enjoys sex is abnormal? I believe in you and I know you won’t settle for less. I know that your strength and intelligence (from how … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureSome of the poor victims involved aren’t even on them! Some have their pictures taken from Instagram and are only 13!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureI know right. I have reported every single account I’ve come across but best case scenario is they get banned. You should be able to track their IP and arrest them! It was so sad as someone from my town got messaged today to be told her tinder profile was basically on a porn twitter account. Just awful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureIt is- for now! They had another account 2 days ago! It’s just a warning as there are literally dozens of other similar accounts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 15 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureYup! From the comments none of the men were under the age of 40. Sad, desperate Scrotes who prey on young women. Okay it’s not “ALL men”, but those involved are ALL men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 20 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureThat’s so awful! It’s disgusting regardless but also illegal to do this to underage girls who do not look sexual in the least. What is wrong with men?! This makes me scared and is the reason everything I post is completely private | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 29 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureAh yeah. The page gets constantly reported and blocked. This is the second time in the last few days they’ve made another account but there’s a plethora of other accounts if you even type in tinder ‘slut’ on the explore page. I came across another one posted of 2 girls about 13 and all the comments were from middle aged men saying which one they’d pick. You’re so right! I think we can all agree it doesn’t matter what you wear, the word slut will get thrown at you in some way possible. That’s the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 36 | Yet again, an account made of screenshots of women from tinder (from my area of the UK) for male pleasureMost of the girls are also under 18! And they’re taking images now from Instagram where they all seem to be 15/16. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | Please never let me be married with kids and posting memes like this on FacebookIs this my dad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | PPD Purge Picture ThreadYou are so gorgeous I’m jealous of you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 5 | Why attractive women are single?this is literally the best thing I’ve read all day, just been crying because I’m codependent and I have always settled for less because I think saying I have a partner means I’m better than if I don’t, despite this man being lesser than me, never having a job, addicted to drugs and porn, sleeps til 3pm etc. It’s so hard to realise what you’ve realised but I think women like you are the reason I’m trying to believe in myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:48 PM |
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