almalexiel Archive

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1	Men Need a New Normal Hah okay, that's comforting haha. I was actually unsure if that was a joke or not On another note I can't imagine that all men really just crave empty sexual moments without relationship or emotional involvement to their partners. To me that sounds like an extreme fantasy that people frustrated with social failures/disappointments would imagine to comfort themselves. Eventually, a person starts wanting another human being and not just the singular thing they think they are lacking. (sex with man…	/r/seduction	30/11/18 04:20 AM
2	Your body language can do wonders for you...people(Girls) judge the book by its cover.. Perhaps it's a question of timing? I can't think of any relationship where people don't open up to each other, but perhaps some people need more time before they open up themselves, or are ready to truly listen to someone else. Depends on the intensity in which you share some stuff. Sometimes it's better to bring up stuff lightly and see if they want to get into the meat of the matter first. I almost never bring up my dead ex because it's too heavy of a subject even if I just wanted to mention i…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 05:11 PM
2	Lose interest when I get a girl’s attention Good luck with everything. It's a long road ahead to healing but it's worth it. Send me some PMs sometime if you want to talk to someone or just empty your heart somewhere. I'm sure there's other places for that on Reddit, also. Try to have fun and enjoy yourself, but don't force it. All emotions are valuable, and going through them again is one step to accepting what happened to you. Take your time with overwhelming stuff, give yourself breaks when you need it, and confront difficult memories w…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 05:03 PM
2	Lose interest when I get a girl’s attention It's an inner journey, meaning you have to figure out some stuff for yourself, there's no one-size-fits-all solution. Try to pinpoint what exactly it is that you're missing. Is it self-confidence? Self-esteem? Approval? Look up those words and more in the dictionary and see what it is that you feel. Think about where it comes from. Did your mom not give you enough attention or praise when you were young? Did a friend make you feel inferior in the past? Were you deeply hurt by humiliation? Did yo…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 04:28 PM
1	Men Need a New Normal Some don't want babies. If feelings are a disease to you, you might want to look into that.	/r/seduction	29/11/18 02:20 PM
2	Lose interest when I get a girl’s attention It means that you don't want a partner, only the part where someone approves of you. It means you're looking for self-esteem, who boost or moral support rather than wanting to share part of your life with someone. If you want a girl, then you want to be with someone and all that that implies. If you want confirmation, then you're looking for someone else to feel some positive way about you, that will give you the confidence that you seek. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but long term you shoul…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 02:13 PM
8	Your body language can do wonders for you...people(Girls) judge the book by its cover.. I'd say confidence and self-respect can be attractive. If you show your vulnerable side after getting close, many girls will agree that it's damn sexy and opens up a door to being able to sympathize deeply with each other. On the other side, guys that act dominant (think more dominant than neutral, but not submissive/victims) turn me off, personally. Just saying that you can find someone without trying to change yourself entirely. Think improving yourself to behave/act better in social situation…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 01:59 PM
2	If giving a girl too much attention comes off as needy, how can you give her a balanced amount just so she stays attracted to you/doesn't lose interest? As long as your busy and interesting life leaves enough space for her to exist as well. Everyone is different for how much time they want to spend together, so balance is key. A little more or less can work, but if you neglect her or maybe even if you only exist for her (although I've never seen that personally) then that might become difficult.	/r/seduction	29/11/18 01:43 PM
1	If giving a girl too much attention comes off as needy, how can you give her a balanced amount just so she stays attracted to you/doesn't lose interest? I can't reply for her but it sounds like either of two things to me: either you've given her so much attention that she wants some space to herself, or either you've neglected something key to her. First the space thing. It doesn't have to be that your attention is such that it's gotten cheap or without value. It could be everything she always wanted, yet if she's unable to reciprocate for whatever reason, she might feel bad about it and react just as badly. It could be interesting to let her be…	/r/seduction	29/11/18 01:01 PM