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If you cringe at sexting bro im sorry but please practice not cringing at anything.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:19 PM
1

Absolutely love how this represents what seduction shouldn’t look like.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:11 AM
3

Such bs. She is just checking whether you are serious about getting to know her. If you end the conversation after her saying that you lose anyway.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:23 PM
2

No. It’s not. Stop listening to feminazi propaganda. It’s only ever advocated by females that had to deal with weak and insecure men all their lives. Respect is something that only matters once there is a disagreement in opinion. Cold approach shouldn’t involve any opinion yet, it‘s supposed to be a fun activity for either party if done correctly.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:52 PM
5

Stop thinking about owing respect to everybody, it’s just not a position you should come from in this case. There are two ways you can go about cold approaching, any others will be seen as weird and awkward. 1. Tactful but Brutally Honest (you tell her that you just couldnt walk past her without at least saying hello) 2. Coincidental and Fun (just ask for directions or just talk to her like you would to any stranger if you were new to the area, and then lead the conversation towards something mo…
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:46 PM
11

You dont really unless she specifically asks you for forgiveness.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:10 PM
20

None. It’s important for any man to make his point clear and singular in meaning. You try to kiss her regardless of whether she wants to or not. If she pushes you away you stop trying, thats how it’s supposed to work.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:16 AM
0

No. I want her to mean her no. If she doesn’t want to she can still push me away before the kiss.
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:35 PM
-1

If she is expecting you to comply, she will make it more clear with her body that she doesn’t want you to stand your ground. She will just push you away if she doesn’t want you to insist.
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:35 PM
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She is testing whether you listen to her. Tell her you dont care, and that you want to kiss her and then do it anyway.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:23 PM
1

You should display 3 things: humor, preselection (you had other women, no matter if it’s true), and a statement that filters out all the women that are looking for relationships only. Oh yeah and Professional phots of yourself of course.
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:28 PM
4

Bro go easy on yourself. Cold approaching is not a good starting point if you have issues talking to strangers. Take easier routes.
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:52 AM
1

Dont overthink this one. Her qualifying herself happens naturally. Point out something odd she said or something odd about her, she will do it.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:43 PM
1

Ok, what did your recent attempts at talking to guys look like (or how do you behave in that setting currently).
/r/seduction22/02/22 09:30 AM
2

Are we talking at bars, on campus, grocery store, work, public transport. We need details on where you are hanging out. I mean what if I tell you to dance with him and you go all pogo on him on the train 🤷🏻‍♂️.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:40 AM
2

Most women dont care. BUT it’s a dealbreaker if she does. So lie your goddamn ass off.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:19 AM
1

I know. It’s because I identified with your post so much in the past when nothing seemed to work.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:07 PM
2

Of course you can. But you wont want to at the end of your journey anymore.
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:25 PM
1

For the moment brother. We all were exactly where you were before we understood what the rules are.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:36 PM
2

Go meet some more of them. You are on the perfect path for this sub. At one point youre going to be so mad at them that you wont love any of them as a person anymore. And then you can learn how to feel exactly the things you felt before towards them, but not mean it all. You only do it to get in their pants.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:04 PM
1

No, not on purpose. They think they know because they do have an idea of how their Ideal partner behaves. But they imagine a person that simply does not exist. A real person cant remain attractive forever if he constantly compliments her, at some point it becomes annoying. But if the person is imaginary, you can just invent a new one thats similar but not the same.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:14 PM
1

Dumb way to go about this. If you approach her you cant be worried about rejection. It’s literally a self fulfilling prophecy. You cant „get girls to approach you“ first, some girls will approach you first if they find you attractive. Some girls would never do that no matter how attractive you are to them. Guess what kind of girl there is more of in the world.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:12 PM
1

Or you could just … not be her friend in the first place, how about that ? Just flirt shamelessly with all the women you find attractive and that will never happen to you.
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:16 AM
1

You can fake social proof pretty easily. I never needed any „real“ social proof to be successful with girls.
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:21 PM
2

Same man. Cant really tell you how often it’s been going great with a girl then all of a sudden they go completely nuts telling me stuff like „see you cant have every girl out there“, „you just wanna get in my pants anyway“
/r/seduction16/02/22 11:09 PM
3

Wrongest shit ive read all day: attractive male here who didn’t get laid until his late 20s. Girls trust you less if you look really good, they think you would cheat on them in the blink of an eye.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:40 PM
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Musta done something right. She was probably just checking whether you were serious or not (she assumed your reaction would be a strong one, instead of you backing down from your stance). Dont worry bud, with girls most situations are won when it already feels like they are lost for good. Thats how women work, they just want to know whether your affection to them is stable or just a byproduct of your current arousal.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:16 PM
2

Well I cant really help you then. Maybe there is a solution to your problem, but I dont have it.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:24 PM
2

So youre a girl ? Whats the problem then. There is always a guy horny enough to fuck you.
/r/seduction15/02/22 12:21 PM
1

Stop limiting yourself. Just pretend you are interested in more and you have all the options in the world. Most girls wont do the fb thing anyway.
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:21 AM
1

Depends on how you take the rejection. If she senses that it diminishes you in any way, youre out.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:57 PM
2

It does if you are in the wrong mindset. If you touch her to make her feel good an realize it’s not working, you are obviously going to feel shit and ruin the moment. If you do it because you want her, regardless of how she feels about you, you both wont feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:43 AM
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Because the majority of women do not like men who are luke-warm about them. They are self centered. They want to be more than just „worth a try“. For instance: my grandpa met my grandma while she was working at a clothing store. He walked in saw her and immediately told her: „I will not leave until you sat down with me in the cafe across the street.“ And this man straight up waited 4 hours and got what he asked for. Absolute fucking legend.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:05 AM
2

???? Of course lesbians dont want you. They are lesbians.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:41 PM
2

Fuck with as many girls as possible and find out if there is a way. If that doesn’t help you, youre shit outta luck.
/r/seduction13/02/22 01:15 PM
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Biggest bs post ive read in years. There is a reason why women are most attracted to the average troublemaker with no common sense in sight. Having your shit together attracts females with crooked value systems: gold diggers, status leeches and travel addicts (more general: expensive women who would not care what you look like and who you are).
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:58 PM
0

Just say that youre busy right now but you would love to at a later date.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:51 PM
1

Bruh. Can you accept a yes ? You can post it on here if she said fine and then didn’t show up.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:17 PM
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Dont. Women who put their IG into their Bio are only there for clout. Just swipe left and forget about them.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:33 PM
1

A: do not let your friends be part of their love life unless you already banged the chick. B: same goes for your family members. C: just keep trying. Failure is part of the learning process.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:37 PM
6

Stop listening to him.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:28 PM
1

No. Harassment is if you just straight up start touching a stranger. Escalation is what follows a fun night with a member of the other sex.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:28 PM
0

Nope. Simply wrong.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:15 PM
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No. It’s a seduction subreddit. Anything related to it goes.
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:44 AM
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I cant even bother to read it all. One thing tho: there is nothing to be afraid of. They are mentally weaker than most people by far.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:15 AM
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Read my comment again.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:15 AM
1

Dunno why I see it differently. I would never force my fetishes onto anybody unless I know it’s pleasurable for the other person aswell (might be because of the nature of my fetish), putting it in front of human connection just seems like missing the point to me.
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:20 PM
1

No. It shows youre serious. Im not saying do it on only one woman at a time.
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:16 PM
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No. If she (blocks you/tells you to go away) thats when you go away. When she says no to dates or anything else keep asking.
/r/seduction09/02/22 11:16 PM
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Absolutely yes. Persistence is the most manly trait there is. If you got that down you are at least able to pull anything. The rest is just the stuff the makes you more interesting.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:24 PM
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Dont. He has the fundamentals down, but most importantly he was rich before he started picking up girls, his stuff doesn’t work for everyone. For all we know, all his success stories could just be attributed to his money. Also it’s strong be he handles desinterested women wrong.
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:54 AM
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It’s what happens if you dont seem particularly serious about your words. A: never ask women for their number, give them yours instead, it’s much smoother and much more confident to do so. B: keep asking her out. She is going to say yes eventually.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:49 AM
0

Dude. Just do not listen to women. They have terrible ideas.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:44 AM
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If it’s so important it stands in the way of a relationship that otherwise fits, I would pretty much say you are selfish. It’s not like you cant climax just because she doesn’t use her feet.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:40 AM
1

Correct.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:53 PM
2

Well it’s not simple as in simple to learn. I meant simple as in thats the long and the short of it. Sorry I meant to say the concept is not hard to understand.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:45 PM
1

Huh ? Thats like nothing man. Would you really dump a girl over her not wanting to please you with her feet ?
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:42 PM
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Of course. Im not saying it’s simple, im just saying thats how it works. We are discussing how to implement this in practice.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:08 PM
2

It is that simple.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:51 PM
1

I would say she is just awkward about the date thing. Do not dump her yet, maybe thats her play, to check whether you would care about her as a human being. If not, just find another one.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:40 PM
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Both. They know you would look attractive if you didn’t dress like an idiot and did your hair every morning.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:28 PM
1

It’s a good conversation starter. But a cold read is just what type of person you would put her on if you didn’t talk to her yet.
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:10 PM
1

Thats you making room buddy. Making room is like: her being into you or making sexual innuendos, or trying to be close at all times. Some girls just cant do that without feeling awkwards.
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:16 PM
2

As I said: yes but those are only the brave women. There is a lot of women that would not make „room“ for any escalation from any man at all (by their nature, not by lack of attraction). In my experience those are the women you miss out on if you focus too much on reacting rather than acting by yourself.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:46 PM
4

Yeah thats basically how all of this works. You pretend you are more capable than you actually are and you get the job. You are realistic about it and you get rejected. The guy women dream of doesn’t exist. It’s literally in the job description.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:42 PM
1

As I said: i understand what he was trying to say, I told him, still a mistake. You will miss out on a lot of opportunities if you limit yourself to the opportunities given to you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:40 PM
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If you want her to be your girlfriend youre not doing it to actually be angry at her like a woman would, but to remind her that your love is not unconditional. So not by telling her you dreamt about her leaving you for another man, thats just weak, dont do that anymore. It’s more like if she wants to see her ex alone you just kind of go: „no you wont.“ and you stay by your words.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:57 PM
4

How ? Are you seriously asking „how“ to escalate ? Just do it man. You literally cant learn it via text. It’s a learning by doing process.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:49 PM
2

Do not fucking care about it dude. Being single is much more pleasant than being in a relationship unless you have never been in one. Why is that ? Relationships oftentime require you to do what you feel like is the least danger to your relationship instead of what you want. People do not like being trapped in a prison made of their own emotions. Just see rejection as an opportunity to meet somebody better.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:39 PM
3

If you want to be fwb with her, then you shouldnt. If you want her to be your girlfriend you should.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:36 PM
2

You answered your question already. Your fear of her detecting your lack of confidence comes from a belief that her affection somehow matters to who you are as a person. Which it doesn’t, if she doesn’t like you: her fucking loss. Say what you want do what you want, thats the general rule.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:16 PM
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No. Introverts are the opposite of this. Getting called mysterious is good, intimidating is good when dealing with extrovert girls.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:14 PM
1

What exactly is your fetish that a woman would be weirded out by it ? I mean I know I wont expect my sexual partners to fulfill my sexual fantasies (but mostly because it’s physically difficult to do and requires a lot of trust).
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:11 PM
1

Dude what are you doing that is such a weak thing to say: „I like you, how do you feel“ to her this is like the most flawless proof that you are insecure and she has full control over your feelings towards her. Women do not find that attractive.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:06 PM
2

Dont listen to this guy. You answered your question yourself. She is shy, she doesn’t want to be the one to initiate.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:04 PM
1

Only way would be you bring your new girlfriend to the dinner with you and make your „friend“ feel excluded. Otherwise you are pretty much out of options on this. Pick a different one.
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:02 PM
2

Can only come from someone who doesn’t know any other males with game or someone who doesn’t know a beautiful male with 0 game.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:49 PM
1

Was that really so hard ? I mean it’s a pretty obvious answer.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:37 PM
5

Just tell her: „I will gladly take your confession any time you want, how about [insert time and place here]“
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:24 PM
2

Lol, I have lost plenty of girls by not texting brother. Never underestimate the need for affection with girls. Just try it once and you will see what I mean. Next time a new girl says something you dont like, just dont answer anymore. You will see how quickly you will be blocked on the messaging service of your choice.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:20 PM
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No. Try to avoid the subject at all costs. Most women dont care about it, but it absolutely ruins it with ones that care about it. So just lie, women would lie about their virginity aswell if they could.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:14 PM
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? Yeah I know. Just saying I later found out why she did it. Her Ex left her (back then the love of her life) and she was trying to do what he did to her on me to hopefully get me as interested in her as she was in him. Not realizing im not really the kind of dude this works on.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:03 PM
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Well in this case yeah. But I had girls go cold on me via text eventhough everything before that was a great success. A fun night, good conversation, a kiss goodbye to which she answered „dont you dare not writing back later“ went cold on me after 3 messages. She didn’t ghost, just didn’t offer anything exciting to the conversation anymore.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:54 AM
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That does not make sense. Why would she be highly engaged in a 101 conversation and be cold vis text ? She is not unresponsive in general, she is boring via text. What do you do ? Thats the question.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:20 AM
3

Bro a cold read is something you do in your head. You are not supposed to tell her overtly what you read.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:17 AM
5

Have multiple women you talk to. Will get rid of the problem automatically.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:09 AM
1

Ok, this convo is over. I told you already. I love the modern dating scene. It’s perfectly fair, it’s just hard to understand when you are listening to women about it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:58 AM
1

Nah, youre still being pretty approval seeking and unrealistic about your skills. Therefore I conclude it’s like a bet on the river in poker. You either have some skills that you want to be acknowledged (but not as many as you wish you had) or you dont have any at all. Your approval seeking is a weak trait.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:54 AM
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Of course it’s not always the same. But this subreddit is about finding general ways that attract a lot of women. Mine works pretty well, and I do not exaggerate my skills like you do. Thats what matters.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:47 AM
0

„Zero signs of her being at all ready for it“. Not your concern buddy. She wants you to, just do it. You are going to regret not doing it when she is gone. Just touch her, if she really doesn’t want you she will tell you to stop (if she physically resists a bit just persist, it’s fine unless she starts fighting it really badly).
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:58 AM
2

Dont listen to this guy. If they are attracted to your money, you shouldnt want them anyway. It’s making her feel like your connection is special and cannot be replaced. You do that by saying the things nobody else dared to say to her, being indifferent to how what you are saying is being percieved, and try again instead of leave if rejected.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:53 AM
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Sorry for the misunderstanding bud, I do believe you do have a lot of game, what I dont believe is that you are very good with women who wouldnt dare talk to you unless spoken to. Otherwise your mind would not be so closed off to girls that do not make the first move. I used to handle it like you and just go with the girls that like me first, but I got tired of that pretty quick soon as I saw that the girls that talked to you first would do so with any guy they are attracted to, and any guy they…
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:48 AM
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If you are lazy you can use the things I say on girls that come to you anyway. But this subreddit is not for lazy people. We are here to learn how to get the girls we want not only the ones that are brave enough to make the first move. I know it’s hard to understand for you, because youre clearly not experienced enough to know. But if you are attractive even the girls that didn’t talk to you first are really attracted to you if you talk to them the right way. Obviously it’s easy to fall into thi…
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:40 AM
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The complaining about the dating scene ? If you are dishonest and cowardly the modern dating scene is going to make you feel worthless. If you make your intentions clear and you do it in a way that shows you know how to keep it fun and playful, youre going to get what youre asking for. But if you try to mask what you want by „testing the waters“, showing her what you want, but doing it in a very subversive way, taking her on dates when you only want sex is going to make you fail.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:35 AM
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You know what I see in you ? Worry about somebody else achieving what you couldnt achieve without superficial attributes. It shows through it’s not a joke. You are a kid that got laid once by a super horny girl and now you call yourself „experienced“ and tell everybody else that your „skill“ is not achievable by other ways. You are literally wrong on this subreddit dude. You do not know anything about seduction because you never had to do it before (just like a girl) and we dont ask fish how to …
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:27 AM
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Absolute bs. I look amazing, never met a woman who had the guts to straight up ask for sex, get plenty of beautiful girls hitting on me everywhere I go. But what youre proposing is unrealistic and wrong. The man is the person to initiate intimacy, unless the woman knows him really well already.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:21 AM
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Well maybe our styles just differ I guess. Because this seems to me like a situation I would have no control over whatsoever. Which is not my style for sure.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:44 AM
1

I did. And I started flirting soon as I realized she was into me, as should you. Everything else is weak. If it works out without you doing anything your are the girlfriend. Not her.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:43 AM
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You decided to enter a relationship with a girl that hooks you up with other girls ? Different folks different strokes I guess.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:08 AM
1

?????? Didn’t you just propose 2 messages ago that you „dont have to flirt“.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:04 AM
2

It’s normal just calm down. Trust me, you will get bored with your fantasies mighty quick, and when it happens you will be interested in the real deal again.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:03 AM
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Op doesn’t realize his friendship+ is trying to be his girlfriend.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:00 AM
1

Nope. Only if your actions invite her to do so. Girls only do what they feel they can get away with. So make sure she doesn’t think that of you. If she is disrespecting you, you already made enough mistakes to fill a book. She just hasnt met anyone better yet.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:45 AM
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No. This a very rare scenario. Wrong subreddit buddy. We are here to discuss the behavior that works 100% of the time. Also I understand what you mean, girls that you already slept with are going to want more. Not the issue here, this is a subreddit about attracting new women, not entertaining the ones you have already slept with.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:43 AM
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Nobody is complainin, unless they are dishonest and cowardly.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:39 AM
1

Ah then you are 100% correct sir, sorry about the misunderstanding.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:38 AM
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Thats already the mistake. Women do not want this dynamic of being on the same page when it comes to sex. They want to feel, no they need to feel how much you want them without them having to do anything. It’s part of their nature to not act but react to things.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:11 PM
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No, quite the opposite actually. Most women are not open to an exclusively sexual relationship. They will only have sex with you if the relationship card is at the very least on the table. So if you are looking for sex only, you are going to have to put in all three again. Be courageous in your words, indifferent to what they might make you look like, and persistently try no matter what happened last time. The only thing you do differently with women you just want to sleep with is whether you ac…
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:06 PM
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Bro the moment you worry it’s too late, it will be too late because you will feel like it, so try not to think about that. And here comes the actual advice: just-do-it. You should not care about doing it wrong or at the wrong time. If you dont do it, you will never learn how not to feel awkward doing it.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:49 PM
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Make her uncomfortable as much as you can. Do not laugh at anything she says. If she asks you something just reply in a disregarding manner. If she wants to hang out with your friends, dont invite her.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:18 PM
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It wouldnt phase me either. Im just saying: if you had the choice between two girls that look identically hot as fuck, would you take the one that constantly tries to put you down and thinks she is the hottest stuff in the world ? Or would you take the one that doesn’t play games ?
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:15 PM
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You do not stop trying unless she blocks you (which will obviously never happen unless you ask for it if you follow what I say).
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:10 PM
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No. Guys playing hard to get is the least attractive and weakest way that possibly could work. I guarantee you if you listen to my way it works much faster and will feel much better to you and her.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:09 PM
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Dumbest shit I ever heard. You can make people comfortable by a lot of ways. If your way isnt sexual you aint gettin any. Simple as that with women.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:07 PM
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Depends on the kind of joke. If you feel like she is doing it to have a laugh about it of course. If you feel like she is doing it because she is really attracted to you and cant wait to know if you feel the same you are doing more harm than bringing her joy by joking about her.
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:17 AM
1

Tell her she is. It’s not clingy or needy to do so. What matters is the rest of your behavior.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:40 AM
1

Dont listen to fishes about fishing. And keep trying.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:35 AM
1

Should have long asked her out by now.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:21 AM
2

Bro just ask her out. Asking her out is never a mistake unless you are a weak man whos scared of being told no. If she says no, just ask again another time.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:16 AM
1

Thats not what she was trying to do. She just wanted to know how attracted to her you are. Which shows you two things: 1.literally she was trying to help you make the conversation more interesting by helping you to flirt with her. 2.call her your dream woman. You could literally take this one home right away if you say it in a believable manner (you dont have to mean it, but if you dont then act well).
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:51 AM
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Dumbest answer ever. Would you be attracted to a girl that would tell you: “im not worried, you dont look as good as you think”. You wouldnt (if you would great for you, but wrong subreddit). Same for women, unclear intentions towards her => attraction loss.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:47 AM
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If I find out she is still thinking about her ex. Hands down the best decision you can make, to drop people like that. Just stick around for sex and then leave.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:44 AM
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Nah bro. Totally missed the point. You should be indifferent to the outcomes of your actions, without being indifferent to her in general. You should not care whether she wants you or not. Just keep trying on her and 14 others and there is nothing in the world that could go wrong.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:36 AM
1

Lost me at “you dont have to flirt” shows that you didn’t have any success yet.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:32 AM
6

“Any good poker player has to be able to put himself into his opponents shoes”.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:29 AM
3

Thats where courage and persistence come into play. The courage makes her feel attracted the persistence brings down the walls she puts up to check if you do it for the sport or for the prize.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:27 AM
1

(If I was a woman now I would think to myself:) “What a pansy, cant even stand his ground against a man who disagrees with him, how can I expect him to stand his ground for or against me. Meh im over him.”
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:23 AM
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I disagree. If you were indifferent to all women, you wouldnt get to know most of the ones you want. I can do what you can do, I got the same cards in my hands as you, I just get to play more rounds with them. Indifference alone is strong but ineffective. While mine combines strength and effectivity.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:19 AM
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Indifference is not enough for attraction to happen. Are you attracted to every girl that doesn’t care about you ? No. Thats why it wont work on women either. If you ask me it’s the mixture of courage/indifference/persistence that does the trick.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:09 AM
1

Calm down dude. Nothings wrong here, she prolly just got distracted.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:24 PM
4

Lot of newcomers these days. Why havent you asked her out yet ? <- you know what this is ? Her thoughts. Fucking ask her out.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:12 PM
3

Not directly. It’s hands down one of the worst things you can do. It is A:direct B:weak because her answer is yes or no and weak because it doesn’t require any bravery. C:ineffective at making her feel attracted to you. So what do I propose you do instead ? Simple: if she tells you something weird or dorky (or anything else) about herself you just ask: “What does your boyfriend say to that ?” She will tell you and neither of you will feel awkward about it.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:24 PM
1

The rollercoaster of emotions is (he loves me)/(he doesn’t) not (what a limp dicked kid)/(now thats a man) because the latter is not possible. Once unrespectable always unrespectable.
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:25 PM
1

Chill. Girls just wanna check if you feel confident because of her or because you feel confident. Girls that have been hurt a lot will put up more hurdles for you to not knock over. I mean your method doesn’t knock over the hurdle, but it sure as hell doesn’t jump over it.
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:08 AM
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I mean 2.5 is what most guys would put themselves on realistically. It’s probably 3 for you. Perfect timing on your end. The book is useless to people in stage 1 + 2. They would disagree with what they read and not learn from it. Problem is: the book does not tell you how to transition phases. That happens automatically too.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:58 AM
1

Dont buy it use pdfdrive.com it’s free there.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:55 AM
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The first two are for people who desperately try to please women and not ruin things with them. The 3rd is for people who are frustrated because they went through the first two stages. The fourth is the enlightenment stage at which you no longer get hurt by what women think of you.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:52 AM
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4stages: 2 of which are either weak and ineffective or effective and weak. 3rd is Strong but Ineffective (the stage incels are trapped in). 4th stage is strong and effective (it’s when you no longer hide your intentions with women and if you hide any it’s usually to get more women).
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:50 AM
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Btw. You are going through the stages explained in the book anyway, you dont have to read it for that to happen.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:24 AM
3

Seems you are new here: take it from someone who looks better than 98% of his friends and goes to the gym 4-5 times a week: your looks wont get you laid, you will. This is why self-improvement books are this popular among men.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:20 AM
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Flirting is NOT testing the waters. Flirting is supposed to convey that you are already madly attracted to her without being creepy about it. Testing the waters is more like “i like you” or some other dumb luke-warm bullshit you spout in an attempt to get her approval first. Approval is the last thing a man is supposed to need in their eyes.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:53 AM
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No. You do not want a girl that has lost her image of you as a man. Can you remember the last time somebody lost your respect badly but later on made it into your list of most respected people ? I dont think so. It’s even worse with women. Some of the things they see as weakness arent even weak to begin with.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:50 AM
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He means the book called “Mode One” but it’s not really a book that shows you a method that works (the methodology doesn’t work ive tried it many times, a lot of girls get creeped out by it) BUT: It is a great book for understanding at what stage you are and what stages you still have to go through to behaving more like a man. They are pretty damn accurate about the stages. They remain true for the most part.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:43 AM
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Brother. Thats why the man does the mans job. Women do not understand how much it hurts to be the man when you didn’t have to do it your whole life. They think “oh I can lead dont worry” then they get “rejected” (not really, just fell into the oblivious to it zone) and they are hurt. Eventhough it was nobodys intention to hurt anyone. They are not made for it.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:35 AM
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No. Wrong situation for this behavior. Thats what OP should have done before she started seeing him as a friend. If he does it now all thats going to happen is that she is going to tell him that she doesn’t want to, and if he keeps going hit him. This one is a lost cause. Find another one is the right way to go about it.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:29 AM
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No it’s not clingy. Most people will ask as soon simply out of courtesy. Say I would have 3 situations like this and ask all 3 the morning after. You can be sure I wouldnt touch the girl that didn’t reply anymore.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:20 AM
1

Trust me, if she wanted you, she wouldnt even mention her husband if she had one.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:54 PM
3

By seeing other women first.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:47 PM
2

I dont mean to be rude or seem not understanding of the problem, but this is not the right subreddit for this kind of laziness. The goal should be to gather experience to create a perpetual streak of good experiences.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:59 PM
2

If shes hot and she matched you on Tinder, just find another one. Dunno what the fuss is about. Or keep asking her out. Take your pick.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:43 AM
1

Dude why ? She told you she is down. Be a man and do what she wants you to.
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:33 AM
2

Why would you enter a hobby with a deficit ? People with wheelchairs can be good archers, but if you ask them they would all prefer to stand on their own two legs.
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:31 AM
1

Dude look, this is not a wedding market. You do not get to ask her on a date unless you talked to her like a normal human being first. Just talk to her. Edit: to everyone else please stop downvoting our fella here, he is struggling like any of us did in the beginning.
/r/seduction04/02/22 08:08 AM
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Look youre not listening what im telling you: “testing the waters” is already an attraction ruining move. Im not saying you have to be actually attached to all the women you pursue, im saying you should pursue regardless of your (honest) attraction level and pretend shes the only thing you care about while she is with you.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:59 AM
1

Just ask her again and escalate.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:50 PM
2

Nope. Youre wrong. I bet you are still a virgin and have never even tried to let go of this thought that you have to ask permission for everything.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:17 PM
1

Sexual assault would be if you physically overwhelm her and dont stop if she tells you to. If you just kiss her and she doesn’t resist it’s called kissing. Not rape not sexual assault.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:49 PM
2

They are. Because in their heads it’s like this if she wants to: “Does he seriously not know by now if I want him or not ? What a loser.”
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:47 PM
1

No. Never ask for consent. It’s either clear from the context or it isnt. If in doubt, she will let you know soon enough. What do you think this is ? A formal transaction ? Ma’am could you please sign this form of consent so I can do to you whatever I want ? No. This is humans mating. If you do not know whether she wants to kiss you or not, just do it and youll know if it was the right moment. Nobody is traumatized from a kiss.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:46 PM
2

Downvote this mf to infinity and beyond. If I was a mod I would hands down ban this guy right away.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:35 PM
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No. It’s modern society that perpetrates this belief. They call it “toxic masculinity” and good lord what happens if a guy is actually into you and lets you feel it. You just have to stop listening to women like that, most of those complaints come from the women that have never gotten hit on before anyway.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:33 PM
1

Yes. You “try to test the waters” before making a move. You get sad when faced with rejection. And you stop trying after a few failed attempts. Thats how you establish yourself as unworthy in womans eyes.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:37 PM
1

No brother. You need help if you think one day some Perfectly looking dominant girl is going to fall for you no matter what. Do you realize just exactly how rare dominant girls are ? Hint: they are so rare that it’s not even worth the wait. Most girls would not dare touch you unless you touch them first (and even then only if you lead their hands where you want them to be). I know there is not “one formula” but this is the Formula that made me get the best results (like what, 60% just works, 20%…
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:01 PM
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Thats their trick. How they check whether someone is actually THAT interested in meeting them. Be indifferent to their answer and ask again (I dont mean every day, like once every 3 days or something, maybe every week should be fine).
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:54 AM
1

No. It’s because you lack bravery, indifference and persistance.
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:49 AM
1

I am missing details here, your reaction to getting turned down matters lots here. “Ok cool” might not look “Ok cool” to the other person. Just keep asking her (in a happy indifferent manner) out. Do not let her see that you are hurt by being turned down. It’s approval seeking behavior. She has to seek yours not the other way around.
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:46 AM
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They dont. They prefer self respect. It’s the only way they can check whether you can be trusted. If your opinion bends around hers, you are a girl to her.
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:37 AM
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No. Woman like typically male attributes: bravery, indifference and persistance. When you “test the waters” she notices (no matter how smooth you are), if she really really likes you already it’s not going to make a difference. But if she didn’t know yet, it might just tell her that you are not brave enough to lead. Whether she likes you or not should not be part of your thoughtprocess when talking to women. You will see your luck change once you internalize that.
/r/seduction03/02/22 11:15 AM
3

Stop being affraid to offend people. It’s only going to make you even unhappier than you would be if your tried your luck too much a few times.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:41 PM
1

If shes already gone cold there is not much you can do, aside from maybe introducing a little competition into the game.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:38 PM
1

Simple. You have been in a lot of “logical presenter” situations but too few “social vibing” situations. Just toss that coin a bit more often and youre fine.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:14 PM
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Im not saying you should chase her away and be mean. Im saying invite her on dates still but do not just sit around and be friends with her, it’s only going to ruin it for you.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:11 PM
4

You answered your own question: “I gave her what she wanted”
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:12 PM
0

If you say so gringo.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:59 AM
1

No sorry. You should read what I commented. You misread the last part.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:59 AM
0

You might not get very far.
/r/seduction02/02/22 01:00 AM
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Haha, who says I mean it ? I say that to every chick thats on the more reserved side. Works like a charm. Even on taken women.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:51 PM
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No. It’s a blunder that should not happen. The way you make a woman dream of being in a relationship with you is by making her feel like the best woman on this earth. Tell her shes your dream woman if you want her to emotionally fall for you. Not by taking all the fun away with stupid kids.
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Depends on the woman. You can be straightforward without actually having to use dirty words. Most women (especially the more reserved ones) do not respond well to dirty-talk. So you have to have some kind of filter so she doesn’t feel disgusting instead of sexy.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:14 PM
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No. You do not ask that question. You let her voice her wishes to you and you fulfill them. Trust me nothing makes a woman feel more misunderstood than seriously asking for kids. It’s like: “Yeah thats easy for you to say, not having to suffer any of the pain of getting one.”
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:10 PM
1

Stop repeating what im saying. It’s annoying.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:08 PM
0

Except it’s talked about every single day in this sub.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:07 PM
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No. They only find it off putting if you make it obvious enough that you want to get in her pants, but are never actually brave about it. For example: telling her “you like her” makes her think to herself: “thank you, but those words dont make my pussy wet or touch my heart where it has never been touched before”
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:18 AM
1

It means to get her number. “Number-closing” is pretty basic lingo in this sub. Could also be “Date-Closing” successfully asking her on a date. It describes both the Process and the Technique used to get her to do certain things.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:15 AM
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If you talk to her normally usually you do not end up in her pants. She has to feel more chemistry with you than with anybody else, which wont happen if you talk about the fucking weather and drop “hints” that you like her. That may work on some high school girls that already had a crush on you to begin with. With women you can just make it obvious.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:14 AM
8

Yeah same. Especially if you do not even know if she wants children any time soon.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:12 AM
1

How is it underrated ? If your armpits smell bad you aint gettin laid unless she seduces you (hint, almost never happens).
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:11 AM
4

A lot harder ? Bro when I was still a virgin I always just didn’t mention other women in their presence. That was already enough to have them believe there are others (I got the looks for it by the way, not many do). The best thing I learned that instantly has them believe you have tons of women is if you shamelessly hit on them at all times. I didn’t even have to lie in a “telling untrue things” kinda way. You can just tell them they are your dream-woman, that they are much more attractive than…
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:44 AM
1

Never too late bud. But keep in mind it will take years to learn it. So better be prepared.
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:34 AM
3

The last paragraph was the funniest shit. “Women can tell who fucks and who doesn’t”. Nah bro, thats the actual beauty of it all. They dont have a clue. You can literally lie the blue out of the sky with them (if you want to do it that way).
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:29 AM
1

Oh no. You dont have to obviously. Thats just the way you learn the fastest with the least amount of emotional pain attached to it. Imagine cafeteria girl didn’t find you attractive: who the fuck cares ? Next ! Imagine your crush of 2 years doesn’t find you attractive: where is my rope ?
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:09 PM
2

What are you afraid of might happen that makes you nervous ? Picture your answer in your head. Have your answer ? Good. Now think about my words: it wont happen this way. You cant plan conversations. Not if you plan them positively, not if you plan them negatively.
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:07 PM
1

I tend to have that effect on people 👉🏻👉🏻.
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:01 PM
1

Well if Rona wasnt a thing I would tell you to hang around your school/university/whathaveyou and if you find a girl “aesthetically pleasing” you try to find a way to talk to her. Doesn’t need to be very brave approaches in the learning phase. Could just be you and her Standing in the Queue of the cafeteria and you asking her if you can pay for the food with cash here (my first cold approach). You can get as creative as you like, thats the real Joy of it.
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:00 PM
1

Ahhh god your head is so much cleaner than mine. I couldnt have made that up if I tried.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:54 PM
2

Only if you see the risks as risks. Which can only happen to you if you dont want to learn PUA. Your first 10-20 women will not go smoothly, thats a universal truth for everybody that tries to learn it.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:51 PM
1

What else would it be ? Pickup lines are there to make her laugh. Not for her to answer, alright lets do it and then go home with you.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:49 PM
2

Bro. You cant go to the casino play the slot machine and expect to get the jackpot every time. Accept uncertainty in your life if youre dealing with people. You are only going to develop hatred otherwise … and even worse, unjustified hatred.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:45 PM
2

I mean most of these are pretty basic. The friend-zone thing only works if you are dealing with a highly confident woman which is dominant. So essentially almost no woman on the planet. If you try that on a shy girl she is just going to project her misguided attraction to you onto somebody else.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:40 PM
1

Bro. Do not throw you record breakingly high expectations at a woman. You are just going to chase girls off with that, ok ?
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:33 PM
2

I think you just want a girlfriend. Not kids not living together forever. Just fun and dating labels.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:14 PM
2

Bruh I suggest you come clear on a few thing before you toss around diamond rings like oprah. If you only want a breeding machine just find a way to earn loads of cash and youre good. But I think youre just too insecure to tell us what you actually want.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:00 PM
2

Brother, you need a bot not a woman. No woman is going to do something like that for feelings…only for money.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:53 PM
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The problems of men cannot be understood by women. Especially not the attractive ones. It’s fine if you wanna read and comment your way through this sub, but I recommend unless you become a man and actually have to learn some stuff to not be boring to women (despite your looks) you shouldnt post here anymore (sorry not sorry).
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:57 PM
3

Is your dad in Prison ? If she says no: “Because thats where I would be if I was your Dad.” If she says yes: “Understandable, thats exactly where I would be if I was your Dad.”
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:54 PM
3

???? I do not understand two things about you: 1. Why do you want to marry if it sounds like you only want to have sex. 2. Why would you learn pua for getting married. That totally beats the purpose.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:51 PM
1

What else would it be but being a pussy ? How do you intend to win in this scenario ? By doing nothing so you can tell yourself “at least I didn’t do anything wrong”.
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:36 PM
2

Stop telling yourself stories about what you have trouble with in your life. If you are afraid to do it wrong before even trying, youre never going to do it right.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:44 AM
1

I wouldnt generalize it in the sense that “all women expect extra effort” some women actually dont. You can compensate for that extra effort by being very clear on what you want from her. But if it is a relationship, obviously she is going to let you hang in there for a little moment (understandably)
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:41 AM
2

Thats the dumbest sentence ive ever heard. What you want to feel around your dick and what people are easier for you to understand should by default be different otherwise you might even have a higher chance at being gay than the people who can relate to their own gender better.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:38 AM
1

I know why it works buddy. Im saying is: it doesn’t work on me. If 50 guys I know found you attractive you wouldnt be attractive to me unless you actually are. I do not find you attractive just because others like you, actually if anything it’s the other way around, I pretty much always like the stuff nobody else likes. Now that doesn’t mean my women are ugly, quite the opposite actually, but they are largely perceived as evil. Which I can in no way confirm.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:29 AM
1

Im not saying it doesn’t work: im saying women who think like that arent worth crap to me, no matter what they do.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:26 AM
1

What if I told you having multiple girls means exactly the opposite of that ? And this is coming from someone who is dating multiple women at the same time (for effect), but would like to do things differently. It’s the most illogical conclusion you could ever reach that if other girls want something, it must be trustworthy. What if the other girl likes being mistreated…newsflash most of them do.
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:32 PM
4

The hatred is necessary to complete your understanding of looking for potential partners. If it could be just anyone, it wont work. It has to be someone who is so special to you that the hatred just doesn’t shine through. If youre only looking to get laid and you develop hatred in process, learn to understand the difference between falling in love and wanting to fuck someone.
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:08 PM
1

When it’s obvious she wants you to: when shes actively fishing for compliments. Otherwise do not compliment her looks, there is much more powerful things you can tell her. Rather try to outline how special your relationship is in your eyes. Tell her she is your absolute Dream-woman. Regardless of whether it’s true or not. Drives her nuts.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:57 PM
2

First: not your concern, the main point is she is responding and open to dates. Everything else are variables that do not affect the outcome. Second: unless she flakes on plans, it can actually mean the opposite. She could be worried her attention could be detrimental to her value in your head.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:57 PM
-1

Nah. Stop generalizing. Iam not any more attracted to girls many guys are attracted to than to the ones without any guys. It’s just girls that follow this logic because most of em are dumb as shit.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:52 PM
1

Np. It’s easy to work into any conversation and tells you what you need to know.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:49 PM
1

The are you single thing was really not smooth and blunt. Try something a little different: if she says something weird or that shes constantly busy: “Whats your boyfriend say to that ?” She will tell you if she has one and it wont feel awkward for neither you nor her.
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:25 AM
2

Not all of them of course. My main point was: I know uglier men than me that get into a womans pants way easier than I do. I would even propose the opposite. Women will spend more time observing you and getting to know you if youre handsome. Because they are afraid youre just going to walk out on them as soon as they give up their body.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:56 PM
2

For reference: I have been told I am very handsome by random women I just met. And not just once. Thats pretty much every party I go to. I told you I get my fair share of female attention. It’s just that they still dont make it as easy for me as they do to my ugly ass friends.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:54 PM
2

Nah bro. I get hit on by all age groups of women. And I dont know what classifies as young to you but 25 has to suffice. My problem is them losing attraction mighty quick. And dont give me bs answers please: I have 0 problems physically escalating. I dont have any problems talking to them, even flirting with them.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:49 PM
4

Bs. If having women would foremost be determined by looks I would be drowning in pussy. Needless to say im not. Im vaguely successful. But not as successful as many of my much uglier friends.
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:09 PM
1

Of course it’s possible. We are in reality here. All you have to do is cheat on your gf and you got laid twice the same day.
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:15 AM
1

Depends. If youre looking to hook up with her, just pretend he isnt there. If youre looking to be in a relationship with her, tell her the following: “I just feel like you are not open for somebody new right now and thats just not what im looking for right now”. Which will have two possible outcomes: 1. Makes her chase you like Crazy and forget all about her Ex (which you will see by her investing more time with you) 2. Makes her avoid you in an attempt to float you along until her emotional wor…
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:35 PM
-1

Give her exactly what she wants => fuck her => ghost her. Only thing you can do if you dont wanna look like a fucking weak ass idiot.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:04 PM
1

Stop thinking of it as a game of roulette. Girls want to see you do something that men who just want to fuck her wouldnt do. And I dont mean like buying her things, I mean staying persistent eventhough she acts desinterested. Most women wont do what im describing … but then again most women do not have to be faithful, they got options.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:35 AM
1

You are exactly saying what im saying. It’s just that you look at it from the other side. You care about doing nice things just for being nice. I dont. But I am your opinion, it’s fine if you dont expect anything in return and do not want anything from that person. But if you do want something from them just dont be nice unless the person is nice to you. It just makes the impression of being fake, and trying too hard to please. It’s a difficult choice to make, you know whether somebody is doing …
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:00 PM
1

? Yes. Thats exactly how it works. I do care about you, but only under the assumption that you would do the same for me. If it works any different in your head youre just being taken advantage of. Girls basically walk through the world looking at what they can have and what they cant have. What they turn out to like most are the things they have to bring effort for, not the things they can take for granted. If there arent any consequences to rejecting a guy, she gladly will, because she knows sh…
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:36 PM
1

It’s the only idea you ever have to have when trying to understand girls. The moment you realize none of the men women would like to have actually exists is the moment you know exactly what to do and how to behave to get them to fall for you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:10 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:05 PM
1

Thats like saying: dont bother running in a marathon, just stay at the starting line, you arent going to be first anyway. She cannot know she is important to you. Otherwise she will not feel any tension. It’s like a movie where the narrator literally tells you what happens in the beginning. Nobody likes getting a huge spoiler. Stop the crap. If you guys are not getting pussy left right and center you should not be giving advice here.
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:26 AM
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Dont listen to this guy man. DO NOT I REPEAT ON ALL FREQUENCIES DO NOT LISTEN TO HIM.
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:21 AM
1

No brother. Do you understand that there is a difference between a guy who is nice and a niceguy ? The guy who is nice, just helps people for fun/out of the kindness of his heart. Needless to say when you are trying to get in a girls pants this will inevitably be thought about by her and she has to decide in her head whether youre just doing it because you want something from her or not. Now I am not saying she will always decide you are a deceptive little shit. But what I am saying is: why conf…
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:00 AM
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Depends on the girl. If she is not a complete prude and the date did actually feel good to her, she will have no problem with that. Worst case she will just decline coming with you. Best case she is impressed with your confidence.
/r/seduction25/11/21 08:51 AM
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No. No. And another million times no. Thats not the relationship you want. You have just barely scratched the surface of really unhealthy relationships. Asking girls for advice on girls is like asking a man who was born without legs how to run fast. Women never had to solve the problem of a uninterested girl. Unless they are lesbians.
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:09 PM
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Depends on what youre looking for. If its a guide on how to create love, it’s probably „Pandoras Box“ by Vin Dicarlo. If it’s a general way to appeal to a large group of women it’s „the tao of badass“ by Josh Pellicer. And if you just wanna understand what in your head is currently keeping you from getting the interactions with women you desire, it’s „mode one“. That last one being less of an actual method but more of a self help lecture on how to remain calm (about failed interactions with wome…
/r/seduction24/11/21 09:59 AM
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Most inaccurate shit aswell. I was a nice guy for most of my teens. And my friends would push their luck with me at times. But once or twice I flew off the fucking handle and beat one of them senseless. Guess who was well respected afterwards. Being a nice guy doesn’t automatically mean youre weak. It means youre inexperienced.
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:38 PM
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Shit outta luck for you guys. Because there is too many of the other kind of nice guys to not generalize it.
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:34 PM
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Thats the biggest bs I ever read. Being a nice guy is a choice based on not knowing what else to do. It shows lack of experience about how much you can get away with. If you would always bring minimum effort to any conversation, it would go boring very easily. Thats the only reason. But reading that book I could only think of a nice guy trying to explain away why he is a nice guy. Hiding your fucking flaws is part of life. Being boring shouldnt be. Imagine all your friends would say yes to every…
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:33 PM
1

Seems so.
/r/seduction11/11/21 05:47 AM
1

Good attitude. Have a good one mate. Still shoot your shot tho. Always do.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:39 PM
1

If she ignores you in the presence of other people there is no way she is interested. If you feel like doing something the next time youre alone go for it. Worst thing that could happen is a no. But to me this sounds like a girl that just likes to flirt.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:24 PM
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Dude I think you might be projecting your interest onto her. If you actually escalated on her and you havent met up in private since you should 100% leave her alone.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:16 PM
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Dude I was pissing myself re reading what I wrote there. 🤣 Thanks anyway, I try to give good advice Eventhough im not inhumanly successful with women.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:04 PM
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Yeah I realize it was kinda worded the wrong way. What I meant by that is: if you feel the conversation has progressed to that point. Obviously dont do it to avoid making the conversation end in awkward silence 😂 my bad dude.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:43 PM
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Oh dude if she has genuine fear and doesn’t talk to you on a regular basis you definitely should leave her alone. If you see fit or if she brings it up, even apologize to her. Dude if you meet a girl with Tattoos and colored hair you can tell her stuff like this. But dont do that to the shy ones, they will hold it against you forever.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:41 PM
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Why would it ? She can communicate that to you without the use of a third party. Just leave her alone if she didn’t like it. Unless she is one of those SJW psychos that start yelling rape after they got kissed by a guy.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:38 PM
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Calm down. Using words like „slut“ doesn’t work on shy girls. At least in my experience it doesn’t. Stuff like this triggers their defenses. So telling her „I want you“ is basically dancing around her defenses like a ballerina.
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:21 PM
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Ah ok looked it up. Nah dont worry about it. For this to become an HR issue, there would have to be something that can be argued about. Unless you say sorry or some other shit you should never say after kissing someone you should be perfectly fine. If somebody else asks why you did it you just say: „Because it felt like the right thing to do at the time.“ What are they supposed to do about it ? Call the cops for something thats not likely to happen again and didn’t cause any harm to begin with ?
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:54 AM
0

HR ? Sorry I dont know what that means.
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:14 AM
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She is kind of a shy girl right ? But still hot. Thats the way it has always been for her. Which means in her head the way she looks makes you act a certain way towards her. As opposed to very direct and offensive girls who do not want you to act, they are drawn towards inaction by you. By that very fact you can deduce how much sexual situations mean to her. It means a lot to the girl in your case. So in the right moment just talk to her, and as soon as you run out of things to say you just kiss…
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:08 AM
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Perfect. Do not ever compliment women unless they ask you to. Talk to them like anyone else.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:16 AM
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Yes but soon as you fall for her Bluff, you will be on one level with the other dudes not getting any. Wait for her to catch you alone and then seduce her right then and there. Girls that would never dare do anything to get guys but always get guys are addicted to touching and kisses.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:15 AM
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You speak into her ear to get to follow you to a more quiet place…. Assuming you get your timing and the girl correctly.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:52 PM
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Nah. I learned that I get more eager responses to giving her my number than the other way around. But some of them will still flake regardless of whether you can twist your dick into a pretzel. The ones who like you enough you can just hardly reply to and still get the date.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:51 PM
1

No. Simply no. Neediest shit I read on the internet so far. r/niceguys on this one.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:47 PM
1

It’s simple. Dont be. Or find a way to get it hard before she sees it.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:43 PM
1

Leave it. This one is not coming back (I cant tell you why, and it wouldnt make you stop thinking about her either) but by the story I can tell she is not going to talk to you again.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:37 PM
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Thats ridiculous. If the protector provider was their favorite type of man they would fall for jealous insecure fuckwits who try to kill anyone looking her way. She looks for a provider protector if she is from 11k BC and just had her midlife crisis at 16. Girls nowadays look for the guy thats interested but still kind of hard to get a hold of. The guy who will blatantly lie to her face about what he did last weekend.
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:48 AM
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Nah dude. Not with that. Submissive guys are unattractive in general.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:43 AM
1

Yeah guess what. Dont know a single girl who likes apologetic manchildren who make her feel special for losing attraction by apologizing like she is the last pussy on earth. If you feel like you fucked up and she tells you she is busy or whatnot, just tell her to contact you if she isnt busy anymore and leave it there.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:40 AM
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Is your dad in prison by any chance ? If yes: „Makes sense, thats where I would be if I was your dad“ If no: „Thats odd, because thats where I would be if I was your Dad“
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:25 AM
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Hahahaha right. Nothings more attractive than a guy who fucks up (already done and gone 98% of the time) and then starts begging (done and gone 101% of the time). Dude if you fucked up and you can feel it, dont text until she does. 98% of the time you wont be wasting your time.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:22 AM
1

This is the dumbest thought you could possibly have. Almost nobody is a virgin because nobody is attracted to them. Most are because the women that they attract are not nearly good enough to qualify.
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:30 PM
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You’re not really catching my drift here. No matter how many women you compliment online, you wont find any attractive ones responding well to it. And if you do, they are using you for attention. I know you are kind of learning resistant to this, but if you want to know where you are currently at in the dating game download “mode one” illegally from the internet and read it. It wont tell you what to do to move forward, that happens naturally as you get to know how to interact with women, but it …
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:07 PM
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Only guy who gets it. Anything other than Thanks and a compliment about her profile is just needy as fuck.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:59 PM
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Hahahaha 🤣 worst advice ive ever read on reddit. Never fucking compliment a womans looks. Just dont. And initiating interest in dating her can not be based on one fucking insta dm. Edit: girls like you for what you give them as a reward for their own actions. A date or a compliment in exchange for a text is free fucking attention. So thats all youre going to be to her, an attention dispenser.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:44 PM
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Yes. Never heard it before but it does sound good.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:28 AM
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Lmao. I like that idiom.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:20 AM
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She isn’t. Look for girls that are friggin single. All the others are either playing you, using you for attention or not interested at all.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:17 AM
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Not if you ask me. Because ive actually done that and it worked. So the thing that I also did but immediately threw me out the ring is talking smack about other people or better even talking about other people in general.
/r/seduction23/10/21 07:37 AM
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My first one pretty much covers it. Just stick to that youll be where you want to be much faster than with any of the pay to win crap. Iam not saying they generally dont work, but why reinvent the wheel ? Billions of men less attractive than you are have learned it without all that, and they will continue to.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:52 AM
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Obviously if you‘re socially anxious you’re still learning to get comfortable which is more important than the entire getting girls thing anyway. But once you are in a state where you can attract the opposite sex, you can usually tell what you’re doing wrong. Even better, if the girl you‘re talking to doesn’t see you as weak, she will just tell you what she doesn’t like about you. Also there is no way you’re getting girls being indirect unless they know who you are already and have a crush on yo…
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:58 PM
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Dw about it. Nobody cares. You dont have to post regularly but I do think it’s important to have a small Collection of fun pictures of you on your instagram. And I will tell you why it would help you immensely even if you dont realize it yet: Girls fantasize a lot. Even more so than you and me. If they have something which they can look at when they think about you, it helps them understand if they want you or not.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:54 AM
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Dude stop. How can anybody think that this ever worked for anyone. Imagine a girl being mean to you all evening ? Would you be keen on sleeping with her if you knew she was going to say: „small dick, fat belly, ugly face, shouldve picked the vibrator over you“ ? No you wouldnt. Not saying anything you find attractive will be received well by others, just that things you find unattractive are most definitely unattractive to other people.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:50 AM
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Do not buy any books or something like that: they are a ripoff most of the time. My advice is to GO OUT and TRY THINGS. And afterwards you review what went well, what had no effect and what went wrong. You cut away all the shit that didn’t go well and TRY AGAIN. This is not science, no amount of theory will get you any closer to seducing someone.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:44 AM
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Why ? It’s totally normal. The actually cringe thing and the thing that gave away that this post is a lie is that he told her that this guy is a douche. Thats actually the worst red flag you can give a woman. Talking shit about other men you dont even know. You can scare other men off, but soon as you start calling other people douches and whatnot youre done and over to like 99% of desirable women. Forget what I said: it’s 100 and it’s not just talking shit, it’s talking about other people at al…
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:34 AM
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?????? He is not worried about getting it. He is suggesting that she might.
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