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I do as well. I look at the cost of purchases in the amount of potentially lost residual income they could have produced if invested
/r/MGTOW30/05/16 09:50 PM
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I need to do more research on espresso machines, but I appreciate the recommendations and I'll look in to those. I was reading that the grinder really makes the whole experience and to spend a little more on a better one of those rather than cheap out.
/r/MGTOW30/05/16 09:46 PM
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I don't even want to fuck girls right now. I'm usually too tired from work or working out that i'd rather make some food, play some games and vape a little weed while listening to podcasts or audio books. On board with the saving and investing though. I spend money on food, because I like eating good food, and rent. Otherwise I spend a trivial amount on other essentials. The rest goes into 401k, roth, and taxable accounts, indexed and I hold 50% of taxable in cash as emergency fund, but mainly f…
/r/MGTOW30/05/16 09:32 PM
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I put away over match for my 401k, come from a decent background and am young, so even if I switched my mind and wanted family and all that shit, I feel it's probably okay for me to buy some nice things. The definition of "within your means" honestly varies on how you define it. I would be spending money I would be otherwise saving either for retirement or... I guess saving for big purchases I want. I enjoy nice coffee and a $500 espresso machine would last me a long time if maintained well, and…
/r/MGTOW30/05/16 09:29 PM
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Dude they may be hot but they are trash, just think of them as unofficial hookers. Like girls looking to fuck and then find their beta bux. Post college they will be immediately trying to get married. So take them off the pedestal, even if imaging pretend im right for the sake of lowering their value mentally. Seriously, most gain weight post college
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:52 AM
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I won't do it again but I have plenty. Do whatever you want man
/r/askTRP03/05/16 04:37 AM
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Save and invest your money Learn about taxes, retirement accounts, personal finance, etc It blows my mind that basic financial literacy is lost
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:01 AM
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I mean, if you think about it there isn't much mystery after you read the sidebar material. The rest is honestly cultivating experience and seeing things for yourself. It's not like 1000's of years of evolutionary biology are going to change, therefore new theory be posted. If you've swallowed the pill there really is no real reason to still be around here, just live your life on your own terms. There are granular details and honestly these posts can help with that sort of thing. My point is the…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 04:18 PM
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YOU get this now. I didn't a while ago and I bet neither did you. Everyone is on a different part of their journey brother, I find this topic old but for some this might be one of the first posts they read. OP himself is internalizing this concept by posting, I get your point in your remark, but just remember not everyone has been here very long
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 01:14 PM
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A lot, I posted my weight above, but I bulked and cut and dicked around for a while and hit ~200 ish at that height a few times, no abs. Just learn to force feed a little
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 01:05 PM
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Being 6'2" 195, you still need game and girls will next you without it
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 01:04 PM
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There is nothing better than being single and have no baggage as a man Do whatever I want. I like to do little spurts of mgtow/monk mode between girls I date. Feels good every time I do it. I like getting push and having a main price, but I always miss my prior single freedom
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 06:17 AM
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Yeah I thought the same thing, let my guard down, got ghosted Just tell yourself you'll fuck this up, because you prob will bro But don't sweat it
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:53 AM
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Idk bro, it's either your game or SMV. I'm working on both myself. Try no fap for a little. Somehow it got me to treat girls equally the same, flirted with all of them. That helped me get socializing down, but I jerked it to porn twice a night for years, so I had an issue. Just keep improving on all fronts. Feel lucky to have found TRP and not be on the path to getting cucked.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 08:59 PM
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is it depressing, or are you just a faggot? If you got 0 results with women and worked on EVERY other aspect and saw results EVERYWHERE else, is that depressing? Because if it is, you need to not define your success in life based off an ability to be able to successfully lose energy and resources in exchange for pussy. Women are a net loss. Pussy is great, but you won't ever get it for 'free'. Even top game you'll spend some time gaming them which could be put to something else. So don't be so d…
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:59 PM
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It takes years to build rock solid inner game and confidence. Keep improving and keep trying. I still feel insecure and not solid today, but I'm miles ahead of myself 6mo/1yr/2yr ago. Make that your goal, outshine your old self 6 months ago
/r/askTRP28/04/16 05:38 PM
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Bar crawl is so key. Switching venues builds attraction and makes the date more exciting to the girl. And tbh is more fun for me too
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:40 PM
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I cut out most people because they were shitty, beta, or simply didn't really have goals I've been keeping an eye out for driven dudes, I want more self made friends one day
/r/askTRP27/04/16 04:54 PM
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Nice list, thank you
/r/askTRP27/04/16 02:56 AM
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you wut m8?
/r/askTRP27/04/16 02:22 AM
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Try IF, that melted bodyfat for me
/r/askTRP27/04/16 02:20 AM
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It helped me. Not after the first 3, but the 4th was super cool and super hot and that got me to forget about the last. Now the super hot and super cool girl is not so cool and I'll have to fill some other holes to forget her.,
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:57 PM
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I thought the same thing. If she is willing to leave YOU for a month what does that say? Think about it, you're worried what she might do with other men, why isn't she worried what YOU will do or who YOU will find while she's gone??
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:52 PM
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I don't know why you got downvoted, but from other TRP material, what you say is true.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:27 PM
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Yeah it's a terrible question, I should have just asked when she was off work But besides that point, what should I do? I'm not going to text her/or initiate contact
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:26 PM
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Sounds like a plan. I know texting "what are you up to tonight" is not great, but she's asked me that and similar stuff and we just hang out. Everything has been really chill, I'll pay, we'll split a bill, she'll pay. Sex everytime we hangout. It seems a little out of the blue, but maybe I just didn't pay attention enough. My focus is primarily work, working out, and the stock market, so maybe I missed something with her
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:26 PM
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I would enjoy less pussy men in this world. Red pill minded men make way better and more enjoyable friends
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 08:37 PM
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Do you guys think increased TRP awareness is a net gain? I used to be selfish about this knowledge, then tried to help some friends and gave up, now I keep it to myself
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:23 PM
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What's the difference between jealousy and envy?
/r/askTRP23/04/16 06:58 PM
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not trying to sound arrogant, but I feel I may have had this. Or just bitches are bitches to guys to try and make as many beta, that way it's easier to identify alphas. I did notice the most worthless of bitches giving me the most shit in college. So makes sense. Fuck if I really know
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 04:10 AM
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Mindfulness, I don't practice it really though. I need to. yoga helped me. I want to start doing mindfulness meditation. Currently I just beat my self up with cardio and lifting, but it really isn't enough. Training the mind itself is the best bet
/r/askTRP06/04/16 04:06 AM
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Do yoga everyday and meditate. Or just meditate everyday, but yoga helped me a ton. Learn to get control of your mind. Like read your post from a calm mindset, you're not in control of your mind or emotions, you need to be and the best part is: It's fucking possible to do. I'm not perfect at it but I've been getting better. And also banging better women than her, so work on your SMV until that's possible
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:50 AM
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Yoga really helped me out for a month and a half, gotta get back to it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 03:45 AM
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I'm fuckin mad I watched this shit, that woman is annoying and ugly as fuckkkkk cuz
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:29 PM
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Raise your SMV. The higher you are the less likely you'll be creepy. If a girl thinks I'm creepy, well I feel she's fucking retarded. Honestly. That's my mentality. I've been cultivating narcissism (while taking action to actually raise SMV so that this is pretty true) but I am working on being the best option for about 99% of the girls I encounter. I try to feel that way internally. I'm not going to be a prick to a girl, especially because i believe I'm way above her, that would be cruel. I wil…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:56 AM
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And this, you just gotta nut up OP you're in the biggest fucking city in the world. Get used to feeling like people think you're annoying or creepy or weird. How many million people live there?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:46 AM
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Yeah I live on the west coast which is the opposite in that regard. I also have a passive approach to women right now, kind of want to make big SMV strides to raise the quality of girls I can date easily. I honestly don't do much street pickup, or have ever. I use like 3 of the dating apps and try to get out with friends and talk to everyone I can
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:37 AM
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When I was in one for a few months, there wasn't too much. Only if there was something good or witty. But I was almost cohabitating so it was different and in hindsight my smv was way fucking higher than hers, so I could get away with literally anything
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:33 AM
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Only you can help yourself. Today I was in the sandwich shop I get my post workout meal from almost every morning. the guys there know me. a 6.5 girl with a nice body was there. I could have just sparked up a convo by saying "good choice" to her sandwich toppings or something stupid and see if it stuck. If it didn't, I am ordering behind her and could have made a joke with the guys "Swing and a miss!" Yeah I didn't do this, but I'm not really actively perusing women right now. If I were, I would…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:24 AM
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Try yoga/meditation. I did that and bought into the hippy shit for a little to try and feel better, and I did. Then I realized it was hippy BS, but I still remember feeling good and can try to get back there. Honestly, the hippy/new age shit may not be BS, I might just be cynical. If something like that makes you feel good, cool, use it. Any tool that benefits you is good.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:08 AM
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As someone on here that was more stuck than 80% on their ex... (look at post history and you'll see a vomit a few months back when i ran into her)... I can tell you I'm happier than ever I didn't get her back and no longer tried. Once you run into that girl that is better, and you will, you'll be glad things turned out the way they did. Even if it goes nowhere with that better girl, I felt some real abundance. New girl will be way better. I get sex and bjs within hours of meeting new girls, when…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:00 AM
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Sleep and striving to be healthy. Slowly making strides in the many areas of health (mental, emotional, physical) and all the sub branches. Mental: yoga/meditation. Breathing exercises. Emotional: meditation, yoga, learning to check myself before speaking or acting (make sure I'm not acting on impulse or emotion too much) learning to control my emotions at all times. Physical: Lifting, cardio, yoga, stretching, foam rolling, lacrosse ball rolling, stick rolling, sports massage, looking into rolf…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:41 PM
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you gotta make some mistakes to learn, even if you know they are mistakes going in lol, done it before myself and I learned enough
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:34 PM
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One thing I struggle with is when I meet a girl better than others, I lose/gain abundance. I gain some by seeing how as I raise my SMV, better girls show me the same level of interest as lesser girls a year ago. But it's almost like learning to lift more weight, do more complicated martial arts/yoga, whatever it is. I feel when I raise SMV, my stakes are higher, because I've never had this level of success with women.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:59 PM
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in the last year all I've heard is "omg I never sleep with guys on the first date" over and over, from the types of girls I used to think were GF material I've had girls admit of leading guys on and orbiters and ask them "that dude that made you cookies all the time wasn't getting any was he?" and then saying that's why I don't buy them drinks and getting the lay that night. It's changed my entire view of women
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:02 AM
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You were the guy from the other thread right? Thanks for posting more. How did you get into real estate investing? I know enough about stocks, but I want to diversify my assets in the future. I don't make much now but I save most of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 12:13 AM
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I feel it. High standards, never settling, I can respect that mentality.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:10 AM
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If I do another LTR I think it has to be with a girl who has some financial sense. Don't know if they exist. Generally I've seen poorer girls who make their come up save, but then I've seen the opposite to be true when they start making real money
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:01 AM
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do you feel it was worth it? Did you have LTRs most of that time or just say fuck it and stay single? I'm mid twenties and just started salary work, been saving as much as I make and tossing it at the market indexes for the long haul. Edit: I struggle with doing my life until 40 like the way you did, so I am really curious about how you feel about choices you've made, maybe things you would tweak. Not really in the realm of LTR/Marriage/Kids but more in the specific realm of you not doing that.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:52 PM
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seconded I've been shitting my pants 5 times a day due to some stomach bug, but the "do you want to bear my children" put a smile on my face
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:25 AM
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8 figure networth. Be in as best athletic shape as I can (I lift, do yoga daily, and am trying to figure out how to add more cardio, will start training other things like balance and movement soon, maybe martial arts). Travel the world and try to not show my wealth (when I get it).
/r/askTRP29/02/16 05:39 AM
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Same here. It will happen.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 05:37 AM
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I broke a girl that thought she was hot shit. Kinda my indoctrination into trp and sort of soul sucking as I was a cold fuck the entire time. Apparently the worst of them like that though
/r/askTRP14/02/16 11:27 PM
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Don't downvote this man, he speaks the truth Yeah I'd prob literally die
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 08:23 PM
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Yeah 15% is nothing either, and actually more than the average american saves. If you check out financial Independence, they talk about saving way more than that, and there is talk of anti-consumerism lifestyle. As someone that came from money, I can say that nice shit is nice, but the reason I've bought most nice things in excess was to get the brain chemical rush from buying it. I'd like to merge both concepts. Try to find a faster route, while not wasting money. My grandfather is frugal as fu…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:44 PM
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Sounds like a solid routine there man. Good call on living at home. Save your money and look at ways of taking that and growing it. There are a few ways to get wealthy. One for sure way is persistence and time. All the other ways are faster, but saving and investing and making smart choices is the longest, surest way of getting there. But, there are other ways (changing jobs aggressively, working harder, starting a business, more aggressive investing). I've found I've felt a little more at peace…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:25 PM
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I have a really high sex drive and I've realized, at least with my abilities/SMV it takes some alcohol or a steady something to get the sex I want all the time (alcohol through ONS, steady LTR/Plate via her sleeping over all the time so I can fuck at night and right when we wake up, and usually more on the weekends). If I did fuck as much as I wanted, I would never get anything done. I wouldn't be waking up at 6:30 to lift, I wouldn't be going to bed around 10 to get 8 hours in. I wouldn't be ab…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:48 PM
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yeah I haven't talked to her and ignore her snaps she sends like once a month if that
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:09 AM
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