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| 4 | Engagement - Immediate shit tests/boundary testing for a week | alone_sheep | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/22 07:28 PM |
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| 15 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Put in effort into getting fit. You really don't have to be "jacked" as women don't care about physique as much as men, but just having a healthy level of body fat and some muscle is a world of difference. For women there's kinda 3 buckets of men from a looks perspective. The ugly/invisible. The fuckable if other attributes are present. And the I'd let him fuck me no matter how terrible his personality. Unless you won the genetic lottery you're not the last, even perfect physique guys don't get … | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 04:56 PM |
| 10 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?The ONLY thing women (and men also tbh) care about at the core is self confidence. The more delusional the better. Sure there's other factors that can make a massive difference but their importance can vary person to person. There's something wired deep in our brains to believe the people wouldn't have confidence if they didn't earn it. Just look at politics. Confidence is the most attractive change you can make to yourself. One way to display this is not caring about the outcome with a woman. I… | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 06:02 PM |
| 5 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?Lack of fear. And not fake bravado but real deep belief and confidence in ones self and abilities. The more delusional the better. All people, not just women, are massively drawn to confidence..and the more unearned it is the more people are drawn to it bc they can't figure it out. Just look at politics. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 03:03 PM |
| 22 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?I agree. Most women have a lot of trust in their intuition. Even when they repeatedly get it wrong in the most epic fails, they still have insane faith that they can just sense a creep. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do I get low effort girlsYou don't even need "abundance mentality". What you need is "I deserve the best mentality" and I'm gonna vet women to make sure they're worthy of me. News flash: You'd be better off and happier alone than with the vast majority of women you talk to. Additionally sex with your hand will also be better than most of the women you meet. Treat women with a casual, I'll see if you work out, attitude. Just that frame change will help dramatically. | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laid*Most young women want to get pumped and dumped. They aren't looking for a life partner. They're just looking to have some fun. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Probability that girls in the range of 5-7 would be interested in me.Women don't care about looks near as much as men. You can get with practically any "level" of girl if you can display other attractive traits. A friend once put it to me like this: Men view female physical attractiveness on a scale of 1-10. Women view male physical attractiveness on a nearly binary scale 1/0. You're either a super hot model or you're everyone else. They also know the super hot model guys are rare, and few expect to actually get one. The majority of women are quite content, happy… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:43 PM |
| 3 | You’re a 10 in looks literally but you give off 7 energyYou're physically very attractive but your personality is not. Without details it's hard to say specifically why, but most commonly it's because of lack of confidence. Women will put up with a lot of different types of bullshit from a really physically hot guy, but if you aren't confident it directly detracts from your perceived "hotness". | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | How to pull of a threesome?You'll almost never do this with randoms unless it's sheer luck. Getting into a relationship, whether that's FWBs, gf, or something more with a bi girl is really the best bet. Then you go out and get a 3rd together. That's how all my threesomes have worked. Just make sure you confirm early that she is into that idea. Be careful though, I've also been strung along by bi girls who said they were into threesomes but when it came down to it they were too jealous to share me. If she isn't actively ea… | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Men continue to stare/maintain eye contact after you’ve looked awayI mean it can be. I do this all the time. I love it when they're really into me and it gets them all flustered and squirmy. But you have to be calibrated. Like all of seduction it's super hot for them if they're into it, creepy if they're not. You have to risk being creepy, but you can mitigate that risk if you can accurately gauge how into you someone is. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 03:49 PM |
| 5 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?Yup, "settled down" with my swinger wife. We still have lots of fun with singles and couples and my acquired skills are still useful. Though arguably a lot rustier and used less often since most of the people we interact with already know us from social and already want to fuck. 😆 | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 08:10 PM |
| 0 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalitiesCulture became heavily divisive and most PUA got shoved into the misogyny/creeper category and started to lose an audience. Not only that, the deep psychological work got figured out and we got real authentic "Bible's" like Models and a few other books for healthy self change that builds real attraction and isn't just gimmicks. It's much easier these days to just say go read these 3-5 books and you will have a better and emotionally healthier arsenal for getting women than all the top PUA guys h… | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?She did you dirty first. Fuck that person for being a liar. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 12:56 PM |
| 55 | At what body type/shape did you get the most girls/success?If you're natty, clothes make you look small if you don't get them super tight. You just look like some skinny tiny bloke. I found I was told I was attractive much more when I had a pretty good chunk of fat on top of muscle. However girls would get disappointed when the clothes came off and instead of a six pack I had a gut. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | I get bored on datesSounds like you're just going through the motions, maybe as a desire for sex (easy simple gratification)? and you don't really want to be there with the person you're with. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?Lmao. I love when kids think they're old. Takes me back. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 01:48 PM |
| 38 | Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLDWomen only know what their physical type is. However they have 235 factors for just choosing a sexual partner (not even a mate) and physical appearance actually falls in roughly the middle of the pack in terms of importance/arousal. Sadly OLD makes physical attraction the primary and almost only factor making it a really shit mode of connecting for both sexes. Most women will be much more physically attracted to and turned on by the "average guy" with the right personality that presses the corre… | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:38 PM |
| 3 | What are the good books for dating tips?It's really two factors. It focuses on personal growth and being the best version of your most authentic self. This leads to not just positive interactions but even positive relationships bc there's no fakeness to the initial interaction. It has a lot of actual practical advice for understanding how to communicate with and understand women on their terms. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:14 PM |
| 10 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.Yeaaahhhh so much this. Took me ages to realize these girls wanted to get laid, bc the girl will almost never initiate said interaction, but def wants the guy to. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 18 | average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do?Read "Models: Attract Women through Honesty" You're welcome. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 13 | My advice on how to seduce a women after receiving a bunch of messages asking.Cool dude spits a bunch of lies and calls it game. Anyone can lie to get laid. It's really easy. Be better. | /r/seduction | 27/02/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | obtaining multiple gfsBe open about it from the get go. There are some women who will even help you with this. In fact thats specifically that girl you're looking for. A bi girl that wants to have this with you. It is rare but it exists. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Engagement - Immediate shit tests/boundary testing for a weekI said in the past 2 days once I realized my mistakes of the fights. Jesus this sub is nothing but cut downs. My whole point was that I experienced an "ah ha" moment. Oh I'm fucking this up, I need to correct the behavior and go relearn old habits I might have let slip over time. But as per usual nothing but angry bitter men in this sub. That's why no one takes redpill seriously despite the underlying research and principals being incredibly sound. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/22 08:10 PM |
| -7 | Engagement - Immediate shit tests/boundary testing for a weekThe fact that you even talk to people in this manner shows how little you understand of the world. I hope you find more love than you've been shown so far in this life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/22 08:07 PM |
| 9 | Engagement - Immediate shit tests/boundary testing for a weekSee this is why I left. All negativety and harshness. Women are constantly judging whether you are a good mate and whether you have maintained your status in the social hierarchy. They do this inherently and innately subconsciously without intention. It's just part of their biology. It's exactly the stuff redpill teaches you how to manipulate and control. You angry red pillers take so much good psychological research and dumb it down to angry over simplified one liners you can scream at people. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/22 07:41 PM |
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