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2	Had a great interaction, she didn't answer my call. Where did I go wrong? I know, it genuinely took half a minute to figure out wtf I'm doing here	/r/seduction	16/05/16 06:53 PM
1	Ongoing Discussion - What comes first: Sex or a relationship? It's very difficult to state any general rule, as you've seen from all the responses so far. People disagree on whether you should wait and if you do he may be lying to you or not serious with his commitments. I think it's important to be able to exercise sound judgement about the intentions of the particular person you're dealing with. In my experience, men who are only interested in having sex will tend to want to get that done quickly--from their perspective, there's only so much investment i…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/16 10:27 PM
4	Why is it not working for me with the guys? I was in a similar situation to you for a long time. I'm a fun person, attractive enough, caring, have hobbies and things to say, for some reason men would turn into friends, and I would somehow end up with secret feelings for them. Ugh. I've only recently figured out that I was insecure -- I didn't believe I was attractive enough to be loved and cared for, so I put up a wall to protect myself. I wouldn't flirt or give any indication of interest because I assumed men wouldn't be interested in me…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/15 09:37 AM
2	I found out I'm most likely the other woman...or one of the other women. Should I confront him? Your only fault in this is being a sweet, trusting woman and believing in romantic love, i.e. it's not your fault. I'm not convinced that the regular (and good) RPW advice -- to be a woman of value and secure commitment before sex -- would have done you any good here because (1) these men create entire universes of lies and (2) they specifically target caring people they can manipulate. The things that probably made you susceptible to this are not faults, and they will benefit and be protected b…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/15 08:59 AM
11	I found out I'm most likely the other woman...or one of the other women. Should I confront him? Oh my God, I have been through exactly this. He is a sociopath. Run. It will be more difficult than you think, even if you only "almost" fell in love with him, because these men are charming and paint very compelling pictures. They are also awesomely convincing, even when you know. for. a. fact. that you are being lied to. Just remember: you are not sad about losing HIM but about losing the beautiful picture he painted of your future together. I would send him a message just saying that you want…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/15 04:22 PM
1	Eating your veggies I just "hide" massive amounts of veggies in everything I cook, e.g. last night's alleged "bolognese" had about 1/2 the meat, and triple the carrots, celery and mushrooms, plus a whole red pepper, plus I mixed half a bag of spinach in at the end. It still has a similar 'effect' to bolognese and yet is very far from it. This applies to most meaty dishes. Spinach especially is really effective this way: because it wilts quickly you can add huge amounts of it to almost anything while barely changing…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/15 08:55 AM
1	For those who dress modestly, what are you online stores you shop at? How do you stay trendy? Lots of very classy dresses from the Reiss online store. It's quite expensive, but there's often 70% off at the end of season sale, and their dresses tend to be great quality and classy rather than fashionable, so they last for years.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/15 07:19 PM
1	Two ears and one mouth for a reason: listen twice as much as you speak. (Some advice please?) Hi again, it sounds like you don't suffer from all the more usual (and more annoying) reasons for interrupting that I've come across, but it really is just a matter of habit from your work. This makes my thoughts somewhat less relevant to your situation, but makes you sound like a much nicer person!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/15 09:31 AM
6	Two ears and one mouth for a reason: listen twice as much as you speak. (Some advice please?) Have you considered why you do it? As in, are you listening to what the other person is saying or only thinking about what you're going to say next, and then firing off as soon as the thought has formed in your head? Are you maybe unloading things that are on your mind in the guise of having a conversation? Is it that you (think you) know what they are going to say so you want to speed things up by answering pre-emptively? In my mind, having a conversation involves two things: creating knowledge…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/15 10:07 AM