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| 2 | Why hasn’t she responded?She should be feeling this way about YOU not the other way around. If you’re constantly thinking about/messaging her you’re going to suffocate any potential to go further with her. She can’t miss or wonder about you if you guys are constantly in contact. Stay occupied with your own life, hobbies, goals. If you need female interaction go out and approach more. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 12:12 AM |
| 2 | My confidence is down the drainIf you act like a friend she’s going to assume that’s what you want then get weirded out when you bomb your true feelings on her later. If your goal with a specific woman is to have something more than friendship, you need to verbally attract her from the start. ‘Hey, I just had to say you-look-nice.’ You can use that line over and over on different women until you get blue in the face. None of that indirect/I’ll tell her when the perfect moment comes bullshit. All you’re doing is being dishones… | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Conversation help ASAP!https://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4seyc9/never_run_out_of_things_to_say_to_womenkeep_the/ Read this post 100 times. Whoever wrote this knows exactly what they’re talking about and it’s contents will help you beyond just talking to a girl you like. | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?You probably gave off a relaxed, carefree, and chill vibe. Whatever it was she was comfortable staying with you. Keep up the approaches and I would say if you want the quick numbers you should do like 30 secs of interaction before you ask. Give her a big compliment ‘I just had to say that you-look-very nice,’ tease, ground yourself with a quick intro, state that you have to run and she has to work, then say ‘Let’s exchange [contact info] and I’ll message you when I’m free.’ Cold number collectin… | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?I would like to point out that every woman working in customer service is smiling at everyone. You have to be very keen with someone that is actually interested in you. At my target in the self checkout lane, only girl working was observing everyone and didn’t move until I went up. She asked me how I was and if I needed help. I had a gallon of milk. My children were with me and she said ‘Both of your kids are cute.’ She maintained eye contact, cheese smile, and was releasing some tension by rubb… | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Are IOIs mostly accurate?AA never goes away. That just means your gaming 7’s maybe 8’s. | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope for an average quiet guy?Yes. You need to be able to verbally escalate: tease, push/pull, assume, role play, question. You have to be able to ground by telling her about yourself, otherwise she’ll go home and wonder if she had a date with a stranger. Women should talk I’d say somewhere around 70% of the time on your date, they love to talk about themselves but you have to bridge the 30% with those actions in between to be successful. What is your goal in dating? Finding the one? Having fun? Socially what type of woman d… | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Bombed 1st date, got a 2nd chance.Wait she asked you out for the 2nd meetup? You’re in dangerous waters. You closed the first date with a hug? No escalation? If you’re not a friend in her eyes right now, you will be very soon. Tease, assume, role play, challenge her statements with a curious ‘why?’, occasionally touch her, you need to give her the feeling this is man to woman. This isn’t friend to friend. Hope you’re able to turn this one around my dude. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | feel like most of seddit underestimates how important looks are. A 6’2+ guy with goodlooking face, white, will succeed with women naturally. genetics are 95% of the game. a 5’2, balding guy, from New Delhi isn’t going to have success as the first even if he tried his hardestI’m just going to leave this here: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=OBJmBVecjAU And yes, this applies to all of your limiting beliefs. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Girls never smile at me, I just get 'deer in the headlights' looks. I don't even get 'white person' smiles.If you’re at least average looking - looks have nothing to do with the issue. I’m guessing you’re giving off a vibe that is questionable to women. You have to realize women consciously and subconsciously are masters of emotion. They speak through emotions but more importantly listen to them constantly. This is why they shit test amongst other things. Something you should ask yourself and be honest: ‘what vibe am I giving off?’ When you hear people say things like ‘it starts with you,’ they’re no… | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Is there any model or celebrity that you follow?@Rowanrow for fashion / color combo ideas and @g_eazy for style w/ music.. both Instagram handles | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Went to some stores today, but couldn't fight past AA...Don’t game in stores unless you’re buying something or highly considering buying something. Having that sole mentality going in a place like that can make you feel weird and seem like everyone knows why you’re there. Barnes and Noble is great because you can act like you’re looking for a book or interested in one (it’s not hard, try staring at a t shirt for 5 mins.) If you have to due to lack of population do it at store you’re not a regular at. You’re better off going to a bigger foot traffic a… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Hookup help!!!Bursts of eye contact and smiling. One thing I notice a girl at work used to do was maintain eye contact like the ‘fuck me’ eyes, I’d give her a smirk like ‘I know what you’re thinking.’ She’d blossom this cheese smile and it is a complete turn on for me because she has an amazing smile. A friend says she uses a means of physical touch. Try talking alongside him in a group setting and ‘accidentally’ tap your arm against his / reach around him brushing your chest on him like if he’s sitting in fr… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 10:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a girl checks you out ? Like in public?You’re trying to find reasons to get into a warm approach.. I hate to break it to you but warm approaches are merely just an invitation to approach. They aren’t 100% success rates. She could very well: have the day of her life, be ovulating, found you attractive, or being nice AND still had a boyfriend, husband, abundance of lovers, poor time frame. Next time you see a girl you’re into and start thinking ‘does she like me?’ Go up to her and find out. | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 10:00 AM |
| 53 | Bus rideI like that you didn’t immediately run off when she said she had a bf - it gives both of you the feeling that it was a positive interaction. I would say next time someone gives you an IOI, rather than thinking negatively try and force yourself to see it for what it truly is: an invitation to approach and just do it as soon as possible. Not only does waiting make it harder to approach it fizzles the attraction by showing a lack confidence. Always try and see the positive in everything. Fuck what … | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Ok. I got her hooked. NOW HOW DO I NOT FUCK THIS UP???Texting girls for hours is the worst thing you can do. You’re more likely building friendship than building attraction - so now you’re her texting buddy. Only use the phone for setting up dates. Do not shake her hand. I’d also say go for the hug but you’re probably going to give a creepy vibe or make it hella friendly. My biggest advice to you is since this girl seems really important to you and you don’t know that much: leave her be, educate yourself, and practice with other girls. Practicing o… | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 5 | How to Get Laid Tonight (Even If You're Only Mediocre With Women)Just don’t make it weird after the fact. I talked up this girl a month ago at my favorite place to grab lunch - she seemed interested so I teased her and after a while i asked her for her number. She said she had a boyfriend and I kept talking to her. Every time she’s working there she always says ‘hi [my name]’ with a smile. Women want to be desired. Just be cool about it and don’t awkwardly run off. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 05:13 AM |
| 4 | She thinks you’re a player...He/she is completely correct. Agree and amplify, take control of your framework. If you lock up or try to convince your position logically she’s going to pick it up, in which doing so you just jumped through her hoop. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if she [F23] is interested or thinks of me [M19] as a friendWomen categorize men very quickly, based on OPs post I highly doubt he got her number by expressing sexual intent. That and the texting daily means this woman has had him in the ‘just friends’ category. This is why women get creeped out when you wait so long then finally come out and tell them how you truly feel. | /r/seduction | 29/07/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | It’s all in the eyesDon’t stare so much early on if they’re breaking eye contact often. They need to get comfortable before you penetrate them with any form of sexual intent, why should your eyes be any different? Once they open up to you and maintain eye contact - then you can unleash the hounds. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | When daygaming, do you literally just approach girls everywhere? Or are there some places that are worse doing it in?If there is one place I do not game it’s at the gym. The only exception is if she is obviously into me, which is far and few. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How long should I text this girl I met on HingeWhenever she hits you up be direct and to the point - set a date to get together, ‘when are you free to get together?’ if she tries to bs you about it, be polite and close the convo ASAP. ‘Well it was nice catching up, I have to go.’ Something along the lines of that. You should always assume that when a woman hits you up, she wants you to ask her out and if she doesn’t at least you’ll know where you stand. | /r/seduction | 17/07/19 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How long should I text this girl I met on HingeI second this. If she isn’t trying to text you or isn’t too excited about date number 2, how interested is she? Stay abundant and start talking to multiple women. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 11:43 PM |
| 8 | How To Not Be Boring On DatesThis is quality content but a point id like to make is: If you feel you’re running out of things to say, you’re talking way more than you should be and more importantly you’re not listening to what she has to say. Get a topic going, listen, question, challenge, assume. Be present and women are more likely to open up with you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How to smoothly transition from friendly to flirting?If you like someone you need to be direct about it ASAP. A woman will categorize you pretty quickly, and the longer you wait - the more she’ll consider you as just a friend. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How awesome does it feel to attract women clearly out of your league yet they still consider you good enough to date or bang?I feel like your thought process is women are purely driven by how you look. That’s not the mindset you want going into seduction. Women (in general) are emotional beings. They can sense how you feel just by looking at you. I won’t tell you that none of them find you unattractive because I’m sure a lot will, people are shitty, there could be a whole myriad of reasons why she says no but if your attitude and confidence going into every set is ‘I’m too ugly for her’ she’s going to pick that up EVE… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I build up the courage to talk to a hot girl on the street (first time)More like a troll. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 08:30 PM |
| 2 | How awesome does it feel to attract women clearly out of your league yet they still consider you good enough to date or bang?What really boosted my self esteem was working out.. I mean working out to where you sweat. After that I started eating better and keeping my calories in check. It’s not going to fix everything but it gave me that jump in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How awesome does it feel to attract women clearly out of your league yet they still consider you good enough to date or bang?Damn. I’ve never thought of it that way before. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why did he follow me around the store?Either: he didn’t know how to pull the trigger and talk to you, was too scared to, or was a creep. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Playing hard to get?Can you explain a bit more? ‘Making all the moves’ doesn’t provide enough detail. What happened that night? | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if I don’t want to continue being friends with a girl who rejected me?This exactly why I don’t ask out girls at my work. If shit doesn’t work out, regardless of how far it goes, you still have to go to work with them in the morning. Just be cool about it, if you see her, smile and go back to your business. Keep all interactions short! You have romantic interest in her only so don’t try and overdue it by being friends again. Next time you meet someone you’re interested in you need to get to know them then ask them out by 1st interaction, anytime spent after that ju… | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 05:59 PM |
| 0 | HB I used to fuck asks to take me home after work, wants sex, but doesn’t come in...Just let it go my dude, in the end, all that happened was not having sex with her. Make it a lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 05:45 PM |
| 10 | If you want to attract love into your life, you must give love. Positive affirmations for a relationship will help you become a loving person. People can not live without air, food, water, and love.Positive affirmation is only 1 of 5 love languages. There is also: service, gifts, quality time, and touch. If you really want to speak to someone’s heart you’re mostly going to have speak in THEIR language. This is often a reason why some partners don’t feel loved. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Getting a second dateMy comment is based on a relatively great date, mistakes may have been made but overall you guys had a great time. The one big problem I notice is you made yourself too available and she picked up on that. Next time just say ‘I had a great time, have a good night.’ That’s it. Nothing more. Go to sleep. If you can’t sleep turn your phone off. Don’t say you’d like to see her again. She knows you like her, she knows that more likely than not you want to do everything to her including.......... seei… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | 6 Signs Signs Someone is in Love with YouI assume when you make eye contact you’re in your head - that’s what makes it weird. You’re thinking about it too much. You need to feel emotions for that person in your body. Be in a genuine emotion or thought. A different technique people use is to try to ‘feel their feet’ since those nerve endings are the furthest from your head. I used to start by being in my gut.. imagine being tense before a punch to your stomach - now scale it down to barely even doing it (point of activation.) The though… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Girl has suddenly stopped giving me eye contactHer disinterest is a clear statement that she was testing you. Some women will help yes, by isolating themselves or making sure they’ll be there alone. This one wanted to see how big your stones or attraction was for her. You blew it. Next time this happens just go up and say ‘Hey, how are you?’ You don’t need some elaborate line. Be there and be genuine. To relieve some nervousness be honest, ‘hey I don’t usually make such a ballsy move but I seen you and had to at least introduce myself.’ Be t… | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) invite her (20F)..?Nah dude. Give her some space and time to wonder about you. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Strong eye contact at the bar, but didn’t know what to say. Suggestions?Hey, how are you? | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys, do knee-high boots or thigh-high boots drive you crazy?I could see his fetish. I have the same for a woman in high heels or like wedges I guess. They just add to a woman's sexiness for me. OTK boots are definitely nice but boots lower than that I don't know. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a girl who had way better game than me (I'm rusty). Can it be salvaged?OHHHHH don't ever say that you just hopped back on. You want women to believe that you have at least some abundance. That's a huge mistake. If you were making a joke of it, I would keep it running so she KNOWS you are joking. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a girl who had way better game than me (I'm rusty). Can it be salvaged?You're correct in that. Don't initiate contact, especially before a set date. Keep meeting other women and if this goes south, take it as a lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 07:29 PM |
| 3 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceMy city is spread out, I work with 5-10 miles each way - I drive though. If you have a hard time keeping the energy going, I'd suggest sticking to two places tops otherwise she is going to feel like the night is dragging on. If she is doing most of the work, which most women that are into you do, shoot for 3. I make a plan of what we can do for each scenario before we go out. I will adjust that plan according to her attire and how the date is going. Is she dressed really well (especially wearing… | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Going up to a woman when she's with her friends?You are not ready dude. If you're really into this girl, I'd advise to go practice for a month on other females. Try to find the same situations. Beautiful girl with her friends. At least this way you have some experience. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 09:25 AM |
| 4 | (17/m) I wonder what im doing wrongI would stay away from texting. There are so many mistakes with it that even someone that knows how to text can mess up without even thinking about it. It puts you in a different place than having a conversation in person. Use the phone for setting dates. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 07:20 PM |
| 2 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceIt's getting a drink together to close the night. I always aim to do this at my place. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:35 PM |
| 3 | I’m FUCKING frustrated as shit right now.She probably doesn't want to spend the rest of the festival kissing you. You have to understand what her goal is. Is she there to have fun? Is she there to find someone to hook up with? She already made out with you 8 times? Did you make advances to go beyond that towards the end of the night? | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Yes, One Mistake is Enough to Lose HerBased on how attractive this girl is, and how attracted she is to you, with texting or social networking, yes, you literally have 1 chance. I don't care how attractive you are, because of the influx of guys hitting her up, she is tolerating you. Her self image is so inflated from abundance that she is almost waiting to shut you down to solidify that point. However, you are allotted a handful of mistakes in person. Fuck up the opener? Doesn't matter, it's the overall experience she had with you. … | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceTo all their own man. You and I are doing what works for each other. I like to think of it as someone seeing ideas to find their own method that works for them. I can see your reasoning but there is no reason to change what works for either of us. :) | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Should tinder dates be short of long?I am interested in the reasoning of a 30 minute date. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:27 AM |
| 3 | What to do when she plays hard to getOkay. Based on what you have written. When women dance they feel euphoric, especially when a decent looking guy (to them) dances with them and well. She twirls her hair because she is either attracted to you, or turned on in the moment. Maybe she is genuinely a busy girl and straight up doesn't have time for a relationship. What I feel you need to do is wait til dance. Lead. Go straight for her and dance away dude. Try and turn it up a bit by getting close. Look into her eyes and smile. After da… | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:23 AM |
| 0 | "You're not cool?"Why she gotta be black tho? | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:09 AM |
| 17 | I'm 30, average looking, a bit overweight but manage to do very well with Tinder - figured I'd share what I do for a point of referenceI would like to advise everyone to try and take your date out to 3 separate locations. One of the first two being a physical activity with the last one being a place that sex can comfortably happen for her. To her it will feel like going on 3 separate dates and she will be more open to the possibility of sex. So for example: bowling or pool hall, dinner, night cap. Stick to a pool hall if she is dressed really well and would be uncomfortable bowling. Another tip is: always try and find a bar to … | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 06:06 AM |
| 2 | How can a woman in her 20s approach a guy? I think it is more complex than just doing it.You're very welcome and I am glad I can help. You know it all depends on what your goal is. Are you just trying to hook up for the night? Open. Is it more long term? Apply what I have said. I don't think I said anything about it but IMO, the most attractive I find women are when they are genuinely happy with their life and they have the biggest smiles. God, nothing is sexier than a REAL genuine smile. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 03:24 AM |
| 2 | How can a woman in her 20s approach a guy? I think it is more complex than just doing it.You can initiate and still hold high value. How? Be subtle about flirting. Read his body language. Look at him for a split second with a smile. Look away. What are his emotions? Is he looking at you wanting more? Is he looking around the room at other women. Is he talking to his friends with a big grin like he can't contain what just happened? Read the fuck out of him before you do anything. If he's nervous, wait a bit and see if he approaches. If he looks like he needs a nudge and you don't hav… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Texting AnxietyYou're welcome man! I always try and give the best advice I can. I would say you could benefit very much from going out and meeting other women as well. That way you can have fun all the time and when she finally comes around, you can continue to have fun and shit will just be natural, she will feel that vibe as well. Until the both of you are exclusive with each other, don't invest your time completely in her. Long distance relationships are extremely hard to flourish. You should definitely tre… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically.You need to think about what can go right. Stop looking at it as half empty. Change gears in your head at that moment. Think of how amazing the reward will be. If they reject you, who fucking cares, you are a man and you go for what you want. Get that negativity out of your head now before it paralyzes you. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Texting AnxietyIt takes time for women to like you, it also takes time for them to not like you. It's not just black and white like that. Now if you made a series of mistakes and didn't get the hint, that's different. One cheesy text isn't ruining it for you. I feel like you are texting too much. When you don't hear back from her, what do you think she is trying to say? More than likely it's 'okay im busy or we've talked enough.' Just chill man, be centered, focus on what you're doing and wait for her to come … | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 07:19 PM |
| -2 | How long do I spend with her?I mean if you brought a gift or even just brought yourself, dressed as best as you could for their big day, had a great time and maybe even said a toast to them... I'm sure the friend would be fine with you leaving to get some tail. Guys understand dude, they have a dick as well. Probably would high-five him next time he seen him. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Where do you meet girls?Correct. It was late, I responded to a lot of people. Being more optimistic is always the way to go, thanks for picking that up. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why texting feels like hell?That's the problem. There is no game in texting. It's simply not the same thing as a face to face. You can't give off the same vibes and feelings. It's literally looking at font. Focus on setting a date and meeting up then. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 02:13 PM |
| 26 | How long do I spend with her?Since the time of the events will vary you have to distinguish what the 'prime time' if you will, is. There are three parts to it: All this is an example, you need to adjust to what YOU know. The first part let's say is 3 hours. NOTHING is going to happen. She just got there and although it was nice meeting you, you are an obstacle in her having a good time. She's going to want to mingle and see whats going on. Don't even ask for her number. The second part let's say is another 3 hours. This is … | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Some questions about general stuffYes. I just want to add: If you're on the less attractive side. You will have a hard time. That's because her ideal guy was imprinted at a young age of someone that isn't like you. However, if you're game is on point and you don't give up and maintain composure, she will start to see what really matters about you. If she doesn't you're better off. It won't guarantee the girl but at some point you will achieve success. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Why texting feels like hell?I am going to copy and paste this because your situation is pretty much relevant to the last person I just wrote. When it comes to women, you have to think, they get the follow up call more often than not the next day by many guys, especially if they are hot. BORING. She wants someone that stands out, someone original. First of all, if you already took her out on a date, close in person with I had a great time with you tonight. That's it. Don't text her or call her. You don't need to remind her … | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you text her after the first date? At what point do you start daily/more intimate communication?When it comes to women, you have to think, they get the follow up call more often than not the next day by many guys, especially if they are hot. BORING. She wants someone that stands out, someone original. First of all, if you already took her out on a date, close in person with I had a great time with you tonight. That's it. Don't text her or call her. You don't need to remind her of anything. Let her sit on it and think. If you guys went out on a Saturday, give her a call back on Tuesday, ask… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | I need advice when dating a girl with a little 'flirtatious' personality.What you fear, you attract. You need to learn to get over this. Are you still courting her? Are you being spontaneous? Are you mysterious? Does she know you are the jealous type? That's a big sign of an insecure man and to women its a foul smell. You need to be centered. She needs to know that no matter what happens in your life, you will not be moved because in that sense, she will always be protected. Are you two arguing frequently? A man that argues with his lady is one that doesn't understan… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Approached my first girls at a party last night. Need some adviceHow is your tonality? Don't get drunk to talk to women, I mean you can but you have that much less control of your actions. Were you only talking to the girls you are attracted to? Make sure you open all ranges. Julien said 'If you can't have genuine fun with the 2's, you definitely can't game the 10's.' What videos and try and find the mistakes you are making. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:41 PM |
| 2 | My place is a dump. What should I do?Dim the lights down. Way, way down. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says: "but then I'd have to get out of bed"What's the obverse to this situation? She gets her ass up and ready to go because....... she's interested. Control or not, they are both negative signs. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Should I consider flat mates as potential for sex?It sounds like you already made your mind up. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:24 PM |
| 6 | What should I've done?Your opportunity is slipping away dude. I know because when I didn't take action (like you are now) I lost my shot with a girl that was basically throwing herself on me. She seen me as insecure and socially oblivious. She couldn't have painted a bigger picture and I failed to respond. That was a long time ago but I still face palm and cringe at myself for that even happening. So I feel inclined to help. Honestly man, you need to lead. Women rarely take action themselves and when they do it's sti… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl trouble just need some advice.So glad to help. Be centered man. Learn to be happy by yourself. As humans we should always be on OUR OWN paths with people coming along for the journey but no matter what happens, NEVER LOSE FOCUS OF YOUR PATH! Best of luck man! | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Where do you meet girls?The problem isn't where, it's why. Why is your success rate so low? Why do you believe being somewhere else that you haven't been will increase your success rate? You need to figure out what it is that you are doing wrong. Spend a long time looking up RSD on youtube. Look at advice in this subreddit. Check out the guides. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 10:37 AM |
| – | What do I need to do?You need to do a huge amount of research and self help. Hit the books. Here is two videos that I believe you can benefit from a lot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D52YV6dL8IM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4mbZFN_qfw Look up the guides here and more on youtube, like RSD Julien, RSD Tyler, RSD Max | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl trouble just need some advice.When she hits you up and decides where you are going to go, what does that tell you? Shes asking you to go somewhere which is definitely a good thing, that means she wants time with you. You shouldn't feel down whenever a woman especially one that you have kissed already wants to see you. This means that YOU are worth HER time! However, she is leading where you two will go, which is a problem. I feel that since she still wants to spend time with you (assuming she asks you out again on Wednesday)… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 09:44 AM |
| 6 | Girl trouble just need some advice.First, don't ever assume women don't know because 9.9 times out of 10, they do. So your problem is: This girl is rebounding off of her broken relationship to test the waters and see what's out there, I can tell you right now that you and the previous boyfriend are in the same boat and once this guy she is seeing now messes up, he will be too. You guys are 'in her orbit.' She will dangle the fruit, if you will, to keep all three of you (if not more) in it. She will continuously test all of the gu… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Where can I find lots of girls my age (19) (Not in school) I want to talk to lots of girls everydayThe mall. Street game is definitely do able. You should look up 'walking sets' to make sure you don't make mistakes that will crush your chances from the start. For example, if they are walking fast somewhere, don't try to open by blocking them, you are preventing them from their goal, walk along side them and talk. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:57 AM |
| 9 | I have no fucking clue how to show interestBanter. Tease her. Know your limits with this. Do it once in a while until you can properly gauge a woman's emotions. Holding eye contact and smiling at her will be way more than enough to show intent. Learn how to show your 'Happiness Smile.' Anything less she will pick up and know you're forcing it and it just wont feel authentic. Be real in conversation. For example if you fucked up and ran out of things to say, tell her: 'Shit, I ran out of things to say.' Try and follow a genuine mistake or… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | I have no fucking clue how to show interestYeah, you have to do it enough that she knows you are the male but be able to break in periods to let her know you are centered and not a looney. Good point. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:36 AM |
| 35 | 22F coworker forgets she has shown me her tat on her hip (lifting her shirt) twice and has shown me a third time all within 2 months...Dude. Face palm. Unless she has dementia, she WANTS you to see! She has tried telling you 3 times because she WANTS you to get the hint! Women aren't stupid like that and they sure as fuck don't openly show private places to 'just anyone.' Initiate or masturbate! | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Basically believe I humiliated myself in front of a girl do I have a chance?You are putting this particular pussy on a pedestal. As soon as you put women like that, you are taking. Give me, give me, I want, I want. This is bad. Women have this innate sense of a man being needy or even worse little value. It will sink her image of you and instantly cringe her out - as it did during your presentation. Is your chance over? No. Do you want to crap shoot it again? No. Practice getting used to talking to ALL RANGES of women. There is an abundance of girls in any school. GET U… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:25 AM |
| 1 | My Failed Attempt..Dude. If she's got her eyes locked on you and you both are smiling at each other, what other motivation do you need from that. The first reply is on point! The next time better be a natural occurrence and initiate. You've got literally nothing to lose and plenty to gain. Don't let it get to 'Man I wonder what if?' 10-20 years later. Just fucking do it and be yourself, women love an authentic man! Gl | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 09:48 PM |
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