aloofnoodle Archive

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–	Not comfortable being a glow up. Anxiety making seemingly easier situations harder. Can’t relate to the weight loss/glow up part, but I can def relate to the breakup and getting back out there part. The hardest thing for me was going from feeling known really deeply by someone I really loved, to being ogled at bars by complete strangers who were just looking AT my body and face. Even now when I go out I feel like I kind of dissociate from my physical self, since my inner self doesn’t exist anyway as far as anyone at the club is concerned.	/r/seduction	24/10/19 05:02 AM
–	Complicated Situation With Crush, Any Advice? I wouldn’t hold on too tightly to her words (saying she was into you). Especially if she said them while in a state of heightened emotions/vulnerability. Things obviously haven’t run their course with her ex and there’s not much you can do there to get her to realize she shouldn’t be with him. You should make yourself less available and try to live your life. If she thinks you’ll always be there to fall back on, you’ll always just stay on the sidelines and she’ll never feel the need to act. It’s…	/r/seduction	24/10/19 04:37 AM