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You understand the Boomer gen has more white people in it than Gen Z and Alpha right? 63% of Gen Z women voted for Harris.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:04 PM
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Nuance dies on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:18 PM
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Most things in life require women. They are half the population after all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:17 PM
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When it lack even a basis in reality? Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:28 PM
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You can only have kids with a woman involved. I mean you pay for surrogate or adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:20 PM
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No it is. And it's weird when you see a partnership as not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:16 PM
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It's weird when you all see a equal partnership as being used
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:03 AM
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Because x is mostly filled with bots at this point and I would trust it even less than reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:01 AM
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Blue pill sees the end goal of dating as looking for a long term partner to build a long term relationship with. Red pill see a end of goal of dating as getting laid as fast as possible. That's pretty much the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:33 PM
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So do we have no understanding of how a marriage visa works?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:55 PM
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-I've got no issues with preferring female immigrants If the US actually did, Red pills in here would be crying about how this is just another example of female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:50 PM
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If you're holding someone's vise over their head if they don't have sex with you, Yes it's into the fraud part of human trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:46 PM
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What exactly does empathy look like here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:44 PM
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Red pill once again showing they don't understand what consent means
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:11 PM
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-many young men are single. They're not. That survey was debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:10 PM
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So sexual slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:08 PM
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You understand that women are not a collective, right? Like they're not the Borg. I really shouldn't have to explain that. Nor are they some type of government forcing their will on others. So no, individuals making their own choices is not eugenics, nor who they want to have sex with. So now that we cover that this is not eugenics. What do you want women do to here? Do you want them to pity fuck you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:05 PM
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Sigh, I understand how terms lose all meaning on the internet but no it isn't a straw man when you start the conversation off with women not fucking is somehow eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:02 PM
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Basically just Jack from Titanic. Or any other male manic pixie dream guy character
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:50 PM
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So what, you want a pity fuck instead? Women don't own you that. They don't own you dates, sex, children. Them not wanting to fuck you, isn't a crime and there is nothing wrong with it. The amount of entitlement that red pills have here is mind boggling sometimes. You have the right to exist and participate in polite society and to go make your own life, that's it. Do with it as you please. But stop thinking that gives you rights to others
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:48 PM
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-Forrest Gump is mentally impaired He's not. He has a low IQ, 75. But he's not in the mentally impaired range, that would be below 70. The movie literally spells this out, that's he's right on the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:10 PM
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Basic respect is existing in public with you. They don't own you their time, in anyway. Or do you stop and listen to every solicitator who comes up to you and answer honestly? No, because basic respect doesn't mean they get to demand your time or your honesty. It's not about about women's rights, it's about basic respect and safety. Something you understand when it's your life in the middle. Unless you gonna tell me how you listen to every homeless person who comes up to you and answer honestly …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:32 AM
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Because you have different end goals of dating. Once again daring advice much like financial advice is not a.one size fits all. And you need to know what your end goal is before you go looking for what kind of advice you will need. Be yourself is about finding a long term partner that you will mesh well with. That advice has absolutely nothing to do with getting you laid as quickly as possible. This would be like you being upset at the financial advice about paying of debt when what you really w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:46 AM
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This is honestly not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:57 PM
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This reminds me that there are two different kinds of respect. And how someone will want one type for others but expect to be given the other. There is basic respect: That's respecting each other as people as people, being polite in public, understanding we all have a right to exist, etc. And then there's respect of authority: That's expecting people to treat you as a higher influence, that you have a right to demand more of them. In others words a woman existing in public does not own you her p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:02 PM
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You understand that the embryo embeds itself into the lining of the uterus, which means even if artificial wombs became a thing. Transfer in early pregnancy would be still impossible. It would still be a consent issue because you would need the woman to agree to that medical procedure You would then need both parents to continue to agree with the artificial wombs continuing. Also who pays for it. This would also not deal with abortion in emergency situations or abortion for incompatible with lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:27 PM
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I mean red pills/ conservatives also make fun of women in traditional gender roles. You can't tell you it's their higher calling and also that their lazy to stay home and add nothing of value to the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:42 AM
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Stripper gate? Which show and episode, asking for a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:40 AM
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Consenting adults can do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:32 AM
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No, otherwise you wouldn't keep posting this. The vast majority of people don't believe this nor is this used in prosecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:21 PM
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Kind tried to the "I don't understand how consent works" post. Because that's what this is. Either you have a gross misunderstanding of how consent works. And when it can and can't be given. Or well....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:36 PM
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Honestly some people just can't handle the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:14 AM
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You do know there were female Islamic scholars right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:38 PM
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The idea that dating advice is one size fits all, is laughable. Dating advice is like financial advice. Outside of very generic advice,.no one is going to be able to really give you good advice on the internet without knowing you, personally and knowing what happens in your life. And knowing what you want for your life. Every time I see this complaint, it's because some people have this idea that it's one size fits all. It is not and has never been that way. So yes shockingly, a random woman on …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:56 PM
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Love when comments just prove my point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:46 PM
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Men will say they want a virgin but expect her to have the knowledge of a whore. True story many many times over
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:31 PM
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Would have done the same things I did. Which was not date unless I really wanted to Really don't get the people who think gender difference would change their lives that much. At least not in this in the western world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:04 PM
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Post like this makes me think red pill really is just filled with men on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:02 PM
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It's almost like women make up hall the human population. And expecting Billions/ Millions (depending on scope) of people to have the same wants in a partner would be insane. Outside of very key basics. Dating is literally about finding someone that you personal mesh with. So understanding what you want out of a relationship and communicating that would be a better strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:00 PM
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Men walk on the outside (street side) in case something happens. Like a splash from a car or something I only know this because a older teacher once randomly talked about it. It isn't well known to my gen, millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:32 AM
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I doubt most men even know what the sidewalk rule is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:15 AM
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Man you don't want those women, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:13 PM
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How do you think people traded goods and services before a financial system?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:07 PM
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Just point out the hypocrisy in these posts that you keep putting up here repeatedly. Why is a transactional relationship on a woman's end okay But not on a man's
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:04 PM
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I mean technically then you should put it down this post since you're not willing to debate your stance. Transactionals come more than just in monetary means. You do seem to understand this. Somehow. It's different when it's a woman. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:58 PM
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Because they really just want to fuck women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:57 PM
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So if a man has money to buy food when his hungry and doesn't that means he is not hungry either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:56 PM
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Men and women report an equal amount of loneliness. It's a male crisis because they're typically the ones that act out violently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:54 PM
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-distraction from loneliness. So then you're admitting this is not a cure to learning this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:53 PM
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By this logic a man can just pay for sex or friends and he will not be lonely either. Therefore his loneliness is also a choice. If the exchange for sex, whether that's with attention or time means they are not lonely anymore. Then neither sex is dealing with a loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:49 PM
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What the hell does this even mean? Like why would I treat I know people like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:24 AM
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Then I guess men should just go buy friends/sex and they won't be lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:36 PM
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If the only reason you become friends with someone is because you want something from them that is a transactional relationship. Even if that thing is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:53 PM
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You implied that for women it's fine for it to be transactional So why not for men? Are men really lonely, they can just go out and buy company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:28 PM
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So then why not buy friends. Then you wouldn't be lonely. Or does it only work when it a man wanting sex from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:19 PM
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So many guy would be happy to used her you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:18 PM
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Then why don't these lonely men make friends with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:17 PM
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Do we not know how martial finances work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:14 PM
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I love how this just proves the point above
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:11 PM
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A start would be not think women's rights are terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:07 PM
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Do you think it's easier to make friends when they want something from you? Because that's literally what you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:05 PM
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You mean the survey that still showed those women would still date those men? They just had a different type of Attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:24 AM
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Real life isn't a sitcom. The vast majority of people don't get a new gf/bf every week. The cold hard true is most people, especially in your younger years when you are getting established. Will go without sex or partners sometimes. Why do you think the average sex partners is around 7 in a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 AM
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You mean other than the fact that men make up the majority of people on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:20 AM
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-it's true that the majority of women go for a minority of men. It's called hypergamy It's literally not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:19 AM
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Why are people asshole and judge others? That your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:23 AM
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Men support feminist causes for the same reason conservative women have supported feminist causes. It helps them. Women being pay fairly means more money for your family. Women having more rights mean your minor children are safer of something happens to you etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:52 AM
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It's quite literally not applied like that in practice. In fact, a woman drinking is literally one of the reasons rapists dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:47 AM
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Nuisance really does die on the internet, doesn't it? When we talk about alcohol and consent. We're usually talking about too much alcohol that you can no longer give consent. And yes, this applies to men and women. Two people being buzzed and having sex isn't rape. One being so drunk they can't stand, or slur their words is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:47 AM
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Both most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:45 AM
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Punching at shadows here man. Grown ass adults can set whatever standards they want, and grown ass adults can deal with those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:42 AM
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3 second shorts aren't think pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:40 AM
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Which is why we talk about patriarchy as a society construct. And not about men as a group. Or are you confused by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:26 PM
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It's not contradictory. Some people would rather suffer and cry about it then ever see change for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:23 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't exist. Patriarchy started mostly because animals that live in groups usually have one sex leave versus the other. The sex that stays tends to dominate the hierarchy. Not always tho. For early human this was probably males staying, female leaving. Add in Agriculture and it put this system on crack because of land ownership and the need for inheritance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:06 PM
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Explain to me how women wanting the right to vote with starting express the oppression Olympics to you? -The overwhelming majority of women were not beaten, torture, arrested, and mocked, and the overwhelming Yet they were threatened with it, when they stepped out of line. That you not understand how implication works? If I treat you nicely when you do exactly what I want you to do and I beat the shit out of you when you don't do I really treat you nicely? -Now contrast that to gay men through h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:59 PM
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So you would rather suffer but cry because some women are willing to fight for theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:51 PM
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-Mothers, fathers, churches, communities, and families all played a role in maintaining those expectations. Do you believe that all those things had equal say in how society was built?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:44 PM
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So we've gone from It didn't happen to It's not as bad as you think it was. I guess it's some progress. Quite literally hundreds of sufferers were arrested and served jail time. I would also like to point out that this was not a big movement. Most women were not sufferettes. England literally passed an act to stagnate their sentences because they got tried of force feeding them in jail. Which by the way was literally considered a type torture at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:24 AM
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I always find it interesting how this turns into the oppression olympics for some of you. But I digress. Explain to me how society protected these women. When it beat, tortured, arrested, and mocked them? That's not even getting into groups of women that don't follow societies expectations and how they aren't given any type of " protections" Such how queer women were treated throughout history, or women who talk back to their husbands, or Women who weren't well liked by their community, or Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:15 AM
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Yes it's not like those women end up in jail or anything Oh wait they did. Or were while they were in there, such as forced feeding and beatings. Many were sentence to hard labor. Or were alive during a time their husband could divorce them and leave them pennyless for this. That's not even going into when the movement spread to the working class, women who joined the suffrage movement could and did loss custody of their children. Because it was against the law to be protesting in those movement…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:09 AM
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Men should end the parts of patriarchy that hurt men. That would benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:57 AM
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Society didn't protect or help those women. If fact we have a very long and dark history on how society doesn't protect or help women, especially those who do not confirm to societal standards. Society mock, demean, beat, and depending on the era murder those women. Like say queer women. Or say women who were too difficult. -You are proving OP right and your attitude is part of the problem. I'm not proving OP, if anything, you're a great example of how society still demeans and belittles women's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:57 AM
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Honestly depends on the culture. Tho going by that question, if we go by Western standard 1700s+ they weren't allowed to reject non-emotional expressive men. So if anything it leads more into the idea that it's a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:32 AM
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I always find it interesting how this sub frames metoo. When one of the biggest predators it took down was someone who prey on men/boys. And then the sub also likes to turn around and say no one takes male victims seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:30 AM
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OP ends up describing the patriarchy. New at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:25 AM
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But they're not biological. If they're biological, we would see them through every society throughout history. And we don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:24 AM
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-A lot of men can’t risk being the odd one out, and losing what little respect they already have in society. This is quite literally what feminism did, repeatly through every wave. Suffragettes were repeatedly made fun of/ mocked in society. Second wave third wave every one of them goes through this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:19 AM
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Even today many states have a higher bar for marital rape. The Teeson Minnesota case only happen six years ago. A woman who was drugged against her will by her husband and raped. He literally film it. She wasn't allowed to file rape charges against him because under Minnesota law a husband can have sex with his wife unless she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:58 PM
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9 times out of 10 it didn't come out of nowhere. You just ignore the red flags because it was easy to do so. Also if they're doing something that pisses you off say something. Stop suffering in silence and bottling it up. You're an adult, if you aren't happy say something and if things don't change it may be time to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:22 PM
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Literally a joke for bi's that we have twice the field and still can't land a date. So no awkward women don't always get dates as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:14 PM
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I laugh at the absurdity of this. People who talk like this don't have a clue what raising kids entail. And it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:03 PM
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If you want a family with kids then you want a partner to raise them with. Not someone you have to raise along side them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:33 PM
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I don't understand why the first upset you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:55 AM
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Dating has always been hard. Lol. Why do you think they've been writing stories about it since we been able to write things down? It's harder to meet people in person now because there's less third places and the Internet has a lot of people's social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:06 PM
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Shit went over OP's head and it's apparently everyone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:07 PM
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-Women read more because men plan the rest of their romantic lives for them. Exactly where and when does this happen? Don't men on this sub constantly whine that women don't date men? Or take scraps from only the top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:12 PM
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Everything crosses with pop now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:09 PM
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So I guess Milkshake isn't a explicit song either then. Afterall she's just getting thse men a drink
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:08 PM
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As a parent can confirm, children are cock blocks and have the worst timing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:03 PM
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You're welcome to go find some sources and prove her wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:17 AM
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weaving for selling in the market This would literally be called a trade also known as a career. And yes women have also had those throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:17 AM
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Everyone worked on the farm. If you've ever been to an actual developing or undeveloped You will absolutely find women in the fields working on the farm. And textile industry alone with heavily female dominated during the beginning of the industrial revolution. So yes, women also went to work in the factories. Again, this is bad history
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:14 AM
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Why would anyone have a problem with holding someone's legal status hostage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:11 PM
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Also many men don't want to support a woman who is "used" and has had her reproductive organs already maxed out by another man. Some of you all really don't see women as people do you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:27 PM
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If a man feels like that it would be best they stay away no matter what. Honestly from all women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:18 PM
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What solution is red pill offering? Red pill has always been about pick up and pump and dump How does that help with the loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:16 AM
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I don't even understand why this is such a big deal honestly. As a parent, every time I leave the house with one of my kids, especially when they were younger, I risk public humiliation. Humiliation happens, that's life. You're not always going to be the cool guy. Sometimes you're the dumbass. It suck, yeah. But you pick yourself up and you go about your life. Shit is never perfect, that's life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:10 PM
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Most people won't have very many sex partners in their lives. And unless you date the majority of those sex partners very long term. It makes sense that most of us will see some very long stretches without sex. Too many people think their dating lives should look like a TV show where there's a new date every week. And that's never been the norm for the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:29 PM
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Is that why men is here keep saying abuse women deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:23 PM
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You think badgering women into dating you is going to is a successful dating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:19 PM
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Most people agree that hypergamy is real. They don't because it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:18 PM
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I disagree I think the majority of people do empathize with men and women dating woes. Most people understand dating sucks and that dating suck differently for men and women. The problem is online has become a venting space And the problem with a place that is only for venting 24/7 is that it will turn incredibly toxic. Add in the fact that the internet and social media in general is addictive You end up with people having a very warped view on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:16 PM
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Even in the 1950 half of all elementary school children had working mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:09 PM
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Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:09 PM
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The majority of gay women/men are bi/pan
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:05 PM
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It so weird to me how red pill also has such a horrible view of men as well. That every man is mindless sex machine that would sleep with anyone who would have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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Yeah, like at the end of the day this is your business. It's not mine. Even if it was my kids, in either position, I would counsel them not to but it's their choice at the end of the day. There's just a lot that can go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:48 PM
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Not who you're asking but I agree at the end of the day you're a consenting adult and it's your business but yeah I would look at the same way Mostly because of the power dynamics that can easily throw these kind of relationships out of balance, honestly either way. Because it's way easier for either person to take advantage of the other, in different ways without recourse. Especially in a girlfriend/boyfriend way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:58 PM
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If a very large man starts screaming in the middle of a parking lot like that would you think he's a crazy person or fully cognizant who thinks he's big enough no one is going to hurt him? Normal people don't usually have meltdown in public. Also going to guess you're not American, cause no you shouldn't get into a fight with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:50 AM
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Crazy knows no gender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:45 AM
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Because the men who used these as gotcha don't actually care about these issues. It the same when someone says we should used money for programs here in the US instead of abroad. They actually don't want it used here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:13 PM
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Yet women constantly pushed for mental health support programs, community support and general healthcare programs. All things that help men. This sub in facts loves to shit on the fact that women are more likely to vote for programs to help those groups. Why don't men want to actually help other men? What don't men support mental health programs? Or programs for the homeless?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:08 PM
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I love the mental gymnastics to make everything women's fault here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:05 PM
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So by this logic men making women into chattle for earlier parts of history was what? Just a little mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:02 PM
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Do you think actors don't have fun on set? The doesn't mean that they aren't still acting. Porn isn't real. I'm sorry no one has had that talk with you. But the shots you see in the videos take multiple cuts to get and it is a job at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:22 PM
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Literally child wanting a puppy mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:16 PM
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The world is literally burning because of global warming. Seems like men are plenty selfish to sit back and let it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:14 PM
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-women in porn "faking it" You mean acting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:00 PM
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-which is why its rare for a man to say he settled If only the top men have the majority of the women, then how are these other men not settling. You're laying out two contradictory arguments. For hypergamy to exist, the men left over would have to settle for the few women left. According to you, men don't settle. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:25 AM
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So a majority of the men are getting with the majority of women But the majority of women are only getting with a small percentage of men? The math isn't mathing here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:37 AM
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So if the majority of men don't settle and instead get the woman they want then how does hypergamy exist? Since many men are getting with all these women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:12 AM
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I mean men desire thin women with large tits. That doesn't mean they all date that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:59 PM
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The same reason financial advice is generic. Too many people and too many different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:58 PM
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Why do you think hostals have female only rooms
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:39 PM
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I wonder why women feel it's better to go out as a group than solo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:37 PM
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You've never joined a fantasy league
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:49 PM
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The only real change we've seen is that people are more likely to stay single during their early twenties now. Which makes sense with childhood being extended and the pressure to takes to establish yourself nowadays. And that less will get married, and going by the fact divorce rates are also dropping that is probably a good thing. There however has been little change overall on the amount of adults who will live with by themselves for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:35 PM
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R/ bad history called
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:32 PM
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It's literally about human sin. Weird to make it gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:30 PM
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Are the majority of red pills getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:18 PM
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Don't think they're getting laid being disrespectful either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:03 PM
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-Husbands and wives have roughly equal earnings in a growing share of U.S. marriages The literally name of your chart. 40/60 is around equal share
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:18 AM
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Dating before becoming official is what 4 to 8 dates? Also is making sure your relationship is equal during the dating phase is important to you than you should communicate that and not date women who don't pull their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:42 PM
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People in first world economics in lower incomes don't have that many more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:04 PM
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Abortion rates have increased since Dobbs was pasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:02 PM
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It's normal to go through periods of population contracting. Infinite growth is not possible or realistic. That's also not getting to the fact global warming is going to destabilize governments and societies far worse than birth rates as well. Large percentage of the population has always never married or have children. Heck a large percentage of the population never even made it to that age group. And people staying single throughout life is not unheard of the whole way back to medieval times, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:54 AM
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What do you think happens to a woman there if she went out with her knees exposed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:42 AM
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Well since men are usually marrying women with jobs too. Then men also want women who provide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:22 AM
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The vast majority of marriages are two income households. How exactly is only one person "providing" when both are working?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:59 PM
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Yes, because religious conservatives exist. And will always pull down the average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:58 PM
3

Medium salary in America is 62k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:56 PM
2

Dating apps are larger unsuccessful for most men because they are made of mostly men. The best apps have what a 30/70 split?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:54 PM
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MRAs are not confined to Reddit, And? That's true for everything on the internet. You can't however cry that these things aren't there when you readily admit you never look for it. YouTube, reddit, every website that allows submissions has these kind of dark shit. That's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:52 PM
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The vast majority of married household without children have both people working, barring illness and unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:43 PM
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What does more quality mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:31 PM
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The majority of families end up somewhere in the 40/60 split
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:30 PM
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-I don't frequent those subs I've never heard any MRA say anything like that Lol. So you're not there but they don't say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:20 PM
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Yep, have you met women? They're horrible/s In all seriousness, shitty people exist in every gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:11 PM
0

You mean it they made it so you couldn't prosecute people for a having a miscarriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:08 PM
1

Have you seen Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:07 PM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:06 PM
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The State should make it easier for a birth parent/parents to give up rights. Especially if the other parent agrees to it. Less than half of custodial parents have a child support order. And even then a third will never see that money. I'm sure there's a lot of parents that would be willing to give up the chance at child support to know that the deadbeat parent could never come back and cause trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:47 PM
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Yeah it called. Reddit. Or I can just point here to the next "if women won't fuck me then they shouldn't be allowed to vote post". Shockley the internet is a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:51 PM
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Women literally die without access to healthcare. But sure I guess healthcare isn't a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:39 PM
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She said 18 years old should get vasectomies at the 14 minute mark. Not young boys. Where does she say young boys should be forcibly sterilize?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:29 PM
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Lol, tell me you've never dug into YouTube far enough. This is like when people claim there isn't sexism on Reddit. Meanwhile, the men's right subs are all crying why they can't wait the rape and how all rape victims are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:18 PM
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Anyone who thinks this has never even watched a kid. Pregnancy suck and is hard. But it's one of the easier parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:46 PM
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Billie Jean King also saw this throughout her career
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:45 PM
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-same facial expression for different reasons. People use words for different reasons too. Does that make verbal language fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:00 PM
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Body language is basic communication. And it's weird that you don't understand that. If you can't understand why people can read a difference between a smile and a frowned. You may want to be tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:06 PM
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You think there's literally people out who have only ask out one person in their lives and been with them forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:09 PM
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can read body language and take a no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:24 PM
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If you can read body language and take a no, it's fine to approach. The problem is the ones who can't. They really do ruin it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:39 PM
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Whether you are interacting with or around with them before or not. Walking up to a girl at the bar and asking her out - cold approach Asking out the girl, you've been slightly interacting with (you say hey to each other/ may know names) comic night. - Warm approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:38 PM
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Everyone fails at getting relationships, that's just a part of life. This is like saying I should be able to throw a temper tantrum if I don't get a job. Even tho that's something that happens to everyone multiple times in their lives Like you're going to be rejected, part of growing up is learning to deal with rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:33 PM
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Why don't we just tell people to stop stealing instead of locking up their valuables/s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:25 PM
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Terfs and conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:03 PM
1

Yes Republicans (US) right now are. But that's not all conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:03 PM
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-You can’t moralize, generalize, and or grand stand if you don’t call out the hypocrisy of those inside your own movement And are there not conservative who do this? Who call out the neo Nazi and white supremacist. Same with the feminist. The movement have literally split with these groups rad fems and terfs. But they are and will always be associated with each other because movements are grouped in the binary. Conservative/ liberal. Feminism/ traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:01 PM
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I'm not saying conservative are compromised by white supremacy. Most aren't. I'm asking how could the movement as a whole ever separate itself completely from it when there's only two categories to most people, liberal and conservative? But if you take a defensive precaution against all men because "some men are dangerous," This is literally why you take any defense precautions. I lock my door against all my neighbors because some of them may be dangerous or steal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:06 PM
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I mean should we use the red pill men on here? Got some further down already saying it's women's fault when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:55 AM
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The irony that conservative literally used the argument that men are sexual predators and that why transwoman can't used their bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:50 AM
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According to men here that's women treating all men as predators. Which is also bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:48 AM
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Sidestepping that I think this is a bad faith argument because conservatives also subside their extremist groups in the same way. And if they could get them out? Can the conservative movement as a whole not be associated with white supremacy? no matter what it does? Hey is me locking my door, accusing all my neighbors of being thieves? Because that's what a lot of men accuse women of when they take just basic precautions in life. That's not even getting into the fact that when bad things do happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:46 AM
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-80k will take decades to reach And you don't think that same thing happens to reach that 55k for the high school diploma? Many union trade jobs have Less than 10% of jobs in America are union? What do you think those others are getting? Good chunk of which are white collar You can't cry about average mean nothing for one group and the talk about the average being great for the other. The cold hard truth is apple to apple comparison a bachelor's goes father. Yes terms and conditions apply but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:41 PM
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Average student loan is only 40k And the average yearly salary of someone with a bachelor's is 80k The average yearly salary of someone with only a high diploma is around 50k That doesn't even go into benefits like retirement and healthcare. Since those people with bachelors are more likely to be healthy and live longer and be able to retire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:43 PM
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I mean the issue we currently have is that social media is cancer. The battle of the sexes is honestly just entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:45 PM
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And a large percentage of white collar job will also continue to grow. Especially in healthcare. -First, women today are actively seeking to be stay-at-home moms and wives. I They quite literally don't, men are now more likely to want children than women. And those that want children are more likely to get a education Because guess what women with a BA or higher are way more likely to marry and have kids. 80% of college education women will marry. It's somewhere around 30% for high school educat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:26 PM
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First even if AI could do what they promised (it can't) for the price they promised (it can't). Every single technology advancement we have ever had has led to more white collar jobs being made not less in history. Second have you checked job numbers this year or last? Blue collar jobs are shirking. We've lost a very large number of them, especially in manufacturing. And in fact the only growing area in female dominant fields like healthcare right now. And this is most likely not going to change…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:00 PM
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There's plenty of people who make a good living do all kinds of things. The majority of trade however is in the same boat as every other job. As in most don't pay well. Statistically speaking however, people with a college degree still out earn those without. People will a BA are also still less likely to to be unemployed and unemployed for less time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:24 PM
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Doesn't red pill constantly talk about putting people into groups like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:26 AM
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Except women are more likely to marry and date "down" . Like half of all will with a BA or higher will marry someone with a lower educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:25 AM
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I mean it's almost like there's multiple factors and multiple different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:22 AM
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Of course. Sad that has to be said here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:51 PM
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So by this logic then men who support male rapist represents all men? Even if it's a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:42 AM
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Which mainstream feminist groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:40 AM
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And some people are horrible at spotting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:38 PM
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Also it's upsetting if a woman settles for a man but any woman will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:37 PM
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Alright this one got a laugh out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:35 PM
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I mean conservative who want women to be housewifes also treat them like shit. You can't say it's the best thing for a woman and then turn around and say that women did nothing and deserve nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:17 AM
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Good thing that's not what abortion is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:15 PM
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Cause we don't call women gold diggers, shallow or straight up delusional for their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:53 PM
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That's not a wife that's a slave. A wife is a life partner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:45 PM
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Women's mating strategy has very little to do with birth rates. How does forcing women to pair up make them have more kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:14 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:12 PM
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They still have some of the countries closest to the 2 replacement rate then counties without those things. You don't think South Korea would think they solve it if they were up at 1.4?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:03 PM
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It's normal to have declines in birth rate sometimes in history. The line doesn't keep going up, that's literally not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:58 PM
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Your example doesn't even make sense because your op is about literally threatening women and about completely erasing their own contribution to that society. So it would be more like you acknowledge our reliance on fire trucks while threatening to hurt the firefighters l.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:02 PM
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Honestly heavily depends on how hard they're looking and what they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:47 PM
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Lots of people who are in dry spells don't fall down those rabbit holes. The same way lots of people can be on the Internet and don't end up in conspiracy theories rabbit holes. One doesn't necessarily put you in the other. Also people make fun of men going their own way because all they do is complain about women and that's not them actually going their own way that's them just being whiny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:22 PM
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The vast majority of queer women are bi/pan. You know women who still date men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:14 AM
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I do not want to have a relationship with the hottest person I can think of. Why would I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:23 AM
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"women can date have options" Also it's women's fault if they don't choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:05 PM
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You know there are literally under 21 clubs that are like that right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:08 PM
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Yep conservative women work and have kids too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:06 PM
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They agreed women are people and deserve rights. That's a pretty basic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:43 PM
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I mean they don't. Hence why there's dozens of different groups on the left who rarely align with each other. Feminism itself has split because it doesn't agree on gender ideology a few times alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:07 PM
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So are we all going to pretend that the equal rights Amendment wouldn't have helped men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:16 PM
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Don't even know where to start with us. Other than the fact you think that gender dystopia is somehow a social disorder. Which it isn't isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:41 PM
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Masculine women are more acceptable to society as a whole than feminine men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:56 PM
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I'm sorry you think people transition because they'll have it easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:53 PM
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The problem with this is that a lot of men don't actually care about these issues. And are only using them as a dishonest argument. Because they want to "bring feminism down a peg" so to speak. When DEI in education absolutely help men. But many conservative men hate the very idea of it. Mental health, social, and outreach programs help the homeless but many conservative men are against these things the very idea of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:52 PM
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I mean they're getting special treatment because I'm marrying them versus not the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:31 PM
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Do you have children? Because as a parent, I can tell you having an active partner to raise them with is generous, as in what you want. Having a partner willing to take the hit more to their career for those children is generous, and yes this absolutely happens unless you're top 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:57 AM
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You understand that women with children are usually poorer than women without right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:08 PM
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<I care for innocent people. Lol, if you only care if the victim is perfect then you don't actually care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:35 PM
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As someone with a lot of family on the spectrum. I feel like a major of these posts would fit right in with some of the conversations at my family dinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:46 PM
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God looks like I'm going to defend a Kardashian here but Kim and Pete were like what 45 and 32. That's not a crazy age gap at that age. Is kinda a long way off from dating someone your own children's ages. Also women have gotten shit for that too. Jada Pinkett Smith got called out, rightfully, for dating one of her kid's friends. Listen I think gen Z is a little nuts over this age gap shit. As long as everyone is of age and consenting I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:22 PM
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These terms have been mainstream for decades which means it's been acknowledged for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:58 AM
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There's challenges with any job. Same as there are positives with them. And your current 'job' is notorious for leading women into poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:00 PM
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<but I don’t want to do a job I hate for years to live a life I don’t want. Sounds like you're doing this anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:46 PM
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The vast majority of healthcare doesn't immediately save lives either does that mean it's not healthcare? I honestly don't care how you view abortion, personal opinions are personal opinions but at the end of the day healthcare decisions belong in the hands of the patient <why would we accept the former? Because someone needs to make a decision when things do go wrong and should that be a bunch of men in Congress or a patient with their a doctor? Because one is an actual child and the other at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:21 AM
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The irony that red pill is literally based on emotional response, notwithstanding The fact that most people are paired up by the later life shows that there's not 10% of men getting all women. Over almost half of all millennials now are married and the majority or at least in long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:01 PM
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<Because literally every single bit of data on the modern day dating market proves that a minority of top-men are getting the majority of women, It quite literally doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:01 PM
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Some people are always going to be better at things then others. How is that a hard concept for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:32 PM
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It's almost like dating is incredibly complex and requires a lot of nuance. So any basic generic advice won't work for everyone. Add in that people love easy answers for extremely complex problems and you get things like the manosphere preying off of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:15 PM
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Because you're still going to be judged with that group. You being "one of the good ones" will only get you so far until it doesn't. Then you're just another "hoe" or "child" what have you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:40 PM
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Because you're still part of that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:22 PM
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Bars and clubs should be look at like fishing or hunting camp. You get what you're looking for, great but at the end of the day it's just about spending time with friends. Also it's not for everyone and that's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:32 PM
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I like the people I dated enough to want to hear about their problems and things they went through. That's actually how a normal relationship works. You should enjoy each other enough that you care about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:47 AM
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If you don't like the person you're dating then maybe you shouldn't be dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:22 PM
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My question is what the goal of dating? While everyone's answer is different. Women are more likely to say a long term compatible relationship. If a woman is looking a man to marry and have kids with and all she finds is men who who don't want those things or are nowhere near those goals then yes she has also is having trouble dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:03 PM
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Most people don't take pleasure from hurting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:06 PM
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I mean most people would call this psychopathic behavior. To think it's okay for children and people to be murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:57 PM
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And all the men that are dieing in those countries? All the children? Those are what collateral damage? And when someone finally does you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:48 PM
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Not doing a very good job at it, considering how high your violent crime rates are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:35 PM
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Mean you said not if they're dead. Then we're not supposed to care about them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:33 PM
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Family planning helps families. Access to reproductive health care helps families. Over half of all abortions are from women who already have children. Or do you think it's better to let women die of sepsis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:26 PM
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And so it will with these types of men. Because they are a thing of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:24 PM
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Ukraine is hitting Russian oil infrastructure because that's a major source of income for Russia, not so much that the bombing itself is the pressure. Also men and women are part of the same communities not separate nations. Your argument would be like let's poison our water supply, that'll show them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:20 PM
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So All those men that are murdered in those countries? What happens to them? What about All the children that are murdered, or exploited or raped? Did those babies not cry enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:14 PM
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Yes that's why the have such low rates of crime/murder/rape /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:10 PM
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So men can't even take responsibility for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:05 PM
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Does hurting another people solve your problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:03 PM
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This post reads like someone who doesn't even understand what would actually help men. Because these things op wants to take away also help men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:01 PM
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This is pretty much what a third world country is like. Where the majority of men and women are in absolute poverty because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:59 PM
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Yes and we have a Senate. Or are you confused on how that works too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:06 PM
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It's a legitimate question. You said it's a zero-sum game. So? What rights did white people lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:04 PM
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No, that's that the only thing you think you could contribute to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:04 PM
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Can't understand why women don't want them/s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:02 PM
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Aren't you in here saying you should take away their rights because they won't have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:01 PM
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And the US system works on electoral college. Or did you not have 9th grade government yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:00 PM
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<a politician massively elected by women Certainly not in the US. In fact it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:59 PM
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So every right a black person got was stolen from a white person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:54 PM
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Most men are happy that women don't need them and they can choose a partner because they want to be with them. Red pills aren't most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:51 PM
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This is honestly kinda sad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:49 PM
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Really do love the fact that some of you have no idea what no fault divorce actually is or why we have it. And yes man actually did gain by women having access to birth control/ abortion and better jobs. Since it also helped their families. They also did gain by being able to get divorce easier as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:46 PM
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<because women don't doubt their ability to date in the first place The billion dollar self help industry wouldn't exist if this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:14 PM
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So once again you care nothing about their actual personality or their own goals in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:23 PM
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This is like saying a person can't be attractive unless I'm attractive to them. You can find someone to be a catch and not think you're compatible to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:23 PM
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OP is talking about this happening to anyone. Again why would you string along a friend if you knew that you didn't want what they did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:22 PM
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Answering more on the trad pill side There's a few. Some of the main ones Hierarchy. Some women see feminism and modernism as helping women who are below them get a leg up or cutting the line, so to speak I suffered so you should too. Some of them made bad choices in life. Stay at homes is usually a bad financial and sometimes dangerous choice for a woman to make. And well they don't have to admit that they made a mistake, if you do it too. After all, misery loves company. Nostalgia for a past t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:35 PM
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I also don't judge everyone. I pass on the street and whether I would fuck them or not. < I don't date with the expectation. So you would still date a friend you know had those expectations? That dating leads to something more. You fucking around is different then the premise op in about. Which is dating friends. I wouldn't play with my friends emotions. People who do that tend not to see those people as friends or even as others people. Becoming a fuck buddy with a friend is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:11 PM
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So quite literally answering my question that you don't see women as actual human being beings, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:29 PM
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So you're telling you would date any woman regardless of how different your life goals were or large disagreements on major life events? Do you not see the woman you date as actual people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:13 PM
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Setting aside, talking about people like theyre objects. It could still be a great jacket and just not fit a lot of people. Everybody is unique, everybody has different tastes and different goals in life. Is very possible that you may not meet many other people who have those same goals and taste, who are also looking for someone at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:30 PM
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Do you not know women in your life that are good people that you wouldn't date? When this question comes up I have to wonder if you really just see women as a replacement parts instead of each being unique individuals. I've met tons of people out there that were good people and would make someone a good partner. That they matched well with That does not mean they would make a good partner for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:27 PM
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Well it is the birds and the bees
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:31 AM
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The current weight loss drug started from some weird study on lizards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:30 AM
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Don't you love it when you fuck up the title
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:37 PM
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Then is it bad for one gender to blame the other but not vice versa? Your logic isn't consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:27 PM
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So you're saying that they blame all women and assume all women are bad then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:15 PM
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Ngl Everytime you guys bring up artificial wombs, I laugh. You guys really have no clue what it takes to raise kids. Pregnancy sucks, but it's a drop in the bucket for what children demand out of a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:18 PM
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Then why are you posting about it? It's a self solving problem. Some people have too high standards they'll either be alone or come back down. This isn't new or a gender thing. Trying to make it a gender thing does seem like you're complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:57 AM
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Internet is social junk food
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:05 AM
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Once again fuck me or I'll take away your rights isn't a winning argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:27 PM
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Nobility literally put peasants in jail for not paying taxes. Women aren't taking something from you by not fucking you. I swear you all have the weirdest mind set
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:26 PM
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Thing about dating is options tend to increase the more you engage with other people. The market is only broken because so many people don't have basic social skills nor are willing to go get them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:21 PM
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Yes people don't make fun of women when they've been single long term/s Like calling them cat ladies or left over women If you're single the three choices are to enjoy it, lower standards or improve yourself. This is true regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:11 PM
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I mean then don't date them. If their standards are too high they can be alone or lower them then. It really is that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:50 PM
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I did read it. You just seem to be in denial that people deal with being mock when it's not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:20 PM
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Yet they don't. You just don't notice women's as much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:19 PM
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<i didnt say they didn't get mocked did i That is the implication of your statement. That one group gets pushed back while the other doesn't. <she wont date short guys no more. You don't see women laughed at for this. It's was literally a joke on tiktok a while back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:05 PM
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I love that this comment literally just proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:01 PM
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And again I'm asking you do you think women aren't mocked for what they've been through? Their standards changed because of what happened and this sub loves to still mock those women or get upset if they make different choices because of it. Like saying they'll choose the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:58 AM
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Because nuance and wording matter. Saying you wouldn't date a parent because you're child free probably isn't going to get you much push back. Saying single moms are nasty hoes is. The same things happens to women A woman saying she was to date a man with the same financial and career goals as her isn't going to get much push back. Saying she wants only a guy who makes six figures is. Can you understand how those statements would be taken differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:55 AM
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You don't think women are mocked when they talk about what they've been through? This sub consistently says it's a woman's fault if she ends up in a abusive relationship. Or when they have unrealistic standards? The whole 6 foot, 6 figures is literally a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:45 AM
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It really feels like red pills wants a set a rules that work no matter the who/what/where/and when. Like it's not just a lack of understanding reality from fiction but as if actually nuance of life is an entirely alien concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:39 AM
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If you can read body language well and take a no, then it's fine. The problem is men who can't do either or both of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:09 AM
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Legitimate question But what exactly do you expect out of blue pill here. Because frankly a lot of red pill retort (not all) doesn't actually function in reality. It's a lot like talking to a flat earther. There's only so much to say to someone who has such a disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:16 PM
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<Okay I'm done here, i already said it's illegal, Oh yes, that's certainly stop India from doing these horrible things or even reporting and prosecuting them. Sati was abolished in 1829 in India. When was the last time it happened there? Yet you were still burning women til the 1980s. The vast majority never brought to justice. But please tell me again how you all follow the law to keep women safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:37 PM
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You gave no sources. And nona country that still allow to legally rape their wifes will absolutely under report to those rapes. Women can't even walk down a street in India without the threat of it. Your police are notoriously corrupt, and will bury things for Rich people thanks to your caste system There's a reason women are literally warn not to come to your country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:21 PM
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India reports less rape and has a worse standard for rape. Raping your wife isn't considered rape there. And that's not even getting into the barrier victims face to even report
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:09 PM
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Yes having furniture makes you a child/s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:54 PM
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<women's childlike nature
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:45 PM
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Women are constantly told to take their safety into their own hands. And are blame when they are attacked. So what do you expect them to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:07 PM
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This is like saying having natural running ability is all it takes to reach the Olympics. Yes it will get you a step up but it won't get you as far if you don't have social skills Natural good looking men still don't do as well in the dating game if they don't have actually social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:32 AM
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It's large problem that the internet and America isolationist culture has contributed to. Especially for this younger gen. Socialization now requires you to actually put effort into even finding. It compounds the problem to a whole new level of bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:29 AM
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Honestly agree with this. It's really is one of those things that looks like you're supposed to be a natural at. But in actuality is extremely hard and takes a lot of skill, That you will have to develop as you go through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:58 AM
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<The behavior of other humans will train other humans Yes, everyone is changed by their environment. But the person you're replying to that wasn't what they said. The point is that you aren't the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:46 AM
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Almost like they want to be seen as people or something And not just a place for you to stick your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:33 AM
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Marrying someone from a different country doesn't make you a passport bro. Lots of people fall in love with someone from a different culture or go looking for love outside their own. Passport bros are a certain type of man who thinks women outside the western world are going to be more submissive and easier to control. They literally think their passport will give them more power in the relationship Also birth rates on down in pretty much every country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:43 PM
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I mean every relationship is different and even in the US about 1 in 5 women don't change their last names in marriage. If that's not something you want to do, then don't do it. Your future husband should understand or he's not the one for you. But at the end of the day a marriage is a contract that gives you legal rights that are important especially if you plan to build a life with that other person and have kids with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:09 PM
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Men are more likely to be older in the relationship. Older people make more money as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:35 PM
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The problem with this take is it starts with the idea that manosphere types are coming out with a honestly complaint. They want a bangmaid and just don't want to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:47 PM
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usually because those women are staying home with children so that husband has that ability to earn that money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:39 PM
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70% of firefighters in the US are volunteers. With an average age of over 50. In smaller communities, a majority of them are over 50 years old. So no the job isn't just taking physically Strong young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:00 PM
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Immortal? No Gross misunderstanding of why people get divorced? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:03 AM
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Also first marriages with a woman who has a bachelor's degree or higher is even lower
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:01 AM
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A lot of people who die go to the hospital first too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:57 PM
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I disagree. If you're not in touch with and understand your emotions then they rule you. Emotional control is just as important for men as it is for women. And part of emotion control is understanding and processing your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:54 PM
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There are many different types of therapy and they can be beneficial for anyone depending on the situation. A marital counselor, for example can be beneficial for a couple as a mediator or a safe space to talk about things that the couple may not be able to get to on their own. Also there are more differences between people in how they handle situations and their lives then between the sexes. So it's belittling to act as if both are completely different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:37 PM
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Dating sucks for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:11 PM
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Never experiment sexually with other men. Never fantasize about sexuality with other men. Man wait til you hear about the Greeks and the Romans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:19 PM
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So wait is your argument is that because a lot of people question their sexuality sometimes in their lives they therefore can't be straight? Lots of people question their religion sometimes in life. Therefore do Christians not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:41 PM
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So was having gay marriage legalised. And yet… Which we are technically still fighting for. Since there are a large number of states asking for it to be overturned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:46 AM
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Feminists couldn't even get every state to treat martial rape the same But you're blaming them for not getting something that is still popular with half the country? Why are feminists to blame for this in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:37 PM
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Was there a man side to banning FGM then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:33 PM
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Oh, women don't like it And? What does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:06 AM
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If sex is such a need, you all could just start having it with each other. Why do you need women for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:36 AM
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Those places won't make up for what we lose in terms of Agriculture area. The mass migration alone will kill millions even to actually set those areas up for that will take decades. And people still need every day til then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:24 PM
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I mean we are literally not seeing this will millennials in the trend. And you just told me that we should be having conservative babies. So they should be conservative from the start so which is it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:18 PM
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Because no one owns you their body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:14 PM
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There are literally multiple entire industries on women improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:14 PM
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Almost like older people make up a larger percentage of our population than before and vote more often. You are welcome to actually break down voting by generations. But each one leans more left than the older in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:31 PM
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and that's when left wing birth rates went more down compared to right wingers. That would be right before millennials were born. Are they more Conservative than boomers? Are Gen Z more conservative than Gen X?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:25 AM
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Replacement rate before modern medicine was 4-7 Having such a low replacement rate is a new thing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:32 PM
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Why do people give birth? Or do you think it just magically happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:27 PM
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And yet the younger gen is more liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:26 PM
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Financial incentives that help create more gender equality Both Japan and South Korea have a very large problem with gender equality in the work place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:25 PM
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Global warming is honestly going to bring it down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:32 PM
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Considering it's college education women are the ones mostly getting married, I'm not sure how these conservative women are that can afford or find a partner to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:31 PM
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But nobody except women can do it. I didn't realize women asexual reproduce and raised children completely alone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:27 PM
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The system has already been broken, which is why we're here. We are closer to technofeudalism now then liberal capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:25 PM
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Financial incentives that help create more gender equality have absolutely helped. Japan and South Korea would kill for Norway's fertility rate, even though they aren't at replacement yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:23 PM
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What's the correct amount of people in the world? Based on current food and water Under 10 billion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:21 PM
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Poor people have been pumping out kids for years. We actually don't see this much anymore in the first world. When we're talking about individual family incomes. Poorer countries have more children than richer countries But between families in those countries it's really not much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:20 PM
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Obligation: requirement to perform an action, duty, or task The implication of that is force.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:42 PM
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If the children are there, someone has to take care of them. In other words, if governments decide to pay women to give Who is going to take care of them? Who is going to pay to take care of them? You can't make future tax payers by making babies and dumping them on the street. Cause they will be too messed up to become those future tax payers. I would suggest you research Romania and decree 770. If you want an idea of how this would actually go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:39 PM
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How are you going to force these women to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:37 PM
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Believe it or not comparing the draft to rape camps isn't the winning argument you want it to be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:24 PM
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Every time this is brought up, I have to wonder if you have ever been around children. Pregnancy is just one step in raising a child. The next 18 years is 30x more expensive, time consuming etc. In other words Artificial wombs aren't going to do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:23 PM
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Manosphere influencers don't actually care. It's just another thing they think they can take out on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:21 PM
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You're putting the cart before the horse. Humans have always had periods where we have dropped below the replacement rate. Especially in times when society has gone to shit. We're below it now because times are economically hard for most people already and we won't get above it til it's better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:19 PM
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who else made this decision for her So then women should treat all men as if they are dangerous so nice it's their fault if they're hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:59 AM
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I mean it's almost like women are also blame when these things happen to them. So women are told not to be mistrustful of men but if one hurts you it's your fault. This sub consistently says it's women's fault when they end up with abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:29 AM
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OP doesn't know how statistics and surveys work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:19 PM
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Educated women, the women who are "out earning" men are the ones still getting married. 75-80% of women with a bachelor's degree or higher will get married It's uneducated women who aren't getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:33 AM
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How do you think change happens in a society? Feminism is just one way change does happiness society? it is a movement to help change for women in society, Yes But women also support other changes within a society, other support systems. Women are known to support welfare, social/ health support programs, workplace safety programs etc. things that also help men. People can be more than one thing. If you feel they are lacking then men should help bridge that Gap. Much like feminism help bridge th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:57 AM
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And yet women are more likely to marry lower educated men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:49 AM
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My man do you not know how much a nanny cost? Cuz let me tell you this surrogate is actually 30x cheaper than what a nanny 24/7 is going to cost you for 18 years. Daycare alone, 40 hours a week. Not counting when they're sick is more than most people's mortgages for young children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:10 AM
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Tell me you have never been around children without telling me you've never been around children. Pregnancy and childbirth are hard and dangerous. 18 years of raising them can be God damn excruciating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:10 PM
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Lol Every time this gets brought up. I have to wonder if any of you have ever been around children. Cuz it isn't just the having them that's the problem. It's also the raising of them for 18 plus years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:44 PM
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True but smoke rises before a fire. Does that mean we should all start believing flat Earth? Since it seems to becoming more popular What about taking horse dewormer? That one came real popular during covid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:49 PM
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Young men don't interact or go out with women? I mean we're literally finding this out to be true? In a large part of the red pills on here complain about how they can't find or meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:47 PM
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The US has not seen a draft in in over 50 years. And is not women keeping women out of the draft. ships don't use that old seafaring term, The most dangerous jobs in the US involved driving, and women are usually more four safety measures than men. women are more likely to be equal providers nowadays more than ever Everyone in some way is only valued for what they can produce in this capitalist society. child abuse is outlawed for a reason Men should push to expand their own gender roles if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:45 PM
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Says your link does not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:37 PM
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Why do people join cults instead of the Catholic church?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:35 PM
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So by this logic do we blame men for when they pick bad women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:21 PM
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Nah man. I'm enjoying this like talking to a flat earther. Still waiting for you to prove it. Any basic textbook Cool. Go get it then. Funny how you're trying to make this theory, but you can't find even a basic reference to it. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:37 PM
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I'm still waiting? What were the good old days? Come on now. Don't be shy Seems like you can't find them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:33 PM
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It's literally not. You still havent told me in any way how they're not connected though. You're the one who's told me there's a correlation. So you're welcome to explain me the conspiracy you got with it. I'm all ear and I'm honestly ready for a good laugh. But since you proposed that you were right, where's your proof? I'm supposed to prove that the theory you pulled out of your ass is somehow a negative? Is that what we're going with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:32 PM
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Nah man, just pointing out sometimes life does work at like it should
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:31 PM
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You said ask anyone's grandparents that life was better back when they were born So I'm asking you where was this life better? Since you apparently know So come on tell me I want to know how life was better during the Great depression, or world war II, or back when America was so poor. A lot of people didn't have electricity or running water and the majority of the South had hookworms. Come on now. Don't be shy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:30 PM
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Probably because that's not an economic theory. I would suggest actually taking a class on economics since you seem confused here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:26 PM
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Nah man, I'm not making an argument. I'm just pointing out the world's better off that you don't have a family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:24 PM
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society avoids holding women accountable Holding them accountable. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:24 PM
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Which part was better? The Great depression The Jim Crow? The point where which is about half of the South had worms? How about when a lot. A large part of America didn't have running water electricity? I'm sorry I can't take comments like this seriously because it tells me you live in a fantasy world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:23 PM
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Side stepping that fact that the majority of women have always worked What would you call it if about half your working age population was unemployed. Cause we called it a Great depression when it was only 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:21 PM
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If we're talking about an abusive relationship then it's the abuser's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:17 PM
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No I understand how capitalism literally works. People having kids doesn't keep away Walmart. And I'm a little worried on why you're confused on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:15 PM
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It ruined my chances of starting a family Honestly, if you think raping your wife's a good thing. Probably better off not starting a family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:06 PM
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I'm sorry you think we have Walmarts because people don't have kids? You understand we have Walmarts because of capitalism right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:05 PM
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What a gross thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:04 PM
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The current problems in dating can literally be explained by how capitalism and technology has eliminating places to meet other people and to work on social skills. It's got nothing to do with women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 09:04 PM
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Like he has a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:50 PM
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Because usually when men push back on marriage it's to take away all the advantages that women get in it, while keeping all the advantages that men get in it. A man won't want to get married but still expect his girlfriend to stay home with the kids or sacrifice her career for the kids. Even though this opens the woman up to even more financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:13 PM
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it’s usually men giving away half their assets This implies all assets acquired during the marriage are the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:09 PM
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if you hold them accountable for their choices? How are you holding them accountable and for what? The government involvement in morality rarely works well or usually at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:06 PM
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because it would include to critically look at womens agency and unliteral decisions within any form of relationships.. Implication here. We do talk properly about the topic. But talking properly about the topic is talking about it realistically. And realistically, you can't take people's agency away and expect good outcomes for those children. Listen. I do agree that we give birth parents way too much leeway. And all that has to do with the history of how we treated poor parents and children. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:47 PM
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People talk about children's upbringing all the time. It's just that we understand taking women's agency away would be making the family life extremely worse for the upbringing of a child, then a single household parent. Two parents households with parents who love are best. But a single parent household is better than a two-parent household where they hate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:35 AM
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How many times are single mothers blamed for deadbeat dads?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:13 PM
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It is completely natural for populations to expand and contract over time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:43 PM
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It is not normal for a population to grow indefinitely. Populations naturally contract and expand over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:39 PM
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Only a few top quality men are able to have the causal sex the way they want Have to say I always get a good chuckle out of this. As someone who knows lots of guys who do sleep around. The men who sleep around aren't top quality guys. They're just guys who know how to talk and meet women. Believe it or not, social skills go a very long way in this world That's it. That's all that's to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:37 PM
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Overpopulation will also collapse us into a dark age because this planet can't handle an unlimited amount of people, especially at first world living standards. Because those resources wars are going to happen regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:34 PM
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I think you're missing the point here. I'm not when I can literally find posts on here talking about how women don't deserve rights because men can't rape them anymore I'm not saying there's not good discussion here sometimes. Because there is. And I do enjoy those talks But let's not pretend that there's some really horrible shit said here too because there is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:25 AM
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this is what you said. now point me to where i mentioned Please point out what other male dominant subs have been recently banned. They were the last large group that were because of 'talking badly about women ' and by that I mean post rape guides. Which reddit came down on so hard, so of the sex kink sub got caught up in it So what other "victims" subs are there recently? and you're telling me i don't know what it is? Yes because pointing out that there are literally multiple male subreddits th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:07 AM
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No I'm saying you don't know what a straw man is. Pointing out that there are multiple subs that literally talk badly about women is not a straw man. reddit's rule 1 specifically protects 'marginalized and vulnerable' people. And yet, Reddit for allows men's subs that talk about women in negative ways to exists across multiple different subreddits. i don't have a victim complex If you're on here, crying that you're being prosecuted, when you're not being prosecuted. Because I can literally point…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:49 AM
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i think the same rules should apply to all people. Except they do apply to all people and subs on here. The subs with the worst things that break the rules get banned. Or subs that get caught in the crossfire. It's not a straw man to point out that there is no double standard. The gamergate subreddit is still around for goodness sakes. And that you have a victim complex because there are lots of examples of men talking badly about women on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:30 AM
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You're literally in a sub that talks badly about women. A majority of the men's subs talk badly about women. The men rights sub has a 50% of rape allegations are false posts up right now. The Indian men's right sub talks regularly about how you should be allowed to rape your wife. of what you see in some of these female subreddits have already been banned off the platform. The incel subs got banned for posting date rape guides. I really wouldn't use them as a victim if I were you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:33 PM
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You are literally in a sub where we say bigoted things about women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:30 PM
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Yes, cause there's not like a ton of men subs that talk badly about women or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:39 PM
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without fear of retaliation, censorship, or legal sanction.**" From the government. In case you were confused there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:44 PM
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If people being upset at you is silencing you. Then you being upset at others is also you silenceling them. Or does it only work when it happens to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:43 PM
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If a female athlete doesn't handle a loss "correctly". She's emotionally if she shows she's upset. Meanwhile male athletes getting upset over a loss is fine because they're passionate about their aport
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:12 PM
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You're going to get pushed back when talking negatively about an entire group of people. You're going to get even more push back when it's an extremely large, group of people that can't help being that. You're going to get even more push back when that group has been repeatedly discrimination against
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:09 PM
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I mean it's not the first time feminism split because of a difference in how people see sexuality. But at the end of the day I do think how bi men are seen has more to do with how men as a whole don't have an actual good faith movement trying to help men expand their own identities like feminism has done for women. Red pill doesn't want to help men. It's either pushing men into nihilism or trying to sell them things through influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:43 AM
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Perfectly manageable at a roughly replacement fertility rate Again who is taking care of these people and having these kids? Cause people literally can't do both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:20 AM
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Where did i claim anything about mandating everybody have four kids. Then how you expect these people to be taken care of when they get old? Or are we going with the good old fashioned opt-out solution? As it stands right now, what (if any) care do your parents require and who provides it? How much is funded directly from social security contributions? Try six of them all in their '70s who half of which who are or are going to be living solely on SS because they're blue collar boomers. Who think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:47 PM
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You don't have children do you? I have actual four children. Let me tell you even the 12-year-old is still tiring and still takes up a great deal of time. There's no way I could add four extra elderly parents on top of my four children. Also, if you want these couples to have those four children you need them to at least have 8 years in between to have those children because it takes time. And that's assuming they can handle that kind of load. This sounds like a dream. Is someone who's never dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:55 PM
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Voting to let violent folks Versus voting for the violent folks at home
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:52 PM
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Voting for unsustainable policies Yes, much better to vote for endless war
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:49 PM
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Hun school is only 8 hours a day. Believe me still a lot to do even with kids in school This is assuming that no other family exists… Considering the birth rate is 1. Something this is all the family a lot of people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:42 PM
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They're literally not. Women with higher education are more likely to get married. And they're not that far behind on whether they have children or not. shows that these marriage patterns for college-educated women have remained remarkably stable The stable marriage outcomes for college-educated women sharply contrast with the significant decline in marriage rates among women without a BA Are educated women less likely to get married? - American Institute for Boys and Men https://share.google/Z5…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:12 PM
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shows that these marriage patterns for college-educated women have remained remarkably stable The stable marriage outcomes for college-educated women sharply contrast with the significant decline in marriage rates among women without a BA Are educated women less likely to get married? - American Institute for Boys and Men https://share.google/Z5z7LYwRSQXcJx21v Rates for childlessness is only a difference of 10% for a woman without a high school diploma and a woman with a master's degree https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:11 PM
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You understand you have to raise those children right. And you would have to raise those children while taking care of those parents. So now instead of having four mouths, I.e kids to take care of. You want the household to have six to eight more mouths to feed?. Four kids and four elderly parents. Do you understand how that math wouldn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:55 PM
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he longer women wait to get married and have kids, the less likely it is to happen Considering women with more education are more likely to be married, I find this highly unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:52 PM
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Social security is already set to go bankrupt Removing the cap and raising the withdrawal percentage 1-2% would stop this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:50 PM
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This would mean that those people of child bearing years would be too busy taking care of their parents to have children of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:49 PM
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Why do people fail at anything in life? Sometimes life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:23 PM
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Blue pill exist more so in the idea of treating women as people that's it. They're just people, good and bad. Not as some type of reward system. It in fact it points out you can't feed coins into women to be rewarded with sex. So if anything it's against the idea of just world thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:46 PM
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And those men also had help? Or are you confused on what happens in war
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:13 PM
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but even then on average it is a lot more likely for that to happen for a man than it is for a woman. Is actually more likely for a woman to marry below her education class than a man nowadays. Just look at the absolute high amounts of men who work for the government, Military, and Law enforcement. Law enforcement military not good paying careers, at least not in the US. And government has more to do with conservative women. Don't run. Going by the fact that Democrats are almost 50/50 in women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:54 PM
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You are talking about social pressure then not legal discrimination. Do you not understand the difference between those two things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:53 PM
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Any women have won battles too. You said that didn't matter tho. So why should it for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:51 PM
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Yes and people marry within their income class. Those high earner men aren't marrying high School dropout women. Those high earners are marrying other high earners. Maybe not making as much as them sometimes, but there's lots of different factors that play into that, not just the pay Gap. Pay Gap deals with the differences between men and women within their career field.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:46 AM
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So you don't understand what that says then? It doesn't affect them. It's only 3% of people who went for alimony were men. Whether you go for alimony or not is elective. You don't have to try for it during the divorce or offer it. They aren't affected by it in the sense that it's done to them. Alimony is negotiated during divorce proceeding. Even for women, it's less than 10% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:44 AM
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Do you not understand what the word sole means? Because you keep using it but the vast majority of households are not single income so that's not a thing. The vast majority of households need to incomes to survive and to stay within the income class. And are closer to equal income. Women are more likely to be educated and are now starting to be the more likely better employed because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:49 PM
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Women talking about the pay gap means they're not working? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:46 PM
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Yes those men take it. Just because men don't use it as much doesn't mean the law isn't gender neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:45 PM
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Specific spousal support laws Are gender neutral and protect the lower earner. Men have also benefited from these laws as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:59 PM
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women can usually afford to date men who are the primary to sole providers but they literally can't and they don't. Especially since women are now more educated than men. Women literally are more likely to date below their level of education
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:54 PM
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All the women you mentioned were all defeated By this logic men are also too weak for war since they get defeated and killed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:52 PM
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What does behave like women even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:48 PM
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But you do have to understand that as you go up in class level, Where are you? You go up in class/income in the US. Both people are more educated therefore working. In fact, women who are educated are much more likely to be married than non-medicated women in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:02 PM
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And when your wife tells you to plan a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 09:00 PM
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sole Neither is the man, or are you confused on what this word means Primary provider Most aren't this nowadays nor were they in times passed since you needed everyone working to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:07 PM
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Tale is well above average in what? Felonies? Arrest warrants? Also wasn't there just a documentary showing how these men don't actually believe this stuff? They're just trying to get money out of desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:50 PM
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The vast majority of people live in two income households where you think they do with all that money? Have you never done a budget?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:48 PM
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So your wife doing all the meal planning, cooking and scheduling. That's leadership too then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:47 PM
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Are the women asking out men on dates Isn't literally just what Bumble is? Are the women paying for wedding rings and weddings and the houses they’re spouses will live in Yes, The vast majority of couples are two income households
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:45 PM
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The lack of female politicians tends to be from the more Conservative side. 44% of the US House Dems are women in 2025. The Senate is lower at 35% but the change over is less so less chance for new meat. Obviously arguing about any large group as a singular is never going to work. So why yes, Conservative women do like the patriarchy. More liberal women have been fighting against it for hundreds of years at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:40 PM
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They get to be provided for financially and physically Women have always contributed to the household. So they are also providing those things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:31 PM
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This feels very much like video games are making people violent retort. Fantasy is fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:20 AM
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Men used jerk off the underwear section in a Sears catalog. Should we start blaming those women? Who gets to decide what is sexual and what's not? Cause if you don't think there is going to be large differences between different people, you're not thinking this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:16 AM
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never experienced sexual validation, How exactly do you think his mother is helping him with that? My point is that doing "well" is relative It's not, we can literally measure what well is when we're talking about child development. And by all measurements what your parents make plays a part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:13 PM
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Pretty much everything: Test scores, if they'll pursue higher education, not become teen parents, better cognitive development, better behavior development. Better health outs come.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:04 PM
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Something can be an aspiration and still requires sacrifice. People aspire to be all sorts of things and they're still sacrificing to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:49 PM
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Having One parent stay home is a risk for the household, yes. But so is having kids altogether. It's one of those decisions that a couple needs to weigh the pros and cons of before making a decision on. And what's good for one couple may not be good for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:47 PM
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The best indicator on how well a child will do in adulthood is how much their parents make. And working parents spend more time with their children today than stay at home parents did 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:40 PM
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Would not used ask gay bros as the standard for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:17 PM
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Everything is a pillar of today's capitalism because capitalism absorbs everything it touches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:49 PM
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Was there a point to this word salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:44 PM
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Just for the series has more F/F pairings 25k to 20k And the top two are also tie which are a m/m and a f/f It's also a little harder when it's a video game adaptation. Since you get overlapping fandoms and different main characters in those adaptations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:18 PM
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Yeah I don't care what the genders are if the story is good I'm watching
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:32 PM
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Love that show
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:27 PM
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Fanfic. Net and live journal walked so ao3 could run. If you like fanfiction, I highly recommend it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:23 PM
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It's majority m/m because tv and movies are have more main male characters than female characters especially older media
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:19 PM
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Cough supernatural cough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:13 PM
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Sidestepping the ew of comparing women to objects Lots of people still post pictures of their cars on Facebook when they're not selling them. They still take care of their cars, wash ,wax etc and keep them in new buy-like conditions. Because they love their cars and are proud of them. Have you never known a gearhead?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:27 PM
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Of which claim? Why do you think Social security became a thing in the first place? Or Medicare Approximately 70% of the 65+ will need long term care before they die. Which runs 4 to 5 figures a month alone. Not to mention other services. https://share.google/EgbeeLffvtE7ws5W8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:07 PM
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Individual men have the choice to not date certain women Does having a choice in dating give people rights of the state?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:58 PM
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Sorry. The primary caregiver. I'll edit it. It’s not as if past generations who didn’t live as long were dying on their last dollar I mean they literally were, or they were burdens to their family. And that's before you added major medical day that we have nowadays. Nowadays, you should expect to have 10 years of major medical expenses at the end of your life at least. This isn't even getting into that after 60 your odds of being severely disabled severely increased every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:45 PM
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This doesn't even make sense Women are the government? Or women are society? Explain to me how all women have government-like authority over all men. absolve the criminal justice system of the responsibility to stop them. Then you're talking about societal issues. As a whole here Like did you even think this through before posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:41 PM
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Expected to be the primary caregiver Why is this a negative? Because we're all expected to fund 20-30 of retirement now. Way harder to do when you have to take care of kids first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:34 PM
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Listen I have children so I don't honestly agree with OP. But your list is not based on any kind of reality. Children cost a lot of money and they do not owe you anything in return later in life. Children are not built in retirement plans and you shouldn't have them if you think this. Also number 9 is hilarious because it tell me you don't understand what happens post partum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:32 PM
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Comments like this are so funny to me. Because it literally implies that all men have no agency or that they're incapable of taking responsibility for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:23 PM
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It was usually the opposite actually. Not always obviously because humanity has been around a long time and there's been millions of different cultures throughout history. That's why social structures are more likely to be patriarchal. Because men were more likely to stay. In fact, in some mammals, this is usually how you can tell what the social structure will be by gender on which leaves and which stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:10 PM
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Why do all these things always start with really bad understandings of basic history? I hate to break it to you but both men and women were kind of screwed without the group. No one was surviving for long without everyone else, regardless of gender. And it's kind of weird that you don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:45 PM
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That's you trying to generate social proof. " I mean you can literally just go pull any study about him. I believe it's somewhere about only 20% of young men like He is not convicted Because there's so many charges between so many countries, they're literally fighting it out over who gets him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:44 PM
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https://share.google/RToDTLaGoDy7wh7j1 Flipped about 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:44 AM
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Women are more likely to marry down educational wise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:22 AM
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So if there's a woman you wouldn't date you would literally think she wasn't worth anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:21 AM
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support a nurse wife whose income potential is only 50K. Where are you at? Because the average is 90k in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:20 AM
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I mean going from this sub I would say red pill is mostly teens and divorce men. But when it comes to the over all genders wars I would somewhat agree. As white collar middle class, I have certainly told both my own daughters not to date blue collar men. Since they usually carry less of their weight in a relationship or marriage. And I'm certainly hammering home that a college education is necessary for raising a family for all my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:27 AM
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This is like wondering why there are contradictions between different forms of Christianity. It's an umbrella term. Results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:27 PM
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For women this would actually be a sign of a bad hair stylist if the wait was only 3 weeks Unless cancelling or something of that nature
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:27 PM
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I'm sorry you think having to wait only 3 weeks for a hair stylist is a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:18 PM
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Women are human so we should go back to being able to rape our wives/s jfc it's like you all don't even read before you post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:23 PM
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Facebook was literally invented for guys to rate their female classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:08 PM
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30% of OnlyFans’ top 1% earners are male creators
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:26 AM
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Per your article: median earnings from $150 to $210 per month, and nearly half earn under $100.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:06 AM
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This is like saying no one could be jobless because they could become an influencer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:03 AM
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It will never not be entertaining how much the man v bear question upsets ya all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:25 PM
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This would require OP to understand nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:12 PM
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The irony of the red pills talking about not all men but demanding women on this sub speak for all women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:57 AM
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You require mods consent to post. But your post has been removed so. I guess we're done
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:48 PM
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Yep, me too. Looks like mods took care of it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:13 PM
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So I'm guessing you didn't read the rules before posting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:10 PM
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You made a debate post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:59 PM
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How are you burdened with every woman's safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:54 PM
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Because shockingly the religious like pedophiles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:09 PM
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Trump for all his fault was better than Kamala Can't take this comment seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:08 PM
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How would there be a wealth disparity between someone you are legally married to? You co-own all assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:31 PM
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I've dated/courted women from the most conservative cultures Isn't that an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:29 PM
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Don't men become red pulled because they can't get any type of woman. It is dating advice, usually, at the core.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:26 PM
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wealth disparity between you two Between who
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:24 PM
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Honestly hope the good people find each other period in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:14 PM
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Break up the online dating Monopoly and require online dating to actually work like it's supposed to. ie: help people connect to each other instead of getting money out of desperate men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:47 PM
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I find this funny since we literally try not to draft family men either during world war II
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:39 PM
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You do know there's active war zones there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:38 PM
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There were only about 6 million refugees from Ukraine. Out of the population of 45 million. Out of that over a third were children and another 20% were over 60. Out of the adult population between 18 and 60 about 70% were women. So around 2 million women fled. And most refugees fled because to find work or safety issues or taking those children and elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:37 PM
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I get that this is the current bot/alt right rage talking points But it's got nothing to do with red/blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:22 PM
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Except for the women who can't afford that Or the ones in emergency situations Or the ones who have a miscarriage and find themselves under investigation? can men have an abortion where women can't? Do men get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:51 PM
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Except for large parts of the US. Fuck those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:31 PM
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Marriage is a legal contract that gives you legal protection and benefits, that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:28 PM
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Basic healthcare decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:26 PM
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I mean you can care about more than one group. And there are men and women who do. I'm pointed specifically to the men on this sub who whine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:24 PM
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It's so funny how men on this sub consistently say that women aren't own their help but then cry that a movement that was specifically about equality for women doesn't help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:00 PM
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1.The vast majority of men will never and can't be drafted It's not the left that pushes women out of the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:56 PM
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Yes sometimes people put more emotional weight behind the initial event than the work that comes after it. That's not something unique to one's sex. I'm confused why you think that's a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:25 PM
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Divorce rate peaked in the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:21 PM
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Everyone gets to claim unilateral decisions over their body period. Especially when involved their healthcare decisions. Once there is a child both parents are responsible for it. You don't get a say over someone else's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:04 AM
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Yes this is also true of the woman. Both parents have to agree to adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:01 AM
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When the baby is born, the man's BODY is forced to produce money So is the woman's
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:59 PM
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What part of the body are they getting a say over? Unless you think a fetus is owned by the man? Or perhaps a woman's uterus?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:10 PM
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In the case of marriage, the wife doesn't do anything. the state will legally assign paternity to the husband. Other than that for child support you do not need to acknowledge Birth certificates are legal document first off. So fathers have to sign it outside of marriage. Outside of that you have to sue for paternity before child support could even start They don't lock you up before that. Maybe stop fear mongering
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:09 PM
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If a woman just decides to pit your name on a certificate and you Yeah that's not how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:59 PM
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Which is why you have parental rights. Did you forget that part?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:53 PM
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Because you don't get a say over someone else's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:48 PM
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You could literally make this argument about taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:44 PM
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So can the man technically. Both parents have equal rights to a child once it's here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:43 PM
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Sigh Abortion is about healthcare Once there is a kid here both parents are responsible for it. Including financially. While yes, I think parental rights should be easier to get rid of, on both sides. It is nowhere close to a healthcare procedure that's currently denied to people, denying people their body autonomy and putting their health and lives at risk. They are not the same And you cheapen the argument by trying to compare it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:41 PM
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There has been degradation in every metric as soon as they switched the mode sampling. From in person/ mail in etc to online. This is talked about extensively in statistical corners of the internet. Changing how you sample, changes your demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:51 PM
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You think women walk up to doors and wait there til their boyfriends open them for them? Where is this line of women at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:07 PM
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I've definitely seen women stand there and wait for a man to open a door for them You've seen women randomly on street wait for a random man to come and open the door for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:30 PM
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Again it's expected from everyone. Have you never seen a woman hold a door open for someone or be polite? Like do you not interact with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:42 PM
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Think that's called just being poorly raised and poorly mannered
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:28 PM
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Because it's a basic expectation of everyone. I don't understand how you're confused about this. These are three very simple things to do in polite society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:27 PM
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So if your girlfriend cooks for you sometimes because she wants to treat you, is that her being sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:35 PM
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I’ve been through a lot of relationships. This kind of crazy makes me wonder what type of men you have been chasing. Nothing like projection. Sounds like you're not a catch most women want then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:18 PM
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So you don't open doors for people, help people, or just be polite to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:50 PM
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Nah, hun been married longer than you've been a red pill. But if you can handle a woman talking to you in a normal tone a voice that's just sad and a little disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:50 PM
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If your partner has to walk on egg shells around you all the time then you don't have a healthy relationship to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:02 PM
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but they definitely do prefer men who are masculine, dominant, confident, None of these things are sexist. And it's weird that you think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:47 PM
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Like opening doors, helping women, being polite So having basic manners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:43 PM
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If you have to grovel to someone to have your voice be heard then you're not a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:38 AM
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Just enough to make it the most popular porn category in a large number of states
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:40 PM
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Because you seem to be having trouble understanding the concept
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:45 PM
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Great then we agreed men fetishize women on women action.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:44 PM
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It's not luck to be viewed as an object. The whole point of dating is to find a person you're compatible with personality wise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:34 PM
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A monosexual not wanting to date a bisexual is biphobia. You're more than welcome to look up the definition of that word. If it's confusing you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:49 PM
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Oh I did. How else should I take You gave a bunch of unsubstantiated claims again. That isnt proof of anything bud. In reply to talking about porn fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:48 PM
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You'd never met a gold star lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:21 PM
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Do you want me to give you a couple thousand of my favorite mlm fanfics? I mean if you got some good rec sure, why not? Tho wait til you hear about the romance industry in general, and that's way bigger than even ao3 and heavily m/f. But I digress. However, if you don't think porn fetish exists on the male end, then it doesn't exist on the female end either. So I guess all that fan fiction doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:20 PM
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Except when there's a more narrow definition. If your aversion is because the person is a bi-sexual when you are a monosexual then it is biphobia. Just as if you had aversion to trans people, would be transphobia not homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:12 PM
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I mean there's also gay men and women who also won't date bi people for this exact same reason? Are they homophobic? Or are you saying only gay people can be biphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:03 PM
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I mean I literally talked about it. But again that would require you to read and have an understanding of the English language
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:01 PM
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It's not, we're talking about people being unwilling to date bi people because they're bi
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:00 PM
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Sure hunny. That's why you're on here replying before you read the actual comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:58 PM
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You said: Or you are just wrong and women have homophonic tendencies when dating bi men. To my comment: in comparison bi men are gay men who haven't come out yet. Since you seem to have trouble understanding this thread. That sentence does say that women have biphobia. It's just a different type of biphobia. You seem awfully angry about a subject. Tho you also seem to know nothing about it. I would suggest doing some actual research about this topic. And in terms of fetishizing lesbian/bi women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:54 PM
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I should also point out that biphobia is technically not homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:42 PM
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Good for you. And I date bi people. And simple talking in general. Not about you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:39 PM
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So like did you not read my comment before you replied? Because I literally said: bi men are gay men who haven't come out yet. Or is English not your first language. Because that is a type a phonia. Tho it is a biphobia. Cuz your fetish argumentsure as fuck didnt last 2 seconds. Again did you not read my comment? If you can't follow the conversation perhaps you shouldn't reply
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:33 PM
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I didn't say they didn't. But we're talking about in the context of dating bi men. And not about people's fantasy choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:13 PM
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That's because men fetishize bi and lesbian women. Bi women are seen as straight women with a sex kink, in comparison bi men are gay men who haven't come out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:35 PM
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That's because men fetishize bi women. Bi women are seen as straight women with a sex kink, in comparison bi men are gay men who haven't come out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:33 PM
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Considering women are less likely to be homophobic than men it's not Heterosexual Attitudes towards Same-Sex Marriage - PMC https://share.google/HUHyjXj2yK7uDlESy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:00 PM
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So I guess gynocentic is the new buzz pushed in alt right circles right now. Cause that's the only explanation on why you all started using it in the last week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:55 PM
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I honestly disagree People are conservative because it's easy. It's an easy system that puts people into very narrow categories that you don't have to think about. It allows for people to never have to think about the greater meaning of sociality or gender or the roles we take. It tells people they are something because the authority in your life said it's so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:09 PM
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"Your flair says you're red-purple or do you not know what color magenta is" Do you not read comments before replying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:37 PM
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Sign, English isn't your language then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:32 AM
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Yes honey according to you people shouldn't drive or date cause it's dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:31 AM
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So by your logic people shouldn't drive since it kills and wounds millions a year right? It's dangerous afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:28 PM
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Your flair says you're red-purple or do you not know what color magenta is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:31 PM
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Anything can be dangerous by that definition then. Should I call driving to the store dangerous because it could end in a car accident
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:28 PM
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Oh Hun. Just because you're here doesn't mean other men are. Most men are out there just living their lives. And yes they do have romance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:26 PM
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It's almost like words have meaning. Yeah moving too fast can ruin a relationship. That's not dangerous that's just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:41 PM
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but as Warren put it “every dollar is a new (unbudgeted) dollar”. I love Warren but this is the dumbest thing I have ever read. It's not unbudgeted it's literally trying to fill the budget gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:27 AM
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Math is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:24 AM
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Oh cause red pills aren't worth the time. redpill is just as reductive and generalising Which is funny coming from a red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:19 AM
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Nah man still waiting for a halfway answer that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:17 AM
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Maybe you just shouldn't date women then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:18 AM
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they had money for their religious festivities So do most poor people usually saved for times of need. Barley I'm sure and what was needed was less With the same scientific advancements they would still be in a far better situation. Yes and it would cost more. Or do you think shit is free?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:17 AM
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Oh Hun still mad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:49 AM
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I hate to break it to you but your grandparents were also living paycheck to paycheck back then too and with way less then what you are used to now. Their way of living would most likely be considered below poverty level by today's standards. Even if by some chance your grandma did stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:49 AM
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People need money to survive. I don't understand why that's a hard idea for people on this sub to get. Stay at home are way too vulnerable to any type of emergency, not just divorce, that life may throw at them. Even if it was possible to survive on one income. The majority of people live paycheck to paycheck and wouldn't be able to do anything close to what you're proposing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:38 AM
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Hun if you can't remember why you're here maybe you should go back and read
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:06 AM
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that is controversial to And yet it's still happening, women are still dying You also realise this has nothing to do with rape now Going to guess you haven't had sex Ed yet then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:06 AM
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Oh are you upset
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:05 AM
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Patriarchy affects both genders badly and it's literally pointed out by feminism repeatedly. to either broad brush all men Oh you mean like what red pill does with women and men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:04 AM
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Ah still here hun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:43 PM
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Plenty of men receive romance, just like plenty of men are in relationships. Just because you have neither doesn't mean they don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:42 PM
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My man you're the one on a sub about red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:21 PM
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One of the cold/ sad truths of life is that sometimes your best isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:21 PM
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I didn't say it did. Patriarchy is a system that hurts both sexes. Sadly you care more about it being a us vs them scenario then actual dealing with societal problems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:06 PM
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Hun that was your example
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:04 PM
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Nothing too much to be upset about systematically... Yeah you know if you ignore the woman currently dying from denial of basic healthcare in the US. Sure nothing systematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:04 PM
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I mean I'm not that one crying about no one will fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:03 PM
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You do know that you literally tag yourself right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:02 PM
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Man you're the one crying on reddit that women don't want you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:23 AM
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benevolent patriarchy and sexim which benefit women Funny how those things only exist to you if women are getting something from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:23 AM
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? I'm sorry I don't want to demean entire groups of people based on their sexual orientation or their sex in general. But I guess that's one of the differences between red pills and normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:15 AM
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Nah I just called out the bs on this sub Most of the red pills on here have no life experience that's why they're red pills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:13 AM
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Nah you're below them already
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:11 AM
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What extra rights? You not being able to rape your wife or entitled to what she puts into a marriage isn't extra rights Sorry to burst your bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:11 AM
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it was an example And literally a bad one. Unless that's the point Maybe you should think before you post unless you believe a man is entitled to a woman's work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:09 AM
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My man you literally implied women had nothing to be upset about. Like sex abusers. But I guess if you agree with those types of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:08 AM
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Not true at all lol I actually do pretty well with women Sure Jan. That's why you're on here crying about lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:07 AM
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Yes humans make emotional decisions, Jan. That's part of life dating and breaking up are also a part of life. That's not dangerous since there's not much long term consequences to it. Not bad ones. It's like some of you have no real life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:05 AM
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taking away what we worked hard for" Nothing like implying you own women. Since everything they contribute to the marriage is somehow yours as well. Sounds like you're in that same group that doesn't see women as people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:52 AM
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Oh they are. You guys just suck so much at it you can't even get the ones with horrible self esteem. That's why you're here after all. Cause women won't touch you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:49 AM
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I love how it went from women started it to being upset about people calling out sex abusers. But yeah tell me again how you're a boy scout but also don't think rapists should be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:48 AM
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I am queer. r/ As a black man So am I And I'll call bs on this all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:41 PM
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The fact that you don't seem to understand what traditional roles are or how they play out is telling. Why are you in a thread about queer people when you know nothing about us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:40 PM
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And you're shocked that people don't care that no one wants to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:38 PM
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Is men getting murdered or forced into predatory back breaking work opression? I'm sorry you don't think that also happens to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:37 PM
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You need three things in dating your shit together good looks a good personality The combination of these three is what determines what you'll pull. In other words a ugly guy with his shit together with a good personality can pull a good looking gal with either her shit together or good personality. This is also a sliding scale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:50 PM
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Bottom/top is about sex, not relationship roles. And people don't act like that translate to their roles in a relationship? I understand that the red pills are very behind socially but yes believe it or not people do infer that this translates to roles in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:43 PM
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There is obviously less pressure to fit roles in gay relationships. Tell me you've never talked to a gay person without telling me you never talked to a gay person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:40 PM
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it's arguably women that started this war Yes by demanding men stop raping them and give them basic rights/s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:38 PM
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Both people give and want romance. Your own comments literally show that. Since even you don't want a transaction relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:09 PM
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And yet you all keep crying about women not wanting to fuck y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:07 PM
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No women were also swept up in these types of laws. Plenty of places jailed women as well for being lesbians Not everywhere was like the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:56 PM
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Britain never had a single woman sentenced to prison strictly for homosexuality. It's almost like Britain isn't the entire world or something. Much of Europe criminalized lesbianism along with gay men. Austria still had women in jail for it when the Nazis invaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:47 PM
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Yeah, like I don't want to bring in problems gay men face into this fight because it's so gross But I'm not shocked that red pills don't understand this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:34 PM
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Yes, both gay men and women were tortured for being homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:31 PM
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I'm actually not upset at all. Man you're on reddit ranting about lesbian relationships. But no you don't have to adhere to traditional values No one has to adhere to traditional values, but society always puts pressure on everyone regardless of sexual orientation. How do you not understand that? Those people would rather you not exist in the first place Yes, and if they couldn't get their first choice they sure as hell are going to fit you into whichever squared they think that we should be in.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:30 PM
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Lesbianism was considered a crime throughout history. It was usually file under unnatural acts What are you taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:27 PM
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And yes there's no outside pressure to be forced into traditional binary roles Yes cause people don't ask men who bottoms or tops? Or women which one is the man in the relationship? To even say this tells me you actually have no experience with the community. the average standard of what is a successful relations What is the average successful relations? Because this sub constantly says it's to have someone to have a relationship with. So yes by all intents it looks like they are doing pretty we…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:16 PM
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hanging out with female friends Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:08 PM
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Yes it's not like gay women were corrective rape or "treated" for their mental illness as well or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:08 PM
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-"U-Haul lesbian" is a term lesbians coined themselves to describe moving in dangerously fast This term is just about how women move in faster with each other. How exactly is that dangerous? -no "traditional roles" to default to Lol, that you don't think gay relationships aren't pressured into traditional binary roles. They're the most stable of any group. The logic doesn't survive contact with that fact. They are the group less likely to be in long term relationships. That's it. This is simple …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:03 PM
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Most people are looking for a relationship regardless of sex. Maybe you should stay off the internet if you can't tell the difference between reality and online
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:56 PM
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I mean maybe you should be looking for someone who wants to actually be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:56 PM
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Questions like this make me wonder if you all have ever even talked to women in real life. Like you don't think women are nervous during dates? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:56 PM
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Behavior is communication. You don't communicate anything when you're angry and belligerent Except that you're angry and belligerent. Communication doesn't always end with satisfactory results. In fact I'll argue most times it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:15 PM
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Emotional expression is a type of communication, just like body language is a type of communication. I certainly agree it's a poorly used/ understood one. But it is a type of one, hence why expression is in its name. And yeah no gender has the market corner of good communication practices. The stuff takes years, practice and honesty health environments for anyone to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:43 PM
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You're here defending it, just like I'm supposed to be defending every woman in existence apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:27 PM
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Other than this sub. Just a post the other day on how women shouldn't be able to vote cause men have to sign up for the draft. And if that's not a perfect example of a bad faith argument For men's social justice, I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:40 PM
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Oh I'll put money on it's more "I want women to suffer for my perceived Injustice' then actual care about problems men face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:36 PM
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Yes, if we don't define domestic abuse I guess you can make any claim possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:08 PM
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These types of posts always come off as 'women would date me if they were just more desperate' If you think someone is too entitled to date don't date them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:19 PM
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Pointing social injustice man face? Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:07 PM
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So you're confused on what people mean when we talk about patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:06 PM
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Women are just as abusive as men" I mean we literally know this isn't true just from DV death rates and hospitalize. Why do you have to make things up to excuse and avoid criticism? Especially criticism that is not directed at you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:04 PM
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I gave a lot of examples Most of our examples were things that are genuine sexist so I'm confused on how pointing that out is excusing it. But if you like, go to r/AskFeminists And if I go to the men sub I can get some horrible answers for things there too. Why does you reflect an entire gender in your mind but not the other? The majority of answers seem to be pointing out the problems with your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:01 PM
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Pointing out biases and how they formed our societies and hierarchies. Isn't making excuses to avoid criticism. And I'm kinda confused on what criticism you think feminism is excusing by doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:35 AM
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What real answer makes women look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:32 AM
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Hun, you're the one here who doesn't seem to understand how legal definitions work. I recommend taking a basic law class when you get to high school. Or an English one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:48 PM
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A legal term is a term specific to the legal system Yes it is defined by the legal system like domestic violence is. That's how they prosecute it. Because you can't prosecute something without defining it. I hope that helps since you're confused about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:09 PM
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Ah, did I hurt your feelings. Is that why you're name calling now? used in the legal system doesn't make them legal term What do you think the legal system is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:39 PM
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Domestic violence" isn't a legal term. Office on Violence Against Women (OVW) | Domestic Violence https://share.google/E4qrWjolhyaUPn58z Since you're confused I would start here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:58 PM
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So then the man is entitled to her labor? And all the long term benefits he received from them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:57 PM
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I love how people literally call out how you misstated facts but this is the one comment you replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:24 AM
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They are entitled to a fair exchange of services and overall household responsibilitie But that's not happening if the woman is bearing more of the child care and household duties. To the point it's hurting their career Which is where we're talking about why a woman has the right to compensation for her contributions in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:16 AM
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Why is any woman entitled to a man's money? Why is any man entitled to a woman's labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:13 AM
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It's men who have a different definition of what a relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:11 AM
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That study has been literally debunked dozens of times here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:09 AM
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Honestly the red pills in the sub. Because it's 90% middle age bitter divorcees Or teenagers who haven't left their parents basements
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:07 AM
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I will add to this every time I've seen a man go down the manosphere rabbit he has ruined whatever love life he had. Knew two guys who picked this stuff up in their 30s, wives couldn't handle it for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:03 AM
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. I mean one can make an argument that when a man gets inside of a relationship he technically makes less for himself because now he's sharing it between a partner Then you can say the exact same thing for a woman since she too is sharing between a partner. She gives up access to make her This implies that any work she put into the house is entitled to the man why? Why is a man entitled to a woman labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:52 AM
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Honestly sounds like people just discovered another weird niche in the internet world. also people falling for get rich quick schemes no matter their gender isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:15 AM
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Sounds like a pretty simple supply/demand issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:14 AM
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Child Care is only a service if you're doing it for someone else's child And when men aren't doing this for their children? They are fulfilling an obligation. So then they are paying for the labor the other parent is performing They earn life needs and comforts Which was the man making more. So how is it not also the wife's money? when she also helped earn it by fulfilling that obligation for her husband so he could make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:11 AM
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So is childcare not a service or is a man entitled to his wife's labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:51 PM
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Sorry hit reply to the wrong one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:51 PM
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So is childcare not a service or is a man entitled to his wife's labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:46 PM
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I mean I'm not the one who seems to have trouble with legal terms so. And you also seem to have trouble understanding what country is America so going to go with no English isn't your first language Legal abortion is right up to the point of viability Come on now you're so close, just follow that a little further now and maybe you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:29 PM
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And he still got things too from the sacrifices she made
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:27 PM
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It's fixed by men stepping up more so women can work more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:27 PM
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I mean it's literally a wage issue. Because women make less because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:24 PM
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I'm not sure why she should get more money You mean other than the fact that she sacrificed her earning potential so he could get earn more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:23 PM
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And how do you fix that? In terms of the mommy tax. Have men step up more. And do more of the child responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:22 PM
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There’s no such thing as “ugly women.” Then you wouldn't have made a distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:12 PM
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Is English not your first language? Or do you not understand what "reasonable force" means and legal terminology in that paragraph? This is one of those words. Can't mean new things just because you're upset about it, type situations. Also the same with abortion. Just cuz you don't like abortion, don't make it murder. A fetus isn't a person. Late term abortion is still under viability so it is not a baby. I'm sorry to burst your bubble on that. I would suggest actually looking up these things be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:44 PM
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I'm more so talking about how 60% of young men are single compared to 30% of women Mean this has literally been debunked. And has more to do about men and women differ on when they consider themselves in relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:19 AM
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We need a day where all these crazy unhinged posts are allowed to stay. Like once a month or something We'll call it delusional day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:12 AM
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It's honestly hysterical and kinda sad the reality these people live in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 02:07 AM
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Joining hobbies and expanding your social circle also helps you work on your social skills. Which is a very necessary part of seeing good returns in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:47 PM
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"DV" is legal in the west. It's literally not. And once again abortion isn't murder. Yawn. Let me know when you get some actual facts. Til then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:34 PM
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The cycle of power and abuse. Mostly the world hurts poor men but they get to have control over poor women that are forced to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:44 PM
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I mean if this was true women wouldn't want equal relationships in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:41 PM
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They literally control how many swipes a day you get and who sees your profile
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:40 AM
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Just because the house always wins at the casino doesn't mean some people don't walk out with extra money in their pocket. I mean as someone old enough to remember how they work in the beginning, yeah they're broken. But just like any scam, some people still can come out on top. Especially if you know how to play. The problem is lots of people don't, they get hurt and they get upset
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:01 AM
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No, Yes, DV is legal in Russia, perhaps you should look things up before posting. No, I mean men killed by both men and women. The majority of murders period are committed by men. Why don't men care about me being murdered? Why aren't you doing anything about that? That's just "late term" "abortions". Ie illegal deaths Yeah, late term isn't that, and late term abortion are less than 1% of abortions but again another one of those things you would know if you actually research. Yes? Yankland Where…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:17 PM
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Russia. The country that legalizes beating women? And about a fifth of the number of men who are killed each year. You mean the men killed by other men? Women kill probably at least 10 million babies each year Yawn, I guess I should be shocked you don't understand how medicine works either. The UK is much more emblematic of the typical experience. You mean the country that was being fire bomb throughout WW2? I don't know what a Yank is? But I'm guessing you don't have much world experience in ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:13 PM
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Millions of men are drafted every year ? Where Wanna guess how many more millions of women are raped Or murdered by men? I don't even know where to start with the UK part, other than maybe take world history when you get into high school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:29 AM
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I'm sorry you're upset that it's not equal to things like sexual assault? Something that happens to millions of men and women a year. Am I understanding you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:19 AM
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And yet here you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:25 AM
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Wasn't because it got caught up in the incel date rape wiki? Honestly been so long I can't remember why some subs get the ax. But it's not unusual to see. Wide wipe when something really bad hits here. I believe a lot of the kink sub took a hit on that one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:22 AM
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Found the larp account
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 03:18 AM
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Red pills on this sub: women are illogical and emotional Also red pills on this sub: people making fun of me are censorship Lmao, can't make this stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:58 AM
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The largest draft we ever had was world war II and that was still only 7% of the US population at the time. Most won't qualify either because of medical, physical, or family needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:56 AM
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I mean that's the easiest way to deal with this, which Democrats have tried to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:54 AM
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I mean be the change you want to see in the world man. It's so weird. How you think this is some kind of catch. When it's literally been talking about lowering the voting age before. Also being taxed is usually what we consider gets you your voting rights if you want to get real technical and why it's been proposed to lower it to 16
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:49 AM
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So your argument is I have to provide proof for all women in every country. Am I understanding you correctly?. So by this logic should I say that Men support child marriage since it's legal in some countries? And they obviously haven't gotten rid of it? Like I don't understand what your logic is supposed to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:45 AM
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Those are observably false looney bin concepts that no one respects So close
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:41 AM
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You could literally put any stupid/ crazy or demeaning conspiracy in that title it wouldn't make it true. Also People making fun of how dumb your theories are isn't censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:37 AM
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Women are most likely to be all those things. Much more likely than men statistically speaking. What do you physically expect these women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:55 PM
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In my country they aren't trying at all. I don't know where you live dude. But going by the fact you don't understand why the draft exists I'll say you probably have no idea what groups are against in your country
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:53 PM
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Literally as late as 2024 US military draft: Bill would require women to register for Selective Service | FOX 11 Los Angeles https://share.google/PRVAMXfMvCfLnozy8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:48 PM
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But it would help if women more vocally anti-draft What exactly do you want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:46 PM
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I mean I quite literally pointed out that women have and are trying to change the draft. Maybe you should read through comments before replying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:44 PM
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Okay. Ex Soviet countries are even more conservative than Western Nations. You're literally just proving the point that this is a patriarchy issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:05 PM
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The last time it was pushed in Congress was by Rep Chrissy Houlahan in 2024. If you don't know anything about this topic maybe you shouldn't talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:40 PM
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Rage bait sells
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:31 PM
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I mean I'm not watching that. But this is just an example of how the patriarchy hurts men. Women have absolutely tried to get rid of the draft or open it to women. Heck it's currently Republicans trying to kick women out of the army right now. Banning women from something then turning and saying they don't deserve rights because you banned them from that thing doesn't make any sense other than an excuse to hurt women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:24 PM
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scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas None of what you listed showed that. Why are there so many comments on this sub that try to sound intelligent but make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:37 PM
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Agriculture and studies on Organics label food, come to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:41 PM
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I love how this is supposed to be a clap back but it's absolutely true. Antidepressants are A thousand times better ever dealing with men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:13 AM
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No offense but you're getting multiple screaming matches with strangers in your everyday life. That might say something about you more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:45 PM
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Well everything I told you is true. I mean it's literally not. You're trying to sit here and say every statistic in the world is wrong because you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:36 PM
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Why is it so hard to accept that we need to be able to believe victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:35 PM
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I'm sorry you don't think rape assault and being able to control your own finances has to do with danger in this world?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:35 PM
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You mean other than Criminalize Rape and sexual assault Criminalize marital rape Give them the right to vote Help them own property Help them have their own credit cards and bank accounts Help them keep their own inheritance Help them keep their jobs Other than all that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:48 PM
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It's so funny on how, the evidence is owning good when it's when a crime you think is punishable. But not when you think the victim doesn't deserve Justice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:50 PM
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No it isn't. Learn to read I do. I also understand how statistics work. Apparently you should work on that. That's not over reporting. It's just bad data collection. Yes yes when it's statistics you don't like. It's bad. It's wrong. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:47 PM
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Tearing doesn't do that on its own.. I don't even know where to start on this one, you don't think that vaginal tearing. Some something that shouldn't happen isn't evidence of a crime. Really? Text messages prove that crime happened Text messages can be faked, if they can't be held up and cross-examination they're worthless, at least according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:02 PM
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Your argument is literally that they are over reported. Of course men under report. Who would care? Obviously not men who keep dismissing sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:00 PM
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Which accusations were swept under the rug ? You mean other than Cosby's, Kevin spacey's Weinsteins Kobe Bryant Chris Brown What's your better idea? Training police to actually deal with sexual assault victims. Better protections for victims, especially underage. A public that understands the psychological toll that these victims go through. And that won't dismiss when accusations are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:59 PM
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So your argument is women overreport but men under report in the same breath also it's not that bad when they do get assaulted? Come on now. Y'all need to unbend yourself from this pretzel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:54 PM
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Lol, it's how it's only definitive evidence when it's a victim you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:53 PM
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Where did I say that? Point to it. I'm saying we should take victims seriously. Instead of dismissing accusations. Which is where me too came from. Because a lot of accusations get swept under the rug, especially when there are multiple accusations against the same person. Because victims are harassed and denied any kind of voice, regardless of the circumstances of their assault. Because it's inconvenient to look at the perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:21 PM
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That's what we call, undeniable evidence. This sub tells me witness statements and vaginal tearing are still not undeniable evidence. So once again we either believe victims or we don't. And by that I mean we take every accusation seriously and investigate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:19 PM
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Seriously, I'm not defending Heard, (She was absolutely abusive too) but the amount of people who then go on to then excuse Depp abuse, is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:16 PM
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Feminism has been around since the beginning 1800s. I can't even take statements like this seriously sometimes Treating women like people shouldn't be hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:14 PM
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So your argument is literally, statistics are underreported based on definition but also over reported because people lie. Am I getting that right?. You can't have it both ways. Which is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:07 PM
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You should blame both male and female Republicans. You So when men Republicans die in war, should I tell their widows that it's good? They're dead? Since it's their fault, that's how they voted? I thought we're not allowed to blame victims? Which is it? You cried to me how women blame men for sexual assault and then you go turn around and blame women for dying from abortions pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:05 PM
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Which is why rapists walk free, regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:03 PM
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Then we should believe her accuser and she should be held accountable. But according to you we shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:03 PM
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The majority of sexual harassment and assault is actually done against women. And the majority of perpetrators who sexually harass and assault men are other men. Maybe you should think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:27 PM
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Yes because victim testimonies are not believed. Regardless of the gender of the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:26 PM
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we also don't disbelieve them. We absolutely do, that was the whole point of the metoo movement. Because male perpetrators are always given the benefit of the doubt. Regardless of how the woman comes out of the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:25 PM
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Love how we pretend black women don't exist here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:20 PM
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It's difficult to have definitive proof. Yes, which is why it's important we believe victims and take it seriously when there are multiple victims for one perpetrator. Instead of dismissing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:19 PM
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Let's be fair even when it's violent, the excuse 'she likes it that way' comes out as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:17 PM
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This may be shocking to you but men get physically assaulted and even raped too Yes, but not nearly at the same rates as women do. Guess who laughed in his face? Women. As a men never dismiss women when they are raped or sexually assaulted? Like by telling them that not all men do that? As if that makes it better The majority of States do not and for the States that do, About 50% of women live in a state that has some kind of abortion bans. And is nothing quite like trying to blame women for dyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:12 PM
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This is undenially funny coming from a red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:00 PM
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You mean other than the fact that most women have faced sex harassment or assault. And that a large chunk of states in the US have abortion restrictions that can easily result in healthcare complications that could end with our deaths. But other than that, Yeah it's been great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:58 PM
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Every accusation is confession, lmao So Weinstein's a victim then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:52 PM
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And the majority of rapists regardless of their sex walk free. Because people don't believe victims. And according to you they shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:52 PM
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How about we hold female teachers to the same standards We hold male teachers when they rape students. Which is very little. Because we don't believe victims. And according to you we shouldn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:45 PM
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I don't even know where to start with this. Like what? Feminism exists because the world is extremely dangerous. to women. Women are upset and mad because the world is dangerous for them simply because of their gender. Metoo literally came about because we don't take sexual assault and rape seriously. Regardless of who does it? Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:41 PM
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Then do it. If it's not hard to do then pull your weight in the relationship. To be fair I think a lot of men do pull their weight. Those men are not on here tho for that reason because they are doing this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:02 PM
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You really should have thought that analogy through
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:00 PM
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Mileage is mileage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:49 PM
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Almost like women are people or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:36 PM
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But your entire post about women aren't "accountability" for their actions in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:36 PM
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If the apps don't work then don't use them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:35 PM
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What accountability? People are allowed not to date you. I don't understand why that is a hard idea to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:32 PM
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-Increasingly men are being cancelled everywhere for their beliefs and their ideologies. Which beliefs and ideologies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:21 AM
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You all need to get off the internet. You take everything too personally. And share too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:24 PM
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Some of the red pill men in this sub literally describe men as wannabe rapists with little to no control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:24 PM
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I’m guessing gender segregation at work is the only answer then Oh I'm sorry. I thought we were completely generalizing an entire sex by whatever worse actions real or make believe we can throw at them. Are we not doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:31 PM
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There are women in the Ukraine military. do highly dangerous and harmful jobs…. Technically this is any job working around a lot of men. Which women do. But yeah, like I said, you really need off the internet. This kind of break from reality doesn't really help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:14 PM
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everyday gleefully sending the men in their lives to suffer or die. Maybe it's time to get off the Internet. Because no you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:01 PM
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Quite a large overlap actually. In all serious op. I don't even know how to deal with this question It's like someone asking can black people be smart? To even ask this question, shows you have such a warp understanding of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:09 PM
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I don't know how you could genuinely ask this question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:06 PM
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I mean statistically speaking they're not the ones making up the bulk of all crime. But if telling yourself lies is more comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:14 PM
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Why is it always men who don't have gold, that believe in gold diggers? Unless you are bringing in millions a year, you're not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:46 PM
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Sounds like you have bad choices in women. Choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:45 PM
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Don't blame me or other men for not being on the up and up about movies these days. But you literally based your opinion on this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:02 AM
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So I've very much a shit happens type of person so sometimes big age gaps just happen and as long as everyone is consenting and of age it's no one business. But if we are talking about the much older men who only date much younger. I honestly just assume that person has never grown up. And actually can't land a person their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:37 PM
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Many live in the same state and can compromise to try to move near to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:34 PM
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didn’t say anything about anyone love bombing So basic human effort is so much for you that it should cancel any other effort you do for the rest of your life and relationship? That's what you're going with? I use the term love bombing because I don't know how else to describe what you're talking about because anything else would just be a basic human emotion. And believing that just doing a basic human emotion in the start of a relationship means you should get out of doing anything for the len…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:26 PM
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I'm sorry you don't think women are mocked when they show emotion? They're not called, hysterical or over emotional? Look what, when any female athlete shows emotion. They are constantly held to a higher standard than their male counterparts. Or women in the workplace? A woman showing anger is literally question if she's on her period. A woman asking for help is literally implied. She doesn't know how to do her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:26 PM
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Mentally stable is an expectation placed on everyone I do agree men are expected to be stoic but that is a Hallmark of toxic masculinity. And something we as a society need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:34 PM
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When I read answers like this I really wonder if the only dating experience you have is watching Television. The vast majority of relationships don't start with the man love bombing, they are a , well relationship between two people where each is putting in work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:06 PM
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Dating sucks for everyone in the first stages. Everyone deals with rejection and having to 'appear stoic ' over it. You give way too much importance to an initial stage, and believe it gives you a pass for being lazy later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:55 AM
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Sign, yeah Hun that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:49 AM
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Lol man picked a restaurant for the first date so they get out of having to put any emotional labor into their relationships for the rest of their lives? Lmao, even. Imagine saying this about any other relationship in your life or anything you do for the rest of your life. I'm going to go to tell my job I don't need to show up on time anymore because I did so for the first three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:34 AM
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The vast majority of people are not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:31 AM
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Body language is just pseudoscience It's not it's literally part of basic communication in your daily life. Men aren't mind readers. Yes, which is why body language is important. Howcome women can't use the same body language when it comes to telling the difference between bad men and good men? 🤔 They do, that's why you guys are here single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:00 PM
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If you can read body language and take a L if she says no then the cold approach is fine, if you can't do either of those two things then it's not for you. If you can't tell if a girl will be okay with you approaching her, then you can't read body language and it's not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:07 PM
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If you can't read body language well enough to tell them apart then don't approach women. The ones who miss it, aren't talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:02 PM
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Fun fact: 40% of the southern US had hook worms before WW2
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:10 PM
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Red pills on this sub- women expect men to rescue them and do too much for them. Also red pills on this sub- why aren't women rescuing and doing things for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:43 PM
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I'm confused on what the lie is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:01 PM
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In trad spaces maybe but outside of that there's a reason women are expected to be educated and take care of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:33 PM
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This is really more of a social construct and sexuality conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:46 AM
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I literally watch award ceremonies and see women with botoxed faces up the wazzo What celebrities get plastic surgery? Wait til you find out it's just not the woman. You cant go outside and genuinely think aging isnt a major concern for many, many women. It a concern for most people that's why is a large industry, just like fashion is a large industry because people will always care how they look. It's just laughable that you guys have this fantasy that people's lives are ruined by winkles. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:47 AM
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Man the stuff you guys try to use as " research" is hysterical sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:15 AM
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When I see comments like this, I kind of wonder if you guys have ever actually experienced life outside of your parents basements
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:03 AM
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I'm sorry you don't think ageism happens to men? Edit: ngl when I see a post like this I really gotta think the average red pill on here is like 16. There's a reason 40 is when ageism workplace protections start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:02 AM
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It's just for fun like acting, a play*, i But it's not acting or playing pretend. You're literally expecting these women to do these things. To live their lives like this. To become your mother in pretty much every circumstantial way. There's a very large difference between doing something in the bedroom versus living your life day to day in a role. You understand that correct? So you're not dressed up as a dog to play pretend. You're literally living as a dog and then expecting these women to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:59 PM
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Sure, but red pill states that people need to take responsibility for their actions. Red pills on here constantly say women have to take responsibility for choosing bad men. Therefore, men should take responsibility for choosing bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:51 PM
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It's a serious question. You want a woman who will take on the role of being your mother but will also be having sex with you. Why? If you can understand why that would be disgusting on your end? Why do you have trouble understanding why it would be disgusting on a woman's end?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:49 PM
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Why do you want to fuck your mother then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:06 PM
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Great, then you can control yourself enough to wait till you find a woman that you are compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:58 PM
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And? Doesn't mean people don't exercise control? Or do you see a bunch of people running around raping?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:54 PM
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There's always going to be people into anything. The whole point of dating is to find people that are compatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:52 PM
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Its biology, men need to inseminate and conquer Being able to control where you stick your dick is a basic part of being an adult. Sounds like you're just making excuses for lack of basic control
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:51 PM
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And it gets them fucked over majority of the time. If you want to be submissive then find a woman who is into that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:31 PM
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It is not rude to point out that being an adult is the very basic standard of adult behavior. And what should be expected of any partner in an adult relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:29 PM
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Soresi's technically speaking joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:26 PM
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Then you understand there is plenty children out there that are 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:45 PM
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It's the way it has been for centuries Lots of horrible things were around for centuries It will take a lot of time before we stop expecting gendered roles Gender roles aren't instincts, their social constructs. Social constructs can be broken down as long as you're willing to work on yourself. Until then I'm not sure we have to compromise? Oh I agree. The ones like you are just not going to reproduce. Since women don't need to put up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:44 PM
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Lol. Being an equal partner in your relationship is being a servant is honestly a laughable comparison. Most women want a partner to build a life with not a burden, which is what the difference is. Adults pull their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:35 PM
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Never been to a high school
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:30 PM
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Maybe men should have better standards then. Told multiple times on here if women don't get it's their fault for dating shitty guys It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:29 PM
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Outside of porn it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:27 PM
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It's what it's expected from men But you literally think it should be expected of women If men don't want to be a servant why would women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:27 PM
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Dating apps exist in these countries as well but that's not causing issues there. Going to call bs on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:27 PM
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Decentering women from their lives Women have options because they are willing to walk away. That is literally the simplest solution. Your argument is literally boiling down to these men are going to want to rape women if we don't force these women to have sex with them, which lack of consent is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:04 PM
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Day ending in Y and another post whining about not being able to rape women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:41 PM
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The "inequality" you are criticizing now is literally that you think women should sleep with men they don't like. The actual inequality that people criticize before was literally about rape and consent Do you see how those things might be a bit different?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:40 PM
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So basically revoking consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:33 PM
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So don't date a red piller then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:07 PM
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-What are women expected to do about it? Not date red pill men because they have no loyalty since they don't see women as people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:02 PM
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So then what happens to those women when they hit 30? What's stopping a red pill from dumping them for a new 25 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:00 PM
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Yeah, not to shit on poly, cause you do you. But the vast majority of people who try to open their relationships are just trying to justify cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:58 PM
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R/ bad history would have a field day with this post. I honestly don't even know where to start
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:09 PM
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But I disagree, most men are strictly heterosexual Except we know this isn't true because of what tends to happen in male only environments throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:43 PM
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To be fair conversation like this is like arguing with a flat earther. It's impossible to change your mind because you don't actually live in reality. But for anyone who would like a starting point on some of the women in history Eula Bingham - Wikipedia https://share.google/GRanjuGbtTIywCK9B Frances Perkins - Wikipedia https://share.google/cLLaXxHaBLlm6azRR Clara Lemlich - Wikipedia https://share.google/ccXcTP3CszaHHHaP2 Alice Hamilton - Wikipedia https://share.google/dXhHa0UlZL4mst0MG https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:20 AM
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They were literally a driving force for that change. Once again, if you don't even understand the history of these things, how can you argue about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:00 PM
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This is blatantly not true. This post and literally majority of the red pillars on here show that it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:40 PM
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Your whole post is about you shouldn't have to treat women like people because they won't fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:40 PM
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They deserve what they can get Well they like being alone then being with you, which apparently is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:39 PM
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If you don't know the basic history of workplace fatalities why are you crying about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:38 PM
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Partially. They still expect the men to do more though Except they don't. Heck, you list workplace fatalities as a male problem even though many women have worked to help bring those down and make workplaces safer for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:24 PM
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The solution is for women to choose better partners. And those lonely men are here crying about how they want to rape those women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:23 PM
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Your argument is literally women don't deserve basic human decency because men are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:22 PM
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It's so telling how red pill equates not being able to have a relationship to being allowed to rape women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:33 PM
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And your comment said it's never happened So which is it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:58 PM
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am yet to see a single man saying he wants to mistreat or hurt women. So all the 'We should be allowed rape women if they won't date us' post are what in your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:07 PM
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It wouldn't be brief. Do none you actually think these scenarios through before posting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:03 AM
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Access to abortion and reproductive healthcare The draft Gender roles How we handle sex assault and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:15 PM
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Both parents have to sign off on adoption. But that's not what safe Haven is. The other parent can go claim the child they are surrendered with safe haven. Safe Haven isn't adoption, it's literally just allowing people to give their their 3-day to 60-day-year-old newborns a place to stay safely without fear of consequences. A parent is allowed to come and reclaim them once they prove they are apparent before the child would go into child services. Once again, if you do not understand this topic,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:00 PM
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Keep moving towards an actual equal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:18 PM
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Any parent can use a safe haven. Or person who has parental custody. If you don't understand what safe Haven actually is, how can you actually debate about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:39 PM
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Safe haven isn't custody nor is it adoption. If you don't understand what these concepts are, how can you even argue about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:50 AM
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Explain how the man can take the baby from the mother against her consent I'm sorry do you think men don't watch their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:24 PM
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Anyone can take advantage of safe Haven laws. The literal point of them is that you don't know who drops off the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:15 PM
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I mean they literally are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:13 PM
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You know men have sex toys right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:32 PM
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Men and women on average have the same amount of sexual partners through their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:29 PM
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Sign. Women don't owe you sex because you exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:28 PM
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Average age gap is like 3 years Women are more likely to be queer Women are more likely to say they are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:49 AM
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Everyone loses half their shit in a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:06 PM
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Reid has a net worth of 14 million according to Google
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:00 AM
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So now it's conservative women raising conservative men? Then where are all these liberal women coming from Come on now. At least be consistent in your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:02 AM
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You understand that political beliefs aren't genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:58 AM
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Yes, That's why you're in here saying how you like them to be less than human
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:24 AM
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The longer I'm on this sub the more I understand why red pills are single
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:23 AM
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Evolution implies improvement It doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:21 AM
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conservative ones, tend to have children at higher rates across the world. They Yes, And they tend to abandon those children to be raised solely by their mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:20 AM
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Red pills want women to be so desperate that they will stay with them and f*** them regardless of how horrible they are to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:18 AM
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They're not but good try there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:17 AM
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That would be the schools I'm sorry you don't think boys go to school?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:15 AM
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pay more taxes consume much less Healthcare welfare The irony that these two things are related. But no men do also benefit from liberal policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:14 AM
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Lol, at using blogs as scientific studies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:12 AM
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Women have always been in the workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:07 AM
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liberal progressive status quo of western society, men Literally everyone, but if it's from that, except the ultra wealthy. Please point out to the non Westernised country you would like to live in as the average citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:08 PM
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So basically these women should live in poverty if they're not willing to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:06 PM
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Then women remain single and get blamed for men's loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:03 PM
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Laws are enforced and enacted by the efforts of men Everyone's right are enforced by laws enacted by everyone this was Pearl The child molester?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:38 PM
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Sign another woman won't fuck me so they shouldn't have rights post. Really does show why red pills don't get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:36 PM
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women can’t outmaneuver hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. This is literally true then for both genders because evolutionary speaking we've always lived on packs. Men and women needed each other for safety Edit : in fact menopause means women were even more important to humans
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:27 PM
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Department of Red Pill Studies Hun some of you need to get off the internet. a list of men-only scholarships in medicine or psychology Google search: List of Nursing Scholarships for Men - Nursingscholarship.us https://share.google/qN77VV5RUZAVpw5un Maybe actually research things first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:28 AM
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And that means what exactly? Imagine if that were flipped, It does when the other partner makes more. I'm sorry I sometimes have a hard time believing some of you have even graduated high school of you don't understand how basic math works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:59 PM
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Well good luck. Hopefully he'll snap out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:16 PM
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And how long is that relationship going to last?, when he keeps telling you he thinks women just use men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:06 PM
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Women don't get preferred treatment. And the majority of shelters allow both Maybe don't believe everything you read online
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:58 PM
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Red pill men are red pilled because they can't get or keep relationships. And want someone else to blame for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:57 PM
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Women are happier, single than in bad relationships. Being single will always be better than being in a bad relationship. Because bad relationships are so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:55 PM
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they aren't lonely as fuck while single. This can be true regardless of relationship status. while at the same time a woman's rock bottom isn't so low because she has people & government assistance who will help her out. Government assistance isn't gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:53 PM
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I'm sorry is this some kind of gotcha on how women can't be rape? Because you need to self reflect if that's your line of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:46 PM
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Both parents have to agree for a child to be adopted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:18 PM
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If we're using Ukraine then we can use Russia and the rest of Eastern Europe as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:12 PM
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And women who are rape still have to share custody with their rapist as well. Maybe you should fight for more rights for victims regardless of their sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:03 PM
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Women are currently literally dying and being denied healthcare, being put on trial for it after the fact thanks to anti abortion laws. But sure that's the same as either parent being able to give up parental rights/s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:57 PM
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How does a parent spend the most time with their kids raising them? One stays at home Except sometimes they don't, and we see no difference if they're in the same income bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:46 PM
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Sidestepping that this post belongs on r/ bad history Marriage for most of human history was a business contract. Either between two families or the selling of women as property. Which is why you find polygamy, multiple wives in multiple cultures. So at the end of the day it has always come down to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:38 PM
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How do you think first world countries get and develop that innovation and tech? -War? I'm sorry, are you under the impression that wat doesn't happen in those countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:25 PM
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How exactly do you think we got that wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:23 PM
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Better off in relation in what field? Socially? Economically? Mentally? In any of those fields
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:21 PM
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But you think that's the standard the West should go back to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:58 PM
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There's nothing wrong with having one partner being a SAHP. As long as both agree and have a good partnership. The problem really lies in the fact that red pills want it and then turn around and call those same women lazy and worthless when it comes to a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:57 PM
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Believe it or not when two adults work their money both goes into helping the family. And it's weird that you don't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:54 PM
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Please point out the third world country where the average family is better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:50 PM
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I'm sorry you think poor women in developing countries aren't working?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:45 PM
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And the seemingly best way to raise children is a stay at home parent I mean is it? The best indicator on how well a child does in life is their household income. Not if one parent stays home or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:45 PM
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This is literally true for all issues people face. People won't take it seriously until it's on their own door or they are forced to deal with it. Look at global warming. Women also have literally had this same problem with women's issues in the past and presented. It took to the 90s to get every state to agree that men raping their wives was a crime and even today some states require a even higher bar on it. Heck the first female suffragettes were literally mocked and called crazy for wanting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:35 PM
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I'm sorry do you think women weren't dismissed when they brought up issues and demand in action?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:30 PM
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Poor sexual behavior for one. Women not wanting to fuck you isn't poor sexual behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:54 PM
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How should "fuck us or your rights should be taken away" be interpreted?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:55 PM
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No Hun I'm just pointing out that you don't have an actual argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:19 AM
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separating is from ought. Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:17 AM
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Hun, you're the one who's telling me that tictoc clips are real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:51 AM
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This was about you saying that it's ok for women to be scared of lonely men I said people associate lonely men with violence. Perhaps you should read more carefully. I'm a Haitian lol. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:50 AM
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How the TF is this fantasy lol You do understand that everything you see on social media isn't real right? Like we need to establish that here. This is fake and people make things up so you engage with it and you leave comments and you've watch it even if you are hate watching it. It seems like you're having a very hard under telling reality from fiction if you don't understand that social media isn't reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:34 AM
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No I didn't You've literally used a tictok video as evidence that all feminists are doing this. I'm a black man btw Sure you are Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:33 AM
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Again this was a talking point you agree with. Because you associated lonely men with violence. It wasn't. I literally said people associate lonely men with violence because some of them get violent. Because just about every woman on this planet has a story of a man getting violent. That's not make believe on social media. Not every man in the manosphere is a rapist. But you just told me, every all feminists are mocking lonely men because you saw one on the internet. So which is it? Do we judge …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:14 AM
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No, you literally think that is an example of real life. When it's just social media rage bait. Not being able to tell fantasy from reality is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:08 AM
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Your entire argument literally hinges on everything you see on social media is real. Matter of fact feminists like this in the video are a perfect pipeline for men to go to the manosphere. Then I guess there's a reason why women should be scared of lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:07 AM
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OP literally believes everything he sees on social media is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:43 AM
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Except your tiktok example isn't different. It doesn't show widespread engagement or resolution within a large audience. Most of those comments are bots same as any other piece of media on the internet. It looks like you've gone down a rabbit hole. If you're upset about generalization of men, then maybe don't generalize another entire group about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:40 AM
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So basically you are downplaying this as ragebait, Random tiktok and YouTube videos, yes they're rage bait. They are literally put up to get engagement and views. If extremists defined an entire group, then women would be defined by their radicals too. You mean like saying all feminists are shaming men in a traditional masculinity because you watched a couple YouTube videos? That kind of generalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:21 AM
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If you all can't handle rage bait on the internet then you need to stop watching it. People associated the male loneliness epidemic with violence because some men get violent when they don't get what they want. A number a red pills in here literally threatened to rape women if women don't put out for them or take away their rights. That's not even getting into the hate crime section of these groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:32 AM
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The red pill men on here are either kids still living at home, or 40+ divorcees. The red pill women are red pill men LARPing And the blue pill women are mostly married middle aged Blue pill men are more of a mix
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:02 PM
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Nah man, I actually work and there's always a trade off. You find that out when you grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:23 AM
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So this is fake then. You drive trains for 200k and get home for dinner every night. No 'low skill' job pays 200k with good work life balance Man you guys pick some weird things to LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:20 AM
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They're all happily married? With great work/life balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 AM
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A lot of time blue collar jobs that pay really well have horrible hours and don't allow for any type of family life, unless the wife sacrifices her whole career for the family. As someone who could have made the same choice you did, more blue collar for better money, it would not allow me to have and raise a family. There's a reason most of your coworkers are divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:25 AM
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The bots and catfish don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:20 AM
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Why are we linking articles about zoo animals? Everyone should put emotional labor into each other. That's called being in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:19 AM
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Gonna have to start sending pussy pics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:11 PM
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Men have to fight, spend thousands, and prove themselves just to get what mothers receive automatically. Women don't receive it automatically. They received it more because men refuse to fight for their children while women do. If it were truly gender-neutral, the numbers wouldn’t still be overwhelmingly women receiving and men paying. It's gender neutral because the spouse who makes more pays. Women typically make less in a marriage because they are younger and take time off for children. Yet w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:48 PM
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I don't use these things but don't they over time adapt to you? That's why we got a bunch of people who are in love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:06 PM
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The damage to social reputation is inevitable and guaranteed. You don't think this happens to victims of sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:05 PM
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Men get custody when they fight for it. And many states are now pushing for 50/50 to be the default Women have been in the forefront of alimony reform. And alimony is gender-neutral, some men do get it Feminist groups have literally pushed to either eliminate the draft or add women. Democrats have literally tried to get women added. Women work less blue collar and physical dangerous jobs because they are less likely to have the physical requirements, may not have access to bathroom, hostility an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:00 PM
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Initiate: cause (a process or action) to begin Believe it or not most divorces don't start with one of you just randomly filing the paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:11 AM
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Women are much more incentivized to get divorced than men. Everyone loses half their shit in a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:08 AM
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The 70% of divorce is because women are more likely to file the paperwork, who files the paperwork doesn't have any bearing on who initiates the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:46 AM
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Because it is entitlement. Them being single because they don't believe they can find anyone else. Doesn't give you the right to judge. It's not your place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:39 PM
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Because you still haven't answered. How and who are they deceiving? Your logic here makes no sense other than entitlement to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:57 PM
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It is what's the post about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:36 PM
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Again what deception. Who are they deceiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:35 PM
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It's not deception. Who are they deceiving by being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:28 PM
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Yet you are getting upset at these women for simply existing without wanting a relationship? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:59 PM
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Being in a relationship with the right person period can be Heaven. Being in a relationship with the wrong one is Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:57 PM
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But I want to be talen seriously when I say that whenr I was in a relationship all my pain wemt away Relationships don't fix this, they can mask it but they don't fix it. Expecting your partner to be your metal health crutch will doom any relationship you have
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:45 PM
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You do know just ignoring everything doesn't make you a better partner. It actually makes you a worse one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:39 PM
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And a lot of those 20-30 years old also have relationships in the past. How is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:37 PM
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You are the one saying women denying you a relationship is because of ego. I simply want to know why your entitled is supposed to be more important
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:37 PM
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I mean you can literally say this stuff about everyone, everyone makes choices about how their lives are going to go. Part of having free will is that you may regret your choices , that is not new. And can happen no matter what you choose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:33 PM
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What is the end goal then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:29 PM
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Thinking people owe you a relationship because you exist sounds pretty entitled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:27 PM
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People not wanting to date you doesn't mean they have an ego problem. Understanding that some people aren't a good match together, in any type of relationship, is part of being an adult. People don't owe you friendship or dating or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:05 PM
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Like 30% of children live in a single parent household
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:50 PM
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Like 40% of Boomers are single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:49 PM
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Keeping your own peace is always worth cutting out people who are toxic to your life. Doesn't matter if that's family, dating or friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:44 PM
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Being single is better than being with someone who isn't a good fit for you period. Your jealousy doesn't change that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:42 PM
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Because they see women as a commodity not as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:25 PM
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And being single is sometimes the best option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:22 PM
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The fact that we talk consistently about the male loneliness epidemic, when study after study shows both sexes are equally lonely says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:49 PM
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By this logic minorities and poor people only have rights because of the compassion of Rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:54 AM
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I've just dating women. I've actually lived with one and took care of all the bills. This you Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:17 PM
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So which is it Did you live with a woman who didn't pay for anything Or Do you only have relationships with women when it's fair And I wanted to share it with you because you're special Oh Hun, nothing says I hit a nerve more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:40 PM
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That's why they spend money? Currency is exchange for goods. In case you were wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:11 PM
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Lol tell me you never budget without telling me you never budget. You don't even know what utilities or health insurance is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:10 PM
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You imply that was the only way a woman would live with you. So either choose better partners next time or understand that paying for it doesn't apply to the rest of us. Tho both would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:39 AM
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It wasn't. Outside of what poor rural areas did in the US. The whole teen girls are adults thing became main steam, pre say, because of the sex revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:36 AM
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That was the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:28 AM
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My reading comprehension is fine. Yet you're using a study about women in poverty and layering that on top of all women? know what the studies said. Apparently not if you think the majority of women are sex workers Transactional Sex is significantly different depending on socioeconomic class Even tho that's what those studies were about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:26 AM
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You think 14 years old were starting the hippie movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:23 AM
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The first Boomers were born in 1946, they would have been 14 in 1960. Please do math
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:29 AM
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But also these are valid observations Except they're not. Your friend being lazy and you willing to pay for sex aren't valid observations. It's just you being judgmental and easy. Mark
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:28 AM
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If you're on reddit, you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:27 AM
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Honestly I enjoy the freak show
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:15 AM
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Why are you on Reddit and not making work your priority right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:14 AM
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So if someone doesn't die at their desk, they don't make work a priority?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:14 AM
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think it's reasonable to extrapolate that population to all women a. It's a not reasonable B. If you bother to read either of those studies you cited it was about poor single women. I would suggest actually even learning some reading comprehension before posting next time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:14 AM
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So if someone has a massive heart attack and decides they need to take off work to recuperate. They don't have work as a priority. Whether they break their back
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:12 AM
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The last Boomers were born in 1964. Please explain to me how you think newborns were part of a counter culture movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:11 AM
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Why do you care about the person living situation since it has nothing to do with you. I'm going to ask you why do you even care to respond on a post if you can't see the nuance Because there is no nuance here, just delusions. People with actually functioning relationships don't see their partners like this and understand that life is complicated. This post freaks of someone who hasn't experienced any part of life outside of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:10 AM
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dont forget women spend 80% of the money. Because they make the household purchases
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:01 AM
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teammates on maternity leave. Are they supposed to give birth in the office?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:58 AM
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So your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:56 AM
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Okay and you care why? This has anything to do with the way most functioning adults live because?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:51 AM
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Sigh Hippie era was from 1960-1970 Boomers were born between 1949 and 1964. The oldest Boomer was 21 in 1970. You are talking about the silent Gen and even then most did not participate in that culture. I would recommend actually talking to a Boomer or Silent if you think Millennials/gen Z are sheepish on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:49 AM
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You have a house but don't understand that most people work for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:44 AM
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25% of women on dating apps are bots trying to scam you. 13.1% of Black women There's only 20 million black women in the US that's only 2 million people out of 340 million in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:43 AM
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choreplay You mean being an actual functioning adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:38 AM
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I'm once again asking red pills on this sub to understand the difference between the fiction they see on TV and social media and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:37 AM
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You think they were less likely to lie about that in the past? When sleeping around was more taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:34 AM
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Reading things like this, makes me realize that some of you don't live in reality. There are only about 50 million sex workers in the world male and female. There are only 4 million creators on Onlyfans in the world male and female
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:52 PM
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Most people provide into parent households, or are dinks. It's rare to find a stay-at-home wife nowadays and stay-at-home parents are usually only done because they make the most financial sense for the family unit. Also, even in those situations both parents are still providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:31 PM
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Another post where I'm once again wondering if OP has ever left his parents house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:30 PM
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The red pills in this sub are 90% divorced/single 40+ men and teenagers that haven't left home yet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:15 PM
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Oh are you upset? Perhaps someday reality will teach you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:47 PM
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Unless you're from the 1700s the woman in parents' time worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:24 PM
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The majority of women are stay at homes. I would suggest talking to your parents about how their own finances work and perhaps you can start understanding how adults, budget and manage money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:12 PM
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"78.2% of women are the primary grocery shoppers for their families." Do you not read things before you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:49 PM
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It's so interesting, what kind of delusions some of you have about what adulthood will look like. But no, the average person isn't doing that most family money is pulled so the family can survive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:33 AM
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Exactly my point, which shows its the woman who gains financially in this setup... How? Roommates don't share finances. They split everything with the household and live separate lives. Two partners can join finances and share life? I would suggest maybe someday having a partner and you could understand the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:32 AM
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I'm going to guess you've never lived with a roommate or a partner then. Cuz roommates don't share finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:28 PM
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that's what men were doing an What do you think happens to a woman's paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:27 PM
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but I've not seen a single one to encourage men to get into nursing or primary school teaching. Google is your friend MENtorship Partnership Aims to Advance Quality of Male Nursing Field | University of Cincinnati https://share.google/eWrz2fItAi8l44BKB Diverse Male Teacher Initiative — Grow Your Own Teachers https://share.google/2h9i4TEY44OuaIOJH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:45 PM
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You do know that even a lower income earner is still putting money towards the household, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:41 PM
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When I read comments like the one above you, I automatically assume they've never lived outside of their parents' home. Because no one who's actually adulted would say this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:40 PM
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Doing a job and making money means nothing if there's no pressure to pay the bills pay the rent I'm sorry you don't think working women have bills to pay? If both parents work. Both parents are earning for the family? Where are you living that most people can live off of one paycheck and the wife can keep hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:40 PM
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50% of men should go be daycare workers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:27 PM
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What perverse incentives?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:32 AM
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Because the break even you need to be like 80k a year. And wow! The majority of people will never make that, no one has made that their entire lifetime. So yes, at one time everyone was a taker, including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:13 AM
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anti-utilitarian Except they're not since they literally do help our country achieve better results
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:11 AM
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So you're wanting a lot of cousin fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:08 AM
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Then you are welcome to go find one that doesn't. But odds are it's not one that would benefit you either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:55 AM
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So who were your children going to to build the society with? Since apparently no one else is Worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:54 AM
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But you literally said men weren't responsible for having multiple baby mama's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:26 AM
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Taxes are used to build and maintain institutions, those are things that build and maintain infrastructure. And part of building and maintaining those institutions is making sure you have a functioning future generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:25 AM
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I am once again disturbed about how the red pill doesn't even see children as humans. Like they are a byproduct of women and therefore not humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:24 AM
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Then you should be concerned about the society they would be born into and live in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:23 AM
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So men are not responsible for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:19 AM
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I'm sorry did you just figure out what taxation is? Money is taken by taxes and should be distributed into keeping your society strong and growing. You are more than welcome to try to find one that doesn't do this, but you wouldn't survive in it, even if it did
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:10 AM
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And the men who have kids with multiple women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:07 AM
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You don't think you benefit from a future generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:05 AM
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Why should anyone care about the next generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:04 AM
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Welcome to society
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:03 AM
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Show me a country where that has happened. The only thing close is we get South Korea birth rate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:03 AM
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Because they are more likely to be poor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:02 AM
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The welfare state benefits children, half of which are male
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:59 AM
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Doesn't this sub routinely say single women don't actually contribute to society since they don't have children? Also the vast majority of people, regardless of sex are "net takers" by your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:58 AM
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Lol at thinking nursing gives you more time. I'm sorry, have you not taken like high school history classes yet? Cuz that's the only way I can explain that you think this is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:03 PM
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In a consumer economy, less working people actually creates less jobs. That's why immigration is so important
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:02 PM
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Women are across the board unhappier now than they were 20 years back.. Women's workforce participation peaked in 1999
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:32 AM
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It's risky for both, which has more risk depending heavily on many factors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:57 AM
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