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Do you guys not exercise at all...? I'm 5'3" but my TDEE is 1800 - 2000 cals a day because I work out (dance) 4 -5 days/week
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 07:18 PM
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Female I had a semi-casual* FWB once and it couldn't compare to sex in a relationship. My husband (who I've been with for 4.5 yrs now) is the best sex I've had and it's only gotten better as we've fallen deeper in love. Couldn't imagine ever wanting to fuck a total stranger. *By semi-casual I mean we were actually friends and occasionally went on dates but there weren't any romantic feelings between us and we were not exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:53 PM
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I think the other commenter is being unfair. I understand what you mean--you want a guy who's there for you but also has his own social life, ambitions and hobbies. It sounds like right now the way your boyfriend is acting is making him seem like he has nothing else going on in his life except this relationship (which may or may not be true). I think this is just a combination of this being a new relationship and both of you being young. A lot of the "clinginess" will probably wear off as you gu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 12:35 AM
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I think your "league" is just a combination of what you bring to a relationship--looks, money, personality, etc. While your league is somewhat subjective (since people value different things) when I say "out of your league" I mean aiming for people who are significantly better than you in multiple aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:49 PM
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Not if you paper bag it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:59 PM
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If it's this much harder why would I risk having kids out of wedlock on purpose with a man? Where did I say you should do that? I think having kids out of wedlock is stupid, that's why I had an IUD before I got married. I'm just pointing out it's not impossible for single moms to eventually have LTRs and I have seen it happen. Usually men like that move around from woman to woman and are players. Pretty sure single moms can easily sleep around too, it's not like she's going to be bringing her ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:52 PM
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I'm absolutely not attracted to fat dudes, even if they're just chubby. I've only ever dated lean to muscular guys. I'm fit myself though (competitive dancer, moderate workouts 4 - 5 days a week, walk everywhere), so I tend to be overly critical of both mine and other's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:40 PM
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Do you think another man will commit to them more than casual dating? Yes...? You have a very narrow worldview if you think it's impossible for a never married single mom to have a relationship. Significantly harder, sure, but not impossible. the man could easily get another woman to commit to him since he has none of the baggage. Lol you're kidding right? Men still have to pay child support. And most women I know (including myself) absolutely would not date a guy who had a kid with another woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:35 PM
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I was counting divorced women under single moms. If you're talking women that have never even married...I'm sure some of them DO eventually marry, but yeah it's probably much more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:27 PM
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Neutral to attractive is correct. I think that's where most people fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:50 PM
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She wouldn't. I think liberal/non-religious women generally definitely prefer getting abortions over being single parents. But it can also be hard to get access to an abortion depending on where you live. Some states only have one or two clinics in the entire state and make you jump through a bunch of hoops. I think recently a few states implemented a law where women can't get abortions after they're 6 weeks along.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:46 PM
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Yes, conservative in America usually means religious :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:15 PM
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Depends on class and political leaning imo. I think a lot of poor conservative people would prefer dating a single mom over a woman that's had an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:06 PM
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How would you differentiate emotional and physical attraction? Physical is the the tingle I feel when my husband is naked. Emotional is the deep sense of connection and love we've cultivated over years of being together. Do you feel it is possible to develop emotional attraction towards someone you are not physically attracted to? Yes and no. I've developed crushes on men I wasn't initially physically attracted to because of their personalities. But these men weren't unnattractive, they just wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 08:03 PM
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Monetary cost of being a single parent is definitely greater. Idk about stigma though. I think the stigma against single moms (or single parents in general) is a bit overblown on the internet. Most people I know irl past 30 are fine with dating single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:53 PM
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In the US abortions cost money, can be hard to get (especially if you live in a red state that has a bunch of stupid laws around them), and there's still a major stigma with getting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:39 PM
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All fair points. I was pointing out that I don't we shouldn't be comparing developed vs underdeveloped countries because the situations are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:59 PM
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Most underdeveloped countries also have terrible sex education and poor access to birth control + abortions. ​ If you took away the welfare money but also made BC + abortions cheap and easy to find, and enforced good (not abstinence-only) sex education in schools, you'd most likely see a significant drop in birth rates among the lower class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:55 PM
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You can complain every day about the same thing without feeling you deserve something. If it's in your completely in your ability to change and you don't, then yes you are feeling like you deserve it for no reason. You seem to be the one completely ignoring nuance and context here. Once again, seems like a struck a chord.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:29 PM
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How about you try some reading comprehension? I said complain CONSTANTLY about the SAME THING. Regardless of what the thing is, in that context you're implying you deserve privileges and special treatment. It's weird how heated you seem to be getting about minor differences in interpretation. Clearly I struck a chord.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:14 PM
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I never said there weren't other scenarios where people can still feel entitled. But complaining and not doing anything about it is still 100% entitlement. Not sure why that's hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:04 PM
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And I totally disagree with that. This is clearly a difference in how we interpret people's actions and a pointless argument. You also don't seem to understand nuance and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:00 PM
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entitlement - the belief that one deserves privileges or special treatment Don't see how that changes my point. Most people date with their match in S/RMV. Complaining that you aren't doing better than that implies that you believe you deserve special treatment in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:55 PM
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It’s entirely possible to complain about your commute without believing you deserve better. If you complain every single day then that is definitely entitlement, because once again, you're doing nothing to change the situation. I don't know why you keep harping about "definitions" without acknowledging definitions can change based on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:44 PM
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You'll get there. Personality is easier to change than looks imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:39 AM
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I disagree. I would consider anyone who constantly complains about their situation but does nothing to improve to be entitled. Their actions imply they think they deserve better without actually putting in any work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:52 AM
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I mean...yes? Complaining you don't have something and without working towards it seems pretty entitled to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 02:53 AM
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By OP's logic celebrities are entitled for only wanting to date other equally rich & attractive people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:43 AM
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It's only "entitlement" if a person constantly aims for people out of their league and then complains when those people won't date them. Simply being choosy isn't entitled, especially for people who have high S/RMVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:21 AM
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That's why I said men are different. Male entitlement stems from bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:11 AM
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That's...literally what I just said. Idk what point you're trying to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:57 AM
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I didn't mean to imply attention from men was the sole cause of princess syndrome, but rather it helps reinforce beliefs that women with princess syndrome were raised with. Even if she doesn't sleep with Chad the fact that she has beta orbiters can reinforce the belief that she's extremely desirable to men and deserves the best. I also think people can grow out of entitlement and that men can be entitled too (although in different ways/reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:19 AM
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Yeah but betas give attention to any woman that breathes sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:35 PM
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You don't need to have casual sex for confirmation. Women can be prudes and still develop a sense of entitlement due to overt attention from men when they're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:41 PM
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I'm not arguing this is better than the current model of raising children we have in most developed countries, I'm just pointing out it erases many of the issues surrounding paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:38 PM
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doesnt solve the fact there are mothers who wont be mothers I'm not sure what you mean by this? Also paternity tests exist because most men don't want to raise children that aren't their genetic offspring. In this scenario that is no longer an issue since men are only expected to help raise their nieces/nephews, which they can be sure are genetically linked to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:20 PM
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If you're a man with a sister there's no question that her children are related to you. A woman can't unknowingly have another woman's baby. However there's no guarantee your female partner's current or future children are yours, since a women can (theoretically) have another man's children. Passing inheretence through the maternal line (i.e. children are raised by their mother + her male relatives) basically erases the question of paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:09 PM
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A test just tells someone if they are the father but it doesn't guarantee they'll be the father. Whereas the maternal link is indisputable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:51 PM
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Well I think dating advice and relationship advice are two separate things. Relationship advice is very nuanced and individualistic and it's generally best to take multiple perspectives into account. With dating advice, i.e. simply attracting people and the initial courtship, it makes more sense for women to take the advice of other women (and men the advice of other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:00 PM
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Mainly suggesting passive aggressive tactics or hints All the dating advice I've seen for both genders is to be direct. Passive aggressiveness is very childish and something people should get over by the time they're 25. Or speaking from the perspective of what she cares about without stopping to consider whether he values the same things The same could be applied to men giving advice to other men about women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:52 PM
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Like what? In my experience men aren't any more up front about their wants than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:37 PM
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Idk any women who think getting dating advice from men about men is a good idea. When my girl friends and I needed dating advice we always asked each other. People in general are not honest about what they want so it's better to get your advice from third party observations about behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:28 PM
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Money matters in that most women have a much higher threshold of what they consider acceptable. Most women won't date a guy who doesn't have a career, has a lot of debt, and/or isn't making enough to support himself. Women are also more likely to want their partner to make as much as or more than they are. Usually when you see a woman with a total bum it's because they started dating when they were very young and she's afraid of being single. On the other hand a lot of men will overlook financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:18 PM
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A "career person" of either gender is someone who lives to work and puts it above all else. I definitely would not want to date a career man. My husband and I both enjoy having a good work/life balance and we both prioritize family, friends and hobbies over work. I also find people who don't have any interests outside of work to be boring. I don't really understand the obsession with wanting a SAHM though. All the successful, happy marriages I know had both parties financially contributing (I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:12 PM
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Idk about the same? We're both attractive and haven't had issues getting sex or relationships before we met each other. I guess TRP would say his goes up and mine goes down as we get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:12 PM
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Isn't NYC kind of easy mode though because of it's high female : male ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:04 PM
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Yeah if I was a 45yo divorcee I wouldn't want to re-marry or attempt another LTR either. I'd probably focus on being a rich cougar lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:52 PM
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I can see how if you broke up with someone for a stupid reason you might regret it years later. In my case my exes and I broke up for genuine reasons (first ex did not and still does not have his shit together, second ex had a toxic personality) so I can't imagine I'll ever miss those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:44 PM
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I know a lot of pretty well adjusted older women that love telling stories about some dude from their past Are they pining or just reminiscing though? My first bf and I did a lot of fun, stupid shit together that I'll think about from time to time. But the feeling is nostalgia not love. I don't miss him, I miss being a teenager who had few responsibilities and consequences. I think a lot of people who talk who talk about "the one that got away" confuse missing the past with missing a specific pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 05:24 PM
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Nope. My husband is definitely several steps up from both my exes and even if we divorced I would not go back to them. I don't understand all these weird terms TRP comes up with. Getting stuck on an ex isn't unique to women nor does it have anything to do with an ex being uber masculine. In my experience not being able to get over an ex is usually a result of social isolation and low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:13 PM
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You're in the minority. And that's fine if it works for you, but the vast majority of both genders prefer relationships. Even OP's statement of "men want sex and women want relationships" isn't entirely true. If you actually read incel forums a lot of the guys on there say their ultimate goal is a gf/wife. You get all the benefits of a serious relationship Nah you don't. You get the benefits of a friendship + sex but that's not the same as a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:53 PM
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"Fuckboy" originally referred to a guy who only wanted casual sex but was deceptive about his intentions. But there are women who'll use it to refer to any guy who doesn't want to date them. It's the same as men who think a girl being nice to them is leading them on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:26 AM
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