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| 2 | Advice / Tips for approaching a female in public (M/21)I agree, we are entering a weird digital age where everything is on an app and people dont talk to each other in person anymore. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | This seems easier in the moviesWhat kind of movies have you been watching? lol If you value your job, I think they are tons of other cute girls out there. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:05 PM |
| 4 | When she is getting tired of you. What to do?Sometimes people have defense mechanisms because they are afraid to fall in love and they self sabotage. Other times, they are genuinely annoyed with something about you. Somethings a woman falls in love with a guy (or starts to) and she hates the way he speaks / his hair etc. and she can't harmonize her emotions vs. what list of things she thinks she wants. See Charlotte and Harry in Sex And The City. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What to do when almost all girls are in groups?@smoothmax was the only guy who was even close to being on point. You have to understand group dynamics and group theory. In other words, the process of approaching a group of girls is different than a single girl, especially at night. It's not harder, it's just different. First thing is, most guys don't have the courage to do it. The ones that do, are either the rare top 5% of guys who are naturally good, or, more likely, the 10-15% pick up guys who are NOT good usually. Generally speaking, the… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Be the best YOU that you can be. Change is possible. It takes work, but you CAN do it. The difference of a single year can be everything. You deserve it, as do the women you want to sweep off their feet. November 2018 -> September 2019.You look fine, what's the difference? | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Looking to start a mastermind of guys in LA (preferably west sideNice. DM me I'll add you to our FB group | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Looking to start a mastermind of guys in LA (preferably west sideyes awesome, I went to school in Boston. DM me I'll add you to our FB group | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Purely numbers gameA small distribution change of the % male female changes the dynamics quite a bit, because of sexual selection process at work in a big population. That said, if the numbers are high enough and girls are pretty enough, it still works. For example. Bay area is pretty bad, same as what you said - average girls getting way too much attention. LA is also known as one of the highest male to female ratios, but there are so many girls here and the pressure to be "hot" in this town, that it's still pr… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 04:38 AM |
| 2 | No girl has ever been interested in me and I'm almost certain it's because of how I look. I'm pretty sure I have some sort of mild facial deformity. Is it that bad? Looking for honest feedbackSMILE. Your look is fine. Its your behavior thats holding you back | /r/seduction | 29/01/15 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What I learned from Tinder and how to REALLY get a girlyo thanks for referencing my experiment IMO you can still get hot girls as an Asian guy, because technology scales...!@ | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Welp, I'm finally leaving guys. It's been fun. Here's what I learned.let the art of seduction enrich your life, not define it | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manWhich bar and which city did you go to? | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | 17 Awesome Image Texts To Get A Dateyou're RIGHT! | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Serious question for TRPers who have success with HB9'S and 10's, wouldn't approaching directly ruin your mysterious frame? What is the practical application of displaying your intentions without giving too much of your power away? What's considered the "perfect balance?"You can compliment a girl or go direct if you have equal to slightly higher perceived social value in the venue. In theory, if you have lower perceived social value, you need to go indirect, or quickly disqualify thereafter, or go direct and hope to get lucky that in her mind, you're not "below her standards" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 06:42 AM |
| 0 | People asked me how I have so many dates, here's how I auto-like my tinder matches. Don't share too much we dont want Tinder to shut this down guys.Hm. if you get the girls you want that like you, you can choose among that instead of wondering if all the hot girls liked you. Also according to insiders, the more uglies you swipe, the more hotter girls they show you (algorithm change) | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:44 AM |
| 1 | The 10 Best Pick Up Artists of 2014lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:43 AM |
| 2 | The 10 Best Pick Up Artists of 2014yeah I sort of disappointed, to be honest, because RSD has innovated their products an techniques and Mystery is still teaching the same stuff. Yes his stuff works but innovate man life changes | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The 10 Best Pick Up Artists of 2014Yep he's with Discovery PUA doing '3 second rule' as a new company | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 04:59 AM |
| 1 | This has been working for me.Dope! Glad it is working for you. It definitely works on your inner game and control over time with practice | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Need help inviting a girl to go out with me and some mutual friendsI like what RecycleBantha had to say | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is "reverse approach anxiety" common? How do you deal with it?Dont trip on this unless it keeps happening like 3 out of 10 times | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/pivot/ | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:31 AM |
| 4 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?Your value only increases based on your social alliance with that person. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?DUDE. Use Her. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/wingwoman/ | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Is it too late for me?I was a virgin till I was 23. relax. I got out of college when I was 20 only worked for 3 years. There's nothing wrong with you. Just make learning about women a priority from now on. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:29 AM |
| 6 | Tips for pickup on a tiny budget?My cost of going out = Gas. That's it. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Tips for pickup on a tiny budget?I never order anything when I go out - just water. You don't need money to get into bars and pick up girls. As for the rest, you have to make financial independence a responsibility of yours to succeed at game and yes, at life. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 F-Closes this weekendNice work man. Great push and pull at the end. A lot of times I'd give up or be too tired so I goto sleep. In the morning then we'd close it. There's a scientific study that showed on average, women are more horny in the morning than men. This is probably due to evolutionary reasons, as she now trusts the guy more after being protected, comfortable and safe for 1 night with him. -AW | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 10:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend;p; | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How much race matter in all this?Matador is Indian dude. Source: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-profiles/james-matador-stan-tayi/ | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 14 Rejections in One Night, and Not a Single Fuck Was GivenProps man. | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 02:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] New Years in Times Square HB10 F-Close 18y/o modelDope. "That's fine with me!" hahah. Classic | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 05:33 AM |
| -2 | Top 10 PUAs of 2011Not really. Then again my name is "alphawolf". Friends say it sounds like a anime character. | /r/seduction | 30/12/11 06:03 PM |
| 3 | A thread I started in 2007! Now with over 100 responses from HBs on automatic attraction.This may help. Disclaimer: I Own the site: http://www.seducingwithstyle.com/category/sexual-avatars/ | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 07:24 AM |
| 2 | My thoughts on my week - 16 number closes. 3 KCloses. 1 Fclosed. Day 2's lining up.I go out and order water or a beer at dive bars. This helps me learn to control my state without relying on alcohol. And, my cost for pickup = $0 + gas money. Try it - if you do this 7 times a week, and break through your AA every time, you'll feel like a God by the end of the week :) | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 09:21 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not attractive, I'm just me" - A woman's perspective on a mans AAThanks for the post - reminds us not to be afraid of approaching hot girls | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many good looking guys such pathetic AFC'sGood point, but there are exceptions to both groups. I've seen good looking AFC guys run ZERO game. But, they are naturally calibrated. I.e. Think Stiffler or the guys from American Pie. Girls still like them for being natural and they get laid. I have also seen "synthetics" (http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/synthetic/) run game and while their delivery is good, they come off as a bit "awkward" and don't get laid. More often than not, both groups of guys get somewhere, but the naturals ar… | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I wanted to share this, took me a while to write. The 7 deadly sins of game I have seen in the last 4 years.thanks guys | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:51 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone here gone out HARD? 4-5 nights a week. Did it help you? Why or why not?yes. At the end of a week you feel SO socially calibrated. However.... you will also feel like you're "chasing" something. Like you're always going out trying to get girls. If you can adopt the mindset of process over outcome, you will be fine. Also, a balance of work and play is needed. Read my blog for more day to day blows / details. www.godofstyle.com | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle a female player?I understand your feeling and have shared them in the past. For the girls I date, I don't care if they date other guys. As long as I don't get too attached I am fine. There is a fine line when someone falls "in love" with someone else. At this point, which sounds like you have reached, you have a decision to make between "selfish-love" and "unselfish love". Btw this is all from my personal experience and I could be wrong. Just sharing because I care. Selfish love is one that is based on your own… | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 09:26 AM |
| 0 | [FR] The importance of pull in push pullAnd its not that you're really becoming an 'asshole'. Its that you've become a man with your own set of rules.. that you stick to... and sometimes, because of your code of conduct... you piss some people off. You're a bit sorry about this but not sorry enough to apologize or change your ways.... thus asshole game is not simply being mean to everyone. There's more to it than that. | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 09:10 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The importance of pull in push pullre: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/compliance-momentum/ Yeah sorry about that. If you watch the whole movie (take the lead) maybe that will illustrate it a little better. The kids at the school don't want to dance the way Antonio Banderas is teaching them, so he creates several small rewards and hoops to slowly get them to appreciate street / ballroom dancing. He creates compliance momentum by rewarding them with dances like this and calls them out on their BS when they behave badly. My… | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The importance of pull in push pullThis happens to most PUAs along their journey She gave you 2-3 chances to recover, but the fact was, you were PUNISHING her for positive behavior. After a certain point, the girl will walk off. Certain messed up girls like guys that mistreat them, but even these guys give the girls occasional sarcastic IOIs to keep them guessing. Shouting at her is probably too much. Don't worry you've learned your lesson for the next one. P.S. Asshole game is the toughest type of game to learn. Most naturals be… | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 09:03 PM |
| 2 | In Rio, and I'm KILLING IT out here. I figured out my game, and all is solid except for one thing: my short game sucks.I was in Rio a year ago and that place is chalk full of beautiful women. Most of them speak English but I don't know Portugese, which becomes a bit of a problem logistically. Brazil also has these "love hotels" you can rent for a few hours since most people live with their families | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Usually don't care for these lists, but this one was pretty amusingthanks :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Usually don't care for these lists, but this one was pretty amusingGambler looks like the Xmen Gambler with those cards :) | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I need some self-confidence for todayHey Ta, Good job stepping out of your comfort zone. Hired gun game is a different type of game (http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/hired-gun/) . She is paid for being beautiful and for being nice to customers. I wound't hold on to her like its your last chance (your narrative seems to suggest this) but be nice and playful. It also helps to have other girls or cool guys with you at the restaurant to convey value. Only when you have enough value and attraction would a date even work. However … | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there any good material on touching (kino)?an intermediate post of Kino by one of our guest instructor posts: http://www.pualingo.com/blog/stealthy-kino-moves/ | /r/seduction | 16/03/10 07:28 AM |
| 0 | How to Respond when a Girl doesn’t Remember Youlol. Don't hate the play3r | /r/seduction | 11/03/10 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How to Respond when a Girl doesn’t Remember YouHey guys, In my experience, the art of the cold approach can be a delicate one. For numbers that you get during night game, a subtle calibration makes a HUGE difference. For example, not caring too much to correct a mis-spelling. I've had many a numbers that would have gone either way simply depending on the way text and phone game is managed. | /r/seduction | 11/03/10 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Whats the best intro book for someone new to the game?blue print is excellent. This may help: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-products/ | /r/seduction | 11/03/10 04:46 AM |
| 2 | "Let's just be friends" and other lame Girl Excuses:) any more excuses you guys can think of? We're compiling a list | /r/seduction | 24/02/10 08:49 PM |
| 1 | A full list of Pick Up Artist Profiles - did we miss anyone significant? Thanks - AWThx all! | /r/seduction | 21/02/10 09:50 AM |
| 1 | I would just like to tell you a story about how I got picked up.The same story, told from the guy point of view would read very differently. "1. Being playful and cocky + genuine to my own identity 2. Girls like me. One girl in class really likes me. 3. Ok I'll let her be my GF 4. But if it ever fails I'll have the skills to pickup other girls." | /r/seduction | 17/02/10 08:04 PM |
| 1 | A full list of Pick Up Artist Profiles - did we miss anyone significant? Thanks - AWNice list, thank you. Half of these are going to be published soon. Who is Vince Kelvin and 60 years of challenge? | /r/seduction | 17/02/10 09:35 AM |
| 2 | A full list of Pick Up Artist Profiles - did we miss anyone significant? Thanks - AWAdded Ross Jeffries. Yes Kezia wasn't as important as the rest but she's hot and I like searching for her pics on Google :) | /r/seduction | 16/02/10 09:13 AM |
| 1 | She asks, "So, who is the prettiest?"you jerk! Asshole! (IOI) | /r/seduction | 16/02/10 01:33 AM |
| 2 | A full list of Pick Up Artist Profiles - did we miss anyone significant? Thanks - AWNice. @ AndreiRo - totally, TD Is one of the original contributors to analytical game, in my opinion. @academician - who did we miss? Names? Would help a lot thx. Thundercat's on the list now... | /r/seduction | 16/02/10 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Contemplating doing an RSD bootcamp? Anyone else got any experience with them?I heard he was really, really good in field from a fellow pua who tooks his bootcamp (he said he asked for him specifically) | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Contemplating doing an RSD bootcamp? Anyone else got any experience with them?I agree with MuseofRose - you can save the money and go out with guys from the local lair - LONG TERM on going improvement beats a weekend bootcamp. I understand the need, however to have instructors when someone has a certain sticking point or dead social circle, or need a recharge of new inspiration | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Contemplating doing an RSD bootcamp? Anyone else got any experience with them?Sorry, explanation on auto correcting for n00bs: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/auto-correcting/ | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Contemplating doing an RSD bootcamp? Anyone else got any experience with them?Bootcamps depend on instructors. There are good and bad instructors from all the PU companies. It also depends on the student. Some of the naturals I know already gain a lot of improvement just going out from members of the lair (free) and they give each other suggestions or auto-correct. I think bootcamps are great for finding blind spots or sticking points though | /r/seduction | 10/02/10 11:46 PM |
| 2 | AskSeddit: does going to the gym regularly make a big difference from a PUA standpoint?yes definitely | /r/seduction | 07/02/10 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Does joining a 'lair' (like nyclair.com) actually help?Lairs are useful. Helped me a lot when I was starting. Some guys that are new can be annoying, but I was there once. It is important that you find wings that are joining for the SAME fundamental reasons. I.e. get as many lays as possible vs. finding a longterm girlfriend. If anything, if gives you an indication of the skill level of the regional lair, which really varies from PUA to PUA. Most experienced PUAs I have met are very interesting people and have lives OUTSIDE of pickup, which makes th… | /r/seduction | 06/02/10 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Style's wing Grimble from 'The Game' on Elimidate (video)There was some debate about the flowers and champaign being too much in the community since we usually make girls buy us stuff. Regardless, I think Grimble realized after a while that the other guys will blow themselves out, so he just sat back and relaxed and DHV'd now and then. Overall I didn't think much of the girl. Notice how he negged her by asking about her age - she was old and she has a kid, 2 strikes for a quality model girl. | /r/seduction | 06/02/10 01:09 AM |
| 1 | The Truth About Routines by DJ FujiThanks - I asked DJ Fuji for this article so newbies can learn routines correctly - AW | /r/seduction | 06/02/10 01:02 AM |
| 2 | AskSeduction: One-itis?Hey Ostrich. You're already on your way by being aware of the One-itis condition. By that alone you're ahead of more than 70% of the men out there. Each case is different depending on the "root cause" of that feeling of love for the girl and the specific circumstances between the lover and love-ee. I leave you with a quote from one of my idols, Hugh Hefner: "Maybe love is the illusion of our deepest desires (which can be god-like) projected onto another person, who is human". Acknowledge the thi… | /r/seduction | 01/02/10 02:30 AM |
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