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Women did not say they don't find men attractive. We said that visual stimuli alone isn't enough to get aroused. I even specified that I can be attracted by looks alone, though not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:23 PM
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I'm assuming he took this from a thread that got removed yesterday. OP asked what kind of male body a woman can get aroused just by looking at. Women (including me) overwhelmingly responded that just looking at it wasn't enough to be aroused. Now for some reason OP thinks not being aroused by visual stimuli alone = not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:21 PM
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I like the idea of being named after an alcohol, at least as a nickname. Like Cari-B being named after Bacardi. If I were a drink i'd definitely be Absinthe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:08 PM
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Can someone yell at me to study? I don't want to...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:12 PM
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I know everyone likes to say they listen to “everything” (they’re lying) but I truly consider myself to be part of the perhaps 1% population who genuinely enjoys everything. Yes, EVEN country! It’s like asking me what cultural cuisine I like. I like all of them, as long as the meal is good. And every country has at least one good meal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:12 PM
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I once met a guy who seemed confused when I asked what kind of music he likes. He said he just listens to whatever is on the radio when he drives and listens to whats on the speakers at the gym. Blew my fucking mind that people like this exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:46 PM
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her favorite music is "everything" God forbid a girl listen to Armenian folk music on her way to work and then Megan the Stallion on her way back
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:38 PM
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I'm not really talking about competitive sports just the average population
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:21 PM
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Are you capable of explaining the argument I presented in my comment and in what way the link you sent is supposed to disprove it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:19 PM
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Because men go out of their way to become physically stronger to conform to the masculine ideal, and assigning men roles that require physical strength would also effectively make them even stronger (I forget to say this in my original comment, but its exaggerated by both ideals and socially assigned roles)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:00 PM
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Technically both but mostly psychological
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:57 PM
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Sexual dymorphism is distorted and exaggerated by social ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:47 PM
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Wut? I have done this several times drunk. And sober too, once. And not squatting, standing. (wearing a skirt)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:18 PM
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None of it is real. These women who claim to be tradwifes are working jobs. They're content creators. They're selling the dream that you get to sit at home and be pretty, then go frolic in the grass with your children when you're bored, while your husband does everything else. I think this dream is being sold to immature women who aren't ready to grow up "if he doesn't, you're not his dream girl". And yeah. This is definitely toxic. I wasn't on social media for a really long time. Then I started…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:17 PM
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That vaginas don’t change size or colour with sexual inter course because apparently our generation of men don’t know this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:14 AM
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Kind of. But not necessarily. I've heard Japanese people prefer the west because of how socially tolerant western society is despite the fact that Japan is objectively safer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:54 PM
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Also tolerance. People look especially north america for the fact that people generally don't care who you are (gay, furry, whatever) and are just more accepting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:50 PM
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The closest female equivalent I can think of is having the desire to have my male friends be willing to get into fights with other men to defend my honour or something. And this is a desire which I have. And despite that my male friends are not willing to do this, I don't feel resentful against them or have trouble appreciating their friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:33 PM
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I've never had trouble acknowledging the merits of a friendship because I was too distracted by the ways that my friend doesn't let me fuck them or trespass certain boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:09 PM
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Except instead of expecting your friends to offer you food, when we're talking about men, we're talking about expecting women to sacrifice their sexual autonomy out of the kindness of their hearts. Women don't do that to their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:02 PM
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Is one of these innate differences that men are incapable of being kind without feeling entitled to sex in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:40 PM
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Men talk about womens rights as only existing at the mercy of men, meanwhile YOUR rights were provided to you by men stronger, richer, and more powerful than you who can also snatch your rights away without a moments notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:29 PM
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Indian bad because they cling on to misogynistic beliefs. Not for their race. This is also probably true for Arabs and Japanese and Korean and balkans and Africans but I didn’t make a post about it because I don’t have anything to do with these cultures so I don’t really care Also, I didn’t say that men are particularly more racist. Just that their racism is usually directed to the men of other races
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:04 PM
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This is completely unrelated to the post but I don't think reincarnation is necessarily supernatural. Basically, we know that energy never disappears. The physical body decomposes and turns into gas and liquids but what happens to the energy which animates life itself, the energy of neurons snapping together and working? It must turn into other life.... in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:06 PM
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These "boyfriend duties" are things that women do for their other female friends without complaining Goes to show that men don't have a good grip on what a friendship is. Alas... the male loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:30 AM
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Racism could mostly be solved if everyone acknowledged that the problem is men. The main qualm racists usually have against another race is usually the accusation that they're rapists and violent criminals. Why does the racist brain have the pattern recognition ability to see that a certain population is committing something like 50% of the crime but can't recognize that it's the same population committing 99% of the crime
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:03 AM
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What is the point of this post? Do you think the woman you're talking about didn't eventually realise that these men just wanted sex? She thought they were dating No she didn't... she called them situationships. Which is not something you say when you think you're dating someone. Back to my original question. What is the point of this post? Would you prefer that this woman, instead of saying "I've never been in a relationship but have been in situationships", to say: "I've never been in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:56 PM
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Ima start using the same provocative language for men doing the same thing: Males spend their youth “pussy-crawling” (think: bar crawling) where they indiscriminately simp for women they can get their hands on. Then they “hit the wall” at about 30-40 when they realise they’ve lived a meaningless life and will likely die alone. They now need a domestic slave for the sole purpose of having some sense of emotional security. The traits they look for in the women they enslave are just all the qualiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:29 PM
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Sorry, that was a typo. I mean *it would also create a dangerous power dynamic I'm not married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:05 PM
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Muzz is like tinder except people lie more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:44 PM
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I see Red Pill men on here constantly complaining about "beta buxxing" - women "settling" for them because they are stable providers, while not actually finding them attractive or wanting to sleep with them. What confuses me more is how this is any different from men settling down with a certain type of woman that they wouldn't necesarily hookup with in their younger years. People are more adventurous and carefree when they're young but their values and attraction changes as they get older. Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:37 PM
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Being a sexually repressed pervert goonette is so much more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:35 PM
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I actually do live in Canada 😅 Which is why I realise it's so ridiculous for me to be a CITIZEN of one of the freest countries in the world but still essentially be a slave to old foreign traditions just out of complacency and fear. My main problem is that i'll get disowned. Which is not only emotionally painful but it would also create a dangerous power dynamic between me and my husband. Because it would mean that I lost everything to be with him. If he leaves me, that wouldn't cost much for hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:25 PM
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In the last few weeks i've been slowly becoming more radfem for no reason. It wasn't triggered by anything. But i've gone my whole life seeing marriage as the most important thing (at least subconsciously) and was also so deeply concerned about whether I could ever get married. It was my main sense of self-value. BTW I grew up in a culture where my first proposal was when I was 13 and by the age of 18 my mom didn't talk to me about anything other than whether i've found someone to marry yet or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:10 PM
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It’s not reality. The reality is a totally morally neutral act. Your disgust is the meaning you project attached to it. Your personal feelings are not written into the fabric of reality. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:31 AM
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by making him the woman and forcing his hand Weird how the stuff we expect of women is suddenly "forcing" or degrading for a man to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:37 AM
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Not necessarily hypocrisy. Hypocrisy would imply they acknowledge the double standard and somehow try to justify it. This is just a matter of ignorance. I’m assuming these women don’t really clock the fact that the male depiction they’re reading is unrealistic. Kind of like how most men don’t notice or care for the opposite. Personally IDK I’m just speaking out of my ass because 99% of the fiction I read is written by men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:39 PM
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Yes I did read it but if you addressed the difference in reading demographics then it must have went over my head. But why should humans even bother reading something that no human bothered to write ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:33 PM
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The fact that "men writing women" gets a lot more criticism than the opposite is also due to the fact that women read more than men in general, especially fiction. Hence the majority of literary criticism is coming from a female perspective. And is this post written by AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:20 PM
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I didn't call it incel hatespew because I disagree with you. I disagreed with you since the beginning, but it wasn't until you didn't switch to using hateful and agressive language indicative of a person who doesn't actually give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:40 PM
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This is reality and I truly do not understand why everyone can not agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:35 PM
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Incel hatespew that only exists on the internet and doesn't show in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:32 PM
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Honesty, putting effort into communication, and consideration of their feelings/needs. Respecting your partner but also respecting yourself enough to know when boundaries are being crossed and not being afraid of having tough conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:26 PM
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I was actually thinking about this recently. I saw this guy who constantly post reels like "Men don't marry women with piercings/who smoke/ have a body count higher than 4/ go to bars/ go on girls trips/ literally anything". And my question was... what was he trying to achieve with these posts? I truly think these men think they're scaring women into behaving how they want. But after hearing all this shit, all I think is "Maybe marriage just isn't for me" and not "OMG!!! i regret all my life cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:57 AM
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ijbol'd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:54 AM
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My point is your falsely constructing a dichotomy which doesn't really exist in real life. Most people start dating at around 16 and get married in their 30s after a handful of failed relationships. This is called being normal and it's being neither a whore nor a virgin. If anything, from what I've heard from them, non-religious men who are 30+ would steer away from grown ass virgin women because their lack of experience and knowledge isn't a promising sign of a good long-term partner. It's like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:45 AM
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Yeah. The only options are to be a virgin and live an awesome life or to have sex with literally everyone and die miserable. There is nothing in between. There have never been virgins in bad marriages and there have never been happy non-virgin women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:26 AM
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Yeah I think its true. Cause I see a lot of stupid shit posted by women on social media. To be fair IDK how much of this is real. I've seen sooo many women claim that you are the prize just for being a woman—because being seen with you adds his social value, because you're putting yourself at risk by going out with a man— so you deserve to have all your needs met and paid for. Dumbest shit ever. And the worst part is, they act like "normal" woman are below them and lack self-respect for being wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:02 PM
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Yeah no shit it’s raunchy it’s porn but my point is that in general porn for women cares more about story and character dynamics more than porn for men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:16 PM
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I'm no smut reader but seriously. Why do you think women are reading this stuff and not just watching AI porn of it which is what men do with weird shit like hentai?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah its true that women repress their sexuality and speak of sex as something that happens to them (men do the latter just as much as women, it's part of female-purity culture. They see sex as degrading for women or as something which they "lose" in. i.e a woman "gives pussy" or whatever) However, it's also literally true that male and female sexuality is different and we often find male sexuality vulgar and crude. Like when I see the stuff thats on the main page of pornhub I either physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:22 PM
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Nah I was beating off thinking about him like the night before so it’s not that. Plus, in my experience my menstrual cycle doesn’t change who I’m attracted to it just changes the intensity of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:05 PM
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Less than two weeks. In general it takes me a long time to get used to someone and feel comfortable enough to start feeling attraction. I was hanging out with my ex regularly for like two months in non-romantic settings before I started liking him. So I kind of want to keep seeing him and see if it leads to me developing something IRL but I also feel bad about potentially not developing these feelings and him feeling like he wasted time and energy with me. Plus it makes me step-back and lose att…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:04 PM
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I didn’t think that because there was nothing about him that seemed immediately nervous or insecure, nothing that I could consciously point out. But now that I’m thinking about it, in text he was definitely bolder, and in person he seemed to preface some statements with “this is going to sound weird but…” or “blah blah blah blah… oh, but I don’t mean it in like, a weird way” as if he was afraid to just say what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:01 PM
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So I went out with a guy I met on an app. It might sound stupid to say I felt chemistry over text but yeah I had that feeling of having a crush and getting the urge to text him throughout the day and stuff like that. But we met in person and it just… didn’t feel like that. And no, his looks or presentation wasn’t disappointing or anything it was exactly how I expected. But I don’t know, I just didn’t have the feeling and I didn’t have the urge to be get physically closer to him or kiss or anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:10 AM
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You don't need to constantly be stepping on egg-shells. Makes sense to be considerate of others in certain situations like if you're walking the same way as a woman at night but I feel like you're taking it too far. Because there's a difference between making sure someone doesn't feel afraid for their life vs making sure someone isn't mildly weirded out. Also calling someone ugly is distasteful enough to make me dislike someone, but you can still say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:38 AM
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Are you sure? An insecure woman will constantly ask for validation and reaffirmation and you're walking on eggshells when you talk to her. Have men never broken up with a woman for being too clingy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:02 AM
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Can you give more examples of how exactly men aren’t allowed to be insecure? I’m not finding yours convincing Let’s say I was bald and I posted my picture on a dating advice forum looking for advice to have more success. And then people tell me to get a wig. Does it make sense for me to now say “WOMEN ARENT ALLOWED TO BE BALD!!”? Like, I can be bald. It’s just making me less attractive, and I’ve asked people what I can do to be more attractive, and they’ve given me an answer. As for the fact tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:26 AM
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Regardless of the reason behind why he acts the way he does, the fact is, cutting her out of his life is also going to hurt her feelings-- it's going to make her feel like the friendship wasn't meaningful or real and he just wanted to get in her pants-- and hence why women hate the experience. I've asked out a guy friend knowing there was a 99% chance he didn't like me back (but my feelings were so strong that 1% was driving me crazy.) Got rejected. I was hurt and I continued to wonder why he di…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:32 PM
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Idk. Call your mom and ask her why she loves being used as a cum deposit birthing machine and then ask her why she’s reacting so harshly to an objective truth (she was, in fact, inseminated by your father and gave birth to you)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:53 PM
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That’s why on the first date I never interrogate about the kinds of qualities I want from him. Just treat it as two strangers getting to know each other and if I like his vibe then I’ll go forward with it and ask the important questions later on . It’s a total turn off from me as well when guys treat it like a job interview because you end up knowing nothing about the person except their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:50 PM
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Among my friends of similar attractiveness levels, twinky extraverts are the most successful in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:48 PM
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Because people look down on a woman for having too much sex. And when someone asks bluntly the implication is usually that they’re going to make a judgement on it. And people don’t like being looked upon or judged negatively. It’s also just kind of an intrusive question (if you ask too early on). Like I’m not ashamed of taking a shit but if I don’t know you and you ask about my bowel movements I’m gonna be like wtf If having a low number is important to you then you should just say that instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:38 PM
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Neither is hated just criticized. When you approach a woman too early she doesn’t have much to go off of to know if you’re worth going out with or not. And not everyone likes talking to strangers, regardless of gender. Like, some people like chit chatting with strangers at the bus stop and other people are suffering inside and want you to shut the fuck up. And you’re just gonna have to have the courage to know there’s no guarantee. There’s no way to know who’s who you just have to read their bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:34 PM
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Oh it is more logical for him. Although chances are he can't easily get it for free. Alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:55 PM
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Well if it helps I agree that expecting men to pay is stupid. I used to let men pay for me because they usually do it automatically or at least the server automatically puts the bill together and hands it to the man, and I didn't feel like going out of my way to stop myself from getting free food. But nowadays I realised how fucking stupid it is for me to act like a man needs to buy my time just to have a conversation with me. And how fucking stupid it is to mindlessly give in to misogynistic cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:13 PM
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Or lust. My favourite doublethink is "Men are more logical" and "Men think with their second heads" both being common phrases
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:00 PM
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As far as I know women in France and I think the Netherlands don't expect men to pay. (thats why they call it going dutch) So the fact that the forum is english might cause a bias
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:59 PM
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It's more logical to pay for your own food when you can easily get it for free? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:55 PM
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I'm very emotional. Much more emotional than the average woman, I think. I'm pretty much feeling something at any given moment of the day (not triggered by a real event) and I feel it strongly. This doesn't make me illogical, it just means I experience emotions. I don't do stupid things due to them, because i'm quite firmly aware of these emotions when i'm feeling them, and i know when my emotions are baseless and don't merit being acted upon. I can cognitively separate my feelings from my think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:52 PM
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The meaning accountability has subtly shifted due to the manosphere. Once upon a time accountability meant taking responsibility for something morally wrong that you did. When manosphere says it they mean “women who are victimized by men need to analyze what they did in order to be victimized.” If a woman starts talking about abuse or getting cheated on they say she needs to take accountability for ignoring the red flags or whatever have you. Yet the person who actually did the wrong is apperant…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:46 PM
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Disclaimer: I’m ugly and weird (see flair for more details) Quite rarely. Last time I got approached in public I’m pretty sure was a homeless tweaker. That was more than a month ago. I also don’t get a lot of attention on dating apps but to be fair that’s also largely due to how few men I swipe right on. Although when I do swipe right it’s usually a match. My problem on dating apps is my main thing is having a guy have vaguely the same interests as me. 70% of men are just “meh” to me. Which mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:30 PM
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very unreflective and even self-unaware Unlike le average high IQ reddit-poster. But seriously, a lot of people who party aren't hedonistic tweakers, they're relatively normal. They like losing themselves every now and then but then go back to a normal routine. Or maybe they just like to get a few drinks in and socialize. But that's aside the point. Your post hinges on the axiom that sex is somehow disturbing or bad and women need to be slut shamed and kept in check... because... men are misogyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:37 PM
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Why do we keep acting like women exclusively thirsting over hot Christian Grey billionaires is a real thing. In reality, the guy she's obsessed with is just Jim from the sales department. The problem is that chemistry is a sort of difficult thing to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:15 AM
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Except you're not gaining social points or attraction points for having had seen an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:28 AM
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They are already doing this lol. Go out with a girl you don't really like and don't want a future with just to pass the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:38 AM
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Bros disappointed that being perceived as normal doesn't cause woman to immediately jump on your cock
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:11 AM
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It's worth asking why they're happy or unhappy. I'm unhappy because i'm chronically mentally ill. This probably won't change with marriage, and it also decreases my chances of getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:08 AM
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it's not statistics that scare most of us. It's our lived experiences. For real. I remember stepping out in the world as a teenager and being naive, trusting everyone (men) and giving everyone (men) the benefit of the doubt. Now I feel my heart race increase every time an unknown man talks approaches me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:15 AM
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Woah I didn’t realize I just made all of this up, teehee! I’ll make sure to inform the last woman who got gang raped and tortured to death, at least she’s not the male Reddit poster with real problems
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:19 PM
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“We think women are retarded and they just need to shut the fuck up. Omg why do they have a problem with this? Women are so difficult” Well on the one hand you think women can’t talk about things they don’t understand but here you are talking about womanhood despite the fact that you have never been one. Why do you want women to act in a way that you yourself are incapable of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:15 PM
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Oh of course I have. And I’d love to see it. But I haven’t. Society as a whole doesn’t usually function with a good sense of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:44 PM
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That collectivist spirit also means being ostracized, shamed, disowned, and ridiculed for being in any way different or putting cultural norms to question. It means shutting up and repressing every desire or thought you have that might go against your family tradition, which you have to accept fully for no reason other than “because it’s always been that way.” It means not standing up for yourself and shutting up when you’ve been the victim of something so not to cause a scene or disturbance in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:09 PM
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But saying that Indian men should be harsher is seriously a wild take. In the best case scenario (and most common) we get beat and verbally abused for going against cultural norm. It’s pretty much a standard experience for desis. It’s true for both girls and boys except girls have an extra layer of expectations surrounding proper behaviour and purity. And getting disowned is not rare at all. That happened to my sister and two of my cousins for marrying outside of our culture. We’re not even allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:00 PM
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You’re right. I don’t think non Indians can really have a nuanced or insightful idea on the culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:55 PM
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I posted this to rant. This is my go to location to rant about anything vaguely gender related. What did you think I was expecting? Did you think I was expecting that the whites here would fall to their knees and respond to me “omg 😍 queen!!!! Thank you for her betraying your kind for us”. Im not going to defend certain beliefs just because people of my skin colour hold these beliefs. I’m not gonna act like I don’t think it’s disgusting. Call it betrayal or internal racism or attention-seeking o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:36 PM
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Why is it so difficult for you to imagine I can be a woman with an opinion the way my culture treats women without it being an attempt to appeal to the whites? Why aren’t women allowed to think things without it always being assumed that it’s for attention? I struggle to consider men my “compatriots”. There’s no brotherhood between men and women. They will not treat us with the same respect as their fellow men. Women who have joined the military but end up being sexually assaulted by their own m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:21 PM
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I don’t even particularly like white men. They just happen to be more abundant in the western country where I live. I just like any culture more than Indian (or Arabs, because Muslims are basically the same, if not worse, in terms of views on women). Let’s show the Latino’s some love. They let their women dance and shake their ass at family barbecues, unlike your Indian mom who will smack you and call you besharmi for wearing a t-shirt without a dupatta while your uncle is over to visit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:02 PM
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I think as a foreigner it’s ok to travel in India with a group and stay together, if you look there might be a group specifically for women who want to travel in India but don’t feel safe. And if you have a tour guide who knows how to get around (knows what areas to avoid, how to avoid scammers)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:44 PM
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Go to a cafe and talk and idk, hang out? The sex part happens after many dates and an established relationship. But that’s rare as most dates lead nowhere. So the most accurate way to describe dating is hanging out and not getting dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:42 PM
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All I said was date. It was your sex fiend mind that instantly read this as liking cock and having a cuck fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:22 PM
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BTW no need to explain why u like white cock , we dont want to read your cuck fetish. Average indian male brain unable to think of womans opinion being formed out of anything other than her whorish desires
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:34 PM
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It is not to be confused with forced marriages All forced marriages are arranged marriages. The line is blurry. Nightmare fuel. Only works in cultures that are "group" thinking based where everything is for the larger good of the family/society instead on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:29 PM
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(warning: i'm Indian so this is only slightly racist) I always see comments like "This is why I don't want a daughter" on posts where a woman is doing anything vaguely regarded as sexually promiscuous or improper. And 99% of the time it's Indian guys. | India literally has a worldwide reputation for gang rape. I have literally never seen any India react to this with "This is why I don't want a son". Why is a males right to existence treated as a given but a females needs to be justified with goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:10 PM
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Woohoo! more bisexual men for me 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:09 PM
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Unfortunately women are human beings and not owned by the men they have sex with so your metaphor doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:08 PM
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I try but its hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:01 PM
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I'm not talking about being approached by men in a normal way and then just assuming that its sexual. I'm talking about them demonstrating that it's sexual, which they usually do fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:35 PM
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You might be right but it's hard for me to tell because I am a basement dweller and don't interact with real people as often as netizens. And even when it comes to the real people I interact with we're rarely on terms where we can discuss this sort of thing Grew up in a very religious (islamic) household and culture where ideals of purity were extreme and deeply inculcated into my brain This post is based on my own experience and how my feelings have shifted during times where I was deep into th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:31 PM
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What exactly do you mean? “Ask” in what context? Sorry I don’t really understand your question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:36 PM
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I'm not stuck in my parents house. I just come from the kind of family that will disown you and possibly kill you for being gay. So even though I have the choice to cut them off as an adult I would prefer to keep the peace and try to have a good relationship with them Yeah i'm sticking to OLD for now. I can't say exactly how many matches I get but basically it's more than I can keep up with. My main problem is all the conversations are boring asf and dry. I try to throw an interesting or off-bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:24 AM
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Guys. (parents aren't accepting of gays so there's no point pursuing girls). I think it's especially hard because i'm using OLD so it's hard to feel engaged in a conversation when you're managing multiple at the same time. Still easier than stepping out into the real world though I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:11 AM
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I think by breaking hearts OP means breaking up not rejecting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:03 AM
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It might work for a while but it would also hurt. And i'm very emotionally sensitive so it's not going to take very long for me to blow up and have a mental breakdown over it and decide to never see you again for all the pain you've caused me. Maybe just be normal idk that might work better in the long term. But honestly I don't understand the whole "acting disinterested" thing. When i'm into a guy i'm into him. It's not going to give me the "ick" that he responds to my texts immediately, in fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:00 AM
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Wtf, are you commenting this from 2017 or something? I used to like contrapoints but at a certain point she got too obsessed with being a microcelebrity on twitter and then started making 3 hour long videos about twitter and jk rowling instead of philosophy or social commentary or anything actually interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:48 AM
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I'm pro choice. Not because I disagree that life starts at conception or that fetuses feel pain. I just don't give a shit. The basis of my morality is "If i wouldn't like it being done to me, then it's immoral to do to others." and If I got aborted I wouldn't complain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:42 AM
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I literally just want to go out with someone I can have good interesting conversations with. Why is it so hard. Before "because you're rejecting the guys for not being tall enough" accusations: no. I have many a times swiped right on guys that I have little attraction in but thought i'd give it a shot anyways. Still no better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:41 AM
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No. Just watch the movie again and pay better attention. She was stuck in an oppressive dynamic due to their status and also the fact that she's a woman. The marriage was arranged because her family is in debt and her mother saw this as a way of saving them. Rose then had to marry him as an obligation, and her mother accuses her of being selfish for ever putting it in question. No way you can just easily get a divorce in a situation like that. But technically you could say that she eventually le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:40 AM
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Rose is forced into the marriage. This movie is proof that women don't want to do things against their will no matter how rich and hot you are. Damn women and their consent obsession SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:26 AM
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Some basic aspects of what feminism aimed to achieve socially are still relevant. Like victim blaming of SA and people acting like a woman is lesser for having and enjoying sex. What is your work anecdote supposed to prove? On the opposite end, i've worked in a male dominated industry (at one point I was the only woman on a construction site of like 150 guys) and I felt humiliated and disparaged by the way they treated me and spoke to me. I have never worked with women acting so terribly. So wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:24 AM
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I'm sorry but you seem lacking in self esteem and respect. The RP men responding to this might act like theres nothing wrong with this post but If you were a man they would all be calling you a simp with no self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:19 AM
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Yeah, following instagram baddies is weird asf. On the other hand, I don't really have an opinion on a guy having no posts. It doesn't really mean anything. If he tries too hard to look cool I guess it's also a red flag. Or at least it's icky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:57 AM
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You are the red flag for taking social media this seriously. Why does everyone think they need to act like a celebrity? It's not necessarily about following someone who doesn't follow you back. Sometimes it's just about following meme pages, celebrities, or pages that post content you like. Generally, these accounts don't follow anyone back except for other pages they're affiliated with. it is not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:56 AM
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Well, i'm looking at the front page of pornhub and it looks like 95% of these women have very attractive faces. So maybe there is a lot of porn with less attractive women in it, but i'm not buying that the majority of men aren't consuming porn with very attractive women the majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:24 AM
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If men were causally hooking up with Dua Lipa/Margot Robbie at the weekend or on a slow Tuesday then men would find it very hard to pair bond with an average looking woman. But in the real world, this almost never happens! But they are jerking off to women who look like that on the regular. Does having had consumed porn featuring 11/10 women also damage a mans ability to bond with average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:59 PM
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Are you under the impression that my post hinges on the idea that its what fathers are teaching their daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:20 AM
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She did not want other people to see it. But she sent it to him. Therefore she trusts him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:34 PM
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It's not really dating advice. It's just that I wasn't allowed to hang out with boys as a child/teen. The question of that post has nothing to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:16 PM
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What we're taught about men is more or less that its part of male nature. When it comes to any other crime, we get taught to be cautious just in case. Not because it's what you should expect. It's not like we get taught that breaking into houses is just "human nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:57 PM
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It's not about the result. It's about contradicting our conception of what it means to be a "good" man/woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:54 PM
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What this post fails to take into consideration is that the vast majority of women don't believe they deserve to be served everything on a silver platter from a man just because she's a woman. This is a very small amount of the population which are over represented on social media. (because outrage content does the best). That's like if I honestly believed that all men, or even the majority of men, demanded submissive women. That's called being out of touch with reality. How does this post have …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:21 PM
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There is literally no way to disprove this. Because the post doesn't prove anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:01 PM
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I agree that Americans are weird about age differences. But this isn't the case here. 20 and 40 is in fact a big difference. And as far as I understand, people in other, eastern, cultures would think it's odd too, though they might not be as hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:46 PM
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Yeah... I guess. We're not talking ET levels ugly, just not pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:12 PM
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Woohoo there's hope for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:58 PM
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If 5- to-10 is pretty-to-gorgeous. And 5 is exactly average (not totally ugly, but you wouldn't call her pretty). Then i'm talking 4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:56 PM
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You're bullshitting right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:26 PM
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For men, does a woman having a great body make up for a below average face?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:24 PM
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This isn't really an answer to the title question, but on the subject of Leo Skepi -- He's gay. He's very obviously gay too. I think women tend to regard a flamboyant gay man in the same regard as another woman. I've only seen a few of his videos and I don't know much about him, but it looks like his audience calls him out. There's a post on a snark page calling him a sociopath (300 upvotes and 100 comments) . It's literally the first link on google when you look up his name. It seems like the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:22 PM
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Maybe that Moral guy can come explain why he picked up a homeless woman from a shelter and keeps her like a pet because “he knows he’s the best she’ll ever get.” wat? was that a post here or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:22 PM
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Does it get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:33 PM
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Yeah... I don't have a logical reason as to why. 🤷‍♀️ It just sort of is embarrassing, so I wouldn't like it to be extremely public knowledge. I'm not saying it has to be a total secret, it's just not the kind of thing everyone needs to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:07 PM
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That's a really good point. I guess at the end of the day, nobody really wants to put themselves at the disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:39 PM
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As long as it looks real, and the entire world doesn't know about it being fake, then i'm fine with it. (otherwise it would just sort or be embarrassing) Personally i'm on the fence about having kids. But if I were to have kids, it's not like balding genes are bad for any reason other than aesthetic. We're not talking about heart disease or something. I don't really mind if my son is unattractive, lol. Likewise, I have had acne basically my whole life. I use topical treatments to prevent breakou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:38 PM
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I can sympathize with just about any men's issue as long as it isn't framed in the argument of "being a woman is living life on easy mode because...". Why can't we just acknowledge that men and women have different struggles? On top of everything listed in the top comment here, i'll also add that men receive very strong mixed signals from society about how to treat women and how to be a "real man". Like, on the hand, men are "supposed to be assertive and dominant" but also you have to worry abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:23 PM
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Yeah, I can take 39 hits easy for the perfect man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:39 AM
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No, quite the opposite actually. Because at the end of the day I have to bring back a man to mom and dad. My romantic encounters with women have all been unintentional, and I don't seek them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:52 AM
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Yeah, but it would require leaving the house. I'd rather bitch about my life on the internet and goon all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:59 PM
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To preface, I don't have a checklist. What I like and dislike are intuitive. IDK what's wrong with you sociopaths who have a list in your notes app. But for the sake of the subreddit, here's one i'm going to draft up now: Physical: Not horrendously ugly. I find that as long as a guys face doesn't make you wanna vomit immediately, then he can end up being hot once you have enough chemistry Same height as me or taller. Being shorter is not a deal breaker but it's a harder bargain Has hair. i dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:14 PM
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loves me more than I love him Loves me even after divorce It looks like she's getting married to get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:13 PM
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It certainly is social media and the personal echo chamber everyone is provided through the algorithm. Of course no one sees themselves as in the wrong when they saw 100 posts today of people saying what they're doing is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:53 PM
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And honestly? If i were a woman i wouldn’t want my man sucking dicks either. suit yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:31 AM
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I think it is true for most women. (not me though, i'm built different) My theory is that male homosexuality is regarded with the same contempt as female promiscuity. Just as promiscuity threatens the idea of what femininity is meant to be, homosexuality does the same for masculinity (yet female homosexuality doesn't really threaten femininity, and male promiscuity doesn't threaten masculinity) So women justifying their reasoning by saying they wouldn't do it because it "increases the chances of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:56 AM
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My bad, I assumed OP was talking about boyfriends/husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:28 PM
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that time in the month when I randomly feel hornier than usual
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:21 PM
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Wait for her to start ovulating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:13 PM
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I've noticed this too For example, women don't find X attractive. Men will say something like: why do women hate X? Why do women think X is wrong? Why do women condemn X? Isn't it so hypocritical of women to hate us for X but then do it themselves? I think men subconsciously see female attraction as an award. When they get the opposite, they see it as a punishment, and then they're upset that they've been punished unjustly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:39 PM
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People who are held responsible to defend the nation during crisis are the only who should have a say in the policies of the Nation. Should men who are not fit for service have the right to vote? i.e physical handicap, health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:50 AM
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Kierkegaard: “Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang your…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:26 PM
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In large, I agree with you that sometimes restriction leads to happiness and freedom leads to misery. If the meaning of life is to be happy, then that works. But if the meaning of life is to search for the truth, or to live honestly, or to live according to an ideal, etc, it's more complicated. (these things are often opposed to our own personal happiness) Absolute autonomy-- having to make every decision yourself and having to look at your life as purely the result of your decisions-- is agoniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:12 PM
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If Nancy will never admit it-- how do you know she's secretly jealous of her brother? Do you not see how your personal projections are the driving force of the narratives your giving of these peoples lives? Somehow, you know that Nancy SECRETLY hates her life. But you also know for certain that there are no secrets in Mike and Jessicas life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:50 PM
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I have seen that the sexuality of a woman is closely related to being desired It's worth noting that this is only kind of true. There are many iterations of "Men want to desire, women want to be desired". Yet this is obviously not true 100%-- women wouldn't be happy in a relationship with an ugly guy just because he's obsessed with her. And men wouldn't be happy with a hot girl who just put up with him and didn't like him back. Anyway, I know it's not the point of this post. But I thought it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:53 AM
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Well of course. But men with real problems are the vulnerable people who grifters take advantage of. That's the whole business model. Though responsibility rests on the individual more than anyone else, I don't agree that women have absolutely no role to play in this. Due to social media we have a tendency to be extremist. Men seem incapable of sympathizing with women and vice versa. As one group becomes more extreme and unsympathetic, the other becomes more unsympathetic and extreme in return. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:46 AM
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One scenario is verifying a rare, highly consequential event that actually happened (pregnancy) vs a woman that wants STD testing...oh...just because 🤷 No. You're not verifying the pregnancy. You're verifying that she didn't cheat on you. As with an STD test. It's not just "because". It's to verify he's not cheating which could cause her health problems. Since couples often run into problems around the time of pregnancy, why don't women ask for STD tests at that time? Let's say she asked once be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:28 PM
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When i'm not in a relationship, I don't think about fucking at all. When i'm with someone, I wanna fuck him 24/7 DAE?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:17 PM
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I don't know what a theoretical universe of men getting pregnant would look like. But we can make a comparison of "if the tables were turned" of something that does make sense in this universe: STD testing. Women are more vulnerable to the long-term health effects of certain STD's. Considering that, seems to me that the stakes are way too high to let his hurt feelings get in the way of her physical well being and even her life. Do you think its sensible for a woman to ask her husband to get regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:59 PM
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When it comes to having children, the emotional and financial stakes are WAY too high to let someone's hurt feelings get in the way of verified truth. Good thing your partners feelings doesn't matter in a relationship. That's how it works right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:50 PM
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Link vs Ganondorf. David vs Goliath
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:46 PM
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Are the mental gymnastics that are used in evolutionary psychology really any worse than those used in theories of social constructionism? No, they both seem to be equally illogical to me. The safest thing we can conclude is "theories of social conditioning and theories of evolutionary psychology are both a little bit true". Unfortunately that doesn't really give the redpill much guidance when the goal is to espouse one gender ideology as the incontestable truth. I suppose the same is also true …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:32 PM
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How to do evolutionary psychology: Observe male or female behaviour Have rudimentary understanding of biology Do any number of mental gymnastics required to connect 1 to 2. Voilà! Now we get to excuse all theories of socialization and conclude that everything we observe is just science. It's perfect because you can't disprove it. That's how science works right? Example: Observation: Women like to wear pink Rudimentary truth about biology: Women tend to have a pinkish face during moments of sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:13 PM
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Basically, yeah. End thread. End subreddit. I think probably 90% of the women here are freaks in some way. The men here make some statement which is probably true for the majority of women, but they've addressed the accusation to the precise population for whom it's not true. (Well, then there's also some outlandish shit that is just offensively untrue like "women like having sex in the dark because they don't want to look at you so they can think of the unicorn 10/10 chad". But putting all that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:33 PM
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I hope we all agree that PragerU is a shit channel, regardless of your politics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:22 PM
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Most women don't consider being short to be a dealbreaker unless you're shorter than her. The average female height is like 5'3. Sure, being 6 foot is better, but you'll do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:25 PM
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and start thinking that there also wouldn't be a market without the creators If there weren't any willing creators there would only be unwilling creators. (human trafficking).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:46 PM
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I'm gonna exclude the incident where a guy started chasing me because that belongs on a thread about crime. Other than that, the worst experience I've had was when I was about 16 and some grown man approached me on the sidewalk . (I mean I guess this is also criminal but it's not like he knew I was 16). This was during the day, but the street was otherwise desolate. This was a long time ago so I don't remember the exact words, but he just started asking me things directly like if I had a boyfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:59 PM
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I think they are aware of it. I know they know that sluts exist because they talk about them a lot. It's just another case of doublethink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:06 PM
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Obligatory: Only if you're a 10/10. For everyone else, if you don't try, then she's not going to even notice you exist. Sorry lads. The only truth here is: don't try too hard. Women can smell desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:24 PM
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wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:33 PM
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Sometimes women do offer sex with zero expectation. Some women do actually just enjoy having sex. Just because he's hot. But these women are called loose, sluts, low value, etc. If you do exactly what Tate's bretherin think a high value woman should do (save yourself for the right man, only give yourself after marriage in exchange for his financial and physical protection) then you're a prostitute. So basically, you either get to be a slut or a prostitute. But hey, even if you're a slut I guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:51 AM
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There's tons of cases of middle aged/old people falling for romance scams, believing they're dating brad pitt, angeline jolie, etc. Is it so hard to believe that rich men can be delusional in love too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:27 AM
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He drafts up a literal written contract of consent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:54 PM
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I think I just wrote it in a confusing way. Yes they're both consent, and i'm saying one situation is unnecessary (but acceptable) while in the other situation it is necessary. Asking to hold someones hand isn't necessary but it is ok. It's timid, but not overly timid. Assuming that the dynamic you have with that person isn't completely clear (are we into each other? are we dating or are we just friends?) and you've never touched each other at all before. And when the dynamic is unclear, its nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:56 PM
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Yeah, no... Only necessary if the thing he's about to do is about to go A BIG step further than what we've already established as appropriate. If we've never touched each other at all ever, then I think asking to hold my hand is ok. But if we're already cuddling and then he's asking is he can touch my hand, and then my arm, and then my waist, and then my back, --that's absurd. But if you're going to go a big step further and take my shirt off, you'll have to ask. Verbal consent is annoying at wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:17 PM
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TBF they were drunk. Drunk people make decisions that they would otherwise not make. I think you should void those instances to get a more accurate picture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:45 PM
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I didn't make any leap, you're just quoting the comment i'm replying to incorrectly. He did not say that women hold power, he said women hold absolute power. Given that I have ABSOLUTE power on the dating market, and that (in his precise words) I get to take what I want, this quite clearly means that men don't get to consent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:48 PM
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I am proud of my male ancestors and their achievements and historical prowess You also carry shame for all your male ancestors moral failings, intellectual weakness, and senseless violence too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:38 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers to both sex and relationships, women have the absolute power on the dating market So do I get to throw myself on literally any man I want and he isn't allowed to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:33 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/_ke-Ep2Gu1E?si=l6JApT6Pko7UQuxn This is crazy. It's so blatantly obvious that the women found his aggressiveness a red flag. Men in the comment section are incapable of understanding. My god
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:00 AM
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From what I understand OP isn't talking about red flags in women, she's talking about men not being able to detect red flags in other men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:58 AM
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I think you need to go outside cause people don't say that about a 21 and 25 year old. Try 21 and 40 though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:01 AM
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The older you are, the less you change in the same span of time. Between 18 and 23, people change a lot. Between 40 and 45, the changes are small, if they exist at all. At that point, your personalty and your life is already set. So when you're 40 dating an 18 year old, know that it's not going to be the same person in 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:26 AM
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They do exist. They just aren't very popular because the algorithm boosts ragebait content more than reasonable advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:02 PM
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That's cool and all, but I just butted in to tell you that it is statistically true that women are more at risk with the man "in the house". I've said nothing else so I don't know where any of these arguments are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:39 PM
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Most women of children dont get murder or abused by men. Most women aren't victims of murder. But most women who are victims of murder are murdered by their male partner. Hence, the man in the home is statistically more dangerous for her than the one outside. Pretty easy to find sources on this with a few keywords
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:15 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:12 PM
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On the other hand, when women watch porn, they are more often than not absorbing these ideas as the subject, they internalize expectations that are given to them by porn, participate in their own sexualization and dehumanization, eroticize their own pain, and accept worse treatment from men. Bruh did you forget that normal porn exists too? Like did you know that theres videos of just normal couples having normal sex? Or just a guy/gal stroking their thing on camera? Not everything is torture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:21 PM
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I don't think the women who want a man obsessed with them really want a partner. They want a fan. Not somebody they're really going to respect as an equal. I find it absurd. But to give them the benefit of the doubt, maybe "obsessed" is hyperbolic language to describe a man just being very affectionate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:18 PM
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Then I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:54 PM
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The reason why I don’t see these things is because either they aren’t common or because I don’t surround myself with those kinds of people. I also work a blue collar job so naturally the people I’m surrounded with aren’t blue-collar-negative. I don’t understand how this is conflict avoidant. Is it better if I go out of to befriend materialistic cunts who look down on me? I don’t get it Let’s imagine the 100k salary girlboss goes on a date with a guy. She finds out midway that he’s a garbage man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:14 PM
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Not wanting to date somebody isn’t the same as actively hating them Many men not only refuse to date sex workers (that’s not the problem) but talk to and about them like they’re the scum of the earth. Look at any viral OF creators comment section, it’s men saying how they’re disgusting, used up, the problem with society, etc. I’ve seen more than one post of a guy going out of his way to send a SWs content to her father. The comment section is men calling him a hero and applauding him— for what? …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:52 PM
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I don’t hate porn I do hate the fact that the men who consume porn also tend to be degrading against the women who do porn though I can’t imagine consuming a service and then looking down on someone for providing the service I wanted (I also have an issue with AI porn due to consent issues) Nothing in smut involves real people, unlike porn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:38 PM
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That's why whether traveling is a red flag or not depends on why they do it. Some people travel because they want to learn about different cultures and histories. Some people like to party and look cool on social media. Usually, after talking to someone for like 20 minutes you can figure out which camp they belong in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:30 PM
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To add to this, it's not uncommon for victims of sexual abuse to sleep around as a sort of way to heal. They're putting themselves back into sexual situations which are actually consensual and where they get to have bodily autonomy. I'm not saying it's the best coping mechanism as it as well comes with risks, but I can see how it's also legitimately helpful A sort of "Exposure therapy"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:17 AM
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The better question is why do they like body hair but not baldness? Neither of them are really consequential. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:16 AM
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Tallness is largeness. Being large can be advantageous for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:34 PM
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Women are generally just a lot more sexually fluid and more likely to be bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:27 PM
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What no education/interest in humanities studies does to a MF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:37 PM
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Women desire a taller man, which is directly related to their submissive nature (they do not want to feel like the man in relationship for example) Not really. The simple reason why women like it is sexual dimorphism. When a trait is more pronounced in the opposite gender, it becomes attractive. It's the same reason many women like facial hair or chest hair. Or why men usually don't like these traits in women. There's not necessarily always any explanation behind it other than "it's hot because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:33 PM
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That's not how it works. This is like saying, white people didn't enslave black people because they were stronger, because if they were stronger, then they wouldn't need to enslave them. Which is such a backward way to look at things. You have OP's argument backwards. What she's saying is that women are forced to be submissive. A naturally submissive person wouldn't need to be forced, they would just do it. A more accurate comparison to slavery is that OP is saying: Black people aren't inherentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:55 PM
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I think BP acknowledges subconscious drives, just disagreeing with the cause (RP will say something is deeply biologically ingrained while BP will say the same thing is caused by society) and also the ubiquitousness of them(RP will say AWALT but BP will say that it's more individualistic and depends on several factors). BP will acknowledge the involvement of biology to a certain extent, but see that there are other factors involved such as individual psychology, and they see biology as playing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:34 PM
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The authour tries to claim that being with someone with a love language you don't know is like someone trying to speak with you in Chinese. LMFAO. Everybody more or less like a little bit of all that stuff. It's called being human. Furthermore, men saying that their love language is physical touch on OLD gives me major ick. It's like he's saying "Hey, you should come over and we can cuddle :)". Which of course, is like saying: "I wanna have sex, but I swear i'm different. I'm super sentimental a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:25 PM
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I'd consider it fine if it was cheap but had sentimental value. Since we're talking about the early stage of dating, it's not going to be some THAT sentimental. But for example if I say I like collecting stamps, and on the next date he gives me an interesting stamp that he happened to come across while at the post office and thought of me. That would be very sweet. On the other hand, if it was an expensive gift on the second date, I would be extremely put off and kind of scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:19 PM
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I don't think anyone needs to personally find fat people, sluts, etc attractive. But what's important is that people they still get treated with basic respect. That's what I think a lot of the body-acceptance movement was originally about but which went over peoples heads. People should be allowed to love themselves, to embrace themselves, and be treated with dignity even though they don't have the honour of you wanting your dick inside them. Unfortunately, they don't get this respect. Not only …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:47 PM
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How would you feel about being in a relationship where she literally never says i love you, never shows any physical affection, no sex, etc, unless and until you specifically ask for it? Do you not see any difference between that and being with someone who actually makes the choice themselves to do all that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:37 PM
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Nothing similarly "must supress" like this exists for women imo (also according to themselves). Sure, women are shamed too and there are men who talk very badly about them, but I don't belive that is a similar fundamental truth. Women can date men who are ok with casual sex, escorts can find boyfriends easily. An attractive woman who "thrives", whatever that means to her, is not going to have to pay the price of celibacy for that. Heck, most default monogamy-minded women aren't even living a lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:36 AM
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TBF "Girl" is the female equivalent for both "boy" and "guy". English just happens to be limited in this way. " "33 year old boy" might make no sense but I think saying "a 33 year old guy" is completely normal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:52 PM
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I agree with you. When someone does sex work, people regard her as less of a person. When something terrible happens to a woman, they feel bad, then when they hear she was a SW or a methwhore or something, there's this sentiment of "Oh well, she had it coming" or "She was asking for it". It's the same sentiment serial killers have when they target SWs Though in any case, whether the danger is inherent or artificial, the point is that the danger is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:06 PM
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I think the question you're asking is much larger than dating, and concerns life in general. Openness vs. direction. You can't live a good life going completely one way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:41 PM
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I’d literally rather be in a committed relationship with a pornstar long before an OF girl who only does solo content Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:37 PM
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No. IMO being a feminist, or any kind of activist, means actively doing something. I don't. I just live my own life. I agree with the basic tenants of feminism but that doesn't make me a feminist. I find the mantra of "anyone who believes in gender equality is a feminist!!!" to be ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:36 PM
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Selling pussy and doing porn has immediate dangers on top of long term negative effects. I don't think the majority of sane men would do this, just like the majority of women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:58 AM
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You know what, i'm gonna go back on my original comment and say that dating is easier as a woman I just think dating is much more difficult for me compared to other people due to very inconvenient life factors But it's still easier than if I were a man with all these same problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:39 AM
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Cause i'm not sure it is. Sex is definetely easier. Getting initial interest is too. But I don't know about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:42 PM
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Yes. TBH I didn't say sorry though. It took me a while of being outside of the situation to really think back about what I did, and by then it's been too far gone in the past to go out of my way to apoligize. (these are people who are no longer in my life)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:14 PM
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That's the difference between a good person and a good man, or woman for that matter. it's totally normal to call someone a good person, but if you specify something about their identity, it takes on a whole different meaning. If I called my friend, who happens to be a student, a "good person", that means they're a good person. If I called them "a good student" i'm not making any statement at all about who they are as a person, i'm complimenting their capacity as a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:51 PM
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Do-er of pills and lines but not hookups here 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:26 PM
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Rare Nietzsche relationship W
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:10 PM
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Obvious troll is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:11 AM
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As a gen z woman, the biggest age difference I see in my friends' relationships is like 4 years. That's certainly not a difference in generation. And we're talking about relationships here, not hook-ups. Are most men in committed relationships secretly in 3 other ones at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:18 PM
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this is a male doll marketed towards little girls and this is a male doll marketed to boys, Then, in their adulthood, men will start mansplaining what women find attractive, when in reality they're projecting their own masculine ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:10 PM
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the majority of young men are single whilst our female peers are not You realize this doesn't really make sense to say out loud, right? Who exactly are these women dating? I think the grass always seems greener on the other side. As much as online dating has its difficulties especially with men, can we really conclude that it makes things harder? I think it gives a lot of people an oppurtunity they wouldn't otherwise have due to lacking courage to approach people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:51 PM
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Harmful ideas or behaviour which stem from their understanding of the masculine ideal. i.e "I'm gonna call my 3 year old son a bitch cause boys shouldn't cry."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:33 PM
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If a hoodie is oversized, it'll fall off the shoulder naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:53 PM
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As far as I understand, Aba n Preach aren't "redpilled". Leftie youtubers accuse them of being redpillers, and redpillers accuse them of being bluepilled. They're just sort of ordinary guys who are neither here nor there. Aba has talked about understanding why the redpill space exists, and he believes that men do need to have a community to talk about dating in an honest way. But he also considers a lot of the community to just be sort of absurd and out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:11 PM
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Regardless of whether it's true or not, what is the point of having this conversation? What is it meant to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:18 PM
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Exactly this. Regardless of it being true or not, if he's saying it to your face, he is certainly trying to put you down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:16 PM
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Because I think its largely true. To be fair, I think the same for men. For example, a man will claim he's looking to get married and settle down, yet go into a relationship with a woman that he has no intention of settling down with. Same is true for women i'm sure. I think it's part of human nature. there are things that we want, and then there are things we know that we SHOULD want, and we mistakingly identify with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:12 AM
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If men are so scary, how do you reconcile being so openly rude to them? I've found through experience that being a bitch is the most effective way to respond. I guess I didn't give a lot of context in the original post or make it very clear, but I actually had one particular incident in mind where I literally said the exact words "Fuck off" and it was a guy who I had never previously had a casual speaking relationship with (we never chit chatted, said good morning to each other or anything. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:32 PM
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I only see information of victims on the page you sent. I'm talking about perpetrators Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:50 PM
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I think women end up with "bad boys" because they're under the impression that he will protect her by being so imposing and violent towards other people. Although that's not really my type, so i'm just guessing. Why do women get in relationships with men? Because they're attracted to them. Duh. And you're misinterpreting my post. I never said or even really suggested that all men or most men are bad, but I quite clearly said that even if the majority of men are fine, it doesn't change the very d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:58 PM
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If you hang around the right (wrong) areas of town at the right time you can get a meth-head hooker for $20
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:17 PM
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Personally i'm incredibly prudish and nearly asexual except for when i'm in a committed relationship (i don't just refuse to have sex,I just genuinely have no sexual interest otherwise). So, it's kind of like if a celiac person won a lifetime supply of baked goods and you're trying to get them to admit how blessed and privileged they are. Like yeah, sure, I guess. Except this is a weird kind of privilege that doesn't actually improve my life at all and actually makes it more difficult (having to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 01:51 PM
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Women are massively privileged when it comes to finding intimate/romantic connections with the other gender (largely due to the fact that women have higher/more standards for men than men do for women such that the average woman has intrinsic value while the average man needs to earn it). Loneliness is an awful, isolating feeling that is almost dehumanizing, especially in our increasingly online and fragmented society. Which means that being able to more easily attract partners indeed confers a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:44 PM
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The question is... why? Religious reasons: I'm not religious, so it's not going to work Tried, but never had any success: This is fine when you're younger. But after a certain age it's hard to imagine a man having NO success at all in relationships without it being due to his own character fault. It's also hard to imagine this kind of guy not harbouring some kind of secret resentment and desperation But I guess it's not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:10 PM
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According to the red pill, women expect men to lead them in everything (if not in everything, at least in most things), including sex. If we are virgins, how are we supposed to sexually lead the women we marry? Muslim men get to have multiple wives and also fuck (rape) prisoners of war The most crucial part is that the red pill does not recommend men to get married because of the current legal conditions. But according to Islam, marriage is a commandment of God and Islam values the concept of fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:40 PM
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Because people are incapable of minding their own business. Every time someone posts about their relationship online, a hoard of people will see themselves in that situation, and react to it as if it was happening to them. Personally I think thats effed up and I'd never have a relationship like that. So I won't. It's that easy. IDGAF what other people do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:28 PM
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If men were good at it, i'd be OK with it but generally they're not. One time I was sitting in a cafe doing work, I had a book sitting on the table which happens to be my life-time favourite book. A guy sitting at a table next to me approached me. I don't remember the exact words but it was something like this: "Hey, sorry to bother you. But I just looked over and noticed you were reading this book. I read it a long time ago and found it really interesting. I'm over here just having a coffee if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:58 AM
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The current president of the USA, in response to sexual assault in the military, just said something like "well what do you expect when you mix men and women together like this." So yeah people don't straight up say that men raping is natural and normal, but they say things which imply it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:48 PM
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Wut? I'm struggling to understand the claim. Men definetely prefer the idea of a woman being naturally beautiful. That's why they've been shitposting about "take her swimming on the first date" since the internet was invented. It's also, likewise, a turn-off for many (probably most) men when women are full of silicone and have an inch of makeup on. Do you think you're losing attraction to a woman by showering, shaving, and dressing well for a date? So my conclusion is that both men and women fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:50 PM
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People talk a lot about the "body count" question these days. I don't care about the exact number, per se, what matters is WHY the sexual interaction happened. If your number is what it is because you were dating around and trying to find the right person, whether you're a man or woman, that's fine. But a "player" is somebody who does it for the love of the game. People who enjoy promiscuous sex for the sake of it don't really change. These people feed off of the thrill and the attention of othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:52 AM
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I'd rather date a man that was homeless and had to be a gay escort to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:55 PM
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Well, "from the start" means when we start dating, right? Usually that's like 15. 15 year olds are not very smart. I remember thinking my first boyfriend was Jesus Christ incarnate at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:53 PM
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And I constantly see right leaning, tradwife, trad-catholic, and muslim posts about how a woman wearing a backpack is a whore. Because the algorithm knows that people are likely to interact with posts that piss them off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:05 PM
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Hmh. So all men's algorithms show men defending women, and women's algorithms never show men defending women. And you said you yourself don't stand up to other women. That's not really exactly what i'm saying. The algorithm shows you what keeps you on the app for longer and that can vary. I admit that I don't call out women with ridiculous standards but I disagree with OPs claim that men consistently call out other men. This is also based off of my real life experience and not just social media …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:24 AM
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Nope. Never searched for it. But I admittedly probably interact to it more (comment or send post) and give it more watch time when it does appear that's what feeds the algorithm. Then it throws you into a wormhole of other content your likely to interact with based on that. And yeah your demographic does affect the algorithm. They ask you your gender and age for a reason when you sign up for an account.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:20 AM
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TBH as a woman I think a lot of women have become out of touch with realistic income due to social media. If the women you date are complaining about your car not being cool enough, then you're dating the kind of women who care about money because of social status, not for any practical reason (i.e having a family). A woman with a brain will know that a flashy car is usually a good indicator of someone who doesn't know how to use their money right. These are generally the same types who look dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:18 AM
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It depends. "Unfriendly" is one thing but there's also "rude". I'm kind of distrustful of people who are too nice because I assume they are trying to gain my approval either to use me or just out of insecurity (men and women, both in romantic and professional settings). I'm very introverted and have trouble engaging with others even when my heart is in the right place. So when someone is sort of stand-offish I get it. But theres some social skills and politeness that you just need to have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:10 AM
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Your algorithm has to be in absolute shambles What you should understand is that everyone's algorithm is curated specifically to them. Your feed shows you what they have decided you are most interested in seeing based off of your demographic, and what you are most likely to react to based on your online behaviour. It really has little to do with HOW MUCH you use the platform. That's why social media is creating more division than ever before. In the past, news sources were of course still biased…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:18 AM
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One instagram user is @greencowland1 who keeps plaguing my explore feed with her simping and running to the defence of men over the pettiest matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:37 PM
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Also, don't get me wrong. I have had good experiences with dating apps. I met my last boyfriend on tinder (we didn't last, but that's not the apps fault) and I've met other guys who I went on a few dates with, didn't really find a connection, but they were still decent guys. But def the majority of users are just looking for a warm hole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:34 PM
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Well personally I've had some good experiences with dating apps but I work in a male dominated (at one point I was the only woman out of like 100 men at the place) and I know I will be the talk of the town if i'm spotted there. But I guess this is kind of a rare situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:32 PM
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Well i've chatted with guys who were normal in the chat but then turn out to only want sex when you meet them in person 🤷‍♀️ Most people don't reveal their true nature immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:28 PM
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Nah. AKA Guys with the same relationship goals, values, and similair hobbies as me. I've straight up been on dates with guys as tall as farquad with the face of shrek. I've walked out on guys who were decent looking but assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:25 PM
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Men constantly defend women I disagree, right off the bat. I find that the internet is just an Us vs Them echo-chamber. Men always jump to defend men and women always defend women. I've seen countless instagram reels of men joking about rape, or otherwise vile commentary about womens worth and role without a single white-knight in sight 🥴 Maybe you and me are just using completely different internets... Personally when I see women being superficial (i.e being obsessed with height and income) I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:06 PM
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Why do you bother using the internet to talk to real people when you may as well talk to a wall? You know literally nothing about me yet you've come to all of these conclusions. I don't go for the most attractive men, I go for the ones that seem the most compatible for me because I find that physical attraction can grow. I wouldn't say I get treated "like the other option" because I don't even really know what you mean by that. I also never said anything about ALL men. But it's ok, you can just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:05 PM
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No it's not. Lol. When I used dating apps I was fully clothed in all my pics and made it explicitly clear i'm looking for something serious. Men still tried anyways. Stop blaming women for male degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:56 PM
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What a load of baloney. As an adult you can meet some girl on tinder, literally piss yourself, and it doesn't matter. You will never interact with her or anyone who knows her (unless youre going after coworkers, or you live in a small town or something.) If that happened in high school, she would go keke-ing to her friends about it before your bladder is even empty, and by the next day people who don't even know your name will know that you pissed yourself. In my high school there was a guy in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:37 PM
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Do you have an explanation for the double standard that isn't 1. An inability to understanding the maxim of "correlation isn't causation" and 2. arbitrary metaphors of genitals i.e "key that that can unlock every door is a master key"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:59 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:20 AM
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Same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:28 AM
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Alain Delon was a French sex symbol, commonly considered one of the most attractive men to have ever existed. In his own words: "The women were all obsessed with me. From when I was 18 till when I was 50." So the worlds hottest guy stopped getting attention at 50, but the average Joe peaks there? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:21 AM
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Duh. Why would I care about some random redditors dating success? If I could press a button that would make it so 1. I never get approached by a random dude who makes me uncomfortable, and 2. some random fuck i don't care about never successfully picks up a girl — why do you think I wouldn't press it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:00 AM
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I disagree with your "especially men" bit. Us women are being constantly told that we're slowly rotting after a "prime" of 18 and for not being pure and virginal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:56 AM
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nah those are just called white feminists
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 08:20 PM
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are we assuming modern feminists responsibility for anything anyone in the 19th century did?
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 08:03 PM
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feminist who?
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 07:57 PM
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A dumbass who thinks a good time to go for a girl is right after a harsh breakup deserves it
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 07:55 PM
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if only thats what this sub was about!
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 07:54 PM
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Why is a subreddit dedicated to men's attempt at independence so focused on how dumb women are?
/r/MGTOW18/04/18 05:12 AM
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