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| 1 | I feel really horny alone but when I get the chance with a girl I don’t go for sexThanks man, appreciate your info | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I feel really horny alone but when I get the chance with a girl I don’t go for sexI think you’re right, I’m lacking vision because I’ve stopped believing it long ago. It must be why I’ve failed the times I’ve tried, because discipline can only get you that far. I have to work on that somehow. Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 11 | I feel really horny alone but when I get the chance with a girl I don’t go for sexHow do you really do that? I mean really? What amount of content blockers etc is enough to hold you from just removing them when you reach your next most difficult point yet ? And the question here transitions to: should you cut out porn, masturbation or ejaculating ? Because these can be interconnected but are not the same. I’ve tried staying fully away from masturbation and especially ejaculation and even porn (but what has instagram become anyways) for like 3-4 weeks at a time. But there stil… | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the alternative less direct for “are you single?”"What's your favorite thing in life right now?" | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Did having your own place make you approach women more?Where is this? This results in only 120$ per month! I'd probably live there if the place is decent at least. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Did having your own place make you approach women more?Yep. Plus you have the whole house to yourself (let alone not having to share the bedroom with a sibling), meaning there's no other people strolling around AND there's no other people's stuff to tidy up. You're literally the master of your place. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | When on a first date, should I kiss the girl in public or somewhere more private?Whenever you feel like it's most natural for both. If you're on public and you feel ok doing it right then and there, you should feel how she's feeling about doing it right then and there too. Like guys, most girls have insecurities too, so most of the time they'd prefer a more private place to do it. Other times they may feel great doing that in public too. Sense the vibe. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Trying to seduce someone feels like manipulationGood points! | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 9 | Trying to seduce someone feels like manipulationI recently read Models by Mark Manson, and in one of the chapters nearing the end, he addresses the "manipulation" of seduction and how you should not manipulate, rather show yourself and what you have to offer (as personal traits, not money, etc) and then 'passively' attract. Manipulation is related to "performing" which means acting a way that makes you pleasant to women but is ultimately incoherent/incongruent to your true self, just to have them trust you/sleep with you/etc, and then dumoing… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 07:30 AM |
| 7 | THANK YOU SEDDIT!!Whats your take on that book? | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laid🅱️ass | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:44 PM |
| 26 | dont overthink, just openI think Karisma King has this exercise in his starter guide on YouTube, where you start by approaching people asking for the time without having a watch or phone in your hands. Then you gradually add those. And then you end up asking a hot woman for the time while holding your phone on your hand on which youre also wearing your watch. If I understood well enough, it's about developing the ability to put the conversation on the tracks you want, handle their rejective behaviors and also to not be … | /r/seduction | 09/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach has changed my life in every way possibleHey, I'm still interested in hearing your thoughts u/MrMusculoss :D | /r/seduction | 21/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach has changed my life in every way possible(Also replying to u/fluffywowl55) The thing is that at that point, you do not care about if someone is "better than you", the level of not caring also includes not caring about possible statistical inaccuracies. Yes, we are 7 billion on this planet, yes obviously there's a good chance someone is better than me at every aspect. But why should I care? In my own reality called my life, the center of which is me, I am the best person. People who are as confident, hearing that from another person, wi… | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Realized I want to save myself with someone I care about and have no desire for hookupsMaybe you subconsciously care about meeting the other person in more depth before moving things forward? | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | This sub in a nutshellGood on you! Don't let the bullshit opinions of people whose only intention is to spread hate, to influence your way if life. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | This sub in a nutshellI'm surprised they let you stay in the first place, considering you are a male (unless you are a female, which changes everything on this matter). | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 8 | This sub in a nutshellMan I just found out about this sub, browsed just a little bit and stopped on this post below. Among the hateful comments, one commented on how the guy said he meet 15 other girls that month, and that they could spot that he is pua a mile away. I replied asking how many men does a typical girl meet in the period of a month at clubs etc. Then I read the subreddit's description. It orders it's followers to REPORT MEN so that they will get banned. A FEMALE DATING SUB THAT BANS MEN. This thing is ju… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What would be most recommended books on seduction?I suppose "Models" by Mark Manson should by amongst the highest options | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 4 | I just keep running out of thing to sayThen you know that you are not for each other. And it's good to know that. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | I just keep running out of thing to sayYou make silence and let her break it | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 12:41 PM |
| 6 | How To Talk To Women (Basics)I love the structure of this, it's well documented. I've seen the F.O.R.D. in the past and I believe it's a good method but what about the job part? Many people don't really like their jobs and thus hate talking about them. Do you judge by body language/expressions and change the topic if need be? | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | 3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3Douchebags usually end up with the girl, don't they ? But in all seriousness, you can sound lame or you can sound badass while saying that. It all depends on HOW you say it, and not on what you say. Like most of things you say to a girl when trying to pick up on her. It's showing intent and that you are determined to get what you want, without leaving any space to lose what you are after, unless of course she explicitly denies. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 11:25 PM |
| -2 | 3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3I believe B) is the way to go. Or even something like "why, does your boyfriend decide who you want to spend some time/have a coffee with?". Have her know it's her call and not her bf's. In the end of the line, it can still be a no, it could be a simple coffee with a new friend from the court, or it could even lead to sex, which would be her agreement upon a suggestion she could reject in the first place, had she wanted to. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 07:13 PM |
| 5 | How to be more interestingThanks for this, it's a matter I've been trying to deal with for quite some time | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | 20M, my first "date" ever.I wanna see this guy's profile | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is just soul-crushing for meStart by doing that to girls yourself. Not in mean way of course, but it will teach you to not cling to the person you're talking to. Go up to girls you like, say hi, then leave and don't talk to them again. Do that many times in a day for a week. Then, next week, start holding the conversations a bit longer, and then do what you did in the beginning. Don't talk to them again. Finally, when you start getting some phone numbers, don't ever call back. Delete them immediately. This process will bot… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractiveThat's a comment from a person who believes that men "take" sex from women, and that it's something they have to trick women into doing. That's terribly wrong. Both partners want it and consent for it. You are not (I hope) trying to manipulate women when you flirt with them, neither show up as someone you are not nor lie to them about you. You use what you have to your advantage, and slowly but surely develop into a man that is only these advantages. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you actually improve your personality?*mentoring | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you actually improve your personality?It sounds like you need to get into personal development. It's a term that includes self improvement in several social sectors (e.g. how to create friendships or other types of relationships, how to flirt, how to improve different aspects of your outer and inner self). Look it up. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | I did it. I finally did it, no cheat code.This, entirely. It's very important for your game-life to establish that social frame in the environments where you spend lots of time. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 21 | I did it. I finally did it, no cheat code.It really helped that you are a known person in the gym, and especially to the employees (aka the employee friend you have). It also really helped that you let that girl now, by engaging in a conversation between the three of you. The gym in general requires a level of status for you in order to have good chances of positive responses to your approaches. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 09:16 AM |
| 0 | I did it. I finally did it, no cheat code.Good job man, but remember what else Todd V and Mystery say: Have abundance. Don't get clinged on that one girl however awesome she might seem. Have the attitude of not caring too much, you're going your way and she follows if she wants. So in a scenario that she stops responding/investing in the relationship between you two, immediately move on, without necessarily taking her out of your life, but do not waste time and effort. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 09:13 AM |
| 11 | I did it!Listen, tip #1: whenever you say "one day I will do this" you push that target further away. Action >> words. Tip#2: You hate being embarrassed because you subconsciously care about other people's opinions. Work on that. Doing embarrassing things on public is the fastest way. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to start flirting on a first date?Well the question itself doesn't matter that much. It doesn't matter if you start with "I like your scarf. What made you get it in that color?" Or "You seem interesting. Are you as fun as I am or am I going to be disappointed?" Or a more generic "Hi, do you know what the time is?" Or anything else. It's all about how you handle the conversation and how you play with her in an oral level and eventually increase the sexual tension. But it's not just these questions, these are just a part of flirti… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How to start flirting on a first date?Okay, so what was the "meaningless string" in the original comment of u/Greek-God-Brody ? The whole comment is pretty self-explanatory. The man-woman frame reffers to the tension between the male and the female, in a way that is both sexual and innocent/playful at the same time. It's far away from questions like "where are you working/what are you studying/where do you live", which are questions that reffer to 'logistics' aka getting information about the other person, instead of flirting with t… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How to start flirting on a first date?Yeah I did, they confirm my comment. Quite a sad realization. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 06:27 AM |
| 3 | How to start flirting on a first date?They are, but they respond to the same things. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How to start flirting on a first date?You really shouldn't be downvoted but it's probably the white warriors. "You should be kissing her or you lost her? Oh my God that's so sexist!1!1!" | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 06:14 AM |
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