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If being selective was beneficial to male reproduction they would be. But they aren't because it obviously isn't. And vice versa. Having no dignity and no discernment on dating apps also doesn't seem to be beneficial to male reproduction either, but who am I? You seem to be fighting for the right to keep doing what doesn't work for you or 80% of men on dating apps. Keep at it, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:18 AM
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If you Google misogynistic terrorism, there have only been 16 instances in the last thirty years. Holy shit, that's way more than I actually even thought. Utterly terrifying. But, you win, incels are harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:24 PM
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Idk man, I live in a world where incels self-identify and have gone on to commit mass murder, thus creating the very association you're saying is wrong and used maliciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:54 PM
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Words have meanings and then culture adds context and nuance. Sorry if that's upsetting!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:45 PM
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The term incel doesn't just mean involuntary celibate. It's associated with a particular group of people who have specific patterns and behaviors. Culture gives the context whether you agree with it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:36 PM
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Reality shows that most women date their looksmatch, their social status, their education level, and their income level, but for some reason there's this pervasive idea on PPD that women only want 6'0"+ 6 figure 8+ attractiveness guys. Considering most men fall significantly short of that, yet 60%+ of adults between the ages of 25-53 are either married or monogamously partnered, I'd wager that everyone's standards are just fine. Men are responding to a vocal minority of women who shout that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:27 PM
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You may think that's some kind of gotcha but it's not. It is an insecurity! Growing up, I was mocked and teased for being tall, constantly compared to shorter girls, called derogatory names all because I grew very tall very quickly while in primary school. What's astonishing is that I topped out at 5'8", so I'm not exceptionally tall with all things considered, but I reached my height very early when everyone else around me was still short, boys included. Being teased for being "bigger" made me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:45 PM
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Not who you asked, but my answer is no. The discomfort I would feel being a taller than average woman dating a shorter man isn't worth it. There are plenty of other people on earth and plenty of shorter women he can be a great fit with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:29 AM
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You have a fixed idea of what is acceptable, I honestly don't think you can change this about yourself. Find someone more in line with your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:01 PM
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Personal development is part of being human. Everyone has to work on themselves to be desirable to other people. Throughout nature, females are the gatekeepers of reproduction and pay the highest cost for sex, therefore they are more selective with mates. It's nowhere near unusual for this to occur. Men seem to think they should be uneducated, unwashed, unkempt, unsuccessful, and still be able to find high quality partners. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:03 PM
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Men are trying to kiss womens asses and figure out how to be more impressive and how to deliver what WOMEN WANT. No they're not. Men complain about women wanting high earners, the large majority of men aren't flooding colleges trying to get into MBA programs to work for Big 4 firms to impress the ladies, if anything less men are going to college than ever before and men are making less and less. Instead of actually trying to improve themselves to be a competitive contender in the dating market, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:01 PM
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No six figure job? Next. Not in perfect shape? Next. Showing any signs of a lack of confidence? Next. The vibe is off? Next. It's endless. And I feel these men are essentially poisoned by this. Because so many of the Uber romantic wear your heart on your sleeve kind of guys I've grown up with are now extremely cold and calculating. At least when it comes to dating prospects. The large majority of people don't date like this. Most people don't make six figures, both men and women are overweight/o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:57 PM
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Surely semen quality has nosedived by now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:35 PM
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They are, and I don't know why the guys on here are pretending like they aren't. I'm 5'8" and have found that men strongly prefer to date women shorter than them... so I adjust my preferences accordingly. Most men will still sleep with women they don't like or find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:25 PM
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I don't care what y'all do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:19 AM
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Exactly! An ego boost they don't have to work for in the slightest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:58 AM
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That's not how they want it to work. They want to be the best she's ever had without putting in an iota of effort. It's the ultimate male fantasy, they want to just discover one day that they are super ultra incredible lovers, like girls want to discover they're secret princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:21 AM
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Because I already have a career. Liking generous guys (ie guys that like to spend on their romantic partners) doesn't mean I want to sleep with strange men for money. Gifts are my love language. If you try prostitution one day, let me know how it goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:33 PM
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Men shouldn't pay for the first date unless they genuinely enjoy doing so and really want to. If a guy doesn't want to pay, he should absolutely let that be known
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:50 PM
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Send him my way because I love guys who like to spend money on me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:48 PM
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Exactly this. And they cope by saying the women who are rejecting them don't have any right to reject them in the first place. Women would rather be alone than be with them, how do they not realize they are the problem?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:06 PM
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Absolutely not, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Are you conflating being a virgin with being a hateful incel? Because I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:26 PM
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It's unbelievable to me that you've been in a relationship for almost a decade and now that you're recently out, you've got all this RP ideas about dating. Have you even tried to start dating yet? How are you so jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:26 PM
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You said her experience was bad because she chose bad options ... I'm saying men themselves have said they don't value casual sex partners, so OP has a point about casual sex not being great for women. Where is good sex actually found? In committed relationships with men who care about OP. So, yes, the point is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:39 PM
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There are studies that show men care less about the pleasure of casual partners and that women have their best sex in relationships and worst sex in ONS/casual situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:02 PM
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Sounds like this woman was low class to begin with. She's just going with what she knows. Raise your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:50 PM
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Fathers hurt their sons by saying, "kid, it's just a numbers game. Harass every single woman for her number and figure out if you like her later." See where that mentality has left us with respect to dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:47 PM
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One person's arbitrary standards are irrelevant to you and your life as a whole. There will always be women who want tall rich men, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:07 PM
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(and backing off when she’s uncomfortable). You admit that you've made women uncomfortable on first dates. That's okay to you? Perfectly normal and pleasant dates have been absolutely ruined because guys, similar to you, read something on the internet about needing to touch a woman or make some kind of move. The second I know some guy is touching me so I won't think of him as a friend, regardless of my body language, the date is over. You make the distinction about gauging a woman's interest, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:27 PM
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That's why there's 5 men to every 1 women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:10 PM
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The "magic number" actually varies from region to region. There was a comment recently where someone mentioned the US the magic number for women is 6' while the average male height is 5'10", but in his country the magic number for women is 180 cm and most men are actually over 6'0" tall. So, no, the numbers are arbitrary. If more men in the US were 6'0+, I think women would just be happy. There may be some eventual standard creep, but the assertion that women just want better than average is imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:30 PM
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I know for a fact that men have it worse on dating apps. Men significantly outnumber women, and women's numbers keep dwindling as the apps get worse and worse for everyone. Average men struggle to get matches because there's thousands of other men all "playing the numbers game" with the same limited amount of women. And women are leaving dating apps in droves because it's a frustrating and inhospitable experience, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:20 PM
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2, 3, and 4 years are going to pass regardless. Why not take some initiative in the gym to improve your life in more ways than just dating? Guys can curl their lashes if they want! That would be lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:42 AM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:43 PM
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We're talking about men being attractive. If they were more attractive, interest would increase?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:56 PM
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Should men try to make themselves more attractive, similar to how women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:58 PM
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But most men are using dating apps as a sex lottery, trying their changes and swiping right on every single women. It's exhausting and annoying to be a woman using a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:57 PM
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Men are not basically paying for sex in long-term relationships. Most relationships are equitable, men and women making similar amounts of money and contributing to the household. Additionally, sex isn't the only thing people get access to in relationships. You have friendship, security, partnership, love, affection, family, etc. To reduce that to "nope, man just want sex" is tragic. Women didn't want to date you because you can't date without funds to go anywhere or do anything and share experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:33 PM
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when they’re quite literally taking advantage of (usually lonely) old men for their wealth. Grown, adult, powerful men with access to wealth and capital aren't being taken advantage of. It's a relationship dynamic they willingly enter into for the pleasure of it. This pleasure is inconceivable to you because you can't imagine being desired for your resources, maybe you don't have any. But I assure you, men literally get off on being sexually desired for their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:42 PM
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For sure, I want to be worshipped by my partner and worship him right back 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:45 AM
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They definitely do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:28 PM
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My reaction is also: who cares, the majority of people don't care at all, let alone feel actual anger over it. Anecdotally, I've noticed promiscuous guys partner with equally as promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:21 PM
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Why is going to a social event something only women can do? How can a fully functioning adult feel as if they can't socialize because they're not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:15 PM
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You rattled off a very specific set of jobs, and I just countered that you probably don't do any of them. And you don't. That's not to say you don't create value, because you do in your own way. As do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:13 PM
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Mind boggling how some people here don't understand how to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:55 PM
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Apart from that there are male policemen, firefighters, builders etc. Men create infrastructure for modern society which you just take for granted. I can almost guarantee you are not a man creating anything for anyone. Should you lump yourself into the group that just takes things for granted?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:28 PM
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Are you saying that all people are sometimes good and sometimes bad? That's not groundbreaking insight, lol. And no one said they're looking for the perfect person. I'm just saying women don't want "rugged" men, they want confident and assertive and interesting men. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:33 PM
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Women want men who are assertive, confident, and interesting. That does not = rugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:50 PM
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but they prefer a more rugged partner I wish this misconception would die already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:35 PM
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How we measure up to the rest of the western world begs to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:16 PM
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Your stats tell an incomplete story. 14% of men may be 6 ft tall, but what about in a certain person's geographic area? The average height varies state to state depending on the racial composition of the population. States with higher asian and hispanic populations trend shorter, but most asian and hispanic populations date each other. States mostly comprised of black and white folks trend taller, where the average height is 5'10"+. People's desires and expectations are influenced by their envir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:14 AM
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No one bats an eye when a woman wants only men who are 6ft 2. Short men complain about this ad nauseam, so I'd say many eyes are being bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:59 AM
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I apologize for my tactless inquiry Why is she working so much and for so long?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:45 PM
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Is your wife looking for a hot girlfriend by chance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:09 PM
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This x100. The men here say "men don't care about a woman's career or how educated she is" because they are both uneducated and unsuccessful themselves. Any doctor, lawyer, or high earning guy I match with on OLD asks me about my career and education within the first 5-10 messages. Every single time. It's wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:47 PM
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If most women are in relationships with assholes, does that mean most men are just assholes or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:58 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Is that comment civil? Because that's what I'm responding to...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:49 PM
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You don't seem particularly pleasant yourself, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:04 PM
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while they end up dating assholes. Most women don't date assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:21 PM
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Consequently, it is not enough to simply be a nice, attentive, and articulate guy; attractive women desire much more than that It goes without saying that they also expect to be physically attracted to the man. What that constitutes varies from woman to woman. This isn't revolutionary. The issue is some men who have issues with dating are neither nice (hate that word), attentive, nor articulate in addition to not being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:07 PM
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there's nothing deeply appealing about her. Every man on PPD seems to disagree. Women above 30 have absolutely no value whatsoever, and surely there's nothing appealing about them. How could there be? They aren't 20!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:30 PM
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I’m saying it’s very very common for women to reject men and tell him directly that he’s too short for her… this happens all the time. whereas if a guy told a girl shes too overweight for him, he looks like a complete asshole. Literally both people are assholes in this equation. Men reject women all the time for not meeting their standards, they might not just explicitly say why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:55 PM
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lol, that comment was obviously written by a guy. Did you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:39 PM
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we get it already!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:02 PM
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Another question - is your wife allowed to have humanly wants and needs of her own or does she exist solely to please you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:55 PM
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Keep you fed, keep you fed, yes... that gives mommy bangmaid vibes. It's okay, people want what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:54 PM
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Right. The rating system these guys have is insane. Men routinely think they are more attractive than they are. Every guy on PPD is probs a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:53 PM
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We’re supposed to be blind to the differences between men and just take the first one that comes stumbling our way I guess. Exactly. I also see the argument that our preferences are supposed to be "reasonable" - to who?! The only one our preferences should appease is US! ...not a misogynistic incel on the internet. A 5'2" girl can "demand" a 6'4" guy all the f*** she wants. A single mom can want a man to take care of her 4 kids all she wants. Literally who cares at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:17 AM
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keep me fed ick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:11 AM
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That's a great point. Women want to marry for happiness, love, partnership, and men want to marry so someone can take care of them like a second mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:09 PM
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Lmaooo not french fries 😂 crispy crinkle fries are the best, fight me!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:07 PM
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Aging happens to both men and women? And both sexes lie about their age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:05 PM
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But we're talking about value, which includes so much more than looks. Just because some guy thinks women look better between 18-24 doesn't make women less valuable in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:52 PM
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It's mind boggling. You'd think they live on a planet where men in their early 20s are begging to marry their girlfriends and hookups. Meanwhile... guys in their 20s don't want to "settle down" just as much as girls in their 20s. This is consistently the dumbest conversation on PPD and it happens literally every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:00 PM
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Women start to lose their value after say 24-25 If the only thing you value is someone's proximity to being a child and nothing else whatsoever about another human being, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:57 AM
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I don't think the red pill exists as encouragement for women in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:55 AM
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Women go on a date with a guy, the date is terrible, guys conclude that the woman only wanted free food - meanwhile she just didn't like them. It's easier to say "she was just using me because she's a terrible person" vs "there's no second date because we weren't compatible or I wasn't likable in some way"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:46 PM
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The situation defines the sex. Men and women engage in hookups that are quick and inhibited. When emotions and prospective relationships are on the table, people slow down and think more, act more intentional. It's natural for both sexes. If you want to be treated like a hookup, go party in Ibiza and meet people there. Stop trying to intentionally date people and get angry dating someone doesn't feel like hooking up in a bathroom stall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:14 PM
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Their entire issue is that they can almost guarantee that any girl that makes a guy wait has a guy in her past she didn't make wait. The truth is, they can't guarantee that at all, nor verify it. They enact revenge and want to make every woman pay for something that doesn't even concern them. It's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:10 PM
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You aren't a boogeyman that needs to be beat and you aren't mysterious. I have never once in my life slept with a guy who left after sex because y'all are so blatantly dishonest and fake. You over-compliment, big red flag, you fake affection, interest and intimacy, it's obvious and cringe, and then you drop off when you're preoccupied with something else because it's hard to play a character 24/7. I've rejected 100000 guys like you, so don't worry about me playa!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:07 PM
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The assumption is that you're so clever and smart. You're secretly waiting out of spite and one day you're going to take what you want and leave in the night. Women have eyes, they are as perceptive as other sentient beings, they can read signs, they can pick up on deception and disinterest. You think you're some masterful manipulator, your mask will slip and it often does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:14 AM
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I'll pretend to be your fiancé and say yes, if a guy has a weight preference then let him date whoever he wants. The truth of the matter is guys do have weight preferences and do date whoever they want, already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:40 PM
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Niceness isn't a personality. The worst person you know can be nice in certain circumstances. People who prioritize niceness come across as having no boundaries, that's not a good thing. A kind disposition + healthy emotional boundaries is a desirable personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:01 AM
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Would you consider getting your weight back down in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:53 PM
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Niggas in the hood never complained about the lack of access to pussy or relationships. Absolutely false. The nice guy charade followed by the "fuck you bitch, nobody wants you anyway" is the national anthem of niggas in the hood who can't get any. Throw in a few Facebook statuses about "good guys" and blah blah blah. There are definitely hood incels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:53 PM
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You make an excellent point - the majority of conversations here rely on completely ignoring the reality that average and even below average people have sex and are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:47 PM
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Fascinating, I did not know this was a thing. Did you have any side effects while supplementing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:21 PM
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Hardmaxxing - surgical or otherwise invasive procedures to maximize your looks (looksmaxxing)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:15 PM
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he’s often accused of compensating and mocked as having little man syndrome. Does this actually happen often enough to be relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:19 PM
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5'8" and 125lbs here, people call me pretty all the time!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:41 PM
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You think anyone here is going on dates every weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:31 PM
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You think just because men's rights activists say the gender pay gap doesn't exist, it just doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:21 AM
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Oh okay, so there is a pay disparity but it's deserved?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:24 PM
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And they are ungodly when they start to rot and petrify
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:21 PM
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Imagine comparing the wage gap (tens of thousands of dollars in some cases) to guys paying for a 2 for 2 for $22 at Applebee's. Guys think paying $20 bucks sometimes is equivalent to systemic oppression. Embarrassing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:37 PM
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Right, so the fact that I've worked at companies for the past 15 years that just so happen to pay women less than men was all a fever dream, nothing to see, analyze, or fear. All incidental and not part of a larger pattern. Fabulous!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:31 PM
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Considering large corporations settle pay gap disparity lawsuits regularly and their lawyers have access to all this "co-variable" data to explain why pay is different but that doesn't seem to help them, I'm going to guess that it actually is a problem. Aside from that, I've witnessed pay disparities in my own work environments and most of the time the gaps were obscene. While that is anecdotal, it's my life experience so that means something to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:53 PM
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Exactly, date people who see eye to eye with your worldview. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:50 PM
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Who is going on fifty dates per year?!!!???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:48 PM
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You could argue that people going on more dates would be paying a more significant portion of their wage to meals for dates Even if it was a more significant portion of their wage, it's still got to be minuscule in the grand scheme of things... unless you don't make that much money to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:44 PM
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Leonardo himself aged like a bag of potatoes left underneath the kitchen sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:11 PM
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Paying for a date is quite insignificant compared to the systemic underpaying of women at virtually every professional level. $50 may be a lot of money to you, which is why people make this exact argument in the first place, but it hardly disrupts or delegitimizes the feminist movement or equality. You'll find that most professional adult men insist on paying for dates. Regardless, most women offer to split the bill. The men most worried about being "expected" to pay for dates are the ones who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:08 PM
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Solely based on that? Absolutely not. And less attractive doesn't mean unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:26 PM
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I am more than happy to be the pretty one in the relationship. In fact, I prefer it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:22 AM
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Are you any of these subgroups?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:44 AM
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I'll be honest, I'll delete a post on any platform if it bombs. It's not unique to people on Instagram, or even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:26 AM
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Exactly. But hot girls definitely had followings. Anyone remember MySpace?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:04 PM
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Because its up to women to realize that most of that attention is meaningless. They know it's meaningless, that's why they ignore 99.9999999% of their followers and messages
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:02 PM
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Again with this myth that all women are influencers adored by men. This points to the fact that other women don't even exist to them, they are chasing after and solely focusing on young Instagram models and base their entire dating thoughts/ideas around the behaviors of an infinitesimally small group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:01 PM
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Of course OP agrees, because theoretically anything could happen to anyone at anytime. That doesn't mean you aren't being pedantic (you are).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:23 PM
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You're responding under the veneer of sincerity, but you're picking at literal meanings of words instead of actual meanings. "Without fear" is not absolute, by any means, but literally, sure of course it is. That's why I said you're being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:18 AM
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but thinking nothing could happen to you as a man is naïve It's pretty clear he's saying he doesn't have to intentionally worry, not that he thinks "nothing could happen to him" - you're being obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:15 AM
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she believes he is worthy of sex and relationships. He met the attraction threshold. Why would anyone set their friends up with someone who they didn't believe was attractive, worthy of sex or relationships? I'm confused by this entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:25 PM
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Which pretty much confirms that women only see attractive men and everyone else is invisible. Men definitely aren't guilty of this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:22 PM
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It's weird that people who can't even get dates also find themselves worried about exploitation. Like who is exploiting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:02 AM
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However, I think that needs to start early, they can't just have a hoe phase and expect guy #50 to wait months for sex. The reality is people can do whatever feels right to them and don't have to follow a rule like "gosh, I hooked up with that asshole right away when I was 22, better sleep with everyone right away forever or else it wouldn't be fair!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:58 AM
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That's awful :( I'm sorry anyone ever said such cruel things to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:14 AM
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I didn't give you anything to disagree with. Finding out that all of my boyfriends have emotionally absent/neglectful mothers isn't something for us to debate about. This is hardly discourse, as that implies some sort of civility. You are unpleasant and vitriolic and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:17 PM
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Why are you so combative? I'm not fighting about anything with you, just sharing an experience. I said I attract people with mommy issues, which, to me, obviously implies that I eventually learn about their upbringing and family dynamics at some point in the relationship. Legitimately all of my exes have this same look in their eyes and it's fascinating and puzzling. They weren't desperate people, either. At all. And there was nothing bad about them, they just had terrible relationships with emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:16 PM
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No, not at all. But that's almost irrelevant. I can see the longing and desire in their eyes on the first date, before we know anything about each other. I suppose the actual truth here is that I am also drawn to people with mommy issues. We're drawn to each other, I just don't know why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:57 PM
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I attract men with mommy issues like a supercharged magnet, I wish I could understand the psychology of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:35 AM
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Subtle boundary pushing is the biggest red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:12 AM
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This is a funny post, because there's plenty of guys who like the attention their girlfriends get. It requires a level of confidence to actually enjoy that your girlfriend is super duper hot (and also yours), which is why it seems so inconceivable to some people who are insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:48 PM
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I'm here because I actually want to help people, but the men here already know everything and find no worth in our words
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:27 AM
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Big peen. 😂
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