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| 4 | How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare???side question is it normal to wait until you are dating to have sex? Would guys agree to this?? In my mid-20's I met someone at a speed-dating event who eventually turned into a long-term relationship (over 6 years). She was 25 at the time and a virgin. She was upfront about it (told me on the 3rd date or so IIRC), and it wasn't a problem... we dated for a couple months then one day she felt comfortable enough to do it. However, the key there is that she talked to me about it. If I didn't know t… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:07 AM |
| 38 | If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity?Just as god intended. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | I just used Tinder Passport to swipe for 10 minutes in Sweden (I'm in Canada) - not a SINGLE fat womanI'd rather stay here and try to actually fix my country. And why should I be the one to move anyways? Plenty of socialist countries that people can move to if they want those services. I mean, clearly they're superior in every way -- Venezuela has even recently added "pets" and "garbage" to the food supply! | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 07:38 AM |
| -5 | I just used Tinder Passport to swipe for 10 minutes in Sweden (I'm in Canada) - not a SINGLE fat womanIt's great if you like paying shittons of tax money for garbage healthcare, social programs that are full of fraud, an insolvent national pension system and paying millions of dollars to convicted terrorists. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 07:42 PM |
| 28 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Yet when I go out, I never get approached and no women ever seem interested in me. "I'm standing outside the buildings of 5 huge companies that I'd love to work for, but no one has come out to offer me a job yet!" | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Mute girlOK. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 11:05 PM |
| 9 | What do guys look for in girls?This question is like asking "What's the most important aspect of a car?" Different people have different tastes, and the things they look at first or prioritize are different. | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to reject a Mexican womanSo because some random jerk was a jerk, it's the fault of his entire race. Seriously? It's fine to just not be into her, but your reasoning makes me think you're like... 6 years old. | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Don’t get how these fat neck beards are with girls I can only dream of being with, can someone explain thisHopefully you don't resort to condescending insults I would never insult someone over something they have no control over. I'm autistic and part of the 80% on the spectrum that are underskilled and not able to have a career From reading your replies in this thread, you seem to be an excellent writer. Have you considered writing as a hobby or part-time career? Chicks dig writers. :) sensory problems and other difficulties mean I can't tolerate change or much activity. Can you give examples of act… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 06:51 AM |
| 6 | Don’t get how these fat neck beards are with girls I can only dream of being with, can someone explain thisBe interesting. Don't be uninteresting. If the above doesn't work, have lots of money. (edit: ugh, that list should be numbered 2, 3, 4, not 1, 2, 3, but Reddit's autoformatting is screwing it up) I'm an overweight (think "dad bod") IT geek. Almost exactly a year ago I met up for coffee with a woman I met right here on Reddit for a hookup/fling/FWB type of thing. Literally my first though when I saw her in the coffee shop was "Well, this is going to be a waste of time; she's fucking gorgeous and… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 7 | How should you act when you sense a girl is thinking about breaking up with you?This might be the worst plan I've ever heard. Make sure to film it, and then post in /r/whatcouldgowrong . | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Seducing gf younger sister how about it?Holy.... have you heard of punctuation? | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | What are your go-to recipes for a date night?I assume you can at least cook chicken reasonably well? Mashed Potatoes Cube some potatoes (preferably Russett or red) and place in cold water. Add salt, a few cloves of garlic, and some dried herbs (thyme / oregano / basil are good choices). Bring to a boil for ~20-30 minutes, or until soft. Turn element to LOW. Drain water. Return pot to element. Let sit a few minutes, stirring gently occasionally, until potatoes have dried out. Edges will change color and go "grainy". Mash potatoes and push t… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Gay boy SebI think you're mistaking this for /r/r4r or similar subs. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 09:05 PM |
| -4 | I'm only a few weeks into my first relationship and I'm already having trust issues.A few weeks ago I started dating this girl. You're demanding exclusivity only a few weeks into the relationship. That's unreasonable unless you discussed it with her and you have mutually agreed to be exclusive. People date multiple people simultaneously. Welcome to adult relationships. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | A girl I’ve been seeing is texting another guy. I saw he sent a text making a date with her. How should I handle this?I just want to see second perspective from someone else. I think you'll find that most second opinions will conclude that you're a misogynistic, self-centered, controlling asshole. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 08:54 PM |
| 3 | A girl I’ve been seeing is texting another guy. I saw he sent a text making a date with her. How should I handle this?You say it's too early to be exclusive, then complain that you're not exclusive. You can either let her live her life the way she wants, or you can not get involved with her. Your choice. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 07:52 PM |
| 11 | A girl I’ve been seeing is texting another guy. I saw he sent a text making a date with her. How should I handle this?Unless you had an understanding with this girl that you were going to be exclusive, it's none of your business. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Arranged Marriage superior to playing the game?I'm guessing the stats reflect its better than a marriage of, "well 2 people like each other," Or it merely reflects archaic but extremely strong social pressure against divorce, largely stemming from equally archaic religious beliefs. For example, followers of Catholicism had an EXTREMELY low rate of divorce for ~1900 out of 2000 years. It had nothing to do with the fact that people were happier in their marriages, and everything to do with the fact that you would be excommunicated and ostraciz… | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Arranged Marriage superior to playing the game?How could a marriage of political and financial convenience possibly go wrong? A low divorce rate means exactly zero. Want me to show you some not-divorced people who hate their married life? | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Being NICE = Eating SUGARWell, I'm sure we're all much smarter for having read this. | /r/seduction | 03/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 12 | What does it mean if a girl says "I haven't been here in like 2 or 3 years" at a bar / club?Maybe she literally means she hasn't been here (to this particular club) in 2 or 3 years. There aren't hidden messages in everything people say. | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Inviting girl to apt. for dinner(I've never cooked a meal in my wife) I'm assuming you mean "in my life". If that is true, then all I can say is "oh boy". Cooking is not a skill you learn on the fly when you're trying to impress a woman. | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Not masturbating killed my sex drive.Are you taking any drugs as part of your medical treatment? There are a number of drugs that temporarily kill your sex drive. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 04:47 PM |
| 5 | I've been seeing a girl for a couple weeks now and am determined to keep it casual. What should I do for Valentine's Day?It depends on the exact nature of your relationship with her, and how each of you define "casual", and if you've been honest with her about the casual nature of the relationship. I'm in a similar situation right now -- been seeing a woman for about a month now, and we both know it's going to end because I'm leaving the country for work soon, so it's casual in the sense that we're not talking about serious relationship things like getting married and having kids together. But... it's been the mos… | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a mind-reading trickThis is well-known effect in magic, specifically in mentalism. There are a number of ways to do it depending on the situation, whether or not you're having them hold something (e.g. a coin), etc. It's a basic tenet of magic to not reveal the methods of others, so I can't tell you the specific methods I know because they're not mine. But with the above info it should not be hard to dig up the information. ;) | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 07:50 AM |
| 2 | need advice on how to have sex with a woman at workAgain: I... wait... what? Flip this around for a second: you've just met a girl, you're building up to asking her out, when she comes out and says "I WANT TO HAVE YOUR BABIES!!!!!!" You would: A) Get down to business, or B) Get the hell out of there as fast as you can If you pick A, you should also add in "seek professional psychiatric advice". | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 4 | need advice on how to have sex with a woman at worknever talked to her personally ... I am willing to get her pregnant and to pay aliments I don't care because I'm convinced she is the type of person made to carry my babies. I... wait... what? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with unfixable negatives, just own it?I don't agree that this is "unfixable". Speech therapists deal with stuttering as part of their normal professional practice. It's a relatively common problem, and occurs about 4x more in men than women. In most places, speech therapy is a regulated health profession, which means it can often be covered under your health benefits. If you don't want to go to a full-out speech therapist, you can look at taking elocution lessons. Many high-profile public speakers (CEOs, politicians, etc) do this to… | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Is she bored or just comfortable with silence?Is she actually low energy/bored or is she introverted? Those are VERY different things, and in my experience extroverts (or even mild introverts) don't really understand the introvert mindset, often mistaking it for boredom. To an introvert, parties and clubs are the most stressful, energy-sucking -- and boring -- thing they can do. Unless they're in a VERY specific mood, it doesn't appeal to them at all and they would rather spend their time and energy doing something else. | /r/seduction | 19/12/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Could the guy be trying to seduce my wife?First of all, it's not unusual for people to have fair rigid patterns. You leave for work at the same time each day, you take lunch at the same time each day, etc. So it's not unusual for two people who work in the same place to see each other at the same time each day. She's probably walked by the guy 100 times before and would never have been able to point him out. It's possible the only reason he says "hi" now is because they've actually met, and you know... you say hi to people you know. As … | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 09:25 PM |
| 1 | need urgent adviceYou're being cuckolded. Unless that's a fetish of yours, time to move on. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 04:41 AM |
| 9 | Would you guys go out to a concert tonight under these circumstances?Back in my day, we pulled these things called "all-nighters". Caffeine is your friend. | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 07:34 PM |
| -2 | Got my harshest rejection yet today..."Sorry, this isn't going to work out. Prepositional grammar is really important to me and you suck at it." | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Stocking cap opener..... is it a good opener... to do something that in most jurisdictions could be construed as assault? ... ... ... ... ... No. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 03:52 PM |
| 7 | my mom says I can't sleep with woman till married to themI was going to go with "get married". | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Friend request sent.Forget Facebook and ask her out in person next time you see her. | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 08:08 PM |
| 3 | "I don't like giving out my number""I won't be giving you my number either -- you kind of seem like the crazy stalker type. A guy's gotta be careful." | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Do girls get mad?Since you've provided no context, details or anything else to bring your question from "extremely generic" to "specific", we can only give you an equally extremely generic answer: Yes, girls are not unemotional robots. | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 01:00 AM |
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