altorx Archive

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1	Advices to stop thinking about oneitis dude there are lots of HB10+'s in the world. Next her.. I mean, it will suck and shit, but learn from it and move on. That's all you can do.	/r/seduction	06/03/11 03:38 AM
2	Advices to stop thinking about oneitis Ok I'm new to PUA but I can tell you my experience about getting over a girl which looking back was pretty clear-cut oneitis. You have to next her. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/next/ There are lots of girls and you're probably too far down the friends zone to have any real chance. Next her. (1) avoid contact. this alone given enough time, combined with doing other things will cure it. (2) when you think about your oneitis, start writing it down. Either in a notebook or txt document. I…	/r/seduction	05/03/11 02:16 PM
3	[FR] First date with a girl, going swimmingly until I went for the kiss Can you give an example?	/r/seduction	05/03/11 12:20 AM
3	Common Pitfalls: Oneitis & Poor Inner Game Holy shit you're right. I'm one who has said oneitis is a disease. Symptom is much more accurate. I was relating it to a medical/mental health problem: trouble concentrating, trouble sleeping, lack of proper judgment, affecting other areas of one's life negatively, etc. The funny thing is when I've been in oneitis really bad, I still feel like I have a chance with the girl. Now I've started to take a step back and recognize the symptoms and understand the inner game and what's the underlying cau…	/r/seduction	04/03/11 05:11 PM
2	Breakthrough : It is making sense now. My friends, family, and Seddit were right. I was blind, deaf, and dumb. No more! \|I've been thinking about my situation with her all evening and another funny thing about her is she would never reciprocate. I'm just getting over some oneitis myself. I would encourage you to do something fun, work on one of your goals, etc. cause as it is if you're thinking about her all evening she's still got some power over you! I also have to work on this myself cause my thoughts go back to her until I realize how fucked up that is. I have more important things to do, you do too!	/r/seduction	04/03/11 12:55 AM
6	Breakthrough : It is making sense now. My friends, family, and Seddit were right. I was blind, deaf, and dumb. No more! Yup I agree. 4-5 times a week is pretty excessive and when she can talk and talk you're definitely friend zoned. I've been there too. Just realizing it is a step in the right direction. Sometimes when I'm listening to someone well who has given me IOI they will say something like "wow sorry I'm just talking a lot about this.." and until I started reading seddit I would go like "no problem I like listening to you" or something pretty beta. Now I'm trying to figure out what would be better way to …	/r/seduction	03/03/11 11:47 PM
2	Would you take on a Protégé? If you help him, she will surely look at you as more alpha.	/r/seduction	03/03/11 11:33 PM
3	Breakthrough : It is making sense now. My friends, family, and Seddit were right. I was blind, deaf, and dumb. No more! I think the best part of the cast was when he talked about how there is a direct inverse relationship to how much a man spends listening to a woman talk about problems and how much sex is in a relationship. Say you're driving somewhere that's like an hour away for whatever reason. She starts talking about problems. What do you do?	/r/seduction	03/03/11 11:27 PM
1	[semi FR] I experienced what it feels like to be alpha How do you give others value without it being a DHV?	/r/seduction	02/03/11 07:13 PM
1	[FR] 3 k-closes & Oneitis ain't a thang Lurker here. I'm new to all this stuff and just the term "oneitis" has helped me a lot. It really does feel like a god-damned disease where I'm so focused on one girl that shit she does messes with me so that I can't focus or breaks my concentration / routine. I feel lied to! All this focusing and devotion works in movies and is supposed to "win" her over. Never seems to work. Anyways thanks for the FR.	/r/seduction	27/02/11 10:14 AM