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Learn how to properly kino. On the surface, a light touch on the top of her shoulder or neck comes across very differently than grabbing a handful of ass, but they both convey the exact same message. Sometimes i will use both throughout the day mixed with some verbal negging as a push/pull. Its fun as hell for me because i get to watch the hamster spin. "Why is he being so mean to me? And why am i so wet?" The key is that I am doing this for my own practice and enjoyment. If it ends in sex, grea…
/r/askMRP19/02/18 01:47 PM
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Ever consider that maybe she's asking because she WANTS you to man up and say "no" ?
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:03 PM
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One thing I like to do when cutting is to switch my rep scheme 4-6 weeks into the cut. For example, say I'm running 4x6 then one AMRAP set for my heavy compound lifts at the beginning of the cut, I will then switch to 4x10 with the weight decreased by 15-20% for a few weeks. I have found that it helps me in a couple of ways. I can usually keep a lot more fullness in my muscles due to the new stimulus, sometimes even adding a little muscle depending on how "on" I am with my nutrition. Mentally, I…
/r/askMRP25/01/18 01:40 PM
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I'd do whatever I had to do to get my test checked. If it comes down to it, look up a list of the symptoms of low T and throw in a couple "extras" at the next doc appt. If that doesn't work, I'd say it's time to find a new doc.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:11 PM
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I should have made my reply to the OP. That's on me. However, I stand behind my statements.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 07:57 PM
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In all seriousness, I feel like you're about to pitch me a time share. Do you use this many words when you speak to your wife? When you over communicate everything, you leave nothing for her to "unravel". No mystery. Seriously man. STFU! Edited for autocorrect
/r/askMRP17/01/18 07:42 PM
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This reminds me of a thread that I read recently. The discussion was about how easy it is to tell when a man has no frame. You can always tell by the fact that he gets butthurt and defensive when someone here gives solid advice that's difficult to hear. Hell, I've been guilty of it myself. One day, when you have a frame of your own, you'll look back at this and cringe. I know you FEEL like king dingaling and think that you showed your wife what's up. However, what really happened is that she sho…
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:18 PM
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My home gym was some of the best money i ever spent. I can be out of bed and into the gym in 10 mins. I always have somewhere to go when I need to withdraw my time. Never have to wait on equipment. But above all else, the absolute best part is the fact that I dont have to wear pants.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 05:40 PM
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I have always been pretty comfortable with dirty talk, even in my hardcore BP days. I have definitely had to do some work on building up the dominance aspect. Now that ive seen how much of a response i get from it, its my favorite and the most comfortable for me. The best advice I can give you is to not worry too much about getting it "wrong". If your wife is really into it, you can basically say just about anything and it will work. The one big thing I suggest trying is telling her "that's my p…
/r/askMRP15/12/17 04:26 PM
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So you believe that no man ever truly knows who he is? That's an interesting notion. (Serious) I do agree that the self does and should evolve over the course of life, but I don't think that prevents me from knowing who I currently am and how far I have to go towards who I eventually want to be...my best self. The true to self statement was not intended as a "im a special snowflake" but more as a "i know that sex is important to me and required for me to be satisfied with life or relationship. I…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 03:58 PM
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I agree that it's self-sabotage to stick to a self view that is incomplete or inaccurate. 100%. Once we know who we are and what we want, it's no longer a "Disney one liner" but an imperative to getting the life that we truly want. Isn't that foundational for Red Pill philosophy? A man opening his eyes to the world as it truly is, seeing himself for who he truly is and who he wants to be, and then unapologetically pursuing that end? Is it just that you don't like my particular phrasing or do you…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 02:51 PM
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My world view was shattered when diagnosed with a serious, chronic disease. When I got through the pure hell of a 14 month treatment and decided that I would never again settle for anything less than the life and relationship that I wanted, I found the pill and startred the journey towards finding out who I truly am. Every day that I'm in the gym at 4am and not in a hospital bed confirms who the fuck I am. I probably know more about who I truly am and what I am truly capable of mentally, physica…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 02:04 PM
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I agree with most of this with the exception of ignoring sex. I am a man with sexual needs/desires. To ignore those is not being honest or true to who I am. In my mind, being true to self is the very essence of alpha and masculinity. I do believe that the frame from which I operate and pursue the fulfillment of those needs is critical to whether I am viewed as "needy" or viewed as a man who knows what I want and is not willing to settle for anything short of a fulfilling life. Secondly, and only…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 01:42 PM
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I've done velocity style diets in the past, but only for a week, max. I really think whole foods, especially proteins, are too crucial to maintaining muscle mass to be eliminated for any significant amount of time. You really want to avoid becoming overly catabolic during a cut as it will both set you back in your overall goals of going full beast mode and it will actually make cutting more difficult. The more muscle on your frame, the higher your RMR, or resting metabolic rate, which simply mea…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:38 PM
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How much of a calorie deficit are you running? A drop in energy is normal during a cut, but it shouldn't be a HUGE drop. If you are over 500 cal deficit, dial it back. If you're around -500, maybe dial it back to -300 until energy levels stabilize then work back to -500 over a couple weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 01:12 PM
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If you're honest with yourself, how many of these ice queen episodes immediately followed an instance, or even period of time, when you got lax or dropped the ball on leadership, OYS around the house/marriage? How long would you say that you've been operating at 90% or better MRP standard CONSISTENTLY, day-in-day-out? Don't BS us or yourself.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 05:43 PM
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My first question is what do YOU like? Do you really know? Have you ever just been 100%in charge of a woman and had her loving every second of your dominance? If not, then consider the possibility that you're autistic AF when you try to caveman your wife. If it's not natural (or at least SEEMS natural) in the moment, of course she won't like it. Secondly, are you in shape yet, or still a soft bellied, average Joe with maybe a little case of the bitch tits? This matters more than you think. I can…
/r/askMRP04/11/17 11:13 AM
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Agreed 100% on the busy excuse. I've just started a new job. (pay raise, better future growth potential, etc. Thanks to my MAP for getting my ass in gear on that front, but I digress.) I am the Systems Admin on a project that should have started about 6 months before I was hired. I'll let you figure out for yourself the hours and stress levels I'm working. I have a HARD deadline for full implementation of 6 weeks. So you know what I do? I get my ass out of bed at 4 motherfucking AM EVERY DAMN DA…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 08:12 PM
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"I was disapointed..." Outcome independence doesn't just apply to sex.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 08:21 PM
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Thanks for making the point about mental health questions being shit tests. This is one I've just recently begun realizing. It's a sneaky ass shit test. I've started firing back with "if I'm what crazy looks like, then all men should be so fucking lucky" and show her the abs or flex a bicep and put on my cockiest grin. Generally I'm getting laid like tile within 24 hours, tops....of course, this works because I don't eat fried chicken in front of the tv. Lol
/r/askMRP01/11/17 07:15 PM
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Honestly man, your entire post reeks of butthurt. I literally cringed a couple of times reading it. YOU created a series of compoundingly passive aggressive interactions with your wife. What could have been handled with a very simple response of "I can't believe it! It's even more unbelievable than it was this morning!" (Cue shit-eating grin) turned into an overnight shit show of you letting her see repeatedly how much her words/feelz affect your mood and general disposition. It's a bad look, br…
/r/askMRP01/11/17 07:04 PM
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Quiet. Didnt talk much the rest of the day and by the next morning, she was all smiles like it never happened.
/r/askMRP12/10/17 12:47 AM
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Went back once I finished my beer. What kind of asshole do you take me for? cue shit-eating grin
/r/askMRP11/10/17 11:48 PM
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YMMV, but that's what works at my house. It's like a silent form of ASD. Also, remember that the arousal curve for women can be longer than it is for us. Thats situationally dependent, of course, but don't be afraid to push it to the limit sometimes. Worst case scenario you won't get laid...same outcome as giving up early. What's to lose?
/r/askMRP11/10/17 06:42 PM
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Personally, if I'm "rubbing her mound" and not getting a hard no, I'm "fingering her valley" about 60 secs later. Escalate until you get shut down.
/r/askMRP11/10/17 06:01 PM
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FRAME, do you have one? (Hint- nope.) She calls you an asshole? I usually reply with a smile and an ass slap on my way out the door. Leave your wife in target for an hour because she showed her ass in public and when she calls, youre chatting and laughing with "Stacy" the bartender at the sports bar across town. Bet she won't forget that shit. Mine sure hasn't. Target is now a shit test "no-fly zone." Shit tests before work? Literally pretend she doesn't exist unless ita to TELL her how many sug…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 05:38 PM
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Agree 100% with getting a new job asap. In the meantime, are there any ATTRACTIVE women in the office? If so, get to work hard on upping your SMV and let her see the ladies checking out your newfound gains. I'd also find after work activities, like grabbing beers with your buddies, to give reason for driving separate cars and creating more separation where you can.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:49 PM
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Maybe I've missed something in a previous post, but having LEGIT mental issues is a game-changer on almost every level and necessary info for anyone seeking to give you advice. With that said, how sure are you that she freaks out on you because of genuine PTSD episodes? Any chance that it's used as a crutch or excuse to talk to you however she likes when you don't "behave"?
/r/askMRP10/10/17 06:23 PM
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And? Are you afraid of her emotions? If so, thats something that you need to get in check really quickly. Would you respect someone who was afraid of upsetting you?
/r/askMRP10/10/17 06:11 PM
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Maybe shoot back a "park?! I was just planning on diving out when we get near the house. When I say "go" you jump too...don't forget to tuck and roll, honey!" Don't forget the shit eating grin. Maybe even unbuckle the seat belt or crack your door open for a sec. It'll give her so many different emotions all at once and she WILL remember it every time she thinks to tell you to park. Then once you park and get out, slap her on the ass and tell her it's time to park something in her.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 04:32 PM
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Thats because you live DEEPLY in a scarcity mentality. Your posts have zero indications that you feel that you're the prize on any level. Its been said repeatedly, but you need to LIFT HEAVY SHIT. This will help your confidence in a way that you cannot possibly comprehend right now. Just fucking do it. You'll know its working when you look back at this thread and want to bitch slap yourself for writing this insecure bullshit.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 12:37 AM
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If it was an active dread attempt, I'd say she succeeded beyond her wildest dreams.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 12:11 AM
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I think we all understand how difficult it is to truly NGAF. I know I do. I had to learn to stop fighting the anger and resentment and start channeling it into my lifts and MAP. The day that I realized I was instinctively redirecting negative emotions into drive towards my goals or getting shit done around the house, well it honestly felt like I was truly a man for the first time in my life. Thats the uniquely beautiful burden of being a man. It will never be easy. Its not supposed to be. But we…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 03:01 AM
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Are you saying that you have tried TV, video games and porn AS hobbies? Hobbies should be things that get you away from these activities. Learn an instrument, wood working, or as someone recently suggested (I am looking into this one for myself) take a CPR/first responder course. Hobbies should add value to you as a man and make you more interesting. TV and video games are time wasters and build no value. I say this as a man who loved me some vidya gamin.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 02:35 AM
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Do you see the covert contract that ended with you sleeping on the couch? You had a fun weekend with the wife and expected it to result in sex. When it didn't, you were left angry, horny, and sleeping in another room. True outcome independence would have resulted in your fun weekend being just that, a fun weekend as opposed to a fun weekend capped off with negativity and anger directed at your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 02:19 AM
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So what she really said was, "Oh so you think you've got your shit together, huh? Well, what if I do "x"? Still feel like you're in charge?" Recognize it. Swat it. Get back to OYS. Just my .02
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 02:53 AM
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So she brought up Chad at the same time she mentioned noticing that something was different with you, presumably due to MRP changes? Am I understanding that correctly?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/17 02:43 AM
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Great post. I appreciate your perspective, especially in regards to the evolutionary aspect. That's something that I have been utilizing in the gym and trying to bleed it over into everyday life. Our ancestors were strong, alpha warriors and survivors. If they weren't, we wouldn't exist. Who the fuck am I to get butthurt over my wife not giving me sex? Who am I to skip DL day because I have some sand in my vag and dont "feel like it" today? We owe it to those that came before to live lives of ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/17 12:16 AM
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