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I just don’t understand how your description is “definitely not leftist”
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:41 AM
5

What lol
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:29 PM
7

This is good to know. A lot of these suggestions read like "Don't be genuine" to me (because this isn't how I act). I live a modest life and I'm ok with that. I'm not going to pretend I'm too busy for someone when I'm not.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:22 PM
8

Sounds great for when I buy a house. This was for my college apartment and during my stint of internships afterwards. Once I have enough money for a mortgage, that sounds like a decent plan but IKEA furniture in the meantime when being forced to apartment hop seems more frugal for the moment/easier to move imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 02:29 PM
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Yeah idk what the fuck they're talking about. My ex roommate still has the ikea couch we bought 7 years later. I have a wardrobe and small nightstand that I've had for 4 years. I'm not sure where they're getting that cheap IKEA furniture breaks?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 02:03 PM
1

Goddamnit
/r/seduction05/07/20 03:18 PM
1

Chaste Chelsea
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/19 07:24 PM
91

🎶if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you🎶
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 04:21 AM
10

"Wow my daughter's retarded. I taught her to never hit law enforcement because they're authority figures with guns. Why did she do something so stupid?"
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/18 09:40 PM
10

It's a police officer. You do not slap them. They are authority figures with guns. Whether right or wrong on his part, this is common knowledge - do not test law enforcement.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/18 09:38 PM
11

This seeps into my work all the time. Was at a luncheon and several girls were chatting about what they thought other co workers dicks might look like. My friend spoke up and said "It's kind of funny because if we were talking like that, you'd all lose your minds" They ate him alive, shouting nonsense like, "We can talk that way now because of the oppression we've faced" lmfao
/r/MensRights16/06/18 03:49 PM
10

Yes but when you're judging my painting, I don't have to listen to it. Also it'd be the equivalent of everyone watching me paint for the first time, as I'm trying to learn how to paint, and people shouting "You're doing it wrong!!!" While I'm in the middle of learning.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/18 06:07 PM
4

I'm leaving California. Gonna miss the weather, food, and certain clubs... Not much else.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 11:33 AM
2

Not sure but they do good work for men which is all I care about. They have an interview series that I believe is called Bristlecone. Linked on their website.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 02:59 AM
24

If you guys are looking for a place that helps male sexual assault victims, look up 1in6. It's a non profit.
/r/MensRights16/01/18 04:23 PM
1

By being on that David Foster Wallace shit. Seriously sounds like something he would say.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:04 PM
3

Precisely. This is actually why it's so easy to make friends. They argue a point you disagree with? Listen to them and ask questions to understand why they think the way they do instead of immediately going on the defensive.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 08:54 PM
1

Yes they are. And regardless of your thoughts on that, we should fight for their rights and respect them just as much.
/r/MensRights16/07/16 02:19 AM
1

Have we tried? Have we failed? We can talk about the obstacles we face all we want. Has the MRM tried to setup a men's shelter? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 12:43 PM
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Some of the discussions I've had in this thread are really turning me against this sub. I'm all for mens rights but when shit like this is the top voted post? Jesus, where is the activism?
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:26 AM
2

They don't have to be convinced. That's the thing. There seems to be this viewpoint that MRM needs to either change their minds or bust. Why don't MRAs just ignore them and just focus on improving the livelihoods of men? Why don't MRAs just focus on mens rights? If feminism or a feminist gets in the way of activism, THEN a conversation can be had. But most of the time, it's just complaining about the way the system already is, not obstacles in the way of progress.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:23 AM
3

I'd like to see discussions on setting up mens shelters. I'd like to see more people setting up meetups or panels to discuss mens issues. I'd like to see discussion on countering the laws that this forum complains so much about in areas of family court, divorce, reproduction, etc. And furthermore, I'd like to see action in that regard. If this movement really matters to people, they would spend more time campaigning and less time complaining. You don't counter the rhetoric by whining about mean …
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:21 AM
3

True, but you have to consider their perspective if you want to win them over to your perspective. And some feminists can be won over. Some can't. The opposite is also true (which is why I don't associate with either label). The answer lies somewhere in the middle. Women do face issues that are unique to women. The same is true for men. We need to listen to each other. We can debate and have discourse as well, like you and I are having. The risk, for MRM, as a movement, is becoming as radicalize…
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:16 AM
1

I never said that? I think the wage gap is BS too.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:08 AM
4

They identify as feminists and that makes them feminists. Some people choose labels, others reject them. Do radicals define their movement? Should the MRA be judged by their worst examples as well?
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:08 AM
3

Hash tags like #KillAllMen are, of course, coming from an awful, sexist place That does not mean all feminists use the hash tag #KillAllMen or even support other feminists using it. I've known so many individuals who identify as feminist who talk at length about how much they despise the extremist factions within their movement doing stuff like this, because it turns people away from feminism. Not all feminists are man-haters.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:04 AM
2

What? Just because somebody might have a narrow view of the wage gap doesn't mean they're anti-male. This is the type of rhetoric I'm talking about. The responses to my postings here have me dangerously close to unsubbing and that breaks my heart because mens rights is so near and dear to me. This is the exact thing I am talking about. You will not win over anyone by using identity politics against feminists like they do against MRAs. Take the higher road.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 10:02 AM
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So you see no point in fighting for people to have sympathy towards men and mens issues? I'm not being sarcastic, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 09:51 AM
1

Being opposed to feminist ideology and rhetoric is fine. It's how you conduct yourself and how you react to it that matters. There's a large difference between saying, "I disagree with feminist ideology and rhetoric, and the methods they employ to achieve gender equality," and, "All feminists are man haters." One of those reactions will open peoples hearts to the movement. The other will close them.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 09:49 AM
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But not all feminists are a part of that. I have many friends who label themselves as feminists who fight for the same causes that MRAs do. The label does not matter. I have no problem with the criticism of the overarching ideology or the power it holds over people. What I do have a problem with is the demonization of feminists in the same exact way that feminists demonize MRAs. Mens Rights really risks becoming a part of the problem it seeks to solve by becoming just as radicalized.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 07:57 AM
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Yes, but if you combat it with the us vs. them mentality that they show, you confirm their bias.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 07:54 AM
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I'm not a feminist apologist, but I refuse to say ALL feminists are anti-men. That is just as extreme rhetoric as saying all MRAs are anti-women. I also don't appreciate the radicalism that we are "slipping" if we don't fall into the same type of radicalism as feminist thought. This is the exact mentality I do not want in mens rights. I do not want us to become an "our way or the highway" type. We should invite the discourse that feminism rejects.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 07:52 AM
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In some respects, yes, but I don't think this mentality helps further men's rights. As long as we keep an us vs. them mentality, we will get nowhere and they will always view us as basement dwelling women haters. There are better ways to portray our arguments. Men's rights has to be extremely careful That They do not wind up in the same pitfalls of radicalism as third wave feminism. The key point to remember is that the label doesn't matter. You can label yourself an MRA and believe in men's rig…
/r/MensRights15/07/16 07:22 AM
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I agree. I don't post much in this sub, but I do read and see a lot of the content posted. Frankly, I don't much care for the anti-feminist or quippy rhetoric that I see a lot here. I'd rather see legitimate positive forward momentum towards mens issues (again, which I don't see a lot here). But this post in particular bothered me. I'm not trans, so I won't say I'm offended on trans peoples behalf, but I don't think this is in good taste, and it doesn't represent mens rights or what it should st…
/r/MensRights15/07/16 05:09 AM
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You complain about people having the wrong perspective of feminism, and then complain that they must be militant MRAs who want to take away women's right to vote when no one here has even identified as MRA. And this is just because you're encountering People who disagree with you. And you wonder why they don't want to identify as feminists.
/r/MensRights19/03/16 11:47 AM
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I get what you're trying to say. But please, for your sake, don't ever fucking compare women's suffrage to fighting in a war.
/r/MensRights19/03/16 11:43 AM
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Feminists need to stop hiding behind the dictionary. It makes them look like such a goddamn cult.
/r/MensRights19/03/16 11:38 AM
5

I do hope you realize the incredible irony in your last "point"
/r/MensRights19/03/16 11:34 AM
2

Gone Girl? Although it would be interesting to have a film like Gone Girl where they didn't try to also portray the man as a cheating asshole, but a wrongly accused innocent in the self interest of the woman. If only Hitchcock were still around. His staple was wrongly accused men and I think he'd be all over such a film.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 01:47 PM
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Have you seen The Hunt? It essentially is a horror film.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:15 PM
0

You'll never find someone you agree with 100% on everything. That's ok. She's someone who will listen, which is the most important part.
/r/MensRights03/01/16 04:31 AM
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I follow her on Twitter. She's constantly posting about the suicide rates of men and how horrible the education system is towards young boys.
/r/MensRights02/01/16 11:31 PM
5

Only worth watching if you're into that. His TedX troll is definitely worth watching though.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 07:20 PM
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All of Sam Hydes bits are like this. They're reactionary pieces meant to provoke to show people's hypocrisies.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 09:17 AM
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Sam Hyde in a nutshell
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 09:15 AM
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Sam Hyde is reactionary comedy for YouTube. It's not really great comedy in and of itself, but it has its applications, like when he made fun of TedX... On TedX
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 09:15 AM
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If I was a girl, I'd be down for all the dirty shit I think of, so that would be cool. But I'd probably be too chicken shit to be honest with myself, so that wouldn't be cool. But I'd also have tits which would be cool.
/r/seduction05/12/15 03:42 AM
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I loved watching his face. He's just like "you're Fucking retarded" then the dude starts talking and he's like "ok yeah makes sense"
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/15 11:33 PM
1

Huh. It's almost like the general population values different things in men than in women.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/15 03:39 AM
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She just started to cry to manipulate. Notice that the tears start to roll when the wife agrees with her that it's not OK for the husband to say mean things about her. "THANK YOU..." insert tears She's just trying to start shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/15 10:48 AM
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Imagine it - a robot that can change its appearance to fit any woman you know. Game over, baby! Game over!
/r/MensRights15/09/15 04:54 AM
1

Not that you're wrong, but I legitimately don't think the girl in the video is that intelligent. She probably meant the sexual assault way and hoped that screaming rape would draw attention and/or get sympathy points on the interwebs.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/15 09:47 AM
7

Ugh I am not giving The Young Turks views. They suck.
/r/MGTOW21/07/15 06:16 PM
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It's not. Neither is Survivor. Watch those shows and then watch something like Pawn Stars. You'll see the difference. Almost everyone talks in puns on scripted reality.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/07/15 11:25 AM
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And there's an argument to be made that many women are only looking for dads (provider of money and things) plus sex.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 06:11 AM
1

For sure. I get it. There was one colleague of mine who passively insinuated I had yellow fever once (she is Asian) when I wasn't attracted to her and anything she was picking up was just in her mind. People will see what they want to see and their biases will come out regardless.
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:41 PM
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Yeah I just don't process it that much if I'm going to approach a woman. If I find her attractive, I'll go talk to her haha.
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:38 PM
1

Meh whatever. I like girls of all different kinds of races, including Asians. If an Asian chick gets salty because I hit on her, that's her problem.
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:35 PM
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I just think that's a little unfair. I like Asian girls, but I also like many Latina and even some black girls. I just don't get why it should be taboo for me to hit on a girl who is Asian, since I'm not hitting on her BECAUSE she's Asian, but because I'm attracted to her.
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:33 PM
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I don't get why this is BAD though? Girls of different races are allowed to say they specifically have fetishes towards X race. "I really like black guys," "I really like Hispanics," etc. But for some reason, white guys being partial to Asians is creepy? Why?
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:58 AM
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It's not cause you're overweight. Lanky ass white dude here. I got called out for having "yellow fever" because I volunteered to help out at a Japanese film fest. I didn't even ask anybody out. I was just working.
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:55 AM
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Why doesn't it matter?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/15 09:02 PM
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Nope. Not what I'm saying.
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:45 PM
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That's not what I'm saying at all lol
/r/seduction29/01/15 04:23 AM
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You think in black and white
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:31 PM
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Troll harder
/r/seduction28/01/15 07:18 AM
0

Lol no. You don't understand how sexual attraction works. Guys don't want to fuck their guy friends so of course that doesn't factor into it. I'm not even going to bother with you because that's incredibly delusional.
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:36 AM
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It is if that's not what you want.
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:34 AM
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Especially if he communicates it and stands up for himself. I don't understand this attitude that guys have to be doormats or they're misogynist assholes. It's really bizarre.
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:07 AM
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That's such bullshit and you know it. Men who respect themselves and their desires and COMMUNICATE it are not misogynists who don't respect women and that attitude is incredibly negative. It's not a matter of women not fucking us, it's a matter of women ticking us in the "friends" box. If that's not what you're looking for, why would you agree to it? Men standing up for themselves does not equate to disrespect towards women.
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:06 AM
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Reposted the video over to /r/videos hoping to get the issue more attention.
/r/MGTOW25/10/14 08:27 AM
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Respect the Zef
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/14 04:42 AM
9

I could actually imagine this being the campaign slogan.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 03:53 AM
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I think the passivity in a lot of these cases stems from the fear that the hamster will go into overdrive and she'll cry wolf. This could end the dude in a much worse situation.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:57 AM
2

I was never a feminist, but as a child, growing up around feminist women, I essentially had the attitude of a "white knight." It's kind of abusive when I think about it actually. I'd take it upon myself to be "the one who proved them wrong... that men could be good people" and they made sure that whenever I slipped up, to tell me that it was making them lose faith in men. I remember the conversation when I finally stood up for myself. I shouted, "Stop judging me as a paragon of men. Stop judging…
/r/MensRights11/07/14 10:04 AM
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My mom dealt with post partum after my birth. Her and my father got into violent altercations in front of me and my sister a lot. Please either go to therapy or find a place for your kids when this happens.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 06:55 PM
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If you look at it that way there isn't really a point to anything. LOL WHAT
/r/seduction27/11/13 10:08 AM
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Biology. Women are just attracted to that. Similarly someone could say "I don't understand why the 20 something men don't just find a nice chick who isn't 'attractive' in the physical sense." Men are primarily attracted to looks whereas there are a myriad of other factors for women, namely, status.
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:42 AM
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But that doesn't tell why exactly they can't date younger like men can. Yes it does. They're more than welcome to try, it's just very unlikely because of that reason. It's all biology. Men mostly want younger (fertile) women. Women mostly want older (more experienced, high status) men. As the article states, many of these 30 something women want men who are on par with them in terms of status. They're not going to find that in younger men.
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:40 AM
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The funny thing is that men have always understood this. Now that women are in men's shoes, this fantasy that men have always had money, sex, booze, and happiness rain down on theme is fading, but instead of viewing it as "oh, we have more responsibilities with heavier consequences to our choices," it's "why are there no good men who can give me what i want?"
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:35 AM
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Ok you start off with this... "By providing and demonstrating value to yourself, your peers, and ultimately some lucky lady/ladies. I support that wholeheartedly." But then you go to... "But why limit yourself to a predefined set of ways to provide value? A confident man is just that, whether he has a soft spot for teddy bears or no." Being yourself does not always = success. Modifications in one's behavior and self are needed. Mistakes are only good if they teach you a lesson and you grow from …
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:33 AM
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Similarly, the article refers to the evolutionary biology that men have where they expect their partners to be young attractive and fertile. Really, a lot of these misunderstandings wouldn't exist if people just understood how men and women work generally.
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:24 AM
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I have to agree. I like that fable, but this could just as likely be switched around on an abusive male partner. This really doesn't feel like a gender conversation... more like how to recognize an abusive partner, or signs ("symptoms") that an abusive partner can exhibit.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 12:52 AM
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I'm a recent film graduate. I was more looking for what people would like to see covered. I want to be able to cover as much ground as possible.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 04:53 AM
1

I never thought about that, but that makes a lot of sense. Moving forward, I'll keep that in mind. I agree that it's important for the POV to mainly be outside of the filmmakers inner circle. Thanks for the suggestions! :)
/r/MensRights17/09/13 09:14 PM
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I've read up a lot on Warren Farrell and his material. I will look into these other links! Thank you!
/r/MensRights17/09/13 08:35 PM
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This is a biggie with me, including divorce court issues. There are several prominent male figures in my life who were really burned by their divorces, and I want to interview them.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 11:15 AM
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Men aren't desired for their bodies as solely as women.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 08:18 AM
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I agree. The thing is that men have been dealing with this for forever. You have to manage your priorities, and sometimes, that means giving up focus on family. Why do so many media pieces include stay-at-home moms and dads who are always away on business? It's not that dads don't WANT to spend time with their kids, but it's a life choice they had to make. Single mothers don't really have that option. If work and kids are 100% your focus, then, yeah, you're not going to have much time to focus o…
/r/MensRights05/09/13 07:13 PM
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Did you interview them individually or altogether? If it was altogether, I could see your statistics being skewed by peer pressure
/r/seduction16/08/13 04:46 AM
2

Yes and how are your masculine biceps? Seriously, though, kudos.
/r/seduction06/08/13 05:00 PM
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Yes and WHO CANOES FOR TEN STRAIGHT HOURS?!
/r/seduction06/08/13 12:53 PM
3

ALL I EVERY WAAAANTED
/r/seduction04/08/13 04:23 AM
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This is really awesome, because I'm actually on the last chapter of your book. Bought it a few weeks ago. Marking this on my calendar :) Looking forward to it, Helen.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 09:52 PM
1

sadly, no :/
/r/MensRights15/07/13 06:21 AM
1

How do these victim blame? All the posters are saying is to not be prejudiced against guys. The "Don't Be That Guy" campaign perpetuates the idea that only men can rape and only women can be raped. This is a terrible mindset to instill in people. It breeds hatred of men in women. It breeds hatred of self in men. Prejudice is prejudice. As for "you have no clue about the facts." If you are referring to the 1 in 4 women will be sexually assaulted statistic, I can tell you right now that statistic …
/r/MensRights12/07/13 09:36 AM
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I don't think what you're doing is necessarily "wrong" and I don't like that you think that of yourself. We need people to fight, yes, but there wouldn't be a need for a fight without the fear, and I have those same fears as you. I am a senior in college about to head into a business that is VERY liberal, and will see me socially ostracized quite quickly for my views. Often, when my peers get into debates about gender issues, I stay silent, because I have the same fears as you. This does not mak…
/r/MensRights12/07/13 09:16 AM
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Don't know why people downvoted you. Here, have an upvote. Yeah, see, I'm going to try and get authorization, but I go to a VERY liberal college so I don't know about that. On the other hand, there's a building that has poster walls on every floor and nobody really cares what goes up there, so I'll be staking my grave there. Also, they drew negative attention because they spoke a truth that people ignore. The official responses were all about how they "ruined" a good campaign. The fault isn't in…
/r/MensRights12/07/13 07:01 AM
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Saw Jackson Katz TED talk and I couldn't make it more than a sixth of the way through, I was so disgusted.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 06:51 AM
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Way to put words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 05:10 AM
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The video on the Kickstarter? It's basically saying "Men have problems because they're violent and don't know how to express themselves." If they want me to give a shit about their project, they're going to have to show me that their scope is much broader than feminizing masculinity. There are so many more important issues men face.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 01:24 AM
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I borrowed some of your questions for my e-mail to her. Hope you don't mind :)
/r/MensRights12/07/13 01:21 AM
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Here's what I sent her: "Hello Jennifer, I first ignored Miss Representation outright, because I was afraid it would be more propaganda telling me that men are to blame for all of women's problems and self-image issues. Because you are doing a film on masculinity, my interest is piqued, and I will watch it. However, while I would like to offer money to this project, because gender equality and gender issues are important to me, I am hesitant because my experiences with women claiming to be for m…
/r/MensRights12/07/13 01:21 AM
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Wait, I can't find any printer-quality versions.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 01:16 AM
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I will be printing these and posting them at my campus in the fall. I expect to be ostracized. Oh well, it's my last semester there so who gives a shit?
/r/MensRights12/07/13 01:16 AM
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i giggled
/r/seduction13/06/13 10:34 AM
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"petty, beta attitude" ? The fuck? You seem like a jerk.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:34 PM
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"I hate when people on here say "oh don't take advice from women about women" Gives terrible advice on women.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:29 PM
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