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I would say height is pretty close if not more important particularly is some very specific environments like in a club where you stand out if you are tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:15 AM
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Culture obviously they are brought up with such values, also women tend to be financially independent as well so the man's investment in the relationship is not as high. I was brought up with such values as well but when i started to fall for a girl with a high notch count ( which i discovered later on in the relationship) I couldn't look at her the same, it was very weird feeling, It was like something was stopping me from giving her my 100% and being completely vulnerable with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:38 AM
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You could also simply be in the minority of men who simply don't care about this as you must be aware there people who don't even care if their pertener is sexually faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:01 AM
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Why would they refrain from "hooking up" with experienced women if they were just trying to fuck, if they were gunning for a relationship I would understand. Not american I have completely different experience than you I don't care about body count or any thing if I'm just trying to get a casual hookup but if you start catching feeling and start looking at them as a possible long term partener then I can't really look at them the same and feel repulsed/grossed by them and a lot of the times can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:55 AM
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Culture can influence it but not completely erase it, men from Europe probably feel it to lesser extent tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:44 AM
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I would bet, it's the dominant majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:43 AM
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Yes I'm agreeing with you, they just mention as it is a valid argument in a ny sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:42 AM
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To be completely honest, because it's disgusting and repuslive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:27 AM
0

Exactly! Why not mention also
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:24 AM
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Lol, you are absolutely wrong about it, you don't know what men feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:24 AM
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A very small minority, basically negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:22 AM
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If there is no sign doesn't mean there is no infidelity happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:03 AM
1

Social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:02 AM
1

And the men not having doubts but definitely should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:02 AM
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The woman should be able to opt out of it if the father is to not be involved in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:00 AM
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Exactly and all guys should educate themselves about how widespread paternity fraud is how big of a risk they are taking by not getting a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:46 AM
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Yesss!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:43 AM
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Or this is simply how the real world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:43 AM
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Or maybe this is just the reality of the situation which we have only been able to uncover recently thanks to improvement in science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:42 AM
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It will if you are familiar with the statistics and how prevelant this shit is and how terribly it can fuck you up and simply not wanting to leave such an important thing on trust which may very well be completely misplaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:39 AM
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That's fucked up, no way I'm not taking a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:05 AM
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I wouldn't describe myself as conservative generally but in terms of relationships and such, calling me conservative would be apt. Yes, being a step dad is absolutely out of question, it is simply gross that you have walking, talking symbol of another man who used to fuck your woman, completely and utterly disgusting. The only scenario that I see myself engaging in such relationship is if I have zero other options even then I would have one foot out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:55 PM
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You are correct, Most men do care about n-count but they have different acceptable numbers which is influenced by culture and simply having a different preference innately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:45 PM
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Repulsed only in romantic setting not in a casual hookup setting, the above commenter is correct n count is simply a proxy which has helped men spread their genes more effectively I.e. men who had this trait were more successful in reproducing and opposed to those who did not, that's why it is such ubiquitous trait. There are men who have no preference in terms of n count or even have a preference for high n count and some even like to have their partener actively fuck others while they are in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:42 PM
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The difference is that she is not attractive anymore, she is repulsive, gross and just plain disgusting. I only feel this towards women who I begin to develop feelings for, random hoes are always welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:34 PM
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It is a very strong biological urge, i can't look at a woman after such revelations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:28 PM
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Yes there is difference between casual fucking and seriously dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:27 PM
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I agree. We need to account for other factors aa well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:34 PM
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I think single fathers are still better that single mothers, no? The other commenter said toxic mothers so it would be fairly reasonable to assume that some or a large portion of single fathers are better than teo parent homes with toxic mothers, i think it goes the other way too as in instead of toxic mother it is the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:25 AM
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What I'm trying to say is that since there are other clear differences between men and women, why is a problem that there are difference in their attitude towards certain concepts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:20 AM
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Let's be honest, being raped is much worse if you are a woman.
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 04:29 PM
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Are you saying there are no biological differences between men and women?
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 03:26 PM
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She does look like a little bit tbh.
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 03:14 PM
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It suppose they each have their own struggles.
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 03:14 PM
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They should be castrated and subsequently their dick lit on fire.
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 03:12 PM
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Men are taller and stronger than women on average, is that also sexist? Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:45 PM
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Seems to me to the case too but this stuff is discussed so often than one could think that this is significantly more prevelant than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:39 PM
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From what I could read thru most don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:38 PM
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As much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:09 PM
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It is sad that they ignore what men really want and are possibly hurting their own future relationship prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:26 AM
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Yea but you cannot change the underlying biological instincts that have evolved over who knows how long in a couple of generations. Logically speaking a potential parteners past shouldn't really matter to me at all (unless there are any health risks) and I should be happy for them that they enjoyed themselves but it does, for me and for vast majority of men and other emotions like jelausy, fear etc. also exist all to make the propagation of our genes to the next generation of highest probability…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:24 AM
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I agree with you about men calling the shots as they had more to lose due to men being the primary providers and most of today's major religions emerged during that time period but things are different today atleast in the western world. With increase in female promiscuity male investment in the relationship decreases, they have an inverse relation. Also regarding male promiscuity, it don't think it has to be with men being in power as it is significantly more difficult for a man to get sex as c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:12 AM
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Obviously women and men have different expectations from each other in pretty much every aspect, I don't see why this metric would be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:46 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:41 AM
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The cost is pregnancy, if I had to carry a baby for 9 months through out which I would be practically be immobile I would definitely be very picky and shoot as high as possible. Due to contraception chance of getting pregnant is quite low and i think our culture also promotes this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:39 AM
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I doubt it, female promiscuity is shamed in pretty much all major religions/cultures, seems unlikely that they all somehow decided to do the same thing. And looking at how I personally feel about this it seems very biologically ingrained in me. Why do you say that it is a socialization thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:33 AM
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It would make sense that men are more imporrance on n-count as they have more to lose i.e. raising someother guy's child specially when they are the breadwinner of the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:35 PM
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Yea, desensitized is the wrong word here. What I'm trying to say is that women incur higher cost that men from casual sexual encounters so they focus on quality and men focus on quantity, so I would make sense that women be naturally less promiscuous than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:21 PM
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Ok, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:11 PM
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I agree, women don't really care about body count as much anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:06 PM
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Fulfillment? Children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:14 PM
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This seems bit unrealistic too, imo age is also relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:58 AM
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Depends how quickly she fucked the guys in the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:56 AM
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Who was more successful tho, higher vs lower count women? 3 is bit low but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:54 AM
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But in that age range you should be expecting somewhat higher numbers than yours even with conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:51 AM
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Men and women are not the same and they find different things attractive in their protective parteners. How can it be so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:48 AM
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Why does she have to fuck different guys every time? I don't care how much sex you had but how easily you jump into bed with a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:40 AM
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Good point. How? By choice? Dude get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 AM
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How would a girl get paternity doubts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:37 AM
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Yess!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:35 AM
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They would get laid but not have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:35 AM
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No dude, sex is the only this we are here to do, to pass on our genes to next generation. We are pretty smart still animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:34 AM
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No dude, biologically ingrained behaviours can't just stop existing just cause the underlying condition doesn't. For ex. humans have a innate fear of snakes and they still have a fear of snakes in places that have no snakes at all like NZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:30 AM
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Why can't it be both, suck the other guys' cum out but also pick a chick who is less likely to have other guys' cum in her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:25 AM
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Obviously a holistic approach is needed when selecting a partener for a serious ltr but generally speaking the lower the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:21 AM
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What is your point? Men have preferences and low n-count is one of them just like women have preferences. I have different opinion than the guy above, I would not accept high n-count woman even with higher count myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:17 AM
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Bro, it makes me wanna puke. Fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:04 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:01 AM
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But it does tho, right as men who were concerned about their parteners past were probably more likely to pass on their genes and other got cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:59 AM
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I think men are less likely to get desensitized with casual sex as they are basically built for fucking as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:54 AM
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Men with high n-count =/= women with high n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:52 AM
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Men should see women as more than purely sexual creatures, sure, but when considering them as a long term mate their sexual habits need to be weighed in as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:51 AM
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Should definitely be fun but not Just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:21 PM
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Dude this obviously doesn't apply to modern times as we have readily available contraception and access to abortions but the underlying wiring of the brain still exists, it just doesn't change in a century.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:54 PM
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I agree deceitfulness is very disgusting from either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:53 AM
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Bruh! Why is it so hard for you to understand?? Dna tests wouldn't prove infidelity 100%. This isn't about finding cheating spouses. It is about protecting innocent men from paying and raising a child that is not theirs under the assumption the child is theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:46 AM
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It would be the same situation all over again, most women would expect their men to opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:43 AM
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and DNA tests would prove 100% that the mother is not cheating, this isn't about finding unfaithful parteners but about protecting people for having to pay for or raising a child that is not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:33 AM
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It would protect those men, sure they should have the spine to the test themselves but it would also more importantly protect those guys who have no idea that they are being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:17 AM
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most people won't have sex with such person, but this for cases you literally have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:13 AM
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Seriously these people hinder effective dialogue, people on both sides, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:43 AM
0

The woman decides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:41 AM
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Actually, women give sex in a sense that they are more selective in their mate choice as they have to bear the almost all of the burden if pregnancy occurs, so they try to pick the best mate possible for sex to make their investment worthwhile, on the other hand men pay a very small price if they have random sex as they are only contributing and that is practically infinite so they just fuck anyone they can and are very less selective. Obviously this an consensual act but practically speaking wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:40 AM
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Actually, I just want women to be consistent with their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:41 AM
1

Yea and that's very deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:38 AM
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This is what turns me off about women who treat sex like just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:18 AM
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Kinda like in old tribal days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:01 AM
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As in, if a women Rapes a man, it wouldn't be considered rape in the eyes of the law.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/21 07:06 PM
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Good for you bro, have fun.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 08:33 PM
1

Well, I don't have a gf atm so I'll have to quit this all together.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 08:31 PM
1

Thanks bro.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 08:30 PM
2

What's an IUD?
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 06:41 AM
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Holy shit bro, didn't expect it to this serious. I love going down on women, it feels great but gonna have to stop doing it with random women.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 03:27 AM
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