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In my experience girls that are very attractive (hb8+) are actually very nice to me when I am direct and compliment them (they reject me nicely). Don't ever compliment a beautiful women on her appearance. She hears it many times a day. You immediately out yourself as a desperate loser when you do this.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:31 AM
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Its just a shit test man. Pay attention to their actions. Ignore what they say. Their words are just said to weed out the desperate thirsty losers.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:16 PM
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If you are getting in shit for talking to other girls at a club, I don't think you are as in control of this LTR as you think. It sounds like you are in her frame. I'd suggest a good hard look at yourself to see what you are doing wrong.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:43 AM
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Assuming these guys are actually friends, its just friendly banter. Make fun of em back. Use it as an opportunity to practice your wit. Don't take it too seriously.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:35 AM
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Why in the fuck would you ltr a party girl. They are literally the worst for an ltr.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 12:31 AM
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You are not entitled to sex just cause you are "dating" her. This is a very BP mindset. You have to earn her attraction to you through your smv, game and frame. There is a very good reason why most say LTRs are TRP on hard mode. You fucked up and lost her attraction. Oh, and if you ever get denied for sex again, don't be a pouty bitch about it. That just instantly kills any attraction remaining. Just get up and go home (or kick her out if shes at your place). Don't give her any comfort (your tim…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:35 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to wite this out. It is spot on.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:54 PM
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Im not saying just spin plates. Do whatever you want. Its just a good idea to understand why the theory behind "spinning plates" makes you more attractive.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:23 PM
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Whatever she'll let you do. Its your job to push her boundries. Start small and escalate. She'll stop you when shes uncomfortable. I know you are young, but really?? You gave your commitment without even kissing her?? Damn man, have some respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:37 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/ Read this. All. 6. Of. Them. Take it to heart. Personally, I think you are jumping the gun. You've barely gone on a date with this girl and you want to jump into an LTR with her???? I bet you barely know anything about her. You haven't even fucked her yet. If you continue with this desperate shit, I'll bet you'll get a ljbf rejection before you can ask if she'll be your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:14 PM
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Because it will make you look insecure and like you care too much about your height. This is opposite of being aloof and not giving a fuck. Which is unattractive to women. Wearing shoes like that would be the same thing as a balding guy wearing an overly obvious toupee. Sure you can do whatever the fuck you want, but it will be painfully obvious to women (who can easily pick up on the smallest social cues) that you are trying to overcompensate for something that bothers you. If some girl bugs yo…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:52 PM
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I think there might be a lot of red flags you are missing here besides n-count. Her treating you like a "god" all the time might be blinding your vision of her. If she has a therapist that she sees regularily and is going into an almost breakdown over the treat of losing you is not a good sign. She likely has some sort of depression / major personality disorder. Watch the fuck out man, this is the last kind of woman you want to ltr. Just ask yourself what THIS girl can provide that others can't.…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:41 PM
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The point of improvement is for yourself. Don't do it for others, do it for you. As for breaking into new social circles, its difficult. You have to get others to like you. I'm going to recommend you read a couple books that really helped me. How to win friends and influence people by dale carnegie. 48 laws of power by robert greene. This isn't meant to be an insult - but just think - if you consistently fail to make new friends, the issue is you and your attitude. Read those books. They will he…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:45 PM
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I think you did good. You polarized early and didn't waste time or money one someone who didn't seem overly into you. Work on your smv and game and things will come around. Rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:02 AM
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The relationship is already over. You gain nothing by seeing her. If you see her, the only thing that will happen is that you will validate her by appearing needy / looking for closure. Don't be that desperate loser. Have some respect for yourself and go talk to other women.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:33 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to others. In fact, stop caring about other people. Don't waste your time thinking about them. It doesn't fucking matter. Focus only on improving yourself. Set goals and follow them. Compare yourself to how you were a few months ago and make sure you've improved. You are unhappy because you are constantly comparing yourself to other people.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 03:28 PM
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Im going to be blunt with you cause I think you need it. Im guessing you are pretty young. Firstly, there is no such thing as a unicorn. Repeat it out loud - there is no such thing as a unicorn. Thats why its called a unicorn. Its a fucking mythical creature that doesn't actually exist. Sure, some women have better qualities than others. The way I look at girls for ltr potential is by way of red flags / green flags. Search it, theres plenty of posts on it. The sooner you get this notion of the "…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:04 PM
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Ditch that friend. Anyone who steals a girl like that is not a friend. Secondly, if you are consistently turning IOIs and positive signals from women into getting called creepy after approaching YOU need to take a long hard look at YOURSELF. If this consistently happens, you are the issue my friend. This is not meant to be an insult, but a way to improve yourself. My guess is that you are probably coming across as desperate and overly sexual too early. I think you just need to work on your game …
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:34 PM
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Just keep escalating and pushing her boundaries. But you need to carefully pay attention to make sure you aren't pushing too far / making her do something she doesn't want to. If shes hung up about penetration, try different shit like fingering her while getting an hj, oral, etc. Eventually you should get through. But don't act butthurt if she shuts you down. Just try something different. Put her hand on your dick. Say "if you say stop ill stop". Ultimately, you need to be willing to leave her. …
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:23 PM
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This is a comfort test. If she is treating you well and giving you what you want (sex) reward her with some comfort! Applicaple reading material: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/18/value-shit-tests-vs-comfort-shit-tests/
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:08 PM
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Wtf is a wheedle??? In all seriousness though, never ask a woman for intimacy, especially a kiss. Women like bold confident men. You should be working your way up with kino, starting small with like touching her arm / hand or playfully punching / pushing her while joking around. Watch her reactions to it and escalate accordingly. The idea behind kino is that you get her used to your touch, that it is a normal thing. It shows her that you are interested without having to awkwardly ask for a hug a…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 11:02 PM
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Asking for a selfie of a girl you barely know outside of work and didn't have a real physical connection with is fucking wierd. Don't do that shit. Actions speak louder than words. If you trade numbers with a girl and shes actually into you, you will know. Her not texting you back / turning down dates without counter offers is bad. She is NOT attracted to you. When asking a girl out, never say "sometime". Be specific - ideally you should have talked to her a bit and identified a mutual interest.…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:39 PM
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For the same reason that women are turned off if you ask to kiss them. They are attracted to dominate men who are able to read their subtle social cues and body language showing that they are attracted to you. When in doubt its always better to side on boldness or action. If she is uninterested or uncomfortable with what you are doing it will be evident in her actions / beahviour / body language. Theres no quicker way to kill a sure thing than to ask if its ok to escalate. Grab her hand and pull…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:27 PM
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Read the book of pook. It has answers for the questions you ask, plus answers for questions you probably didn't know you had. https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:00 PM
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Never believe what a woman tells you her n-count is. The "rule of 3" exists for a reason. To answer your question, just don't give a fuck! You can't control what she does when she isn't with you. Just keep her attraction for you high, fuck her good and implement some dread game. Keep her thinking about you and not other guys! A good looking girl will get approached / hit on a lot. If you start getting butthurt / jealous about this it will show subconsciously in your body language and behaviour. …
/r/askTRP09/01/16 09:47 PM
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Rejection is better than regret. If in doubt always escalate or approach. She can always say no, then you don't spend the rest of your life regretting that missed moment. But her signals sound pretty clear to me. Go for it man!!!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 09:36 PM
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I think you missed the entire point of archwinger's post. The fact that you are getting this upset over this situation leads me to believe that you didn't properly vet her and/or dont't have much experience dating/plating a lot of women. Never blindly give out trust to someone unless you are 100% sure they are worthy of it.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 09:32 PM
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Im really confused about your phrasing of "I'm getting her the surgery". Did she ask or did you offer? How did this come about. I think from the way you are phrasing this post that you have feelings for her / are catching oneitis. Just ask yourself what you really gain from buying her tits/marrying her. If you just consider her a plate, you are already getting what you want from her (sex). There is absolutely no point in investing further. You also say you can walk away at any time BUT you are w…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:46 PM
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Just don't. Actions speak louder than words. If she hasn't texted you for a week, you are very low on her list of priorities. Soft (or hard) next her and move on. Theres plenty of other girls out there!
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:00 PM
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Having an ltr as a goal mentality is a very bad idea for many many reasons. I would suggest reading therationalmale's post on plate theory (all of them) so you can make an educated decision on what you want to do. http://therationalmale.com/category/plate-theory/ IMO, a better way to look at it is to rule out girls from LTRs via way of red and green flags. I believe theres a post on the trp sidebar about it, or you can find it easily by doing a search.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:57 PM
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Don't say shit, just do it.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:42 PM
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Just cut contact and move on. You gain absolutely nothing from validating her. Its actually hurting you mentally. She is not attracted to you in the way you like. Cut contact and remain aloof if you see her in public. Don't act butthurt if you see her, but get her the fuck out of your life.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:40 PM
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Walks / hikes are great IMO. Depending on how comfortable she is with you, you can go fo hand holding, which is huge IMO - clearly shows intent. If not that comfortable, you can always touch her on the arm / playfully punch her / push her while joking around. Arm around shoulders. Escalate from there. Find somewhere to sit and chat and further escalate. Just watch her body language and see how she responds. Don't forget to push / pull. Being overly touchy can come across as desperate. Be able to…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:37 PM
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Just talk to her. She obviously feels at least a little comfortable with you if she asked you to spot her / do a form check. Just start a conversation, make her feel more comfortable around you, joke around, light kino if possible then ask her if she wants to go for a drink / whatever after the workout. Don't cold approach in the gym to women who obviously aren't interested. Thats super douchy.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:30 PM
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This. Actions speak louder than words. If a girl wants to fuck you, she will find a way.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:25 PM
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Trickle truthing is really bad. Could be the sign of a personality disorder. It seems like to me shes presenting an overly rosy picture of herself by doing all this shit for her. I'd be careful and look for other red flags.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:18 PM
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Yes you can. Kick her out. What happens to her is not your fucking problem. Have some god damn respect for yourself. Stop caring about a piece of shit who doesnt care about you.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:14 PM
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She broke up with you. Shes refusing to contact you. Actions speak louder than words. She is not and never will be attracted to you again. Pursuing this further will only fuck wifh your head. Worse, it will make you look like a desperate loser to your social circle. Delete her from your life and go fuck another girl.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:10 PM
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Excellent advice. Anyone who says machiavelli stuff is bullshit really needs to read 48 laws of power.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:26 PM
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I love your response. Tbh, it seems like a nuclear shit test by OP's LTR. If that shit was pulled on me, I'd be looking for an exit strategy. Seems like a huge sign of disrespect towards him.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 03:54 PM
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Thats not suprising. Usually these bloggers love the put their photo up. Especially writing for a fashion mag. Not seeing her photo on the blog was a dead giveaway.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 03:25 PM
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Blackpeopletwitter has some gold in it too.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 05:07 AM
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http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:34 PM
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Read Rollo's post on dread. Dread needs to be subtle or it will blow up in your face.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 03:34 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to write this. Really well said.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:53 PM
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Its easy. Deny her the attention she wants and / or leave. Ask yourself (and answer this honestly) what does this girl have that another couldn't give you. I would guess probably nothing. The only reasonable thing to do here is next her.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:46 PM
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Yeah it is pretty laughable. An attractive woman would never have to approach guys drinking alone at a bar.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:24 PM
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Work out and hard. Be super anal retentive about your diet. Get your body to a point that you are confident. You are still super young so you are in a great spot.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:52 PM
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I'm also not entirely convinced that OPs ex was BPD based on what he said. All women are manipulative and try to paint a rosy picture of themselves. BPD is not just depression and manipulation. BPD is insane intense mood swings at the drop of a hat. A deep seated underlying anger just underneath the surface. Crazy impulsive behaviour. Constant self harm/ suicidal thoughts or threats. Intense abandonment fears. Unstable/ intense relationships. Seriously, if you meet a BPD girl, just run. And don'…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:13 PM
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Haha yeah. My ex wife had bpd. That was 8 years of hell. I just laugh at shit tests now.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:54 PM
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Thank you. This was incredibly well written. A lot of it rang true to me, especially the part about being an "outgoing introvert". I was curious if you have any suggestions on resources for improving game. This is one area I feel I am lacking.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 12:52 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ Read this. It is the rationale behind this post. It is also vitally important to understand if you wish to be successful in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:12 AM
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A few suggestions: You can't change your height or dick size. Just own it. Any insecurities about these things are pointless and will hinder your success. If a girl doesn't like your height go find one who doesn't care. There are tonnes of girls out there. With the girl you are concerned about, you likely blew your chance already. Cut your losses and move on. She came up to your room with you after a party. Thats pretty much an invititation to make a move on her. You failed to escalate and chatt…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:06 AM
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So true. Theres also the fact that there is nothing more unattractive to women than a man who has no clue what to do with them.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:53 PM
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God damn man, have some self respect and at least some sort of standards. Fuck. Stop validating the fat feminists.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:47 PM
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Haha like some shit out of alien.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 02:46 PM
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Its simple, next her. Don't say why, just move on to a girl who respects you.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 02:11 PM
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Clearly you didn't read his post. He clearly states he went from a 3 to a 10.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:59 PM
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Better means whatever you want it to.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:44 PM
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But if you wear the casio you are lying about your wealth you lying bastard!! /s The hamster demands full upfront disclosure about all monetary matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 09:53 PM
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This is a very good point. Most attractive women I know are super boring. They don't do too much with their lives besides watch netflix / tv and go out to eat / the bar.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:20 PM
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And he is a cuck'd beta in the literal sense.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:56 AM
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Only problem I see with this is that most women that I know who are a few lbs overweight are that way because of their lifestyle. They are lazy and LOVE food. Sure, they go to the gym and half ass it. You may be able to get one of these girls to lose a few pounds in the short term, but long term, they will gain it back because they don't like being active.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 08:06 PM
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You also have to consider the fact that females tend to underestimate their numbers, even when posting anonymously.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:56 PM
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I think you greatly underestimate the amount of attention and validation really attractive women receive.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:53 PM
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Find a bodyweight program. It doesn't cost anything to do pushups.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:32 PM
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Kino and being called an asshole are a good thing. Ask her out and see where it goes. Sounds like your doing something right.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:36 AM
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The only person who is going to look out for you is you. You need to learn to like yourself. I know its a lot easier said than done. But if you hate yourself, how can you expect others to like you. What others see of you is based on how you present yourself. What you look like and what you act like. They know nothing of your past, how you were raised or what you've been through. All others see is what you see when you look in a mirror. This is why lifting is so important in TRP. It has so many b…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:33 AM
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You need to go back to reading all the shit on the TRP sidebar. You cant even hold frame in a reply to your post on an internet forum, from a guy who is trying to HELP you. You are completely missing the point of TRP. I can tell this completely from your response above. IMO you are her betabux and she is looking to get something from you. What that is, I'm sure you'll find out sometime soon. Also, with regards to your comment about hoping she'll notice how much time you put in with her / her kid…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:01 AM
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You are just making excuses. You NEED to lift. If you are under weight, a proper diet to gain lean muscle isn't that hard. Just focus on meeting calorie and protein targets. Eat whole foods, avoid processed foods.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 02:47 AM
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Fuck the haters. Don't cater to the whiny bitches. I was having a lazy morning and was considering hitting the snooze button again and skipping the gym. But then I said fuck it, I need to pray to the iron gods to get what I want. I rolled my lazy ass out of bed and headed to the gym. Thanks for making a positive impact in my life.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:43 AM
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Excellent advice. Rollo is very good with words. Much better than how most of us could explain it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:36 PM
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Yeah I second that. It is definately not normal.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:20 PM
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Whoever wrote this is not a man.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:09 PM
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Probably referring to abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:11 PM
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I think it was the OP or one of the other commenters actually admitted this. The way she phrased it was something like I want to still feel desired and have tingles while my looks last.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:54 AM
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Give him The Rational Male by Rollo Tomasi. Its kind of a more discrete way of introducing guys to TRP. Its very well written and introduces all of the necessary concepts.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:30 AM
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This so many times. Life is too short to settle for a complete bitch. Divorce is painful, but not as bad as spending the REST of your life being absolutely miserable.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:18 PM
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Clearly you haven't read any of the stuff on the sidebar. You should go do that, then you will see the flaws in your line of thought.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:05 PM
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Yeah her reaction was the fucked up part. A non-cheating woman would have been like "I'm making a sexy video for you baby, come join me", not an OMG freakout thats almost like she got caught with a strange dick inside her.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:28 PM
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It depends what you look like / your SMV. With high enough SMV and the rjght women / circumstances it could happen.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:16 PM
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No, it just means valuing yourself more than any women. You should be the prize to be sought after. She should be chasing after you, not you after her. The second you value her over yourself, you have lost the Game.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:42 PM
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Yeah that broads point of view is fucked. All this guy has to do is start lifting, dress better, improve his state of mind and he will be better than 99% of other guys his age.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:44 AM
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Thank you Rollo. I read the best-ofs for years 1-3 in a few days and it gave me a much needed insight into my past life, past relationships and where I want to head in the future.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:56 AM
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You can easily develop it. It just takes hard work. Hit the gym and improve yourself and your frame of mind. Honestly, the biggest thing that is probably holding you back from picking up girls is how YOU think of YOURSELF. I would suggest that you start be reading some of the material on the sidebar. It is quite useful.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:41 AM
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Have you read Mystery Method? I'm not suggesting that you follow it to a T, but the underlying concepts and theories are gold. Plus it is extremely well written. I would highly recommend reading it. In it, Mystery refers to the 7 hour rule. Meaning you have to spend on average 7 hours building attraction and comfort in order to get a woman to sleep with you. Personally, I would say you fucked it up with this girl. Cut your losses and move on. She is not interested in you cause you came across as…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:38 AM
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