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Don’t kid yourself my man. You’re making this entire post about her, nobody is buying that
/r/seduction09/03/21 01:51 PM
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Yeah, then I would have to say that it depends on the person. Personally, I aim to always be honest no matter what. I won't necessarily put all of my feelings out there, but I will never pretend to act a certain way just to keep the attraction. I've learned this from the book you mentioned... Models. Best seduction book out there in my opinion.
/r/seduction17/12/20 12:35 AM
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It’s okay to be vulnerable, but you can’t deal all your cards at once... so to speak. It will scare someone off if you invest too much right away. Think about a clingy girl who wants to text you all day even though you just met
/r/seduction16/12/20 11:53 PM
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Don't wack it for two weeks and you'll NEED to talk to women.
/r/seduction24/11/20 06:28 PM
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Yup! Flaking means when they are refusing to meet with you for any reason.
/r/seduction03/11/20 01:58 PM
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Don’t read too much into it. If she says she’s interested, assume she’s interested. If she’s short with texts, assume she is shy or doesn’t have great conversations skills. This is most women anyways - they want you to lead the conversation. Only assume she is not interested if she specifically tells you NO or she flakes on you multiple times.
/r/seduction03/11/20 01:39 PM
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Bro if all you want is sex then you shouldn’t be on this sub. I’m just trying to help but I can’t if you don’t want to change
/r/seduction29/10/20 11:07 PM
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You’re not wired the wrong way man, you’ve just got to grow up. Yeah every guy is just after sex when they’re young. You’ve got to learn more about what is REALLY important. Yes sex/porn is fun. But it’s not everything. Having a valuable relationship requires that you appreciate more about a person than just their body.
/r/seduction29/10/20 08:39 PM
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You’re young man. There doesn’t have to be so much pressure for sex. Stop sleeping with hookers and stop going to sex parties. Just be your genuine self so you attract the right women.
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:52 PM
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Not really. Overall, women are far less likely to make a move than a man is.
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:20 PM
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Damn man, well if that isn't proof enough that the mentioned advice sucks, then I don't know what is!
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:08 PM
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It's a good point. It depends on the man. A lot of men these days don't even want kids. However, using myself as an example, I broke up with my last girlfriend because I could not perceive her as being a good mother.
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:09 PM
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She said Sunday sounds best right!? So just be honest! If Sunday works for you then set up a date and time and go for it! But wait for her to reply of course!
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:44 AM
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Be honest. I think it’s the only option here
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:35 AM
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sounds like good signs to me!
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:31 AM
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Men and women are attracted to each other differently. Men are extremely motivated by physical attraction, so you'll have hordes of dudes all targeting the hottest girls. Womens' attraction to men is different. Obviously physical attraction is important, but there are several other things such as social status, personality, maturity, etc. that are far more important. Those things that women look for are not instantly perceivable the same way that looks are.
/r/seduction14/10/20 07:01 PM
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I mean yeah I'm not saying you HAVE to put up with anything. But I wouldn't immediately assume her coldness means you have no chance. Women take time to open up.
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:58 PM
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Men will naturally be more invested than a woman in the initial stages. In a sense, you do have something to prove because women have tons of other dudes hitting them up. ...Why should they talk to you - they have tons of other suitors... In my opinion, it's okay to put up with the coldness at the beginning. If you manage to prove yourself over time, they'll open up.
/r/seduction14/10/20 03:45 PM
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So true bro
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:45 PM
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Try to have a positive mindset bro. Men and women are attracted to each other in different ways. Men are more attracted to looks (obviously personality as well), but women are more attracted to confidence. If you can hold yourself well and prove to be an honest person inside and out, you will be successful with women.
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:59 PM
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No it doesn’t. That’s ridiculous
/r/seduction10/10/20 10:36 PM
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I like it. Transparency and honesty are very important. Being honest with you and the other person is a real test of confidence.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:58 PM
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I got you man. My point is, you don't have to be afraid of being honest. Dating women does not have to be a game.. although most guys think of it like that. Really, dating is about being honest with yourself and other people. If you like the girl, be honest and let her know. If you feel like she is acting weird or giving you mixed signals, let her know. Don't be a dick about it, but still stand up for yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:00 AM
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Just be honest. "Honestly, you've flaked on me a few times and I am getting mixed signals here. We don't have to go on a date if you don't want."
/r/seduction07/09/20 10:01 PM
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100% agree. Honesty inwards and outwards is always the key.
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:29 PM
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While I do agree with you, I don't think all women understand that. Plus it's much more confrontational for them to shoot someone down straight up. It's easier for men because men are far less agreeable than women are overall.
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:04 PM
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I agree. I mean as long as you have a life around you and things to do, then there is no harm in pursuing a girl. Emphasis on pursuing a girl though, because you have to know that when they aren't interested, you shouldn't waste your time chasing.
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:24 AM
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Just be honest with her. I'd really just ask her why she's reaching out. There is no "playing your cards right" in this situation. Either she wants to reconnect or she doesn't, but since it's been such a long time there is no harm in asking.
/r/seduction24/07/20 11:22 AM
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"Decided to hook up" ... did you guys already hook up? But yeah if she hasn't responded, then the only thing you can do is move on. Maybe you can text her one more time a week later, but that's pretty much it. Don't take it harshly.. women on dating apps are very hesitant to meet up with strangers and I don't blame them. I've been rejected a million times. You live and you learn.
/r/seduction09/07/20 04:42 PM
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On Tinder, I made the conscious decision to put in effort. It’s easy to write off dating apps as something ‘lame’ or ‘not serious’ but you can achieve great results if you try. I worked on putting up great pictures of myself. When a girl did not respond to my messages, I did not delete the app and stop trying because Tinder is dumb. I just kept shooting my shot and met an amazing girl through it.
/r/seduction02/05/20 06:53 PM
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Just be friendly with them. If there is one that you particularly like, then get to know her and gain the courage to make a move. Good luck!
/r/seduction27/08/19 06:28 PM
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I think you should just be honest. Ask her why she goes cold on you. Let her know that you enjoy talking to her, but just want her to be honest with her intentions too.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:30 PM
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That's interesting, but you can make it work! You should bring up the suggestion of grabbing food beforehand, and then proceed to build the furniture.
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:09 PM
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Agree. Keep it lighthearted though and remember that she doesn't owe you anything if she has moved on since.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:05 PM
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That's a good analysis. It's good that OP is looking for advice - just don't take things to heart my dawg :). We all get flaked on by women. It's normal, and not a big deal.
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:54 PM
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I'm not saying this in a mean way, but you are coming off as trying too hard and a little rude. The way you are texting her is showing that you are taking it harshly that she can't make plans with you. You should take it more lightheartedly in the future, and don't take anything too personally. It's hard to interpret what the other person is thinking/feeling through text, but she may have wanted to continue seeing you until you became rude. After the rudeness, I don't think she would want to con…
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:07 PM
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Idk man but if you overthink it, you'll screw yourself over. Shouldn't really focus on it cause it doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:46 PM
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prob her ex. She's not worth thinking about whether it was her or the ex boyfriend, you were being messed with
/r/seduction09/08/19 09:01 PM
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Maybe he's just got to start chilling with his boys more!
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:06 PM
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If one rejects you, understand that she wasn't the right one for you, and she did you a favor by not wasting your time. That's some good shit right there.
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:05 PM
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Ah that makes sense.
/r/seduction05/08/19 07:50 PM
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Okay I have to say this, and I don't mean to be critical because I'm sure you're a nice person. But if you're already assuming they want to hook up with you and you make that clear by stating it, it comes off as bitchy. I doubt that guy wanted to be around you anymore unless he actually did want to hook up with you.
/r/seduction05/08/19 07:33 PM
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