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Sorry, I think it is a personal question, which is banned from the subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 03:13 PM
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I think he means that as your father has read the articles he has also started the process of swallowing The Red Pill. Anger is the first phase. Later he will thank you for showing this ultimate wisdom to him!
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 03:09 PM
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My diagnose on Chad is that he is a natural with limits. With below 8 woman he has the mojo but with the very hot 8-9-10s he gets nervous. He could fuck her if he acted as with a 6 but it is just not natural for him to treat a 6 similarly. It happened to me when I was young several times. There were girls who got into me but not the ones that I really wanted. The funny thing was that there were some very hot of them. As soon as I started to "fall in love" with her things went off-rail. That's ho…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 11:25 PM
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YOU have cheated NOT YOUR WIFE. I dont see why it means end of marriage? In marriage the woman must be faithful and the man must care for his family. You have acted blue pill (stay at home to make her comfort is absolutelly blue pill beta) and you are in trouble. It cant get worse. So at least try to use The Red Pill! Read the 16 commandments of poon and act wisely! Start with IDGAF and abundance mentality and leave her frame ASAP Maybe she could live with being cheated but not with such a miser…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 11:09 PM
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There are people out there who actually care for their friends. If I see my friend guiding his life towards misery then it is my duty to try to help him. I agree that it is very hard to do it effectively and not making a clown from yourself if you talk about it public but that's the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:18 PM
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Maybe if he accepts his wife cheating he can grow old with her. I mean with her fucking tons of dudes in the room next to him. I was a totally BP guy before. If I wasn't lucky to find the truth maybe I would still be one. So I can be emphatic with these guys. It is almost physically aching when I try to imagine myself in his role. And the worst part is not that she has robbed his life but that he is still self humiliating himself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 10:34 PM
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The diet you recommend will lover your T level and your mood. Ideal for a christian monk who wants to pray to god all day. Real men eat grass fed beef and wild fish. Have you seen the correlation that vegetarian women are bitching all the time? (Certainly no need to prove it because it is an axiom in the manosphere.) This is because the lack of Cholesterol makes them mad. Lack of cholesterol also makes men mad. If you want to be healthy eat and live like a hunter gatherer. Avoid all the modern s…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 10:14 PM
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No. This is the typical american movie logic: you can be everything despite all the disadvantages you have. No, you can't. Believing that you can achieve anything if you work hard enough is just as harmful as believing that you are not capable of anything. Just on the other end of the spectrum. For example working out when injured (not avoiding the injured body part) or when having an illness is plainly stupid. You have to accept the qualities you have and optimize your life around them. It is n…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:25 PM
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Textbook example how it happens to Blue Pill man. This is how it happened to me too. I am very happy that it was many years ago and I am over my past self now. Lucky for you to find The Red Pill so fast.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 12:55 AM
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"You can always be the person you want to be, but it demands dedication over a long time." - In my opinion it is pop culture bullshit. Changing your basic features is the hardest thing in life. You may change one or two but you can not change everything that you are. I agree you should work on yourself constantly but chasing an ideal self that you are not (and will never be) can ruin your life. Life is what you are living now and not what you think you should live. Accept your weaknesses and try…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:09 AM
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I haven't read this exact book. If it means that we parent the child by leading and without punisment or reward then this is what I do. I only have a 2 year old now so I don't have long term experience yet. Up to now it works fine and I believe in that it will work for the whole life :-). It is logical from the evolution based viewpoint that the children try to bond to the parents and follow them. Opressing the authority of the parents comes from the already broken connection.
/r/RedPillParenting10/05/16 02:01 PM
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I think you miss one thing: when you behave like someone else would it can be weird on the first occasions. But the more you do it the more you internalize the behaviour and it becomes to be your self. You can change how you behave by practicing it. And at the end you also change how you think about it. If you want to change yourself you have to do things so that you feel not yourself. Because if you feel yourself in your role then you are not changing. So maybe you are trying to rationalize tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 11:14 PM
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I like the expression "beta carrot". Whenever I take my beta-carotene supplement I think I should take real alfa-carotene instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/16 10:59 PM
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This. To the poster: And she is going out to spend the child support. Congratulations :-(. That woman is toxic. You must leave as soon as possible! You can thank later.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/16 03:01 PM
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I would also be proud on him but still you should teach him the 38th Law of Power: Think as you like but behave like others. He is soon becoming an adult. He may get into serious trouble without it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:27 PM
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There is a state called overtraining. You may have arrived there with lifting 4 times a week and maintaining 8% body fat (which is lower than natural and may cause health issues on the long run AFAIK). Don't stop lifting but consider resting more. Also read "Autopilot - the art and science of doing nothing" for some fun :-).
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:07 PM
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You can not turn the tide in one month. Becoming an alpha in the relationship is a long process. It is estimated to be 1 month for each year in betadom. So it is at least 6 months for you even if you don't do such mistakes! Lift! Socialize! Lift! Feel good! Kill the beta! Lift!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 08:12 PM
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If you ask for excuse because you are reader of a web page you disqualify yourself. Tell her that you don't accept the way she behaves. Nothing else. Then go offline for her and do something good for yourself. Go to massage, meet with friends, fuck some bitches, lift. At the end there are two options: she will make up her mind and come back apologizing to you. Then you can decide if she is worth or not (I would bet on not). she does not come back to apologize: congratulations: you have dodged a …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/16 08:02 PM
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I also hate tattoos as hell. If a girl has one that is a red flag for me. But it is not just me: every survey shows that a tattoo severly lowers the SMV of a woman. Why the hell do they do that? Because it gives them attention. They do it to feed their attention seeking disorder. They are so thirsty for attention that they trade their SMV for a minute of fame.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 02:23 PM
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Game theory (the mathematical one: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Game_theory ) can be applied to life too. The one with the greater stack (more money at hand) is likely to win the poker party (life). It is because with enough money you have time and courage to wait for the best option. It is similar to abundance mentality with woman. All of these theories have the same roots. In my opinion this is why it is important to give your children a big help when they start their lives. My father has giv…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 01:52 PM
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I would recommend two: Gamification: let it be a game to achieve goals! Start with short time frames. One day to spend nothing outside. One week to stay within the budget. Use a tape measure to represent your debt and cut a piece when it becomes less. Count the days you could live without any income. Change of life style: it is not just about spending less. You have to find ways to achieve rewarding feelings other than spending. The best is to start cooking yourselves. It is pretty easy to cook …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:09 PM
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It is a very complex topic about children psychology. I think you are not aware of the current scientific results about evolution based parenting. Children who are "let cry it out" feel themselves as the baby who is left in the jungle alone under a bush. She will cry for her parents until she finds that it is useless and stops crying. When she stops crying it is not because she is calmed. It is because being silent is the survival strategy of an alone child under a bush in the jungle. She hopes …
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 02:00 PM
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Also, what are you planning to do about school later on, and are you teaching her anything now? I'd be really interested to hear. I have almost missed this question. I think that the regular school can cause many problems to the children. It can break their natural interest to learn everything. Children learn most by their own interest and not on the schedule of the school. But in case the parents protect the child from these bad effects then it can be neutralized and an ordinary school can be a…
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 01:42 PM
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We (Hungarians) have a paleo diet prophet who is a psychlogist by his profession. He is called Szendi Gábor. He has written several books about evolutionary psychology besides the paleo diet. His books was the first place where I read about red pill truths like hipergamy and other dark mating strategies of women. I think he is a genius I really owe him much. He is translating articles to Hungarian every month he finds interesting and I have read about the concept of evolutionary parenting there.…
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 01:35 PM
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Thanks. I was a bit nervous about sharing such details as I find this thing unusual here on TRP. I am very lucky with my profession. I have a business that makes me enough money so that my wife can be a stay-at-home mother. I work less than the "normal" 40 hours so I can also spend enough time with my daughter. I am pretty good in informatics so I think even in case my business goes down I could maintain this lifestyle at an ordinary job. My wife has been working until she got pregnant but I hop…
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 12:51 PM
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I agree. Using rewards to achieve desired behaviour is not really efficient on the long run.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 03:51 AM
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I am breathless. Are people really so retarded that they have to make fuss about a fucking raindeer? Yes he has failed to keep his promise. But his kids are not some retards who would not understand: "I wanted to buy some fucking raindeer but I was late to the shop. Sorry kids. You will get something else after the holidays. Now lets play together until dinner." Shit happens. Children have to understand it. Wife has to understand it too. You must have a right to fail. You are not god yourself. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 03:45 AM
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There are many competing theories about the origins of the Magyars. I don't really know which is true but the one that connects us to the Iranian is pretty cool. The Scythian people were living in this area and had similar culture so it is not totally impossible. Actually what I wrote was a slight referral to the line: "Felgerjedt szittya vérem" - which is a line from a funny hungarian poem. Some Hungarians may have recognised it. It was partly a joke. I also have referred to our half-nomad ance…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 02:56 AM
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Maybe it is because I was born in Eastern Europe in the communist era but I don't really understand why a 4 year old child should care about little dents on a bike. You should not make them little consumer freaks too early. As long it works and is safe it is a great gift. Keep an eye on maintaining it though! I see too many children bicycles that have failing brakes and such.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 02:43 AM
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The captain does the job of the captain. Buying a bike can be done by the first officer too. But she has to align with the rules set by the captain. What does the captain do when the first officer does not do the job right? He does it instead of her? Then he will have to do it the next time too and then forever. No. He corrects the problem and makes the first officer to finish the job properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 02:37 AM
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I have never thought that my wife should take my name. She has to respect me. She has to accept my decisions about our life. She has to prepare food for us. She has to keep our home in order. She must not spend too much money. She has to fuck with me. She must not fuck with anyone else. She has to give life to our children. We have to grow them up to be strong people similar to us. I don't give a fuck about anytinhg else. I don't give a fuck about her name. Should I?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 02:26 AM
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I am the one here who is totally against TV. TV kills sex. Just kill the TV isntead. Get control over that box of shit and turn it off. If you have the balls and kill the TV you will show your value. Certailny it is not the only thing you have to do but a strategy that supplements your other efforts to man up.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 02:21 AM
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From time to time we are talking about divorce in general with friends. In these occasions I always say: "No problem I will have a younger woman at last." Use it for even more dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 02:04 AM
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Great that you could hold your frame. If you play your cards well you can use these events to further strengthen your frame. You have to be in a shitty situation to show how strong your frame is. After becoming red pill my wife tried to be angry on me once. I told her I don't care what she is angry about but I don't allow her to talk to me like that. I did not reply on any argument she tried to initiate except that. I was very afraid what will happen but I have kept the frame. The next day she a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 01:57 AM
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I have established the habit to not give any gift to anyone ever. Not to my mom not to my wife. They have all accepted that and I am keeping my frame. It is cool! There is no pressure on me before the holidays! I don't know what will happen when my daughter becomes older. Now she is 16 months old so she does not give a fuck about gifts yet. Maybe I will change my habit for her. Maybe not.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 01:32 AM
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I disagree with that. Children's behaviour becomes habit by practice. If you help him to control his feelings - by cuddling a little when he cries - he will slowly learn how to do it himself. If you don't help him to control the feelings he may not learn it easily. Maybe crying will become a habit. Mankind is evolved (God has made us) so that crying babies have the most annoying voice on Earth. It would not be logical to ignore that. If we were to ignore that then it would not be such an annoyin…
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 01:19 AM
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You have to have a good relationship with your child to avoid that. You have to believe that he does not do dangerous things. And he has to be confident enough so that he does not need you to constantly watch what he does. It might sound controversial but the more attention a child gets as an infant and little child the less he will require later.
/r/RedPillParenting21/12/15 01:12 AM
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As someone who has achieved weight loss and has an own business I think it is a great plan. But you could consider this in case not everything works like planned: Changing habits takes more time than a month. 1 month is a good start but not enough to really change yourself. It is much easier to create a business with a partner than to do it alone. Especially with someone who has different strengths than you. I don't know many people who works out every day. For most people it causes overtraining…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 11:56 PM
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"It can be difficult enough keeping an amused, calm and understanding frame when throwing away junk that my girlfriend smuggled into the house :)" One thought about this: If you want to parent children in a decent way then first you have to set up the rules in your home before the child comes. It is about keeping your frame. You have to vision the way you live with the child and practice it before you decide to make a child. For example it is very beneficial to have hobbies that you can pursue w…
/r/RedPillParenting20/12/15 08:32 PM
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We are doing very extreme parenting compared to what is though to be normal. We are paleo and following the continuum concept from Jean Liedloff: We sleep together with her. We carry her in a sling. We have no baby pram. We never let her be alone. She was only breast fed for half a year then she started to eat exactly what we eat. No baby food. We give her the bones to chew them. Also breast fed at night. She is still breast fed and will be at least until she is 2 yrs old. Maybe later. Paleo foo…
/r/RedPillParenting20/12/15 08:20 PM
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I don't think that she is too young for that. But I would recommend that first you improve your relationship with her. It is quiet risky to tell her such contradictory knowledge bacause she may find you weird and crazy for that. Maybe it will take years to improve it to the point that you become an authorative figure for her. That is the time when you can slowly change her for better. And after introducing the main points so that she understands them you can lead her to further improve herself o…
/r/RedPillParenting20/12/15 07:56 PM
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Or Chad is the one who has a nice loving wife with a ton of well behaving kids and still fucks hot chicks when going out with friends. He works as a consultant 20 hours a week on average and makes more money than you will ever. He does not really need that though because his wife's father pays their home and kids.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 05:14 PM
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It is a lie. Your SMV is measured compared to others. The top women will be compared to the top men. It is not an absolute scale. To be equal with the top woman you have to have the SMV of the top man. Some people have chance to achieve that with self improvement. But definitely not all. It is like saying you can be anyone if you want to be. NO. That is blue pill shit. On the other hand it is true that men can improve their SMV for a later age. And compared to the current feminine men it is rela…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 08:49 PM
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After a long dark period this is the time when we can be proud of being Hungarian again :-). My Scythian blood is boiling!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 11:42 PM
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So you were depressed and took away by a freind to a party and on the first occasion you had a one night stand? You don't have the right to be depressed. You are close to a natual alpha :-). Most guys have to work on themselves for months to achieve that.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:34 PM
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You misinterpret what I wrote. It is not about leaving everything behind. I only argued against TV shows and sports in TV. Ok I also argued against films. That may be too harsh. I admit that there may be some that give you some value. Doing athletics is masculine yes. Watching others doing athletics is not.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:12 PM
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This. What you read fundamentally determines what you will become. You have to read much and read quality content only. It was one of my first red pill enlightenment (before knowing the actual Red Pill) that you have to read quality writings and avoid garbage in order to improve yourself. Then I have found the actual Red Pill using this as a guidance to browse the Web :-).
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:46 PM
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What makes me wonder is why Linus has moved to America? He was already successful by that time so it wasn't like "you have to go to America to do something big". Finland is much more a "safe place". In an article I have read that his daughter is a feminist. What may he think about that issue now?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 11:02 PM
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There are several good points in this. But it is not so black and white. If you hold your frame woman can be helpful allies in business. Just don't let them start using the earnings on "who has bigger car cold-war" with the neighbors. For me my mother helps my business with doing the administration. (It is Europe, not America. Business has a huge amount of mandatory administration here.) I take care of the stuff we sell and people to work fine. And she takes care that all papers are done and all…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 11:25 AM
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Any pussy you have had a chance to fuck but you did not will ghost you until you die. (Maybe even further.) The only thing that helps a little is abundance mentality. There are even younger girls out there. There are other fans of your books out there. Study The Red Pill and you will know what to write into your next books for some gina tingles.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:50 PM
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Exactly that. You are already fucked up if going upstairs to take a sleep is personal a problem for her. You have to fix that problem or next her.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:40 PM
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Sorry to tell you but films, TV and sports are distractions designed for blue pill people. They don't give you any value but takes away two of the most important: the sanity of your mind and your time. Sports have the goal to fulfil your natural instinct of being part of a caring community without really being part of a caring community. Films and TV shows have the goal to indoctrinate whatever the rulers of the world want you to think. Most of this indoctrination works on sub-conscious levels s…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:02 AM
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I don't agree with the parasite part. Woman can do things that men can't do. So they are not parasite but in symbiosis with men. Can you give birth to a child? Can you take care of a child 24/7 (I tell you it is mind blowing, not a task that fits a man. I had to do that when my wife was ill)? Can you please a man (some kind of man yes, but most would bet on a woman :-)? Women have different features and they have a different role in a healthy society. The feminist society is not healthy that's t…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:50 PM
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