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always_an_option/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 09:18 PM
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I am scared shitless indeed and I have no right to be annoyed. On some occasions in our darkest moments I’ve acted annoyed but I have corrected that. The more I read about healing from affairs is that in general it takes a lot of effort and long time to have a chance. One year may just be the first inning so to speak.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 08:00 PM
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I absolutely understand and agree with this. I fucked up and chose to pay attention to someone else however long or momentary, and we keep coming back to the same place of pain on a weekly or semi daily basis. Her point is that besides hurting her with my action I still lag in my effort to help her heal. I get complacent because all is going well but inside she is steaming that I’m not devoting all my living energy to make her feel loved and protected. I try but only to be reminded yet again tha…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 07:55 PM
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I absolutely understand and agree with this. I fucked up and chose to pay attention to someone else however long or momentary, and we keep coming back to the same place of pain on a weekly or semi daily basis. Her point is that besides hurting her with my action I still lag in my effort to help her heal. I get complacent because all is going well but inside she is steaming that I’m not devoting all my living energy to make her feel loved and protected. I try but only to be reminded yet again tha…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 07:55 PM
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This is a fantastic and incredibly well centered response. Thank you as it resonates with me perfectly. I have always struggled to establish my own boundaries and I’ve been a people pleaser all my life. I am currently working on myself and your response helps me a big deal, both as inspiration and as validation that I’m moving in the right direction. Thanks and keep on advancing in life brother.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 05:57 PM
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