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always_sad12/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:32 PM
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Dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:47 PM
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80% if you’re good looking. I’m decent looking and it’s probably 9/10 for me. Average guys it’s probably more like 96/100.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:47 PM
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Ok nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:13 PM
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No it’s not. This is Reddit the majority of men here are not the kind of guys who do well with women. I have 427 days played on RuneScape and have always had a girlfriend or fling and I’m only 5’9 (have been lifting for many years though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:06 PM
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I am very well endowed, how can I use this to my advantage? I thought dick pics were a huge no-no but I’ll do what I can to make up for being 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:14 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 03:39 AM
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Probably the most difficult pill to swallow because it actually makes you have to stand up and work hard instead of laying down and rotting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:52 PM
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From how you’ve described him, unless you have model-tier looks yourself it seems like he is settling for you. I’d be careful, because unless you’re a solid 9 you will have trouble getting someone as good as that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 09:40 PM
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Are you serious? Guy number one was low SMV because he laughed too loud?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 09:36 PM
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Can you describe him? What kind of guy is he, physically and professionally?
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 08:22 PM
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What’s up the dorky posts on these subs lately
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:29 AM
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Yes that is a lot. In her teens, anything over 5 is a lot. In her twenties, anything over 10 is a lot. I’ll explain why but first you need to ask, why does n-count even matter? It doesn’t matter if you’re just going to sleep with her, have a fling with her, maybe lead her on for a while. You don’t even need to know what her n-count is. N-count only matters when you want to enter a committed and “official” relationship with her. This is because relationships take a lot of time and investment and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 05:43 PM
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If she’s a good mom and wife I would happily support her completely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 05:13 PM
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So edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 01:07 AM
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He's an average schmuck working a minimum wage job. She's a hair stylist who used to be a homewrecker and had an abortion. In my opinion, they seem pretty matched.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/18 12:09 AM
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Ok weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 06:43 AM
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Being obsessed is low value. But taking it into account before making her a long-term girlfriend or more isn’t low value, it’s high value because you let yourself have standards. Personally, anything over ten is a bit of a red flag but the right girl can certainly change my mind (she is otherwise caring, loving, and a total slut in bed for me too).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 05:37 AM
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I’ve slept with close to 70 women You post on r/braincels and r/MGTOW. Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:27 PM
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Thanks mom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:15 AM
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I don’t feel I have to do it for an external reason. It’s purely internal. I would like to marry as a young guy to someone younger. It’s just what I have wanted and still want. I won’t force it, by pushing it upon a girl who clearly isn’t ready or right for me. But if I find someone who is a god person, attractive enough, and has a similar outlook, I’m not going to sit around and let my life pass me by. I’m buying a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 12:15 AM
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Being around girls. Being in situations and settings that are conducive to meeting girls. It doesn’t matter if you look great and have good social skills if you are never in the same place as other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:20 PM
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No proximity, no escalation, bad at picking up IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 11:35 AM
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Don’t argue with women about that stuff unless you enjoy drying up pussy like the Sahara desert
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:55 AM
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I’m 22 and male and even though some RP stuff has helped me with relationships and meeting girls, marriage is still the final goal for me despite what is said about it. I would like to get married as soon as I meet someone who is worth marrying. If that’s when I’m 22 I will pull the trigger, if it’s when I’m 30 I will pull it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:40 AM
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For women; if it’s under ten, yeah the past is the past. If it’s twenty though you have to sort of ask what the heck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 07:47 AM
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You said this wasn’t delusional but it is. All women have a 6 ft height requirement and will cheat on you no matter what you do? That’s delusional.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 09:29 PM
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Where did this guy approach you? Also, an n-count of 2 isn’t bad. Just meet someone who strikes the balance between attractive enough to enjoy fucking while also being ready for a committed relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 11:22 PM
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You want to get anecdotal? Let’s get anecdotal. Personally, I’m friends with a 5’6 guy and a 5’5 with very hot girlfriends, they are 5’3 and 5’2 girls respectively. These girls are seriously gorgeous. One is a hourglass figure Latina, big into the whole lifting and Gymshark stuff, and the other is a petite blonde with great tits who is on some dance team. I’m 5’9 and have only been in LTRs with very attractive girls (thousands of Instagram followers, get hit on, etc), although I know I am way ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 11:02 PM
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I was arguing for monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 07:51 AM
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Highly doubt it. There are many reasons why almost every single successful culture has adopted monogamy, not polygamy, for thousands of years. The importance of Tinder and dating apps is commonly blown out of proportion. Only a small percentage of Americans use them and many don’t even use them “all the way.” All it does is facilitate what those men and women would have done anyway without the apps; sleep around. It’s not funneling all the women up to the top men or whatever incels believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 07:16 AM
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I guess I always knew this idea of unconditional love is ridiculous. Men have always had to provide something, be useful in some way (whether it’s pure genetics, exciting life, resources, protection, different and fantastic personality, money, status, etc). I’m honestly more surprised men can love like this in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 08:16 PM
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How is this a hard pill to swallow? To me, this sounds totally fair and reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 07:28 PM
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why would you say AWALT about a girl finding a dude a month later. That’s totally normal. Is she supposed to mourn the pseudo-death of her alpha warrior husband or something?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:24 AM
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Chill the fuck out. There’s plenty of women worth having kids with. Keep improving yourself and trying to meet them. Vote for more socially conservative politicians and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:10 PM
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This guy has no idea what red pill is, he’s just not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:01 PM
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Pornception
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:31 PM
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Only pluck in the middle so you don’t have a unibody. Otherwise, leave them.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:26 AM
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I got an iPhone and it did help. Sounds so stupid, I know. But it’s ogre if you use Android in 2018.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:22 AM
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Find out their height. If it’s 5’3 and below you’re Gucci. Some girls might disqualify you but at least you have a chance because you’re taller than them, and thus will have a good shot and inducing tingles if everything else about you is attractive and your game is tight. If they say anything over 5’5, Idk. I’m 5’9 and just can’t even hang with girls over 5’7. Makes it harder for me to even get turned on.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:30 AM
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Why and how do you think the SMP will become more competitive?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 05:17 AM
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Any n-count under 10 is nothing to worry about it. LTR her if you want but do it properly. Don’t become an insecure and controlling beta bitch.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:08 PM
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Define what it means to you. At 20 she has slept with two dudes and honestly that qualifies as a unicorn to me. Also a great person in general.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:52 AM
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Amazing. I live with my sister, she is 20 (little younger than me) and super cool. Bit of a unicorn with a ton of friends, and I’m friends with all of them (hooked up with a couple) but the main benefit is the insane preselection and social proof I get whenever we go out. Especially raves. We lift together too (so much better than lifting with a girlfriend or chick) and crack each other up. We are pretty much best friends.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:46 AM
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Sometimes it’s obvious but many times it’s hard for women. Guys lie. The only way to know for sure is to sleep with the guy. There’s many things a girl can do to increase her chances. Making him wait, being observant of the signs that he might just want to hook up, and being forthright in her desire for an LTR are all good moves here. This is much smarter than what girls usually do. But even then, again, the dude can just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 01:00 AM
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I feel embarrassed being subbed to this
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:52 PM
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Don’t put your height on Tinder. Look carefully at her photos. Does she look tall? Taller than you? Proceed carefully or if you feel you can, ask her how tall she is. Otherwise, even if you’re 5’8, as long as you’re fit and attractive and she’s below like 5’5, you’re Gucci.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:03 PM
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For me, guys were way friendlier. Girls were either nicer or meaner, less in between.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:18 AM
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This sounds like a brag post
/r/askTRP25/08/18 03:33 AM
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I’m 5’9 and also built well. It’s rough for us too but I have realized some guys have it so fuckin bad.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:43 AM
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What do you mean by a closed cold approach situation
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:37 AM
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This guy self-improves
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:33 AM
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No. I know beautiful women with good personalities. Still women and do women things but good people nonetheless. Personally, I’ve gotten the most shit from like 5s and 6s and 7s. The nicest girls to me that I’ve had a sexual relationship with were both pretty much low-tier Instagram models (super hot).
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:27 PM
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Who cares just say hey or ask her something on her bio. Dude. Do you think the guy that fucks her is gonna ask what to say on Reddit. Even worse it’s Tinder, you’re one in a hundred and so is she. Just squirt your shitty little message out and if she likes your fucking face you’re good. If she doesn’t then there are no magic words on Tinder that will change her mind.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:46 PM
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No but it is an extremely difficult position to operate from.... which is directly under your control. Of all the things you can’t do much about (face, race, height, etc) not living in your mother’s house is one huge thing you can change. Moving out should only cost you like $500 if you have a roommate so just focus on moving out and you should be done in a few weeks max.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 06:13 AM
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Move out...
/r/askTRP23/08/18 06:10 AM
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The best part is the bag regenerates skittles too.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:37 AM
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Nothing. I mean maybe she gets pregnant? Idk. This is why incels talk about high inhibition folks not getting any.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:15 AM
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Hard next. If she is ever interested again she will reach out.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:17 PM
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I guess sometimes. But I feel like men do this less often. In many ways the only black pill the holds some truth is the pink one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 06:46 PM
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This is assuming you don’t have good game. My game is okayish but I remember the difference when I had blue pill game, and it’s significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 06:35 PM
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I’m white in the US but I’m only 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 06:17 PM
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To be completely honest I’ve been single for three months and have only had sex with three women. I’ve talked to maybe a hundred or so. One was from work, other from tinder, and the last was a friend of my sisters. I think you just have to meet as many HOWEVER you can. If you really looksmax for a good six months and then TALK to a hundred or so women in your league one is bound to be sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:53 AM
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It is for me. I don’t even remember half of the times a girl has rejected me. Definitely worth the eventual pay out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:26 AM
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Don’t let people on the internet diagnose your relationship. Use your brain. Does she have a bad experience but otherwise is a great girl? Or is she not? You’ll know better than us. Don’t leave because of some perceived notion that she’s x because of y. Leave because she’s done x. Of course this is only for short term shit, if getting married yeah her past matters more but you still have to think for yourself.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:20 AM
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Swipe apps, cold approach at store and cafes and food and life in general, social circle on the weekends, school and work. Work be careful. Yeah, don’t shit where you eat but also a huge portion of couples meet at work. Oh and hobbies. I just asked another dude and he said the same thing. I don’t think there’s any secret. Most people just don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:12 AM
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Two reasons dudes get depressed about TRP. They believe women are like dogs or anime characters that will love them no matter what. No matter how fat and weak and fucking gay they are. When TRP smashes that and says guess what, women do not love unconditionally, they have a cry. There’s a few other beliefs that follow the same timeline as this one. On the other extreme, some guys swallow a little too much red. They meet a relatively cool chick that actually digs them? Dude she has an n-count of …
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:48 AM
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Get laid quick. I started at 15 and I seriously believe that reference experience is the reason why I can still meet and fuck girls. I feel like if you miss the high school boat it’s very hard to start having a normal sex life later on. I’ve noticed ugly dudes or average dudes who for some reason started fucking in their teens, always keep on having sex (even if just in LTRs) afterwards. The dudes who don’t tend to get stuck in a rut and never get out. They don’t know what it’s like or how it’s …
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:12 AM
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Yeah I’m saying out of those couple hundred honest to God attempts they will find that. Using the PSL scale they love, a 3 and over has a shot after some “looksmaxing” and shedding their shitty belief system and meeting a large number of girls in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:59 AM
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So true. I feel the black pill guys try a few times, get rejected, then give up. What they don’t understand is even if they’re so below average that they only have a 1% success rate for women in their league, that means a couple hundred attempts could result in a girlfriend that solves their sex problem for a long time. A couple hundred attempts would only take a few months, and I’m being pretty pessimistic here. And those good looking guys with ugly girls isn’t a result of “hypergamy on overdri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:47 AM
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You just don’t provide as much value or they’re not good friends or any combination.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:45 AM
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Where do you game in the real world?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:28 PM
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So what? If she’s not LTR then let OP grab his buddy and double stuff her. Who cares if she’s just a FWB or fling.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:27 PM
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Yep, my last LTR was a virgin and not a hoe, I still dived straight to sex. If anyone deserved the good girl treatment it was her. But the standard RP procedure worked well.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 03:23 PM
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Like the other poster said, some women do this. Others don’t. TRP, while filled with very useful and sometimes crucial advice, starts to lack when it attempts to build a philosophy and universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:13 AM
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I prefer LTRs too. It’s weird, though. For most things in life, you have to know what you’re aiming at and act accordingly to reach it. But with LTRs you can’t change your trajectory. You have to keep pushing for sex like she will be a FWB or fling. And then once you do that, you let it become an LTR. I’ve noticed if I go in with the frame that I’m looking for an LTR, I end up with a “friend.” I think it’s because we are not meant to look for commitment (even if we want it). We are meant to go a…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:05 AM
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Depends. Her sister is having a birthday party and they want to go out, and my girlfriend has not in the last year? Okay. She does it every month? I’m restarting my Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:01 AM
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Depends how she treats you now. I’ve been with a girl who did something similar and she was obsessed with me. I was with a virgin too and although she loved me as well, she didn’t appreciate me as much as the other one because she just assumed all guys must be as great. I also felt some FOMO in her. What I’m saying is that low n-count is great but has some disadvantages. High n count is worse but that depends on how many. If she’s hot and she’s at 8, that’s not too bad. I guess if it really both…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:57 AM
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Yeah if you expect a woman to love you unconditionally, sure. I don’t get what the big deal is. I didn’t even know most men expect this sort of loyal-to-the-death love. It’s not even a hard pill to swallow that women are incapable of this. They’re capable of insanely devoted and emotionally charged love for a man. He can easily become her entire world and universe. All a man needs to do is keep up the “conditions” where that love can survive. These are constantly improving your value, maintainin…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:21 PM
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This.... this is what the red pill is??? Unless you were addressing the black pill weirdos, everyone else is actively working towards becoming fitter, more successful, with greater personalities and life styles to attract better mates. I guess the only thing that gets a little sour is uncontrollable traits like height or facial genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 08:48 PM
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If you’ve never lifted before, bulk and cut. If you’ve been lifting but you’re kind of skinny fat, cut and then lean bulk.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:00 PM
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I get shit tested from yellow and green girls. Yellow girls are girls that notice me but aren’t sure what kind of guy I am and if they might be attracted to me. Green girls are girls that know straight off the bat they find me sexually attractive. Yellow girls tend to test more than green girls but green girls will still shoot a few my way. Red girls will either not even acknowledge me if they’re nice people who happen to think I’m invisible, or they’re mean red girls and they’ll still say stuff…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 11:13 AM
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NO NO NONNONO dude NO
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:34 PM
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I’m also balding. I take Finasteride. I have had great success with girls and I’m 5’9. That being said, my wardrobe is sicker than anyone else and I’ve been lifting for years and my life is very sorted out for a 22 year old and I have sick tats. Gotta work with what you got. I have ended LTRs with “PSL” 6s just because despite my limitations I feel I can do better, and I do. Couple more examples. My buddy from work is 5’6 or so and has a beautiful, light skin and thick Latina girl that lifts wit…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 07:47 AM
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Dude you don’t make 500k a year or you’d have a team of the best body building coaches, face surgery, a 20k wardrobe and a Lamborghini. You and your entourage would buy out the entire vip section everywhere and scoop all the girls. Edit: you’d throw fucking great gatsby parties in your penthouse or Mansion and mid tier celebrities would attend. You’d get Japanese irezumi tattoo sleeves and be on the most powerful, advanced steroids with a team of doctors making sure you’re good on sides. If you’…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:42 AM
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Have sex with someone else
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:18 AM
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Used to happen to me. You care more about the outcome and it fucks up your game. Just keep trying. If you go full autismo on ten different hotties eventually you’ll start to do it less and less.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:46 PM
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No. The best relationship for a man is a s monogamous one. This is also the best relationship for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:57 PM
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I’m not typical. I don’t have many friends but I’ve been lifting and ripping off GQ ads for several years. I go to college as a transfer student. I used to spend weeks playing video games and lifting. I’ve always had a girlfriend to fuck, haven’t been single since I lost my virginity at 15. I’m very aggressive when it comes to approaching and escalating on dates. My life doesn’t make a lot of sense. I feel like I should be an AFC or incel but I’ve always had sex. I’m recently single now and ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:58 PM
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No lol
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:55 PM
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Just say yeah of course and then message her in two weeks. Meanwhile meet other girls.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:55 PM
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If you don’t lift and you’re under 6 foot you’re invisible. Gain some muscle and bam, suddenly you aren’t invisible.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:35 PM
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I’m no chad. I didn’t hookup with girls. But I did have a girlfriend freshman and sophomore year, then a different girlfriend for junior and senior year. So I had a ton of sex. Just only with two girls. So I had a great high school sex experience. Anyone over like a 3/10 can have one. Just give up on “slaying” and improve yourself and run boyfriend game. Slaying is really only for 6+ dudes, but lower tier guys can still get a cute girlfriend and if you have good frame and know what you’re doing,…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:59 AM
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It’s not a red flag though. It’s not a green flag. It’s a non-factor. Plenty of girls get tattoos because they love the art or it has meaning to them. It’s smarter to focus on actual red flags instead of disqualifying potentially great girls on something like tattoos just because of your own views. Also, you’ll be surprised when that girl with no tattoos turns out to be a CC queen, meanwhile I’ve dated girls with no emotional issues and less than 2 n counts with back pieces.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:53 AM
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Fuck her doggy it’s the best
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:25 AM
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Yeah lmao. This post is silly af. He has a decent LTR and wants oneitis?? Leave
/r/askTRP12/08/18 07:07 PM
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Lmao dude get your head out of your philosophical ass. If your girl is as good as you say, just shut the hell up, keep pumping her full of dick and work on your mission. Want to know how to get oneitis for her? Be a boring loser and watch her leave you. Suddenly, you’ll feel that pang in your heart you’re striving towards for some reason. Instead; be smart. You have a good girl. You can’t plate forever and this is as good a girl as any to keep around, so do that while you focus on other areas of…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 05:58 PM
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Want my honest opinion? This is TRP which is mainly how to become more sexually attractive. For this, drop the running and yoga and just focus all your efforts into body building and meal prep. Would you prefer a girl who does yoga and runs and kayaks or a girl with tits, ass, and a small waist? That’s kind of how it is for us but with arm muscles, shoulder width, and abs.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 05:53 PM
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The problem is almost no one envisions chad like this. I think you’re right but people don’t understand that it’s just a placeholder. It’s the man you aren’t that she likes. Sometimes they’re objectively better but other times they aren’t, they’re just a subjectively better choice for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:34 PM
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Not as extreme but my friend is 6’3, looks like a taller Ryan Gosling, and has always lifted weights. He isn’t autistic or mentally challenged, but he’s just a little awkward and was always scared of making a move. Didn’t lose his virginity till he was 20, has only had sex inside relationships. Meanwhile I’m 5’9 and have fucked literally anything that has so much as smiled at me since I was 15. Point being that for a guy, it’s not just about being a good-looking or tall dude. Girls will never la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:28 PM
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Tons of chicks dig tattoos. Tons of them have tattoos. I’ve known girls with tattoos who have low n-counts, were good people, and were very attractive. I’ve also known girls with no tattoos who have been with tens of guys and were horrible people. Don’t worry so much about it. Don’t be a boring dude, if a chick says she wants a tat, tell her to get your face on her backside. And if you ever want to get tats, know that if they’re tasteful they do improve SMV.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:44 PM
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Funnily enough, doing this is also the best strategy to get them to come back. Although, that isn’t the goal.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:54 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:29 PM
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Have sex with someone else.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:29 PM
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Dude if a girl knows you read this stuff or knows what the hell a “manosphere” is, it’s ogre.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:28 PM
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I would never mention TRP or even the concepts to anyone, let alone girls I liked. Shit. That’s game over.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 09:28 PM
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A lot of doom and gloom on the internet about women in love. Listen, women can love you. They can be in love with you and crazy about you. They can make you gifts, cry when you don’t pay attention to them, try to impress you, kiss you all over your face, drop whatever they’re doing and hang with you, and get soaking wet in bed for you. Women can love you hard. I’ve experienced all of this and more from different women. There is one caveat. This love is not unconditional. If you fuck up one too m…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:56 PM
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This is weird, but I’ve noticed even 18 year olds accidentally getting pregnant with dudes who were clearly out of their league and just lookin to smash. It’s crazy. I think it’s subconscious too, on the woman’s part.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:39 PM
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How’s it over? I’m 5’9 dude with 400 days game time logged on Runescape. Been smashing since I was 14. 22 now. Not many friends but always had a girlfriend. I did it by just making lifting, style, and aggressive escalation part of who I was. That being said I don’t recommend the years I spent gaming (even if I had pussy during it). If you truly want to know how I reckon you could try ascending, shoot me a pm.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:41 PM
1

Even if you’re technically correct on the accepted definition of some of these terms, people get the message either way. Especially because I outlined it in my last reply. There’s sex within monogamous relationships. And then there’s sex outside those relationships. Hookups, casual sex, hookup culture; all of these, regardless of their subcategories or small differences, are in the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:53 PM
11

There are people who fuck women and then there are people like you
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:48 PM
0

Hookup culture is casual sex and casual sex is hookup culture. “Hookups” are just a part of that. Meeting someone on Tinder and having sex a week later is hookup culture or casual sex or whatever. So is having sex with some guy you know from work but aren’t dating. That’s hooking up. Don’t get too tangled in the definitions. There’s sex within a committed and monogamous relationship, and then there is sex outside committed and monogamous relationships. That’s the difference that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:24 PM
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Casual sex is having sex outside of a relationship. If you’re not at least boyfriend and girlfriend, it’s casual. That’s also what I mean by hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:43 PM
1

You just have to meet loads of women and you’ll come across all types. Two of my last LTRs were virgins and they were beautiful. The other had an n count of 3 and she was cute too. I have met girls who I suspect have been with tens of dudes, one girl I know had been with over 30, but I just can’t pursue those girls because I enjoy LTRs and would never LTR them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 11:53 AM
1

They’re still out there. Plenty of girls only have sex in committed relationships. The only girls who end up with 10+ are the type who are down to have sex with someone before being given commitment and that’s not every girl.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 11:49 AM
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0-5 is good. Don’t hold out until marriage but definitely hold out until you’re in a committed relationship with a label. 0 is cool because he’s the first but also you might get FOMO and you’ll be shit at sex for a while. 3 is also great and not too much, you’re not a hoe at that point , but you’ll be great at sex and will probably appreciate your husband better if he’s better than those that came before. So 0-5 is all pretty good. Around 6+ plus is when your value starts depreciating, unless it…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 10:27 AM
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I’ve met and dated women who would never have sex unless they were in a relationship. I still know a few, including my sister who models. They will turn down the most alpha dudes who haven’t even heard of the word “reddit” just because they were too forward with wanting to hook up. Not saying NAWALT but AWALT is also misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:27 AM
26

It’s ogre. But seriously though it is. Sorry.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:16 AM
9

I don’t think most women are pro hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:09 AM
2

Who is okay with dating a girl who has slept with 100 guys? Anything more than 9 is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:08 AM
0

It’s bad because you’re boring. Lots of cute and fun girls like to smoke weed sometimes. Even more like to drink socially (not talking about DABs or alcoholics here). By not doing these things and having this superiority attitude, you’re gonna come off as an autistic wet blanket to a lot of people. At the very least, even if you decide to never touch booze or weed or anything, be totally okay with others smoking or drinking right next to you. Be okay with probably being the only non drunk or hig…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:08 AM
2

I also think most people are just asleep in life. They aren’t awake and focused. They aren’t aiming to have happy and healthy LTRs so they don’t ever achieve it. I think if you seriously want to be in a healthy LTR, you can take care of whatever you must to achieve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:59 PM
1

Just don’t cry. Never cry in front of a woman and don’t sulk either. Seriously. Don’t ever do it. She will tell you it’s fine, don’t hold it in, blah blah. Just laugh it off and move on with life. Don’t cry in front of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:30 PM
2

I don’t think it’s as difficult or strict as you make it seem. Why can’t a low class or middle class person just improve their appearance, personality, hold down a job, stay healthy and meet another person who is attracted to them and enter an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:26 PM
4

What is going on here? I see plenty of middle or lower class people in LTRs and marriages. I grew up middle class and am a college student have had nothing but happy LTRs. I don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:25 PM
2

Name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:23 PM
1

What is lmc, mc, lc and ses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:19 PM
1

I have a little sister and she would never do this shit to me. This girl wants you
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:18 PM
0

Say “no” more often, even if it will be uncomfortable or awkward. Especially if it will be uncomfortable or awkward.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:16 PM
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No. TRP is supposed to make you and your girl happier in the LTR. Don’t be skeptical or assume she’s cheating . You’ll turn into an angry, controlling beta and then it’s over. Instead, lift weights. Improve your style. Be spontaneous and decisive on your dates with her. Pump her full of emotions and then pump her full of dick. Go out with friends and keep improving your value. Without even doing anything directly, she will assume other girls are after you and bam she loves you more (that’s just …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:11 AM
1

In the three LTRs I’ve been in, for several years, never has a girl done this shit to me. What’s going on? Do you guys just really know how to pick ‘em? Did I let unicorns go?
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:37 AM
3

Switching positions. Doggy makes me fucking looooooose it so I switch to something else. Then back to doggy.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:31 AM
1

Where did you cold approach her?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:14 AM
0

Sometimes it’s a good girl (closest thing to a unicorn). Sometimes it’s a shitty girl stringing you along. Could be either. Depends on their history. Have they always held out for a while before sleeping with a guy? That’s a green flag for LTR material even if you have to put up with it at first. Has she put out quicker for other dudes and now she’s different or some shit? Yeah, you know the drill.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:05 AM
0

Yes it is. I’ve been in a two year LTR and a four year LTR with very attractive girls. No cheating. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 03:00 AM
1

Doesn’t matter if you’re natural. If you’re natural you must get as big as you possibly can while maintaining visible and lean abs. The reason why is because without steroids you’ll never be “too big.” Your genetic potential will be muscular and attractive and strong and lean. It will never be too big. So you have to train to maximize size. And then eat clean so you don’t turn into a fat shit.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:24 AM
2

You can. And someone can love you forever too. You just have to understand that love is conditional. It depends on who you picked. It depends on who you are and how well you can maintain and strive to be better. It depends. There’s conditions to be met. Unconditional love is impossible for a woman. I don’t get why this is difficult to swallow for men. I sort of always knew this. From an evolutionary standpoint, it makes sense. You can love and be loved by someone, just understand it’s not uncond…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:21 AM
1

No system is perfect. TRP is the best system men have. However, not all of it is true. I find that AWALT is not true. It is a spectrum. Some women are unicorns on the left side of the spectrum for all intents and purposes, assuming you're not the most controlling and unattractive beta. Some women are on the right side of the AWALT spectrum and are the stereotypical women that the average TRP user complains about. But you have to find out for yourself what is and is not true. Don't forget, though…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 09:47 AM
2

Yeah the heights increase but not by much. Again, 5’7 is twice as common as 6’4. So things can’t be that bad. And let’s say they are. Who gives a fuck? If you get to the point that you’re in one of the top finance positions in the country, why do you care about the people you work with? You can build social circles anywhere; from hobbies to the gym to just hanging out with an old friend who introduces you to another and so on. Except you’ll be like the richest, most high status dude around at th…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:56 AM
4

Dude you’re fat and bald. It’s over for now. Once you get jacked, even if you must resort to steroids, and fix your style up and make more friends, then you can come and ask why you’re a virgin. Right now it’s because you’re fat.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:54 AM
2

I’m 5’9 and do great. You’re fine dude. Just wear lifts if you’re that short. Also, not all social circles are made up of 6’4 men. You realize that statistically there are way more 5’7 men (3 inches from the average) than 6’4 men (6 inches from the average). Just the people you’ve gotten involved with are tell fellas that gravitate to tall fellas usually. But don’t let that get to you. Although, if you’re not tall, you must be muscular and lean. You have to be.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:51 AM
1

I’ve never met or heard of any. I think it goes against their nature. Of course you’ll have exceptions, but you can say that about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 08:46 AM
1

Depends. Do you have some muscle on you? If so, I would do a short cut to trim the fat then bulk. But if you are only just starting out, then you can’t really cut as there won’t be anything left at all. At that point you must just eat clean and lift progressively heavier weight for several months and then decide whether to keep going or cut.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:33 AM
0

I think you're wrong because there's too many exceptions. Perhaps the main reason a man will keep a woman is her looks (relative to him). For example, on my other account I was rated a psl 6 and I wouldn't LTR a psl 4 no matter what dat mouf do. A 5 I might, if she was a very good person. A 7 I would LTR even if she didn't know how to fuck to save her life. Why? Because men should be leading in sex anyway. My last ex was a virgin and very, very, bad at sex at first. In a month I had her fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:07 AM
1

While men age much better than women (all else being equal, of course) it doesn't go on forever. We aren't vampires. Sure, if you're 35 and jacked with good style and you take care of your skin and have a decent career; yes, you can bang girls in their twenties. But at 45? Seriously pushing it. Almost all your success will be women in their thirties. And by 50s? 60s? Where are your kids, making you proud and carrying your legacy? Where are your grand kids? Are you going to be a lonely 65 year-ol…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 02:04 PM
1

Out of the three main ones (LMS) I would say Status. If you’re a celebrity, you can be in debt and look pretty ugly; you’re going to slay. This is followed by Looks. If you’re a low-status personal trainer making $30k a year, but you have a handsome face and you’re jacked, you’ve made it. You’ll get hot gym pussy easily. And then Money. Money is dead last though, it’s like a watered-down and weak version of status. Usually, it only attracts people because it implies Status anyway. Otherwise, it …
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:14 PM
1

I thought this whole thing was supposed to be like fight club. I have friends who sorely need TRP but I wouldn’t mention it in a million years. I just drop a few game tips like don’t seek approval, tease em a little, don’t argue with your gf, shit like that. But to actually try to unplug someone? Never. What the heck? Next we will start telling our girlfriends not to be “hypergamous” or something.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 11:36 AM
7

Lots of people on here take AWALT too seriously. AWALT is a spectrum. Some girls are on the far left and require a tremendous amount of motivation and conditions to branch-swing. Other girls are on the far right and only require an attractive guy to flirt with them a little and it’s over. I’m like you; I see plenty of examples that disprove AWALT. I don’t know why more people on here don’t realize it’s a spectrum. Yes, in theory, RP is right that all women have the capacity to cheat. But that le…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 11:19 AM
10

Dude come on. You’re over analyzing this. You called a girl a bitch. I don’t care if you’re gigachad with Justin Bieber frame, don’t do that. Just don’t call a girl a bitch next time.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 11:11 AM
1

Fuck someone else
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:35 AM
1

Absolutely never ever watch porn. That much everyone can agree on.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:34 AM
3

If you’re skinny fat with muscle, cut till you have very visible abs, then lean bulk. If you’re skinny fat with almost no muscle (or you are new and haven’t even lifted yet) then bulk first.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:26 AM
1

Why? That circumference isn’t too crazy. It’s like a cucumber or Zuccini. I don’t know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 02:26 AM
13

Dude women fall hard in love. You just have to understand that it can fade. But while it’s there, it’s powerful. My ex used to spend her entire paycheck on gifts for me. My other ex would suck me off in changing rooms two years into our relationship. One would cry half the time I made her cum and made me promise I’d marry her. They’d cry if I didn’t reply for a day. They all would spend an hour describing our future kids. But now they aren’t in my life anymore. The second I started acting like a…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:45 AM
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My end goal is to have a family. Downvote my ass idc. I’ve had very fulfilling relationships all my life, always had sex when I wanted it, but I know marriage will be extremely hard. Don’t care, still want it.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:41 AM
6

somber head shake
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:33 AM
1

I never had this problem during LTRs
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:07 AM
2

Female if I know nothing else about them and I had to choose. Shame on people skirting the question tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 01:06 AM
1

My sister is a PSL 8, does modeling and is 20 with an n count of 2. She knows her SMV very well and it’s part of the reason why she won’t do something as degrading as riding the CC. I’m mostly RP but the notion that AWALT is erroneous. You have to be more than just an attractive woman to ride the CC; you also have to have some sort of personal issue, lack of principle, or maybe just lack some intelligence to ride on the CC. At least, all the girls I know who sleep around have one or more of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 12:32 AM
0

Only guys who don’t get any. But I try not to hang with desperate dudes like that. Even pretty alpha guys are usually chill. If the girl is spectacular though that’s when things get dicey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 12:28 AM
2

I’m 7.5 long and almost 6 around so I’m good. It doesn’t improve my odds in getting women but every time I do, they really wanna stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 12:26 AM
1

I don’t. I care about personality and hip to waist ratio. If she’s a good person and has dat ass I don’t care if she’s from a favela
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:45 PM
1

Uhh what. Lifting, climbing up in status, dressing well, expanding your social circle, having game, and so on does nothing to help a man meet women? This is ridiculous. You don’t choose who you’re attracted to. You either are attracted to someone or you aren’t. And men who improve themselves on all metrics they can increase the chances of being attractive to women they find attractive. Not only is this common sense, I’ve experienced it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 09:22 AM
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You’re the first to say this. I’m 5’9 with a handsome face and do much better than my tall friends with goofy or plain faces. I guess there will be people who just place more importance on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:02 PM
2

6’8 with an average face beats 6’0 with a handsome face??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 09:52 PM
1

Not really. Sure, having a hot girlfriend is sort of a status booster but it’s not a big deal if my friend has a hotter girlfriend. Even objectively hotter, I don’t care. That being said, my exes have all been PSL 6 or so (top 20% of girls their age). But I didn’t want a 7 or 8. For reference, looks wise I’m a 6 at best. So yes there is a baseline. I think as a woman, if you are 5+, a man can love you intensely depending on how you treat him. It’s the 3 and below women who have a bleak outlook. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:46 PM
1

Unfortunately, I can attest. I'm 5'9, average face, toned but not big. I've been having sex since I was 15 (now 22) in LTRs. I am very emotionally abusive at times, and it seems that is why the girls stuck around. Mind you these were good girls. Two of them were virgins before me. The last one left me as soon as I started being nicer. For four years I pretty much played with her emotions and she was obsessed with me. Constant sex, seeking my approval, gifts, all of that. Then I started listening…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:50 PM
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It's the other way around. There's a tremendous difference between a 6/10 face (good looking) and an 8/10 (extremely handsome). But to a woman who is 5'3, a 5'10 man is essentially the same as a 6'0 man. And would probably prefer the 6'0 man over the 6'4 man. But there is no limit to how good looking their face can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:39 PM
1

It may just be because I'm 22, but I don't get why career women are a big deal. Not only are their standards jacked up to the sky because now they make as much, or more, than most men, but there's a whole slew of other problems that I find with marrying a carry woman. Personally, I want to marry someone who will have time to stay in shape, take care of the house, and take care of the kids. I do not really want to deal with someone who is also stressed from work. My goal is something similar to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:58 PM
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