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| 1 | Are black pillers and incels taking over this sub?There always has been a portion of the PUA community who when they don’t quickly find “the secret to attract all the women they want”, look to blame someone/something for their disappointment. PUAhate was a thing for a while, plus general misogyny. I get the emotional response that they have, even if I don’t agree with it, but what I can’t get my head around is the twisted logic around how all women can get any man they want, but that it’s harder for men unless you are a movie star or millionair… | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Yes, although it probably doesn’t sound very helpful initially, but - be friendly with strangers! By that I mean all people, not just women you find hot. Start just making idle small talk with the person serving you in a shop, or standing next to you in a queue or whatever. Get comfortable just making situational / even dull conversations with random people. “What a beautiful day”, “can you believe how long this queue is?”, “jeez, this shop looks busy today, bet you’re rushed off your feet” etc.… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 04:24 AM |
| 19 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?It’ll be different for every person. I think that’s one of the reasons that a lot of guys get so frustrated with PUA is that they read what works for one person, try it, and when it fails, get quite bitter and blame either the PUA or women. I did A LOT of self reflection after my divorce, and realised that for me, my main issue was that I created some sort of pressure environment when I framed interactions with women as purely about dating or sex. I wasn’t shy in other aspects of my life at all;… | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 06:20 AM |
| 157 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?I don’t buy the premise at all. I came out of a divorce, discovered PUA (when it was slightly less toxic) and had an absolute blast meeting all kinds of women, having previously been quite a shy guy. Invest in yourself, don’t be fake, don’t be creepy, don’t take things personally if someone isn’t interested (it genuinely doesn’t matter), and just enjoy the whole process and not some arbitrary target. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 10:45 PM |
| 4 | I'm so tired of whoresI’m not sure you’re really getting the point of seduction. You are not the centre of their world, and worrying about this shit shouldn’t be the centre of yours. Inner game sounds dull, but you need to be in a better place to get results and not worry about it when it doesn’t go well. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 11:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] From Third Date, how can I escalate it to a relationship / physical / sexual ?Ok, you seem like you’re just getting into the world of pua. It also sounds like quite a few things have gone ok with this girl. You’re kind of asking the wrong question though and sounds like you’re stressing about escalating too much. If you’re stressed about it, what tends to happen is that you avoid it, then it all builds up to a single point in the date (usually the end), where there’s a sudden phase shift that catches the girl by surprise and puts her off. There needs to be a constant sexu… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:51 PM |
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