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"never ending" ... It does diminish and become less and less urgent as you age. I realize that may not be solace to you now, but your problem will lessen with time.
/r/MGTOW29/12/14 02:00 PM
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I think we're all attracted to whoever/whatever we're attracted to ... and whoever/whatever it is, it's all right. It's when we try to rationalize and justify our attraction as something higher/better/more moral/etc. that we become delusional, dishonest, and silly.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 08:45 PM
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When her mouth starts with I.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 02:12 PM
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Your point is probably accurate as far as it goes. The problem with it is that the "double-bind stereotype" you speak of doesn't relate only to women. Men face it too: E.g., men who point out sexism against men are viewed as reactionary neanderthals who "just don't get it" while men who don't talk about anti-male attitudes and practices reinforce the stereotype that we are wholly privileged, don't see any misandry, and thus have no need to speak up. So your paper is really not about women or fem…
/r/MensRights18/12/14 01:34 PM
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That kind of behavior disgusts me. Man or woman, black or white, anyone ... there's a way to behave in public spaces, and these animals just don't get it. Given that this question is on this sub, it's probably meant to elicit a response about gender. There's something about some young people that causes them to be hyper-aggressive--I suspect it has to do with over-compensating for low self-esteem. We notice it more with young women than young men, I think, because young women maybe tend to displ…
/r/MGTOW05/12/14 02:30 PM
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I assume in any for-profit endeavor, people make whatever they can negotiate, depending on some combination of their negotiating skills and what their employers believe they are worth in revenue potential.
/r/MensRights21/11/14 02:18 AM
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How would a few build their wealth without our having a class of people who are disposable and therefore can, without social outrage, die fighting for resources and markets?
/r/MensRights21/11/14 01:08 AM
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Got my V at age 22. Had 2 kids, didn't want anymore. NEVER regretted it. Only regret not doing it sooner.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 03:36 AM
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What do you think she would do in your situation? I think I know.
/r/MGTOW06/11/14 05:49 PM
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Yes, she's being overly fearful, overdramatic. Doing so reinforces her ego, her psychological need to be central to a situation, delicate, desired, vulnerable. The article also does its part to perpetuate the mythos that all men are rapists.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 05:38 PM
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Yep
/r/MensRights26/10/14 01:08 PM
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I would guess there'd be 10 or more applicants for any male porn role to every 1 applicant for a female role. Thus, the likely lower pay.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 11:36 AM
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I do a lot for our local Boys & Girls Club, which was my second home as a child, and I'm a Rotarian in a very active club. More generally, although I spend a LOT of time alone, I try to bring calm sanity to any social situation I find myself in.
/r/MGTOW23/10/14 02:29 PM
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One Less Set of Footsteps, by Jim Croce; No Choice in the Matter, by Jason Isbell; Lost Cause, by Beck
/r/MGTOW22/10/14 08:05 PM
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Yes, I would guess many mgtow gave up the company of most other men before giving up on women too.
/r/MGTOW19/10/14 10:04 PM
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Who Needs You, by Queen
/r/MGTOW16/10/14 10:11 PM
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First, whenever I read the monthly mainstream article that this or that "is killing us," I immediately think: Oh, well, we've got to die of something. That's flippant, I suppose, but death is inevitable for all of us; all we can do is make our choices while alive and see what happens. Trying to engineer our lives to squeeze every potential second out of them seems a little pointless to me. Second, some people prefer to be alone, and don't or rarely feel lonely. I tend to get plenty of socializat…
/r/MGTOW16/10/14 11:44 AM
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The short story is incredibly funny but not nearly as satisfying.
/r/MGTOW16/10/14 12:22 AM
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"grizzled 50+ year olds with plenty of life experience" grizzled!? GRIZZLED!? Semi-grizzled, at worst. Maybe
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:39 PM
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My understanding is that the G in MGTOW stands for "going." That -ing reminds us that MGTOW is a process. Some are far downstream while others are just putting a foot in. I think the gist of his story is that 23444209209 has had the revelation that encourages him to step in. It's not realistic to expect expect a guy to abandon a wife and family and everything at the moment of the epiphany; he is wise to do it as it best suits him, even if that means slowly, step by step. Does that make him MGTOW…
/r/MGTOW07/10/14 07:59 PM
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First loves stay with you forever.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 12:16 PM
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He laughed at her, egged her on, took a video, and posted the video online.
/r/MGTOW06/10/14 11:47 PM
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Then get out.
/r/MGTOW05/10/14 08:32 PM
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Sounds like the same plot of EVERY action movie. The number of men who kill and are killed/maimed on behalf of women is astounding.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:16 AM
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Maybe, but I suspect as a guy gets older, he sees a little more complexity in the situation. There's a lot more invested in a 33 year marriage with kids than a 9 year marriage with no kids.
/r/MGTOW30/09/14 08:44 PM
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Yes, a very reasonable perspective. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW30/09/14 08:15 PM
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He's man enough to support his adult son while the son finds his footing. I would expect the son's predominant feeling to be gratitude.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:31 PM
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Try Sam Keen's "Fire in the Belly." I like it much better.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 11:04 PM
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"But I don't want it back." Yes, I've often felt my sex drive was at the core of so much of my dissatisfaction. Why any guy would try to boost it, I don't know. Now I'm in my 50s and it's naturally waning ... and thank god.
/r/MGTOW23/09/14 12:39 PM
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My experience is that it's not just sex that suffers but the whole relationship, in which everything is about the kids. Some of this is understandable when the kids are young and very dependent, but when they're in their early 30s? I'm seeing this cycle start again now with my own son and a nephew. UGH.
/r/MGTOW23/09/14 12:35 PM
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I think another part of the problem is that, for young men, sex drives can be SOOOO powerful, they're blinded by the many potential problems they're walking into with relationships. By the time the hormones subside and the drive backs off and the other realities set in, they are habituated to the relationship and are just looking for ways to cope short-term without being able to imagine, or have the energy or confidence for, longer-term, more radical solutions, like divorce.
/r/MGTOW22/09/14 11:51 PM
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They both need to grow up.
/r/MGTOW22/09/14 11:41 PM
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Good article. Age 54. I can relate.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 03:29 PM
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Since most real research comes out of universities, and since the First Amendment effectively no longer exists on most college campuses, and since university campuses are the headquarters of ideological feminism, you are not likely to find the kind of research you're looking for. (I worked on a college campus from mid-1980s through 2008 and watched this situation evolve.) Good luck.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 03:18 AM
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Opps: carnal. (Let's blame auto-correct.)
/r/MGTOW18/09/14 02:56 AM
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The buddha taught that to tame our minds away from carmel cravings, we should recall that that human body we crave will age, die, and decay. No doubt this is what the DL is referencing to when he says "dirty things." And his comment "too much trouble" no doubt refers to the gist of the 4 Noble Truths--craving and clinging to desire is what causes suffering.
/r/MGTOW17/09/14 04:17 PM
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I had my V at age 22.5 after my second kid. Zero regrets.
/r/MGTOW07/09/14 02:25 PM
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