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You mean I'm projecting? Lol, I couldn't give a fuck about him except for the fact he's bothering me, and that's all I want actually, to leave me the fuck alone... but hey, if that's projecting...
/r/askTRP05/05/17 06:33 AM
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Yeah, everyone thinks that moving out is amazingly easy if you live in the western world. I'm not saying it isn't, actually, but sometimes it's better to take it easy so you can, you know, build stuff for yourself before being out on your own burning all your money and time on surviving...
/r/askTRP05/05/17 06:32 AM
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And your dad is 60 for fucks sake. His testosterone is very low. Of course he doesn't have a drive anymore. He's almost at the age of retirement. He should be sailing through the last years of his career, not trying to innovate. I would agree, except he was acting like this when he was in his lates 40s. He was just lazy as shit end expected others to pick up his slack, in every case. My family should support his decisions no matter what, his boss/coworkers were supposed to accept him and pay him…
/r/askTRP05/05/17 06:30 AM
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I do, that's why it pisses me off that this guy tries to order me around like if I was 12 and each time we end up fighting because I have to stand my fucking ground and he doesn't get it he needs to leave me the fuck alone..
/r/askTRP05/05/17 06:26 AM
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I work full time, I pay the bills to help my family, I lift, I'm building a great career and I'm finishing university, I don't see why what my culture thinks of me is relevant... maybe you should stop thinking about what others think also... maybe you can go read the sidebar...
/r/askTRP05/05/17 06:25 AM
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Hahaha cool it down asshole, if you have a problem with people living at home then work on it, stop venting like a girl... This place is full of teenagers, go live by yourself and then get back to me...
/r/askTRP04/05/17 11:22 PM
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Maybe we are not understanding eachother here... it wasnt "them", it was just "her". Why do you say I got all worked up? She said a LIE, regarding a COWORKER, jist to MAKE ME LOOK LIKE SHIT. Why do you believe stuff like this is normal? Why woukd you act passively? However, I do see what you mean anout getting involved. I did it this time because I absolutely had to make sure the others saw HER what what she really is. Now I'll stop it and totally cut her off. But something told me it was the ri…
/r/askTRP30/04/17 09:08 PM
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I'm bilingual... If you can use the extra language as a tool to display SMV, then yes. If you can't use it, then it's useless :) For example, let's say you are at work and you are surrounded by a couple of guys who have your same SMV or slightly higher. Then let's say an important client shows up that speaks only your other language, and these guys can't do nothing. If, in that context, you start talking with confidence with the client, in front of the other guys and women, then you're SMV will …
/r/askTRP29/04/17 08:56 AM
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Depends on the glasses, depends on the face, depends on how you feel wearing them. I used to wear small, rectangular glasses that made me look "nerdish" (which I am), and also reduced my field of view and I felt, if not uncomfortable, "limited" in my perception of the world. Two years back I switched to a more open frame, and I can rock those like crazy. I see better (more area), and my blue eyes and expressions show way more. The comment from a couple of girls? I seem "older" and not the usual …
/r/askTRP29/04/17 08:46 AM
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It's not even face to face man, it's just the lies. I set the record straight on a company chat to make sure I was protected and she used only one message from that convo to make me look bad AND went behind my back telling shit lies about me. I was prepared to a face to face, but she just lied and thought I wouldn't find out, and that's not ok. Besides, she's so low below me that one word from me to the right manager would make her life hell. Now I settled the record straight with a couple of ot…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:59 AM
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I agree with most comments... you seem to have the need to always come on top, always have the last word and then you engage in this "chit chat" where you are only giving her stuff to use against you. This is a company chat. She can use whatever the fuck she wants against me, I was aware of it, that's why I made sure the whole convo made me look good, not her. Guess what, she showed around only the part of the convo that was convenient to her, and also told shit lies to people (ie, I snapped bec…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:54 AM
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Seems to me you foolishly engaged when it was stupid and unneeded. You know you dont have to reply, right? True. But she was already badmouthing me behind my back, and these was a company chat, so all the shit he said, is on record. And if she even attempts to mess with me a little more, she'll be in deep shit for this. Maybe with a backhanded ask if it would help if you forwarded her complaint regarding the supervisors tasking to him so he can hear her concerns. No need, I already settle the re…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:50 AM
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If you respond at all, you've given her attention. That's what people call giving her ammunition. Don't respond aside from basic politeness, I certainly wouldn't respond on vacation, and wouldn't respond to backstabbing commentary at all. If you acknowledge backstabbing commentary, you've confirmed it. Man, I understand why people tell me not to respond, but I still think this is BS. How is responding to backstabbing commenting bad? If she's selling lies and I don't say shit about it, what the f…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:47 AM
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UPDATE: I did something about it. I settle the record straight with a couple of the women closest to her, showing them the other half of the conversation AND old messages about similar crap. And they basically confirmed to me they were already ignoring her anyway, so things are settled.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:39 AM
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now you have written proof of engaging her shit. Why didnt you use corporate email account instead of text? Company pay for your phone? First of all, these were messages on the company chat software, not on my phone. Second, I have written proof that she complains about the fact she was working while I was on holidays AND that she thought that was unfair: ...considering I was here at work while you were on holidays too busy to do the assignment. It's not about the activity, it's about the fact I…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:37 AM
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I meant I don't wanna fuck her, ie, I don't care about a "secret attraction", I don't know where that came from...
/r/askTRP27/04/17 06:19 AM
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If your coworkers see you acting upset or giving into the gossip then they'll assume what she said was true. For crying out loud, she posted 1 message from a 4 mess convo, that's a fucking like... Let's say she calls me a son of a bitch, and I replay "screw off and stop whining", and then she re-posts "screw off and stop whining", that's a fucking lie, why can't you see that? The metric to judge this battle is who is the better employee, because that's what your boss thinks and that's what your …
/r/askTRP27/04/17 06:18 AM
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Work hard, ignore her, ignore her bs cunt drama, let her badmouth you all she wants, people will see through it. If they dont, have a backup plan. But what if I can make sure that... "people see through it" faster? Why can't I accelerate this, if I manage to make it look right?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:18 AM
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Seriously? Who cares, I don't like her, she's just a girl like any other...
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:15 AM
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Technically, it was, of course, an attack, but the attack was in the delivery, not the content. Come on man, she wrote "...considering I was here at work while you were on holidays too busy to do the assignment." That's a fucked up attack on the fact I had a day off and she had to do that task... Her attack was the passive-aggressive insinuation that a good teammate would have helped her on his vacation, without actually saying so. I know this, that's why I told her "contact me if it's an emerge…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:14 AM
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I still think the majority of you guys are ignoring the underlying problem, and think it's just ok for someone to behave like this at work (no offense to any of you, this is just my opinion). I still can't settle with that. I'm sorry, but I get it, AWALT, that doesn't justify her in this case, that's just my opinion.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:07 AM
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Meaning I should just take in all the bashing to my reputation and keep my head down?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:53 AM
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If they don't, you need to threaten to sue them for hostile work environment. Isn't that a little too much?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:53 AM
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ME: hang yourself Not that I disagree, but this would have had an even worse effect, I guess :)
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:51 AM
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I know, and when I didn't respond (because I actually couldn't), she insisted and told me "Don't ignore me just because you are on vacation" or a similar crap. And later, I found out she told this to another coworker... "I can't finish the work because HE is not answering my texts"... Even by not answering = she had enough ammo to attack me...
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:50 AM
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You may want to let it lie. Otherwise, just go to your boss, explain the situation and just say some version, "Under the circumstances (i.e. someone smearing you) you wanted him to hear it from you, but you aren't interested in pursuing any disciplinary action." Ok, I'll do this, but unfortunately, I can't do it with my boss or she'll be in serious trouble and the blow back on be won't be worth it. You should also be cultivating allies. With both of my "Lazy Ho" situations, the Mother Hens (who …
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:46 AM
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No, this is what happened: she asked me for help, I couldn't answer right away, she insisted telling me "I shouldn't ignore her because I'm at work", and she even told this to another coworker in the office, ie, "/u/alysk3 isn't answering to me..." Then I helped her, and when I came back in, I told her to not do that again, and that sent her on a rage... And this was before that damn convo between us... See? No matter what I did, she would still spin it against me and that pisses me off...
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:43 AM
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As for this entire post, and every comment on it, you know the answer. Everyone is telling you the same thing and you keep attacking back. Literally no one besides her and you care that this happened. It should have only ever been her that cared. Yes, I care about being painted as a bad employee by an angry bitch. Yes, I get it that this girl is not the first one acting like this in the world, but it IS the first one in my office, and that pisses me off. Why can't she act professional like the o…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:41 AM
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If you STFU and let her run her fat lazy whining mouth, and she will, people will see her for what she really is. If you go into a pissing match you look like a incompetent bitch that had to make him self look better. What if I don't go into a pissing match and all I do is point out, to the right people, how pretentious and unprofessional she is, feigning awkwardness at the fact she is, for some reason, telling lies behind my back?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:39 AM
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You shouldn't have lashed out at all. Just should've been like "I'd love to help but I'm on vacation right now, ask jerry he knows what to do". Which is what I did, in a sense. I helped her while I was away, and I told her to don't do it again when I came back in, and that through her on a rage, and this was before the damn convo...
/r/askTRP27/04/17 04:38 AM
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What I dont get is why I cant set the record straight given I have the full convo... whats so bad about calling her out on her lying pussy?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 10:15 PM
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You don't have to do any fighting though, just ignore it and it'll go away as others have told you. Get rid of this "beta rage" and remain stoic. I still have to realize why telling a bitch you work with to stop screwing around is beta, but I guess that's on me...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:58 PM
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There are some conversations you must not engage with, because if you do, they will draw you into their insanity; this has become one of them. You are kidding right? a woman telling you, at work, how you treating her unfairly and making her work is something you should avoid? man, go get a job...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:56 PM
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Ok, now you are just being dense. do you even work? Let me tell you something: having someone at work trying to fuck with you by turning others against you is not normal, say what you want, but if I told the same manager of the shit she said about HIM? I'm pretty sure, knowing him, that she'll be in trouble... Stop acting like a tough guy...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:53 PM
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Honestly? Because this already happened once to me, in the past. This time, it was a guy, and he would not let it go, and he made every attempt to make others look at me like a clown. It took me months to shut his shit down. That's why I'm worried, that's why I'm cautious about being passive, I already saw what passiveness in situations like this bring and I don't like it one bit... Granted, maybe things are not the same. The asshole used to provoke me to my face, while this bitch is doing every…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:50 PM
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Ok, but she was already telling them "I got offended" just because I told her to knock off the messages when I was at home and similar. The convo came later. I didn't react badly, I just told her to knock it off and only contact me in case of emergencies, and that was enough to send her on a rage, what kind of mistake did I make here? Should I have shut my mouth and said nothing?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:47 PM
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I agree. In the past, I let similar stuff go by. In that case, it was a guy saying shit like this. Bottom line? He managed to make me look like a clown, and it took me months to shut that shit down... This is why I'm worried, I've already experienced what passiveness brings to situations like this...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:45 PM
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She sounds like The Lazy Ho'". Yes, she seems to have many of those traits. However, I'm the one with the boss wrapped around my finger, not her. All she has is her "social structure" and an "orbiter coworker", nothing more. Now she's forwarding around bits of your conversation to throw you in a bad light. What you should do now is damage control Finally someone who sees the problem the way I see it! It looks like guys here either never had a job or have no idea what they are talking about... I …
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:44 PM
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Ok, I hget, I'll think about it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:35 PM
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Then I really have to work on my ego. What ticks me is other poeple treating me differently because of her fucking puss...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:34 PM
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Whatever, I still wont let her ruin my reputstion, if unthink that's hamstering, I cant help u with that, lets agee to disagree
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:31 PM
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Becuase I'm surrounded by these people and I'm very good at my job and the last thing I want are these stupid comments making my life difficult, ie, "he's hard to work with", "he's a child, dont tske him seriously", "boss, u are wrong, look how he acts", etc. This girl, is tead of focusing on work, focused on social crap AND blew off when I told her to focus on work...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:27 PM
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Every time I wasnt engaging her she was hitting from behind, I dont aee how that's helpful. Telling her not to bother me at home isnt standing my ground? Really?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:23 PM
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Bad reputation at = problems at work/difficult career advancement/etc. are u seriously telling me that this can have no negative impact on me?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:20 PM
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I get it. I'm of the idea that giving some fucks for the important things is acceptable, and in this case, I give a few fucks about work. I'll see if I can set the record straight with a couple of people (professionally) and the cut it. I womt gossip, but I cant let her do this...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:18 PM
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I'm not hamstering, I realized I made a mistake when I kept confronting her and put my ego in the middle, I get that, I realize I was wrong. My issue is simply related to my reputation and her shitty attitude at work. Why should I have to suffe just because I wont suck up to her? And why do I have to let her step all over me behind my back by telling lies where I work when ai can easily make her look like an idiot by telling the truth to the right people?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:16 PM
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This is work, if she tries to turn people against me, it will bother me, why is that wrong?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:07 PM
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Esactly, I know she's going at me strong, that's why I want her to stop. And I'm kind of pissed anout people telling me I have no frame, my frame here is clear: I do my job and you do urs, don't piss me off nor try to use me. And I acted according to that. So... why should I let this go and let her stump me?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:06 PM
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Ok. What about the others? Let's say I talk to my PM and say to her: "hey look at what she said, just keep her away from me as she's unprofessional and doesnt seem to hsve a handle on work"
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:04 PM
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But does it seem normal to be badmouthed behind ur back while at work? If I have the freaking proof that she is doing it on purpose, why not use it? I'm there to work, not play stupid games...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:01 PM
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Well, I was describing the type of girl she is. We exchsnges number to stay in touch, not to do her work for her when needed.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:57 PM
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I agree, my ego sucks here. But what about my reputation? Should I just let her walk all over it?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:55 PM
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If I went to him, she would be in deep shit. He likes me AND trusts me implicitly, which is why he will overreact, I just cant do that to her, too much blowback.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:54 PM
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I agree I can't change it, but like in politics, isn't letting the other party badmouth u and ruin ur reputation unwise? This is all I care at the moment, my reputation. She's new, and off the hat is trying to sunk me for no reason... shouldn't I press the right button to shut this down?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:50 PM
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No no, I get that I made a mistake, it was all ego and trying to get her off my back. But I'm trying to figure out is how to shut her up given we are at work
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:45 PM
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Well, she broke it off when I basically kept cutting her down. And now I have written messages that say what a whinny bitch she is about work... Now, do you agree or not about the fact she acted like a child?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:24 PM
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I dunno, a couple of those women told her she was right and I was acting like a child... the same thing her beta coworker orbiter said to her... Honestly, the reason I answered to her texts was because I wanted to put in writing the real reason she was pissed (she had to work while others where off, she was working jn a project she didnt like, etc). Now I have written proof of what an immature child she is and can use it. The question is: when and where? I was considering informing my manager an…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:18 PM
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Yes, I realized I should have not replied, that's why I decided to tell her later on to dont do it again, and she took that and used it against me by saying "I got offended"... I can keep her away, professionally, but I dont want her backstabbing me like she's doing now...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:14 PM
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Ok, I get ur point. I was upset, I didnt show it, but I cut her down enough that she probably noticed it. However, why is me being upset or angry enough to make me lose? I'm not trying to sleep with her, I was just srtting the record straigt and setting some boundaries. Why is it justifiable for her to escalate and sunk my by attakcing my reputation? I could go to work tomorrow and flip it all out bi dishing the same amount of crap about her and I can assure it'll be way more effective that what…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:12 PM
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Ok, I should have stopped. But what about the fact she started messing with me before that? What about all the stuff she said about me out of context?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:07 PM
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I didnt give her criticism becuas I thought she'd like it, I did it becuase I kept my mouth shut for a while now and I wanted to set boundaries. I get it, she uses her social structure to support her childish fucked up reaction, but what if I use my own structure to support me (boss, manager etc)? One more thing: a couole of girls replied to her that she was right and I was being childish... doesnt this mean I got a hit?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:04 PM
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But what exactly is "ammo" for her, in this context? I replied to her because she was already messing with me AND nobody ever told her to cut the crap. What if I settled the record straight showing the full convo to key people, showing how childish and unprofessional she is?
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:01 PM
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0 reason to directly acknowledge anything she messaged you - you entered her frame by doing this. In what way did I acknowledge her? She was venting off and told her to cut it. Frame or not frame, we are at work, I can't just "stop talking" to the first true bitch that comes around. besides, I have the full conversation...
/r/askTRP26/04/17 07:37 PM
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