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this was my experience too - being a virgin past a certain age was a red flag, and I rarely heard of guys asking about n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 12:02 AM
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oh yeah, my non-Greek friends didn't care either, I guess it's more of a sorority rival thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:56 PM
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yep, the majority of nicknames for other sororities were based on sluttiness/STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:31 PM
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Welcome back, and congrats!
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 02:38 AM
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Congrats!
/r/RedPillWives27/01/17 08:09 PM
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Yay!!! BABIES! What is your due date?
/r/RedPillWives26/01/17 06:31 PM
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Yes we watched it a few months ago! It's crazy how much I sympathized with him despite all the horrible things he did. I especially loved how they portrayed his relationship with his wife.
/r/RedPillWives25/01/17 07:10 PM
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Yes I agree with this so much! The Sopranos is another good example of this. I also am thinking that some hypermasculine men have a sort of thrill threshold and would be bored by legitimate careers (like Marlo in the Wire).
/r/RedPillWives25/01/17 06:33 PM
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Thank you! I'll have to try the beer tip!
/r/RedPillWives24/01/17 07:37 PM
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Ooh thank you! My SO loves carrot cake!
/r/RedPillWives24/01/17 07:36 PM
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I want to experiment more with baking treats, does anyone have any great recipes for cookies, brownies, or anything else that's great for sending to work?
/r/RedPillWives20/01/17 10:54 PM
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What a great idea for rebuilding after a fire!
/r/RedPillWives20/01/17 10:53 PM
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OMG babies!!
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 07:45 PM
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We are 5 years apart - an age gap like that isn't really scandalous or dramatic. If you want to get married and have kids in your early/mid 20s, it just makes sense to go for guys a little older. Most guys in their mid 20s aren't really looking for that level of commitment yet. I don't really see many physical differences between an early versus late 20s guy either! I think aiming for 25-30 is a great idea for you.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 07:44 PM
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Am I interpreting this correctly, are you pregnant?
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 07:28 PM
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So sorry about your mom! No one in my family has had cancer, so I can't relate from a caregiver's stance, but I had cancer and went through chemotherapy. I'm pretty sure stage 1 breast cancer is usually localized to just the breast tissue - which mean it's usually removed with surgery, sometimes radiation, and chemo usually isn't necessary. Either way, the 5 year survival rate is close to 100%.. so breath and relax! I didn't work while I was treated, so it was a bit easier on me as far as managi…
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 02:54 AM
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get married and buy a house (both happening this year) start a family, one or two kids by 30 a lot of travel related things, too long to list out sky dive, swim with sharks, zip lining have a garden with fruit trees in the backyard be fluent in French hold a leadership position within my volunteer org
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 08:01 PM
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Someone linked an article here a while back about making your 20s important, and I think this is all related. People see their 20s as an extended version of childhood, but without all the rules, because there is less pressure to grow up quicker nowadays. It almost becomes a contest of who doesn't need to start "adulting" the quickest, it's so sad.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 11:56 PM
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Really not a fan of all the 90s fashions (we gave up on then for a reason!) being a trend. Chokers, color palates that are so boring, and tom boy dressing. Same!! I keep seeing stuff that stopped being cool when I was about 13 - turtlenecks, overalls, denim mini skirts, loose / embroidered jeans.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 11:54 PM
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I'm grateful for: SO's hugs (they're really the best) our real estate agent, who is hilarious and honest, the fact that we somehow still have sweets left over from the holidays!
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 05:11 AM
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I know a couple IRL who own a personal training business together, they are amazing. I bet he could take more clients if you could handle book keeping, scheduling, payments, advertising, meal plans, etc. Maybe you could get certified and both be trainers!
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 05:04 AM
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Yeah I definitely think it's about being self conscious, I have a few friends like that.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 04:57 AM
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Ughh I used a bath bomb that had glitter inside it, worst surprise ever! I was scrubbing the bath forever and I swear I'm still finding flecks on me/towels.
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 10:01 PM
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I really hate rompers! I'm always so disappointed when I'm shopping and I think I see a cute dress - but nooope it's a romper!
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 08:54 PM
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What makes you turned off, is it something specific?
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 09:53 PM
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I got 7, and I'm not surprised. My family isn't all American though, which probably also affected my results.
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 09:52 PM
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Having a hard time keeping my kitchen clean. I need to do a big re-org and purge, I think - the challenge is finding/making time. If anyone has links to a kitchen-purge guide, let me know! This is hard for me too, but I think the thing that has made the biggest difference is getting stuff off the counters! I moved most stuff (even appliances we don't use too often) into cabinets and drawers, it looks so much neater and it's so much faster to clean the counters without all the crap.
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 03:45 AM
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I'm super late to this! But I just wanted to agree with a lot of the sentiments expressed here. I think emotional affairs and physical affairs are cheating. Porn, noticing an attractive woman, a flirty comment, are not cheating. I would definitely be quicker to forgive/get over a drunken one night stand or a visit with an escort over my man falling in love, sharing deep thoughts, etc, with another woman. To me, the emotional connection between us is more intimate. I would be insecure forever if …
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 03:41 AM
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Graduating without tons of debt is one of the best things my parents have ever done for me!
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 03:35 AM
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People only post their best on social media. A woman may post her prettiest crafts, nicest looking recipes, and only the most flattering photos. Plus, with filters and photoshop, it's easy to make things look even more appealing. On one hand, I think people can reaching for an impossible standard. But, it's also really easy to find examples of goals to reach. You just type #anything and thousands of images appear. As far as porn goes - I think the biggest effect it's had is normalizing at lot of…
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 11:38 PM
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I was SO excited to hand out candy this year and check out the cute little pumpkin babies!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:43 PM
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I told my fiance I'm so excited to dress up our (future) babies in cute costumes for Halloween. He doesn't think it's as cute as I do hahaha
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:27 PM
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abobo OMG dying
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 08:26 PM
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Wow, why did I never think of that?
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:58 PM
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Okay yeah that's a little too much haha I just like when Ree's funny little comments about her nails or her new bowls!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 07:11 PM
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Congrats! As time passes, you'll think about cancer less and less. Eventually you'll go entire days without thinking about it. So happy for your daughter and your family!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:59 PM
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I love the Pioneer Woman! My fiance always loves her recipes, they tend to be hearty and man friendly. I know some people hate when recipes have a lot of fluff like a blog, but I think she's hilarious too haha.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:58 PM
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I agree with your first point so much. Thank you for putting my thoughts into coherent words!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:51 PM
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Privileged white males are yum. After this whole election fiasco I've started endearingly referring to R as my privileged white male scum. Hahaha
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:49 PM
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I'm also prochoice - which I guess it not an unpopular opinion in general, but maybe it is in RP. I don't like abortion, but I think it's necessary for many many reasons.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:47 PM
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But to a certain extent, I'm glad there are childfree people in the world - I don't want them having kids, either. This is my thought too!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:44 PM
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Agree about the introverts so much! Honestly I think a lot of these "introverts" are just normal people with intense social anxiety hiding behind a trendy term.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/16 06:43 PM
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I was the first granddaughter on both sides of the family, she's going to be so spoiled! Congrats, so exciting!! :)
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 12:37 AM
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Katherine and Ava are two of my favorites - I've never heard Emeline but I love it too!
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 07:44 PM
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Tripping and having forks or fence posts or similar going into my eyes. Yup, you're all welcome for that one. Are you me? I'm so scared of this hahah
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 07:42 PM
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Cancer, I had cancer and it was treated and is gone, but I have a fear of it returning or others developing it. Me too - I still have nightmares about hair falling out, and I have so much anxiety about PET scans and future fertility. It's something I never thought would happen to me and now I'm terrified of it happening to someone I love too.
/r/RedPillWives26/10/16 07:40 PM
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Definitely agree with this! I have a very responsive sex drive, and I'm sure many other women do as well! This definitely has a lot to do with it - I mostly get turned on knowing he is turned on by me. I remember reading something about sexy female characters in movies - both men and women are turned on by her for different reasons. Men think about how attractive the woman is, whereas woman fantasize about literally being the woman who is desirable.
/r/RedPillWives17/10/16 09:35 PM
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First of what "this life" are you talking about? Second, I think you need to be a bit more honest with us about your history. There is a lot in your post history that explains what is going on here! I quote you "He felt that I always need him to take care of me, and I'm always whining for attention. I asked how he felt about just sometimes being in that dynamic, and he doesn't like it." https://www.reddit.com/r/littlespace/comments/4e3xle/daddy_doesnt_want_to_be_a_daddy_anymore/ It sounds like y…
/r/RedPillWives15/10/16 11:02 PM
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I can't think of specific examples, but I'm sure I've done this in the past! I think the key phrase is "get him" - if it's done in an effort to change his behavior, it's topping from the bottom.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:59 PM
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I find that focusing on the logistics of our day-to-day functioning leaves space for my partner to a) focus on bigger-term plans and dealing with actual problems as they arise, instead of constantly putting out small-scale fires, and b) makes the overall tone much more peaceful. Isn't this so true? Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:51 PM
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Hope your friend is okay!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:48 PM
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We are pretty simple! He likes to eat his favorite meals most nights, so I'll try a new recipe about once a week. I have a google docs list of recipes we like, so I'll add it there if we both love it! I don't stick to a strict meal plan, but I try to make his absolute favorites weekly. I'll set the table and make him a plate.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 05:41 PM
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Your captions are as good as the links hahaha thank you!
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 01:13 AM
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A big part about swallowing the red pill for me was realizing maybe you can't have it all! There are only so many hours in the week, and you have to choose your priorities accordingly.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 12:57 AM
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being overly ‘nice’ and agreeable STILL sends this subconscious message to people: I don’t have too many options at my door I definitely agree with this! I think of dynamics in a bar setting - a girl who is a bit more playful, a tease, will always get more attention than a nice, pushover type girl.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 09:52 PM
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Definitely! I blush really easily, and I used to be embarrassed by it, but I totally see the attraction now. It's a sort of demureness that can't be faked.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 09:39 PM
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I am so grateful for my fiance's sense of adventure. I love talking about new restaurants we want to try, the trips we are going to take, day trips, etc. He's such a great partner in many ways, but he makes life fun too. I went wedding dress shopping with my mom and grandma last week, and it was so fun. I'm so lucky to have such amazing women in my family and life! My mom is even using pinterest to help me with ideas, and my grandma found the bride emoji on her iphone haha. And some something si…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 11:06 PM
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Yay welcome to the sub!
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 10:38 PM
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hahaha this is exactly what I was picturing!
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 09:26 PM
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Good: I've been so busy lately - in a good way! I've been volunteering and seeing friends, and working on some decorating around the house. We're also planning our wedding for next year, and I'm just now starting to get the ball rolling for save the dates, a dress, etc. Lots to do but so exciting! Bad/ugly: I've been having some insecurity issues lately. My SO sometimes comments when girls are hot on TV shows and I get upset haha. I know he doesn't mean any harm so I really need to stop letting …
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 09:25 PM
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Welcome all new people! <3 edit: I got flair!! weeee
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 09:21 PM
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I definitely agree with this! Generally I think people should strive to make their partner's life better overall, the specifics are up to each individual relationship.
/r/RedPillWives03/10/16 09:20 PM
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Definitely not hahah that ring would be enormous! I can't imagine that's practical for any salary though.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 06:26 PM
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Average first marriage ages are 27 and 30 in the US!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 06:51 AM
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Call me a cynic, but I think if a woman’s had a cancer serious enough to warrant chemotherapy I’m not sure her capacity to conceive a child is really her most important concern. So I am actually a cancer survivor who did fertility treatments (I froze eggs and took drugs during chemo to protect my ovaries). It’s absolutely something doctors take very seriously, especially because lots of cancers that are serious enough to be treated with chemo still have cure rates above 90%. I am very glad that …
/r/RedPillWives17/09/16 07:16 PM
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Yes! When I used to dye my hair, I would always do a tinted gloss. It was just a subtle color, but it added so much shine and visible softness.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 11:57 PM
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feminists ruined it for us!
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 11:56 PM
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The shortest way of summarizing the position is to say that woman stands for the idea of Sanity; that intellectual home to which the mind must return after every excursion on extravagance. The mind that finds its way to wild places is the poet's; but the mind that never finds its way back is the lunatic's. I love this! Women were not kept at home in order to keep them narrow; on the contrary, they were kept at home in order to keep them broad. I definitely agree with this essay! As a homemaker, …
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 07:26 PM
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When I was first learning to cook I made the same mistake with garlic! I realized something was wrong when I was spending so much time chopping garlic and the recipe only said a few minutes prep was necessary hahaha.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 07:11 PM
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Absolutely! I generally only say a quick word about goals that he cares about - like that I am planning to work out daily. That makes sense! I managed my own projects in my past job but I had to break them down similarly.
/r/RedPillWives18/08/16 07:08 PM
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Yes I was always so sad when I first starting cooking and he pointed out things he didn't like, but now I know his tastes so much better and learned from those early mistakes! If he didn't tel me I'd still be serving him mediocre stuff.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:28 PM
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I have seen this quote on way too many Facebook/Instagram posts and decorations ugh.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 07:26 PM
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The best way for me to stay accountable is to tell my SO about my goals! He will always check up on things I am supposed to be doing, and I never want to disappoint him. That being said, sometimes I have a tendency to have too many goals/ideas at one time - then I get overwhelmed and just don't do any of it haha. The best thing for me lately is to break things up so I have just a few small things to accomplish per day. So instead of "organize the house!" one day will be reorganizing the tupperwa…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:59 PM
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When I was learning I liked watching video tutorials too. Keep practicing! You'll get better :)
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:53 PM
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Sometimes I sort by controversial to get real crazy haha! Also /r/weddingplanning has some good family/bridezilla drama.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:48 PM
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And for a more NSFW line, I've always heard "balls empty, belly full" haha!
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:46 PM
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This was totally my thought too!
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:44 PM
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Yes I definitely agree! I have no drama in my personal life, but I like hearing about other people's. I like to read r/relationships for good stuff!
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:43 PM
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Thank you for all your work, and congratulations again on the baby :)
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 03:51 AM
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When I cook, I always give him the better/prettier portion (on top of him having a bigger portion!) He gets the perfectly round pancakes, preferable pieces of meat, etc. It's probably not something he notices often!
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 08:46 AM
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Daytrip drives to National Parks, or cool/weird places. We bought a book called "Oddball Colorado" and we'll flip through, pick one, and go. We've found a ton of cool stuff this way. We love doing day trips around our state! It's so fun.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 06:39 PM
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My first MSG arrived this morning from Amazon! So excited to try it out!
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 06:36 PM
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Yay so much exciting stuff! Feel so proud that something I suggested got picked <3
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 03:41 AM
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Yes exactly! My Barbies had a million careers too! It's all just a fantasy. I had an American Girl doll too! I wonder where she is haha
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 11:07 PM
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All is good with me now! But your story is another reminder to have regular dermatologist check ups! Mine measures freckles so she can check if they are growing over time.
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 11:06 PM
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Thank you for this! I played with Barbies and other dolls as a girl, and I don't think I even paid attention to her proportions. I honestly never even thought about it until I started seeing stuff in the media about it!
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 06:34 PM
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I had a lump last year (not on the breast though) - my SO encouraged me to go get it checked out just in case. Unfortunately for me, it wasn't benign - but it was early stage since I didn't wait too long. It's so important to get these things looked at early! It could save your life.
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 06:31 PM
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It really doesn't take that long to do a minimal amount of grooming! I don't wear much make-up, if any, but I put lots of extra effort into hair and skincare. Most days I wear a sundress and sandals, which is so effortless, but it makes me look so much more feminine and put together. In undergrad I lived in sorority tees and shorts but we weren't allowed to wear them on campus if we didn't have hair and make-up done haha.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 07:12 PM
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I don't cry in public or professional situations, but definitely a lot when I have a lot of feelings (positive or negative) around my SO. He makes me feel safe and I know it's okay to be sensitive around him. He does call me silly for it sometimes, but I know he thinks it's cute too in a way haha, especially when I cry because I'm being sappy.
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 06:14 PM
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Welcome back!
/r/RedPillWives21/07/16 04:55 AM
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Eating well and drinking lots of water is the best! My dermatologist always told me to try to narrow down the number of products I use too.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 06:50 PM
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Morning: -Wash face with water -Mizon snail repair eyecream -Ole Henriksen Vitamin C serum -Sunscreen (usually Ole Henriksen Night: -If I'm wearing make-up, I use ponds cream to remove eye stuff and Dermalogica Microexfoliant for face stuff (I rarely wear any though) -Neutrogena salicylic acid cleansing pad -Mizon snail repair eye cream -Either cetaphil moisturizer in the tub or Peter Thomas Roth glycolic acid moisturizer A few times a week I do a face mask too!
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 05:24 PM
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I think you need to have a really direct conversation with him about this. Unless he is depressed, he must understand that you can't just accumulate debt forever. I would tell him you aren't comfortable quitting your job until either the budget is cut enough to get by or until he is able to contribute.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 11:58 PM
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Have you talked to your husband about this? You could tell him you'd love to quit your second job to spend more time with him and the kids and take better care of the house, but you are concerned about your budget, and see if he has a solution. If you are taking care of the finances or if you guys haven't worked out a budget plan, maybe he honestly doesn't realize what the situation is. 100 hours a week may work temporarily, but it's not sustainable. In the long run, your health and happiness wi…
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 11:45 PM
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When I worked in a restaurant, the food sent back right away usually ended up getting eaten by staff haha.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 10:28 PM
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Haha this is so true! Reminds me this http://imgur.com/gallery/NuhsgPV
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 10:24 PM
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I love to cook! I cook for myself, for my friends, for my family, and for my fiance. It's just a way to show my love and appreciation for people. I can't believe people are reading so far into this! Plus, anyone can pour themselves a bowl of their favorite cereal, but it takes a bit more skill to prepare a meal while considering someone else's tastes and preferences.
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 10:22 PM
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So I haven't read the books, but I saw the EPL movie, so I'm familiar with the general story. I spent a few months traveling in Asia, and I saw this happen over and over again. I met so many people who found their "soulmate" while traveling. I don't think any of these relationships lasted long once returning home. Of course the relationship is exciting and passionate when you're riding a slowboat down the Mekong and exploring ancient temples together! But then they go home and their relationship…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 11:11 PM
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I had no idea about protein/moisture balance - I may be needing more proteins, thank you for the suggestion!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 02:24 AM
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A few years ago I stopped using sulfates and washing my hair everyday and my hair grew quickly! Another thing I avoid is washing my hair in hot water! I actually like rinsing in cool water right before getting out of the shower. I also don't do tight ponytails to avoid straining and breakage. I now keep my hair at waist length but I'm working on making it softer and thicker. I've probably tried a million different products but I love 3 Minute Miracle Moist, Redken All Soft products, Macadamia Na…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/16 12:03 AM
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Reminds me of this sweet lady! http://www.boredpanda.com/dresses-for-children-in-need-lillian-weber/
/r/RedPillWives05/07/16 06:25 PM
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Great post! I definitely agree with the first and second points about staying in small, girl only groups. When my friends went to bars we never wanted our guy friends to come with us because then other guys would never flirt with us! And if I was out with one or two other friends, we'd get talked to a lot more than if we were half the pledge class haha - especially because then pairs/trios of guys could mingle with us as a group. Most of my experience is bars but I could see this being true for …
/r/RedPillWives02/07/16 07:48 PM
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Aww that is so sweet!
/r/RedPillWives02/07/16 07:44 PM
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I live in the SW and we have turquoise shops everywhere, it's so pretty!
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 06:24 PM
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I don't know anyone who has gone into debt over the ring or wedding, so that probably influences my opinion. I would definitely agree that it isn't worth debt!
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 06:15 PM
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I asked my fiance about this and he said "I don't think the feminists thought that far" haha!
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:19 AM
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Cool, I didn't know that! So I guess it isn't just my opinion then :)
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 02:18 AM
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Yeah I saw it! I think we have similar taste although I'd still say you have a higher dominance threshold than me (and most women)! Ramsay is hot but too scary for me haha.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 11:06 PM
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Thank you, and yes I'm so excited to hear that!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 11:04 PM
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Yes! I'm so excited to take my fiance's name and be the ___ family together.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 10:44 PM
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I agree that men are happy with a purpose, but it doesn't have to be work necessarily! My grandpa volunteers in a museum dedicated to something he is passionate about, and he fills the rest of his time with his lifelong hobbies. When my dad retires, he has a similar plan. It's much more exciting than bingo and watching golf, haha!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 09:28 PM
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I agree! I think it can work, but having shared traditions and culture is really important.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 09:08 PM
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I love this post! I definitely see my SO as the Magician primarily, and also the Lover and Addicted Lover in his past haha. I can also see how he uses the different archetypes for different situations. Personality traits can sometimes be misleading. Not all alphas are extroverted, cocky - funny players, nor are they always explicitly leading others. Betas are also not all dorky losers who are inept with women. Yes! My SO is outgoing, but he's an introvert. He's not the typical TRP Chad stereotyp…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:58 PM
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-in some way or another, we all sell our bodies for resources, attention or security, heterosexual women are born whores -men being "RP masculine" is annoying unless they have proven their rank first, I get angry at the most RP men I meet until they prove they have something to back it up Totally agree with these!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:56 PM
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Fat people should have to pay more for medical insurance based on how overweight they are. They're going to end up costing more, and it isn't fair that everyone else has to pay for it. There are more highly intelligent men than women. Verbally asking for consent is silly and a huge turn off. I really dislike the idea that crazy make-up trends are for you/other women. Why wouldn't you want to look good for men/your man? I think ethnically homogenous nations do better overall. Women should never b…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:24 PM
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2 - girls that cut off their hair right after the wedding. I've noticed this lately, it's so weird! Long hair is so pretty!
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 08:06 PM
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I love /r/relationships for my daily dose of drama, haha! I don't think it's abusive if a man doesn't want his girl to travel with a certain person. Even if he trusts her, he may not trust the other party in question. I see it more as being protective than anything, and I think it's disrespectful to even consider visiting an ex!
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 06:38 PM
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Yes! We created a packing checklist actually - it'll be so helpful!
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 06:31 PM
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We went to a wedding out of state this weekend and had a really nice time! We liked/disliked the same things about the wedding, which is nice because we're planning ours at the moment. He met a lot of my old friends, and it was just a nice little trip for us. Buuut I forgot to pack an important medication for my fiance! He was upset I didn't double check for it, said we may have to go home early, I cried, it was bad. But, I ended up calling the doctor who called in the rx to a local pharmacy - s…
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 02:43 AM
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This is interesting! I've been called a tease a lot and didn't think there was a difference between that and attention whoring, lol. I like the perspective that it's different! I definitely went to bars and parties and wanted attention from men. But I did engage with them one on one still - I enjoyed flirting with men and the push/pull dynamic, not just the ego feeding.
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 02:33 AM
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Interesting post! I definitely prefer to cook. I can easily spent hours in the kitchen, and I read tons of cooking blogs and tips everyday. It's fun for me, whereas cleaning is definitely a chore and something I have to force myself to do. I would say my father's side would lean more toward cleaners, and my mom's more toward cookers. The cleaners (and that culture in general) are more reserved socially and concerned with efficiency and simplicity. The cookers/my mom's culture are more social, de…
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 02:29 AM
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Jimmy Tatro, what a throwback haha! This video is so funny and true.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 10:23 PM
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I got 3.17 for hostile and 2.83 for benevolent!
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 10:20 PM
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Aww congrats <3 I love when men talk to the parents first!
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 07:24 PM
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Needs (he fits all of these): -wants to get married and have kids -masculine and physically attractive to me -sexually compatible with me -is liked by my family I had a lot of wants, and my fiance fits them too. Some of these are enjoying travel, being taller than me, owning guns, not being religious, being fiscally responsible enough to not be homeless, and high intelligence.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 03:07 AM
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This is perpetuated so much when people say things like "it will come when you least expect it!"
/r/RedPillWives17/06/16 02:59 AM
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Oh no! Usually rough weeks happen right before good weeks, so hopefully amazing stuff will happen soon!
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 10:49 PM
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That happened to me too! I had club dues, a large dental bill, a random old doctor's bill, and my laptop needed repairs all in the same week. Why does the universe do this??
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:09 PM
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Yes I saw this in your comment and thought it was so cute!
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:07 PM
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The person who is best suited to us is not the person who shares our every taste (he or she doesn’t exist), but the person who can negotiate differences in taste intelligently — the person who is good at disagreement. I love this!
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:05 PM
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My fiance decided we needed to eat less junk (which I agree with!). I had just had a round of surgeries, and my family kept giving us chocolate and mailing us candy, so one day he opened the cabinet and starting throwing everything out. I was tired and on meds and started crying, even though I agreed with him! I felt totally crazy and he still teases me about it haha.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:03 PM
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I don't think the pill has affected my behavior. I feel less crazy and hormonal on it than off of it! My sex drive, weight, etc are also unaffected. I've been on Ortho Tri Cyclen, and now I take Ortho Cyclen.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 09:01 PM
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I just joined the new member class for the 2016-2017 year! So far it seems really good. The girls I've met so far are really nice, involved in the community, and well put together. There are a lot of smaller groups within it like book clubs, work out groups, etc. It could end up being a large time commitment, but most of the events are evenings and weekends.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 08:02 PM
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I'm introverted, but I've always enjoyed having a fairly active social life. In university, I was in a sorority, and I'm still friends with a lot of those girls. I just joined my city's junior league, and I think that will be really fun too! When I see friends it's usually for lunch, shopping, a movie, stuff like that. I have a few friends from university/high school who now live in other cities, so we try to talk on the phone or skype regularly too. My fiance and I don't have friends in common …
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 07:12 PM
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Thank you! Can't believe I've been on RPW for a year!
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 10:33 PM
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I don't think the age gap itself is necessarily a bad thing, but: We share a love for something sex related and we've openly discussed it. We actually met because of this certain thing. What do you mean by this - how did you meet?
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 10:22 PM
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I love Amelie and Cruel Intentions! Dear Zachary is so sad! Don't watch without tissues handy.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 09:49 PM
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I totally let my hamster take over when it comes to justifying desserts hahah, I really need to stop that!
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 09:46 PM
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I haven't bought anything yet, but I've been browsing Amazon, and they have some cute things! Not sure of the quality, but the reviews should be helpful for that.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 09:44 PM
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I agree with this so much! I used to use a million different face washes, creams, and treatments every day. Now I use just a few things and only wash with warm water if I'm not wearing make-up, and my skin looks so good!
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 09:43 PM
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I love those colors!
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 09:30 PM
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I am planning a wedding - he definitely cares about food, the costs, and the bigger stuff! But, he would hate it if I was constantly asking for advice about flower arrangements, or if he prefers teal, aqua, or turquoise, haha. Don't take over the entire wedding and ignore his desires but if he delegates something to you, don't keep bothering him with it.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 09:22 PM
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Yeah I don't like no fault divorce. I guess I was trying to say that men on a societal level shouldn't put up with this stuff, and women should have to deal with consequences - but the government shouldn't be the one to mandate it.
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 04:02 AM
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I see the point he is making - but I don't think this is something that should be regulated by the government. A man can already tell his wife/daughter to be home at a reasonable hour, not get drunk, etc, and she can follow his guidelines for her behavior. I do think women might behave better if there weren't social programs in place and many men willing to tolerate her bad judgements!
/r/RedPillWives31/05/16 10:59 PM
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I got that one too!
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 08:01 PM
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When I was proposed to, I was so excited that I barely looked at the ring even though it's so beautiful. Being asked to spend the rest of your life with the man you love is so awesome - the setting of the proposal and the ring don't matter in comparison.
/r/RedPillWives01/05/16 12:28 AM
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Has a way to help been set up at all? I think Amazon wishlists are fairly anonymous. If she sets one up and shares the link, I think people can buy items off of it and it'll ship directly to the address she provides. Of course, who knows how much mail delivery is going on right now!
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 03:09 AM
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Sending good thoughts, and I hope anyone affected is safe! <3
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 05:20 AM
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I spent my last moments scrambling to clean his apartment and leave it perfect while he filled my gas tank. This is so sweet! Also, love that his/her diary image. I can also definitely overthink things and assume the worst when nothing is wrong on his end at all. Glad you had a nice weekend visiting - Saturday sounded like such a pleasant day for both of you. It's probably not a coincidence that he chose not to work and hang more with you instead!
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 12:52 AM
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I do ribs like this too - they always turn out so good!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:05 AM
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Apparently I'm Hedwig and less basic than I thought. Thanks Buzzfeed!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:02 AM
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Thank you for the repost! This is one of my all time favorite RPW posts.
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 04:56 AM
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There is nothing wrong with improving yourself! We aren't telling women to pretend they are feminine to trick men into marriage and then let yourself go after. Having an amazing man is a great motivator to look your best, be pleasant and supportive, etc - I plan to continue to be the best partner I can be long after our wedding day.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 06:14 AM
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In general, men aren't too particular about your career status. That being said, I think people tend to stay within their classes - so the fact that you are a university student is still appealing for men like that. A lot of men with successful careers are also very busy, so they may be looking for someone to fill more of a partner role versus a career woman. They want a woman to be their "soft place to land", someone who can take on responsibilities around the house and lessen their stress inst…
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 11:51 PM
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I love hormonal BC pills and have only had positive side effects from them - but I'm now realizing I'm in the minority for that!
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 03:33 AM
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Hamachi sashimi is soooo good!!
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 03:24 AM
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Yes! We like hiking together, and chatting and reminiscing, but he'd definitely hate if I organized date nights or formal relationship discussion sessions!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 03:05 AM
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Haha, this is why I don't vent to my SO unless I'm looking for a solution!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:51 AM
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More gratitude, please. There is a lot of research out there now on the power of gratitude, individually and in relationships. Express appreciation for each other when possible. Notice the good rather than focusing on the not so good. It’s easy for couples to slip into negative cycles together. Make the effort to shift to a more positive (and reinforcing) cycle of support and gratitude for each other. Always a good reminder :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:47 AM
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I enjoyed this, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 02:41 AM
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Yesss I saw you like making maps! I'm Amelia in IRC :)
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 07:39 PM
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Yay! I am engaged and a homemaker. I enjoy reading, cooking, jigsaw puzzles, volunteering, and of course the internet. I also like to travel, and I'm a big geography nerd. Can't wait to talk to everyone in IRC :)
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 04:05 AM
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Thank you for this - it's a great reminder to always support his goals and continue to be the best partner I can be so he never regrets his commitment to me.
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 08:54 PM
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I finally bought a nice meat thermometer - guess I need to give it a try on steaks now!
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 08:50 PM
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I love this, thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 08:48 PM
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Thanks to the mod team for all the work you do!
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 03:18 AM
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I love Budget Bytes and The Pioneer Woman for recipes, and they both have lots of freezer friendly and quick meals! http://www.budgetbytes.com/2012/04/top-10-freezer-meals-2/ http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking_cat/freezer-food/ http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking_cat/16-minute-meals/ http://www.budgetbytes.com/category/recipes/quick/
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 04:02 AM
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There is much, much more to being a high value woman than n count/being a virgin. By saying no self respecting man would consider you LTR material, you're setting yourself up for failure because when a man does want an LTR with you, you'll assume he has no self respect/is low value. You can't get into a relationship and expect the man to change. You should just be feminine from the start and see if he has the qualities you are looking for. The best men for LTRs usually have a mix of alpha and be…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 03:57 AM
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From your reddit submissions: "I have a fetish for fighting women and losing to them. Be it boxing, wrestling, or straight up with fists" I don't think this is the place to discuss your fetish
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 01:23 AM
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To add to the dog suggestion - you can also foster if you don't want to long term commitment! Years ago my family fostered a dog while his owner was in Iraq. I think animal shelters also foster dogs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 05:02 AM
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I have facebook, instagram, and snapchat, although I rarely post on any of them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/16 12:01 AM
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Yes - I've read that women often have a responsive sex drive versus spontaneous. Even if I'm not in the mood at that second he initiates, I just go with it anyway. I'll always catch up!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 11:54 PM
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I can't imagine most men would be turned on by a woman "just lying there waiting for him to finish". Please don't do that!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 11:36 PM
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Good: My fiance and I checked out the wedding venue we both want yesterday! My parents met us there. We all really liked it - it's perfect for what we want and fits our style. He doesn't want to deal with the details so I'm happy to have my mom to help out and bounce ideas off of. Bad/Ugly: I'm still a little emotional and sensitive lately. I try to just hold it in, but he can read my faces so well that he always knows when something is bothering me, even if I know I'm being silly and wouldn't h…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 08:17 PM
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Congrats! Agreeing on a timeline for the future is so important (and exciting!).
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 08:09 PM
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I'm jealous of a whole month in Maui! If he doesn't have one already, a great gift for a traveler is an external battery pack! If you get a good one, they can give a couple full recharges on a cell phone. Mine has come in handy on long train/bus rides, in airports where there aren't a lot of outlets, during major power outages, or just during long days of sightseeing. If he's going for work, you could also offer to help iron shirts/ties. If he's backpacking, a microfiber travel towel is very use…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 08:08 AM
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Girl Scout cookies are so dangerous!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 01:29 AM
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There is a lot of good advice in this thread. A splash of cool water on the face is the best way to wake myself up in a hurry. It totally gets rid of that tired-eye feeling, at least for me. Sleeping with the blinds open, or partially open, can also be helpful! It'll let natural light in - it's so much easier to wake up in a room with a little sunshine versus a dark room.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 04:01 AM
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Yeah crafting can be expensive! Although if you can split the shopping list with someone else, that could cut costs a little. I'm not sure about coconut oil masks! I've seriously used a million different masks, mostly just store bought. I've heard good things about coconut oil but I can see how it could be hard to get out!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 02:30 AM
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For girly things, hair/face masks are good also. Another fun (and frugal!) thing to do is clean out your closets and swap clothes with each other. If you’re crafty, you could craft together too! My mom and her friends sometimes meet up and cook a bunch of large batches of recipes together, and then they divide them up to take home in couple-sized portions. Also, anything you want to do, you can invite a friend along for company. Events, a cooking/workout class, a museum you want to check out, a …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 01:28 AM
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Good: I made a meal plan and stuck to it. I'm actually excited to plan my meals for the next week. I've been so much better about tidying up clutter and doing chores before leisure activities. Bad: I've been a little emotional/sensitive lately - not sure if it's birth control related, stress, not enough sleep, or just me being silly. I'm trying to get it under control because I know my boyfriend gets annoyed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/16 05:01 AM
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Try to downplay the acting/modeling stuff. Use different pictures and don’t mention it much in your profile. What sort of career do you want to transition into once the modeling is done? Think about that as something you can talk about instead. I don’t think most men would feel “threatened” by a woman’s career, but it's generally a turn off if she's consumed by it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 05:35 AM
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First, it seems like you feel entitled to his evenings. You spend every night together, and the only nights you don’t mind him going out are when YOU have something else to do. You try not to be bothered, but you say “I don’t really like talking to him when he goes out without me”. This is a little childish, imo. Don't do that. It sounds like a trust issue to me. Yes, he lives with his friends, but going out with them is probably just fun for him. It’s different than just hanging out at their pl…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 05:25 AM
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This is my first time posting in one of these! There are basically two main things I want to focus on: Better meal planning - taking advantage of what's in season, what we already have, etc. Keeping the house clutter free.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 12:45 AM
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Why do you think there is something wrong with your behaviour? Obviously there is nothing wrong with not having casual sex, doing drugs, etc :) There is plenty of space in between stuck up prude and messy party girl. I have friends who party a lot, but it’s not something I enjoy anymore. I know I’m not missing out on anything because I am doing exactly what I want. I’d rather cook and watch a movie with my boyfriend versus hitting up the bars. I don’t receive a lot of pressure from my friends, a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 12:36 AM
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I disagree with some of the advice here. There are ways you can talk to your boyfriend about this without coming off as pushy or demanding. It's not just about getting married - all couples should know they are on the same page about when they want marriage, if and when they want children, will you continue your career, etc. You've been reading RP content so you know your youth is one of your best assets, so of course you don't want to waste it on someone that may be majorly incompatible with yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 06:02 AM
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Don't feel awkward, we just want to help the women that post here! Even if you know the best choice deep down, it's always nice to have other people back that up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 11:23 PM
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Long distance can work in rare situations where a great relationship is already established and the distance part of the relationship is brief and has an end date. I don't think creating a relationship and having it be long distance from the start is smart. Who knows how long it could be until engagement - and how much time could you actually have spent together until then? Work on being approachable and find a good man living in your town :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 11:03 PM
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I definitely agree with this article. I'm 23, and most of my friends are averse to anything serious at this point - whether it be a career or a relationship. Even if they meet a great man or find a great job opportunity, they'd probably turn away in favor or something/someone fun, easy, and noncommittal. I'm scared to see where these people will end up in 10-15 years.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 03:20 AM
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I get a lot of recipes online from Pioneer Woman, Budget Bytes, Gimme Some Oven and Creme de la Crumb. My BF also loves my grandma's cooking so I guess she's my idol now :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 06:01 AM
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Do you think the treasure hunt is something he'd actually like, or does it just sound cute to you? I'd treat it like vacation for him - leave the wifi password, Netflix info/TV guide, maybe rent a few movies/books he may enjoy. You could give some recommendations of fun things to do in the area, but I wouldn't make him feel obligated to do anything. Definitely prepare some good food/treats for him to eat while you're working!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 05:46 AM
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I always try to find an excuse to go over there and if I can't I start to panic and think of my schedule and how I can see him for even 5 minutes a day. Yikes, you sound really anxious! Why do you feel the need to constantly be with him and texting him? I think you should find ways to occupy your time - read, write, cook, pick up some hobbies, exercise, hang out with other friends, take classes, anything. If you're constantly texting him and going over to his house, you're not giving him space t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 11:59 PM
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They sell a lot of fake meat items at stores like Whole Foods. But, fake or simulated meats may just never be as satisfying to a meat lover. Maybe cook a separate meat for him? Your sudden (and large) dietary change shouldn't be something he has to go along with if he really doesn't want to. Also - ignore the people giving you heat. Your marriage has to come before their opinions about dietary ethics.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 05:29 AM
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You could try making homemade protein bars.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/15 03:39 AM
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Constant sexual talk and only late night invitations? His mind is already made up. There is a slim chance it may change, but your efforts are best put elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 07:44 AM
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Pioneer Woman and BudgetBytes have a lot of good recipes (and they have step by step photos which is helpful to make sure everything looks right as you go). r/eatcheapandhealthy is good also. I know there are tons of other recipe related subreddits but I tend to just google things (and read reviews/comments for the recipe). If you can boil water, you can make rice, pasta, and cous cous easily. Roasting or pan frying veggies is pretty easy also. I tend to stay in or near the kitchen when I'm tryi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 03:38 AM
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Don't turn down his advances often - you should even flirt and initiate sometimes. Men aren't the same as women, it probably doesn't matter much to him if you think you're being "cute" when you turn him down. If you're really not in the mood for sex, give him an enthusiastic blowjob. Also, start trying to cook. You could tell him you're excited to learn and try new recipes and would love to share with him. You don't have to become a gourmet chef but men really appreciate a home cooked meal.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/15 02:16 AM
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Congrats Camille!
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 12:21 AM
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I wish I knew some! It'd be nice to find women from here that live in my area, but I know that's a long shot.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 05:17 PM
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Not only is she unappreciative for the work and money he put in, she also humiliates and berates him in front of everyone else.. really sad.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 06:06 PM
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Yes! This would be super helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 10:41 AM
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