amBoringGuy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl? All this. If you really want to get her attention start banging one of her friends. The way to a woman’s heart is through her friends pants.	/r/seduction	13/08/24 12:52 AM
18	Strip Clubs would be helpful. A massage is gonna cost you an absolute minimum of $50 bucks plus tip. Strip clubs are $20 at the door, $10-15 for a beer (which sucks), and $20 for a dance, but the beer and dance are optional. You get way more women to interact with at a strip club than the one masseuse you see at a massage parlor. I’ve done both and I can confidently say that, for me, the strip club was a far more liberating experience when it came to interacting with women, but to each his own.	/r/seduction	12/08/24 12:08 AM
15	AN OPENER THAT COULD HELP YOU DESENSITIZE YOU TALKING TO ANY WOMAN YOUR ATTRACTED TO Here’s an opener: “if a bear shits in the woods, does it make a sound?”	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:07 PM
1	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Sorry I think I might have been replying to the guy you replied too and I was basically just trying to add more value.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:02 PM
2	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Oh boy sounds like somebody thinks they’re captain of the debate team	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:00 PM
5	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Definitely, but that non-neediness should be a byproduct of the greater goal of improving the overall quality of your life, not the currency with which you try to get laid.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 01:38 PM
4	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Yeah I guess I could have been more specific about that. You won’t necessarily meet the women socializing and building your life. You’ll meet some, but you’ll meet most of them THROUGH the friends that you make while building out your life. Like you may not meet a lot of hot chicks going to the gym (even though you absolutely will, it’s like hot girl church), but if you go regularly for even a few months and you make attempts to make friends, you’ll not only get in shape, but you’ll make a ton o…	/r/seduction	11/08/24 01:26 PM
4	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? It’s okay dude, just stay home then and wait for your life to get better on its own	/r/seduction	11/08/24 12:56 PM
6	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Church events, book drives, park clean ups… Just curious what kind of volunteering are you doing? Also, did you use the volunteer work as an opportunity to network or just sort of show up and slog through?	/r/seduction	11/08/24 04:23 AM
1	Every other time I go out I get “you look familiar” or “where do I know you from?” from men and women. What does this mean and how could I use this to pull? That’s pretty funny, but a better response is “Oh yeah, I come here all the time. You probably saw me last time I was in here” then go back to whatever you were talking about immediately. You don’t remember them and they don’t specifically remember you so there’s no reason to linger and try to make some kind of connection out of it. It’s a throw away that puts you on the spot and goes nowhere so treat it that way. If they bring it up again just say “sorry I don’t remember. Have we met before?” t…	/r/seduction	11/08/24 04:01 AM
117	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Okay, time for a little review. When you see a beautiful girl, you may feel compelled to throw yourself at a her feet and confess your undying love. You may even believe in that moment that you would do anything to win her over. But here’s the thing: a woman can’t just take you at your word because even though you might be here today, you might be gone tomorrow. See here’s the thing, a woman might desire a man who doesn’t show interest in her not because she doesn’t want his love and attention, …	/r/seduction	11/08/24 03:02 AM
12	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? REAL	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:15 AM
1	Is it a green flag if a girl doesn’t get on her phone and pays for her Uber to a date? Jesus Christ the standards for female behavior have gotten low…	/r/seduction	04/08/24 10:03 PM
4	How to subtly introduce physical contact and when? Touch people. Touch them all the time. Shake hands with both hands. Slap people on the arm when someone tells a funny joke. Stand next to a girl and elbow her in the arm while you crack jokes and people watch. Don’t wait for signals just touch people. Obviously don’t be inappropriate, but the point is to become someone who is comfortable with plutonic as well as sexual touching. Honestly what’s more important is to become the type of person that’s comfortable with intimacy and not just intimacy …	/r/seduction	01/08/24 06:58 PM
2	I want to approach 100 girls tomorrow Be more ambiguous	/r/seduction	01/08/24 04:44 PM
1	Should you be a man of your words? OP, if you really have the time then contact her. Explain that you got done preparing sooner than you expected. But only if it’s true. A level game: have her quiz you for the test.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 02:07 PM
8	I want to approach 100 girls tomorrow Never underestimate the power of massive action and radical experimentation. 100 people would be a feet let alone 100 women. And I’m not saying it would fix all of OPs problems; it wouldn’t, but something so drastic may alter his perception in a way that may help him to move past things that are holding him back. Even if the alteration only lasts long enough to act as a stepping stone, it would still be quite the jumping off point. Remember, the goal is not perfection, the goal is simple to impr…	/r/seduction	01/08/24 01:55 PM
3	How do you deal with late bloomer tax? Yeah. Get off the porn. Also, keep banging uggos until it stops improving your self esteem. Once you get through enough chaff you’ll realize that none of this is worthwhile unless you’re actually being your authentic self and connecting with people you actually vibe with.	/r/seduction	31/07/24 04:07 PM
1	Is pre-selection true attraction? What are you worried about? Wheel them both while you’re working on getting another plate spinning. You don’t have to pick one and if one of them puts you to a decision then shut her down. She’ll most likely comply and if not, you just cut yourself free from a crazy control freak. Remember: this is your life. You are in control; act accordingly.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 03:02 PM
1	How to stop feeling like a creep? The problem is that you have an association in your mind that keeps you from having success. What you described (touching, flirting, escalating physically) are all things that men who do well with women do, but you seem to perceive those behaviors as creepy. These things are not in fact creepy, but your perception of this kind of behavior makes it creepy, and therefore unacceptable to you. Your perception connects “men who do well with women” with “creeps”. You may, without realizing it, see the…	/r/seduction	20/07/24 02:37 PM