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| 1 | Female virgin asks TRP for advice on waiting to have sex in a LTR....their advice is "Just put out because your only worth is your vagina." How does this make sense?It's not very logical in the first place to ask for advice from a group that's actively working against your interests, don't you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/17 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Female virgin asks TRP for advice on waiting to have sex in a LTR....their advice is "Just put out because your only worth is your vagina." How does this make sense?TRP is all about benefiting men at the expense of women, of course they're not going to give a woman advice that actually helps her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Less Than 50% of Generation Z is HeterosexualI really doubt there's more gays than before. It's just that in certain circles coughtumblrcough being "cishet" is seen as lame and boring, so people identify as trigender polysexual queers or whatever stupid label is in vogue because they wear androgynous clothing sometimes and are able to acknowledge when a same gender person is good looking, even though in actual sexual behaviour they're straight as an arrow. I mean, these are teenagers we're talking about, they'll grow out of it most likely,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/17 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Plenty of Feminists Here Don't Believe They're FeministYour position is pretty much the same as mine, but you phrased it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Plenty of Feminists Here Don't Believe They're FeministI don't identify as a feminist because even though I support equal legal rights for men and women, nowadays there's a bunch of baggage attached to that term that basically implies I also agree with nonsense like 'manspreading' being 'oppression'. Besides, men and women already have equal legal rights in first world countries, so it's not like there's any real need for activism on that front. It'd be like identifying as an abolitionist because you think slavery should be illegal. Technically corr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: “Divorce rape” is overstated and ignores the sacrifices of womenWhy is it that more women work part time than men do? Why is it women aren’t all taking the jobs which make the most, many of which involve long hours and some of which, lots of travel? Why is it women aren’t focusing their priorities on work as much as men are? Well, in my case it's because I'm a lazy bum ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Are tactics encouraged by TRP sexually coercive?The end times must be nigh, because I actually agree with you. On a somewhat related note I was actually surprised to find that the dictionary definition of coercion includes threat of force, because it's so common to hear 'coerce' used to mean 'pressure' nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/16 11:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Playful ambiguity and plausible deniability are, for most people, a great way of exploring each other's interest and boundaries.The problem is a lot of guys want to have it both ways. Never making their intentions explicit, yet still blaming the girl for 'leading them on' if they don't get an explicit rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/16 10:12 AM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP members pedestalize the average man> 10 partners > barely able to get laid pick one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/16 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Aside from fantasies (which are different from actual desires), most women are attracted to good men who treat women right.ITT - I'd love to be nice, but I just have to act like a jerk because women don't like nice guys. Oh, and women who don't put up with me being a jerk are high maintenance bitches and not worth my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/16 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: At what point do movies, music or anything reinforce men being "blue pilled betas?"tbf most video game protagonists would risk their life for absolutely anything as long as it gives exp and/or loot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is sex actually easy for all women to get, or just high smv ones"The people who pre-ordered No Man's Sky didn't get something totally worthless. They got to play No Man's Sky. They got what they bargained for." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?Yah. IMO there's a big difference between genuinely frightening, borderline or actually criminal actions like stalking or threatening to rape someone, and annoying or awkward but basically harmless behaviour like making sexual comments to strangers or sending lots of text messages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?Yes, and I've certainly experienced uncomfortable and awkward social situations, but I wouldn't say they're equivalent to creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is "creepy" behaviour in a man?Honestly I can't recall ever being creeped out by something a guy did. I wonder how much of this perception is a culture/language thing (there's no word for "creepy" in my native language). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Is sex actually easy for all women to get, or just high smv onesIt's not so much that women are using casual sex as a means to get LTRs and more that they want to try casual sex because they're led to believe it's enjoyable in and of itself. And it often takes more than one bad experience to realise it's not, because "the first time always hurts" and "it gets better with experience". Of course some women actually do enjoy casual sex but IMO they're a minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Does society really disrespect housewives?That might be more due to her being a braggart than being a housewife. IME people who brag about their careers aren't regarded well either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Q4All - How do you view /r/redpillwives vs rpwo?Well there is also /r/marriedredpill, even though it's not considered an "official" RP subreddit IIRC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 10:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Even if LMR is a real thing, it’s irresponsible for TRP to teach how to “push through it”"Don't ever have casual sex" is a better way to put that advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/16 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do some people say men are more immature than women?Yeah that comment was mostly meant as a joke, I'm pretty sure most people know videogame physics aren't realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Why do some people say men are more immature than women?I guess he'd played too many videogames where jumping into water is safe from any height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?Eh, I think both sides of the argument have merit. There's value to having a separate term for a sex act with 3 participants where all 3 are interacting with one another. But on the other hand, '3 people = threesome' seems more intuitive, and it's quite a stretch to consider 2 guys a 'gang'. It's a matter of precision vs intuitiveness, essentially. Personally, I think it could be considered both a threesome and a gangbang (most porn sites seem to use them interchangeably anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you engage in a threesome with two men? Men, would you engage in an LTR with a woman who has engaged in a threesome with two men?Group sex seems like one of those things that's hot in theory, but would most likely end up being awkward in practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?Sort of. I'm lazy af normally. I do the bare minimum of work to pay the bills, put in the bare minimum effort to not starve to death and prevent the house from becoming a complete pigsty, and spend the rest of the time sleeping and playing videogames. With my boyfriend I'm motivated to put in a bit more effort, because I think he deserves better than living off instant noodles and discount sausage with strange chunks in it, so I guess that's sort of a challenge. As for someone who intentionally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Can a couple have a good relationship without sex?No, unless they're both asexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 10:48 PM |
| 3 | If today's men are tired of women, why should today's women comply with them?TRP is all about advancing the interests of men at the expense of women. Quite simply, there is zero incentive to comply with them, and I'm pretty sure nobody's asking you to, so why do you keep bringing this up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you still consider a guy "nice" if he is sexually bold and assertive?I don't think any of that directly conflicts with being nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/16 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Are women happier as housewives? Science says no.I'm starting to feel more and more like happiness is just an act we put on to be more tolerable to other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/16 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls, I have some questions for you.I'm 25, and I met him about 3 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Genuine question for women: did your mom and grandmom tell you about your sexuality being the number one thing you can maximise/exploit, when you were growing up?I don't know whether I'd agree with feminism being far worse than TRP, regardless my objections to either ideology have to do with their content, and not where/how people learn about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/16 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Genuine question for women: did your mom and grandmom tell you about your sexuality being the number one thing you can maximise/exploit, when you were growing up?I'm not really sure what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question for women: did your mom and grandmom tell you about your sexuality being the number one thing you can maximise/exploit, when you were growing up?My parents never really told me anything about sex or relationships. I learned about it from books and the internet. Same with feminism really. TBH feminism is not as big a deal around here as it seems to be in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls, I have some questions for you.Are you single? No. What do you look for in a man? Kind, easy-going, good in bed, shares my hobbies Do you think men should pay for the Check when out on a date with you? No. Do you like chivalrous men? Do you believe in chivalry? Would you like it if a man opened the door for you, lent you his jacket? I don't mind it really, but it's a bit awkward if a dude makes a huge deal of it. What do you think of polyamory? Would you join such a relationship? Other people can do whatever they want in thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is your relationship PC? Would reddit liberals tell your partner to dump you if he/she wrote a summary of you?I think someone who makes a post describing their partner in an extremely unflattering way will usually be told to dump their partner, regardless of the audience or the content of the post, because it's evident from the tone of the post that they're probably not compatible since they're being so negative about their partner's behaviour. For example, someone saying "she always makes mean-spirited jokes that make me feel like shit" vs "we both love dark humour and enjoy taking the piss out of each… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/16 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Are women more harsh on body image than men?Yeah I've literally never heard anyone, male or female, referring to it IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/16 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Are women more harsh on body image than men?I feel like the premise of the OP is disproved by the fact that there are several dudes in this very thread calling her weird and gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What defines a "control freak" and does it differ with gender?Yes, and? The wife has also considered all the options and decided that staying is best. It's not that either of them wants to abandon the family, they simply have different ideas on what is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/16 02:20 PM |
| 0 | What defines a "control freak" and does it differ with gender?She is the one who decided that HER personal interests were more important than those of her family and HER OWN CHILDREN. SHE is the one who decided to leave HIM. Except HE'S the one who up and decided to move to another town. I don't see who you assume moving is automatically better for the kids. They'd have to deal with leaving behind their friends, not seeing their grandparents and extended family as often, going to a new school - probably quite stressful for a kid to go through. Is it worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | RedPillers, what advice will you give to your daughters?haha good luck with your moronic argument. That wasn't an argument, that was a question. If that's not what you meant by that statement, then what? Better than liberal clowns. I'll take that as a no. are you trying hard to be a dim wit. Are you trying to deny what you said? You literally replied to someone saying "How about how to be an interesting, functional adult?" with "Yes lets encourage women to get dicked down until they can barely walk home." I do not see any other way to interpret this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | RedPillers, what advice will you give to your daughters?Speaking from experience after mixing with a lot of shit head ;race traiting liberals. Your experience is that liberals masturbate to the thought of women having jobs and fixing tires? oxymoron Do you even know what that word means? I made getting dicked down look like a liberal clown biological shit thing. I know that. But you still assumed that the poster you are replying to meant "get lots of dick" when they said "be a functional adult". That's a rather staggering leap of logic, don't you thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | RedPillers, what advice will you give to your daughters?Yes anything that doesnt invole getting lots of dicks is probably not going to be functional by your defination. Whose definition? In case you forgot, you are the only one in this comment thread who equated being a functional adult with getting as much dick as possible. ARE you masturbating while writing? I've never heard someone projecting so hard before. Apparently writing in detail about young women having sex and inspecting each other's hymens is completely normal, but suggesting someone be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/16 01:21 PM |
| 18 | Discussion: Are women attempting to legislate away the consequences of pursuing/fucking bad boys?Meh. I'm not even redpill and I think it's a pretty dumb law. For most of those things, how are you even going to prove they happened, especially if you can report up to two years later? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/16 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong for a woman to expect a man to be nice to her if she has sex with him?Well, if the guy was being nice to her prior to having sex, it's reasonable to expect his behaviour wouldn't change drastically afterwards, but I don't think she's entitled to it or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | If you could go back and give yourself advice right when you entered the SMP, what would you tell yourself?Don't have casual sex. It's no fun and people will judge your for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Hey gals of PPD, how many of you would be into the type of guy TRP describes as beta?Pretty much everything on this list sounds great, except the part about wanting kids, and the new agey romance thing, I don't really care for that. And my boyfriend actually matches a lot of these bullet points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP how often do you get laidHow often do you get laid? It varies. Usually it's at least once a week, but sometimes we go longer periods without because he's busy with work or has health problems. Haven't had sex for about a month now. Are you in an ltr? Yes. Do you do fwb? Why or why not? No. Maybe I would if I wasn't in a relationship at the moment. If you are in an LTR, how often do you get and or give blow jobs? About as often as we have "regular" sex. Do these numbers and answers satisfy you? I'd like to have sex more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/16 02:06 AM |
| 9 | [Question for Blue Pill] Why do self-esteem issues in women seem to affect sexual choice but not partner choice?Isn't it kind of a problem of circular definitions? The way Red Pillers usually measure attractiveness is by a) how fast a woman has sex with a man after meeting him and b) how kinky she is willing to be with him. So by definition a man is attractive if a woman participates in kinky sex with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Would your rather..?Ehh, did you reply to the wrong person? We only had the same answer on two questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Would your rather..?25/F/blue pill secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will? The former have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? The latter be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral? The former I guess. Tough choice though. end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex? No strong preference either way, though I suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on male-female best friends?Well, with opposite gender friendships between heterosexual people, there's usually a chance that one falls in love with the other, or just some sexual tension appears, which can complicate things. So looking purely at that aspect it might be "better" to have a same gender best friend, but obviously there's a lot more that actually goes into developing a friendship. Most people don't really make a conscious decision to be friends based on logically weighing different factors, they just hit it of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | The largest MBTI Dataset PPD has ever seen! Come and participate in the vague- pseudo-science!I'm female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBthey are more attracted to their fuckbuddies Ehh, I would disagree on that. While being less clingy/affectionate might be because they're more attracted to him and respect his preferences, it's more likely because they genuinely don't care that much about him. If you bang some girl and she never calls you afterwards, is it more logical assume she's actually deeply in love with you but holding back because she's respecting your wish to be left alone, or does she actually not really want to see yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/15 12:34 PM |
| 2 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBWell the general attitude seems to be that women treat their ONS/fuckbuddies better than LTR partners, and that any contact at all (apart from sex initiated by him) is just some bullshit you have to put up with for a relationship. The ideal seems to be a woman whose existence you can completely forget about when you're not presently trying to fuck her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/15 11:16 AM |
| 2 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBI thought the TRP stance was that all men want the same thing, some have just been brainwashed into thinking they don't. I can't say I've had such a problem, I've always been very affectionate towards my boyfriend including making corny gifts and stuff like that. Only spending time on this forum has made me wonder if he secretly hates it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/15 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4Womenpill: Have you ever purposefully led a guy on to get free lifts, gifts, meals and/or have an emotional tampon?Those fonts are a crime against humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/15 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do twerps think feminism is a sexual strategy?What the hell are you people talking about? The gist of his previous comment is pretty much the same as this one with slight differences in wording/bullet point order, I don't see how it counts as a "surprising change of opinion" at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/15 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you, as a woman, not "give a shit about world affairs, history, etc." and are you "not interested in pondering, learning about, debating the big issues"?Personally, I don't. But I seem to be the outlier in that regard, judging both from my IRL experiences and the other responses in this thread. My friends always seemed eager to discuss that shit meanwhile I'm sitting in the corner holding my head in my hands like "Oh god not another political argument/philosophical debate". Never had more than a cursory interest in history myself, but again several of my friends are historians/archaeologists and/or into historical re-enactment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Madonna/Whore Complex and loss of attraction after loss of virginityResults may vary, I smashed my head against a wall a bunch of times and only became more neurotic as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/15 11:23 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Older men who bang 16 year old chicks did nothing wrong.Just because a power imbalance exists doesn't necessarily mean it's being abused, so I don't think a relationship between an older person and a teenager is automatically 'wrong' in that sense. That said, you* can't use that as an excuse if the only reason you're seeking out relationships with teenagers is to abuse that power imbalance. Which I've seen some TRPers admit to doing and then get all huffy and cry about 'shaming' when their behaviour is called predatory or exploitative. But that's rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/15 11:20 PM |
| 4 | question for both pills: Do women try to control men with sex?It's the most adorable thing ever when a guy gets all excited about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/15 10:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you think RPW would help me improve my life?Yep, I read that post as well, and it was like "This woman worked super hard all her life and ended up with a dude who was a total asshole! Ladies, you could be just like her!" And it honestly came off as more of a cautionary tale than something to aspire to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Has a man you initially found to be physically unattractive to you been able to win you over?Neither of the guys I've had sex with were all that physically attractive tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/15 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Do young women feel certain they'll find love?Just general pessimism I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/15 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Do young women feel certain they'll find love?25 F, and nope. In fact until I met my boyfriend, I thought I was never going to find love or be in a relationship. I'm still not convinced it's going to last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is too afraid to say or answer no to certain sexual contact/acts, should she be having sex?Nah. If you can't stand up for yourself, you'll just end up having a lot of unsatisfying sexual experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/15 09:29 PM |
| 5 | If you orgasm-ed twice as often in serious relationships vs. casual sex, what would you pursue/value more?tbh I'd give mad props to anyone who figures out how to nag with a ball gag in their mouth, that's got to take some serious determination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/15 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Does consent require an enthusiastic "YES!" from both parties involved?No, you don't need to be enthusiastic about sex to consent. There's a number of reasons why one might consent to sex despite not being super horny or attracted to the person they're having sex with. And consent does not have to be verbally expressed either IMO. That said I think what people are missing is that this article has nothing to do with rape laws or anything like that, it's about a sex ed program. They're not trying to make bad or non enthusiastic sex illegal, they're trying to teach te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/15 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Do BP people understand what analogies are?12/15. Don't know who Lyell and Dalton are, never heard the word 'ovine' before, and didn't remember what proteins consist of (alright, that one's pretty embarrassing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/15 05:55 PM |
| 12 | What are either sides opinions on this couple?The comments seem to largely be discussing the relative looks of the pair , with the majority seemingly agreeing he's not overly attractive and she could do better. ehh, really? I think they're about equally attractive but the guy is slightly better looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/15 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Are insecure women better than secure women?What's better is entirely dependent on whose perspective you look at it from. You might prefer to date those women, but nobody actually wants to be a neurotic wreck who can't handle the simplest everyday decisions without outside guidance. Because fuck, I'm as conflict avoidant as they come and I've got a neurotic streak a mile wide, but if I'm going out to eat with someone and they don't have a preference, I have no problem saying 'I know a great pizza place near here, how about that?'. If some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/15 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How young is too young?If we died at 30 like we used to...then no. Nothing is really wrong with a 15 year old marrying a man that old. Technically, I should have 3-4 kids right now, with some nearing puberty. Starting at 15 is perfect timing with that kind of lifespan. And more than likely a husband at 39 either has some phenomenal genes are is really freaking rich. No one married for love back then, so he'd be totally desirable. Kind of off-topic, but I really wish people would stop misusing/misunderstanding that sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/15 12:27 PM |
| 1 | A question about wife gogglesThat being said, I'm concerned about when you say your husband is very strict about you visiting the doctor, or taking prescribed medication. Yeahh that jumped out at me too. Of course it's possible to be reasonable about it, and I hope her husband is, but I've seen so many "alternative medicine" nutjobs that I consider it a huge red flag. Just don't end up being one of those people who lose their lives or their children's lives because you believed in the magic power of crystals over a medical … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/15 12:49 AM |
| 3 | PPD Statistics & PollingIf he was fucking Gandalf, he wouldn't be a virgin anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/15 12:33 AM |
| 12 | Is it wrong that I don't want to do anal with my boyfriend even though I did it with my ex?Except the top comment in this very thread is a TRPer saying exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | A discussion on value in relationships, for both pillsI could probably find someone else willing to date me if I looked around. Someone able to satisfy me? I doubt it. To be honest, I'm not sure I would even bother trying. Relationships are stressful as hell. He could, but probably wouldn't, due to having terrible taste in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/15 10:36 AM |
| 2 | A promiscuous past affecting a woman's otherwise happy relationship negatively. Have you seen it?Just gonna speak for myself here as I don't know enough about other people's sexual history to comment on any trends. Anyhow I'm not sure if I qualify as a slut because I've had casual sex but only with one guy. Still, my experience is similar to /u/Deny_Ignorance, in that the casual sex was very lackluster compared to relationship sex, and it's definitely done away with any fears of missing out. I don't think I'd go out of my way to avoid my former fuckbuddy. It would be somewhat awkward to run… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea for a girl to give a guy her phone number if she has no romantic/sexual interest in him?Of course it's a bad idea to give your number to someone you don't actually want to call you. If she just wants to get him to leave without an argument, she can give a fake number. But it's better to have a spine and just say you're not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/15 01:15 PM |
| 3 | To BP: Why do you think are Redpillers inaccessible to Bluepillers' arguments?Because as long as something works for them, most of them don't particularly care why or how it works. They can just dismiss any explanation they find inconvenient as 'shaming'. I've even seen people say that as long as a strategy achieves expected results, it is literally impossible for the theory behind it to be flawed. As absurd as that idea is, I can't particularly blame them. After all, if everything is working out great for you, why would you dig into the reasons behind it if there's a cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/15 11:46 AM |
| 1 | What are the benefits of wifing up a post-wall woman who knows what she wants?But if you make a woman feel too save '(in the sense of: "I will stay with you always, no matter what!"), she will let herself go, gain weight, put much less effort into the relationship, will lose respect and so on. Hmm, that's not quite what I meant by feeling safe. Though it's hard to express it... like the feeling that I don't have to be on my toes constantly, that something I say or do won't be used against me. And, well, I haven't lost interest in him yet. We've only been together for a li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: why is being nice to your man considered old fashioned?Yeah, I get that. As I said, I don't find the content objectionable, just a tad too specific in places. But it's a bulletpoint list in a lifestyle magazine, you shouldn't expect in-depth advice from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the benefits of wifing up a post-wall woman who knows what she wants?But I could do that with younger women and older women. So I don't really see your point here. Yes, I think I kind of chopped up the sentence there it was meant to go with the next one, my point was that age is irrelevant by itself. Making your partner happy also doesn't mean that you should throw everything you want over board, or does it? I'd like to believe that isn't so, but the more time I spend on PPD, the more relationships start to look like a zero sum game to me. I mean, ideally we all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: why is being nice to your man considered old fashioned?Meh, I don't really see much objectionable in that article. Some of the things are not really applicable to all men though. My boyfriend doesn't watch TV and isn't really into sports, for example. Only thing that struck me as weird is Letting him solve your work problem. Many men don't do gossip, but they do like to fix things. I mean, what kind of workplace is going to be ok with bringing your SO in to do your job for you? Unless you mean, just taking his advice on work related stuff, but depen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What are the benefits of wifing up a post-wall woman who knows what she wants?To be honest - nothing, really. Unless you somewhat value giving your partner what she wants and making her happy as an end in itself, which considering by your previous posts you probably don't. It is in your best interest to avoid women who have a good understanding of their own desires and can stand up for themselves, regardless of their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 11:53 AM |
| 2 | What's your definition of a hookup?I was the opposite, thought it meant sex and was surprised to find out some people use it to refer to just making out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/15 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else noticed this trend?One can say a lot of things, doesn't mean they make sense. I'm not interested in shaming anything, but dressing things up in flowery language is not much better. Saying one can't grow or reach a state of harmony without somebody trying to take advantage of them is like saying one can't truly understand internet security without having all their social media accounts stolen by a scammer, and that 'scam' is shaming language that has no place in rational discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else noticed this trend?It's not the age gap that makes it predatory, it's targeting younger women because they're "fucking morons who don't know what they want" (and not just because they're hot or whatever). If you getting the maximum utility out of someone requires them to be naive and/or stupid, then it's a pretty clear sign that you don't have their best interests in mind. Mind you, I'm not here to pass moral judgement or tell you to change your behaviour. You don't have any obligation to not take advantage of oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Women who refuse sexual acts are no different from BP men who turned RP.Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Women who refuse sexual acts are no different from BP men who turned RP.Well, I'd say wanting to avoid incontinence is pretty self-interested. Then again, I don't think there's anything wrong with looking out for your own health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:20 PM |
| 5 | [Discussion] Women of PPD, what examples of your attitudes and behaviour contradict RP theory entirely, or at least water it down to something reasonable?My experience completely contradicts the RP paradigm that women are more attracted to people who they have casual sex with than their long term partners, and that ONS sex is more exciting and enjoyable than LTR sex. I've had casual sex. It was awkward, uncomfortable, occasionally painful, but mostly boring. Eventually I just gave up, not because I 'hit the wall' and couldn't get laid anymore, but because it became evident that it was always going to be less enjoyable than masturbation. I thought… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/15 06:18 PM |
| 2 | does anyone believe that beauty standards can be 100% subjective?Subjective != non-universal Beauty is by definition subjective. It is not the property of an object, it is entirely dependant on the perception of a subject. That said, yes there are traits that are universally or near universally perceived as beautiful by humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What does this sub think about "virtual rape"? Is it a part of rape culture? Toxic masculinity?Mehh, don't really see how it's an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What does this sub think about "virtual rape"? Is it a part of rape culture? Toxic masculinity?Can't watch video atm so would be nice to have some explanation of what 'virtual rape' is, never heard of it before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 12:08 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] Women of PPD, how does it feel to be told that you you 'secretly' think/feel/behave in ways because of X by men?Having somebody repeatedly assert things that I know aren't true makes me feel frustrated, mostly. I think RP can be quite accurate in describing female behaviour, the reasons behind that behaviour, not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 10:11 AM |
| 9 | Is the TRP community becoming misogynistic?sexism: The belief that people of one sex or gender are inherently superior to people of the other sex or gender. misogyny: Hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women. I would say both are prevalent (though the latter somewhat less so) in TRP. If you disagree, you can take it up with your fellow EC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Is the TRP community becoming misogynistic?Why not both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 04:06 PM |
| 25 | Is the TRP community becoming misogynistic?Becoming? I thought TRP was openly and proudly misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | are strong female figures in fiction marketed for beta/nerdy/otaku guys?It's not even aimed at women, it's aimed at preteen girls. Used to love the shit out of that show when I was a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Is female attraction time sensitive?Just over time? IME no. I knew my boyfriend for a few months before he made a move on me, and I only got more attracted to him over time. However I wasn't really actively trying to get his attention during that period. I can sort of imagine that if I was trying to flirt with a guy and being ignored, or outright asking him out and being rejected, I'd mentally file him under 'just not into me' and it would be somewhat difficult to stop thinking of him that way, even if his behaviour towards me cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider marriage material?Nothing. I don't want to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/15 02:28 PM |
| 0 | What incentive does a woman have to get married in modern society?How exactly would she be having babies without men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/15 12:29 PM |
| -1 | What exactly is “experimenting” when it comes to casual sex?My point is, it's a mistake to assume she necessarily wanted to "lock down" the casual sex guy. The word willingly is pretty vague, we're obviously not talking about rape here but if it's an experience she doesn't want to repeat she probably wasn't exactly gung ho about it in the first place & some "persuasion" was involved. & even if a guy can get a girl to do something she doesn't like by pretending not to understand the sentence "I don't want to" long enough, she's probably not doing it out o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 10:11 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is “experimenting” when it comes to casual sex?I think y'all seriously overestimate how much women care about keeping their casual sex partners around. If you're in bed with a girl and you keep pestering her to try anal or oral or whatever and not taking no for an answer, well, she might eventually cave to pressure, but it's likely just to get out of the awkward situation in the moment, not because she actually gives a fuck about you in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 08:38 PM |
| 12 | The line between overcoming LMR and date rape ?IMO for it to be rape it has to involve physical force or threat of force, if he just keeps trying to convince her to have sex by whatever other means, it's annoying but not rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pill, why do you think it's acceptable for men to have all the responsibility to initiate and maintain a relationship AND for women to have much higher standards than men?Why it's ok? Like, morally ok? Well, I don't believe in any kind of objective morality, so can't help you there. Why the situation is accepted by men and women? My previous comment explains that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 06:15 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill, why do you think it's acceptable for men to have all the responsibility to initiate and maintain a relationship AND for women to have much higher standards than men?What incentive is there for men to actually accept this shitty deal? Sex. Men, as a rule, have higher sex drives than women, as well as being more likely to enjoy sex (and risk less by doing it) regardless of who their partner is. You know that old saying "Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good"? Yeah, that doesn't apply to women. So men are fine with settling for a relationship with someone whose personality they find annoying or boring, as long as they get sex. For women in such a si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 06:01 PM |
| 5 | BP: Would you say that the RP Advice/Tactics/Mindset works on younger, college aged females (18-23)Yes, but not for the reason they think. Pretty much anything works on inexperienced 18-year-olds who are curious about sex, & it hasn't got much to do with them somehow being more attracted to those tactics, but more with the fact that they have had less experience/opportunity to figure out what they actually like. Personal anecdote time: When I was 19, I had sex with the first guy who asked me. I wasn't particularly attracted to him (we could never properly have PIV sex because I could not get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/15 11:26 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.Oh believe me, I know about fear. In a sense, I've always been afraid of people. Not necessarily of being physically harmed, but more of being perceived as annoying and obnoxious and being secretly disliked by everyone. And while my social life is somewhat lacking, it hasn't stopped me from interacting with people entirely. So it is not bizarre to me that you could be afraid of someone having a negative reaction to you, or thinking badly of you, yet still want to be around them. I think some amo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 08:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.Hmm, that actually makes a lot of sense. If we define "success with women" as "having lots of casual sex". Because in a casual sex context there is pretty much no incentive for women to act particularly admirable. One thing on which I agree with TRP is that it's a lot easier for women to have casual sex than men. All a woman has to do is not be hideous or obese, go to a bar or nightclub, and wait for a man to approach her. Once a guy finds her attractive enough to approach, she is pretty much gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 06:12 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.I think that despite the desperate claims to the contrary, there is really no historical indication that women would turn away from misogynists unless they were taught to fear men who believed certain things. I don't think anyone needs to be specifically taught to fear physically stronger individuals who are acting hateful/hostile... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Do Guys and Gals agree on what makes for good girl gameReal solid basis for a relationship there. I hope you feel safe in that relationship... Because I wouldn't. To me it looks like one minor slip up away from KABOOM. Well, it's already lasted longer than I initially hoped. So I couldn't complain really. Pull your head out your ass and become the most awesome woman you can be. Then.... give all of that awesome woman to him. Thats what he wants. If you do that... You'll have paid him back for putting up with your whiny miserable ass for this long. h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Do Guys and Gals agree on what makes for good girl gameWell, thing is, I've always been a fuckup, even before I met my boyfriend. And I told him as much when he first asked me out, and that I didn't think I'd be any good for him. He said he wanted to be with me anyway. So I figured fuck it, why not. I do hope he will find someone better eventually (and I trust him to be honest about it and not cheat), but he seems happy enough for now. Maybe he is not and is just really good at pretending, who knows. But I am not gonna throw away a relationship that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Do Guys and Gals agree on what makes for good girl gameFemale How many of the 9 do you think would be required to be a good wife ? No idea tbh. How many of the 9 do you currently provide ? (on the sex, has to be more frequent than 1 a week. Blowjobs 1 a month) ehhh, 4-6 I guess? Some of these are kinda vague (what exactly counts as aggressive or disrespectful behaviour). Main stumbling blocks are physical fitness (I'm not overweight, but otherwise in terrible shape. can't do a single pushup, get winded going up a short flight of stairs etc) and dome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Vicious double standard in in expected conformity to gender stereotypesWhile you make a good point about different narratives, I think there is a flaw in your analogy. The kid and the fundamentalist talking about rock music are two outside observers giving their opinion about something that has no viewpoint of its own. Whereas I think what /u/usernosix was getting at is not that liking women who have traits the the OP described is somehow bad or sinful, but that those traits are not necessarily good traits to have. That is to say, not considering things from just t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 04:35 PM |
| 2 | We are all living during an awkward time period in human history where the gender divide is virtually irreconcilibleI can't imagine ever hating an ideology so much that I'd prefer a nuclear war to that becoming the new world order. Political systems can (and likely will) change, but there's no coming back from nuclear annihilation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Why are women not good as friends?tbh the whole "women can't be friends" is kind of a self fulfilling prophecy, isn't it? If you believe you can't have friends, you'll never try to connect with anybody. And then you will end up with no friends. That was certainly the case for me. But I really don't think it is true for most women. It works the other way around too, of course. How do you know that your female friends would never help you out if you never ask? I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you go into a relationship/friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/15 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Did the pussypass help Amanda Knox?Indeed, I've been doing some more reading on it today, and it doesn't seem as clear cut as I initially thought, though I'm still leaning towards them being innocent. But the media coverage on both sides definitely seems to be full of spin and sensationalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Did the pussypass help Amanda Knox?I agree the language used shows some bias, but even if we leave aside the "supposed" and "allegedly", doesn't it seem strange that only minuscule traces of Knox and Sollecito's DNA were found, while Guede's DNA was all over the room? I mean, I'm not super familiar with how this kind of thing works, but as I said before, it seems incredibly unlikely that they would somehow be able to near-perfectly remove all of their (and only their, not Guede's) DNA from the crime scene. Also the fact that the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Did the pussypass help Amanda Knox?I don't follow US media, but I don't doubt you when you say that the coverage was biased and sensationalist. Media coverage on such cases usually is. Though the video you linked me is hardly better in that regard. FWIW, this is the article which initially introduced me to the case (beginning of the article is mostly irrelevant, discussion of the case begins at the "Lawfulness of Murder" headline). IMHO it makes a pretty strong case for innocence, unless it is seriously misrepresenting the facts.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Did the pussypass help Amanda Knox?Interesting. I'd heard that she named Lumumba as a potential suspect, but not that she claimed to have actually heard him committing the crime. Did a bit more searching, and apparently Coulter is right about that. That does seem somewhat suspicious. However, the fact remains that DNA evidence against them is still next to non-existent. I mean, 3 drops of blood in the bathroom, compared to the overwhelming amount of Guede's DNA in the room and on the victim's body? It makes no sense. Neither does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Did the pussypass help Amanda Knox?A few years ago I read an article about the case claiming that there was pretty much 0 DNA evidence implicating Knox and her boyfriend, and the fact that they were convicted at all was a complete travesty. From a brief search, it doesn't seem like any damning new evidence that has come to light, so unless the information I've had so far has been inaccurate (in which case feel free to correct me), I still see no reason to believe they were guilty. In any case the "pussy pass" clearly did not help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/15 10:34 AM |
| 7 | For the Blue Pill MEN: What Is Love to You?No more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it Wrong or Crude for a Man to refuse the Friendship of a Girl who doesn't want Sex with Him?Leaving aside the discussion of morality, I don't see how trying to be "friends" in that scenario would benefit either party. So no, I don't think it's wrong to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 01:02 AM |
| 5 | How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last?I doubt that was literally the extent of the discussion they had. But even a simple "Hey, if you really hate your job that much, you could check out some of these ads, or if you want to go back to school I'll support you", while not exactly the most in-depth advice, is not going to "chip away" at anything unless he had pathologically low self esteem to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 07:55 PM |
| 6 | How does TRP explain happy feminist relationships that last?Or, you know, he could grow a fucking spine and stop treating advice as orders. Are you seriously telling me that all men are so weak-minded that whenever they hear a suggestion from their partner, they instantly follow it without any critical thought? I'd recommend you get out of the way, let him make his own decisions, and if he complains to you, just listen. And yet y'all complain when women vent about problems without looking for advice, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Does Rape/Consent Culture contribute to lack of male confidence AKA nice guys? TRP Vs. TBPI remember before I graduated college that I met so many handsome, attractive guys that, seriously would not make a move no matter what I did. Even if I sat right next to one of them in an empty with my side touching his and he wouldn't even say a word to me. I mean how much more obvious does it need to get? This all started after the rape culture movement began. Maybe they just didn't want to talk to you? That seems like a more likely explanation than that they were afraid of looking like rapis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?I don't know, never really been in that situation. I knew my boyfriend for a few months before we started dating, but we weren't close friends, just acquaintances. And I always thought he was attractive, I just didn't consider him as a romantic prospect initially because I didn't think he would be interested in me, I only realised he was after he started paying more attention to me and going out of his way to help me. But I don't think it really made me more attracted per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are women generally more honest/nicer to one night stands than they are to guys they want relationships from?Well I'm not talking about outright lying for the most part, rather that in a LTR you're not only naturally more likely to be nice (because you like the person more), you're also more likely to go the extra mile to be considerate/tactful/avoid hurting your partner's feelings, even if it involves fudging the truth a little. Say, when my boyfriend texts me to say good morning early and I've only had 3 hours of sleep, I'm gonna text back and if he asks whether I slept well, I'll say yes because I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or are women generally more honest/nicer to one night stands than they are to guys they want relationships from?I'm not sure why you assume "more honest" = "nicer", it's quite often the opposite. You can be a lot more blunt with someone when you don't particularly care if you ever see them again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 02:14 AM |
| -1 | Camille Paglia on women taking responsibility video.whoaaa where are you going with those goalposts Last I checked the conversation was about whether she consented or not. Not whether her behaviour should be endorsed or what it says about her character. Sure, a woman going to a man's room with no intention of having sex (or changing her mind about wanting to have sex when she gets there) might be stupid, selfish, manipulative, whatever. However, if the man forces her to have sex anyway, it's still rape. A crime does not become a non-crime because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/15 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Women: Is it true there are guys you would only sleep with (but not date) and vice versa?I've previously had casual sex with a guy I didn't like enough to be in a relationship with, but I wouldn't do it again. Don't know where that puts me. I wouldn't date a guy I'm not attracted to, because what's the point? Though I'm not sure if I've ever felt "fiery passion" for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 10:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: 50 Shades is more true-to-life than not.Yeah I think that is why this book didn't do much for me tbh, I don't like too much "realism" in my erotic fantasy, nothing dries up my vagina faster than having to read about two boring twits bickering about food and contracts and other mundane stuff. It's "porn with a plot", but the plot is basically just some dull relationship drama between two unlikeable people that you have to slog through to get to the porn, which is not even that hot in the first place. I really don't understand how this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Powering through LMR becomes potential assault when it's done in an everyday-threatening way, even if she "can say no any second"If you have never been convicted of that crime, you simply are not a rapist. That is the most ass backwards logic ever. You get convicted of a crime because you are (found to be) a criminal, not the other way around. You do realise that if we went by that logic, nobody would ever get convicted for anything, right? "Even though the accused shot somebody to death in front of several witnesses, he has never been convicted of murder and therefore is not a murderer. As such, we find him to be not gui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on porn?What is your take on porn? Do you watch it? Like it? Please identify your pill when you answer and state your reasoning. Yeah I watch porn, like it - depends on the video of course but I'm not picky. Blue pill I guess. Do you feel extreme porn should be censored? How do you feel about series like "Bound Gangbangs", where a women consensually enact gangrape, or "deepthroat" series where a woman is choking on a penis? Are those socially dangerous? I watch them sometimes, not my favourite type of p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/15 03:04 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of this comment from Yahoo! Answers (from 6 years ago)?Yeah lol just realised I kinda made it sound like I'm suicidal or something, not really what I meant. More like, I've never really had any dreams or ambitions or anything. & I'm just doing the same thing day in day out and there's nothing better or different to look forward to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 07:44 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys think of this comment from Yahoo! Answers (from 6 years ago)?I'm not even that old yet, but I've felt that way for a while. Like life is just waiting for death. IDK if that's a woman only thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | BP is this person being discussed an RP Man?Speaking of trying to have it both ways, do you even realise that you just went "nagging for sex isn't red pill, but the fact that it worked on someone proves that red pill works!"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 10:57 AM |
| 7 | What EXACTLY makes a High SMV Woman? Is it smart to select women on SMV alone?> "Filtering partners based on personality and life goals in addition to physical attraction is for suckers!" > Complains about bitchy women who don't share his life goals > ebin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Help me understand the prevalence of emotional abuse in womenI think you are probably overestimating how common this sort of thing is, if you read relationship advice subreddits of course people who have some kind of big problem in their relationship will be overrepresented. Personally I don't know anyone IRL who has been in an abusive relationship (or maybe they're all too scared to talk about it, idk lol). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Survey: Readers of PPD, what is your age, gender, and number of people you have slept with?25, female, 2. I guess 3 if you count cybersex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?I agree with most of the people in this thread, sounds fake as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 06:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV dragging along friendzoned guys is just emotional plate-spinning.The guy's romantic interest may be obvious, but often the girl thinks she is also making her disinterest obvious by just making polite small talk and not responding to the attempts at flirting. But the girl doesn't want to outright tell him to stop contacting her, because she doesn't want to come off as mean and unreasonable, and the guy doesn't want to a) ask her out, because he knows from the lack of flirty response that she's not interested at the moment nor b) stop contacting her, because he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 06:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV dragging along friendzoned guys is just emotional plate-spinning.I don't know if it's so much about doing the guy a favour, as much as not acting friendly seems like something that's mean and inappropriate. Rejecting someone who asks you out is considered perfectly normal and acceptable. Rejecting or ignoring someone who's just acting friendly is considered rude and presumptuous. It comes across as either "You're not even good enough to talk to me" or "You're too stupid to know what's good for you". It always feels like an asshole move, even if you know the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 03:11 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Revenge porn is often a fundamentally just and noble actYou see, there is this concept called justice. It exists Yes, a moral concept. Y'all are awfully quick to drop the whole "sexual strategy is amoral" thing when it comes down to passing judgement on women, in which case morality is totally a real and objective thing that exists. Of course, there ain't no rule that you can't be a moral nihilist only when it's convenient for you. Just don't expect people to view your pretenses of righteous indignation as anything other than laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pills who don't disagree with it all, have you successfully used a Red Pill Tactic in your love life?Recently I've been trying to give him more space, "just shut up and leave him alone", as you will. It seems to be working okay. We see each other less of course, when we do meet we still have fun, and he seems to be happier this way. I suppose it's always a bit of a bummer to find out that someone is happier the less time they spend with you, but at this point I've come to expect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/15 06:01 PM |
| 2 | I found this post about adultery and I wanted to share with you all. (importance of female lust)I still don't get it really. If you try some sex act and find it really gross and unpleasant, are you obligated to just do it once with every new partner, just to confirm you still don't like it? Or are you obligated to do it any time a partner asks? Also, is it okay to try a sex act and refuse to do it again with the same partner? If the first, I don't understand what the point is. Your partner gets to experience the side of you that's grossed out and uncomfortable, I guess, but they still won'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/15 01:02 PM |
| 2 | What is femininity?Ah, I guess then I just misunderstood what you meant by "questions they don't need answers to". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/15 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What is femininity?Then, id like a woman to ask questions about my day. And as much as I hate to reiterate comedians, silence from a woman is GOLDEN. If only they would stop asking questions they don't need answers to, "just to make conversation". I think you forgot a "not" in that first sentence, got really confused for a moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/15 11:48 PM |
| 9 | Do you think your partner's sexual history might matter sometimes (I'm not talking about STDs)?I have to say I don't really understand why guys get so upset if their girlfriend tried some sex act with a past partner, didn't like it and doesn't want to do it again. I mean, sure, if you really like anal or whatever, and your girlfriend doesn't want to do it then that's a bummer (heh). But what difference does it make if she tried it in the past, tries it with you for the first time and doesn't want to do it again, or just flat out refuses to try it? Either way, you're still not getting anal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of SJWs? All pills please.Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying people don't have a right to be upset, or that just because corruption has been going on for a long time means we shouldn't try to stop it. I definitely wouldn't complain about having more journalistic integrity & it's cool if people want to campaign for that. Just that the whole Zoe Quinn fiasco is more of a sordid distraction from the actual systematic problems, and the more it gets focused on, the less productive the movement looks. And I understand GamerGat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/14 11:56 PM |
| 6 | What do you think of SJWs? All pills please.Why do you immediately jump to that conclusion? What do you know of Zoe Quinn? Honestly, do you realize the full scope of just why it is GamerGate came down on her? It's more than just her fucking journalists for good reviews. The whole thing started because of Zoe's ex-boyfriend wanting to get back at her for being cheated on, and people latched on to it because it's a dramatic story. All the journalism stuff came later. In the context of gaming journalism, the Zoe Quinn incident is an utterly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/14 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Straight women with less than 3 partners, how much do you care about your man's sexual partner count?Not much to be honest, never asked my boyfriend what his partner count is. I know he's had at least one girlfriend before, but no history of casual sex afaik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/14 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Should betas engage in hobbies they're not interested in, even hate, just to meet girls?Exactly. I'm more of a casual gamer nowadays, but in the past I've been more involved in various types of gaming, and I've literally never come across this "eww, girl cooties" attitude from any guys I played with, or on gaming forums. The only people who think women somehow ruin gaming seem to be MRA-types, many of whom aren't actually gamers themselves from what I can tell. I mean, how does she think women get into gaming in the first place? I'd wager quite a few were actually introduced into t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/14 12:28 AM |
| 1 | What's your personality type? (Whether you're red, blue, purple or other)Blue Personality: ISFP Variant: Turbulent Role: Explorer It sorta fits, except for the fact that I have the artistic abilities of a potato. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/14 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you give a shit about the GamerGate? What do you think?The whole thing seems massively overblown to me. Some indie game developer allegedly slept with a journalist to get a good review for her game, and everybody completely lost their shit. But frankly, I don't really get what the big deal is. Not that I think bribing journalists with sexual favours is ok, but this incident doesn't really prove anything other than the fact that the people involved are scumbags. It's not like her game even became remotely popular or successful; the people flipping th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/14 07:33 PM |
| 4 | One simple equation that I have come up with that sums up my dating experiences.So basically, your complaint is that you're so interesting, attractive and good in bed that women don't want to cut off contact with you after the first date? Maybe you should post this to /r/firstworldproblems :P. In all seriousness though, if I understand you correctly, you just want to have a bunch of one-night-stands with a bit of emotional/intellectual connection, but without your partners getting attached to you. And I think that might be difficult to achieve, because if they've already co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Actual Relationship ResearchNo I'm not familiar with it. Just the way you phrased it came across like following the advice in the linked article was the only (or the best) method for a man to be seen as higher value in a relationship, but then you said you/RPW do not promote that sort of behavior, which seemed to imply that RPW do not see their partners as higher value. But if I understand correctly now you meant that there are multiple ways for a man to present himself as higher value and that article is just one of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Actual Relationship Researchyes, that is how men should behave if they want to continue being the higher value partner in a relationship and treated as such Just because I'm saying it isn't irrational or doesn't work doesn't mean I am promoting that strain of rp thought. RPW is mostly based in the LTR game blogs and athol Kay. Then does this mean RPW don't see their partners as higher value? This seems to run contrary to what I've read on RPW so far but maybe I've got the wrong impression. Anyway I don't really see how thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/14 10:47 AM |
| 3 | [For Bluepillers] Do you believe in "strangers"?I don't think anyone has a moral duty to do anything. I generally expect strangers to be indifferent towards me but to behave with a basic level of politeness, because that's what I've observed most people to be like. I haven't yet encountered anyone who's attempted to seriously harm me. I don't know, maybe I live in a particularly safe area, or maybe I'm just naive and lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/14 03:48 PM |
| 6 | A Spiritual Conception of Masculinity and FemininityHmm, still haven't managed to watch all the videos, but after seeing the first one and the beginning of the second, I had the feeling that this was where it was going to go. So it's basically just the good old "be yourself" advice that TRP hates so damn much, + a load of hokey about Gods and Goddesses and the Age of Aquarius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/14 03:55 AM |
| 2 | A Spiritual Conception of Masculinity and FemininityEh, weren't you the guy who said getting in touch with masculinity/femininity is all about dehumanization and slavery and some such, or have I got you confused with someone else? Anyhow I listened to about 5 minutes of that first video and it sounded like the stereotypical straw feminist "boo patriarchal oppression" stuff with a bunch of astrological mumbo-jumbo thrown in. It strikes me as having practically nothing in common with TRP aside from being largely bullshit. Are people confused, anxio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/14 01:23 AM |
| 2 | You are obligated to get active consent.I don't know how common it is, but it does happen. I've been in that situation. Told the guy I didn't want to have sex, he badgered me until I agreed to do it anyway. I was bored out of my mind the entire time, but evidently that didn't bother him at all. Some people just don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/14 09:07 PM |
| 1 | You are obligated to get active consent.Ehh, I don't know. A lot of guys evidently just want to get their rocks off and don't give a damn whether their partner is enjoying it or not. So what incentive do they have to put in all this effort? None, really. Sure it would be nice if all sex was fun and enthusiastic, but expecting that to become a reality is just naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What's Important?For what's important to me personally: Caring for others > Having fun >>>> Sex >>>>>...>>>>> Morality Generally I find prioritizing abstract concepts over what actually makes people happy and fulfilled to be the height of absurdity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Why Does Someone's Sexual History Not Matter?Have you ever considered that the reason women usually go out with men who make the first move is not because those men are necessarily more attractive, but because women don't want to risk rejection by asking somebody out? I think most TRPers would agree that women tend to be more risk-averse than men. Though frankly, I think most men would also not turn down a moderately attractive woman who asks them out in favour of going after a gorgeous woman who shows no interest in them. Nobody really li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/14 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Altruistic, helpful people are happier, healthier... how does this finding align with TRP philosophy?oh so you think egotistic people are fixed entities that can't change who they are? As I said, I don't know. I'm not a psychologist. I generally enjoy helping people and I don't think I could change that aspect of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/14 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Altruistic, helpful people are happier, healthier... how does this finding align with TRP philosophy?It's strange how altruism is actually more selfish than egoism, in a sense. For an altruistic person, helping others is its own reward. So they also help themselves by helping others. Whereas for egotistic people, helping others does not inherently benefit themselves. So who is really behaving selfishly? I don't find it surprising that altruistic people are happier, because helpful behaviour is obviously encouraged by society. So by behaving in the way that is most natural to themselves, they al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 1 | [Somewhat OT]Can a Husband "sexually harrass" his Wife?Q: How is a woman like a bank account? A: Neither of them have consciousness. rimshot Though seriously, this sort of attitude to relationships makes me not only want to not marry, it makes me want to become a celibate hermit. EDIT: Since I just realised my comment is rather ambiguous, I meant the attitude where you see your partner's personal autonomy as an inconvenient obstacle to getting what you want. Not trying to claim my attitude is superior though. In the end, we're all selfish and lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/14 11:16 PM |
| 3 | If sexual strategy is amoral, can a woman lie about her partner count?I don't really see how that relates to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/14 03:48 PM |
| 3 | If sexual strategy is amoral, can a woman lie about her partner count?Honestly, the whole "sexual strategy is amoral" thing strikes me as incredibly intellectually lazy. The idea that actions taken as part of a "sexual strategy" are somehow uniquely exempt from moral judgement is ridiculously illogical, because any action you take can theoretically have an effect on your sexual success. So either nothing is subject to moral judgement, or everything is. It seems like it was invented by people who believe in some kind of moral code, but commit actions that violate t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/14 01:58 PM |
| 5 | What fraction of Red Pill-ers do you think would agree with these quotes about women?The most difficult intelligence test is the understanding that women have no consciousness. The consciousness of woman is part of the imagination of man. I find it mildly amusing that this is kind of similar to the philosophical definition of solipsism. Only instead of believing that only your own mind exists, they believe that only male minds exist, which makes a whole lot less sense than actual solipsism. EDIT: After reading through that post, it seems they just gathered up every quote that sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/14 12:39 PM |
| 3 | "Women are not adults."What exactly do you mean by legacy in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Explain to me why you are opposed to this quote of mine that is on your front pageI wasn't really attempting to debate anything, just to point out in a tongue-in-cheek manner that that sentence made very little sense. But I realise it probably came across the wrong way and anyway doesn't really contribute to discussion, so apologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 12:06 AM |
| 2 | RPW and TRP: Article favorably compares techniques of abusers with PUA/TRP techniques. What do you think about this?That's what relationships used to be when we had a strong, patriarchal, and--dare I say--oppressive society that dictated how relationships should function. That seems like a very idealistic view of the past, unhappy relationships have always existed and will always exist regardless of social structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/14 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Who is the craziest person you have ever met (in the dating world) and how did you handle it?I'm probably the craziest person I've ever met. I handle it by pretending to be sane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Explain to me why you are opposed to this quote of mine that is on your front pageI don't see any benefit to traumatizing my partner other than maintaining control over her. That said, given a choice, I would not do it because I feel it's extreme. Indeed. In the end it comes down to what you value more, a partner who is happy or a partner who you can control. And I would say most normal people do not like to see their partner suffer, so resorting to abusive tactics is detrimental to themselves as well. An abuser is not going to stop abusing his wife. Well, in most cases. Some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/14 12:47 AM |
| 0 | Explain to me why you are opposed to this quote of mine that is on your front pageI... don't disagree, really. I guess my view is different to most bluepillers because I don't really care about morality. Personally I do not see any benefit in potentially traumatising my partner, and so would prefer to avoid that if possible. But if you want to act like an asshole, then that's your prerogative, and it's up to your partner whether she puts up with it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/14 11:55 PM |
| 4 | RPW and TRP: Article favorably compares techniques of abusers with PUA/TRP techniques. What do you think about this?To be honest, I think all the arguments about morality are missing the point a little. I really think the reason people don't want to hurt their partners emotionally has relatively little to do with morality. I don't consider myself a particularly moral person, yet I make an effort not to make my boyfriend unhappy. Not because the Bible or some philosopher told me that making people unhappy is bad, but because frankly, he's more fun to be around when he's happy. Could I utilise coercion, manipul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/14 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Paternity Tests?I'm not planning to have kids in the first place, but if I did, I don't think it would bother me much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RPYou're right, bringing constant negative feelings into a relationship is obviously not going to help it. I guess some of my posts in this thread make it seem like I'm always in a depressive funk, which is not true at all lol, for the most part I am pretty happy. I don't know what you personally do, but when I see girls complain about the one they usually also do the other, than also complain that the man isn't a mind reader. I don't doubt some women do that. Kind of like some men complain about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:32 PM |
| 2 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RPI don't know, I just find it doesn't make me feel much better in most cases. I'm not exactly a paragon of mental stability, but I doubt that's caused by a lack of venting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:31 AM |
| 1 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RPVenting often doesn't help at all, in my experience. What if you're upset about something that isn't really a solvable problem, like idk your favorite sports team losing? That sort of thing can really get me down, but it's not like ranting about it is going to make them win. So if somebody asks me what's wrong, I'm going to say nothing's wrong, because as I see it, nothing really is wrong. I'm just sad about something that's ultimately trivial and there's nothing do about it other than wait for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RPYeah, I suppose I can understand that. After all, I also don't like when my boyfriend is unhappy. But sometimes you have to realise that it's not about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:12 PM |
| 16 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RP"What's wrong?" "Nothing!" "Come on, what is wrong, I can see you are not happy?" "Nothing is wrong." What I don't get is how guys can complain about this, and also complain about how "men don't want to hear venting, don't talk to me about problems if you don't want me to solve them". What exactly is a woman supposed to do when she has a problem that her SO can't help with? I don't know, sometimes I get upset about trivial shit like losing in a videogame or just feel sad for no real reason. Just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 02:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm everything a red pill man would want, but I'd never be with a red pill man. Here's why...Yikes, that is legit terrifying. Now I'm going to be paranoid lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 12:10 PM |
| 1 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?What exactly do you mean by blue pill relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 07:24 PM |
| 1 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?Seriously, this is your great red pill revelation? That men are willing to do more for women they are in an intimate relationship with than for platonic acquaintances? And this is different from women, how? Do you mean to say your girlfriends treat you exactly the same as any random guy they're not having sex with? I'm not sure if this means that you know some remarkably selfless or remarkably awful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.It's pretty much limited to my family, my boyfriend, my coworkers and some old friends I meet a few times a year. Most of my coworkers are men, none of them have ever been rude to me. I've never been harassed or catcalled on the street, either. EDIT: I used to go out and meet people more when I was still in uni and belonged to a student organisation that hosted a number of events and parties. Didn't encounter many rude people then either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:19 PM |
| 5 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...I think it's silly when people complain that they shouldn't have to take precautions to protect themselves from crime, but going to the other extreme is just as silly. Try to break into a house, then claim that you are not to blame for the crime because the victim did not have a good enough lock. See how well that holds up in court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.Rarely. In fact, I can't even remember the last time I met someone who was notably rude to me. That said, I don't have the most active social life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 11:47 AM |
| 3 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...2, 24, ~60kg (because fuck the imperial system, seriously) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 11:26 PM |
| 5 | How does the "cock carousel" happen, and how often does it happen? BP and RP perspectives welcome.Or it could be that having casual sex is simply easier than having relationships. When I was 19, I had no idea how to start a relationship and no idea what it would even be like to have one. Sure, I was aware that I could probably find a boyfriend if I tried, but I didn't even know where to start looking for one, and even if I could, what if I find out I don't actually like being in a relationship after we're already committed? Seemed like a whole lot of effort for uncertain reward. But when a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 04:20 PM |
| 2 | What can you remember about your experiences with the opposite sex when you were in school?I "dated" a boy in 2nd grade (ie. we played together and sometimes walked around holding hands). After that, nothing really. I was picked on a bit in middle school, mostly by guys. Had no male friends, nobody ever asked me out. Most of my friends didn't date either, as far as I know, we never really talked about that kind of stuff. I'm not sure how it affected me. At the time, I wasn't really bothered by the lack of male attention because I couldn't really imagine enjoying being in a relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:19 AM |
| 25 | I am an incel and I resent womenThis has got to be a troll post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI'm really baffled by this view of Eastern Europe that a lot of red pillers seem to have. I don't know, maybe it's different in some poorer countries, but around here most women aren't anywhere near as desperate enough to marry someone just because he's foreign and has money. And the more traditional a woman is, the more likely she'll want to marry a local guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 02:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal with sex tourism?Anyone who claims Eastern European women are all meek and subservient has clearly never met my grandmother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of Femen?Possibly. Every time I've seen FEMEN mentioned it's been in the context of being under heavy criticism from other feminists, but I'm not really familiar enough with the situation to judge which side is the "reasonable" one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of Femen?I'm not too familiar with them, but from what I've seen they seem to be kind of the feminist equivalent of what RoK is to red pillers. A group who does a lot of outrageous and offensive shit for attention, but isn't really taken seriously by the rest of the movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/14 07:21 PM |
| 3 | The ideal wife and 'divorce-rape'Cultural differences are one thing, but I can assure you there is no magical land where women don't age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | When a man is only attracted to other men, it's OK because "homosexuality is not a choice." But what about men who are only attracted to young women?"It's okay because it's not a choice" is a stupid argument for anything. Are there some people who say homosexuality is okay because it's not a choice, yet at the same time condemn men for being attracted to younger women? Probably. Those people are stupid. I'm not sure what else there is to discuss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/14 11:25 PM |
| 7 | No means no"Pushing through LMR" can work, but it doesn't necessarily mean that "no means yes". To share an example from my own life, once I went home with a guy after a party, for the implicit purpose of having sex. By the time we got to his place, I was feeling rather tired and not really in the mood, so when he started putting the moves on me I was like "yeah maybe let's not do this". And he was like "oh c'mon why?" And I was like "I'm tired" And he was like "c'mon it'll be fun" And I was like "no I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/14 10:38 AM |
| 1 | "Be Proud You're A Man, Not A Woman," a responseI was looking at it more in an individual sense. If someone has no accomplishments to be proud of other than not being born a different species, or different gender, then their life must be pretty sad. I guess I can see some sense in discouraging too much individualistic pride, but doesn't this "you're automatically awesome just because you're a man!" directly contradict the self-improvement aspect of TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/14 09:13 PM |
| 7 | "Be Proud You're A Man, Not A Woman," a responseEven if we assume the article is true, and all men really are inherently superior to all women in these aspects, how exactly is it a source of pride? It makes about as much sense as saying "Humans are smarter than chimpanzees. Be proud you're a human, not a chimpanzee!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/14 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Question for Red Pillers: Why do you debate in this sub?For me, I just enjoy sparring with left wing cranks. Sure, if by "sparring" you mean "flailing frantically against imaginary enemies while foaming at the mouth". Seriously dude, you are the one who thinks women shouldn't be allowed to vote and yet you believe that those who disagree with you are the radical extremist cranks. The level of delusion required for that is seriously astounding. Your desperate attempts to paint your own extreme beliefs as normal and mainstream, while ranting incoherent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/14 11:22 AM |
| 6 | BPers, when a woman drinks or smokes while pregnant and later gives birth to a baby with deformities or other complications, whose fault is it?It was clearly the fault of violent videogames. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/14 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers - Do you realize how much you lack introspection?I'm guessing /pol/ is probably too liberal for this moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/14 12:01 PM |
| 11 | Purge + Survey = PurgeyYou do realise that not everyone who disagrees with TRP is subscribed to TBP or any SJW subs, right? I'm just gonna assume you do and have decided to ignore that in order to peddle your crackpot conspiracy theory, otherwise, http://imgur.com/ymjW3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 2 | The purge: you've made your point.Yeah I think it might have been more efficient to not announce the purge publicly... People would notice something is off but we wouldn't be seeing quite as much Darqwolff copypasta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/14 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Farewell PPD - At least for nowWell TBF this is a new account... there's no way to verify if it's actually the same person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | A Question for TRP and RPW: Why is it often said that the essence of femininity is selflessness?I think the idea is that women just don't know how to be happy so their only chance at finding any kind of fulfillment is contributing to someone else's happiness? IDK though, this isn't something I've seen RPers claim often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/14 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Women - have you ever been a "spinning plate" and how did it feel?Had a sort of fuck buddy thing with a guy for about two years... well that's probably not the best term to use, makes it sound like a closer relationship than it actually was. It was really more like multiple hookups with the same guy. I think we had sex about five times in total, and didn't meet up much aside from that. I'm pretty sure he had other partners, I didn't. Not because of any kind of loyalty to him, I just couldn't be bothered to go out and meet people. How did it feel? Well the sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/14 02:05 PM |
| 2 | PPD, Is it wrong for women to dress for men?I'm... still confused, honestly. You seem to be reading a whole bunch of things into her comment that aren't there. I mean, OP asked if it's wrong to dress for men, /u/annierex replied you can dress however you want for whatever reason. And you're mad because she didn't go into more detail? Or because you think she's justifying people being dishonest about the reasons for the clothing choices? Or you think it's wrong to dress a certain way? Sorry if I'm being retarded but I don't really get your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/14 02:11 AM |
| 2 | PPD, Is it wrong for women to dress for men?Maybe she's pointing out the obvious because the answer to the OP's question is obvious? You still haven't actually explained why you disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/14 05:27 PM |
| 3 | On having babies (before too late)I think little kids are cute and all, but only in small doses. From my experiences with younger siblings, I tend to lose my temper easily around them. Perhaps some magical motherhood hormone would make me feel differently about my own child, I don't know. But even though I'm not feeling exactly fulfilled in my life right now, it seems incredibly irresponsible to bring a human life into the world on the off chance that it would make me feel better. I mean, you wouldn't tell someone to get a dog j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/14 01:03 PM |
| 3 | On having babies (before too late)Did you link the right thing? That doesn't say anything about having babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/14 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Women, what do you think you bring into a marriage that a man cannot have while single or in a relationship?Nothing really. Which is why I'm not planning to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/14 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Does a married man have a reasonable expectation of frequent sex?I think it's reasonable to expect frequent sex, and I don't understand why someone would enter a LTR or get married without being willing to have sex with their partner. However I don't think it should be legally mandated to have sex X times a week because if it gets to the point where that is necessary the relationship is broken beyond repair anyway. It should be up to the individual couple to decide how they share their financial assets. Probably not. Don't know if you'd consider my answers to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/14 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Let's talk about dread game some moreBonus: Russians are very good at giving head, so this will have the ring of truth. wat Is this an actual stereotype about Russians or did the blog writer just make it up on the spot? I'm just wondering because I live in a country with a sizeable Russian minority and never heard something like that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/14 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do I see so many high SMV women in relationships with low SMV men?Well, I don't think you're sockpuppeting here, but it does seem a bit suspicious that a fresh account with no post history just showed up and posted something that reads as blatant bluepill bait. I would say there is significant chance of OP being a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/14 11:35 AM |
| 1 | TRP "date rape" post causes some internal controversy. What does PPD Think?venerable You keep using that word. I don't think it means what you think it means. Seriously though, you mean "vulnerable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/14 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Is there anything morally wrong with letting a partner's romantic history influence your decisions on romantic interactions with them?FWIW, I was curious since I didn't think lokidemon seemed like the SRS type, so I searched her username on metareddit, and according to that, she's never posted to SRS and while she does have some comments on MensRights none of them seem particularly trolly to me (and in fact many have been upvoted and met with agreement by the community). So it seems either ETBB is confusing her with someone else or he just decided that "female posting in MR? must be SRS troll" based on 0 evidence. Or maybe she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | On language and its uses: RP vs BPTBH I think if anyone was being a jerk there, it was your girlfriend... having a rough day doesn't excuse snapping at someone, in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/14 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceConflict is necessary in a relationship. I'm not sure necessary is the best word to use here. "Inevitable" would be better, perhaps. In my opinion an ideal relationship would have both partners on the same page to begin with - but of course that's an ideal and you can't ever expect two people to be perfectly in sync in real life. So when conflict arises you need to know how to deal with it. But that doesn't mean that a relationship where you need to argue a lot to get your needs met is better th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 02:20 PM |
| 2 | RE: Is feminism what angers? Short answer: Yes, sometimes.I think CFRPRoflcopter is pretty bluepill. And the red pill mods aren't exactly extremist, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Are Men and Women Equal?So if we had better social safety nets for men, would men lose value as a result? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/14 11:21 AM |
| 12 | What do you think of Chateau Heartiste's "thermonuclear option"?Regardless of whether it would actually work, one has to wonder whether a relationship where you have to resort to such drastic measures is actually worth salvaging in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 03:12 PM |
| 2 | The Quiz: Mating IQ .How did you do?I got a 3... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/14 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Is preparation/learning about relationships only bad when it comes to sex?My ideal relationship would be one which I don't have to talk to my mate, and I can sit on the couch and do nothing and she brings me food, and fucks me at a moments notice, any time any place. I know that just isn't possible. Hey, don't lose hope - they might one day invent a sexbot that can cook :D. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/14 01:49 AM |
| 3 | First post regarding attraction to dominance ( for tbp women )I have no desire for a challenge in a relationship. I want someone I can have peace with, who will support me, and who will laugh with me. I've had "challenging" relationships before, and I am not interested in one. Maybe that's a male/female difference? I don't know. I don't think it is, as a woman I also have no desire for challenge in a relationship. I have a few friends who I would describe as "challenging" people - the sort with whom "witty banter" is the standard mode of conversation, wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/14 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Men are more likely to divorce spouses with terminal illness, while wives are more likely to stay. How does this fit into the red pill idea that honor is a only a male construct? I posted this in the red pill sub and it was deleted without reason after some discussion.I don't think people need to participate in every activity and hobby their partner enjoys (usually platonic friends don't do that either), but if you have nothing in common and there's literally nothing you like doing together other than having sex, I don't see much point in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 05:33 PM |
| 11 | Men are more likely to divorce spouses with terminal illness, while wives are more likely to stay. How does this fit into the red pill idea that honor is a only a male construct? I posted this in the red pill sub and it was deleted without reason after some discussion.Why is it less honorable to judge someone by their actions, rather than characteristics that are (at least partly) out of their control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What does PPD think about "Plausible Deniability"?If you're actually in earshot of her friends, then I'd say coming up with a different excuse to leave isn't so much a matter of not making her seem slutty as simply being polite. I wouldn't judge someone for having casual sex but I would find it rude to publicly announce it. I'd also find it rude if, say, a married couple at a party announced that they're going home to have sex. Nothing wrong with having sex but it's not something you talk about with everyone, because most people don't care abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?What's that, I Googled it and all that came up was porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/14 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?You sound like my mother... She'd always tell me to do some chores by the time she got home from work, and if I forgot about something then she'd start doing it acting like a martyr, and even if I said "Sorry I forgot, I'll just do it now", she'd be like "No it's too late, I have to do it now, how could you be so careless and absent-minded?!" I'll admit I usually didn't have any good excuse for failing to do the chores on time, but I guess I just never saw why those tasks were so time-critical -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/14 01:50 AM |
| 3 | What does PPD think about "Plausible Deniability"?Hmm, as I recall the guy I had casual sex with invited me inside with some incredibly vague explanation... though I was about 99.9% certain that we were gonna fuck, there was still a brief awkward moment as we were standing around in his room and I was thinking "What if he didn't actually want to have sex? If I start undressing will he think I'm a weirdo?" Fortunately he took the initiative. Not sure whether it had all that much to do with plausible deniability versus the fact that my native lan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/14 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Do you think women can make good friends?I think it's partly introversion, partly just that I'm kind of a boring person. It's not all that bad though, in fact I rather like being alone most of the time. I think I fit a lot of the negative stereotypes about women that redpillers have, but IME I'm the outlier, not the rule. Most women I know seem quite able to have a social life and maintain friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Do you think women can make good friends?Well, personally I've always been terrible at making/keeping friends. I haven't really made any new friends since high school, and the few friends I do have, I only meet up with a few times a year. But I don't think I'm representative of most women in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone else worried about the men?Honestly... that sounds quite a bit like my own preferred relationship model. And quite unlike what I've seen from redpillers so far - most of them seem to be obsessed with status and rules and roles and expectations. Guess it just goes to show how many different things you can take away from the same "ideology". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/14 03:00 AM |
| 5 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.Interesting. Do you think men are capable of respecting other men who are physically weaker than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/14 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Question to red pill women. What do you think about TRP (the subreddit) and the average TRP'er?And that nice college boy with absolutely no weapons training or fighting experience is going to protect me when society collapses and roving gangs of bandits plunder the land? Yeah sure. Honestly though, I'd rather have a relationship based on enjoying each other's company rather than protection in exchange for servitude. And if the former is impossible as you claim I'd... rather be single and bet on civilization not collapsing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/14 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Question to red pill women. What do you think about TRP (the subreddit) and the average TRP'er?yeah I think I'd rather take my chances in the zombie apocalypse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/14 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Does P**** power really exist?But it's not like it's unheard of for men to suffer a loss of libido due to stress or medical issues or other problems. I know I've had to go without sex for a month because my boyfriend was stressed due to work. Sure this sort of thing is more common in women, but that doesn't mean it's manipulation or some kind of mystical "pussy power", it's just a matter of one partner having a lowered sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/13 01:47 PM |
| 4 | The pill metaphor sucksI don't see what debate is possible about this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/13 09:43 PM |
| 4 | John Gottman's relationship research, and the inefficacy of "dread game"I really don't see how "dread game" could possibly come across as less hateful and antagonistic than "standing up for yourself" or "setting boundaries". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/13 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Study of the Day: Women Are Much Happier When Men Feel Their PainFirst off, calling someone a douche, and then providing a legitimate argument against them, isn't an ad hominem fallacy, it's just rudeness. An ad hominem argument would be something like "you're wrong because you're a douche". Both are against the rules. But I don't see how calling a source pop science is equivalent to a personal insult, when that source indisputably is pop science. "Pop science" isn't a derogatory term, it's what that type of science journalism is called. I get that "this is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/13 02:47 AM |
| 4 | Study of the Day: Women Are Much Happier When Men Feel Their PainI think you're following the letter of the law here but not the spirit. Yes, mrsamsa did technically "complain about the source being too pop-psychology", but he did also provide evidence that the summary was a bit misleading and overly simplistic by quoting the actual study, which I would say falls under "find a way to disprove it based on actual data". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/13 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Do you find the fact that TRP contains this kind of rhetoric a problem?Seems to me no one here can imagine a relationship where a woman isn't constantly vying with a man for dominance so they imagine the woman in dd being hit constantly? Odd, to me it comes across the other way around - that (some) redpillers think that women will use every opportunity to cause arguments and drama unless they get punched in the face often enough, and are generally incapable of rational discussion. If it's not a reasonably common occurrence, then why would you need a protocol for it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/13 11:13 AM |
| 7 | Study of the Day: Women Are Much Happier When Men Feel Their PainThat is how I understood it too. Obviously we can't know the reason behind this correlation with certainty, but assuming it's because women are happier when their partners are in distress just strikes me as absurd. Especially as it also correlates with men's relationship satisfaction. Are we to assume that men enjoy being in distress? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Study of the Day: Women Are Much Happier When Men Feel Their Painwhen the man is in emotional distress the woman becomes more satisfied. Are you referring to this line from the abstract? "Women’s ability to read their husbands’ negative emotions was positively linked to both men’s and women’s relationship satisfaction." I'll admit I haven't had time to read the full study yet, but that's not how I would interpret that line at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/13 08:25 PM |
| 8 | "Problematic"What is the point of this question? People try to change things they perceive as problems. In most cases, not everybody is going to agree on whether the status quo is problematic or not. If the faction pushing for change has enough influence, it's going to happen, and other people are going to be affected by it, whether they like it or not. This isn't limited to feminist/SJW issues, this happens in literally every situation where there's conflicting opinions about something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/13 08:58 PM |
| 5 | "East European Women and the Battle of the Sexes in American Culture" Nanda Dimitrov, University of Western Ontario. 2004.That's... odd... being from Eastern Europe, it's my impression that Americans are the ones who are obsessed with their appearance. Nobody's ever criticized me for not shaving my legs or not wearing makeup - in fact the place where I was exposed to the idea that that's something I should be doing was... American media. That's not to say people don't do those things around here, it's actually fairly common I'd say, but nobody really makes a big deal out of it I think. Perhaps the reason people are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/13 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe submissiveness is an inherently gendered trait? Why do some red pillers praise submissiveness in one gender and deride it in the other?Well, in a sense, he already motivates me indirectly. When I was single, I didn't really care that I only made minimum wage, but recently I've started searching for a better job so I'd be able to support him financially if it should be necessary in the future. And I've just been trying to take better care of myself and be less of a loser. But he hasn't really pushed me to do anything. I guess, in a paradoxical way, the fact that he loves me even as a loser is motivating me to be a better person … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe submissiveness is an inherently gendered trait? Why do some red pillers praise submissiveness in one gender and deride it in the other?tbqh I probably would too, but not because I think it's my duty as a woman or because I think my opinion is less valuable, I'm just fairly apathetic about most things and I see no point in arguing unless it's about something vitally important to me (or unless it's with strangers on the internet lol). But on the other hand, my boyfriend also isn't the type who constantly pushes me to do things I don't want to because "he knows what's better for me". Even if it was objectively better for me by som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/13 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe submissiveness is an inherently gendered trait? Why do some red pillers praise submissiveness in one gender and deride it in the other?Could it be that that's not because of your relationship dynamic, but rather that you just agree on most issues? I don't have a red pill relationship and I haven't had any major disagreements or fights with my boyfriend over the 10 months we've been together, either. Granted, that's a relatively short time as far as relationships go, so it might be too early to judge, but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/13 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe submissiveness is an inherently gendered trait? Why do some red pillers praise submissiveness in one gender and deride it in the other?Yes, he is autonomous, but since this would have been a unique time to meet friends that are only in town for a short time, that would add importance to the occasion. As to your "if the roles were reversed" example, I don't really understand it, anytime I go out for social reasons I always want my SO there, and barring something specifically "male only" like a bachelor party - he wants to socialize with me as well. So say it's a female only event, like a bachelorette party or whatever. That spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/13 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Do you believe submissiveness is an inherently gendered trait? Why do some red pillers praise submissiveness in one gender and deride it in the other?For example a woman wants to go to a party for a friend and introduce her bf. Many of her friends are in from out of town. The man, however, wants to go to bachelor party that is taking place at exactly the same time. How do you resolve this? My initial instinct is to explain the situation to my SO, and follow his decision. I know that he will weigh all the options, and consider all possibilities. He listens to what I have to say, he may ask questions, and then he makes a decision. Whatever he d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/13 06:20 PM |
| 0 | How TRP flirts with pro-life abortion restrictionsI think you might have misunderstood my question. If you put women at an equal disadvantage again by making abortion illegal, what makes you think people would suddenly start campaigning for "paper abortions" or whatever it's called? Why do you think the pro-choice movement wouldn't just try to re-legalize regular abortion, putting you right back to where you started? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 05:31 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] What have we learned from PPD?Hah, fair enough. Really, what I was getting at is that a safeword isn't just a stronger way of saying "nuh uh!", it's meant to be used when something is making you feel unsafe (hence the name). And I would consider the possibility that your work performance will be harmed a valid reason for that. So really what your original comment came across as was that she should trust you unquestioningly, but you wouldn't trust her judgment that she found your decision unacceptable enough to safeword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How TRP flirts with pro-life abortion restrictionsYeah, but you do realize that abortion used to be illegal in the past, right? If people didn't push for "equal pro-choice" back then, what makes you think they would start to do that if abortion became illegal again? Furthermore, assume that you and others like you lend your support to the pro-life cause and it becomes powerful enough to illegalise abortion. But when it's time for Step 2, it turns out the pro-life movement was so successful that there are few people left who are willing to suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 04:56 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] What have we learned from PPD?To be honest, I'm not a fan of safewords, because in most cases what is communicated by a safeword can more precisely be communicated by regular language. So let's say that instead of saying "banana", she said something like "Look, this outing isn't just for fun, we're actually going to be talking about work stuff there, and it's gonna be an important opportunity to make a good impression on my new boss. I really need to go." Would you still be like "Nope, my decision is final, start scrubbing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How TRP flirts with pro-life abortion restrictionsI don't understand the logic behind this. How does supporting pro-life help you at all in this situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 04:13 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] What have we learned from PPD?Why should a relationship be centered around only one partner's needs? And fwiw, I didn't get that impression from him at all. I thought he seemed pretty concerned about his girlfriend's needs. I just thought his relationship dynamic was pretty damn unusual and definitely not generalizable to "male needs" and "female needs". Which he later admitted, but earlier in the thread he had been adamant that pretty much everyone would be better off if they did something like that. He said his girlfriend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/13 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Apologies, I didn't mean to be insulting, I've got nothing against the mentally ill (being mildly neurotic myself). Perhaps existential crisis was too strong a term to use, but - you do realize most people are able to make their own decisions about whether to eat cake or whatever without it negatively affecting their sense of security in any way, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/13 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?I'm honestly starting to wonder if your girlfriend has a mental disorder of some sort. I don't mean this in a derogatory way, and it sounds like you've found a way to work with it if she does, but a mentally healthy individual does not face an existential crisis over having to decide whether to eat a piece of cake or not. Like, this is the sort of thing that would be weirdly controlling even in a parent/child relationship. I'm pretty sure most elementary school kids don't have to ask their paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/13 01:55 PM |
| 5 | [Dumb question] TRP vs. the World?Eh, I'm from Eastern Europe as well and I've always found it ridiculous how so many USians seem to think any criticism of their opinion is equivalent to government censorship. People around here generally aren't afraid to be blunt and direct either, but nobody I know IRL fetishizes edginess and political incorrectness as much as Americans seem to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Should people have peer reviewed studies before taking a political stance and before voting?Huh, that thread seems to have been deleted. Anyone know why? I thought it was a pretty good topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/13 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone prove the Patriarchy is real?How does being being responsible for buying food and clothes equate to having control? If somebody hires a servant to buy food for them, does that mean the servant has more power than their employer? If you make some amount of money, and allocate some of it to another person to run some errands for you, then that doesn't really give them any real control over it, even if you don't micromanage the shopping list. Sure, they could spend the money on things you don't like... but then you can simply … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/13 07:15 PM |
| 10 | Bluepillers: If I'm happy and my girl is happy. Why do you care?Or required that you are home by a certain time? I fail to see how this could possibly be appealing or contribute to anyone's happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/13 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Personal reasons for your political viewsAre you equating working a job that puts your life at risk with suicide? I don't really understand what you're getting at, or what this has to do with the post you replied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/13 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Personal reasons for your political viewsI'm not sure how to interpret your post then. You did say that TRP doesn't tell men to never talk about their problems, but then you went on about how if men didn't put on the strong man mask and suffer alone then society would collapse and that male lives need to be disposable. So there seems to be a contradiction there. Which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/13 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Personal reasons for your political viewsWhy do you think society would collapse if we encouraged men to seek help for problems that lead to suicide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/13 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?I don't think those sentences are equivalent. "I really need to do x" is mostly used in everyday conversation as a shorthand for "It would be a good idea for me to do x". If you say "I really need to buy a new car", "I really need to finish that book", "I really need to do laundry", nobody's going to take that as you talking about an actual physiological or psychological need. "I totally gave up my needs" is considerably more dramatic. If you heard somebody saying "I skipped lunch to help my cow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 11:34 PM |
| 2 | TRP: what is an example of misogyny?uhh weren't you just in the other thread claiming that it's bad to leave a relationship because it's making you unhappy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 06:29 PM |
| 5 | TRP: what is an example of misogyny?That is a really poor example of a lie, considering that "really into videogames" is such a vague concept. Your "fire up the XBox once in a few months" might be someone's "play through a new game every other week" or "spend 5 hours a day on World of Warcraft". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 06:16 PM |
| 7 | TRP: what is an example of misogyny?Then TRP would come along and say, "look, you've got to negotiate with your employer. Here's how you negotiate. You've got to be willing to walk away if your employer doesn't pay you enough." TRP is hardly the only place in the world where you can find the idea that compromise is required for a relationship, that negotiation and communication are important, and that you should leave relationships that are unsatisfying and show no hope of improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 05:23 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't love you.I don't think SoftHarem's post had all that much to do with what I was saying. I can't find his original post at the moment, but from the excerpts quoted here in the OP, he seems to be claiming that if somebody's love towards you is dependent on how you act, it's not really real. Which, eh, love is kind of a fuzzy concept so if you want to define it like that, be my guest. But imo it's a pointlessly narrow definition, since truly unconditional love is vanishingly rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 04:26 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't love you.I was replying to redpillschool's comment which explicitly stated that it's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 02:30 PM |
| 4 | She doesn't love you.I agree that women (and men) will leave relationships that don't make them happy. I disagree that it's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Self reliance: the cure for hypergamyWhy wouldn't something like "chick" work? Also "gal". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 12:34 PM |
| 4 | She doesn't love you...nothing? If you care for your partner, why would you want them to do something that makes them unhappy? I'm not planning to get married, but if my boyfriend told me he wasn't happy anymore and wanted to break up, then of course I'd try to find out the cause of his unhappiness and fix it if possible, but if it was something insurmountable, I wouldn't be like "no you must stay with me because commitment and until death do us part yada yada yada". Why would I? What do I possibly have to gain out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/13 12:14 PM |
| 16 | She doesn't love you.Why is it a good thing to stay in a relationship where one or both partners are unhappy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/13 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?Equally? No. But I do think that a significant portion of the female population does have violent fantasies. Just because you've never had a violent thought or whatever doesn't mean that any woman who does is somehow defective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/13 10:40 AM |
| 27 | Why is the idea that men have needs offensive to blue pillers?Yep, this about sums it up. Sexual intimacy is a need, but no particular person is required to help you fulfil that need. Just like friendship is a need, but complaining about somebody not wanting to be your friend would rightly be regarded as whiny and entitled. Also, what jumped at me from the post (emphasis mine) We were doing whatever she wanted to do, and it was because I wanted to have sex with her. My instincts are to be NICE so she will fuck me. I totally gave up my needs (which was to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/13 05:41 PM |
| 7 | TRP and racism.Sorry, didn't mean to imply that. Was using the general "you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 02:03 PM |
| 9 | TRP and racism.It's a pretty stupid outlook. Just because some country was founded by people who look like you doesn't mean you deserve a privileged position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/13 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Emotional stonewalling: the core burden of masculinityAs a somewhat over-emotional woman, I can't say it's been a good trade for me either. I'm overly sensitive and cry often, and once every few months I have a full-on emotional breakdown, sobbing, screaming, breaking things and hurting myself - usually over something relatively inconsequential. Fortunately, that usually happens when I'm alone. But regardless of the fact that it's considered somewhat more acceptable for me to act this way than it would be for a man, I still feel ashamed after havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/13 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Feminism helps men to be happier with themselves.What does being fat have to do with masculinity? I mean yeah women generally have a higher body fat percentage, but I doubt that overweight men are considered unattractive because fat makes them feminine. Obesity is seen as an unattractive trait in women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/13 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Alpha fucks/Beta bucksI might just be overlooking something, but I couldn't find the links to the actual studies in the articles. Could somebody link them please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/13 10:56 PM |
| 9 | How can a drunk person choose to rape and be responsible for it, if they can't choose to have sex and be responsible for it?all you have is the right to REDRESS in court if youre injured, not a right not to be injured. No, I have the right to go to court because my right not to be injured has been violated. And if someone prevents me from going to court, it doesn't mean that I never had the right to sue. I don't really understand what point you're trying to make here. Obviously having legal rights doesn't mean that it's literally impossible for someone to violate those rights. If it was, we wouldn't need a law in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/13 11:53 AM |
| 10 | How can a drunk person choose to rape and be responsible for it, if they can't choose to have sex and be responsible for it?raped? youre lucky you werent killed. strangers dont owe you anything, they have no obligation to you, they are strange, you dont know them. Uh, yeah they do. Everyone has the legal obligation to not rape or murder anyone, stranger or not. This is kind of a basic foundation of civilised society. what pollyannish pie-in-the-sky world does everyone live in? What bizarre dystopian world do you live in where people forfeit their right to life by being alone with a stranger or casual acquaintance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/13 12:19 AM |
| 1 | "Feel free to link these threads back to your home sub, but don't organize any downvote brigades"It seems the quality of the sub has been going down a bit in general, I'm seeing a lot more name-calling and mudslinging in the last few threads which is disappointing. Not sure what to do about it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/13 12:53 PM |
| 3 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?This is a debate forum not call-people-mentally-ill-if-they-disagree forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 05:16 PM |
| 3 | National Geographic Agrees the Human Alpha Male is Real--What Does PPD think?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCYVCI9NGUU ^ direct link to the National Geographic video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/13 01:59 PM |
| 3 | If TRP is ineffective, what sexual "strategies" do work?If he already had a satisfying sex life, he wouldn't even propose to hook up with her! Is it not possible to be happy with your sex life and also be open to the possibility of additional partners? It does seem we read his post differently - it came across to me as, he wanted to have sex with her, but not so much that he'd be willing to change his personality to suit her tastes. I mean, he did also say And I'm not going to fuck her, or date her, and that's totally fine with me. I go to school wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 07:27 PM |
| 4 | If TRP is ineffective, what sexual "strategies" do work?And here's what I don't get. Why should have have to radically alter his behaviour and who he is (or rather I should say misrepresent who he is, because you can't just change your personality at the drop of a hat every time you meet someone attractive), when he already has several partners who like him for who he is? Does he have some kind of an obligation to sleep with this particular woman? If he already has a satisfying sex life even with his "passive attitude", why should he put in exponenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 06:14 PM |
| 7 | TRPers have found a happier life and wouldn't go back. Anyone actually calling themselves 'Blue Pill' will never change their mind on that. Therefore this sub is unproductive. CMVWell to be honest, I'm not really aiming to change anyone's mind here. Just want to get some insight into how y'all think. In that sense, it's productive for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/13 12:57 PM |
| 2 | The Ideal WorldWell damn, and the discussion was just getting interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 09:20 PM |
| 2 | The Ideal WorldAlright that clears things up. Oddly enough I did exactly that the first few times I had sex, but those experiences made me reconsider. Doubt that's really applicable to the general population though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 09:19 PM |
| 3 | The Ideal WorldThis is a fruitless endeavor. In most cases, but not all. Unless you believe all the social, technological and cultural changes that have happened throughout history were just pure happenstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 09:00 PM |
| 3 | The Ideal WorldI'm not saying you have to change the world (if I did that I'd be quite hypocritical). If you want to change the world you have to start with yourself. Most people don't get past step 1, and there's usually nothing wrong with that. I'm just stating that wanting to effect change on a bigger than personal level doesn't require ignorance as you seemed to imply, rather the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 08:07 PM |
| 6 | The Ideal WorldIf you want to change the world, you have to figure out how it works first... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 03:12 PM |
| 4 | The Ideal WorldWhat exactly do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 03:00 PM |
| 2 | What if i dont think love exists?Ok, so you don't believe in love. What if we change the sentence to "someone's mommy neglected them, now they're bitter". Does it still sound unreasonable? Do you believe that it's possible for someone's relationship with their parents to affect their outlook on life at all? Also it doesn't make sense to me how a group of atheists talk down to me for not believing something I'm pretty sure not all bluepillers are atheists, and atheism means "not believing in god" not "not believing in anything".… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/13 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Is the MRM about equal rights?Ehm, 15 comments on an AskWomen thread, some of which actually agree with the idea or don't express a definite opinion either way, is hardly proof of nobody agreeing - but, then again, mrsamsa didn't provide any proof that everyone agrees, either. I'm actually curious what the response to the idea would be, if the general public was polled. Personally, I like the idea of artificial wombs, but not as a replacement for abortion. I could see them being used if the father wants a child but the mothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/13 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Blue Pillars, What is a strong woman?Well, there's no guarantee either way, I suppose. But I do believe it's more likely that somebody with no means of income, no support network, no experience and no confidence is going to stay in an unfulfilling or outright abusive relationship, than somebody who does have these things. That's not to say a relationship is automatically bad if one partner is dependent upon the other in some way. Just that, well, intentionally seeking out a partner who has no life apart from you strikes me as skeev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/13 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pillars, What is a strong woman?Wasn't referring to you specifically - apologies if that was unclear - obviously I don't know enough about your life to say whether any of this applies to you. When I mentioned being prevented from protecting oneself, I was referring to this line in Hayleyk's comment: It is especially unsettling because often what redpill men claim to want in a woman is specifically a lack of things like financial security, supportive friends and family, courage to stand up for oneself, experience, etc. (i.e. al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/13 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillars, What is a strong woman?Why would somebody you love want to prevent you from being able to protect yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/13 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Facebook study: Gender ClichésWomen are not going to the shit part of the work force, AKA the glass floor. Any dangerous job is going to be woman-free. Even the ones that don't require physical strength. Have you ever seen a woman in a harness repairing a power line? Also the women in the military are mostly in the reserves, and in active duty mostly in noncombat roles. They want to have 'combat-adjacent' roles so they are eligible for necessary promotions that require combat, but they don't want to go risk their life. That'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/13 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Facebook study: Gender ClichésOne was an analogy for emotional abuse. Which is what many wives do to their husbands in the process of taking their balls away. Ironically, this is what also causes the wives to lose attraction to their husbands and divorce-rape them. I assume this is regarding the housework example? In that case, I agree with you that domestic abuse against men needs to be taken more seriously, but your original comment didn't really get that across. I don't think many people would make the leap from housework… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/13 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Facebook study: Gender ClichésDid you know that 80% of suicides are male? I know that, and that's obviously a problem that needs addressing, no argument there. However, I'm pretty certain that proportionally, being gay or transgender is still a much higher risk factor for suicide than being male. Nice straw man there :) Then what exactly did you mean by equating men being "shamed" into dating old/slutty women or doing housework to a gay teen being bullied into suicide? Maybe you should stop hating on men What makes you think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/13 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Facebook study: Gender ClichésSo you genuinely think dating a woman above the age of... what is it, 30? 25? or one who has had more than a certain number of sexual partners, is a fate worse than (or as bad as) death that no man would choose of his own free will? I'm not sure what to say to that, other than I disagree. Neither do I think whiny "why-won't-anyone-date-MEEEE" articles are the equivalent of bullying. Sure, men dating significantly younger women might get the side-eye from some people, but it's hardly comparable t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Facebook study: Gender ClichésHmm, I find it a bit curious that for all your talk of personal responsibility, your examples are phrased as if men have no free will at all. They're being "shamed" into dating older women or sluts, "made" to do housework. Do you believe no man would choose to do these things without being pressured by women? At the moment, it almost comes across as if you want women to be responsible for men's actions, rather than their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/13 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?I guess I sort of get what you mean. As somebody who is normally a grumpy, cantankerous loner, I have to put in some effort for people to be willing to put up with me in social situations (including relationships). But I don't really think of it as "making them fear losing my company", but rather "making them enjoy my company and want to be around me". The latter sounds nicer, of course, but I think it's also more accurate. After all, your end goal is not making your partner afraid, it's making … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Then why call it "dread game" or "game" at all? Why not just call it "being friendly and likeable"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/13 01:50 PM |
| 22 | Why are blue-pillers so quick to excuse poor decisions that women make?I don't see what the point of "calling her out" is. She made a stupid decision. She admits as much. She's asking for advice. What are you suggesting people say, "you're totally the dumbest idiot who ever lived and if this guy stalks or murders you it's your own fault. sucks to be you lol"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Hmm, I don't know if it's so much attractiveness as friendliness. One of the things that attracted me to my boyfriend was definitely the fact that he's very polite, personable, easy-going and yes, confident - the sort of person who just gets along with everyone, men and women. I don't know if any of his female friends are attracted to him, afaik most of them are already in relationships. I don't really see what this all has to do with dread, though. Being friendly to people, even when you're not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Is Dread Game effective? Against all people?Being friendly to retail personnel is dread game now, seriously? I mean, sure, friendliness and basic social skills are attractive, or rather the lack of them is unattractive. But classifying everything beyond "Hello I am so socially awkward and desperate that I can't even get through buying groceries without committing some awful social blunder, you are literally the only person in the world willing to talk to me, LOVE ME PLEASE I AM SO LONELY" as dread game strikes me as a little ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/13 05:56 PM |
| 8 | "All women are sheep."http://xkcd.com/169/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/13 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Men and women in loveIn a good relationship it doesn't feel like a sacrifice. Which is why it's best to reign in the impulse to take care of a woman on small things. If you're fetching things like a dog, when something big comes along it's just another slipper. Yeah, I kinda get what you mean. In the early days of our relationship I gave my boyfriend so many gifts that when his birthday came along it was hard to come up with something special. After that I toned it down a little. But I guess that's not really the ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/13 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Men and women in loveI'm saying if a guy displayed his actual level of affection he'd have to find a way to fight off wild animals, jump on a grenade, and slave away at a thankless job. The true depth of male love is unsettling to experience, I can't blame women for being unaroused by it's overt displays in the form of genuflections and selfless behavior. Literal self-sacrifice is intimidating and pathetic. Yeah, I can see how that would be a problem. I, and I suppose the majority of women, want people we love to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/13 01:56 PM |
| 3 | How a Poly Guy with Lots of Sexual Experience Picks People UpTechnically rape prevention through enthusiastic consent is best aimed at women telling them to speak up and say no. Isn't the whole point of enthusiastic consent that you shouldn't have to say 'no'? That is, non-consent is assumed and you have to actually say 'yes' (ie. show enthusiasm) to have sex. Though I'd say, it's a damn good idea to encourage everyone to be more upfront about their desires, not only for rape prevention but for the sake of more enjoyable sex in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/13 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Has society lied to men about what attracts women?I suppose what I was getting at is that we have a bit of a chicken-and-egg problem here. That is, are certain traits/occupations etc valued because they are attractive, or are they attractive because they are valued? I'd say the latter is more likely to be true. For example, let's take professional athletes. Successful, famous, physically fit - quite likely to be attractive to women. Yet the majority of sports fans - the people who actually buy tickets to games, thus enabling the athletes to bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/13 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Has society lied to men about what attracts women?Hmm, so what you're actually saying is that women are likely to be attracted to traits that are useful to society? Because my initial reading was more the other way around (that is, society only values men with traits that are attractive to women or useful to women specifically). If so, I apologize for the misunderstanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/13 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Has society lied to men about what attracts women?Still, I feel that claiming a male doctor who focuses on men's health is valued by society solely because his work tangentially benefits women requires taking a ridiculously broad view of men being valued solely for their utility to women. If you make that claim, what's to stop me from saying that a doctor who focuses on women's health is valued by society because those women are useful to men - unless the women are literally useless beyond their "intrinsic value". It would make more sense to sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/13 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Has society lied to men about what attracts women?So... helping men indirectly means helping women, because men are useful to women. But helping women doesn't mean helping men, because women are just useless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/13 08:53 PM |
| 2 | My little rant and questions to women who disagree with Red Pill ideology, feel free to tell me how I'm wrong or off the mark I amHave you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you? When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences? Ehh, yeah, I've had sex with a guy who I wasn't really attracted to, inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/13 01:46 PM |
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