amarrakesh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
105	Please don't approach anybody's grown-ass son... Exactly me. I have dated several men I initiated the relationship with, and every single one of them couldn't keep up with me and left me bored by the end because they were afraid of trying new things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 11:58 PM
50	Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂 No it's not genius. If these men were actually worth dating, she wouldn't have to instill a false sense of competition in them to convince them to celebrate the holiday with her. They should want to do something special for her just because she's special to them, not because they're afraid they'll lose sexual access to her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 09:33 PM
4	He showed up at my door last night Closure is a contrived concept for men to extract all the emotional labor from you they can squeeze. When women break up with men, if a relationship was longstanding enough, they know exactly what they did wrong. It's not like women don't CoMmUnIcAtE their needs in a relationship over and over and over and over and over again until the woman herself breaks. If it was a short term relationship, and he's crying about closure, it's information seeking. He wants to improve his skills at manipulating…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 09:30 PM
112	Women can be very kind to each other. I'm tired of society acting like were only catty to each other This stereotyping of women as 'catty' is intentional. It behooves men to instill a natural distrust of women into girls. This planted distrust will make women and girls keep their peers at arm's length, instead of embrace them in class solidarity. In the most extreme cases, you will see pick-mes only hanging out with The Guys because girls are "just so dramatic" and guys are "just so much cooler." These not-like-other girls gladly throw their peers under the patriarchal bus for a crumb of male v…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 08:23 PM
83	Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” men "Brutally honest" is just a euphemism for asshole without social skills. Most men lack social skills, but these ones delight in actively hurting your feelings with their own inadequacy. We should stop taking their social deficiencies so personally. Part of the social contract is lying by omission to allow people their harmless pleasures, habits. It's polite and demonstrates that you respect another person's agency to be as they are, so long as they aren't crossing your own boundaries. Men are no…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 08:04 PM
109	Shower thought: Society literally had to coin the term ‘gentleman’ in order to accentuate behaviors that show a minimal level of consideration and respect towards women. Also, it indirectly shows that the vast majority of ‘other’ men don’t care about such values. A quote from an article I read about the Korean radical feminist movement: Part of the reason feminism has developed as it has in South Korea is historical and cultural. The women I spoke to explained that, historically, there has not been the same culture of male “chivalry” (male politeness and social protection of women) as in the West, meaning there is far less pretense about male domination. During the early 1950s, soldiers fighting in the Korean war made women walk over landmines before t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/22 09:11 PM
354	Seen in a medical sub. Thankfully the replies were very supportive; I hope she will be OK I detest that this man reproduced. I'd like to point out that a 17 year old girl is still growing, which is likely why she needed a C-Section. While she may be as tall as she's going to get, her hips are likely still in the process of widening. Her adolescent pelvis is literally too small to accommodate a live birth. This is part of the reason that maternal mortality was (is) so high in eras and cultures that marry off girls. Their bodies are not ready to withstand the monumental effort of pregn…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 10:43 PM
40	epiphany: men who neg strong women This is true, I have seen it played out in both my father's relationships and my own. My father loves brilliant and strong women. Although I didn't witness the first part of the grinding down of my own brilliant mother, I watched him do it to his second wife. She would cry to me about his behavior, how he would treat her. Even though I was only a teenager, I would console her and remind her that he did this to my mother. This is who he is. If you don't like it you should leave because he will no…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 12:35 AM