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I love that everything in the thread is deleted except one person saying 'Wow... burned it all to hell, huh?' Classic.
/r/MensRights06/08/13 01:16 PM
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Personally, I feel that a single parent should get the right to celebrate both holidays. When I was a single dad, I got a mother's day gift from my mom. She said since I had to do both jobs, I should get the recognition for both positions. I appreciated the hell out of that.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 05:43 PM
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Yeah, he was incredibly hostile. Not sure if it was banhammer worthy, but at least a message from the mods and comment deletion. Perhaps it wasn't his first offense in the sub?
/r/MensRights08/04/13 01:01 PM
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Most importantly, women didn't win. Most importantly. Hmmm.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 11:07 AM
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It definitely sucks. This is a horrible situation to be in, but just know that you aren't the first, and won't be the last. Be strong, and best of luck to you.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 06:33 PM
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Yeah, this would have been around ten years ago, but I live in Texas, so what probably happened was a huge guilt trip about Pro-Life politics while she was alone in the room to try and shame her into keeping the baby, and they didn't want me there to force her to go through with it.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 02:06 PM
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That's interesting. Back when my ex-wife (then girlfriend) got her abortion, I wasn't allowed in the room. I guess that's changed since then.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 01:59 PM
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A few things. 1) What the fuck are you doing? Stop putting your penis in her!! 2) Going with her to the clinic will not confirm the procedure took place. You will not be able to find out if it took place or not, even if you are in the waiting room. They will not allow you in the room, and the doctor will not disclose any details of the procedure to you for privacy reasons. 3) Once it's done, drop her like a hot fucking stick of dynamite. It isn't your job to make sure her mental health is ok, an…
/r/MensRights11/03/13 11:43 AM
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It took about 18 months and $15k.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 08:43 PM
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Record as much as you possibly can. New York is a one party state, so anything you record is permissible as evidence. Keep as many records as you can, video record if it's possible. If you have her on tape threatening you, that's good to use. If you have her on tape calling 911 and hanging up, that's good too. Don't give her any ammunition to use against you, and seriously consider divorcing her. With proof of domestic abuse against you, you might even get out of alimony.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 08:24 PM
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It's getting better in some places. I've seen movements in areas where they consider 'he said/she said' rape cases to be insufficient evidence. The justice system in the US is supposed to consider it much worse to convict an innocent person than to let a guilty one free, but modern society is moving away from that idea. Then again, Washington state tells juries that the burden of proof in rape cases lies with the defendant, and that a man must show that sex was consensual, not the other way arou…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 07:08 PM
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WALL OF TEXT!!!!! I dated a girl in high school. We stayed together through college. She got pregnant and we decided to have an abortion. That really fucked her up, mentally, and she blamed me for it. We ended up getting married (BIG MISTAKE) when she got pregnant a second time (after lying about using birth control and sabotaging condoms). My son was born in 2005, in the middle of my last semester of my undergraduate degree. I started graduate school the next semester. She stayed home and acted…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 07:04 PM
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As a man who fought like hell and won custody of my son from my first marriage (I tried for custody of the younger boy who was the result of an affair but lost) I feel a kinship with your nephew, and am extremely sorry for his situation and eventual suicide. Things like this are the exact reason that if my current marriage ever failed, I would never marry again. If I had found this subreddit before getting married again, I probably wouldn't have done it.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:33 PM
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Maybe you should just move. You can still fight for visitation from a distance, and if you get a good lawyer, you might be able to mediate your way to a 'standard' agreement where you can have your child for consecutive weeks during summer vacation, alternating holidays, Spring Break, etc. Being farther away doesn't mean giving up parenting.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:31 PM
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I tend to agree with you. It would all depend on what his legal counsel says about it. And counsel should be present for all proceedings with the police. I should caveat everything I'm writing with "I have no idea what the laws on this are like where OP is, because I think he's in Australia."
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:28 PM
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This might backfire. If he approaches the police, they might take his statements confirming that sexual conduct existed and use them against him in the rape case. Any statement he makes to police without a lawyer present is putting himself at greater risk of jail time. Especially if he's innocent.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:21 PM
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Lawyer up. Talk to him/her about your situation and get advice. I don't know where you are (use of 'mate' makes me think UK or Aus, and I don't know what your criminal systems are like there) but in the States, if she calls the police, you just let them pick you up and you simply tell them you will not speak without a lawyer present. Record everything you can. Keep your distance from her. Don't pay her a dirty penny. Best of luck. Never sleep with another woman without having a witness to consen…
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:00 PM
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God Luck But he's an atheist, man.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 01:09 PM
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For science: Here's the Mississippi code that states she MUST (note use of the word 'shall', which in legalese means the judge doesn't have a choice) cover court fees for the blatantly false allegations against him: http://www.mscode.com/free/statutes/93/005/0023.htm
/r/MensRights07/03/13 01:01 PM
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Too Long; Do Not Resuscitate
/r/MensRights17/02/13 11:38 PM
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Oh yeah, during my divorce, my first lawyer advised against me trying to prove my ex was unfit because the judge might just make the children wards of the state and neither of us would get to see them. I dropped him, lost ~$15,000 in 'fees', and found another lawyer who was a friend of a friend of the family. I ended up winning because my ex spent all of her money on drugs, couldn't afford a lawyer, and my attorney cornered her in an empty courtroom and got her to sign custody away outside of co…
/r/MensRights16/02/13 11:23 PM
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You are getting fucked. You will continue being fucked for the next 18 years. Welcome to being a male in western society. You can try for custody, but unless you can prove drug use AND mental disorder (either one alone will not be enough) you will not win. Immediately request an amniocentesis for DNA proof that you are the father. DO NOT allow her to put your name on the birth certificate without absolute proof you are the biological father. DO NOT acknowledge publicly in any way the child is yo…
/r/MensRights16/02/13 11:10 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 04:54 PM
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Upvoted to keep from becoming left-handed
/r/MensRights14/02/13 04:54 PM
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Nice shift from the norm, but I still dislike the existence of 'spousal support'.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 05:38 PM
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Honestly, /r/askwomen is usually pretty reasonable. What really bugged me about the thread was OP's attitude, and that many of the comments were urging counseling and reconciliation, and telling him to sit and talk with his rapist.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 07:19 PM
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I guess it really depends on whether or not he actually asked/told her to stop, so on that point, I see what you mean. But I still maintain that if roles were reversed he would be accused and detained under suspicion of rape. Whether he was convicted or not, we all know, would not matter since just the accusation it enough to completely ruin someone's life.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 12:16 AM
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I commented on this, saying he was raped and should report it and seek counseling. I was downvoted. The women in the thread are being all rational about how he should sit and talk with her, but I can't help but think how outraged they would be if it was a woman posting this. They would be ushering her to the police station themselves. It kinda sickens me.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 10:37 PM
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TL;DR My fiance's dad died and when he tried to cope by working on cars with his brother I flipped out, threw the sexist music away that he was listening to, and told him how much I hated his dead father. Why doesn't he like me anymore?
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:08 PM
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Fuck this country's court system. That's bullshit.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:47 PM
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Texas sucks, but at least we don't have alimony. At least it isn't mandatory for a judge to assign it. I don't owe my ex-wife shit, though she is about two years behind on child support. It doesn't hurt me much, though, since she was only ordered to pay 80 dollars a month. Or maybe it was 75. I don't remember which, but it was a pittance.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:40 PM
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Congratulations, and fuck everything about Colorado divorce law.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:34 PM
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Seemed pretty tongue-in-cheek to me. I think the subtext is that men should be congratulated for a job well done and that maybe women should step their game up because men can do the at home job as well.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 01:04 AM
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The worst part about this is that you will both regret him saying that for the rest of your lives. He will regret losing a relationship with his son, whether he realizes it or not before the last moments of his life, and you will regret losing the presence of your father, whether you realize it or not before the last moments of his life. I'll also say, he sounds like a total cock end. What kind of dad checks the internet history on his child's personal computer? I could see if it was a shared co…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:10 PM
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I didn't say it was more biased, just that it was biased. I don't have any other states to compare it to because I haven't tried to fight for child custody in any other state. But when a judge gives temporary custody to a woman who has been proven mentally unstable, on drugs, and recklessly irresponsible, over a man with a steady job, house, reliable vehicle, and proven responsibility, something is very wrong.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 03:01 PM
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Been something of an activist since my divorce where I saw how the Texas family court system is heavily biased against men. I only joined up here a few months back because I didn't know it existed. Funny enough, i only found it because some SRSers mentioned it in their hate-speak. Joined up on the spot. Also subbed to /r/egalitarian because I'm for equality.
/r/MensRights04/01/13 01:31 PM
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She is absolutely correct. Assuming you live in war-torn Congo or perhaps another third world country such as those found in southern Asia, she does live in the worst country in the world for women's rights and issues. Your mom and dad are similar, not on women's rights, but he's a strongly conservative 70 year old man that grew up without running water in the Ozarks. He has his beliefs and anything else is bullshit. You'll probably just have to deal with it- she's your mother after all- and whe…
/r/MensRights03/01/13 09:58 PM
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Under that particular law, no, for several reasons. She would have to be 16. It says 'under 17,' which is generally considered exclusive of 17. That isn't to say there aren't other statutes that would come into play. Technically, it says 'by reason ONLY of her engaging in an act of sexual intercourse,' which would lead someone versed in legal-ese to say that there are other means by which she could be charged (like if she tied him down and forced herself on him). It's still some bullshit that a …
/r/MensRights28/12/12 07:24 PM
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Hardcore white knight syndrome. We were high school sweethearts. She came from a shitty household and I thought I could save her from it. High school relationship was fine, no real abuse or manipulation, but when she went to college about 45 minutes away things started to change. I started to get suspicious that she was cheating on me, which I found out years later she was, and she would start to manipulate me into feeling guilty for my suspicion. She would drop little hints here and there that …
/r/MensRights27/12/12 09:09 PM
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Good for you. I hope it stays that way for you.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 03:50 AM
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It's been a few years ago now, but the obvious bias in the court system made a lasting impression.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 02:08 AM
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It's a sad situation really. I went through so much shit with my ex when she wouldn't be around for her visitation and would refuse to return the children to me when her time was up. There was nothing I could do about it. One time I managed to get the police involved when some guy came and picked the children up with her and she put two boys under the age of 4 in the back seat of a pickup with no booster/carseats of any kind. I got a report filed on that because it was endangerment, but besides …
/r/MensRights23/12/12 11:35 PM
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I don't know where you live, but in Texas calling the police won't do any good. I tried it before and the police didn't even file a report saying I called them. They told me it was a civil matter and that they were not allowed to interfere in any way. Just print out the emails and record any and all conversations you have with her forever and ever and ever and ever and ever.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 11:15 PM
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I was with this comment until the last 8 words. Then you lost my support.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 12:12 PM
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My first, knee-jerk response is to say 'go for it'. There are tons of other subs that have subs within them to help particular parts of their overall population. I don't think it will hurt this sub in any way, especially since it may provide a place where people are more comfortable discussing certain aspects of their experiences. You can always x-post to the main sub at any time. Reddit allows anyone to make a new sub, so I say do it.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 01:26 PM
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I have a friend who was very wealthy growing up. His dad was a vp of some kind for an investment firm. Big bucks. That being said his dad told him that college was his responsibility and if he wanted to go he had to figure out how to pay for it. Long story short, he applied for dozens of scholarships and even with his parents income he still went to college for his bachelor's and master's without spending a penny on it.
/r/MensRights17/11/12 05:07 AM
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The thing I've found is that even if they become more adamant in the moment, you can still plant seeds that eat away at their bigotry over time. I've swayed people weeks after an argument/discussion simply because they realized the facts were indisputable. But there are some people who just simply won't see truth. Sadly they exist.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 02:41 PM
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Amazing. Thank you. This is great weaponry to shut people down.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 01:53 PM
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Where is that from? I would like to be able to link to the entire study rather than simply a screen-cap. I know my hardcore anti-man acquaintances will never believe those numbers without the rest of the study to back it up. They probably won't believe it anyway.
/r/MensRights14/11/12 12:51 PM
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OP is making the argument that men don't crave companionship, at least men who aren't lying to themselves. I say that's not true, at least in my case. To your point, I have stimulating conversation with attractive women fairly regularly. I work in a technical field, so women in the workplace are pretty rare, but my wife works in the theater and I've had some really interesting conversations with some of the (very) attractive women she works with. My ex-wife claimed she was raped and when I found…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/12 09:00 PM
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On the first bullet: a pretty wrapper is nice for about ten minutes. If I can't talk to a woman, I can't have a relationship with her. Sure I could get it up for sex, but that's not fulfilling. I crave companionship, not just a sex dummy. Second and third bullets: I was faithful through my first marriage, she was a cheating bitch who I served with divorce papers. I'm now married again, have custody of my son from my first marriage, and am happy and content. I enjoy being a father and spending ti…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/12 07:35 PM
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I disagree with so much about this I don't even want to take the time to write it all out. I'll simply say I don't fit most of what you said and I really hope I'm not judged by that standard.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/12 06:33 PM
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Do you have a good HR rep? HR at my company is really good at handling things like this with anonymity. I would recommend talking to the people whose job it is to shut down things like this. You do not have to put up with anything in the workplace that makes you uncomfortable, including discrimination against a group to which you do not belong.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 02:05 PM
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Exact same situation here, but her car is an Eclipse, not an SUV, and she is pregnant with her fourth baby by a fourth man. She has custody of one because that dad is in jail for almost breaking her jaw.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 01:58 PM
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I accept your allegations.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 07:20 PM
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You gave the exception of formal writing in the example from the Chicago Style Manual. By accepting that 'they' is appropriate you are precluding that it is not formal writing. My point is that 'he/she' or continued use of 'your spouse' would be most appropriate here since it should be gender neutral and written in a formal style.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 07:13 PM
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This, in my opinion, should be considered formal writing. It's a survey to assess psychological damage, or a damaging situation. That should be done in a scientific manner (since psych wants to be considered a science) and therefore should be considered formal. It seems you disagree, and I do not think either of us will be swayed, so we will have to (as quoted) agree to disagree.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 06:46 PM
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Good for you.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 06:39 PM
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Disagree strongly with the idea that compliment == sexual interest. I work with multiple females, none of whom I am remotely interested in having sex with, but if I notice they are wearing something particularly fetching I tell them so. It's nothing more or less than I do with male colleagues who wear something that complements their body shape or looks unusually good. One of these women is a pretty strong feminist as well, but not to the point of r/againstmensrights. She doesn't hate men, only …
/r/MensRights14/10/12 06:39 PM
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I think we will have to agree to disagree. I think they have made an effort to be correct, as they should since they are supposed to be representing the field of psychology/psychotherapy. I read another comment where someone said they saw other questions with 'he/she' in it in place of 'he'. I guess Reddit has made me a stickler for grammatical/syntactical propriety.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 05:18 PM
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'They' is incorrect when referring to a single person. The actual proper pronoun is the combined 'he/she'. It's awkward, but that's English.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:04 PM
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I'm sort of with _toss_it on this one. It's probably just the generic 'he.' Technically, 'they' is improper, but then again 'he' should be 'he/she' when the gender is in question. I think this is a case of being overly sensitive concerning gender usage. I think any group that takes things like this to an extreme begins to marginalize all of the their accusations and eventually becomes marginalized itself. But, in the name of absolute correctness, yes it should read 'he/she'
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:03 PM
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It doesn't matter who files for divorce, and in this case, a good lawyer will be able to point out that you are being denied access to your daughter and are filing to help ensure you can see her. A REALLY good lawyer will be able to win you full custody because she showed deceit and recklessness by taking her from the country without informing anyone and refusing to allow communication with her. I'm from the US, Texas in fact, and I managed to win custody of my son from my ex-wife. It took almos…
/r/MensRights14/10/12 01:12 PM
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To clarify before I say this, I am a man, and subscribed to r/mensrights, I'm not trying to hate or troll. That being said: I don't see anywhere where you present evidence that he did not commit the crimes, or that the girls are lying, aside from "I just know he wouldn't do this." I agree with you that the search and swab was handled poorly, and would not have been acceptable in role reversal, and the arrest was shady, but you need some serious evidence if you want to win an appeal, and "he has …
/r/MensRights13/10/12 11:08 PM
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The 'right thing to do' is get to see your child. You have a right to it, and it's necessary that she has a good father figure. Get a lawyer who will take the case, and file for divorce. There are clauses in most states that if your spouse cannot be found in a certain amount of time the divorce will proceed without her signature. Go fight for your little girl.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 07:23 PM
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Have you ever tried to physically force a person to do something they don't want to do while they are attempting violence against you? Even if they are only half as strong as you are, it can be nearly impossible. If the roles were reversed and a man was attacking a female driver and she uppercutted him, hit him with a taser, and pepper sprayed him, people would applaud. When a female is acting hyper-aggressive toward a man and he retaliates, it's shameful. This woman was obviously strong/tough e…
/r/MensRights13/10/12 01:58 PM
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