ambivalent-- Archive

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1	Feminism has created the myth that men should be ashamed of themselves, but it’s nice to see that most feminists don’t believe this. Yes I have my own life to live. Why is your life so empty that you need to be some martyr? Jesus Christ, the problems of others who you don't even know are NOT your problem just because you share some group with them.	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 06:00 PM
5	Feminism has created the myth that men should be ashamed of themselves, but it’s nice to see that most feminists don’t believe this. No. If you, as a man, are in a position where you give ANY thought to the opinions of a feminist, then you are not where you should be in life. Go lift. Make more money. Meditate and discover yourself. Don't waste your time on earth on such lunacy. Your time is more valuable than this.	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 03:14 PM
4	Feminism has created the myth that men should be ashamed of themselves, but it’s nice to see that most feminists don’t believe this. So? Fuck him for being so weak. He is gone, leave him. Why cater to the weakest of men rather than building your own strength, and focusing on building alliances with other strong men? This whole "sacrifice yourself for the greater good" is one of the greatest lie of feminism and identity politics. YOU are the priority in your life. Not some abstract group you are a part of.	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 03:06 PM
19	Feminism has created the myth that men should be ashamed of themselves, but it’s nice to see that most feminists don’t believe this. Why do you give a fuck what a feminist think? It's as if saying "most children believe they could pilot a plane". Yeah, it doesn't matter what they believe, what matters is the consequences of their actions.	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 04:52 AM
1	Wife convinced me to get vasectomy, and then cheated on me days before operation In all seriousness, what value does your comment add? "Seek help buddy". This says nothing. But it does go hand in hand with your ideology. There is nothing but destruction and evil upon it and the only tactic you have is shaming. I hope you escape the hell you are in. Best of luck.	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 09:42 PM
3	Wife convinced me to get vasectomy, and then cheated on me days before operation I do. I love seeing when men get caught in the "toxic masculinity" and "Real Men" indoctrination, only to later realise how big a lie it all were. I love seeing men who fall for feminist ideology get destroyed. You can't save the modern man for he is doomed. All you can do is laugh when their wife's boyfriend tells them to emasculate themselves 🫠	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 11:16 AM
3	Wife convinced me to get vasectomy, and then cheated on me days before operation It's not about kids. It's that he's been emasculated in such a way that I doubt he'd ever recover mentally from this. Your wife tells you to get "fixed" and cheats on you 💀 But to be honest, it's pretty fucking funny	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 08:38 AM
23	Nuclear shit test example The whole "nahh i didn't do that" is such an insane loss of frame. Looking up, getting all flustered, and denying it. His frame instantly broke, no wonder she's looking for other guys. Not only that but instead of leaving and demanding a girl respects him BEFORE she gets access to resources, he's just parading resources as if that's all the value he has (which seems to be true). A woman will NEVER love you if she cannot respect you. Doing some pissing contest to "show her you're better" by defin…	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/23 01:39 PM
-3	Lost frame early into a 2.5yr LTR. Paid for it for the next two years. I was blind. Unless you interpret these things as metaphorical That's the thing, I do. I don't practice any religion, rather I use the teachings of the major ones as a guide for philosophical thinking. Not so concerned about an afterlife. Heaven is here on earth if you live a good life.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/23 10:25 AM
6	Lost frame early into a 2.5yr LTR. Paid for it for the next two years. I was blind. You are absolutely spot on. It's not a linear process to self improvement, see it more as going around a circle, sometimes passing the same area twice - where your goal is towards the middle. You must see your own shadow personality. The things you hide from others (and yourself), and confront them. So, assertiveness - figure out the why first. Why are you not assertive? For me, it was some "wanting to keep the peace", but after spending 2 months in a Moldovan prison i saw that - either you beco…	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/23 08:11 AM
22	Lost frame early into a 2.5yr LTR. Paid for it for the next two years. I was blind. That's the fascinating thing. What we call frame and see it as the base of success with women, is something much much bigger. It's a state of being across religions, across psychology - that if you are able to somehow integrate it into the core of who you are, you'll then see success in virtually ALL areas of life. Christians call it Heaven. Taoism calls it the Tao. Buddhists call it Nirvana. Red Pillers call it frame. They all allude to something you can feel when it becomes a core of your bein…	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/23 08:38 PM
96	Lost frame early into a 2.5yr LTR. Paid for it for the next two years. I was blind. Non-reactivity That is seriously it. Frame is non-reactivity. Interact WITH the world but don't REACT TO the world. Don't just watch the video linked above, but explore deeper into concepts within Taoism, even Zen Buddhism. I think we often imagine frame to be something one can explain. As in, "this is a frame". No. Frame is a state of being. It took me 8 years. Starting with reading about "frame" here, to having truly begun to internalise it via seeing the same concept in all major religions an…	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/23 08:03 PM
9	This cute Asian girl was an ugly demon underneath the skin Well... i've been here for 8 years and for the past 10 years i've read an immense amount on psychology and self mental control. So when i go out, talk to a waitress, or am flirting with a girl, i see that my presence alone is enough to make them have indicators of interest. Basically, my extremely calm demeanor impacts them to such a degree as women want that in a man - an insane level of self control. They physically react to it (positively). So think of it like different levels of consciousnes…	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/23 08:53 AM
49	This cute Asian girl was an ugly demon underneath the skin So first, you could be delusional. Why are you getting so attached to a girl who's shown you no real interest? Two. You don't ever make it known to any girl that you "know the game". You don't call out she liking you until you know by proximity and physicality she likes you. Basically, learn to read girls better. Three. You come across as desperate, very desperate. You need more experience and abundance with women so that no single one can do this to you. Four. "My boyfriend tells me that too", …	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/23 08:00 AM
17	Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s? My 20's were rather hedonistic. I started many businesses, had very good success. The last chapter of it was when I spent 2 months in a Moldovan prison (beat up 2 guys who were fucking with my dog). It was then I felt that my past was all wasted. Yeah I made money, but i was broke now. Yeah I had girls, but somehow i ended up in prison. Did I regret my past? Most people would understand if I did. But I don't. Everything I learned, everything bad which happened - it all made me wiser. So how …	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/23 03:07 PM
3	Am I over reacting? If you read it all so much, and even have a hard copy... how did you end up in this situation of not knowing if your own girl is loyal? We can both agree your problem's root is that you do not know. The only answer is to learn more, what else.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/23 09:00 AM
7	Am I over reacting? You know. You are a man. Biologically, you benefit a LOT from having the right woman in your life. To not trust any woman - if you look really deep, it comes down to you not fully trusting your ability to be a judge of character. Really take this to heart - do NOT mistrust all women, UNDERSTAND that a good woman is a part of a healthy, fulfilling life - and work on understanding human behaviour to the point you can spot character flaws from a mile away. I mean is that something that is normall…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/23 07:04 AM
4	Am I over reacting? I believe in a certain level of privacy for both parties. Why explain yourself to us? He’s just a shit bird charmer How is this relevant? How is your opinion of him in any way relevant? Facts, not opinions. I just refused cause I don’t play that whole game Yeah but if you DID look, rather than be stubborn, you'd have had more information on which to base a decision with. I was gonna let it slide but now that she sucked it out of me I’m left just feeling betrayed. I won't comment on whether…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/23 06:44 AM