ambiverbena Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Women receive better treatment in relationships and the "sassy" pejorative is evidence of this I’m sorry, I know this deserves nuance, but I fear you might be missing some key details. I want to recognize that I do think the courting process typically favors women. Yes, men do typically take the women out and pay. I’m not denying that. The process of dating is easier for women. But, once in a relationship, I vehemently disagree that the relationship favors women. Women, even though it’s shifted a little favorably, are still doing the vast majority of the child rearing and domestic work. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:14 AM
1	Q4All: Has anything you have read or discussed here actually changed your mind? If so, what was it? I mean I’m 23, so I’m probably still in that zoomer bracket. And like some of my friends have met their partners on dating apps, there’s not really a stigma behind that, but most people I know met their partners irl. It’s just easier to gauge a connection I feel like, and less awkward of a process. For me, I just an unable to form a connection if we meet through OLD, so I’m not really into that. And like, idk I’m skeptical of street interviews because I think the majority of them are staged or t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 08:50 AM
2	Q4All: Has anything you have read or discussed here actually changed your mind? If so, what was it? I think anonymous forums are not a good place to have an exchange of debate. I’m sure if I met most of these men in real life, they’d be fine but a little socially awkward. I think it reinforced that this is a weird phase for some guys and they are gonna grow out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:13 AM
1	Q4All: Has anything you have read or discussed here actually changed your mind? If so, what was it? I’m a woman and I have only ever seen one girl refuse to date someone under 6 feet and it was because she was 5’11. I’m so convinced this is a Reddit thing and not a real world thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:11 AM
1	Very fucking equal And then these men proceeded to go to the countryside and rape the women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 08:36 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it I was already tagged this, and I reject this as a reason I myself would fail. First, I don’t understand why I’d have to find women on Tinder, because I’m reality I’d just go to a party and chat up people in person. Also, unlike this girl, I have been with women before, almost all who are bisexual and have been with men. I think I’m pretty in touch with what makes me attracted to a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 01:48 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Most volunteer abroads are scams and don’t help the community. Peace Corps is a two and a half year commitment, and you have to attain certain qualifications to be accepted. It’s a pretty selective process, you usually need a degree and experience in the selected field. I know Africa is big, I was going to go to South Africa not just the entire continent. You are assigned to a specific village, and I don’t think you are able to be in relationships with the people living there. Personally, I thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 06:00 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Lmao do you know what the Peace Corps is? That’s a full job. It’s not charity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 10:45 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it But you know what the funniest thing is? I actually applied to serve in Cambodia. Seemed like not enough people we’re applying to the Africa branches, so they asked me if I was willing to go there instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 10:43 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it It got cancelled because of Covid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 10:39 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Relax, take some time off Reddit, go to a bar and make some friends. You only have one life, I promise you, there are some better things out there than spending your life angry at women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 09:37 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Yeah bro, I’m the one who can’t accept reality because I don’t base a documentary you once watched and your own experiences at a Swedish kindergarten as some universal truth to why it’s all women’s fault your Asian friend can’t get a girlfriend. But you’re right, it’s all okay and we can forget about it. Relax, touch some grass and maybe one day you too can feel the embrace of a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 09:17 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it This just isn’t true though. If you look up women sex tourism, sone of the most popular destinations for women to go to are Bali and Thailand, both which are in shocker Asia. The Gambia is a popular destination, yes, but not more popular than Southern Europe or the Caribbean. I think The Gambia might have a bit of a bias in research because unlike other nations, The Gambia is really small and doesn’t have a popular tourism appeal like Thailand or Italy does. Also sex tourism happening in poor an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 05:08 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it This feels intellectually dishonest. European men go to Thailand because it’s cheap, they have lax prostitution laws, and a lot of them are pedophiles and know they can sleep with children. Thailand isn’t just a place known for prostitution, it’s a place known for child prostitution. If you can’t concede that this is a large part of the appeal, I don’t think this conversation is in good faith. Also, men and women do not engage in sex tourism at even remotely similar rates. Not even close. It’s n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 02:41 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it Yeah I honestly don’t see why this would be a big deal to anyone. Like I know there’s some people who’d be weird about it, but no way the majority of people would even care about that. What an odd dealbreaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 01:49 PM
1	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it What are you even talking about? This has nothing to do with anything I was talking about. Even your own point is just wrong too. Like the average height of Nigerian men is 5’5. And European women have a vast racial preference for white men, it’s not even close. If they went to countries based off their ideal, they’d be engaging in sex tourism in like Sweden or something. People go to places with lax laws and vulnerable populations, they don’t go to West Africa because European Women all have so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 01:45 PM
0	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it I feel like with the way sexuality has been changing and ideals have shifted, a survey from 7 years ago is kinda irrelevant. If you asked that same question now, to the city and more progressive area I live in, and then narrow it down to people in their early 20s like me, way more than 37% of women would say they were comfortable being in a relationship with a bisexual man. I know very few women my age who wouldn’t date a bisexual man, and the ones I do are fairly conservative women I wouldn’t r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 05:36 AM
0	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it So? I’d just tell them I was bi. Most girls, at least my age, are more attracted to feminine men anyways. Someone talking about interests that are typically women-orientated doesn’t mean they are gay. I don’t think that’d be that big of an obstacle. It wouldn’t be for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 05:01 AM
1	Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them. But people are easily manipulated when they are young, regardless of gender. At 18, you are in high school, a guy who is 30 has experiences you don’t have, and he knows you don’t have them. If you are still depending on your parents, you can never have an equal relationship with someone who has their own apartment, has money, and has sexual expectations you haven’t even experienced yet. Also, behaviors that an older women might know is a red flag can be easily overlooked by someone younger. I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 09:59 PM
6	Q4W: You wake up a man, how long would it take you to have casual sex and how do you go about it I mean my boyfriend is bi so really easily. But you’re right, that’s a cop out answer. Honestly, I don’t think it’d take as long as men because I understand what it’s like to be a woman, and what women want. I can talk to another woman about things they don’t get to talk to men usually about. Also, I’ve slept with women before, and it’s more hard to get then men, but not terribly difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 09:40 PM