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| – | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.If you’re talking a one night stand or hookup, then yes those women don’t care and neither do men. But those aren’t exactly high quality people. I thought the focus was on relationships, not meaningless casual sex. And about my bf uhh no? Yes it was great that eventually he wanted to get serious, but he didn’t make that clear off the bat. The first conversation was just us talking about our hobbies, studies, passions and lives. He was smart, funny and passionate about alot of things that I was p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 03:04 AM |
| – | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Lmao of course personality and social skills play a huge role! How is a relationship supposed to last if you guys aren’t compatible, have good conversations and the same values? Or if you aren’t good people who treat each other right? Communication is so important to maintain a good relationship. Clearly you’ve never been in one, yet you think you know it all because of some “studies”. My bf is attractive, but I chose him over even more attractive guys, because he had a much better personality t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 02:49 AM |
| -1 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Yeah well your data doesn’t match what I and many others see and experience in real life. Do you have a wide social circle and enough dating experience to learn from your own observations? Or do you base all of your life on data and studies, which obviously don’t have the capacity to survey the whole population (And especially not all countries). I do know what I’m talking about, as I’ve dated multiple guys and therefore know which of their approaches worked and which didn’t. I also have the exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:13 AM |
| 5 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Women behaving poorly has nothing to do with a false sense of having unlimited choices. Shitty people simply exist, regardless of gender and the dating context. I can guarantee they are just as horrible as friends, coworkers, siblings and parents. It has literally 0 to do with dating. Now on the other hand we have plenty of wonderful women and men out there. Nobody is forcing you to date awful women. I could be out here crying about how all men are bad because of my past experiences , but instea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Of course exceptions exist, some women do date older men because of preferences, daddy issues or wanting someone with more experience or financial stability. Nothing wrong I guess, as long as both parties are on the same page. I wish you well with her :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.We are though :) I did a 2 year paid apprenticeship after high school, earning a salary from the get go. Now I study and have a working student job. My bf and I take turns paying dates and split the costs for groceries and trips. On bdays and holidays we treat each other. He buys me gifts now and then and so do I for him. Working women with money and a sense of equality aren’t unicorns, you know? People who genuinely care for each other and treat each other right exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:49 AM |
| 3 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.And that’s why you’re supposed to find love in your teens to twenties and settle down together. In my country both men and women work to have financial stability, before having a family. And sorry to be harsh, but most people who are single in their thirties, likely have issues of their own that kept that from finding a good partner while they were young. It’s no wonder they’ll have to settle for whats left over. Not denying plenty of left over women would be gold diggers, but why would you date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?Well this is gonna sound harsh, but that’s because most of the good women and men get taken early, as in during high school or college years. Usually what’s left over in their thirties are women and men that are either unattractive, have bad personalities, trauma/baggage, don’t have social skills, are mentally ill, divorced or simply had bad luck. The manosphere sells men this lie that they’re in their prime and the most attractive in their thirties and forties. But truthfully most young and pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:24 AM |
| 5 | What was your relationship with your mother like?I think OP asked this question, because our parents and their relationships are the blueprint for our romantic lives and dating patterns later on. They’re also often the blueprint for what we view as “love” and how we treat our partners. Many kids of divorced parents or those who have mommy/daddy issues end up having rough dating life. Many women who had toxic dads end up seeking out the same kind of toxic guy, often thinking they can “fix” him (And subconsciously fix what they witnessed in chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:11 AM |
| 5 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Plenty of average men and women do tho. I sometimes wonder if people don’t look around irl? Because there are so many couples and most of them look normal, if not below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:52 AM |
| 4 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Like men don’t aim for beautiful women? Why do I never see “non chads” advising each other to settle for women who match their looks? They get mad at not getting dates because of their ugliness, but somehow refuse to date ugly women. I think both men and women should be able to have standards, without others crying about it. If a man is attractive and fit, I don’t see why he shouldn’t want a woman like that. Same goes for a woman in that category. Or a smart person wanting to date someone else w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:50 AM |
| 2 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.You literally just countered your point. “Select circles” as in only very specific people then? Because Highly educated decent income city girls are not the average. And not all of them are hot instagram models that party every weekend in Dubai, LA and Miami. Also you should clearly rethink your “circles” if these are the people you associate with. If you want a different type of woman, you need to seek different circles. Hint: Check out more lowkey places like libraries, art galleries, small ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:43 AM |
| 4 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.And let’s be real, the women with insufferable personalities and crazy high standards will end up alone or divorced. Same with the insufferable incel guys who constantly hate on women. At the end it’s natural selection and we should all be happy to dodge these bullets. Why date a shitty person if nobody is forcing you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:36 AM |
| 4 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.As a real life woman, no. OF women, slutty party escort girls and instagram influencers are a very small minority of women. They’re in your face all of the time because of social media, but they’re thousands out of a few billion women. Only the most desperate of normal girls would become OF creators. And only the most drop dead beautiful of women (Which also are a minority) can afford to have insanely high standards and date “chads” as you guys call them. The majority of women are average and li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:34 AM |
| 0 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.This is anecdotal, but 85% of people I know in this age group irl, are in a relationship, married, dating or had at least one relationship in the past. Heck some of my late twenties friends already have kids. And men in my country are ambitious and want to work. I don’t know anyone who is dropping out of the labor force, because laborers are very sought after atm and obviously you need money to live. Idk what y’all are doing so wrong, but then again it might be geographic differences. I live in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:25 AM |
| 9 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.The internet is also full of men dating trash and then complaining and blaming it on the others. But I’m not here to bash solely men, this is a genderless problem. I’ve seen both women and men label a whole gender as bad and cheating, because of their personal trauma. They literally project their bad experiences onto the entirety of humanity. Both men and women who do this lack self reflection and don’t realize THEY could be the problem. Some people keep on gravitating towards the same toxic peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:08 AM |
| 15 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.Both sides are bad. It are just angry and hurt men and women fighting an internet war against each other and trying so hard to prove they don’t need the other gender (Presuming they’re straight). The whole “doing things because men don’t like it” is just the reply to the whole andrew tate manosphere women hating content wave. Basically fighting fire with fire. I can assure you that the majority of women and men in real life are normal and could not give a shit about this stuff. In real life we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:01 AM |
| 10 | “modern women” aren’t real. They’re a result of algorithmically driven content consumption.For the love of god, please go out in real life and look at all the couples. Most of them are just average men and women, who are happy with each other. I’ve seen plenty of unattractive and non-rich people in relationships. I’ve never met an OF girl in my life. I’ve never met a gold digger either, because I associate with decent people and have a good circle. It’s not our fault if men choose to date gold digging Miami party girls. So many of my female friends dated “ugly” guys in high school. Ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 11:53 PM |
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