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For too much on a topic too old: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:51 PM
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Nobody should be completely honest with anybody. Some stuff should be private and it's probably better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:29 AM
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Being happily married with children can be the most fulfilling thing in the world - if you can achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:46 AM
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It's worse in China - see what happens in countries with high men to women ratios and extrapolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:19 AM
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Don't have sex until you're 40. Why stop at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:17 AM
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Nothing. I don't look and if a woman never comes around, that's just fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:14 AM
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Right until you're not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:14 AM
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I mean, the red pill is just a series of facts about human sexuality. However, a lot of "red-pilled" men really do think terrible things about women (some true, most not and the true things really are based on human nature). So, yes, you're technically right, but I have a hard time agreeing, especially after seeing the opinions in the community for an extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:13 AM
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The convenience and fun of pornography and video games are attracting people to them. How can reality compete with imaginary scenes specifically designed to appeal to our baser psyche? Fundamentally, we don't understand our own egos enough to know what is good for ourselves and resist these new addictive influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:52 PM
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I meant that a person's brain literally becomes used to unstable relationships and almost "forgets" how to have a stable emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:04 PM
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No, but if you do it enough, it becomes much harder to pair bond. And this goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:06 PM
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I suspect it's because it's easier to fulfill a base need than to form a real connection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:11 PM
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Well knowledge can set you free. I see it as a collection of facts that can be used to better interact with the world and other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:04 AM
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Well, in that case, good luck to you and your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:28 AM
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I usually say this to RP men, but if you have a purely transactional relationship based on "value", the resulting relationship is the one deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:11 AM
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Well, it's an interesting dynamic - in a recent study, something like 80% of married women said "being a stay at home wife is a luxury I aspire to" and something like 30% of married respondents resented their husband for not earning enough for them to stay home. So it's actually hard to generalize on what makes people happy. Although the research does show that the happiest people have rich family and social lives (for both men and women), the parameters of that are hard to pin down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:03 AM
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Where do you think the slogan "enjoy the decline" came from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:56 AM
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I've seen the other comments and I don't think you address the issue well - not that I think divorce and domestic violence aren't related, but the work needs to be done showing that some other third factor isn't causing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:00 PM
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I dunno, I see this sub as a place where the misogynists and misandrists can duke it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:22 AM
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Be careful because correlation may not imply causation. There might be another factor (those are all relatively poor states) which causes both divorce and domestic violence (although it wouldn't surprise me if domestic violence leads to divorce). So while the 2 seem related (in this informal survey), I wouldn't be surprised if cultural factors and poverty played a significant role in causing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:16 AM
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I dunno, no one sounds good in this story and I would be embarrassed if I were the one retelling it with that framing...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:34 AM
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Replace "men" in that statement with a minority group of your choice and see if it still makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:27 AM
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Hey, if you really want that, absolutely go ahead and look for that. But let's be realistic here, what was described above is absolutely not the norm and might be difficult to find. It may be so difficult that you won't find it. I don't think it's realistic to go into a casino and expect to win at blackjack. I think the odds of a normal relationship working out are about the same, let alone with all those extra requirements...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:18 AM
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Good luck with that one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:12 AM
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Lol that's a pretty good one. I'm impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:10 AM
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I mean women can benefit from the advice too. Working out, having a good job and looking good have benefits for both sexes. Knowing about biological urges and taking them into account for life plans and decision-making is generally useful. Maybe the only difference would be "prioritize a family and long term happiness over short-term fun". It seems like this makes people the most happy and achieving this dream might be more realizable for women. However, do what makes you happy, learn from the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:00 PM
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So first of all, no one is entitled to love or a relationship. Sometimes, it just doesn't happen for people, likely because of their personality, how they look or how they behave. In your friend's case, it might be all three. The above are facts. It is very possible that he never finds love at all, especially if he isn't willing to change. So what if all that was a massive cope? Maybe he isn't satisfied, deep down. But if it helps deal with the above facts, if it helps turn loneliness into solit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:48 PM
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Well, that really is the question and the answer really depends on your level of cynicism. Is it possible to find a genuine connection? If I have to compromise, what compromises should I take, and when? If you don't believe it's possible (or it's very unlikely) and don't want to compromise, welcome to MGTOW. If you don't believe it's possible but don't mind making temporary compromises for temporary relationships, welcome to PUA. If you don't don't think it's possible and don't even think compro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:12 PM
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Honestly, of the RP should have stopped at "being attractive is orthogonal to being a good person" and "becoming more attractive will help you get a partner more than being a good person". It doesn't mean you shouldn't try to be a better person or good to the people around you. But it's separate and apart from being attractive - and it's okay to be disagreeable when you want to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:02 PM
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Yep, I don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:44 PM
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In my opinion, everyone is most happy with genuine attraction, intimacy and a real connection. (Whether this is possible to find in our society is a different question). The only bad thing I have to say about "pick-me"s is that they may fake a real connection just to have a boyfriend - and it could be any boyfriend. However, if everyone has genuine intentions, who could possibly criticize that. Some people legitimately don't believe that such a real connection is possible, and (in my opinion) un…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:41 PM
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Well, I actually think that many RP interpretations are wrong. But the reason so many people take the "red pill" IS because there is a factual basis. A lot of problems stem from the fact that only the "manosphere" will acknowledge certain facts, but theres also a whole bunch of bad logic built on top of that, which might lead people to a bad place. However I will acknowledge there is definitely bad logic and unproven, baseless conjecture in the RP and it's important to read and make your own con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:36 PM
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I mean, that's a lot of assumptions about an internet stranger. It's strange to assume all of that based entirely on a discussion of facts. I'm not manipulating the stats - they are what they are. It's up to the individual person to decide what level of risk is acceptable, but they should know the stats - I didn't oversimplify anything, they are right there for you to look at. How you interpret those stats is entirely up to you, but that's a lot of hostility for simply pointing out that marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:52 PM
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Look, like it or not, sex and intimacy are fundamental human needs, being some of the only things to appear twice on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs - https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html Yes, no one died from not having sex. However, humans are designed to procreate, and have biological impulses supporting procreation, just like every other animal. So yes, no one is literally dying of sexlessness, but to ignore the fact that both sex and intimacy are important part of our lives is to ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:50 PM
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Fair point, that article does say 41%. But actually looking at the stats as a whole, the overall divorce rate is about 60%. I also see this as a distinction without a difference. I don't think the OP is saying marriage isn't work, but that about 60% of all marriages still end, and that marriage (which used to be ubiquitous) just isnt working for the majority of people. But you can be combative and wrong all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:08 PM
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Actually, he's right about the marriage thing - about 60% of all marriages end in divorce, between 45 and 50 % of all first marriages. https://www.divorcestatistics.info/divorce-statistics-and-divorce-rate-in-the-usa.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:49 PM
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I'm sure if you asked, they would rather have an attractive "Chad" to themselves. However, once that becomes impossible, that's when the settling game comes in - where a woman chooses between a man she isn't as attracted to, or sharing the original guy. The ultimate choice probably depends on a variety of factors, but those seem to be the available choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:31 PM
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So, here is the essay (and it's worth reading if you have the time) that changed my mind on the "Nice Guy" trope - https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/ In essence, you're right that there are probably guys who feel entitled to sex with another person, and that's not right - just because they feel entitled to something, doesnt mean they should get it (sex being 'it' in this case). However, this ignores the other half of the equation, that intimacy and sex are fundam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:06 PM
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I do not consider myself a red piller as much as gone my own way. However, I have read and am familiar with the forums and the theories. Sadly for society, the "red-pill model" just happens to be more correct and more in line with reality than any other available model. It describes how people (both men and women) are, how people respond to various behaviors and incentives and how this relates to society. The model does so better than any other available model, including mainstream ideas that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 03:56 PM
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