americanthrowaway59 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others.		americanthrowaway59	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 10:54 AM

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1	What was your turning point for leaving Red Pill behind ? Super late and this is gonna sound bizarre but ( and yeah this will sound misogynistic but I'm a work in progress) I had to appreciate she had as much agency as a man . it's easy to ] say women are just makeup and emotions but that's also not fair to them . They have desires, dreams , ambitions, hopes, scars, values, and more just like we do . Everytime I had a TRP though sprout up I addressed how it framed who she was versus what I had et to learn / understand about her . AWALT and all that con…	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 06:00 PM
1	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place. Man that;s rough fam but i'm happy you got away from her and she's a former girlfriend now . sounds stressful .	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 05:53 PM
1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. I think you're right it's absolutely a self-esteem issue and for me it was definitely coupled with intense sex addiciton.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 05:50 PM
1	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place. WOW the audacity....	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 05:49 PM
1	Trust You're very welcome good luck on your own journey	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 05:48 PM
2	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Really well said and I totally agree	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 07:22 PM
4	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Accountability isn't only womans issue and its low value men like you who try to make their lack of success womens fault . Become worth a shit and women will give you attention . TRP protects the egoes of losers like you always bitching about women and how unjust society is but then never realizing how you don't measure up to successful men . It's not women fault that you or I were D-class dudes that's our fault take some responsibility for how trash you are.	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 07:20 PM
2	What was your turning point for leaving Red Pill behind ? Exactly a bitch response you can't take accountability for what you believe you just toss darts at the opposition until you feel better get the fuck out of here .	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 07:14 PM
1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. And you know how to say jackshit with few words truly a talent in and of itself	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 07:13 PM
7	Redpillers love talking about how good being a player and having multiple women at one time is the life but the downsides to it outweigh the good by alot One of my first plates and the first woman I ever invited over to my place 4 years or so after we first me came over and we slept together as we had for years. a month or two later she reached out to me to tell me she'd caught HIV and I was one of two potential people she could have acquired it from . I was not always the safest when sleeping with women ( i wore condoms mos of the time but not all of the time ) and my world was rocked. I was seeing a girl at the time and had to tell her we proba…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 03:52 AM
4	What was your turning point for leaving Red Pill behind ? I think TRP and MGTOW started praising Donald trump and then I realized he is the shittiest man I have ever seen and if he represented some kind of goal or aspiration for TRP or MGOTW then I was a part of the entirely wrong group. That man has done nothing well in his life but lie and cheat , I thought for the longest time TRP and MGTOW espoused ideals about integrity, truth, power of masculinity and this dude with makeup on his collar after his rally had fewer people than expected in oklahoma w…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 03:29 AM
6	Being open and empathetic would stop a lot of radicalization instead of being authoritative and trying to put someone in their place. I'm black too and one of the most frustrating moments was when my black girlfriend picked a fight with a largely white crowd of drunk dudes at a movie theater once. I don't think she understood not just the danger she was putting herself in but the danger she was putting me in . If that group would have gone violent I would have stepped in and who knows what would have happened next. There's a funny Key and Peelee Skit that kind of touches upon the idea : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3JOQqoC…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 03:11 AM
5	Trust I wish you luck and as someone who grew up with an absentee father and lots of abandonment issues fixing that lack of trust was so valuable in helping me become a more whole human being . It seems so obvious now but if you approach the world with the idea that " People are out to hurt me and I am unlovable" those thoughts don't just stick in your head they permeate every aspect of your being and it can leak out into subtle social interactions, emotional outbursts, and more. I didn't realize for …	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 03:04 AM
1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. I 100% agree the greatest thing TRP really did for me was introducing me to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover :https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 .I'd say it's one of the top most important books in my life and it was very transformational for me to read . It taught me to stop living a transactional life because a lot of my misery and disappointment came from thinking I could earn " love tokens" and that made me very self absorbed in my interactions with other …	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 02:49 AM
4	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. I agree the only thing I might add is that TRP makes you see women as objects and that was hard for me . TRP tells me all women a poor leaders who do little for society but i was raised by my single mom ... those moments caused a lot of friction for my ability to fully let TRP seep into me . My mom is a hero i didn't like a mindset that diminished her or the many things she did to make my life great. So you're right but It shifted my perspective on women and i think that's where you have success…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:22 PM
2	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Exactly this they say that the cynic is just a disappointed idealist and that was the path that lead me to TRP . I loved someone very very much and she didn't love me back and clearly I had no ability to mentally cope well with that. I didn't start with some psycho mindset of wanting to hurt women i just wanted to understand why i wasn't good enough for my relationships and googled to see if anyone had the answers .	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:18 PM
3	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. TRP is about manipulation. Manipulating yourself into being someone "desirable" rather than being "yourself". And manipulating women into doing what you think you want, as a horny, angry, insecure young man. You're really nicely summed up what TRP was for me at that point in my life thank you .	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:15 PM
1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Thank you late night thoughts and all that jazz.	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:13 PM
1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Thank you for reading and I'm happy it could offer some perspective .	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:13 PM
-1	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. This one isn't even worth my time.	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:12 PM
3	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. Am I an absolute piece of shit? Possibly , I am an ex red piller and one who absolutely will attest that I have had to work and really apply thought to changing myself but I will not accept being called a rapist. I have not ever nor will ever need to rape or physically assault a woman in order to have sex with her. Was I emotionally abusive and mentally manipulative? I think that's fair and I would and have tried to apologize to the women I've hurt in the past but it's not fair to have this fuck…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 05:08 PM
5	TRP grew me up in a lot of ways but it definitely stunted me in others. It's been about 2 years for us too and for what it's worth the 2 year mark has always been a pivotal point in past relationships fo me too . Like I said it's not all wrong but i also know it's not all right because if i practiced TRP the way it tells you to i'd never have the type of relationship that i have now. I think it's important to pinpoint what is going wrong and is it actually a TRP thing or does TRP just try to simplify what may actually be going on with her and maybe you should have a…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/21 11:51 AM