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Us splitting the bill made me take your career and other things into account" This is an assumption based on an action, not an insult. And its so common to find ignorant ppl like this, its not even personal. (Unless he's insecure about his career himself lah) Don't conflate ignorance for personal insults. No need to be so sensi sial
/r/MensRights15/12/24 12:12 AM
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Where was her insult? The first insult I see is him calling it the dumbest thing he has heard. I'm not defending her actions. I'm saying these sorta ppl will always exist, but what can he do to address it better instead? Escalating it clearly wont help lah
/r/MensRights14/12/24 06:55 PM
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My other reply to u addresses this
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:19 AM
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Bro if she's a hypocrite, thats on her, great, her fked up, the man wins. That isn't an insult, thats just her living in her own world, and well, she paid for it. Why am I defending her? Cause I can easily see how he has the moral high ground here, no need to stoop as low as her. And the moment he starts throwing insults, she's not gonna learn and think he's an incel or something and ignore everything else. Its easily to teach someone when everyone is level headed. No need to be so sensitive and…
/r/MensRights14/12/24 10:18 AM
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I deserve better was the start! Honestly this just gives me entitled vibes, not insulting vibes. But yeah, I see where u're coming from. Since that phrase is normally used for those who talk shit about their men
/r/MensRights14/12/24 05:31 AM
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I think this is possibly the dumbest thing I've heard That is the insult that occurred before the minimum wage part
/r/MensRights14/12/24 05:17 AM
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Or at least phrase it better instead of saying thats the dumbest thing he's heard. Something along the lines of not expecting others to read her mind or not doing what she initiates/preaches. The way he reacts just makes him look uncouth
/r/MensRights14/12/24 05:16 AM
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I think this is possibly the dumbest thing I've heard Nawh man this shit's insulting already
/r/MensRights14/12/24 05:14 AM
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Honestly he could've just wished her well. Ppl have preferences, no need to insult her. He got what he wanted anyway by splitting the bill, no harm done
/r/MensRights14/12/24 04:29 AM
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There was actually a similar case in my country by a tiktokker (username boonkikikiki) that suggested making an excel sheet to do the same thing. Someone else created it, added her in, and overall resulted in her taking it down, with analysis from lawyers stating her she could've easily been subjected to defamation/doxxing cases. One of the articles: https://tnp.straitstimes.com/news/singapore/influencer-accused-doxxing-after-sharing-dating-blacklist With that said, ngl, whatever u're doing does…
/r/MensRights14/12/24 02:32 AM
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I think China would be the least, being more conservative, even previously having policies like the one-child policy leading to most of society aiming to only have a boy to pass down their family name etc. (u could argue this is misogynistic since many result in killing female babies or sending them overseas, but u're asking about misandry here). But in all honesty, I think learning chinese is good since they're the second biggest economy, so its valuable to learn their language (esp since many …
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:16 AM
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I mean, realistically, men are taught not to lay their hands on women, not vice versa. So um, time to educate your daughters?
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:57 AM
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The chairman of public agency Human Resources Development Service of Korea, Mr Lee Woo-young, posted on social media on Nov 16 that he would not want to hire candidates who graduated from Dongduk. This triggered an immediate backlash, with the Korean Ministry of Labour and Employment stepping in to warn against discriminatory hiring practices. Mr Lee’s post has since been removed. Discriminatory hiring practices? Isnt that what the uni is already doing? By excluding half the population?
/r/MensRights01/12/24 05:49 AM
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iirc international mens day isnt recognized by the UN, which could be why
/r/MensRights20/11/24 07:33 AM
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Matriarchies like the mosuo clan adheres to financial abortion. Like they have this concept of walking marriage where basically any man is allowed to sleep with other women and any child from that interaction is solely he woman's responsibility. And u could always remind them that queens start more wars than kings
/r/MensRights16/11/24 07:51 AM
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Resolve the current sexist culture/policies instead of implementing another unrelated one
/r/MensRights25/10/24 12:32 AM
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I'm not sure if fighting sexism with sexism is the way to go
/r/MensRights24/10/24 05:41 AM
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As in, I guess thats her experience in korea lor. Likely her community has that culture of giving their inheritance mostly to sons over daughters
/r/MensRights23/10/24 06:32 PM
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Yea no shit, there's a reason why I said "generally more egalitarian" when referencing the culture specifically (and not the laws). Isnt it obvious stating that there's male conscription implies it isnt egalitarian?
/r/MensRights23/10/24 06:31 PM
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From what I've seen and read (I'm asian myself, so I interact quite alot with koreans), South Korea is both Misogynistic and Misandristic at the same time. I mean they arent monolith after all, and general gender roles are perpetuated a lot. We all know about male conscription, but there are many cultural things like inheritance (which is still mostly given to sons and not daughters) persists. Had a korean girl mention that before and she was surprised that those in my country (Singapore) don't …
/r/MensRights23/10/24 04:15 AM
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Little did you know, this is actually in some country's institution. Like, canning (be it by the school or by the nation), can only be done to men, not women.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 06:03 PM
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I grew up in a country with male conscription. 'Nuff said. Edit: There's also other instances of clear sexism like in kindergarten (so 5-6 years old) where teachers would teach how the chinese word for "good", 好 has the left side signifying "female", 女, because -and I quote- "Girls are good". Yeaaa if a child can tell there's sexism in the country, there's clearly something wrong.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 05:47 AM
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"On Friday, she pleaded guilty to the charge of sexual contact with a student, a plea deal that could result in up to four years in prison. As part of the deal, she avoided facing more serious charges like statutory rape, child molestation and child endangerment" Could this be the reason why? R they allowed to call it rape if the perpetrator isnt charged with statutory rape?
/r/MensRights21/09/24 01:29 AM
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ngl reading the headline, I thought it was on old article. Its published yesterday... (which means I've seen a similar case before)
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:50 PM
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Honestly idk of any country that provides enough benefits for it to be worthwhile. Ultimately its a discriminatory action by the law. They do not need to appease the people that they're forcing.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 03:10 PM
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So that I don't get thrown in jail, and shamed for being a deserter by my family & friends ~Me, an ex conscript, current reserve in Commandos
/r/MensRights03/06/24 10:10 AM
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The Nato countries are talking about rounding up all the Ukrainian men to send them back. Could you send me the link? Thats absolutely disgusting
/r/MensRights30/05/24 09:58 AM
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Don't work in my country. Its easy to argue that misogyny is deeply rooted due to the internalized misandry from the gov, resulting in compulsory conscription among males.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:09 AM
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other nonsense they use to justify whatever this internalized misandry *just flat misandry, this is not internalized misandry
/r/MensRights07/05/24 09:47 AM
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Searched that and realized r/Wife is straight up just porn, what is going on with reddit?!?
/r/MensRights28/04/24 12:24 PM
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So every war ever is based on misandry, and we're continuing to call it out? Would u say this same statement for women's suffrage?
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:51 AM
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If he was truly defending his country, he wouldnt let half the population leave while forcing the other half to die
/r/MensRights07/04/24 10:38 AM
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This is contentious, but many feminists would equate similar situations as both part of toxic masculinity and internalized misandry. So just think of it in terms of the eyes of feminists. What would they consider internalized misogyny? Women policing other women? Now flip it around, men policing other men in whats expected to be a man? Thats what I'd consider as toxic masculinity. And also, I'd prefer calling it internalized misandry. Puts the blame away from men and more emphasis on the hatred …
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:19 AM
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Likewise. But when I call myself a feminist, its to simplify things and also since feminists receive less pushback than saying you're an MRA. But as a whole, there are areas of feminism & mens rights activism that I dont identify/agree with so... egalitarian it is!
/r/MensRights14/03/24 11:45 AM
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I wish men didn’t see feminists as the enemy. *mens rights activists, I'm sure there're plenty of men who see feminists as their ally. There's a feminist organisation in my country that's doing pretty well. They're questioning the gov asking for female conscription etc. The ppl hating on them tend to have a misconception, thinking that AWARE and the women's charter as being the same organization when its two separate ones.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 07:32 PM
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You're not wrong. There are many fixes to society that feminists and mens right activists can agree on (like equal pay, equal/no conscription, etc.) But this is the mens rights subreddit, ppl aren't gonna agree with you if you're giving credit to feminism. Same goes for feminist subreddits if u're proposing some root cause that isnt misogyny or the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights09/03/24 01:38 PM
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Ngl this is kind of old news and became a huge meme for the "Is it because I'm chinese" quote, especially since chinese is the largest race by proportion in Singapore, so by no means is she a minority. A more interesting article to post is a recent court case where a then 14 year old boy impregnated a then 15 year old girl who later got an unsafe abortion (which the boy instigated). This resulted in the girl getting a conditional warning, being treated as the victim, while the boy was under prob…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 05:11 PM
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Hahah played abit, not that great at 6s. Made the wrong decision to main spy at the start, so its more ugc for me 😅
/r/MensRights07/02/24 08:49 PM
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ngl ur name seems very familiar....did u use to play tf2?
/r/MensRights07/02/24 08:45 PM
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I'm from Singapore, when my country needed more men for conscription (we're not at war), we conscript permanent residents, citizens of other countries (possibly our enemies lol) to fight for us instead of conscripting our own female citizens. I've seen girls who had to cheek to ask if a permanent resident was scared of enlisting.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:35 PM
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Only men 27 and older can be conscripted into the military, but they are able to voluntarily enlist at the age of 18. As an ex-conscript and current reserve in a country not in war, this makes no sense. Men are fking old at 27, thats no where near their prime. Those in my country are forced to enlist around 18-20, minimum are able to volunteer at 16.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 12:32 PM
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definitely less servere. But its social suicide to even consider it
/r/MensRights04/02/24 01:35 PM
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I guess that makes more sense
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:58 AM
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As in, you could be caught in the act of recording, then u'll be accused without much of a defence
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:57 AM
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1-2 arguably both, happened in a few articles in my country. 3-she may not have anything against u, u're taking a risk
/r/MensRights04/02/24 09:42 AM
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this assumes u can record it and get away with it without her finding out
/r/MensRights04/02/24 08:59 AM
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u can be accused of recording without her permission
/r/MensRights04/02/24 08:45 AM
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Ngl, actually some matriarchies seem decent. If I can recall correctly the mosuo clan, a matriarch have the women take responsibility in many areas. People are allowed to have multiple lovers and pregnancy would result in the mother having to take care of the child without responsibility falling on the possible father.
/r/MensRights03/02/24 10:44 PM
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Haizzz, its always the rape laws
/r/MensRights03/02/24 09:36 AM
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Ngl like that any random clause can be added cant it? Like if the wife doesnt sleep in the same bed as the husband for a majority of theie marriage, thats rape since the husband would not have consented?!? And wouldnt it be the same swapping the genders?
/r/MensRights03/02/24 08:48 AM
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Male early childhood staffs are not allowed to do routine care or show ‘excessive’ affections for students. Generally ppl are far more sensitive to male workers taking care of others, so many occasions female workers are called in the help instead. Same goes for police officers in doing checks. Men are not allow to defend against Female’s physical abuses Generally the law would defend minors, but there's a recent occasion where a younger male minor got in trouble after requesting an abortion for…
/r/MensRights03/02/24 08:45 AM
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Most countries require both men and women to do military services Most countries actually dont have compulsory military service I mean there not even enough men now to fill up the draft idk if this were the case for ukraine as well, but it didnt make sense to let more than half their people go They will have no choice but to use women. Coming from a country with compulsory male conscription. There's a chance where they just force permanent residents (non citizens) instead of forcing female citiz…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:43 PM
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a man breaking an engagement after having sex with his fiance is rape. Thats by definition not rape? Tbh why cant countries just follow dictionary definition? They're all coming up with their own weirdass gendered nonsense when dictionary definition is the most well accepted.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:33 PM
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illegal for a man to break up with hid gf?!? I'm surprised there are even laws regarding non-marital romantic relationships
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:22 PM
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Imma just copy and paste something I saw from my country's (Singapore) subreddit: • Having NS, Reservists (conscription for active & reserve) • No Divorce & child support laws • Less tax benefits compared to females • Less emphasis on men’s health compared to women • Men are expected to die for women and children • No right to defend against sexual accusation • No welfare during International men’s day, father’s day compare to female • Gaslight with Pay gap and gender ratio • Not allowed to do O…
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:19 PM
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Isnt it bigger than the main feminism subreddit and askfeminists?
/r/MensRights02/02/24 10:07 AM
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Just call it "internalized misandry"
/r/MensRights02/02/24 09:59 AM
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Like he was trained to do in the army As long as both men and women are trained to do that (cause Israel conscripts both genders), I don't see any issue here. Just someone wanting to protect their spouse. As long as they don't make it seem as if he's expected to do this (like those "as he should" sorta comments), it doesnt seem like an issue here.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 10:20 AM
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Had to explain to them before about causal inference. The 2% (or 2-10%) found to be false are from police reported cases. False accusations don't need to be reported for it to cause damage. Simple rumours are enough to get people fired, destroy their social life/reputation etc. This makes the 2% statistic have a sample bias, being a threat to internal validity. And thus we aren't able to make ANY causal inference for such a statistic.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 08:25 AM
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Usually the military has a bunch of random menial tasks (my country calls it "saikang", literal translation: shit job). It ranges from guard duty, to admin work etc. And these jobs dont require much strength nor contribute much to their actual roles. Having more manpower is definitely a plus and would help the current soldiers by a ton.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 07:19 AM
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Likely, if you're referring physically in terms of puberty and pre-frontal cortex. But emotionally? Mentally? Thats debatable. I've realized many things men do are attributed to being immature, whereas things women do are considered "emotional", when in actuality, its just being immature (eg. Expecting the partner to read their minds without communicating etc). And also, this is on average. Not something that happens to everyone. As a male, I hit puberty late 9 years old. The first to break his …
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:40 AM
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Shouldnt it be the opposite? If someone uses a non deadly weapon to beat someone to death. The death must be so much more painful than a deadly weapon. Compare that with the swift release of a gunshot to the head? Come on
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:12 PM
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Why do you think they DONT fight? Because their own lawyers tell them it will be expensive and they'll almost certainly lose I always find people giving the benefit of doubt to them and not men. Like it comes naturally to put the blame on men and leave it as that instead of asking further. Basically some next level deep rooted misandry
/r/MensRights02/08/23 04:20 AM
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omg bro, as a Singaporean I completely agree. On paper conscription is meant as a deterrence. But in actuality, they just want cheap labour to fulfill menial tasks. Like people talk about the military being so hard on women, when in reality, if the gov were to conscript them to do menial work/chores/saikang, all the men would already thank them for it. Even AWARE, a prominent feminist organization supports conscription women for other roles like nursing etc. But the government denies it. (ps, if…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 04:33 PM
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PS. I didnt do much research, but its good to take note that AWARE is not the same as the Women's Charter. AWARE is actually for female conscription, which the government denies. Their argument is that female conscription would weed out toxic masculinity (internalized misandry). I believe there's some merits to this claim, but its mostly because of how favoured women are, and the superiors would actually think twice before dishing out collective punishment. (Just look at Pegasus/Raven coy, the c…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:22 AM
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The risk is too high in Singapore. Not to mention, we're all conservatives. Protests are considered illegal here and iirc can be jailed. Those men stopped working for one week By those men, you mean conscripts? Conscripts not going to work is considered AWOL. Definitely jail-able. And not just civilian jail, its military jail.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 09:13 AM
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Gotta love penal code 370(10) https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/CONS1963?ProvIds=pr10- Where they had to explicitly add the sentence to declare conscription to not be slavery when they realize all other points fit
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:33 AM
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Slavery and forced labour prohibited10.— (1) No person shall be held in slavery. (2) All forms of forced labour are prohibited, but Parliament may by law provide for compulsory service for national purposes. (3) Work incidental to the serving of a sentence of imprisonment imposed by a court of law shall not be taken to be forced labour within the meaning of this Article. When the government realized conscription is just slavery so they had to add a line stating explicitly under their definition …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 02:29 AM
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Shit man, thanks for the reminder. I'm heading for exchange next year and completely forgot about exit permits. Luckily they changed it to include only 12 months or more. Imagine always having to report your whereabouts as a working adult. Having to constantly go for physical fitness tests and keep your hair a certain standard for reservist. Sounds like a miniature form of slavery
/r/MensRights31/07/23 01:46 AM
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Reminds me of the time a country sent their female only force against some terrorists. But because the terrorists believe that they'll go to hell or have some spiritual punishment if they were to be killed by women, they surrendered/didnt want to fight
/r/MensRights30/07/23 12:35 PM
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Tbh, its actually through this favourtism that I believe our conscription system would actually improve the moment they're enlisted. When regulars realize their actions now actually has consequences. But with that said, its precisely this favourtism that only half the population is dragged into conscription. Not to mention permanent residents who arent even citizens of the country
/r/MensRights28/07/23 04:24 PM
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To my amateur understanding: In theory, feminism is an egalitarian movement. Its based on the patriarchy theory, which by nature isn't misandristic, just an attempt to explain society. (I dont agree with it bah, but I wouldnt say its misandristic?) However, many feminists believe in the "punching up" mentality, either consciously or sub-consciously (whenever their arguments lead to how men are the ones in charge). And thus, lead to ppl defending feminism as others being not "real" feminists. Its…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 05:05 PM
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Seems tempting to say that its other women enforcing it, but we all know this doesnt help the conversation. Interestingly enough, would you suggest having stricter dress codes will resolve the issue?
/r/MensRights25/07/23 12:13 AM
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When one is used to privilege, equality feels like oppression
/r/MensRights25/07/23 12:09 AM
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I feel that they tend to have a higher tendency to demisexuality. So basically, attractiveness may be more easily affected based on the personality. Thus dating apps isnt the way to go, since its mostly visuals, and nothing else. So its natural for them to pick the best looking ones. You should have much better success actually interacting with them in a common setting (like school, any sort of course/class etc.)
/r/MensRights19/07/23 02:09 AM
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Sounds more like a retirement home than a lazy girl job (unless I'm mistaken by what a lazy girl job is?) Nothing wrong with these sorta jobs imo, just that its not for everyone, mainly those who have accepted a plateau in their career progression and shouldn't expect much development. Switch jobs if u're looking to learn more & make more $ Edit: I believe the post from OP is more of a complaint about how men are expected to be providers and thus expected to progress more instead of "retire" ear…
/r/MensRights12/07/23 01:03 PM
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Thats for "Do we have the same Boyfriend" facebook groups and their variants. Very commonly created across the globe, especially those that lead to doxxing or name/shaming. Happened in my country by this influencer called "boonkikiki", lets just say articles were written about it and how she could be sued. So she took it down. Wasnt her first time instigating such national drama, yet certain companies like "Guardian" still supports her
/r/MensRights10/07/23 04:57 AM
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“I feel we, especially women, are just usually brought up is the mentality to serve others, but when you go against it, you learn a lot about resilience and self-awareness,” She proceeds to go to a country (Singapore) which has male conscription, talk about irony.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 06:04 AM
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Your...your main account name is ButteryCottonNipples?
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:38 AM
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A similar scenario appeared in my country, involving a girl wanting to protect other girls from creeps, but it soon turned into a doxxing/name & shame game, which made news and had to be taken down. (Feel free to search up "Boonkikiki Excel Sheet")
/r/MensRights12/06/23 10:27 AM
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The thing with feminism is that many identifies with it but dont actually understand the implications. I believe there's some overlap in areas like going against single sex conscription. Ultimately I find my annoyances more towards conservatives than feminists. Especially when a large majority of "feminists" I see are actually more egalitarian, they just dont know the difference.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 08:06 AM
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From my knowledge, international women's day was to celebrate women's achievements whereas international men's day is to spread awareness about male issues such as suicide, homelessness, conscription. The difference in publicity is definitely an issue though
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:54 PM
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Lol in my country, men earn less per age due to 2 years conscription
/r/MensRights01/01/23 05:18 AM
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So I either believe in the patriarchy or I'm sexist?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:43 AM
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I think its clear that OP is more misandrist than egalitarian. My concern would be that feminists are quick to call out misogyny, but not misandry. I've been in their community for quite some time, and recently there's a sudden increase in the idea that misandry doesn't exist .-.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:52 PM
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Maybe too quick to judge? Most of the comments are disagreeing with OP (although not enthusiastically (pun intended?) disagreeing, but still)
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:33 PM
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Its so bad that we're conscripting PRs.... Non Singaporean Citizens are conscripted while other Singaporeans just move on in life. All because of one's gender.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 05:18 AM
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From my knowledge its based off the author's experience, a male. imo, it should be based off Judith Polgar, the best female chess player. Except she rarely plays in womens only competition and mostly in open
/r/MensRights30/07/22 05:37 AM
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Sorry, care to elaborate on what u mean by "we have equality"? USA is um weird. The whole roe v wade thing is gonna make things worse for both men and women. Not to mention the previous Depp vs Heard case.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:02 PM
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Wouldn't say better. More like, misandristic. Most obvious law is the male only conscription.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 02:42 PM
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Except...my entire country is a city... Seen this prevailing among tech, finance and law firms
/r/MensRights12/07/22 02:37 PM
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Where I come from, they dont even ask women to lift things. They wont say "are you sure you can lift it?" to a man, they'd say "Hi, I'll need you to lift this" while the women aren't bothered by any manual labour. Interesting how men do more in the workplace yet are paid the same
/r/MensRights12/07/22 02:24 PM
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As someone who was in a male-only conscripted country. This game isn't feminist at all. Its simply reality. Women already earn more as they aren't delayed by 2 years. They graduate earlier, earn faster, able to switch jobs earlier which results in a much bigger pay raise. Plus, there's no reservist and thus are looked more favourably by employers. (Think of it as month long maternity leaves every year for 10 to 20 years. And its compulsory, not going would result in being arrested and jail time)…
/r/MensRights06/05/22 01:24 AM
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No news from the government, but the people are quite accepting. A director even made a movie about a scenario where due to lack of manpower, women have to serve. (Can check out ah girls go army, its in the series of ah boys to men, but its pretty bad ngl)
/r/MensRights27/02/22 05:22 PM
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Singapore
/r/MensRights27/02/22 02:58 PM
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Even medication like panadol severely affects your awareness when fighting, I doubt they'll give a shot to prevents menstruation. But there are women who're going outfield and they do have means to take care of themselves. Its easier said than done to just stop being tools. For my country, its well known that we're small and in NEED of conscription. We even adopted Israel's system. The only difference is that we exclude women from it. We're so desperate for more manpower that we're even forcing …
/r/MensRights27/02/22 02:29 AM
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There are already women serving, just volunteerily as a career. How'd u think they handle outfields while menstruating? How do u think the army prevents them from having sex? Sounds like u're trying to give excuses without realising women are already capable of doing it. You don't want to go to war that benefits fat cats? How about the men who're forced to? Don't u think its wrong that only men are discriminated?
/r/MensRights27/02/22 02:20 AM
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As someone who's from a single-sex conscripted nation. More often anot, women are given disproportionately lower physical requirements. Statistically, the percentage of women getting silver/gold is much much higher than the men getting it. The average woman gets silver, average man just pass. So right now, women are given different requirements and they're not being conscripted. What about menstruation/pregnancy? Pregnancy is a choice, menstruation is a bodily issue, conscription is an issue wit…
/r/MensRights27/02/22 01:18 AM
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Nawh just conscript and remind them that they have to finish 2 years if not they'll be jailed
/r/MensRights15/11/21 03:29 AM
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Either the dad gets a decision and bear the cost if the family chooses to keep the child or the dad doesn't get a decision and don't bear the cost. You shouldnt have the cake and eat it, but sadly the law seems to not understand this...
/r/MensRights07/09/21 12:41 AM
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Just compare men to blacks, she'll realise ur statements aren't wrong
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:59 PM
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It depends, if job death rate includes conscription and war thats a different story...
/r/MensRights11/08/21 07:46 AM
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I think its somewhat relevant to point out that OP makes valid claims (on how she could hv gotten her scholarship due to her gender) yet the entire comment section is filled with people who automatically point her bf to sexism instead of elitism and lost the whole point of the message. (Basically how rampant these ideas have entered the minds of others). Also, r/MensRights are meant to not be ban-happy unlike r/feminism
/r/MensRights21/05/21 09:20 AM
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Honestly your initial comment is valid for this post. What I fail to understand is when people get married (or in a relationship), do they not see their partner as themselves? Why is there still competition?
/r/MensRights21/05/21 09:15 AM
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Is it just me or did all the comments not pass the vibe check by blaming sexism instead of elitism?
/r/MensRights21/05/21 01:42 AM
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Wow that sucks, did not know that
/r/MensRights25/04/21 02:25 AM
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I would say the current system is alot safer than before, so there isn't much risk in terms of death. However the opportunity cost still stays while the other gender carries on life unbothered
/r/MensRights25/04/21 02:24 AM
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As a male serving in NS, there is a general consensus in Singapore that men are more discriminated due to the laws (this isn't the only law). People also understand that gender is no excuse for only conscripting males, the problem comes with the fact that the people who're able to vote are either: women who don't serve and don't want to serve or men who don't care as they served already.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 04:39 AM
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The only way to "dodge" military service is to migrate overseas, I guess this way class does matter. But if you're refering to obtaining pes f and be unfit for service, class barely matters, it depends on how you phrase your issue and whether your have previous clinical records.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 04:04 AM
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I guess it really depends on country. Its alot easier to rationalize with those kind of people here in Singapore. Just point towards National Service (aka conscription), the main thing that seperates a woman's life from a man's
/r/MensRights19/03/21 11:15 AM
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Discrimination of all kinds would be lessened by adding this discriminatory rule!
/r/MensRights12/03/21 02:48 PM
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I understand where you're coming from. But I disagree with the statement that culture is no excuse to not see discrimination. If you've been brought up your whole life with this mindset and your whole community supports it, its rather hard to just fault an innocent bystander. But I do agree that it is still misandry and is still wrong to not see the double standards.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 01:34 PM
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I disagree, its the norm in current culture. Most wouldnt realise the double standard be it male or female. I've known men saying we arent discriminated at all in my country and I had to remind him that he's getting conscripted literally the next year. It takes a level of discernment to first realise this double standards. Once we've started looking out for it, we realise its everywhere.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 12:49 PM
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Honestly half of what they say are pretty much misandristic. I know of many who identify as feminists who don’t even follow it
/r/MensRights23/12/20 04:33 AM
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Did they emphaise on the fact that curie did her research with her husband and it was her husband that encouraged her to claim credit?
/r/MensRights25/11/20 11:13 AM
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Ooooh my bad, thanks for the clarification!!
/r/MensRights23/11/20 08:36 AM
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Men can’t be raped by other men. Thats under “sexual assault by penetration” Only women can be raped. Many of these laws are actually “bad for men” but not necessarily “good for women”. Granted there r some which are such as maternity leave, free HPV vaccination etc
/r/MensRights23/11/20 08:02 AM
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Not sure about the status of women, but the status of men is far from perfect if u’d ask me. Many discriminatory laws against men such as compulsory conscription, not being able to be raped, canning etc
/r/MensRights23/11/20 04:27 AM
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Once again, if people ever try to spout facts to agree with whatever sexist point they make. Just compare men to blacks and women to whites. Problem solved
/r/MensRights20/11/20 10:22 AM
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Best part is, the SCUM manifesto isn’t described to be misandristic
/r/MensRights08/10/20 02:55 AM
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Actually see that more commonly among r/Feminism. Have yet to be banned from r/askfeminists despite having the “MRA” flair. Just receive a ton of downvotes even if I state valid points with differing views Fun fact, many feminists from r/askfeminists are banned from r/feminism themselves
/r/MensRights08/10/20 02:53 AM
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You know the country has far too many gynocentric laws when the President of the Singapore Council of Women’s Organisation has to talk about paternity leaves and conscription for women
/r/MensRights30/09/20 08:14 AM
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Honestly whats worse than the draft is conscription. Being forced into 2 years of service with those failing to comply resulting in jail time Ps it didn’t take me much time to respond and I didn’t mind doing so :p
/r/MensRights28/09/20 04:03 AM
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Precisely, similar to how women aren’t being discriminated as compared to the past :) ps, men are still conscripted even if there is no war
/r/MensRights28/09/20 01:45 AM
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Doesn’t make it right. Its like saying men have been disposable in war all these years. Time to conscription women only and force them into war?
/r/MensRights28/09/20 01:42 AM
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Yahhhh just followed as well XD
/r/MensRights27/09/20 11:01 PM
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Just switch whatever she said about “males” to “blacks” and you’ve got yourself a racist
/r/MensRights27/09/20 08:19 AM
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What if in my country the law states that a man can’t be raped?
/r/MensRights26/09/20 02:40 AM
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Honestly in my country, even if u do go for conscription, you’re treated like a 2nd class citizen during conscription (cases of people shaming soldiers for sitting on seats in public transport or when their domestic helper carries their bag for them home). I guess this is something my country should learn from the US, how they really respect their soldiers.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 02:24 PM
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Checked w r/AskFeminists the term “toxic masculinity” is generally interchangable with the term “internalised misandry”. Same goes for “toxic femininity” and “internalised misogyny”. So we can easily just called it internalised misandry which implies the same thing. Now the question remains, why do people use “toxic masculinity” and “internalised misogyny” more than “toxic femininity” and “internalised misandry”
/r/MensRights13/09/20 01:06 PM
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So which part of Singapore do u not consider a first world country? To earn the 4th highest gdp per capita with currency value about the same as New Zealand and Australia which are also considered first world countries. And also known to be the most expensive country to live in with the highest housing and car prices. If u don’t call it first world I don’t know what world you’re living in.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 12:16 PM
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What makes it worse is that she refused to marry him which could be the for him to want to break off the relationship. Yet she received all the benefits of a divorcee while not receiving any responsibility (Yes she did in fact quit her job, which somewhat makes it reasonable for him to provide alimony. But if she never wanted to bring the relationship further to marriage, quitting her job and leaving off him as a parasite is just poor decision)
/r/MensRights11/09/20 06:06 AM
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Meh I was refering to the main laws people are concern about. There has been a somewhat recent uproar about repealing 377a. Honestly the rape laws (375), conscription and canning are much worse and are being used constantly, but for some reason 377a is what most of the population is concerned about lah.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 04:12 AM
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Stop-at-Two In the late 1960s, Singapore was a developing nation and had not yet undergone the demographic transition; though birth rates fell from 1957 to 1970, in 1970, birth rates rose as women who were themselves the product of the postwar baby boom reached maturity. Fearing that Singapore's growing population might overburden the developing economy, Lee started a vigorous Stop at Two family planning campaign https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_planning_in_Singapore I’m a Singaporean,…
/r/MensRights11/09/20 03:45 AM
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This is only one of the many sexist laws Singaporean men face. The main one many complain about is conscription. (And possibly the outlawing of gay sex but allowing lesbian sex). Granted such laws exist as Singapore was a third world country under british coloniel rule. However as a first workd country, there’s much to improve. Thats why whenever misandrists believe men have it all, I’ll always point it back to my country Ps, men also can’t be raped here by law.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 10:24 PM
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Thats was China, not Singapore. Heck Singapore has a declining birthrate, we’re in need of more children. And China doesn’t even have the one child policy anymore .-.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 10:22 PM
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That man is truly one full of empathy. Even when he could have pressed charges, even when he could have just revealed she was a product of rape, he still considered their family’s relationship dynamics. (ps, not saying what he’s doing is right or wrong, just pointing out the sheer amount of empathy and selflessness he’s displaying)
/r/MensRights07/09/20 11:00 AM
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Just remind them that the BLM movement started because of the death of a man
/r/MensRights07/09/20 10:54 AM
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Fit their description of being a low value male? You mean not a simp?
/r/MensRights01/09/20 10:40 AM
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I assume that post is from r/femaledatingstrategy from the usage of the term “scrotes”. Its kinda obvious its a misandristic subreddit, I’ve learn to ignore it
/r/MensRights31/08/20 05:37 AM
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There are posts on r/askfeminists showing that many feminists are banned from r/feminism. Just because a subreddit is ban-happy doesn’t make all others which talk about it irrelevant
/r/MensRights21/08/20 09:03 AM
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Although I agree, many of such subs post sexist things themselves and proceed to justify why its approperiate to use them. ie, ironic misandry
/r/MensRights20/08/20 09:35 AM
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Ahhh okok I see, especially with the emphasis on “grown”
/r/MensRights14/08/20 03:30 PM
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Am I the only one who don’t find this offensive? Its normal for men to weigh more than women so being above the men’s average is considered heavy.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 11:31 AM
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Tbvh this answer is quite expected in this sub reddit, if you really want data, crosspodt it to others. Ps. I’m just stating facts, not implying anything
/r/MensRights07/08/20 04:24 AM
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Yes however it is still discrimination and gives the underlying message that men cannot be victims and are most likely perpetrators and thus do not need to/should not be taught self defence. (Basically this could just be a sign of internalised misandry)
/r/MensRights06/08/20 10:13 AM
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I think its best to just say that they’re immature rather than specifying “princess syndrome” cause honestly these are all due to the women not growing up
/r/MensRights01/08/20 09:47 AM
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Tbh buzzfeed is known to be a pretty misandristic site. Its kinda expected from them
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:50 AM
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I mean that anime is about a boy choosing to marry his sister over all the other girls who’re chasing him. So they have pretty stereotypical anime tropes such as many tsundere girls causing physical harm to boys when they’re mad. (Ps I’m not supportive of it, just giving more context to the picture for those who don’t know its roots)
/r/MensRights15/07/20 10:31 PM
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Honestly think r/MensRights is the biggest subreddit for equality, even r/feminism isn’t as big.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 12:18 AM
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As a cis male, OP’s experience is by no means different from mine (other than his previous experience of being a female). His experience is as valuable if not more valuable than mine for the fact that he has seen both sides of the equation.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 11:01 AM
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Yup thats true, but its the same issue with the beginning of the conscription for men. But there are ways to combat it such as reducing NS to 1.5 years. Just simply doing this makes many people move a year ahead in life as we’re able to enter uni a whole year earlier instead of wasting our life doingn nothing for 9 months (Its definately possible look at the system). I believe the main reason for not doing so is votes. Everyone knows there are plenty of issues with conscription right now. But no…
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:36 PM
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Ahhh I guess so, but do u know of anyone with missing limbs who are pes F? Usually Pes F is given to those with mental conditions or whole body paralysis kind. The army alsays finds a way to make you useful no matter what condition u’re in. (I’m not saying the saf treats the regulars like trash, I’m saying that if they’re able to serve, they can easily force nsfs with such conditions to serve as well)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:32 PM
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Looking at the manpower shortage and the sheer amount of problems conscription bring (along with sexism), Singapore is bound to have to conscript women one day. (Its very obvious if u’ve went through this, they even conscript PRs. Not just 2nd generation PRs like we’re told by the way) The main reason why they’re not doing anything about NS now is as mentioned in a previous comment, it won’t affect their votes and they don’t want to have their votes affected if they were to conscript females
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:47 PM
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Hmm maybe my example may be too extreme. But to obtain the coveted pes F is so rare its insane. And as mentioned, there r autistic people who are excused insurbordination which still serve. Even those with brain cis have to serve (but under pes E) (There are regulars who have missing limbs and are not pes F so...)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:43 PM
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And its for both genders so erm, true gender equality? (Technically not because I know women still have to serve less sentence). And also Singapore is a first world country like Switzerland, unlike North Korea.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:02 PM
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My country is not at war. If it was at war, we would be in our various vocations we trained in during conscription (or what we call National Service). I’ll be a Commando if you’re asking about my specific vocation.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 03:49 PM
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So still kinda sexist but somewhat less? I don’t know what I said about military structure is just rumours, nothing’s ever truly released
/r/MensRights09/07/20 03:48 PM
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Yup, but Israel forces both genders, Singapore forces one. (Even though our military structure was based on Israel’s?!? I don’t understand)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 03:17 PM
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Firefighting isn’t easy though :/ In Singapore they’re required to be as fit as those in service!
/r/MensRights09/07/20 01:50 PM
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When it first started long ago there were a bunch riots (as expected) but through years of propaganda, a lot of people believe its a “right of passage for males”. (But the younger generation understands the need for it and many believe it should be both gender, well other than a number of selfish or elitist people) And far too many of the older generation have the mentality of “Since I have it this hard, the next generation should have it as hard” sort of mentality. Nothing progressive. Very con…
/r/MensRights09/07/20 12:55 PM
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You’ll be put under a certain PES (physical employment standard) status. So if you’re handicapped ie lost a leg, you’ll most probably be forced to serve in an admin role. Just saying, there are autistic kids with excuse INSURBORDINATION who are still forced to serve. And yet women aren’t (yet male PRs are still forced to serve too?!?)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 12:13 PM
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Well, there aren’t many activists in Singapore due to all the strict laws, and most people can’t be bothered as those voting are either: 1. Female and do not have to serve 2. Males who have cleared their 2 years of conscription and only have to do about 10 cycles of reservice which isn’t a big deal to many.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 12:04 PM
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I’m from Singapore, if I don’t go for conscription, I get jailed. And then sent for conscription
/r/MensRights09/07/20 08:07 AM
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Your definition of feminism is great and is what feminism should be. But not all people who claim to be feminists have such views. I know far too many who are just so deep into misandry that it just feels like a joke that they call themselves feminists. Read through the intro to this subreddit, many would like to believe that Men’s Rights is just a different form of feminism. The dictionary definition form of it that is. (Similar to yours) Most of the rants you see here is based on the frustrati…
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:30 AM
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Its just bashing feminism bah. I don’t blame them since many feminist sites bash the manosphere. But yeah it shouldnt be the case lah. Could have handled it more maturely
/r/MensRights30/06/20 12:46 PM
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Its because the “boyfriend” is farr too young to even understand what all these means. Very few males hit puberty even at that age. If the roles were reversed, people will curse and swear at the male asking him to be sent to jail for underage sex. Yet this does not occur when the female is older
/r/MensRights30/06/20 12:23 PM
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Heh had my first misandristic view taught to a whole class when I was 4 years old. Even back then I could call out bullshit. Its not just the internet, but society itself that has a very flawed view
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:06 AM
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Ahhh right my bad, guess I’m still new to reddit :p
/r/MensRights28/06/20 11:34 AM
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Sorry, wdym by culturally appreciating you? Thought it was just a saying XD
/r/MensRights28/06/20 09:31 AM
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Yo a $40 is a lot of money, if you’re talking about USD its even more. And considering they have also zero opportunity cost since they’d spend time getting food, they’ll obviously do it for free food. What we need to do as men is to go dutch and stop treating them free meals just because of their gender. (I know its hard as we’ll lose out to those white knights willing to simp and pay for everything, but its the females who actually care about knowing about their date instead of just getting fre…
/r/MensRights28/06/20 08:07 AM
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Well technically you’re the most protected one with a police officer dad
/r/MensRights26/06/20 08:58 AM
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Guess spain really is in need of politicians such as her
/r/MensRights24/06/20 01:46 PM
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Yeaahh to rupture both nuts in one kick is very questionable...
/r/MensRights24/06/20 01:45 PM
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Just internalised misandry at its finest. Really sorry you had to go through all that without anyone backing you up. Hope you’ll recover from this incident and that it wont negatively affect your mind too greatly!
/r/MensRights24/06/20 04:20 AM
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feelsbadman
/r/MensRights23/06/20 03:17 PM
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Damn that sucks, maybe they took offence to whatever you said. They tend to be pretty sensitive. Sad that u had a bad experience w them
/r/MensRights23/06/20 03:07 PM
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Oh, I didnt really take much look at r/feminism , just seems like the usual feminist issues, not anything really interesting so I don’t know much about them. Did the mods ask u to go to r/askfeminists or the op? (you can just pm the op if u really wanted)
/r/MensRights23/06/20 03:01 PM
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Guess we will. But I believe just switching to an egalitarian mindset helps lah. Ps I’m not really defending them. Just saying there are some good people in that group. Received a lot of downvotes for comments which I believe don’t deserve any
/r/MensRights23/06/20 01:37 PM
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Actually had a few comments that disagreed, only received a lot of downvotes lah (tried to phrase it as nicely as possible). But the mods didn’t outrightly ban me, just try to keep it as positive/open minded as possible
/r/MensRights23/06/20 01:14 PM
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Hahaha broooo I put the flair MRA HAHAHAHAHA. I’ve commented a few times and only received a warning for making a top level comment once. No kidding.
/r/MensRights23/06/20 01:14 PM
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Hmmm actually the r/askfeminist sub isn’t too harsh, make sure to follow the rules of not replying directly to questions (or making top-level comments)
/r/MensRights23/06/20 11:48 AM
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Honestly there are cases of feminists making sense and not just being a hate group. Although most of us would consider them egalitarian, some identify as feminists. Its just that there are many misandrists claiming to be feminists or out of anger, such feminists make misandristic claims. (I have to admit myself as a MRA, sometimes I make mysogynistic claims)
/r/MensRights23/06/20 07:07 AM
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Honestly I feel the “crazy ex girlfriend” trope arises from just immature/childish girls. As men tend to date women younger than them, there tends to be a maturity mismatch resulting in one parenting the other. As females tend to be more emotional, immature ones do not understand how to express their emotions properly, believing their significant other should understand their thoughts without explaining themselves. From experience, this is especially so for males dating females younger than them…
/r/MensRights23/06/20 04:16 AM
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Thats true, I’m not giving her an excuse to say such things, but is could be a reason for it bah
/r/MensRights22/06/20 10:35 PM
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Maybe she just have bad experiences or is brainwashed by the internet/society to believe most perpetrators are men? Many women are quite paranoid, not uncommon. In my country, women would actively mot walk back home late at night when statistically, it is more dangerous for a man to do so.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 09:34 AM
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Honestly I’m very certain that subreddit’s views goes against r/feminism ‘s stance
/r/MensRights21/06/20 04:26 AM
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