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| 1 | Will I regret staying with her? | amimisingout | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 02:29 AM |
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| 1 | Will I regret staying with her?What she did do was create a safe haven for me to hide in. Fuck this resonates with me. She allows me to play it safe, to stay in and watch Netflix, to be boring and ok with it since "I'm in a relationship". I appreciate your advice but man this is gonna be tough. "I realized I can make me happier than she could ever make me." I need to remind myself of this more often. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Will I regret staying with her?Thanks for the advice man, I appreciate it. I really like your first paragraph, I agree with you I am not nearly strong enough to handle the method you bring forward in your second paragraph. But I do think the mental next now, finding flaws, and then getting rid of her whether in a month or 3 months is a good idea. Honestly as much as I'd like to think I understand the way things work, you are right, I'm far too inexperienced and there really is no substitute for experience. I think the problem… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Will I regret staying with her?Like I said in another comment, I'm in absolutely no rush to get married. I wouldn't get married until right before I wanted to have kids and that wont be for another ten years. It does suck when I hear stories like yours where you did nothing wrong and it still fell apart. Those are the true horror stories, not when some dude became an out of shape beta bucks and then got divorced. Let's say you could go back in time and stayed with her without getting married. Would marriage ever be on the tab… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Will I regret staying with her?I've been reading TRP for a while. I have to admit, I take alot of the stuff here with a grain of salt, especially the super angry oldmen who got divorce raped because they were bluepill as fuck. I'm not worried her being a golddigger, her family has a massive fortune, so in terms of being divorce raped or even being used as a beta bucks, that's unlikely. It would also be rather poor planning on her part considering it'll be about 10 years from the day we started dating until I make any decent m… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Will I regret staying with her?I'm really interested to hear your story, since like you said, seems similar to mine in pursuing an LTR with your college girlfriend. What caused the divorce? I agree with the Oneitis, it's inevitable being my first and all, but I'm hoping that I can be a little more objective than you may give me credit for. My goals? Family is definetely there in the far future, I know being in medicine I'm gonna have to grind for a while and sacrifice some of my younger years for my later years so definetely … | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Will I regret staying with her?I agree, that was my plan too, to take it to the grave. I understand the whole not recommending marriage, but if I ever have kids, I'd probably like to in the context of marriage. In my situation especially, I wouldn't within the next 10 years, so lets say hypotheticall I've been dating this girls 10-12 years before marriage, it's safer than most I think. You're probably right about her fucking guys but honestly my SMW has increased drastically since I started seeing her, I would do pretty well … | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 02:47 AM |
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