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More prevalent the younger your friend group I’d say. The older you get the less you stop caring about everything and anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:05 PM
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It would just be nice to have the insight bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:44 PM
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Oh no bro, I mean that’s your opinion. I (33f)am such a better partner than I ever was in my 20s. I genuinely love, care, and try now without possessiveness and without being antagonistic. I learned from my past relationships to be a better me, and he (34m) did too. We have talked about it, we are both so glad we met again in our 30s and didn’t hook up/date until our 30s. Dating in your 30s really isn’t dismal. I don’t know why this sub likes to think that thirty is the end lol. Especially for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:27 PM
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As a childless woman that is still somewhat in shape, it was just as easy as dating in my 20’s. And men in their 30’s are so much better to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:58 PM
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I never did the math. 🙋🏼‍♀️ I just love making my man happy. I love seeing his smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:52 PM
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This is kind of like my relationship right now. My(33f) guy(34m) has a lower sex drive than I do, and it’s a lot lower than it used to be when he was younger. So it’s not that he doesn’t want to be sexually adventurous, he just doesn’t have the sex drive that he used to. I have found some things that suggest he used to be way more adventurous in bed when he was younger, though he has kind of lied to me saying he has always had a low sex drive. I just figure, why should I give a fuck? I have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:48 PM
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It’s awesome having a partner and friend to ride the tide of life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:50 PM
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I have never ran into micro dicks, three guys were between 7-9 and three were 5-7. I always assumed the guys between 5-7 inches were average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:58 PM
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Probably bc they feel like their mothers loved/love them unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:26 PM
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That’s interesting too. I have a lower n count (6) for a (33f) and I masturbate fairly often, around 0-5 times a day. My current partner (34m) has a high n count 40-50 but he hardly ever masturbates now, bc he wants to have sex with me more often but doesn’t get sexual urges very often. He describes himself as a-sexual plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:48 PM
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I would say I have more contextual desire, but I masturbate fairly often. Like 0-5 times a day. I also feel like I have learned spontaneous desire coming from a 10 year relationship with a partner that had a really high libido. I was always trying to keep up to keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:44 PM
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I wonder if there is any correlation between mode of sexual desire and masturbation habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:10 AM
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They did share it. Just with someone else. Those firsts aren’t really what’s important anyways. I can just see how people can perceive it that way. Choosing to be loyal, supportive, kind, and loving and finding that in return is what’s important. And yes it is all a choice, every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:38 AM
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I think sometimes people like a partner with a lower body count bc you get a chance to be a couple of their “firsts” which makes you feel more important to them and helps you relive times of before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:45 PM
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Do you think it’s the same with men? Are most the slutty ones unattractive? Or do you think the attractive men tend to be the sluttier ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:01 PM
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Its not always about sex drive, I feel like my generation has an ED problem. (33f)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:30 PM
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I’m a low n count (6) and my man is a high n count (40-50), we are both in our early 30’s. I was shocked when he finally told me, but he treats me like I am everything to him. I mean healthiest relationship I have ever had. So why worry about the n count, I’m glad I didn’t find out at first bc I probably would have made a judgement call and missed out on this amazing relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:30 PM
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Jesus, people take sex way too fucking seriously. I’m glad my guy has a high n count, he wishes mine was higher. All those girls he fucked in the past helped sculpt him into the amazing partner he is now, and now we are dating in our mid thirties we are settled and less likely to cheat bc we don’t have fomo. People have pasts, who cares. Why get all bothered and jealous of their past relationships when you could just be happy and focus on keeping a strong current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:15 PM
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No I mean sexually attractive. I can still see that a person is physically attractive without being sexually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:54 PM
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I have felt like maybe it’s an instinctual thing. I’m (33f) and I have realized that my taste in men has changed a lot as I got older but it seems to happen so that I continue to be attracted to men around my age. I don’t find guys in their early 20s or late teens sexually attractive, they seem like children now. Also it makes sense that as you get older, through trial and error you know what you like/want more so. Why waste time when you’re already like halfway through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:41 PM
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I wouldn’t but I have been struggling with trust issues since my last relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:28 PM
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I’m for the legalization of prostitution because it’s ridiculous that it’s illegal. Definitely a conservative Christian morality law that isn’t needed. I don’t think I would ever date a guy that utilized the service though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:18 AM
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I picked my dad
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/21 07:10 PM
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Societal grooming/keeping up with the Joneses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:06 PM
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I didn’t think it’s a who specifically. It seems like a combination of things really. Sex isn’t looked at in such a conservative light like it used to be. The internet has made sex work more of a self employed business vs working for and being taken advantage of. In this sense it is empowering bc you are basically small business owner. It’s money you can make now by your own rules. And if you make that money and invest it wisely you can mold your future more so than working minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:50 AM
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Oh and errands. Lots of couples fight over running errands. Red bottom shoes, lol, calm down cardi b
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:18 PM
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Of course people in relationships fight about money. It’s fucking stressful budgeting and building a life. They also fight about inattention/neglect, sex, family, chores, what side of the bed is theirs, and a multitude of other things. Women say it’s not about money because we make money too, and most of us didn’t choose our partners based off money. Otherwise we wouldn’t be fighting about it. We would be chill fucking some guy that isn’t our best friend enjoying money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 07:17 AM
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It does though. Not magically of course, but through your own actions and treatment of people. It manifests in those being the only women that enter your life. Which echos your ideologies that those are the only type of women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:53 AM
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Live by a negative mantra and you will always be surrounded by negativity. It’s an echo chamber. If that’s all you think women are or have to offer then that will be the only women that come into your sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:07 AM
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True, so so true. But partners and friends are the family you choose. If you aren’t able to real with those people, if they can’t help you grow and flourish and you can’t do the same thing, then what’s the point of keeping them in your life. Toxic companionship breeds cancer inside oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 11:38 PM
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Also your sexual past shouldn’t matter either. Any mentally mature women wouldn’t be put off by a late bloomer. So don’t lie about it. True partners should be able to be vulnerable with each other without ridicule or attack, because you are each other’s number one supporter. The only sexual talks that really matter in a relationship is sexual communication. I like this, I don’t like this, how does this feel, can we try this, this makes me feel wanted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:59 PM
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Realize that those insecurities and thoughts only fuck with you. Don’t allow yourself to controlled, and your happiness to be dictated by it. If you find someone that truly makes you happy, that is a good partner that wants to build you and themselves up together then allow yourself that. What truly matters is the present and the future. So how to handle a women’s body count and sexual past? Acknowledge that they had a life before you but what matters is the life you have together now and how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:44 PM
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So fucked up. I hope she at least tried to return the favor and fertilize the lawn before looking at someone else’s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 05:34 PM
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Don’t you tempt me to watch a video 😑 because i just might. (Playful sarcasm) Nah I watched half of it. It’s pretty long. But he was flying wild and loose across the board. I had never even heard of those first two ladies (so that part seemed trivial) but it actually intrigued me to research the analytical engine. That seems like an interesting subject. The rest of it, I mean hey at least he provided data, but a lot of it seemed cherry picked and lacking of major variables, which left it wanting…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 05:23 PM
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This is your response to answers I was baited into after making a simple comment that men can also provide children while in a coma, talk about time consuming and illogical.... A) women outlived fertility before modern medicine, and considering advances in modern medicine in various medical areas, birthing still has a frighteningly high mortality rate, even in the US. B) you can make your own premise to a claim I made, sure, but what weight does that hold in a conversation that started from said…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 03:48 PM
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Lol what catchphrases? What excellence and achievements do you personally bring to the world? I’ll take a look. I always like to see why some people have the views they have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 01:26 AM
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We were taught the same history... what do you even mean by that? Cause I’ve gone out of my way to learn things never taught to me in school. Or are you trying to say like “yeah I know these people exist and there have been significant contributions throughout time, but as a whole...” And who cares if there is less are more. There are so many contributing factors to that. Plus quantity was never what you and especially I were talking to each other about anyways. If you want to believe men are be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 10:51 PM
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And not to mention as artists, scholars, saints, scientists, mathematicians, reformers, spies, etc throughout history. I was just reading an article today about a lady named Neerja Bhanot. A truly heroic woman. And Irena Sendler who saved a multitude of Jewish children by smuggling them out of the Warsaw Ghetto. She was captured and tortured but never anything of her work or the locations of the children. Just because you were never taught about the contributions of women doesn’t mean they don’t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:52 PM
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You have changed your question every time you reply. First enumerate women’s roles other than procreating. Then back up your claim that procreation is only fraction of men and women’s roles. Now enumerate areas in which women outshine men or bring as much value to the world. You realize that, right? So if anyone is beating around the bush it’s you, because you would rather create a useless argument than have a real discussion. The only claim i made was that procreation was only a fraction of bot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:44 PM
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Oh, I thought you wanted me to enumerate women’s roles that weren’t related to procreation. Which is broad because there are societal roles, relationship roles, and familial roles. So, just brain storming here. Why do women outlive fertility by decades if their only role is procreation? Because they also provide benefit elsewhere. So focusing on personal experience with relationship roles, for my husband I am a therapist, best friend, provider, lover, a rock, protector, home, a caretaker, accoun…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 01:57 PM
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W
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 01:51 PM
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Yeah been busy. Business just opened back up. But that was an answer. Did you actually want me to list individual roles filled by women in their relationships, other than popping out babies? The only things I’ll be able to enumerate are the roles and duties I’ve stepped into during my 10 year relationship(you know personal experience). None of which, unfortunately, include giving birth. If you’re actually curious, we continue this conversation and I can list a handful for you. But I kind of feel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 12:42 PM
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Depends on the what’s needed. For your family, your relationship, your community, or yourself. Humans aren’t formed by cookie cutters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 10:18 AM
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Yeah. That was kind of the point, procreating is only a tiny fraction of both men and women’s roles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:21 AM
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So my husband and I had a conversation about this and he gave the same description of petite as most of the people here. And we had an epiphany moment. His frame of reference with petite as a descriptor came from porn titles/hashtags where as mine came from clothing sections in stores. Kind of a neat realization in word thought perspective. (Not to imply anyone else’s perspective.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 09:27 PM
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It’s all relative I guess. I don’t think of chubby as fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 07:13 PM
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I kind of love coming to this subreddit, similar to when I catch myself watching Maury or whatever . Y’all throw down here. I’ll be scrolling through my feed and see something like this, and I’m like yea that’s kind of a trashy, dull profile, but I guess a girl is just trying to get some d. And then I read the comments and witness a death.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:19 PM
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Just saying women can give birth in a coma, men can make a baby in a coma. Is what it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:10 PM
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Of course not, that would be rape. Unless they gave legal consent before, like in a will or something. And neither is impregnating a comatose woman without her prior consent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:10 PM
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Electric probe to the prostate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:08 PM
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How have so many people never seen a petite curvy woman? It just means you’re short with tits and an ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:06 PM
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Petite refers to height, not weight. Small, not necessarily skinny. So if you shop in the petite section your pants are shorter than average. You can still have curves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 06:03 PM
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I’m pretty sure you can get sperm from a guy in a coma though...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 05:57 PM
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