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1	Career options for young men who come from third world countries You can't beat IT imo. Easy to get into, easy to grow and advance if you are competent, clear career paths, certifications make it very easy to progress incrementally. Lots of money if you're good, and it's constantly growing. You could study on weekends/ free time. CompTIA A+ getting both tiers will let you walk into most first line jobs, even if you don't have experience. After that, a Network+ or Security + or Linux+ or the new cloud one will let you branch out and specialize. Easy self study…	/r/askTRP	22/11/17 06:43 PM
8	Where do I go if I need someone to talk to? You are fucking up. I get it, you're the oldest and you want to save the youngest and your mother. You are fucking up. Your mother doesn't want to be saved, and should you actually accomplish anything that creates distance between her and your father, real distance, real change, she will resent you for it. She is there and in that situation because she wants to be, or needs to be, because she cannot function in any other way. Your younger siblings will not appreciate anything you do for them. Yo…	/r/askTRP	30/10/17 07:19 PM
7	My plea for help You can't out-exercise a bad diet. My personal recommendation is to get your ass on Keto. /r/keto has all the details you need to read up on it and understand how and why it works. If you have trouble with consistency, as it seems you do, make it even easier by drinking 2/3 meals. When I was going for a recomp (shedding fat and gaining muscle) I would just drink 1/2 pot of heavy double cream and two scoops of protein powder per shake (that's 150 ml of 50% fat cream here, approx 750 calories). I …	/r/askTRP	11/10/17 10:24 PM
1	I've been trying to better myself for the past 6 years and I never managed to. Hey, OP, just in case it isn't blatantly obvious, Eleven was being nice and polite here... He took out time and effort to actually give you a good answer, he could have just kept the main points, without the example lists. All his objectives are detailed, measurable, and achievable. Your response is a bullshit half arsed "me too". It's clear you didn't even spend a minute thinking about it. You can't even even spend a tenth of the time and effort to help yourself that a stranger does, in an atte…	/r/askTRP	07/10/17 04:05 AM
18	How to stop being an Omega Incel? Reading through this I kept shaking my head... Your method of thinking is ass backwards. You don't act because of anxiety and then wallow in depression over it... all over some nebulous concept of "having a girlfriend"... That's like living in the basement and being anxious applying for jobs, and then loosing sleep over it because you want "a fulfilling job"... You wouldn't know a fulfilling job if it sat on your face, and even if one were to plonk down, you wouldn't know what to do with it. The…	/r/askTRP	07/10/17 03:51 AM
2	"Relationships, the Red Pill, and you" -- LTR advice on the sidebar doesn't seem alpha at all. What do you think? What is this lunacy? If something is important enough, you let her know that if she does/does not do that particular thing, you will walk. She is still free to do it, you can't stop her, but you will walk. Fuck is insecure about that?	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/14 06:42 PM
5	Humbly requesting TRP's explanation for the high male/female freelance web designer ratio Reading this post I am reminded of the story of a North Korean soldier that defected: “A North Korean soldier would later recall a buddy who had been given an American-made nail clipper and was showing it off to his friends. The soldier clipped a few nails, admired the sharp, clean edges, and marveled at the mechanics of this simple item. Then he realized with a sinking heart: If North Korea couldn't make such a fine nail clipper, how could it compete with American weapons?”	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/14 11:43 AM
3	How to stop comparing yourself to others? Honestly, I don't think men can ever turn off the "danger recognition" part of our brain. Height and weight are both indicators of how much of a threat another male is, and are automatically processed without us even knowing. The only time we are even aware is when we go "whoa this guy is built/tall". (much like we constantly evaluate every woman we see but only become aware of the good looking ones). The only way to turn it off is to become even more dominant, or learning some form of fighting,…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 09:10 PM
2	How do I break up with her? If you care about her, you would give feedback on the "why". Sure, it will hurt her, sure, she might hate you for it, but in many ways that might actually make it easier to take a clean break.	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 08:03 PM
2	The thought of change (in general) scares me, advice? Armchair CBT: You keep an expectation log. Whenever you sense change, and you think/worry that something will happen, you write it down. After the event transpires, you write down what actually happened. Do do this every day for every thing. At the end of the week you go and tally whether you were right or wrong. Then you look at predictions regarding what you imagine you will think/feel/do, versus that you imagine others will think/feel/do; and see if there is anything interesting to learn. You…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 05:05 PM
2	LTR of 1 year pull this on me. My response to her hamstering. LTR is a balancing act. That wasn't a shit-test, just plain stating of a problem. This is easier to see with food: if a couple only ever eats when partner A wants to, partner B will in time start to resent it. It's a matter of agency... Whenever I see people not being allowed to eat before saying "grace" in American TV and movies, all I can think of is "fuck that shit motherfucker, if the table is set and people are in their chairs we eat, fuck your 5 minute speech". It's not about how many days…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 04:57 AM
3	I'm 19 years old, going to be living in an apartment with three 21 year old girls starting next month. Need advice Something that hasn't been mentioned so far... Discretion. Don't ever talk to them about what you do with women. Keep your door locked, and no matter what they hear coming out of there, you were watching a movie. If some women you fuck gives them the details, that's fine, but you shouldn't ever confirm it, to anyone, ever. If you gain a "what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" reputation, women are far, far more likely to fuck you on a whim, or even get into the hard/kinky sex, because they know …	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 12:50 PM
2	Girlfriend doesn't believe in sex before marriage Sex is a huge part of life... Deciding to only ever do it with a person, without knowing you are sexually compatible is just plain DUMB. What will you do if your dick doesn't fit well? You may laugh, but only ever being able to get half in because then you start hitting her cervix is maddeningly infuriating. Same if she is bigger and there isn't enough friction. Or a million other things. As crass as it might sound, women are like shoes, you just don't buy them without trying it on first. If it …	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 12:23 PM
2	"So tell me about yourself?" If you talk about your career path path and hobbies it's just information on whether or not you've got money in the works. That just frames you as beta bucks.	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 12:10 PM
5	Work out regimen I am also relatively noob at the liftings, and I found stronglifts 5x5 to be very up my alley. The link has everything you need.	/r/askTRP	30/07/14 12:02 PM
2	Vitiligo, how can i stop it from affecting my life? I doubt all these people telling you it's not a big deal, and that you're a beautiful special snowflake, are helping you in any way. Vitiligo can be a bitch. I have it and it has also been a cause of great worry for me at different points in my life. You can't change it so acceptance is the only option. Now, accepting it can be tough. You find it unattractive and assume others do too. That's solipsism, woman think. Be rational. It's no different to being a pale, freckled ginger cunt. People say …	/r/askTRP	29/07/14 10:03 PM
2	Help with Confidence/Overthinking I'll try to be on point. Is this a problem you experience in other areas of your life? Do you procrastinate and ruminate a lot on things you are supposed to be doing but don't until you get to a deadline crunch? If it's women only, then you know it's not a big deal and you just need to practice more will you get a good handle on everything and can just fly on autopilot. (Think of this like driving or walking. It needs to be automatic, if you actively try to do it consciously and deliberately it'…	/r/askTRP	29/07/14 09:20 PM
6	Almost had sex now shes ignoring me? Aside for the frame loss others have mentioned, I think it's important to remember to not spend the night if you didn't have sex. It sets a bad precedent and is a frame killer. That's something an orbiter or friend does.	/r/askTRP	29/07/14 09:04 PM
-1	I have trouble feeling like the prize, because I never have been. Your whole premise that "it's TRP philosophy to have women chase YOU" is just plain wrong. Think about Indiana Jones, or any other similar movie. Indie don't give a fuck about women, he's after the history. As he travels he meets women, but they are only ever useful to him a means of locating artifacts and shit. He don't let women chase after him, in fact he often specifically tells them not to, cause they are nothing to him, he's all about the history, his mission. The women don't just chase af…	/r/askTRP	29/07/14 08:55 PM
3	Some thoughts on questions raised by the spreadsheet Correct. But this is a different, even if related phenomenon. The people she fucks are very physically fit men, with great genes, so it is worth the risk. Alpha Fucks are rooted in biology and evolutionary psychology, much like Beta Bucks.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/14 08:01 PM
0	Some thoughts on questions raised by the spreadsheet You sorely missed the point. Women's bodies don't know there is birth control, or hospitals, or abortions. Her body only knows what natural selection told it: that sex can and will result in pregnancy, and that pregnancy leads leads to birth which has high odds of her dying. Modern society means nothing to our bodies, they are designed and built for the same life people were living 10.000 years ago.	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/14 06:52 PM
3	Do you ever get over your first? You know the old saying about how a bell can't be un-rung? Sadly the brain is a lot like that. You can't just make the neural pathways disappear. To change the schema you can either: "Think" about it and explore it and see why it's wrong and how the feelings are illusory, and how it was all in your head. This is long and slow, and can even backfire since activating the schema is also enforcing it. "Do" by simply hanging out around her and being your new self. This should be faster and lead to mo…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 10:32 PM
5	How the red pill saved my life. You've made great strides, but I can't help reading the last paragraph without thinking "former fat kid syndrome".	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 10:00 PM
10	Do you ever get over your first? You will get a lot of "oneitis" answers on this, but there's also a very important neurological component to this situation you should NOT ignore. Humans learn by solidifying neural patterns. This is not a very quick process and takes some time and effort. Because our brains consume so much energy, they are strongly predisposed to being lazy and maintaining as much of these patterns as possible. All the time you were with her, your brain was slowly encoding your experiences into a pattern associ…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 09:49 PM
1	American Women are Whores Fuck what "MEN" are doing, what are you doing? You going to let your bloodline die up because the other men around you aren't doing enough to make things easier? The men in this valley are being stupid and letting their women control and tell them to over-hunt the deer, and the rabbits, and the boars. The women gorge and gorge and many get fat and always want more of the food, even to the point of taking it away from the men. You are an experienced and wise hunter, you know that this means come …	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 09:30 PM
2	My biggest revelation... on morality Most of the new people here grew up and matured in a bad house. Instead of looking out the window, and contemplating the world around them, they looked and sought out a house that looked better, and found this one to move into. It's right across the street, and looks to be every bit the opposite of the old one. The old house is cold and uncomfortable and lonely, and they are miserable there. The new one looks nice and inviting, and it sounds like there's a party going on; so they open the door, …	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 09:17 PM
2	My biggest revelation... on morality Honestly the problem isn't so much one of acceptance, but of mere consideration. Any rational human if they actually stop and think about it, will realize that "truth" is handwaving. And that they can do just about anything, as long as they accept the consequences. I'd argue that people simply "buying it" is the problem... see, they bought some other ideations first, and are all out of rational cash.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 08:53 PM
2	My biggest revelation... on morality So many letters to simply say: Nothing is true. Everything is permitted.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 08:40 PM
5	American Women are Whores The problem isn't people wanting food, it's the fact that there is no social repercussion to being overweight, quite the opposite. Fat acceptance is super loud. Slut acceptance is super loud. Where is the counter voice? Oh, that's right... it's all just one big Spiral of Silence	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 07:42 PM
6	American Women are Whores I comprehend your stance perfectly, even if I am not understanding towards it. To me it just reeks of abject failure. Every ancestor you've ever had, from primitive man, hominids, ancient apes, whatever small mammal they evolved from, and all the way back to fist and even single cell organisms; have fought and suffered tooth and nail to survive and have children. Thousands of species across millions of years, all coming to an abrupt stop because your women got dumb shit ideas into their heads. S…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 07:32 PM
0	American Women are Whores No worries friend, I am Romanian, and I would not even set foot in the US, or touch their "natural flavored" women with a ten foot pole... Too much "freedom" for my tastes.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 07:22 PM
-4	American Women are Whores The truth of this post is incontestable. That having been said the whole holier than though tone is really misguided. You are as morally bankrupt as a McDonalds CEO condoning the lack of willpower of the fatties while making bank on their poor choices. Yes, american women are in a sad, sorry state of decay, but it is mostly the RP men and their cocks that keep the wheel spinning. You can't absolve yourself of all responsibility. And they themselves are not entirely to blame; like the poor fuckin…	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/14 06:28 PM
3	I think I've fucked up....correction....I've fucked up What situation are you asking about? I made the monumental mistake of losing frame and asking if she wasn't into me anymore Just don't ask that question or any variation on it. As for the rest of it. It sounds like doing nothing will simply sort everything out, since there is no animosity there, just a loss of interest... Not every relationship HAS to work out.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/14 10:05 PM
1	Does anyone know a woman who is NOT insane? Quite a lot actually, but then I come from a country and generation that actually had a taste of the real world. Newer generations... not so much. Sadly the blight of modern american culture is spreading.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/14 07:46 PM
1	Dancing Think about what is happening socially. The guy asking is providing her with some significant validation. If she were an unattractive woman she would not get approached. Furthermore, the guy is making a pretty big step asking her with you right there. He is essentially stating, "I think I might be better than you". So you smile and enthusiastically tell her she should go for it. This signals that you KNOW he isn't better and he is no threat. Personally at this point I would have fun with it and …	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/14 07:37 PM
8	Dancing Just take a dance class. There is no point in making a huge post to discuss the issue of how to lean to dance. It's not some mysterious or protean skill. You repeat the steps again and again until you can just do it without thinking. Just take a dance class.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/14 03:13 PM
1	Please stop advocating violence, its deeply destructive. Please watch the linked video. You did not define any words... How exactly do you use language? Totally serious, non troll question. Are you truthfully unable to make a distinction between: hitting, beating, punching, slapping and spanking? Truthfully? If you meet a woman and you spank her ass while you fuck her from behind, is that "hitting" her? Is that "beating" her? Is that "punching" her? Or is it just plain old fucking spanking? Nobody is advocating abusing children. But pretending like a few slaps on the ass when child…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/14 10:57 PM
-1	Please stop advocating violence, its deeply destructive. Please watch the linked video. Fine? Sure, if as an adult you steal or sock or some-such. But for anything significant you go to Jail. Personally, I would take the beating over having to spend time in jail, but that's me being realistic. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caning_in_Singapore](I am very much so saying it is OK to beat up adults for stealing, and the are places where this is done.) Pay back what you steal? So say I steal $10K from some old lady, spend it on hookers and coke. I am unemployed and have no assets. How a…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/14 10:40 PM
-1	Please stop advocating violence, its deeply destructive. Please watch the linked video. Stop defining words to suit you. Violence CAN be a tool. When government agents torture people to get information out of them, it is EXACTLY a tool. When dogs bar their teeth at each other to threaten, it is a tool. And a tool is just that, a tool. If used right, appropriately, it can be a wondrous thing. When you wield it like a retard it just causes needless damage. When some moron takes a sledgehammer to drive a nail into drywall nobody blames the sledgehammer. The idea that violence is someh…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/14 10:01 PM
-1	Please stop advocating violence, its deeply destructive. Please watch the linked video. What people like you fail to realize is that bad behavior is a very broad spectrum. No reasonable and sane person would use physical violence on a child for minor misbehavior, but many would for severe misconduct. My father "beat the shit out of me" one time... why? Because I had stolen. Mind you, what at the time I considered to be "beating the shit out of me" was simply a spanking with a belt on the ass. Sure, it was scary and I was helpless to resist it, but you know what? I knew at the time …	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/14 09:53 PM
6	I need help with my 11 year old brother, i cant control him, /r/RedPillParenting is almost deserted. Somebody else touched on this, but it bears repeating. More important than getting the kid in your frame is getting your mom in your frame. If he sees her taking cues from you he will learn that it's pointless to go to her. Key to this is to minimize the amount of aggravation a little whiny shit can cause her. As for him, honestly my approach would be to take him out of the comfort zone of the house. At home in his room he can be as much of a little shit as he wants, out on the street or in a pa…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/14 02:13 PM
1	physical differences between male and female brains. Your post is a mish-mash of several different things. YES. The male and female brains are wired differently. There are many many differences in terms of where functions are located, how specialized the brain is for certain functions, and how the different areas communicate with each other. These anatomical differences do not translate into "gender" directly, they simply impact how the individual processes information. The resulting behaviors and thoughts can and will be integrated into the indiv…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/14 10:04 PM
2	My lack of sexual experience doesn't really make me feel like a man. I would be a lot happier if I just didn't let it bother me so much. What can I do? Sounds like you haven't interacted enough with women for them to just be "people". It's a bad analogy but bear with me... I come from a country where there are hardly any black people around. I don't think I saw one on a local TV station until I was like 14, and on the street it only happens once every few months. While there is no social, political or cultural prejudice towards them; every initial interaction with a black person feels strange to me. There is a quality of "different" to it, it j…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/14 08:29 PM
1	keto vs atkins - someone explain how keto doesn't involve eating eggs 3 times a day Down vote all you like, but there is no "magic number" with Keto. Every individual is different, I could easily stay in Keto at around 50-75 grams a day. Wife had a much narrower and lower window, at around 20-30. Sure, you can pee on the stix to get feedback, but the first week or two, simply cutting the carbs is good enough. Going from full carb to next to no carbs can be very hard, and can easily make some people give up on it. I stand by what I said: Don't obsess over some arbitrary daily va…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/14 06:50 PM
1	keto vs atkins - someone explain how keto doesn't involve eating eggs 3 times a day You can do Keto without eating eggs. Don't obsess over some arbitrary daily value of carbs, just try going a low as possible in the beginning. What I did was start by simply looking at everything I bought and discarding anything over a certain amount of net carbs (anything over 10g/100g I just didn't buy). After a few weeks of doing this, I got a pretty good idea of how much carbs was in stuff and it was far easier for me to start working towards fixed values. Again, don't go drastic. Start with…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/14 12:08 PM