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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction24/06/22 10:12 AM
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Fundamentals amuster588/r/seduction30/07/22 10:41 AM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction07/07/22 09:24 AM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction05/07/22 12:36 PM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction22/07/22 01:02 PM
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Conversationamuster588/r/seduction15/07/22 10:37 AM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction06/07/22 11:03 AM
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Conversationamuster588/r/seduction02/07/22 08:36 PM
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Lifestyleamuster588/r/seduction05/07/22 12:11 AM
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amuster588/r/seduction10/05/22 07:37 PM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) amuster588/r/seduction06/07/22 09:32 AM
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amuster588/r/seduction29/10/18 12:31 AM
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What is your Ethnicity. What is your height?
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:09 PM
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Hello!
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:43 AM
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Let me answer your questions and your last comment in the edit. I changed the dynamic - previously I only wanted FWB with exclusivity - but we naturally progressed. We made it clear we had feelings for each other and that we were not 'friends'. We have most recently defined our relationship as BF/GF. I am 5'8 - actually she is a fashion model but not that tall - she is 5'6. About my status/career/looks: I am a business man - I manage my own business. I have family wealth. I am a good looking guy…
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:42 AM
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I mean is it an acceptable boundary to say she shouldnt go out with her friend on a girls night out? I think that would be seen as controlling. On the other hand I could put other boundaries up - but I'm having trouble determining what those boundaries would be? What would be some boundaries you would consider putting in place?
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:45 PM
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please do tell about your experience (s)
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:42 PM
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Yeah sound advise. But cheating is ofc the ultimate things. What constitutes behaviours that you would not find acceptable and would want to take up with the girl?
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:19 AM
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I guess that is a concern - I trust her but at the same time wonder why she would even want to go on these girl nights out if I'm not there.... But as I answers to another comment - its her friend who mostly want it to be just them two.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:13 AM
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Interesting question - I mean I am dating her and she has plenty of options other than me. She gets a looot of attention coming her way through DM or whenever and wherever she goes. So she has picked me for a reason. I'd assume that if I did turn up 'by mistake' with other friends she'd be happy to see me. Though ofcourse she'd be - understandably - thinking its weird I just showed up where she was at - appears that I was tracking her/following her.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:11 AM
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her girl friend does not have a boyfriend. Essentially her friend is single and she comes to town to visit - her friend lives in a nearby city. When her friend comes she basically wants it to only be the two of them without me. In the previous time they both went out together, the girl I'm dating has said If I bought another guy then I could go with them too. Her friend doesn't like to be a third-wheel. In some way she is accommodating her friend. But at the same time she herself is having fun a…
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:06 AM
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Actually I slid into her DMs lol and she replied... I managed to persist to get a date... after that we've been meeting regularly...
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:33 PM
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hmm it seems I definitely initiate all our sexual encounters - but she is very compliant and enthusiastic. Like I'll give a signal to initiate and then she proceeds... She doesn't initiate without any signal from me first - but I don't have too convince her or ask her - I just make the first move....
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:30 PM
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Starting sex? I mean say we’re making out , I ofc take the charge to initiate sex. What would it mean for her to initiate sex?
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah well I've just never dated a girl this fucking hot before - Like I've dated hot ones - but this one just gets so much goddamn attention that its a little bit nerve racking... and yeah - I'm weird. Aren't we all?
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:17 PM
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Yeah she just messaged me.. haha
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:25 PM
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Let's see how it goes, I'll keep you posted.
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:47 PM
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for the first like 1 month and a half out of the 2 months she never texted first ever.. Now she does text first once in a while. Its not always me just texting first. I've done a 48 hour no texting her before and get extract texts from her so I guess that does work. But since our dynamic has evolved that doesnt seem as necessary anymore. I will dial it back though. Definitely need to get the exclusivity of our relationship clarified.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:54 AM
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That is a good idea. to reopen the conversation on what she should introduce me as. he response to that will be quite telling. I will also make it apparent like come on we are pretty much acting and texting like a full on couple - we should face the music and put a label on it. Let's see. We will be having our first 'overnight' this weekend. Up until now I tend to leave her place post sex in the early morning hours since I always leave to my place to then go to work / I also live with my family.…
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:50 AM
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Let's see I think what I could do is just not message her until she reaches back out again. I mean we already have a set plan for this weekend so all I need to do in the meanwhile is let her start to miss me again. I've made errors recently but I think once she doesn't hear from me, she should begin to start feeling emotions and triggering her own thinking. If she does message me, then I will likely wait maybe an hour or so to reply. I don't want to freeze her out for 24-48 hrs because we have a…
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:46 AM
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It is difficult to say if she has noticed tbh. But like I said I displayed 2 signs of insecurity and neediness 1 ) the texting every day and 2) the incident that occurred where it made my doubt whether she or not she was being exclusive with me. In that moment I found it hard to hide my emotions and she definitely noticed.
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:31 AM
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not really no. Maybe it is because I have only been in 1 relationship prior to this new development. I lack experience with girls when it goes passed like the 1 week range.
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:28 AM
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Youre right.. I guess part of me is afraid to ask her for the official relationship. I didnt want to admit it but thats really what I've been feeling. From the beginning and until now I have been the one maintaining that we continue with FWB with exclusivity. 2 weeks ago she asked me what she should introduce me as to her friends - and in that moment again I said just "the guy I am currently seeing". That same day we professed emotions toward each other and said we 'like each other'. But we neve…
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:14 AM
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yeah you are right. right now we are in a very complicated arrangement. FWB + exclusivity + feelings. Seems almost ridiculous that we arent BF/GF. recently though we were texting and she indirectly hinted she likes the current dynamic saying "we just have to stay as now" "we are both enjoying ourselves". it also seemed like she was also afraid of making it 'official' since we then no longer are in this fun stage of the relationship - then we really get into the dirt/issues/ - having to face the …
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:54 PM
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That does suck man. How long were you guys together in that dynamic before she left? I guess this is how we learn and grow about ourselves. In our case actually.. (I already know it was not the ideal thing to do from myside) I was the one who said we should be exclusive very early on when we met... and she agreed to it. I told her it just makes things better for both of us regard to multiple regards such as STDs, security, jealousy etc... It made sense to her as well. What do you make of the thi…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:29 PM
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So in the end what was your primary reason for not making it official? You mentioned you were 'immature and stubborn' - but was there anything about her that made you feel you didn't want to commit. For example did you think she could potentially cheat on you? or did she display signs of 'non GF material'. I am asking because for me I haven't made it official partly because I am not convinced she is GF material. she is just a regular model, has had a rich sexual history and likes to go partying …
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:06 PM
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Yeah you're definitely right... though I'd still expect her to respect the exclusivity agreement... like she could just as well inform me it doesn't suit her if we don't establish an official relationship. she hasn't said anything - in fact she mentioned before that she liked the exclusive part - she did however also mention I was selfish and greedy. I told her well thats how its gonna be.. take it or leave it... she took it. when you say she left you very abruptly, did she not give you the chan…
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:51 AM
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Yes - breaks rule 1.... thanks.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:12 AM
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thanks for your message - please advise which rule was not complied with. I posted this since the previous one was removed. How can I post this similar thing in a way that is compliant?
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:09 AM
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whoa I dont think that is true at all, you don;t need to be "filthy rich" - at the end of the day when you think of what a model would want it would be a someone who can support her once she hangs up her modelling shoes. So yes 'able to support' - filthy rich is a totally different story. It is true because of the modelling lifestyle they get used to certain things, dinners, parties, cars, etc... but they are still regular people at the end of the day that want real relationships too if they can…
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:56 AM
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how did it end between you guys?
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:03 PM
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how did it go?
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:01 PM
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I admit some feelings have been caught.... still trying to avoid a relationship. If I was actually in a relationship with her it would be also difficult to deal with her lifestyle - its high maintenance etc... That said this is not my primary reason or not wanting a relationship. You are right its an issue the partying regularly with attractive men - theres no doubt about it. But it is part of her role as a model too to do these things and also enjoy while she is out too. It doesn't necessarily …
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:55 PM
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sometimes I respond without any thinking involved....
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:49 PM
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I know. The time will come when another dude - potential suitor- will come into the pic. I’ll have to make a decision- commit or vacate. I’ll probably vacate given my own personal interests but it will suck I know.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:52 AM
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Thats true - you were right in so many ways. She tells me all the time - she doesnt want to date other models - and never has done so in her life. I did respond saying “who knows that may change in the future”. It is demanding and it is true she has to attend these events, has to socialize a lot and go for the parties to an extent. Ofc she herself likes to party and it’s better than staying home doing nothing right. Youre 100% right. She is going to be doing these things and for sure I cant be j…
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:49 AM
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Thats true. Definitely surrounded by rich guys and handsome models constantly DMing her , flirting with her at parties, etc.. Clout is important but its not everything- personality is a massive kicker if you do have your physical and financial fitness in order. It is true and fully get - We arent in a full relationship- so its only natural for her to also accept whatever else comes her way - not necessarily go through with hooking up - but definitely entertaining options - as she doesnt have the…
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:42 AM
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She never texts when she is out with friends
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:24 AM
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I admit I may have some feelings for her… its true. Its hard to be totally detached from her. We get on really well together actually like a good fit - physically, sexually, and personality wise. But I dont want her as my girlfriend either - and its not because I am scared of rejection from her - Its a little bit complicated in this way. I have my own reasons for this. I like her, but I too dont want her as my girlfriend, and for her - this agreement works pretty well since her job also makes he…
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:23 AM
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Thats true the time will surely come. What I will tell her is straight up - if you are going to do it Just let me know beforehand.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:05 PM
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Well when we meet one of the primary activities we do together is drink and party - just us two. I enjoy it as well. When I'm not with her I don't party at all as I have work to focus on and other stuff, gyming etc.. which I do consistently. I am pretty fit. True I guess she should have asked for exclusivity, but that ship has sailed. Now doing boring shit... What we do is basically have dinner, go drink together, then go back to her place and fuck fuck fuck all night. Then I leave to go back to…
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:50 PM
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Well.... I fucking hope she is adhering to it. We have clear reasons why we chose the exclusivity - one of the primary points being STD control and shit like that. I am sure that she likes that I adhere to the agreement, and Its fine with me that she can think that. I don't see how it reduces my value. It is true... we might as well be dating.. but I don't want that. If she ever asks for more than the current agreement then I will have to cut her lose.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:43 PM
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Yeah It is definitely quite nice when its just us two. But for sure when she is away up to her usual antics partying and doing model shit, I definitely feel a burn.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:39 PM
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please elaborate
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:37 PM
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no homo
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:40 AM
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Kind of? she has to go the events but not all the parties and stuff after. She likes to party a lot and does that for fun - not for job purposes. Ofc there is a networking element to it as she is with other people in the industry.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:22 AM
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true. probably very hard for her to resist with all these super sexy men all over her lol ^^ I'll maintain my frame, not ask her questions about her nights out, and just focus on the moment.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:17 AM
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solid response. Appreciate it. It is hard to keep the rock mentality and not project my inner insecurities and jelousy to her but I have been doing well so far. Makes a lot of sense. she went out last night to a club after her fashion show - usually she posts it on her IG, but this time she didn't, may be that she didn't want me to know. I found out cuz someone at the club I also followed happened to post a story where she was in it lol... I was a little bit disappointed seeing that last night f…
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:16 AM
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I guess in some ways if she wants to hook up with a dude there then there isn't really much I can do about it... Maybe one of you has been in a similar situation in the past where youre dating someone like this but managed to come out on top against all odds. Thoughts?
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:37 AM
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Totally get you and all you say is true. But surely there must be a way to make the seduction level high enough such that she doesnt hook up at the clubs/afterparties/after after parties ;). Like I don't text her that much either, like we go days without any conversations. So from her perspective there is no way she sees me as a pleb.
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:29 AM
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Definitely agreed for the most part. These models are constantly going clubbing and always tend to go on mens tables and things of the sort. They can obviously get any guy she want so of course why not aim for the most alpha men out there. Its a tough pill to swallow but I guess that just how it is. I'm still hesitant to text her first, part of my goal is to try and not text to eventually get her to text first - of course also to make her realize that I'm not too easy myself. Now if she just doe…
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:09 PM
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why would you say the whore part?
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:52 PM
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yeah I guess it doesn't matter if she did fuck someone that night, but of course I'd prefer if she wanted me instead (even if we have no relationship established). It's not necessary that because we have no relationship each of us wants to go and fuck other people right.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:52 PM
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haha no - not into that - yeah we went clubbing the second time round - we both like to party. She wasn't like chatting up guys back, I just pulled her back since I'm not the biggest fan of having guys constantly approach her when I'm right there lol. She stayed by my side that night and like I said I did score. Now if she fucked someone when I didn't go clubbing with her is certainly a question. I guess I'll never know. She hasn't now messaged since - how many days of her not messaging me (with…
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:49 PM
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Don't Jerk of for a couple of days before a date if you're feeling like a clingy little bitch, that should make you act like a man. It's the miracle cure you've been looking for.
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:55 AM
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What about some mild kino/ flirting, that wouldn't make it necessarily obvious that I am attracted to her, but could potentially make her attracted to me. Thats what I am looking to achieve, anything more than that I know will definitely ruin the friendship. Is there a way I can test or use kino/flirting to gauge her attraction to me?
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:09 AM
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perhaps her agreeing to go out with me for dinner is a sign in itself? lets see how that goes she has yet to reply to me. I think I'll definitely pre-game the dinner or whatever we do so I'm a lot less inhibited lol. Defo need her to drink as well though. We'll most likely meet on a week day though so she may not want to drink, thats the only thing. It all has to be very subtle for this to work, I actually have accomplished this with another girl (but that girl is not as attractive and less of a…
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:53 AM
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Good stuff! But the twirl and stuff would be too much for what I'm trying to achieve which is just to make her sexually attracted to me implicitly but at the same time not making her think like 'wtf is going on rn'. The good hug and touching arm etc.. should be fine. Maybe you could give me a clue as it what to look for to know whether or not she is lowkey sexually attracted me? before she has told me she likes it when I'm drunk (cuz I'm a lot more touchy and have once before kissed her cheek - …
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:36 AM
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lol fine stupid question on my part. So overall it seems part of your recc is to deep dive her, that would be the best way for to start seeing me in a more sexual way? I don't want to just connect deeper cuz it might just echo how great friends we are lol. I'll keep the deeper compliments in mind, cheers. ​ So how about Kino / and other nonverbal methods? how would I touch/where and any other one?
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:15 AM
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Noted. what about complimenting her? making strong eye contact (90% on, 10% of when speaking, 70% 30% when she speaks). ​ I'm sorry man, could you be little more specific than a deep and emotional conversation with small spikes of sexual energy? I have no clue what you mean by that. an example could help
/r/seduction29/10/18 01:50 AM
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I edited my post, could you review the specific questions I have, cheers.
/r/seduction29/10/18 01:39 AM
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Thanks. So for example with her, as an NLP story I could tell is "I've been feeling very adventurous recently, I feel like trying new things out, figuring stuff out" or "I've not been having sex with my girlfriend recently, so I've been feeling a little adventurous or something.." - I would say that to make her think my relationship is iffy so she is more likely to flirt cuz as of now she is very aware I have a serious girlfriend. Could I ask her about her sexual experiences since breaking up wi…
/r/seduction29/10/18 01:25 AM
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Say I did it (flirt) well, would that still ruin our friendship/be abrasive? Could you elaborate on NLP and kino and why that would be effective in this specific case. (been out of the game for a while, any explanations will go a long way). ​ *and yes I am aware this is not smart, which is why if I do it, it needs to masterfully done to the point where she just enjoys this thing where we flirt with each other but don't ever act on it nor ever acknowledge it either.
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:57 AM
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