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amyers/r/seduction10/08/12 08:02 PM
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amyers/r/seduction20/06/14 06:43 PM
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amyers/r/seduction21/06/14 10:51 PM
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something I have been telling my friends for years... can you believe some people are actually happy about being friend zoned? "we decided we work better as friends yay!" ya right
/r/seduction22/06/14 01:04 AM
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Great suggestions. I'm hairy as an ape right now and need to fix it ASAP
/r/seduction20/06/14 06:52 PM
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Hey guys, I wrote and submitted this post yesterday but it was marked as spam :/. I think it really adds to this conversation so I will paste it here. http://www.approachblueprint.com/how-to-be-better-looking-proof-women-care-about-looks/
/r/seduction20/06/14 06:41 PM
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being older than them and having things they don't have/cant afford - like a house.
/r/seduction19/06/14 06:11 PM
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Don't hate on the "bros" they might look douchey, but they've found their niche and it's working for them. Follow suit in that environment just like /u/yokhai said.
/r/seduction19/06/14 05:20 PM
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absolutely right
/r/seduction19/06/14 05:19 PM
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don't sweat it man, it's just projection of their own insecurities.
/r/seduction19/06/14 05:19 PM
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Nope, not me. I noticed a post about it the other day, a few days later a friend text me said he's been reading models and really likes it, then someone posted this "cheat sheet".
/r/seduction01/08/13 02:48 PM
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been hearing a lot about this book lately... thank you
/r/seduction31/07/13 09:47 PM
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You kind of look like me if I were skinny and pale... we have similar hair, skin tone, etc... me: http://i.imgur.com/IRzvXFU.jpg Hit the gym man, sure some of the best PUAs aren't jacked, but getting jacked helped me a lot more than it hurt me... gives you a lot of confidence/inner game to... the more you like yourself, the easier it is to believe that someone else might like you/enjoy meeting you too. Get a tan... don't need to go 7 days a week, twice a week, every 3 days or so get a simple tan…
/r/seduction09/07/13 09:29 PM
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It will be diff depeding on your current starting point. If youre socially awkward you need to socially calibrate yourself with men and women, before even trying "game". Otherwise youre going to creep ppl out. I was always socially calibrated, quick witted, i guess cocky-funny but didnt know that was a thing. Thing is, i couldnt only let that side of me out around close friends and family. I thought the popular kids and hot girls were better than me, they wouldnt laugh at my jokes, etc. After i …
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:15 AM
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He has 143 videos between his two YouTube accounts (rsdtyler, and rsdfreetour), and he consistently uploads new videos to both. You'll find more information in a handful of those videos than an AMA. I've watched/listened to them all. He tells you everything you asked about - how he feels about his critiques, details about his relationship and family, most people's strengths and weeaknesses, etc.
/r/seduction25/01/13 04:35 PM
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More confident, especially with women. I ran into a self-proclaimed pua that was trying to conduct a bootcamp/give a sales pitch to a group of guys on the smoking patio at a local bar. I didn't butt in until he claimed 100% success rate of going home with a girl. I called him out in front of everyone, told him that was impossible, challenged him, 2 numbers, instant make out,, left the bar with a girl I just met (didn't go home with her we just ran to the store, but he thought we did) every girl …
/r/seduction19/01/13 04:24 PM
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Maybe just a good sense of humor and a genuinely fun loving, free spirit of a person, and a false perception that everybody else is the same way. if he was truly false-confident, his reaction to these comments and comments from his friends would be defensive, he's pretty nicely asking for advice, because he wants to make himself better and in my opinion only a confident person is capable of doing that. I don't think you're false confident op, I think you're just learning, still getting comfortab…
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:13 PM
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I honestly got as good as I wanted to be at game/pickup, now my primary reason for staying subd to this is the occasional nugget I find, questions I can answer, and keeping my sword sharp - i'm in a serious relationship now, and my goal now is to perfect my relationship skills. We've started reading some relationship books together and so far its great
/r/seduction08/01/13 01:17 AM
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Overpopulated with people that want theory and inner game stuff. When you give them simple "do this, get that" techniques most will never put it into action, instead they'll argue how it doesn't agree with some theory they've read... Or they're extremely socially awkward and this won't work for them anyway. The better you get the less useful this sub will become to you. Still, you'll find a lot of golden nuggets.
/r/seduction08/01/13 12:25 AM
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Cool. What are some other items on your reading list? I have a lot of books in my "Save For Later" Amazon shopping cart, as well as a bunch of books on my bookshelf. I've got a lot of business, entrepreneurial, management, motivation, and also some psychology books in there. I am just interested in psychology, I loved the class. I would have taken it even if I didn't receive a college credit. I'm also getting more and more serious about my relationship, so a "Relationship Expert" recommended tha…
/r/seduction03/01/13 07:47 PM
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I downloaded the entire blog archive, and I don't think I'd recommend a newb to read it. The author seems to have a very jaded view of women. He seems to have made up his mind that marriage is not for him, and that's fine, but it might persuade new guys to have the same opinion.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:36 PM
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There's no written in stone rules, I just try to avoid doing things that the women would stereotypically do. I think its more common that the girl texts with a smiley face saying she had a good evening. I've been tempted to text my girlfriend saying things like that, in fact it happens very frequently that I feel like saying ”miss u already babe, so happy I got to see you tonight”, but then the devil and Angel on my shoulder both slap me in the head, call me a pussy, and remind me that i've bare…
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:46 PM
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Decide what you want when you're ”emotionally sober”. Making decisions when you're emotional is a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction03/01/13 07:14 AM
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You fucked up on the 5th text. Gave her all the power right there as soon as you acknowledged that you have put any thought into her talking to her ex... I read a post today that said jealousy is the universe's way of telling you that you've placed someone into a category they don't deserve to be in, you're placing too much value on them. If I were you I'd take that to heart. You took her out, liked her enough to tell her you had a ”good evening” indirectly asked her to not talk with her ex, and…
/r/seduction03/01/13 07:04 AM
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I don't think that's the answer. Just because he's not around the good-looking dude doesn't mean the pretty girls at the party are going to notice the handsome guy any less.
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:08 PM
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Make up for it with your personality. I mainly go out with 3 guys. Two of them are much better looking than me and the other guy. We're not ugly by any means, but these two guys are just ridiculously handsome. They're prettier than the girls they date. No joke. One of them looks like Nick Lachey, the other looks like some sort of gerard butler, arnold schwarzengger, handsome experiment gone horribly right. Myself and the other guy joke that we look like the off-brand, broken version of Mark Wahl…
/r/seduction29/12/12 04:06 PM
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I'm not disagreeing, I'm just bouncing ideas and thoughts about the subject. I don't think my friend being a wine and dine type guy is wrong either. I think what's wrong is that he makes them fall in love and hurts them without care. I guess the girls should be a little more protective of their hearts, but he does things like telling them he loves them after 2 weeks, give them his grandfathers ring to wear around their neck, tells them they are the only one, gets a phone call and goes to hangout…
/r/seduction28/12/12 08:18 PM
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Hey loct99, I think what you're trying to ask and what people think you're asking are two different things. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you're asking why being a sweet-talker is a perceived as a bad thing, and not taught in pick-up, and I think people are taking it as you're asking why it's not okay to be deceitful. I'll take a crack at it. I'm a sweet talker, a charmer. I'm very quick witted, my Mom says I get it from my dad, and I'd agree. All of my friends are always laughing and telling oth…
/r/seduction28/12/12 08:01 PM
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Who cares what she looked like. The average guy cannot approach a girl no matter what she looks like. The average guy meets women only through his social circle. Cold approaching a women you've never met is rare. I'd say 8 or 9 out of 10 guys cannot do it consistently. Sounds like you can though, so good :) Personally, Tyler/Julien/Alex are the only instructors I would trust at all. Thats my preference though. I don't get bothered if I see them approaching a 6 or 7 in one video because I know NO…
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:08 PM
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Most people who are actually good at this would never recommend them for anything other than entertainment. I think the only thing they'll do for you is introduce you to the pua scene and help you overcome fear of approach. Nothing else
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:06 AM
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I'd recommend the opposite. Staying away from them completely would be my preference.
/r/seduction06/11/12 03:16 PM
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Awesome. Approaching and opening 4 girls is a good goal. Sleeping with 4 girls isn't, you can't control the outcome, you can only control the process. There's a good video by Tyler of RSD called "The Art Of Beating Yourself Up". Check it out.
/r/seduction06/11/12 03:15 PM
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I don't like your goals. You're being outcome dependent.
/r/seduction06/11/12 04:09 AM
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My current girlfriend is taking 7 university level nursing classes, working a full time job, attending internships, and trying to be a normal 23 year old girl. She still asks to see me at least 3 times a week. Busy means not interested
/r/seduction01/11/12 05:54 PM
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I once read an article on Reddit about only 2% of the population having green eyes. I met some girl with green eyes and used it as an opener, the conversation went well, but 15 minutes later my friend walks up and says the same thing. Lol, that was awkward.
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:40 PM
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No, just because Jamie Eason is hot and spokes women for bodybuilding doesn't make her #1 lol. Nicole Wilkins.
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:10 PM
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Sorry, I mean figure category. http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ifbb-pro-figure-rankings.htm
/r/seduction10/10/12 08:10 PM
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My good friend married the #1 womens physique fitness competitor in the world. Also, being so involved in bodybuilding and getting to know allot of fitness models I've learned that alot of the pretty girls are way more insecure and fuckd in the head than you'd think. Take away lesson... its easier to get with a model than u think, its not going to be the experience u thought
/r/seduction09/10/12 10:19 PM
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Owen and Julien are the only dating coaches I trust. Your experience with them was based on their paid products, right? In my opinion, their paid products suck. I like their freetour videos way better. I haven't found another company/instructor that I relate to the way I do those guys. The infield footage is realistic, the things they say and do are achievable. Love systems has some great products, but they seem so robotic and machine like. Its hard to relate to their instructors and believe the…
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:09 AM
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One thing I dislike, every time I read your blog is the tagline ” I'm a dating coach, not an internet marketer”. The fact is, anybody who markets products on the internet is an internet marketer. You collect leads, you follow up, you sell. There's nothing wrong with it, but its annoying that you deny it... Like if you say its not true we have some sort of big ah-ha moment like ”Wow, this guy is different!” I think its a much better approach to be transparent and let it be known that you do sell …
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:06 AM
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Stupid rule, continue doing what you want. Mystery came up with it and someone has a video of him doing it as well.
/r/seduction31/08/12 10:46 PM
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So you found a keeper too early in life? That's ok. I prefer quality over quantity, but if you feel like you're too young to settle - nothing wrong with that! how to deal with the break up: Realize that relationships are more like vacations than business investments. what I mean by that is some business investments don't work out, the parties involved in a business deal that went sout usually walk away angry/upset when all is said and done. Relationships are more like vacations. When they come t…
/r/seduction22/08/12 05:15 AM
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Would definitely recommend invisalign. I'm looking into this as well
/r/seduction14/08/12 10:03 PM
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Yes, it's me. Still new to being in front of a camera, getting used to it. I appreciate all of the feedback and will implement ASAP! :) Thanks again! Glad you liked the content, though.
/r/seduction11/08/12 04:38 AM
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Its not an article, its a video.
/r/seduction11/08/12 02:39 AM
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I notice a lot of seddit users main problem is approach anxiety. I've transformed from a fat, anti-social, "professional PC gamer" that would spend his weekends at LAN parties. Into a fit, extremely social person that has had the good fortune to date (and currently be dating) really beautiful girls that I otherwise would have never been able to approach.. let alone date. Hope this helps some of the newbies. I even mention the Pete Rose story one of you posted... really enjoyed that.
/r/seduction10/08/12 08:04 PM
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Oh and Windsor.
/r/seduction28/07/12 08:17 PM
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Pics for proof, we need to see if you have a hot gf :)
/r/seduction23/07/12 11:14 PM
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Were responsible for getting and staying in the friend zone. You can refuse to be friend zoned... If you're clear about your intentions from the beginning and she just doesn't like you after all is said and done, but She LJBF you, you can say no... The problem is, most guys know nothing about women and say ”Ok, cool! That's rad, id rather keep you as a friend than lose our friendship for good!.xoxo hugs!” bull shit, there never was a friendship in the majority of cases. From the beginning his in…
/r/seduction26/06/12 02:43 AM
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Staying out of the friend zone is the best cure for staying out of the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/06/12 11:46 PM
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You'd both get more girls if you knocked this shit off. If he puts you down he's not your best friend, end of story.
/r/seduction26/05/12 08:10 PM
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Very few people are actually ugly. Fix what you can fix. Dress better, get a decent haircut, and workout. That alone could at least get most people who aren't happy with their look into the average looking category. The rest you just have to deal with. I've always been really self-conscious about my teeth. I was afraid to smile, I would put my hand over my mouth if I laughed, im talking like a serious mental fuck over my teeth. the dentist told me I would need around 10k of work to make them per…
/r/seduction15/04/12 02:50 PM
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A lot of pua are marketers and alot of marketers are into self improvement/motivational stuff like Tony Robbins, zig ziglar, etc. so if you paid attention to all of those communities, youd notice alot of overlapping ideas. Its not a bad thing neccesarily, so I hope you're not bitter that rsd is teaching things they learned else where. Its just that in most things that are extremely desirable (woman, money, etc) the journey starts within. Limiting beliefs need to be crushed. I know for a fact of …
/r/seduction04/04/12 06:16 AM
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Rejection over regret. You won't remember the ones who reject you, but you'll remember the ones you never approach
/r/seduction30/03/12 04:37 AM
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Don't pay for it, go from there judging by her reaction to you not smoking her out
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:39 AM
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She wants free weed, don't waste your time.
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:11 AM
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Its easier to find attractive qualities in others than it is in yourself, but rest assured, somebody out there has good things to say about you. Your buddy has the DJ, height, fraternity, etc, but there are some things about you that are impressive as well, you just don't think they are because they are common to you... An everyday thing. Figure out what they are and use them to your advantage. On a related note, I sometimes find myself going out with guys who try to out-DHV me or even make me l…
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:12 AM
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Start hanging out with guys who are good with women. If you're hanging around with 7 Virgins and reading pick material its not going to help much. they say you're the average of your five closest friends. Hangout with people who already live the lifestyle you want to live and I promise you'll get there much faster
/r/seduction08/02/12 10:53 PM
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Pinch her belly fat and say ” I think my abs are better” lift shirt, guide her hand to your stomach.
/r/seduction29/01/12 05:09 PM
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My dicks bigger though.
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:47 AM
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Lol at Ross Jeffries hitting on a girl in the comments section.
/r/seduction27/01/12 09:03 PM
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In highschool I always had my head down in class. I sat in the corner. My voice literally trembled. I spoke very fast and mumbled a lot. This is a sign of low confidence. I didn't like many things about myself. Also, I don't come from a family that has a lot of money, my parents struggled. Some how I just didn't think I was meant for much in life. I wasnt meant to be popular, date many girls, or make a lot of money. I dated a girl in highschool, she hooked up with some other guy. I started worki…
/r/seduction19/01/12 11:30 AM
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Delete fb, hit the gym, you don't need a lawyer. Seriously though, do those first 2 if you haven't yet. Replace the 3rd with practicing/studying pickup.
/r/seduction13/01/12 07:05 PM
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Going out alone doesn't always mean to the bar/club. Try the mall, grocery store, nice downtown area with lots of foot traffic. Gas station (can't tell you how many #s I've pulled at the pump) basically any errands you need to do, do them and get yourself into the mindset of "If I see a pretty girl while I'm doing this shit that I need to do anyway, I might as well get her number while I'm at it". I don't think I'd do good on my own if I were at a club/bar alone. It's just not me, but I absolute…
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:07 PM
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I walked up to a very pretty woman, late 20s, I'm 22. She put her hands on my shoulders and turned me around while she said "do yourself a favor, walk away" lol. I felt like shit for a min, but I'm an optimist. I figured "hey, thank god I got that out of the way." It put me into the zone quicker than anything else. I had one of my best nights after that. Fail faster.
/r/seduction02/01/12 04:59 PM
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"I work with computers and the internet, geeky stuff... You don't happen to have a geek fetish, do you? :p" "I'm a computer nerd, a company pays me to try to break into their systems so they can make sure it's secure for our customers... so if you decide to cheat on me when we get married you'd better not do it over the internet... I'll catch you!" <- something like this, it has to come out naturally though so you could word it differently. Girl asked me about my job... Me: "web development/mark…
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:57 PM
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When my friend get's a nice rejecton, such as "I'm so sorry but I've got a boyfriend..." he replies in a stern, but not assholish voice "Don't be sorry... have a good night". That's not really my style... I'm laid back, like to joke and have fun, make people smile. Think 'Sasha DayGame' but not quite as goofy. I took my friends reply, and added my own twist. "Don't be sorry... unless he's really ugly or beats you or something, then you should totally be sorry :p"...yes I know, spousal abuse isn'…
/r/seduction09/12/11 10:16 PM
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Muscle weighs the same as fat.1lb of fat is the same thing as 1lb of muscle. 1lb of muscle just takes up less space. You wear 325lbs better, at 6'2" than somebody who is 5'8", but it's still overweight. I'm saying this all constructively, not to be a dick. You had what it takes to pull a girl without trying, imagine how you'd be if you dedicated a bit of time to the gym. Dude 325 at 6'2... if you lost a few lbs you'd be a fkn beast. I'm willing to bet that if you dedicated 3-4 days in the gym an…
/r/seduction09/12/11 05:51 PM
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Take your time building comfort and attraction. Don't jump the gun and ask for the # too soon. Approach, open, make conversation, move her around, touch, number close. Not Approach, Open, Number close.
/r/seduction21/11/11 10:16 PM
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Forbidden fruit. People, especially women (Eve!) want what they can't have. You're instantly transitioning yourself from somebody she feels like she could have anytime she wants, to somebody she may never be able to see or talk to again.
/r/seduction18/11/11 03:08 PM
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How do you know what I am? 3K sets with a shitty conversion rates isn't any better than 25 sets with a good conversion rate. You're right though, I am an info junkie. I studied the fuck out of everything I could get my hands on about self improvement, body language, first impressions, eye contact, and being a likeable person. ... and I put all of it to use because the company I work for sends me to seminars and other business trips where making a good impression is a must. All of that informatio…
/r/seduction03/11/11 05:49 PM
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I appreciate your willingness to look from my pov and not attack me. I'm sorry if I sounded too critical, didn't mean to be a jerk
/r/seduction03/11/11 12:54 PM
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You must have read "How To Win eFriends and Influence Upvotes" I believe the advice you're demonstrating is from Chapter 3: Agree with the masses, don't question anything, and attack people who do. This is a sure fire way to make efriends and steal the spotlight for a minute. You'll probably get a few upvotes from guys just like you, who want to be liked & accepted, but youll be forgotten soon. What you're doing is comparable to picking on the nerds with the really popular kids, just to earn a f…
/r/seduction03/11/11 12:29 PM
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We can just agree to disagree. If I throw enough balls at a basketball hoop eventually ill make a shot, but it doesn't mean I'm any good at basketball. I can pretty much guess who their target market is though and its not me, so really I have no room to complain. I enjoy the general advice and apologize for judging so harshly.
/r/seduction03/11/11 11:55 AM
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I just subscribed to this subreddit. I recently found Simple Pickup on youtube and came here to say I hope these guys aren't considered the go-to guys in the industry. They give some solid advice , however in all of the videos I watched they had terrible body language, approached with lame openers, and made most of their conversations extremely awkward. I'm willing to bet that most of their numbers go stale. "Excuse me... can you just stop being so adorable" Wtf, really? These are the type of gu…
/r/seduction03/11/11 12:12 AM
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If its a drink she hands you, drink it when she turns around. When she says "wth did you do with my drink" reply with a smile ""what?! I thought you bought me a drink to make me like you"
/r/seduction02/11/11 02:21 AM
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