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amyilas/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 08:41 AM
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Because deep down its not what I ever wanted and I still crave a mans touch and a mans love so it feels like I'm starving all the time
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 10:54 PM
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I hope I get to that point but when I hook up with guys I end up falling for them and wanting to be with them so I can't even do that.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 07:02 PM
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I do, but I cant properly grieve the fact that I will never find a partner who loves me. Hobbies and friends dont take that away for me. They are a distraction at best but the feeling is still there
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 12:18 PM
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No it was horrible like all relationships I've seen
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 12:17 PM
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See the thing is I love really deeply. Like, when I fall for someone I don't care about anyone else in the world. But the idea that someone is staying with me just because their lifestyle doesnt present a better option is a huge turn-off. I do believe you're right but being settled for is so heartbreaking for me that I would rather be alone because its miserable for me to imagine just being completely in love with someone who is just kinda like "meh, I dont make enough money to get someone hotte…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 12:16 PM
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I understand thats the truth (about men anyway). That is literally what my post says you are just stating it again. My question is how to live my life and experience joy knowing that truth which you have not answered. How is writing the OP again helpful? Seriously wtf, like, I've been reading this for years youre not saying anything revelatory.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 12:07 PM
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I'm not sure. I had really naive ideas about love and attraction. Like I believed a man and woman could fall in love and want only eachother. After, I believed women could fall in love and be in pain and men are not capable of love. and as for finding a partner I felt pretty unsure I guess, before, like I accepted the possibility that it might happen or it might not. Maybe I even thought it was a given which is obviously absurd- but I was 14 at the time and it seemed natural that I would pair up…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 09:12 AM
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Youre still young, youre probably just a late bloomer. You seem like a catch, if I were you I would try to find some solid guy friends. If they're successful at getting dates and girlfriends that will eventually rub off on you too because we naturally mirror the people around us and learn from them.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 01:28 AM
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We agree that men have nowhere near the opportunites for sex, and possibly also for relationships. Completely disagree that they have nowhere near the opportunities for love. I think men are advantaged in this area actually since women love really deeply and often very demisexually. Most relationships I've seen are loveless. Just because a woman is in one doesnt mean she's receiving any love, any validation, even necessarily any sex. Many women haven't been touched by their husbands in years bec…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 01:24 PM
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I'm not sure if its really mating inequality because men value meaningless sex really highly in a way women dont. Just because women have it doesnt mean they want it. Many women have sex and form attachment bonds where they want the partner to actually stick around but it doesnt happen so they feel bad. Or they have sex and think wow that was so gross what a waste of my time. Amd there is absolutely no status boost for women who have sex like there is for men. A lot of the women "mating" are act…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:04 AM
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My ex was a very very poor guy who was financially insecure and couldnt hold down jobs. I fell head over heals for him. Hormones raging, insane lust, insane love, thought about him all the time, always wanted to be around him, couldnt see other men or develop any attraction to them. I loved him more than I've ever loved any one romantically. He'd only slept with 2 women before me (we were both 30) he wasn't a stud or anything apparently but in my eyes he looked perfect. Then he smashed my heart …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 01:38 AM
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My coworker at work is like 5'2" Hos long term girlfrind is super pretty and they are extrenely happy. A lot of the girls at work have a crush on him because he's so chill. The good news: The problem is not your height The bad news: you may have another problem that is turning women off.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 01:22 AM
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I'm not sure if this helps. It probably doesn't. But I'm a woman. The other day a few women friends of mine were discussing their "types." They all had the same type it seemed and were gushing about a certain kinda guy they were into. I sat there and quietly ate my chili and waited for them to change the subject. Why? Because I was so genuinely baffled at why I didnt feel the same as them. The type of man they were describing would not be attractive to me. In fact, I'd briefly dated a man that t…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 12:34 AM
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