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typically i wouldn't be around someone that rejected me at all... but if i couldn't get away from them, i would either hide my feelings and act normal if i could, or just be honest about how i felt and engage (or not) as needed if i couldn't hold my feelings in and go on with my day. Yeah I'm pretty aware of who's into me and who's not most of the time. Unless she drops out I'm going to see her though. in any case, for this particular girl... i would accept her wishes not to talk. i don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:19 AM
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A girl in that condition shouldn't be dating, and if she is, it is most likely further damaging her. Which is why I never made a move on her. As long as I knew her she wasn't dating anybody or trying to hook up or anything. You may want to consider for yourself why you are stuck on a fallen angel. It is easy to get wrapped up in, but it can be damaging for you as well. She definitely isn't good for me. I'm of the RP ideal that I should at least wait until my thirties to get married if I'm going …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 04:13 AM
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If you have nothing to hide this could save your life. Easy alibi.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:15 AM
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My mother slapped me in a parking lot once. Out of reflex I almost hit her back. I restrained myself and told her that she isn't ever going to touch me again. She seems to have gotten the point. Women are women and sometimes they need to be reminded that you're a man.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:48 PM
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You're wrong. It is a very good point of reference because it was directly before mainstream feminism became a thing. Men back then were men. They engaged in masculine activities because that's what men did. Today thanks to feminism and technology men aren't limited to solely masculine activities. Low T is rampant and as another user said in this thread, testosterone is directly linked to aggression. Masculine activities like working out and participating in sports raise testosterone. How do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 06:06 PM
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I wonder what your studies would have shown if replicated in the 60s. Men aren't allowed to be angry any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 03:52 PM
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Bruh it's rude if other's notice you approaching a girl for only sex. You have to give the girl plausible deniability on her slut status or she will never say yes. It's creepy if you're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 11:15 PM
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I used to be that way. A crazy thing happened one day. I was eyeing up this girl like a nice hour glass shaped peace of meat when for some reason I started to look up. She was watching me. Normally I'd look away or try to play it off like it didn't happen. But that day I looked her straight in the eyes and waited. Within a few seconds she smiled. Man, I hate young me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 03:40 AM
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You're lucky. I tried a similar tactic on a Greek and Roman myth paper. My teacher is a feminist and is pushing her feminist agenda on us. I wrote a B paper easy. Gave more sources than needed. Grammar was on point. I got back an F. I'm on academic scholarship and an sitting with a C- in this class even though everything else graded thus far are 90% or better. I'm witting about the Patriarchy next time and when it comes time to review my professor I'm going to write a scathing review.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:38 AM
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A page straight out of fight club.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:26 AM
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My mother is a helicopter parent, my dad isn't. My mom also happens to be lazy, for a time she was a stay at home mom. I made a majority of my meals. I did my own laundry. I'm smart so didn't need help with my homework and my parents aren't academically smart anyways so they wouldn't have been much help. They definitely cared about my grades. My dads a carpenter so I was expected and forced to help out. I eventually decided that wasn't for me and I've worked some real (shitty) jobs. I paid for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 03:14 PM
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None of that is exclusive to beta bitch though. The lack of misogyny kind of distracts and diminishes your claims. How can your method work without misogyny? Be, be, be, be. How? Where do you get your statistics from? I think your extrapolations are wrong. Also you seem to fundamentally misunderstand me as a person. I already avoid the psychological damage that supposedly comes with marginalizing half of the population because I marginalize everyone. It's one of the first steps in red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 12:25 AM
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A popular claim on TRP is that men age better than women and women finally get their comeuppance once they hit "the wall", which - as the general consensus goes - is around 35 at the latest. I would like to dismantle this claim with a very simple example from the popular Baywatch show: Why didn't you post what the women look like now? Your thesis doesn't match your evidence. men age better than women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 07:16 PM
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Sorry it's a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 07:59 PM
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It's part of a metaphor. The metaphor is comparing dating multiple women at the same time as someone who spins multiple plates on the ends of multiple sticks. A metaphor comparing humans to objects is dehumanizing. Just as literature is filled with objects receiving humanizing characteristics. The better question is why is this bad as you seem to imply?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 03:38 PM
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The women are idealized as a great challenge while the AMOG are more alpha than she would ever naturally be able to land. It's the same as female prison guards fucking alpha inmates. Men love challenges. Women like being prizes of high SMV men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 03:20 AM
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One woman will bring more variety than a variety of women? Unique hobbies? Like watching soaps and buying pumpkins to carve? Yeah no thanks. I have my own hobbies. What about women who enjoy sex without commitment like FWBs or prostitutes? This seems like you hate women. I hate a behavior that I've only ever seen in women. If that makes me a woman hater, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:05 PM
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Alright. I cook for myself. I keep myself in shape. I keep good hygiene. I keep my apartment clean. I buy my own groceries. Hell, I have never failed to get myself off. So what do you have to offer me? A large chance it won't work out only for you to take half the things I paid for? Why should I want to get married? I'm not religious. I don't want a big fancy wedding. Why can't I have LTRs without ever intending on settling down? I've seen my uncle do it and he's carrying about 15 extra pounds i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:30 PM
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I probably shouldn't. I'm a romantic though; it's my curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 06:45 PM
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You're not one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:00 PM
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Nobody's trying to wife a milf though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 03:18 PM
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Basically I wanted another mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 08:02 PM
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I think BP women tend to be around 30+ so perhaps their partners (assuming they're of similar age) have lost interest in sex. I only know a few women with high libidos and most of them have been military girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:45 PM
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It possibly has more to do with the relative low T of their partners. /speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:28 PM
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Fear of being doxxed. I weighed around 225 and am around 175 lbs now. It was easy for me as I already had muscle, I just needed to lose weight. I've talked about it in more detail before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:52 PM
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I guess I should amend and add "as long as they're attracted to you".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 12:24 AM
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A thirst for adventure and a thirst for foreign strange are easy to distinguish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:26 PM
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It's a more so a red flag of someone who is an alpha widow. Something you watch but confirm later. Red flags by themselves are not reasons to next someone. Multiple red flags or the confirmation of your suspicions is though. I would not next someone who travels. I would next someone the moment I find out they are a seed tourist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:11 PM
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Daring and bold sounds interesting, but daring seems to imply travelling as a hobby. I'm not wifing a sex tourist. Challenging is fun initially but I don't want some bitch who's going to nag me about starting a garden or remodeling the basement for the rest of my life. Challenging like Scully in X Files is something I would want. Cocky is something I don't find attractive. I doubt many men would. All women are forgiving. Good women are affectionate. Sounds like you have misconceptions about RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 08:27 PM
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Funny how white cis males are the new red pill men based on that post. Misandrists and racists, the whole lot of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 06:29 PM
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All women display behavior typical of females. That behavior being described as typical is supported by experience, observation, and anecdotes. We observe the behavior of every animal on earth. We draw conclusions on that behavior without a wink... But when you observe women and draw conclusions they lose their minds. FeelzRealz
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 03:29 AM
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BYU
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 07:10 PM
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A key to approaching is knowing whether someone is interested before you approach them. People in general tend to spend more time looking at things or people that they believe look good. Women are no different here. If she finds you attractive she's going to look and maybe even stare if she's confident enough. Catch her looking and then approach. If she doesn't look she's probably not interested. If you go to red pill school, you should look good enough that women will display interest if you de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 07:02 PM
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Spend a lot of time at close friend's houses until it's the norm then lie about going to their houses. Body weight fitness and resistance training are cheap. I'm sure your high school has a place to lift and in sure that you're welcome to lift there after school hours. Join a team sport.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:40 AM
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This is why we at TRP say to treat women like children (among other things). This is also why I'm in favor of equal responsibilities that feminists seem to have neglected from their definition of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 05:44 PM
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I don't believe you should force this any longer. I have other thoughts but I have little to base those thoughts on so I'll keep them to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 03:56 AM
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I have trouble sleeping most nights and getting off usually is the best method getting to sleep. I don't often watch porn otherwise. Women watch violent porn much more than men do. I personally don't like that shit despite how BP thinks we're rapists. Male porn stars are just guys working a job. It's not alpha or omega. Now the gay for pay guys are pretty beta. MTV has a show (battle of the ex's) where a former gay porn star was on. All he did was cry that nobody wanted to be friends with a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 02:59 PM
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Nah I like (natural) red heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 03:03 AM
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If I get married I hope to marry somebody 5-10 years younger. I prefer my wife has some formal post high school education. I prefer she has a job. I don't prefer having to marry her student loans or to marry somebody who will put their career before their marriage. I don't plan on thinking about marriage until I'm 30 which would mean a girl in the 20-25 range would be my preference with her being no older than I or older than 30. I'm still undecided on marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 08:27 PM
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Classy women aren't hot though. Hot women are hot. Hot women in dresses are hot. Ugly women in dresses aren't hot. It's just objectification with a self righteous lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 07:25 PM
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The concept of a bunch of guys circlejerking over being gentlemen for not objectifying (because they have their clothes on) women to me is the most backwards way to objectify women. Which to me is blue pill because they want to objectify women but have to put some stupid lens on so that they themselves can feel good about themselves. Now I have no problem for modest women getting some attention. But I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't be ashamed of your sexuality. If you like pretty women and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 02:33 AM
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He himself was a divorcee and also a lowly manager. He is a failure, and even then he isn't too bad a role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 09:40 PM
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I don't have to be Hef. All I have to be is moderately wealthy and fit and by the time I'm 30 I'll have plenty of options. By the time I'm 40 most of those options I had at 30 will in all likelihood be gone, but at 40 a huge group of women opens up as a potential saying market: the divorcees. Sure that doesn't really sound appealing, but I'm 19. When I'm 40 that probably won't be the case anymore. Regardless I'd like to find somebody by the time I'm 35. I had an old boss, he was just north of 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/15 09:35 PM
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OP is an annoying little bitch. I believe I reported it but I could be mistaken. The opinion in point 3 seems to be a strongly held view of many detractors of TRP. The alternative is much more detrimental and hurtful to men than toxic masculinity will ever be. I know first hand. We shouldn't lower the bar to being a man. Not everyone is a winner, especially not with the way than women are taken care of by the government. We should better encourage masculinity instead of decrying that anything an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 12:05 AM
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I've known guys, attractive guys, who I'd consider nice guys. Think Michael Cera in Superbad if you want something to picture. These guys struggles just like less attractive nice guys. Boundaries are meant to be broken and that's something that nice guys struggle with. They don't make romantic moves because they fear making women uncomfortable or heaven forbid being labeled a creep. Labels are powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 06:03 PM
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Women value status and success moreso than men so yes. The obvious example would be Hef.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 03:43 AM
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I didn't dress well because they don't make cheap nice clothes that fit fatties. I wasn't the only fat kid in the world. There were fat kids who were less intelligent than I who initially have done much better with women. I didn't need TRP to tell me what I was doing wrong although it certainly helps for that purpose. I needed TRP to show me what to do to get it right. It's a formula for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 12:13 AM
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I was a pushover. My wants matter now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 11:40 PM
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Was a fat loser but had good personality. Discovered pickup and applied it to Facebook. Took a couple things left the rest. Discovered reddit was more than some emo tumble or whatever I thought it was. Some askreddit "which sub is the worst popped up?". Clicked RP and almost immediately was surprised that people thought it was so bad. I'm 6' 175 now was 6' 225. My acne is gone. I don't waste time orbiting any more. I work out almost every day. I try harder at school. I've matured my wardrobe fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:31 PM
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Apparently I misremembered: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html?m=1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:16 PM
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See I can't watch comedy with my folks. I tried watching the Interview with them and that's as close I will try for a long time. My dad sat through laughed through the while movie (I packed like a fool) and later declared it a shitty movie. My mother fell asleep during it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 03:02 AM
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It's not magic. It's a scientifically conducted study. The science says that women become less and less tied to each consecutive penis that enters them. Why would I think at 77 that their won't be a 78? At 5 I can easily think this woman is commitment worthy and I could easily be hers till death. You can get mad and huff and puff all you want but it's a real phenomenon. It can be overcome and I'd like to think that by me or some other red showing you that study that you and other women can and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:59 AM
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I like Jeffries (and miss legit), and I like CK... But CK has some cringe moments that are hard for me to watch sometimes. I can't remember which special, but he opens up with a cringy low brow joke that makes it hard for me to watch that special especially with other people. I need to check out his new special some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:53 AM
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My favorite comedians tend to be people who are great story tellers. CK gets a big vulgar for me sometimes. Fey and Poehler are a bit too clean most of the time. There's a very healthy middle ground where you don't have to make jokes about fingering rats and you don't have jokes that have no punch and I think a lot of women (Schumer, Silverstone, McCarthy) go for the low hanging fruit. There's a girl who I believe has a new advertised Netflix special who I think I remember as being really funny …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:22 AM
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I liked her in bridesmaids but lately it's like she's trying (and failing) to be Chris Farley in every movie she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:11 AM
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I believe that men did not have impaired pair bonding but it's been a while since I looked at the study. I might look for in a bit if you would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:09 AM
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Probably more so Bill's fault than feminism. I like Bill though. I really think the biggest issue is that women just aren't funny. Look at women's comedy it's almost all shock value: "you won't believe what a whore I am" or "I'm really fat" or "I'm black, fat and sassy". I think Hollywood struggles writing female characters because they have blue pill it up or something. Either the woman have no flaws or they have no redeeming factors. I think this ghostbusters will produce characters that nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 01:40 AM
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The number is the second most important factor after looks. Then things like personality and hobbies follow. So pump and dump the almost unicorn. There are real studies that show that women with high partner counts lose the ability to pair bond. Consider that a woman with a high count is unlikely to marry the hottest guy she ever fucked and will end up selling in one way or another and this becomes a big issue. This results in the Facebook moms who divorce their loving and financially supportive…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 01:30 AM
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I just think it's ridiculous for OP to say that men who get jacked are at some kind of disadvantage. Red pill is aimed at guys who can't get laid. Getting jacked will get you laid, even OPs ideal is pretty muscular. To dissuade those skeletors from lifting is hurting them. You have to walk before you can run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 07:14 PM
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Well how about my roommate who is 6'4 260+ and has no trouble bringing home women? Women fuck alphas. You mentioned linebackers earlier, and I assure you they have no trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 05:43 PM
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You're full of it. My cousin is what you consider grotesque and he slays. He may not get a lot of attention from the type who browse reddit, but he regularly sleeps with very attractive women. Women who don't like jacked men can not get jacked men to commit. I'm a bit closer to your preferred ideal with a little bit of baby weight left, so I can confirm I get my fair share of attention... But that's mainly because lifting has sort of become some kind of taboo amongst male youth in America. I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 04:08 PM
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This will be another bridesmaids in all likelihood. I'm no fan of the actresses, but I do like ghost busters. Hopefully it won't suck. I don't pay for media anymore but I'll watch this when it comes out.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 01:32 AM
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No one wants a meat head. Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:42 PM
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Sounds just like my mom. This is how you get young red pillers.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:56 AM
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It's not in my browser history :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/15 08:33 PM
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Imagine if somebody found Dr Nerdlove in your browser history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/15 04:28 PM
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We don't want you. Not because you're Asian. We don't want anyone. Nobody is welcome to TRP. You are welcome to use what you want and leave the rest. If you don't like it, then don't read it. If you want to be a member perhaps it's you who should change. There's places like Asian Masculinity if you want to talk Asian specific problems. If you want to cry to TRP about how every girl you meet assumes you have a tiny dick or something, tough. We're sick of hearing about it. Many endorsed members ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 10:27 PM
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I'm sure that was their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 01:28 AM
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We're venturing of topic here, but how would you interpret that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 01:01 AM
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I'm honestly not sure what you're referring too. I haven't been on much lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 12:19 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1vuho8/the_documentary_that_made_scandinavians_cut_all See for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 12:17 AM
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I would teach my kids to work harder and push them more than my parents did with me. No Disney/fairytale bullshit for my sons. The rest is too far away for me to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 09:32 PM
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Want some red pill advice? Be a man. Quit apologizing. Offend. Seriously what kind of MGTOW cases about people's feelings over the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/15 01:20 AM
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I have dated that girl before, not sure if I would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:22 PM
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I don't ask as it doesn't accomplish much that favors my interests. If a girl wants to cheat she will cheat. It's not my fault that her BF is failing in producing tingles. The woman is obviously not dating one of my bros if I don't know her relationship status. Furthermore I'm a well built 18 year old with a full beard and a Mohawk. I doubt the "boyfriend" in question is going to want to fuck with me. Now I would never be in a relationship with a girl who cheated on her guy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 03:19 AM
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This person gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 09:30 PM
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I can generally empathize very well with other people, but this is not the kind of pain that I can relate to. I can. Being invisible is the worst feeling I can remember and it's ultimately the main reason I even bother helping other guys. I once knew a girl who flirted with me during some classes, shared intimate thoughts with, and then walked within a few feet of me and ignored when I greeted her. At first I was embarrassed wondering if anyone saw that. I looked around to make sure none of my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:06 AM
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Drake is alpha? Thanks I needed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 03:30 PM
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Mods? Wasn't this a debate forum once?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 06:33 AM
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Do you disagree that both men and women gain a boost in status from being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 05:14 AM
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I don't avoid sluts. I just don't reward their behavior with the status that comes with being in a relationship with me. There is a real world status penalty for being in a relationship with a slut. Sluts are more likely to cheat on you. Sluts are unlikely to share my values. Sluts also carry the very much increased risk of diseases, which are absolutely a deal breaker. A lock that can be opened my many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 04:48 AM
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If I increased my value until I was as recognisable as a man like Channing Tatum along with learning some tricks that take advantage of the nature of women I sure as hell could increase my success rate until it's above 80%. At a certain point in improving your SMV, women actually present themselves to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/15 12:33 AM
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Nothing ever seems to hold up to bluepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:10 AM
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Masculinity is a forever changing cultural concept. What's attractive isn't. You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:50 PM
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They're probably too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 04:47 PM
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Or perhaps when men attempt committing suicide they actually intend on killing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:56 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 01:36 AM
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As long as showing emotion is perceived as a weakness TRP will advise against showing it. Be the rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 12:40 AM
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Feminism encourages young men to be weak without properly warning them about the consequences. Nobody cases about weak men. And that's why men commit suicide 3 times more often than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 12:25 AM
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CONCLUSION Japan’s aging and shrinking population is a cause for concern in both Japan and the Asia-Pacific region as a whole. HelpAge International estimates that there are currently more than 50,000 people in Japan who are one hundred years old or older. As Eberstadt noted, the Japanese population is aging faster than that of any other country in the world because of migration patterns, birth rates, and health. These demographic changes will no doubt have implications for Japan’s economy, geop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 06:45 PM
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Probably the bro knighting going on around for random dudes. Don't water down the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 03:55 AM
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A good rule I have learned from TRP is to offend people more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 10:39 PM
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Sexual strategy for men is self improvement if you believe in female hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 07:42 AM
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Ha, you sound just like my roommate. He's a rapper who games and hoops. Got any NV mod recommendations? I'm new to Fall Out, but not modding or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:27 AM
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Low quality is not the same as unattractive. I've know plenty of girls who men won't commit to but will fuck. They are low quality but many of them were very attractive. I'm a little over 6' 170lbs. I'm a big 170 lbs as I used to play football and cut a lot weight once I was finished. I'm smart. I can grow a beard and I'm a month a way from 19. Before the red pill I would consider myself unattractive, but my mindset held me back more than my looks ever did. As I've gotten more attractive I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 06:41 PM
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At what N # of cocks would you call the divorce lawyers? Whatever your number is OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:00 PM
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It's psychological abuse. Manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 07:45 AM
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Believing in social hierarchy is anything but delusional. If you don't realize that some people are valued more than others you're ignorant. Alpha is what's attractive by the majority of women. If you don't think guys like Channing Tatum are alphas them you have no place in this debate forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 03:06 AM
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Evolution claims to be the truth as apposed to religion. Evolution and red pill theory are pretty similar theories if you think about it. Plenty of blue sheeple following religion while believing in horoscopes and ghosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 06:50 AM
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What's your take on evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 06:06 AM
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As did Amit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/14 12:34 AM
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My cousin and his best friend are these types of guys. And neither are that attractive or have much game. Charisma and status is all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 08:50 PM
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I'm aware. She wasn't charged or anything. He moved on, I moved on. Water under the bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 03:57 PM
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It did to him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 01:21 PM
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Before anyone claims this is unrealistic, my cousin's best friend had a girl pay for his ticket to go down to North Carolina to visit her. He didn't fuck her because he's real religious (only reason he's not a virgin is because a past girl friend fucked him while he was sleeping). If I had a girl friend I wouldn't go unless she was going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 12:54 PM
5

I was never proud of being overweight, but a part of me accepted it as normal... Until I started to realize that I wanted to be with the pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 01:12 AM
3

Probably not emotionally stable but otherwise healthy. Bullies tend to be victims of some kind of at home abuse and that can increase all kinds of different risk factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 10:09 PM
2

Define healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 09:56 PM
6

Not for those who are proud of being unhealthy, unnatural, or at the very least abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 09:48 PM
9

I was fat and was rightfully bullied for it. My reactions were of beta quality, so I encouraged further bullying. I actually ended up being good friends with some of the guys who bullied me once I lost weight and stopped taking people's shit. My parents encouraged me to be a nice supplicating, afraid to offend, hygiene challenged beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 08:19 PM
0

Scroll down to messages received vs attractiveness. The average is around 3x while the top percentage men are at 10x. And even then an average man for a woman appears to be a male 8, whereas the true average male is more so around a 4 or 5 thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 03:29 AM
1

He had a TV show and he was trying to get ratings so they hyped that up to see if he was the womanizer he said he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 01:02 AM
2

He passed a lie detector test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 12:38 AM
5

Are you aware of Gene Simmons claim that he has fucked over 5000 women? Celebrity's, athletes, and musicians are absolutely having much, much, much more sex than not only the average male but also the below average and above average men. It's undeniable. There is also a well known OK Cupid study that shows that 20% of men get 80% of the messages or something close to those lines. I apologize for not linking; I'm on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 10:59 PM
5

Define adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 02:58 AM
10

Just because you're offended doesn't mean you're right. Listen sweetie, this isn't heartiste making light of child pornography. It's heartiste remarking on the fact that women do like bad boys, unless you're some pervert freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 02:46 AM
6

28-30
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 05:37 PM
5

I'm roughly 10 years from my peak, and around that time I will probably look for LTR material. Meantime I'm going to work on raising my value so that my peak is high enough to get somebody of high value. I have good genes to look forward to, and as long as I stay fit I don't think my decline will be dramatic, but obviously every player has to retire eventually. Father time is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 05:08 PM
1

Pleasant + attractive. I guess I'm hard to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 03:17 AM
2

Ok, DV is WAY more complex than people who have never experienced can even begin to fathom. Domestic violence is not only spousal violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 02:22 PM
5

http://www.dailytech.com/Google+Offers+to+Pay+for+Women+Minorities+to+Build+Code+Skills/article36129.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 03:26 AM
4

Or if you're a woman you can get free coding education. Salaries are pretty lucrative or so I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 03:10 AM
6

Some battered women are trapped in battering relationships because of sexism. trapped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 02:47 AM
2

I've stated a narrative and I used sources to back that up. Those sources don't share my narrative but they do provide pieces that contribute to it. The article in question is about why women stay in relationships where they are victims of domestic violence. There's no reason for me to use more than a piece of that for my narrative. Perhaps when I start a thread asking "why do women stay?" I'll use more of that source.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 02:30 AM
2

"Next".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/14 02:19 PM
1

As long as feminism lives men will continue opting out. The gov will never kill feminism. There is no incentive for men to marry and half children, and the more it becomes less stigmatized to care about your personal happiness the more men will continue opting out. Give men a reason to marry and they will. So if you want reform related to the context, reform is needed in laws regarding marriage, divorce, sexual assault, rape, and child support. If you accept that men will opt out and it can't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 01:07 AM
3

Government spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 12:43 AM
3

This is turning political, and I'm not political. But for argument's sake reform. Massive reform that will never happen. The elderly make up the majority of voters and they won't vote for somebody who will get rid of Medicare or social security. The next best option would be for China, Canada, Mexico, and the European Union to become richer. The richer they are the more they import which makes us more money that we can waste on the poor and elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 12:04 AM
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Competition is good for the economy. It lowers prices. The aging population is an issue because we can't pay for their care and retirement... Because the system relies on continual growth of population for continual growth of the economy. Wars also help the economy. This negligible percentage is the largest ever percentage of men to opt out. And when mgtow they don't spend their money that the economy needs spent. Why do you think advertisements cater so much to women? This negligible percentage…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 10:57 PM
5

Then perhaps you should educate yourself. It's already hurting the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 09:43 PM
6

I don't like cake faces or clowns, but skillful use of mascara can absolutely be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 05:49 PM
7

Do you have knowledge of how economies work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 05:26 PM
2

what woman would want a man who thinks like that about women (besides a woman who also hates women)? All women hate other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 03:52 PM
2

Your statistics, I'm curious most about the 80% of men are married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 03:45 AM
2

Have had sex once or with one partner was my first grouping, that's also inclusive of virgins. I'd like to see your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 03:26 AM
5

My cousin can pull out his phone text any of the 10-20 girls he's met in the last week and get laid within the hour. He stopped, but I don't know very many men who have or ever will have the experiences he's had. I'd say 30% (and potentially higher) of the male population will have sex less than once in their lifetime. The next 30% will have less than 5 partners. The next 30% will have 10-20 partners. That last 10% is pulling new women everyday... If they want to. Guys like Gene Simmons, who cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 02:20 PM
9

I game every now and again. At one point me and my buddy were in the top 1000 CoD players online when I would play with the clan he was in. I haven't played online in quite a while. I don't enjoy playing with the 15 and under crowd that is heavily prevalent. When I did play online women were generally treated specially. As in every guy on there thought that validating a girl online (only having the sound of her voice) would get him laid. When you're in a lobby of 12 people and 8+ of the guys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 01:00 AM
1

Colorado Springs is beautiful, has already passed laws on reforming social issues and doesn't have spiders and other pests. I'd love to retire there someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 12:28 AM
5

I believe what happened was a rival frat accused them anonymously. This broke out over social media and people came out claiming that they were victims over something that 100% didn't happen. I don't know anybody in either frat involved so I am unsure how accurate that is... But that is what I've been told and I'm inclined to believe it based on the police investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/14 04:29 AM
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Yup, but afterwards I'd write "she's cheating on you" under the toilet seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 08:51 PM
14

Had a similar rape panic on my campus. Frat accused of drugging girls. Campus stages all kinds of protests. Frat is on probation. Police finish investigation. Frat is innocent, charges dropped. Frat already guilty in court of public opinion. People hate frats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 04:00 PM
0

RP men should expect women to shit test them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 07:47 PM
0

If anyone is curious, this is the mentality of my ideal red pill woman. I wonder how op feels about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 06:13 PM
3

The only advice that I know of that is directed towards LTR is dread game Then perhaps you shouldn't be so quick to write off red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 05:35 AM
4

All people will treat you as poorly as you let them. There's a young woman in one of my classes that provides a parallel. I was sitting waiting for class when her and an ROTC guy walked up the steps. She is staring at the dude, telling him about her day or something... and then he sees a familiar face, a former professor. He leaves the girl midconversation to talk to the professor. She instantly deflated but tried not to show it too much. He left and her and I walked into class. We were two of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 09:09 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 09:30 PM
5

Man brags about acting dominantly. Being dominant is rape. He bragged on red pill. Red pill therefore advocates rape. What should we do? How do we censor them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 08:48 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 08:46 PM
3

My emotional needs can be satisfied by friends, my sexual needs can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 03:01 AM
7

The first thing I do when I meet someone is rank them based on appearance. The value is adjusted as I learn more about the person. So an initial 8 who gets my jokes is of higher value than an initial 9 who likes taking about what Jenny just tweeted. It's all subjective though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 04:37 PM
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It's more so natural. I'm not hiding myself for somebody who I'm not trying to impress. It's reflex. I'm not sure I want to chase outside my class. 9s might be fun, but if an 8 can understand my witty humor then I'll "settle" for the 8 every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 04:14 PM
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I 100% agree with Rollo here. I've shown my true side to women a point or so below me much more often than women I'm attracted to. The first group of women have generally only been in plate category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:56 PM
4

I've had women call me an asshole for rejecting them yes. I'm not approached on a regular basis by any means, but the women who are likely to approach me are typically below my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:31 PM
2

So I want to ask, does it piss you off that sometimes a woman will dress and decorate herself in a way that you don't like, and why do you get so angry about it? I'm not angry at her, I'm angry at the idea that my preferences don't matter and that I should feel lucky to be with such a womyn goddess. I imagine that she's not interested in you and more interested in the guys who like women who dress the way she does The issue is when she is interested in me but then I'm the asshole for not finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:09 PM
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I don't deny that TRP works, I just doubt it works on people who can see past the smoke and mirrors, because really, it is so transparently obvious. Just an anecdote, but I feel like sharing. I once approached a girl who after a few minutes called me out for being intentionally mysterious. She was right, I didn't have much tact. I had class with her, but I decided in that moment that nexting was the best option. Over the next few weeks I built up a reputation with others while ignoring her, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 04:06 AM
0

Geed.kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 03:14 AM
0

I'm not going to be compatible with every woman. Some studies show that women orgasm more simply with being with wealthier and or better looking guys. Some women want to be used by high value men and even get off on it. I think a lot of it's mental, so as long as she is attracted to me she shouldn't have problems with receiving pleasure. Red pill is about making yourself as attractive as possible to the opposite sex physically and also doing the little unconscious things that women find attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 07:12 PM
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2/3 rule. Give her 2 orgasms for every 3 you have. But do not try to please her. Pleasing her is a byproduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/14 12:40 AM
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Then I say fuck their game and keep being detained.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 06:52 PM
4

Yo, which hand? Is it going to be cauterized and cleaned? Am I near a hospital? Why am I being detained? Why would they let me go if they cut off a hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 06:39 PM
1

If being a man had so much privilege why would he decide to switch? If being a woman is so bad then why did he switch?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/14 03:03 PM
6

This. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 10:57 PM
1

I just took a test, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 07:13 PM
2

Quietly /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 02:32 PM
2

Cause that's what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/14 10:40 AM
2

He would go through 1-2 laborers every 4-6 months. Some decide that it isn't for them. Some are let go. Very few were skilled, but plenty apply. Do you agree that America looks down on the trades? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 05:17 PM
2

Source? My father is actually a contractor who hires laborers to work for him, there is no shortage of men who apply to work for him. There is a shortage of skilled labor however. I would say that American culture looks down on people who go and learn a trade, but that is a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 05:00 PM
1

Feminism has produced a stalled revolution. This has made life for men much more difficult as it presents a damned if you do and damned if you don't choice regarding today's economic climate. More women graduate college than men and more and more women are moving towards traditionally male career paths. The amount of jobs hasn't increased enough and the amount of men seeking these jobs is the same as it always was. Men are not reciprocating women and going towards the lower paying traditionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 04:30 PM
0

What do you believe it is then? A spectrum of choices. Why would I choose to be gay? You enjoy it more than you hate it. If you tomorrow decided to try being straight you could do it. You may not be successful but neither were most of us at one point. Now would you still prefer gay sex, I'd assume so. But it would be a conscience choice. We really don't. Gay men are much more promiscuous than probably any other category of people that I can think of. I'm living as a 'deviant'. I really don't see…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 03:52 PM
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Downvote me. I don't believe that sexuality is hard wired. So while I support human rights and freedom I am not a LGB advocate. They are living deviant lifestyles in my eyes, which is fine is all but let's call a spade a spade. I don't believe we should encourage trans people. I don't think we should waste money on gender reassignments. I view it as Darwinism in action. I think trans people should be reclassified as having a mental disorder. Put them with the loonies who think they would happier…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 05:11 AM
-1

fictional What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 09:13 PM
-3

You can be as smart and capable as any man or woman. You should strive to be the best in your chosen field Don't be afraid to head into male-dominated fields. It won't be easy but the glory will be double; one for the triumph, and one for being a trailblazer. How about "do what makes you happy"? Why force women into stem if they don't like it with the promise that they will feel triumphant at the end. This is exactly the reason women are less happy now than they were 50 years ago. Most people do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 05:44 PM
1

You have to remember the average redditor is probably some 140 pound dude who has spent a good chunk of his life playing DOTA, WoW, Skyrim, etc. these guys didn't grow up playing sports so they don't appreciate them and don't give them a chance even after finding TRP. I've seen things like mma and kickboxing encouraged, but rarely team sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 05:12 PM
3

Lots of red pillers came from a place where they associate things like sports as being jocky doushe behavior. I've seen some RP men boast about how little they care about sports, like it's something to be proud about. Most of these guys don't have guy friends I would imagine, or at least high SMV guy friends that can benefit you. I play a lot of rec basketball, used to play highschool football and baseball and have done some boxing and mma stuff. I would recommend any of it to the RP freshman, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 03:34 PM
1

Dread game is to be used when your SO isn't pulling their weight and you're thinking of ending the relationship. If it fails to produce the desired effect then next. Regardless I have needs and I'm not going to stay in a relationship where they aren't being met. I've used dread. I think a lot of women, at least in my dating pool, seek to end relationships once they get comfortable. Dread keeps the drama/honeymoon going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 04:32 AM
4

Should they? Maybe. Do they? No. Most people aren't that self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 01:20 AM
5

And how do you think she would answer? What experience does she have attracting and pursuing women? There is no good way to ask the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 01:05 AM
4

They would only tell him "you don't really want sex you want a relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 12:53 AM
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When a man asks a woman what he should do to get women, he will likely get the response to just be himself. The advice is fine. All of the guys she's been with have all simply been themselves. But he was not asking her how he could attract the women who are interested in him being himself. He's asking "how can I fuck you?" It's a blue mindset to blame a woman for giving an answer to a question you're too chicken to word correctly. RP men should not expect women to know that they're implying some…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/14 12:23 AM
3

Brunches are my cheat meal, so no brunch girls are not repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/14 02:09 PM
-3

Women are attracted to men. A woman will laugh at anything an attractive man says.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/14 01:24 AM
-1

I think what men and women find funny are fundamentally different. Edit: Funny this is getting downvoted out of all the things I say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/14 01:21 AM
2

I'm not on social media so I don't really take selfies. I hit the gym up nearly everyday but I work out till exhaustion. I wouldn't really desire people to see me right after a workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 09:04 PM
3

Underrated movie in my opinion, I don't believe in heaven... But if it does exist I'd like to think that it's just like it is in Dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 04:52 PM
16

I blame PORN I blame women. Most of the women I've been with have been terrified of a man going down on them and the others have not exactly offered tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:49 PM
7

Men are disposable because you'll never see a male issue on the guardian. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:05 AM
2

Are you positive? I don't know You don't know if you're positive? I don't know what positive means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:36 PM
3

it cheapens relationships to have them with people you don't like much. Who said I didn't like them? I can care about people and I don't have to do it one at a time. do you think your parents love you? each other? What is love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:29 PM
2

Manipulation is not justifiable. To whom? Logic? I don't care. I never said it was. Manipulation is natural and healthy. If you believe human nature is to do what is natural and healthy to us then logically manipulation is healthy and natural human behavior. How's that for logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:22 PM
3

intimacy with people you don't like much, that's a strange definition of intimacy. Why can't you be intimate with a stranger? Why can't you enjoy the moment? I may not love them but I don't believe in love and I'm not sure I believe in monogamy. where are you getting this "lives 10 years longer"? Probably some click bait head line that got stuck in my head about the study you linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:19 PM
4

Women don't just do it too, they are the masters of manipulation. Look at proxy murder statistics. Listen to all the stories of women getting out of tickets for fake tears. Look at the stats where women lead men on to believe a bastard is his. But when we men use mild dread game we are literally the devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:13 PM
2

You attempted to make a logical argument. "Everyone manipulates, therefore manipulation is OK." I don't believe I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:06 PM
3

Below my relationship standards yes. Sexual release is healthy. Men who orgasm twice a day live 10 years longer on average. Obviously I could beat my meat but I prefer intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:03 PM
2

When was the last time a girl lied about her weight or age or cup size? When was the last time a girl volunteered what she looked like before the five pounds of makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 08:01 PM
1

Justifiable to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 07:59 PM
3

If I had enough SMV to lay girls who are all natural and wear dresses every day I would do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 07:56 PM
1

Women use things like make up, push up bras, spanks that manipulate their true body image. Women do this for selfish reasons (securing a provider). This implies that women are hurting men by being dishonest. Even as far as deliberately harming men. Would you dread game a woman who had kids with you? If she was failing at her role as a SO and mother yes. If she wasn't, then I would have no need to use dread. Would you make her feel insecure about your commitment to her after she seriously hurt he…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 07:54 PM
4

They don't instill dread and I didn't mean to imply they do. They are forms of manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 07:48 PM
3

Kind of like make up, push up bras, spanks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 06:54 PM
11

You're going about this wrong. Dread is manipulation. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 05:58 PM
1

I don't believe in good or bad. I do believe in healthy and unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 05:27 PM
1

Good and bad are social constructs created by humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 05:16 PM
2

Honestly, have you ever just tried to hang out with a girl because you thought she was a cool person? Yes, most recently yesterday. Primarily, I would want to encourage you to not find that lack of intimacy so upsetting that you would consider suicide. "You shouldn't want sex". Dumb advice. Sex is an extremely healthy activity and it's important to want it. Regardless I'm better now. /r/thanktrp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 04:10 PM
5

Maybe you should try to understand how somebody who has had no intimacy with the opposite sex at all feels. That's more than frustration. That's wanting to kill yourself every single day because you think there's something wrong with you. But you want to play the victim Olympics fine, you win. Just know I spent every day for over a year thinking about suicide. And unlike Jacob, I am the average man, even above average in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 10:02 PM
6

Maybe somebody should have pointed thot towards RPW then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:52 PM
2

"That hoe over there" Basically a term for skanky urban women recently popularized by hip hop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:48 PM
8

But Randy has no shot with cheerleaders so he's porking 250 pound Tammy Lynn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:46 PM
9

You're missing the point. A thot is going to get more play than Randy who catcalls women outside his apartment building. Both are low class, but men have lower standards for one night stands so they will give the thot a night. Women aren't going to be lining up to let Randy pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:34 PM
22

A female 6 gets a lot more attention than a male 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:23 PM
0

In my experience women tend to sleep later without extra effort on my part ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 03:33 PM
5

Is reality real? Noped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 12:43 AM
1

Prenups are becoming easily overturned in the US. All somebody would have to do is claim there were misled on something's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 05:25 PM
-2

TRP doesn't often advocate divorce as it can financially cripple you. So for sake of the argument let's assume that getting a divorce in this hypothetical is not an answer. Also, it's strange that you people seem to think a relationship minus sex is a friendship. What is a marriage without intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 04:44 PM
8

Iago is bitter dude who thinks Othello slept with his wife despite no evidence so he tries to get revenge on Othello. He's definitely blue minded.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:08 PM
4

It's something we view as just part of dating/fucking attractive women. Everything action has a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 03:48 AM
5

OP you're starting to get it, but you're missing a key point. You can't negotiate attraction. The women we find attractive are much more likely to be manipulative, because it works. Unicorns don't exist because a non manipulative woman who I can have a loving relationship with likely isn't attractive, and if she is she probably wouldn't be attracted to me at this stage in my life. So yes the red pill advocates that getting with abusive women and keeping them in check, because attractive women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 02:35 AM
1

I'm not anymore, but they did have redeeming qualities and are generally well liked. People will treat you how you let them. I can't be bitter because I allowed it. But I can't forgive them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 07:08 PM
7

When I lived at home they would buy the Halloween candy bags when I was trying to go on a diet. They gave bad advice. They would only buy me clothes that they approved of. They wanted me to keep my hair growth long. I don't like thinking about that so I've repressed some memories, but the women closest to me actively discouraged change. I moved an hour away so they have less influence on me... But just found out they sold my only good looking black shoes that I was hoping to pick up when I go ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 03:59 AM
7

Roughly a year ago I found TRP. 18 months ago I got my braces off. 18 months ago I was a total overweight beta nice guy™ with acne, braces, and a very poor wardrobe. Women used to look right through me. I was invisible. I ever really hid my attraction. I go through periods where my personality really shines. I've always been smart so I has quite a few female "friends" that I wanted to hook up with but who had no interest in me. I've lost 50 pounds and I'm starting to get pretty toned. In no long…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 02:49 AM
8

I couldn't have thought up a better system.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 08:16 PM
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Yeah like maybe Dana hits then gym and ends up much more bangin than Terry ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 07:30 PM
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I would say that it's meant to imply that women are less rational than men and that the act in ways that a teenager would. Not to say they aren't mature or smart, but to say that they make dumb decisions. Regardless, most would still find my clarification to be offensive I would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 01:23 PM
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I feel for her. Childhood must have been rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 04:01 AM
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Who created the first two unreliable dishwashers? Obviously over time technology is going to improve and change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 09:35 PM
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For the time period that they were invented what use did a man have for washers, driers, dishwashers, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 09:15 PM
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I have a revenge boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 07:52 PM
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That's because men did do most of it. But they did it for women. Women wanted comfort and men created it. Today I get to enjoy their effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 07:32 PM
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I'm in support of equal treatment under the law. I would also support an amendment to the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 07:27 PM
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You make it sound like that happens all the time to young boys It does happen all too often to young boys. Maybe not as young as 6 but definitely as teenagers. I know a couple people who are sex offenders for public urination as teens. These guys work as laborers and drift from job to job. And they are lucky, there's men who are much worse off than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 03:07 PM
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You make it sound like that happens all the time to young boys It does happen all too often to young boys. Maybe not as young as 6 but definitely as teenagers. I know a couple people who are seed offenders for public urination as teens. These guys work as laborers and drift from job to job. And they are lucky, there's men who are much worse off than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 03:03 PM
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So does Lena deserve special treatment because "the law is fucked"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 02:19 PM
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It's not about what that can be, it's the fact that they have been convicted and forced to register. That's how the law works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 01:43 PM
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Well I'm not sure. I don't think this study is an accurate representation that could be used to draw any conclusions. For example if I was to be asked "have you fantasized about being dominant (or submissive, but I'm male so let's go with the first)?" I would reply no. I would think of BDSM, leather, and the works. I'm not too interested in all that. But I've always been the aggressor. Does that make sense? So I would say (nearly, but I don't care for outliers) all women like playing the submiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 09:18 PM
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MILFs These 48% likely aren't interested in relationships with those women. Just a sex fantasy. I'm 18 and have fantasized about much older women; I also fantasized women with tattoos and short hair (some in the manosphere would call them broken women). I'm not real interested in relationship with any of the three aforementioned though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 08:46 PM
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It's an amateur branch of sociology and it's a way of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 04:51 PM
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Dude do you wanna lose her? A real RP man never shows his girlfriend physical affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 11:53 PM
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I would say that the banning of non text posts has dramatically raised the quality over there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:58 PM
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I come here as an outlet to release repressed energy. A key idea of red pill thinking is to not reveal that you are thinking red pill specifically. By limited my rants to this sub red pill topics on my mind don't spill into audiences that would not appreciate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:57 PM
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As long as men are unhappy they will flock to red pill ideology. Our happiness matters, to us at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 04:25 PM
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Go to CMV and be labeled a rapist and have people actively try to dox you or go through history and down vote every comment, whichever is more convenient No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 07:58 PM
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You'd have to divide that by 2 and then figure which percent of those who received alimony were men before you find a percentage. Let's say that 0 men received alimony in 1990. This doesn't seem too far fetched to me... Stats may prove otherwise... But that makes it so that one in six women received alimony in 1990. One in six, huh. If more up to date numbers were available I would love to see them. I doubt they are though so I thank you for finding links.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 04:58 PM
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According to the US census bureau, in 1989 less than 1% (the amount of women receiving alimony in 1989, 9,995, out of the population in 1989, 246,820,000, or even halve that if you just want to look at women) of the US population received alimony. Shouldn't you look for the percentage related to the population of divorced people? Married and single women Dont exactly have the opportunity to receive alimony after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 04:06 PM
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I think is interesting how much can change when a well liked black man comes out. I had plenty of homophobic friends that I played football with, that is until the running back's little brother came out as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 07:54 PM
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whereas I think the average non-black (white) middle-class American had an entirely different cultural experience. Yes and I have noticed a difference with the way my black friends were raised. I would say that I have more black friends than the typical white guy my age. Both of my roommates are black. I'm not sure if I have mentioned this here before, but my parents are racist and for a time period those values were instilled in me. They are not extremists or Klan members, but they don't like b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 06:16 PM
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I think feminism incorrectly teaches women that being a stay at home mom is unnatural, undesirable, and something to be ashamed of. I think feminism incorrectly preaches that gender roles are bad, when in reality they are only bad for those who don't fit them. As a man who once rebelled against traditional masculinity because of feminist lies I got to see how hard it is for people who don't conform to traditional gender roles. It can be awful. The issue I take is that conforming isn't that bad. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:42 PM
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Possibly, he was from a different time. I don't know his official stance if he indeed had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:31 PM
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I don't think you need Freud to say that women have desired the sorts of things men have in this society. He was the pioneer of this and many other ideas. Some still remain, some were debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 07:37 PM
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More so this She desires a penis, and the power that it represents. This is described as penis envy. I'm not a big Freud guy, but he definitely had some great nuggets despite much of his work being no longer widely accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 05:52 PM
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Sounds like you got some serious penis envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 04:14 PM
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I'd like to try everything at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 01:49 PM
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LMR = last minute resistance Shit tests aka fitness tests A common argument against many TRP terms and ideas is that they only (and wrongly) focus solely on women's actions. TRP does this because they aren't interested in dating men. TRP is sexual strategy. It doesn't matter that men do it too when I have already ruled them out as potential suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 02:15 AM
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He plated the woman after he got divorced and then she went to jail. Step daughter moved back into town and needed a place to stay. My coworker offered. Step mom got out of jail and resumed plate status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 01:24 PM
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Perhaps I'm lumping in orbiters with beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 04:21 AM
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What about the girls you pine away and develop oneitis for, and the ones that you actually end up dating once you lower your standards a bit? Cute ;p You may be attracted to both categories, but the quality women would care about in this analogy is not attraction but emotional commitment. Correct, which is why I said attraction isn't necessarily a part of alpha fucks beta bucks. Were these plates exclusively giving themselves to one man though? Are they planning on always being plates? Idk. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 04:20 AM
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I would argue that women are not attracted to beta bucks on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:50 AM
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There are girls you fuck and there are girls you want a relationship with. Both of those categories include women you're attracted to. This isn't necessarily the case for women and AFBB. If there is a parallel, do you think that this cognitive dissonance is responsible for a lot of the contempt shown towards women who employ AF/BB? Perhaps. I see their parallel as shady and awfully dishonest. I don't see a way for their parallel to not be manipulative whereas I do think it's possible to have pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:21 AM
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fucking fucking fucking Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 02:49 AM
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He sounds like both a scum bag and a loser. He doesn't deserve saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 08:44 PM
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Well as long as my effort is appreciated ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 04:04 PM
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Because I never said that I deserve more rights become I'm stronger. I said that I'm different because I'm stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 04:15 PM
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But men and women are different. Do you desire to be treated like a potential felon? No, and neither do I. Why should I have to pay equal for health insurance when I don't go to doctors at near the rates women do? Why should I be taught how not to rape somebody instead of somebody being taught how to not get raped? The war for equality is a war against innocent men in the hopes that a handful of those with dirty hands are reprimanded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 03:46 PM
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On average. The strongest women in the world are nothing compared to the strongest men. Strength is perhaps the easiest way to show the difference between men and women. It's not the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:13 PM
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I don't know the answer. You asked for a quote and I looked one up. Men have more upper body strength than women on average. Pull ups are a way to measure upper body strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:04 PM
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Sure they are physically able, but I've met very few who actually can... And pull ups aren't even hard. There's not a woman in my direct and extended family who could do a pull up. How sad is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:59 PM
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"Women are always saying, 'We can do anything that men can do.' But Men should be saying, 'We can do anything that women can do.'" -Gloria Steinem I'd like to see her attempt a single pullup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:54 PM
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Swipe texting. There are men who are smarter than I am, but you aren't one of them. Considering you get all huffy and puffy over what somebody said on the internet, I doubt that very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 02:26 AM
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Equal rights, equal consequences yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 11:30 PM
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Limited by capital, but I've been maturing my wardrobe lately. I don't forget my nails don't worry. Funny you mention body hair. I have a hairy chest, a full beard, and hairy arms and legs. My leg hair gets so long that I actually trim it. I also trim my arm pits and my private region, some times my chest too. I have to maintain my beard at least every two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:06 PM
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I work out about 8 hours a week and shave my head every 2 weeks and that usually takes an hour. I wash my face every night to make sure I don't have acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:52 PM
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Me too sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:35 PM
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Men and women being or being treated the same legally and biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:19 PM
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Equal in what sense? I guess it's open to interpretation. I don't believe in equality. As far as autonomous adults go, I am and should be equal under law regarding property I'm assuming you're female and I'm sure you've heard of /r/pussypass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 08:02 PM
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Make one if you're not content with what's available.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:55 PM
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Just look at my votecount in a few hours. I'm sure I'll be highly negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:25 PM
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Most women rate the majority of men as unattractive. There's a tinder study somewhere that backs this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:11 PM
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The one with the original claim has to back it up with a lot of solid evidence. How about the legal system? biology? Etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:09 PM
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Hey mods can you repost this to Admins?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:07 PM
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16x. Now how are men and women equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:06 PM
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This isn't a perfect comparison This is what we would call a false analogy. The burden of proof is on TRP in this situation. In this thread I'm asking the people who claim men and women are equal to provide proof. So the burden is on you if you want to participate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:03 PM
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I'm narcissistic. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:51 PM
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For one you have no reasoning why men and women are comparable to algebra. For two that evidence must prove that men are no different to 2x and that women are no different than 4x when it's pretty obvious that men and women are a bit more complex than your analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:51 PM
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If I provided evidence it would be written off or used to help dox me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:44 PM
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It was a joke :) Some of y'all need to lighten up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:42 PM
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This is a false analogy. I would like to see you argue for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:41 PM
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Combine this with the majority men being ugly and while the majority of women are attractive and...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:38 PM
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You can chose to believe me or not, personally I don't even see me as that superior. I'd say above average. I'm no genius and I'm no Adonis. I do think it's funny how many are having ruffled feathers over this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:36 PM
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I'm using your comment, just a heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:27 PM
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Swipe texting is so much worse than autocorrect. I should probably start proofreading. I'd say women are better at proofreading but my ex was an editor for the student newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:16 PM
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How can you objectively prove any of those things? Do you want my Facebook? Perhaps just my social and address? You're also more arrogant and delusional than most women. "A delusion is a belief held with strong conviction despite superior evidence to the contrary." You have no evidence that my claims are false. You can call me arrogant, but I'm in no way delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:10 PM
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I am stronger than all but a handful of women. I have a higher IQ than the average woman. I'm better at athletic pursuits than most women. I'm better in stem than most women. I'm more self sufficient than most women. I can cook better than the average woman my age. I'm starting to dress better than the average woman my age, but my gains in this area are limited by capital. I handle tests better than most women. I have better hygiene than most women. I was smart enough to get an academic scholars…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 04:22 PM
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I've seen it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:08 PM
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Bill Withers and Black Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 08:51 AM
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Me and my cousin had a falling out over Yu Gi Oh cards that was not reconciled until I was in 8th grade and he was in 9th. He was raised with some red pill while I was raised with mostly blue pill. So when we finally got over a stupid fight we started hanging out a lot again. He slowly righted a sinking ship while I slowly helped him become a person. I found red pill a little over a year ago which corresponded with me getting my braces off and losing a lot of weight. So yes, I'm more successful …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 02:48 AM
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The historical context is a bit high brow for TRP so the common usage is typically used there, but even though the philosophical significance isn't mentioned specifically it does shine through in some TRP ideas. TRP often cites the 48 laws of power, which often advocates stoic dominance over a vast myriad of scenarios. If you are unaware here's a good summarizing link for each law: http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/?m=1 Self control is something which TRP advocates to extremes at times. Men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 07:51 PM
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Some would argue that femininity and masculinity cannot truly be defined as they are ever changing. Traditional femininity and masculinity are highly thought of in RP circles. For femininity that would be to stay fit, dress nice, be pleasant, display submissiveness, etc. For masculinity that would be to lift, dress nice, be stoic, display dominance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:54 PM
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Which is why my non Mormon mother was given a job by my friend's Mormon father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 05:49 PM
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My best friend is Mormon. His father makes money hand over fist and has great connections. He got my mother a job she didn't deserve based on merit. His wife is feminine works part time at a non profit and pleasant. She is in no way dull, timid, or quiet yet she would decently fill the role of a red pill woman although father doesn't seem to desire that anymore. Father leads that family and is definitely the dominant presence, but she is very outgoing and energetic. I've met a bunch of Mormon me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:19 PM
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You should work on Wallstreet. Probably should, I could make a ton of money on wall street.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:51 PM
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but it's not okay for women to have the same kind of advice? I have never said that. Women do in fact have Cosmo and if they desire more red pill centric advice they can go to RPW. If they want to use RP for immoral reasons they could. I don't support that, but they have that freedom and they will have to deal with the consequences associated with exercising that freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:21 PM
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Dread is a poor example in my opinion, substitute it for the thermo nuclear option and it would be immoral. Dread is to be used when you're being taken advantage of, but I guess the application of dread when you're partner appropriately appreciates you would also qualify as immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:58 PM
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To say something is amoral is a response to those who believe that actions and technologies are inherently moral or immoral. To say TRP is amoral is to say that here is what works with getting women. Some of it is immoral in practice, some of it is moral. Knowledge of what works does not make you immoral, but it does increase your knowledge. The strategy of bedding women is not immoral unless done so in an immoral way. You can spin plates in a way that everyone in the relationship is satisfied i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:37 PM
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amorally approach You don't seem to understand actions are not amoral. do whatever is in their best interests to get what they want? They should. It is up to them if they want to do this in a moral or immoral way. Let's say that Jane wants to get a good grade on her test. It is amoral to learn that cheating could benefit her. It is moral to study. It is immoral to cheat on the test. Immoral actions are not without consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:09 PM
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It's very straight forward - if men can do/say whatever is going to get them the best results, so can women. We can't. Application has moral implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:04 PM
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Pretend women took TRP... all of a sudden they do whatever is going to put them in the best situation to sleep with or LTR as many high SMV males as possible. Or perhaps pretend that there was a sub where women take the red pill and instead use it to maximise their marriage value to high value men rather than use it for immoral pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 01:41 PM
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We don't. TRP is amoral in theory. The way I chose to utilize it is moral. Others may use it for immoral reasons. I think you are misunderstanding the difference between amoral and immoral. Amoral is the absence of moral implications on ideas, technology, and strategy. Immoral behaviors are behaviors that act against the societal norms of what is moral. A different example of the argument for amorality would be "guns don't kill people, people kill people."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 01:25 PM
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Fake it till you make it. This second question is tough. I have no idea how I would cope with this. I'd probably stop looking to hook up maybe start online dating looking for a girl to marry. I'd wait until she's ready to have sex and then tell her; that's probably my best strategy. Never thought about this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 01:19 PM
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"I get to, but you don't" We don't say that. We don't care what you personally decide to do. If by some chance you wanted to be a part of my life (which I doubt) then I have things Iook for and a base line that I expect. I've met plenty of women who are attracted to guys who hook up regularly. With men this isn't the case with the majority. Is it fair that those guys get to hook up and then expect a woman with a low number? Who cares, nothing has or ever will be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 01:14 PM
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It's amoral in theory, it's application has moral implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 01:07 PM
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How do you get by so cheap? Necessity. comic books I'm going to make an educated guess that we don't run in the same circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:22 AM
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From what I can tell the majority of /r/thebluepill are women. The red pill as an metaphor: Western men have been raised on Disney bullshit in regards to sexual relationships and thus have become replaceable and also disposable cogs in a broken political machine. By swallowing the red pill you as a man are standing up for yourself and your right to the pursuit of happiness. At it's simplest form the red pill I'd simply taking back the masculinity that we as western men have forfeited. In our met…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:58 AM
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I can't ever imagine being that sick in the head. That's what this is, sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 05:08 PM
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OP what's your number?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 04:53 AM
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My father worked long hours and was practically absent from my formative years. My mother tried to teach me how to be a man should act. She filled my head with disney lies that a woman would love me for me and that I could be some manic pixy dream guy. You see, men like me were the true romantics. What she didn't tell me was that you're only romantic if you're attractive. It's was creepy when I tried it. There is a girl who would call me her friend, 2 years ago I asked her to hang out and she to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 08:38 PM
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Who are you trying to convince?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:36 PM
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I guess I'll answer before I go to bed. What is the bear minimum you look for in a woman in an ltr? Fit, feminine, pleasant. What makes a woman exceed your expectations immensely in an ltr? Intelligence. What in your mind in the "perfect woman" for an ltr? Somebody who I enjoying going out and sharing my interests with. For TRPers: do unicorns exist? If they don't, then what fictional characteristics would make a woman a unicorn? No. Unicorns in theory are perfect, and nobody is perfect. Unicorn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:32 AM
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If TRP was to put effort into making an album of shame or whatever, I'd nominate her comment to be the first screencap. It won't ever happen, but all the same it gave me a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 04:03 AM
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Grew up betafied by middle and later lower class (monetarily) parents while getting a direct view of how different life could be through my alpha cousin and later my brothers on the gridiron. I had already started applying TRP concepts well before I found TRP, but TRP provided an explanation for every situation that was before puzzling and baffling for my logically suited mind. Every single encounter with women I've ever had can be explained by a RP concept. Every success, every failure. Every o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 03:33 AM
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Perhaps you should work on clarity if you're going to continue posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 11:57 PM
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The issue is that you failed to make a point. You're comment is in face devoid of point or pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:27 PM
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This isn't /r/thebluepill, learn how to debate or go back to your echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:22 PM
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AWALT is a generalization used for teaching purposes. NAWALT is used when people can't understand what generalizations are. TRP is for the average or below average man trying to hook up with the average or above average woman. Outliers exist, but are statistically irrelevant. Example: RP: you want to get laid, lift and be an asshole. beta: but what if she doesn't like alpha assholes RP: next Plenty of fish in the sea... and not a single one is a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 08:59 PM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:47 PM
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Please update post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:38 PM
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I think it's funny that these threads get posted like people actually think they are evidence needed for red pill to be censored or whatever. Maybe you're an outlier, maybe you're lying. Maybe you're going to get bored of you're beta husband by the time you're 30. Regardless, idgaf. You're not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:36 PM
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I don't buy things I don't need. If I want to do something social I have free ins because of my job and because of the few friends I've made so far at uni. I'm a pirate. I have free membership to my uni rec center and I have free use of my complexes gym and pool. My complex also pays for water and wifi/cable. I thrive on $500 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 02:43 PM
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I make $8 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 02:23 PM
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I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 01:16 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 12:48 AM
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I have defended AWALT to death if you want to know my stance look through my history. TRP claims to help men find a positive gender identity. To conform to his gender identity, a man must be a polygamously inclined heterosexual. TRP often says to take from RP what you need. There's LTR flair for those who aren't looking merely to hook up. TRP is amoral. The way I apply it has moral or immoral implications. I have my own moral code that I follow and I don't take things from TRP that would comprom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 03:10 PM
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So you can post direct links but we cant? ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 03:17 PM
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She has a US senator campaigning with her. Because US senators are oh so trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 01:02 AM
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/r/altTRP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 12:29 AM
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Since RP I have a newfound appreciation for old school hip hop. I've been into rhythm and poetry since I was real young when my neighbor introduced me to Em and he was typically the hardest I listened to before RP, guys like Gambino, Macklemore, Asher Roth, Aer, Kanye, and Lupe. Now I'm more into Kendrick, Ice Cube, NWA, Dre, and The Roots. Occasionally I like to listen to sad songs like the two big ones from Band of Horses. Last year while in my 2nd ever art class Chromeo's Needy Girl was playe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 07:34 PM
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canned strategy for bagging damaged girls with daddy issues Just women shaming women for being desired more than themselves. figure out how to avoid physical deterioration. Unless red pill offers the solution to that issue, red pill is a one sided delusion Lift, get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 04:58 PM
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Good science is also amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 03:45 PM
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I don't think a school will exist that I would be able to tolerate by the time I'm ready to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 03:38 PM
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One in family room, one for each bedroom (3), 3 in the basement (all in one room), and one in.the kitchen. I took two TVs that were replaced in the last two years for bigger and/or flatter screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 01:31 AM
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During the peak of the recession my parents had to move us into a smaller home, I understood. What I didn't understand is why my mother spent every third paycheck on a new TV while my parents were consistently fighting and arguing over bills. Right now my parents have 8 TVs at home, and that's because I took 2 of them with me to Uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 12:30 AM
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That wasn't a definition. That was an example. If you would like a definition of female solipsism I will try to craft one. Female solipsism is the inability for women to empathise or understand male issues and problems. Male solipsism also existsand would be a parallel. Understanding that everyone has the potential to be bad or good is a better approach IMHO. Most don't subscribe for the philosophy, they subscribe to get laid. It would fall upon deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 02:04 PM
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What's crazy about it is the implication that this is either one-sided or somehow worse when women do it. I've made no such implication. We don't care when men do it, because we don't want to fuck men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 02:00 PM
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It comes off that way because we don't talk about men and their downfalls. We aren't trying to fuck men and the majority of red pillers are already overly ingrained with behaviours of chivalry, loyalty, honesty, and other blue pill traits from their blue pill days. When TRP preaches self improvement it's assumed that you're some out of shape nice guy who could shed some nice traits and be better off because if it. We don't focus on the downfalls of men because our downfalls had to do with us rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 04:02 AM
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I tend to include "female" or at least imply it when I write about solipsism. With a gender/sex focus I feel like the use of solipsism as a teaching point is not as outrageous nor ludicrous as blue pill makes the idea into. What's so crazy about saying a woman will not and can not properly understand unique male experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 03:35 AM
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TRP is smart. As long as it's clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 03:07 AM
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I would imagine so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 01:23 AM
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"Today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can accomplish what others can't." Accomplishing what others can't is what motivates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 12:44 AM
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she's using you which i guess is alright since you are using her. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NcFaVfTDWcs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 10:09 PM
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I would not use it if I wasn't seeing results... even then I'm by no means dark triads. I've adopted some behaviors, but in real life no one would confuse me for dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 04:32 PM
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Ad hominem for pointing out that you asked a leading question, what a joke. I didn't respond to your question because of the obvious fallacy your question. Also funny you mention my supposed poor taste while you claim to be an expert in using girls with issues. Perhaps your experiences with poor mate choices is clouding your judgement. Anyways is it possible? Sure, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 04:29 PM
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Ah, because women inevitably lean to seek higher value men due to hypergamous and polygamous nature, am I right? This has nothing to do with what I said, but yes it is true. That last example: yep I think that's pretty common actually, was surprised when people said it's not. Nothing motivates you to get off you ass and be a man more than your woman deciding to feel up the biceps of the bigger guys than you in the gym while cold-shouldering you for the entire time. I said it was the best paralle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 02:47 PM
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So if other red pillers were wondering what Blue pillers thought dread game is here: Dread game would be more like, "oh he's my best friend and work colleague but he disagrees with my views and won't do all my paperwork for me while I go hit the bar, the little cocky bitch...I'm going to turn off my phone for 5 days so that he thinks I'm in hospital, and ignore his birthday, hopefully he'll lose sleep and know not to fuck with me again. Beta/hamster should know their place". Except the best frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 02:04 PM
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I disagree with the don't care about the other person mentality If she cared about you she would have made time for you bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:35 PM
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No, unfortunately when a nickname whose background I have no idea about generalizes people, I cannot really figure out exactly what kind of people he met. Then perhaps you should familiarize yourself with red pill. Above 6 in what? Sexual market value. Attractiveness. Not hard to understand. Sigh. Again, you project your life experience into mine, this is the whole issue, you cannot understand that mine can differ. No, she wouldnt This quote is a great example of blue pill thinking. Not sure wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:33 PM
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My poor choices in women, that's funny. Are they poor because they aren't you and the other blue pill ladies here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:19 PM
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This experiment does not match your analysis. The videos show attractive profiles being uglier in person. It does not show that women don't view appearance as important, as they would not have agreed to the first date had they used ugly profiles. Red Pill views looks as being important for sex. All this proves is that all you need to do is get the door open. Had this guy randomly approached these girls he'd have been rejected every time, but because he has the status of somebody who was attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 02:26 AM
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Status is status my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:27 AM
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I definitely agree. I said half tempted because I didn't think it would be received well regardless of how much help it would be for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 12:03 AM
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CMV Why? I'm not BP. IDGAF what you do. You do you. Honestly, if done right, this seems like the most accurate parallel to a man dread gaming a girl. I have no problems with this, just as I have no problems if a man dread games his SO right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 10:55 PM
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/r/asktrp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 10:50 PM
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he dumped me so he could make time for frisbee Who doesn't know this feel though ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 07:31 PM
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It's really infuriating when hot girls date guys who aren't hot but still aren't you. Have had to deal with that rage back in my blue pill days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 07:24 PM
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When I was younger I didn't really fit in a specific clique and would spread out my time with people I enjoyed. So while I at first went after girls who were 5 or 6s eventually my friends who had higher market value would dog on those girls. They could do better so why couldn't I? It just didn't make sense to them. Eventually I stopped going after girls who were below my buddies levels. Everybody wants the girl that everybody wants. Nobody wants the girl that nobody wants. A girl basically offer…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 07:17 PM
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This was me once upon a time. Dude probably weighs 150 pounds of water weight and word vomits on approaches. Half tempted to comment "/r/theredpill".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 07:04 PM
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Even in exactly the same country, demographic, city, age like 23 years old, do you think the self cutting goth girl who is super depressed, the hot party girl, and the science geek girl who hardly ever goes out, are going to "work" exactly the same way? I don't think, I know they do. I can use the same line, delivered the same way, on three girls and have the same result... so long as they find me attractive. In fact if they find me attractive, I don't even have to say anything in most cases. Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 04:20 PM
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Rock bands also have extremely high social status, regardless of talent level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 08:58 PM
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I doubt they are attractive Women love gay men Feminists are easy I doubt they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 05:54 PM
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He said this in response to a rape accusation aged 7 years in which the woman did little to communicate that she didn't desire the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 02:17 PM
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I'm not dating right now. Part of it is a bit of monk mode and part of it is that I'm in college now and I don't want to be committed for awhile. Being called childish doesn't bother me. It's my life and I'm not going to marry somebody I don't trust. If I can't trust her not to go insane over a weekend, resentful over a week, or to be caring enough to do something for me then next. If she doesn't like it she could easily next me too; we obviously weren't meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 01:21 PM
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*Perform
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 03:13 AM
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They're also referred to as fitness tests which is my preferred nomenclature. Fitness tests are tests women and men do to test the potential compatibility with their significant other. These tests are often not a conscience action when discussed on TRP, but fitness tests can be premeditated. I advocate RP men use fitness tests to screen out girls who aren't LTR material. Examples of some fitness tests men can use include: Radio silence for a weekend Faking sick for a week Asking her to make some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 02:36 AM
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It was a geometry joke... and apparently a bad one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 11:17 PM
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Marital rape is a byproduct of divorce, so by the transitive property...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 09:04 PM
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Perhaps it's a cop out. Perhaps it's not. I've never pretended that I agreed that TRP isn't applicable to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 07:06 PM
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So those examples don't exist because it doesn't fit your agenda? My campus has non stop validation for women and some men with shout outs and shitty jokes about girls who say "I have a boyfriend" to end conversations with unattractive men. Just two examples of beta behavior right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 06:44 PM
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If you feel that way then you don't understand or misunderstand red pill ideology. I promise I could point out three examples a day that correspond with red pill ideology. If you live in a college town download yik yak. You'll see plenty of examples with every refresh. I can't offer advice as I don't know you. I have no base idea of where you are life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 06:25 PM
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Attractive and naturally successful men don't need it, but I would definitely argue that all men can benefit from the red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 05:53 PM
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"Once made equal to man, woman becomes superior." -Socrates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 12:47 AM
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Most women are illogical and are incapable of making good decisions for themselves. If I give examples those will surely be written off within the hour as being inaccurate, or at least a condescending comment about how NAWALT. This is regardless of the fact that you, the OP, asked for anecdotes. I'm beginning to lose interest in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 09:19 PM
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I'd say a casual fling at any age is less than two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 03:13 PM
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One girl was for 8 months the other was 4 months. I'd consider those LTR for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 12:56 PM
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In my personal experience showing emotion and being too open has been the reason LTRs have dumped me. Women want men to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:38 PM
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I don't want to share the intimacy I have with a SO with a mutual friend group or even mutual acquaintance group. Contrary to what you may think, guys talk about their conquests on a consistent rate that never really weens when you have a shared former partner. You don't know the guys attached to the penises like we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 03:59 PM
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I want a slim girl who's pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 01:21 AM
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Did your nerds see every aspect of the rest of the married Rice's personal and often intimate moments? How about the moment before he entered camera's view?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 02:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 06:56 PM
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Oh I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 07:05 PM
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I still have a tendency to fall in love with every woman I meet. It's much easier to suppress with TRP knowledge... But I simply love women despite what Bluepers would lead some to believe. Now if you're looking for your one true love or some bullshit then you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:56 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 01:22 PM
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The dictionary would be the authority that people turn to. Through my perspective the dictionary is a good starting ground for definitions but lacks the depth to truly understand the meaning of words. The consensus includes the ignorant which we generally don't see in debate subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 03:02 AM
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There's a study that shows statistical proof that 40% of all the men who ever lived did not reproduce. Some of this is do to men dying early I'd assume. I don't have a better study than that one. Guys who have constant sex are in the minority. They are the 20%, some RP men think that the top 10% are probably getting so much action that you would not believe. Look at Gene Simmons, isn't his number like over 5000? That's ridiculous, but it enforces that some men are having much more sex with much …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:53 AM
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I have a challenge for you. You don't have to report the results, but go around and ask people in your life what they think the definition of misogyny is without use of a dictionary present.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:47 AM
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Western feminists are not as impactful as they or much of the manosphere think. We had a feminist occupy movement at my Uni a couple days ago. There was like 7 females (below 4, the whole lot of them) and they had a couple of whipped beta boys with them. Almost everybody ignored them and crumpled up their pamphlets. My uni really hates getting pamphlets shoved in their faces. That gave me a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:44 AM
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There has to be a consensus on what words mean else they have no meaning. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:39 AM
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that means at least 50% of men are having sex Unfortunately, no it doesn't. They could easily be a part of the group getting 20% of sex or even the next 40%. I'm not saying sex with one woman, I'm saying orgasms achieved. There are single guys who are getting laid at least once a day. My cousin is in this category when he wants to be and he's only 19. I've seen it and I can only imagine how rockstars live. Then there are married guys who are lucky to have dead fish sex once a month. Then there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:37 AM
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You asked me to make one so I did. Obviously it's not perfect which is why I didn't want to make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:21 AM
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Behavior of a masculine nature that incites strong opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 02:08 AM
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Just look at the biggest comedians, they're all misogynist red pill type guys. Look at the movies Gerrard Buttler is putting out, he's playing a misogynist asshole in all of them and the public eats that up. I just think the general public enjoys misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 01:45 AM
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20% of men get all the sex (I guess the other 80% are virgins or something?) 20% of men get 80% of the sex. The next 40% get the last 20% of sex. This leaves 40% of men who rarely have sexual relations if ever. Women, even young gorgeous ones, are attracted to much older men and it's perfectly reasonable to plan to someday marry a gorgeous woman 20+ years younger than you For those of who are considering marriage most of us are looking for a woman within 10 years of our age or a woman under 25. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 01:39 AM
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I'm not a dictionary. I'm merely remarking about the growth of the word. I don't think the average man or woman thinks negatively about men who exhibit misogynistic traits in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 11:25 PM
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But do you find it misogynistic? Sure. The better question would be whether misogyny still has a negative connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 11:13 PM
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We don't care. It has no relevance. When I say that dogs are loyal, you don't need to chime in about how awesome cats are. You're reading something that wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 10:37 PM
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True definition is poor phrasing in my opinion. The definition of words change over time; it's natural. I can tell you that misogyny used to mean a hatred for women. I can also say that it's definition is no longer that narrow today. And does this post fall under that definition? Perhaps. Hatred is a subjective word. I think the average man and woman would probably say that his comment is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 10:33 PM
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He was not being sarcastic when he said to embrace misogyny until it loses its meaning. What do you think? I think misogyny has already lost its meaning. Idgaf when people label me as a misogynist regardless of the accuracy of the perspective. I think any behavior attributed to masculinity has become misogynistic. I would encourage men to embrace their masculinity. His particular post is an opinion I would agree with mostly. I don't think women are shit. That's about the only thing I can find th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 10:09 PM
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This is a good description IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:57 PM
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Men can be huge emotional liabilities We don't care. It has no relevance. When I say that dogs are loyal, you don't need to chime in about how awesome cats are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:54 PM
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If OP here would have posted the whole comment you would see that IM himself said that he embraced misogyny... in the partially quoted post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:48 PM
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Antihero =/= villains
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 12:09 PM
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poor middle class What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 12:10 AM
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When these studies are quoted, they are often not even read by those quoting them. Just sort of linked and relinked. The honest ones will actually go through it (yea for reading!). However, if they are read, even in good faith, they are not really understood. I'll admit I'm often guilty of this. If I'm on reddit I'm typically on my phone. If I'm asked to find a source I look for about 5 minutes to find the original source that I'm referring to. If I don't find it then I try to link the next clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 08:24 PM
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You're incorrectly making the assumption that dread game is petulant and immature. I don't know what mental picture is going on in some of y'all heads when it comes to dread game, but it's not as bad as it sounds. Here's a scenario: John and Sally have been dating for 4 months. For the first 3 months sex was constant and occurred around 7-9 times a week. Month 3 passes and that number drops to once a week. John likes Sally but he needs more intimacy. John starts using dread game. The dread consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 08:19 PM
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Are you a man? I'm going to assume so. Here's some general texting tips since you brought it up. 2/3 rule: send only 2 text for every 3 texts she sends. You are not her entertainment, especially over the phone. Length rule: only text enough information to make plans, use a 45 character count. You should not be having conversations or discussions through text. Now some other things that shouldn't negatively effect your SO: Start lifting. Increase your SMV and she'll be happier. Disclaimer if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 08:09 PM
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It's reasonable and fair, and it's an easy way for her to get nexted. Sex is not a currency and should not be treated as one. I personally won't tolerate that kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 07:55 PM
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Is Thor not acting in his best interest with Loki and his home world? Is Captain truly acting in heroic fashion? Some would argue that even the heroes you cherish so much act in antiheroic ways. If you want to play this semantics game you could at least hide your bias better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 04:29 PM
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I remember being in 3rd grade recess and I was part of the group of guys who protected the girls from anti-hero types. I'd get in fights with these guys over them teasing girls. A young white knight in training I was; I cringe just thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 03:38 PM
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My aims getting better I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 04:07 AM
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By this line of logic yes. Continuing the line: I am a man. We have confirmed that men are terrible advice givers. Men is the plural form of man. By the transitive property I give terrible advice. But I see your flair. You're not a butterfly. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 03:45 AM
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A woman told me I should not shave my head because I'll look bad. Shaved my head anyways, "oh rose you look so much better with your head shaved". Stopped eating grains and dairy and a vegetarian told me that was unhealthy and I'd never lose weight with that kind of diet. Today I'm 50 pounds (once again) lighter than I was a year ago. Had a woman tell me that my beard was unattractive and I should shave it. I ended up dating her for a while, never shaved the beard while with her. I've had plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 01:52 AM
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I gave a poor example. The basic point I was trying to get at is that with context we can and often do see the effect before it has been caused to reveal itself. I can't really come up with a good example without doing extra research as its been awhile since I've taken a class that dealt with Empiricism, and even that was merely at the high school level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 07:00 PM
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I do agree with MRs issues usually. I do not consider myself a MRA. I consider MRs to be something thats bed has already been made so we might as well find the most comfortable way to sleep in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:20 PM
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Empiricism is not merely just a scientific term. It is also a philosophical term. As a philosophical term it would make a lot of sense to reject empiricism (when viewing things through a red pill lens) as empiricism is the theory that all of our knowledge comes from mere experiences. I do not need to be divorce raped to know that it is something I do not desire for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:14 PM
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I'm from a liberal area in the midwest. I see the douchebag getting the girl everywhere. I used to be jealous; I'll admit that. Now it just makes me laugh. Either she doesn't know or she doesn't care. Either way it gives me pleasure to know so much dirt on so many different guys and then watch women rationalize that they are good guys... until those guys dump them after the brief pumping period... Then they actually are assholes. Name a red pill truth and I can give you at least 3 examples, I gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 02:06 AM
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If you think something is wrong, downvote it or even report it. Don't concern troll. Nobody cares that you personally disagree. Empiricism is a theory. He has every right to disagree with a theory, just as y'all exercise that right any time you disagree with red pill theory. Red Pill ideology existed before /r/theredpill. A blue piller bringing up downvoting? Look at the vote counts, blue pillers are at the top of most threads without making a point most of the time despite many red pill guys be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 01:48 AM
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I don't mean to imply that is MY sub, so if I have I apologize. Newcomers aren't supposed to post on TRP. You're supposed to spend time reading the sidebar and other endorsed opinions there until you thoroughly understand the ideology. I didn't make my first post there until after 11 months of reading and I'm a pretty bright guy. Bright enough that I'm on academic scholarship at one of the best colleges for my major. You may see the banning as harsh, but again it has reach its desired effect. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 01:31 AM
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I said you because I was responding to you... keep up this semantics shit and we won't have that issue anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 01:25 AM
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Because concern trolling was a stickied topic at TRP for like a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 12:41 AM
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Concern troll =/= troll
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 12:27 AM
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Disagreement = concern trolling If you don't agree with something, don't use it. TRP doesn't care if you don't agree nor should they. Simply use what works and leave the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 12:11 AM
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"Take what you need leave the rest". If you don't agree with a red pill truth, you're supposed to leave it and do what works for you. That's all assuming you subscribe to the ideology. For example, although I do agree with some MRA issues... I don't agree with MRA being included in TRP. I see as hypocritical. I do not advocate its removal from TRP because I'm fine with taking what I will use and leaving the rest. There's no point in concern trolling. Is banning harsh? Sure, but it seems to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 12:05 AM
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Women right? jk :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 11:59 PM
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Let's assume I'm making all kinds of advances on a woman at a bar. We even kiss. I ask her if she wants to go to my place. She says yes and we leave. What exactly did the woman in this situation consent to if it wasn't sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 09:03 PM
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In the future if she is not down for sex, call her a cab. She isn't entitled to a night at your place. What you will find out is by calling her on shit she's probably going to want you more. She consented to sex when she left with you to go to your place. If she didn't want to have sex with you then she wouldn't have left with you. It's that simple. She probably felt embarrassed that she was in the same room as somebody she fucked immediately after meeting. I've had a girl tell me it was so awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:43 PM
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"AskTRP" isn't a debate sub. I didn't say it was. I said: If you want to ask a specific question /r/asktrp exists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:22 PM
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I think her point is that a lot of people on PPD are not "Blue Pillers" and many aren't even subscribed on "The Blue Pill." Then don't use blue pill flair? You seem to have that concept mastered so maybe you could act in altruistic fashion and spread your wisdom. TRP dismissed debate because anything that questions them weakens them? There is nothing to debate on TRP as its not a debate sub nor should it's ideology need to splinter off and debate amongst themselves. If you want to ask TRP a spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 08:07 PM
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I find it interesting, because it seems the distinction of BluePill simply being not Redpill as opposed to the opposite of Redpill is lost on many RPers. The red pill ideology had a definition for blue pill people long before y'all "clever" and "witty" "satirical masterminds" created /r/thebluepill. Mirrors of red pill exist and many red pillers were these mirrors at one time or another. We have long called those mirrors and that behavior blue pill. I wouldn't expect people to not be confused if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 07:24 PM
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Women will never "love" you like you want them to. she doesn't love you the way you expect her to. she is incapable of that, and it is not reasonable for you to expect it. so I can't really see how it's a "misquote" or strawman to say that TRP believes women are incapable of unconditional love. Two of the four posts you quoted said the exact thing I rephrased for OP. Furthermore most of the guys posting on red pill are not experts, even endorsed. They're guys who are just as capable of making mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 01:53 PM
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Then why did he misquote a commonly misquoted BP strawman of TRP? I fixed it for a reason, because when properly quoted it doesn't fit his narrative of making RPers as slavers even though he states in his post that slavers were over exaggerated. His argument has holes and as this is a debate sub, I'm pointing them out. He also states without support that TRP is insidious. You can't just make that claim and expect me to not take offense to it. He does compare TRP's evopsych to wmb although I beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 03:43 AM
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Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes ftfy I fail to see how embracing red pill ideology causes me to harm others. I haven't harmed others and if anything I'm more transparent with women that I was beforehand. Men trying to lead happier lives is insidious now. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 03:11 AM
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I want to see what my body is capable of before I die. Ideally I want to dunk a basketball. I'm not close so I'm leaving plenty of room to grow. I don't waste time thinking about death as it is simply wasting time that I could be using to enjoy living.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/14 01:57 AM
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I would imagine your best option to be working your way into district office type gigs, way too much risk being a male teacher.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:46 AM
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Why should any man go through the pain of learning how to be alpha to get one woman who has had all the love in the world? It's only painful at first. Lift, eat right, approach. In a few months you will have had some love to compete with the girls you're after. Suicide is not an answer. Neither is bedding a bunch of women. Get a hobby, find something that makes you happy. Women cannot fill this void. If you hate being a virgin backpage is clicks away. Other wise fake it till you make it. Weak me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 02:13 PM
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"She did kill her baby, but dude she's like an 8! I can't do better than that." Leo has played a few characters recently that are relevant here. Spoilers ahead. In Inception his wife kills her self and effectively takes his kids from him, but that doesn't make him hate her because he knows that he caused that behavior. In Shutter Island his wife killed his children, but he was so in love with her that he refused to believe it because it would be easier for him to live as an insane person than wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 11:40 PM
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I was once pathetic and dorky. I wasn't as bad as some, but I'm simply not proud of who I was before TRP. It's not like I didn't try, the biggest problem was that I was ugly and fat. I learned quickly what actual creepy behavior was. Then I learned that any behavior is creepy when you're unattractive. The desire to not appear creepy was all that I thought about when talking to women. I can say from first hand experience looks and personality are not mutually exclusive. It's so much easier talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 10:40 PM
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Most don't subscribe for the philosophy. Most subscribe to get laid. "Take from TRP what you need, leave everything else."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 08:25 PM
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I can do so because I can see statistics like men off themselves 3 times as often as women but nobody talks about trying to lower that number to be "equal". I don't really see anybody clamoring to fix the fact that men make up 93% of workplace deaths. There was even an article that came out a while ago where feminists were crying about women workplace deaths increasing, but they had not actually increased. The ratio of female to male had gone up simply because male deaths had gone down. How abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 08:17 PM
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Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 04:26 PM
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I've also met men who get upset about what another guy is wearing. I was once wearing a generic school hoodie and while I was at that school a guy got upset because we were wearing the same hoodie. I blame feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 04:02 PM
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I can't really empathize with women getting their periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:43 PM
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Also Daryl Washington who's suspended for drug use broke his wife's collarbone in from of their kid. Ray McDonald just beat up his pregnant wife a week ago and played. The public doesn't even know their names and they're both better than Rice at this point in their respective careers.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:10 PM
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Naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:31 AM
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I'd guess that subset has at the very least 70,000 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:25 AM
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I think it's pretty common for other women to not like submissive women. My experiences would back that up, however limited they may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:07 AM
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Eager to please, made his life easier are both submissive traits. The other things could be considered nice, but I was describing a specific person... not submissive people in general. I did that later in the original post you commented on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:05 AM
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The post you just commented on includes submissive character traits an examples of submissive behavior. The fact that you view these traits/examples as being interchangeable with the adjective nice is ironic when most bluepers condemn RP men for desiring submissive women. If they practice the examples and possess the character traits I listed then yes they are submissive, and they're probably single too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 02:35 AM
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It's funny to me that y'all are equating what it's typically seen as submissive behavior as being nice. I went and looked up submissive character traits seeing as that bank has already been burgled. Traits include: sensitive to criticism, child like presence, sexually aroused by dominant presence, eager to please, looks to me as an advisor, anxious when alone, nurturing, tries to fix everyone's problems, feels like people take advantage of her, not easily trusting or too trusting no inbetween, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 02:13 AM
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Those are often posted as teaching points through positive (red pill) behavior to emulate and negative (blue pill) behavior to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 02:02 AM
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Just because the woman is happy does not mean that the man is. The truth is that western men are not happy with the returns of their efforts with western women. I can easily point to 70,000+ men who aren't happy with where they are in life, and do people care about these men? No, they hate them; call them names, hurl insults, attempt to silence them. /r/theredpill is one of the few places that actually care about men's happiness in a world that sees unhappy men as weak and worthless. Do you ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 01:59 AM
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Perhaps I explained it poorly, but she definitely had less power in the relationship. He made the decisions. They had sex when he wanted it. She practically worshipped him, which ironically was a large cause in their split.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 01:45 AM
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My cousin dates almost exclusively submissive women, but I'm only going to describe his most recent ex. She would buy him gifts all the time without asking him or waiting for a special occasion. She would occasionally just have a low effort meetup and would bring food. If he asked her to get something for him she would go get it. She was extremely cheerful. She made his life easier and was happy to do it. That's the kind of woman I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:30 PM
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Submissive girls are so generous and pleasant in my experiences. I have not been in a LTR with a submissive girl yet, as since finding TRP I'm not really looking for a LTR, but a submissive girl would be enough for me to consider LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:15 PM
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So what would you like be to do with my life that you won't criticize Idgaf what you do with your life. Seeing as you're on reddit I doubt I'd be interested in dating/fucking you. If you are interested in dating me some careers that I look for for LTR would be teachers, writers/columnists, small business owners, part time workers. If you're interested in fucking me, get your weight in the 115-140 lb range, wash your face, and wear dresses. I'll never be some TRPers little bitch to abuse. You'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 04:53 PM
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Funny you mention this, because as he is my buddy I've been trying to show him the red pill way of handling things. He doesn't always listen, but he does occasionally. I told him to next her and just go the party school he wanted to go to (perhaps it should be noted that I never considered that school so it was not driven by personal interest), and he told her he was going to the party school. She then decided that they should get back together which he accepted. His blueness is frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 02:25 PM
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AWALT does not literally imply all women. It's a phrase meant to be used figuratively, this is something blue pillers struggle with. This phrase is a generalization of the behavior of the largest common denominator of women that men on /r/theredpill are interested in fucking. It's hyperbole, it's not now nor has it ever meant to be taken literally. Secondly, no "beta bux" does not refer to women only pursuing relationships with men who are wealthy You have fundamentally read something that was n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 06:09 AM
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You misunderstand. "Alpha fucks beta bucks" does not imply that every woman on earth only desires betas for relationships. It implies that they only pursue relationships with betas who are wealthy. It also doesn't say that women cling to betas, that would be counter to RP theory. It has little to do with this situation as again this is a situation that spotlights how not to hold frame. Neither me not OP posted anything related to the wealth of them men in the examples. Neither of us even charact…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 04:29 AM
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No, and also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 03:42 AM
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.... Frame=/=hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 12:58 AM
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You sound so much like my friends girlfriend, albeit an older version. My buddy was going to go to a college that was closer to her rather than his first choice and she broke up with him. This is a part of frame. RP would advise to never become a part of her frame and here are two similar examples why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 11:15 PM
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Rubber band pull ups or even using a chair can help you gain enough strength to do a pull up. I've been slowly getting into body weight fitness and I can now do 3 sets of 10 pullups with various grip styles, but I started with rubber band pull ups.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:26 AM
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(Edit: Should've mentioned: Ozy has a preference to be referred to by gender neutral pronouns - "ze" or "zir") I hate my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 04:30 PM
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And you know what? I know so many guys that are so much worse off than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 04:47 AM
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You have no idea what it's like to be an average man. I'm young and for some reason blues have issue with this, but hear me out. Some brief background info: I was raised with extremely blue pill values. My parents are not divorced but they might as well have been. My father was much more married to his job than he was my mother. I never understood why until I found /r/theredpill but that's a different story. My cousin has been my best friend since we were little. He was raised very red pill by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 04:01 AM
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CEOs, which are often seen as the pinnacle of success, generally possess dark triad traits at a noticeably larger rate than of common everyday people. Are they successful because they are dark triad? Or are they dark triad because of what extreme success has done to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 05:54 PM
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It's a war against undesirable men. Do you think JLaw took pictures for herself or for some mystery alpha? She wanted to be objectified or else she wouldn't have took the pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 01:30 AM
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I didn't click the link, are the transcripts available? I've worked as construction worker and labourer with my dad since I was 10 (off and on). I've worked as a salad bar clerk in a corporate grocery store for several months. I briefly worked as a door to door salesman. I work firework stands each summer. Now I work security and crowd control type jobs at night life and social venues. I've probably had around 25-30 different female coworkers, supervisors, and HR people I've worked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 09:58 PM
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Most of the women I've "worked" with generally fall into two groups: slacker/time wasters and aggressive bitches. If you're pleasant I tend to forgive work issues, but I will not tolerate bitchiness. I walked out of a job because of how my female coworker and female supervisor treated me and the way that the female HR allowed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 09:53 PM
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What’s more, while 24.3 percent of people found the male employee to be “extremely likeable,” just 2.7 percent said the female employee was “extremely likeable.” And when asked about the dedication of the employee, less than 3 percent of the survey respondents thought the man was “not at all” or “not very” committed to work, but 15.5 percent said the same about the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 09:45 PM
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Didn't he? That's my point. You can't just denounce me but not him, it's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 07:16 PM
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I think this proves that women are typically viewed as bad and/or unlikeable employees. This is accurate to my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 06:51 PM
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So he's a uni student, he must be an expert. I seem to remember a post in TBP criticizing a young RP Man around the same age with a similar background that's only a few days old. How hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 06:44 PM
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I think he's saying that wives were buried with their husband when the husband died implying that in Viking culture women were just as disposable as men. Edit: meaning the wives were murdered/sacrificed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 01:20 AM
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I'd probably think the hotter girl is fake to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 10:38 PM
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I don't wish to divulge my major... but right now all I'm taking are gen ed classes. I have four lectures and three lab/discussion classes. Most of my classes are around an hour long except for one that is around 90 minutes. I have no more than three classes a day which is only Tuesdays and Thursdays and Fridays. I have an hour break between all of my classes during which I usually chill in the library for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 10:12 PM
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College life has so much down time when you're on scholarship. I don't have any back to back classes and am home by 1 or 3 every day. I work 1-2 days a week at social events usually on weekends. I have around 8-10 hours of free time each day. I have some free weights and a pull up bar in my apartment and my complex has a free 24 hour gym. I also walk home from campus sometimes. I haven't checked out my campus rec center yet but I'll probably spend around two hours a day there soon. Don't worry g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 11:00 PM
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I only ask because I'm curious if you're from the west. I don't care about grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 08:53 PM
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I never once said that women are guilty until proven innocent. Men on the other hand are often looked at as guilty until proven innocent. Look at headline rape cases, most of the time having a rape accusation alone is enough to financially cripple a man. On college campuses an accusation alone can often get you kicked out of the university. Women are always innocent until proven guilty, and even then they're way less guilty than a man would be committing the same crime. Go over and check /r/puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 07:00 PM
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I'd like to see a detailed rebuttal if you have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 06:52 PM
1

Is English your first language? Are you from America?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 06:47 PM
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This right here is the reason that men on /r/theredpill do not believe women or wish to help women who claim to have been abused. This is why men on /r/theredpill generally take the man's side in cases where ambiguity is involved like most headline rape cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 06:44 PM
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For allowing the cloud to be hacked...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 06:01 PM
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It seems so completely obvious to me why people, feminists in particular, are upset about these photos; because they were stolen. Because these women had no say in their naked bodies being exposed for the world to see. They could have you know, not taken nude photos of themselves... If I leave my wallet in an unlocked locker at the gym and somebody robs me, guess what it's my fault and I accept that. I could have prevented that from happening. If I leave my keys in my car, I should not be surpri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 04:48 PM
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I didn't give her advice on life. I directed her to a sub that could do better than I, and I told her if she wants to be more attractive then she should lose weight. Think about that for a second. All I did was tell a woman that becoming thinner is more attractive. I even have life experiences in this field as I have lost a ton of weight to become more attractive. So for telling a woman that being skinny is attractive I've somehow earned the ire that goes with being some dumb punk kid. If I had …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 04:34 PM
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I don't believe a good TRP theory exists for dealing with female breadwinners. I'd love being a trophy husband though. Early retirement sounds great to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 02:39 PM
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I'm sorry I'm not sure. I just know that they won the equivalent of a state championship my junior year and were nationally ranked each year I was at high school. They were not an official school sanctioned sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 02:36 PM
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Looks a lot like rugby. My high school had one of the best rugby teams in the state, I wish I would have tried to play that in my early high school years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 01:47 PM
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Man I'm getting white knighted hard for telling somebody to lose weight to feel attractive. Do I really need perspective to see that hard bodies are more attractive than flabby ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 01:26 PM
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You're very much correct about football. The padding used to be to make up for the brutality of the game. I would suggest going onto youtube and looking up a pump up video for football to get the full understanding of why pads were necessary. Helmets on the other hand are kinda like gloves in boxing. They cause more concussions and other injuries than they prevent. Football used to have leather helmets a long time ago, I'd imagine that those are safer. Personally I've had various concussions and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 01:15 PM
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I think I'm pretty qualified to give advice on how to lose weight which is why I gave it. If you consider it marriage advice to tell somebody that their husband will find them more attractive if they are thinner then yes I feel qualified to give that advice too. It's more common sense than advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 01:00 PM
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This is getting off topic, but I've seen very few basketball teams that were in bad shape at the high school level. Our basketball team was crazy in shape because of how they trained. Basketball is what I turned to after football which helped me lose the initial weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 12:58 PM
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Does every action you take revolve around the validation of women? I just want to look good naked. I want abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 03:47 AM
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Does making myself look better please the opposite sex? Yes. Do I make myself look better to please the opposite sex? No, I do it for me. I'm tired of being average or above average. I want everyone to be in awe of me. I'm not limiting my audience merely to women. I want to look like thin Chris Pratt. I want guys to envy my physique. I don't know of any studies that deal with the effects of looks on relationships, but I'd imagine being fit increases sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 03:36 AM
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I'm 18 and just graduated high school. I gained most of the weight in between my junior and senior year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 02:11 AM
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My football coach told me I needed to get to 220 pounds if I wanted to play. A decent amount of it was muscle but I had to put it on so fast that a large amount of it was fat too. I've decided to lose more weight because I'm not happy being just "in shape". I want abs more than I want cookies and sweets. I don't need to make excuses either. As long as I'm breathing I won't surrender. You on the other hand have surrendered. There's always going to be a reason to not lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 01:29 AM
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You haven't ever heard a freshman ask a dumb question? There's too many freshman on /r/theredpill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 12:33 AM
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I stated before that TRP is a locker room. It's a place to talk about things that aren't politically correct and polite. We don't care if people are offended. We're not going to apologize for being men... that's kinda the point of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 12:13 AM
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And what are you? I dropped 7 pounds last week purely on my diet. No exercise involved. I know it can be done because I've done it; 10 months ago I dropped 40 pounds in less than 2 months. What's your excuse? If you don't think you're husband finds you attractive why don't you make an effort to become more attractive? The women of RPW are at least trying, and you call them surrendered. Your attitude makes me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 11:47 PM
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/r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 07:23 PM
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What time was she home around when she was a teacher? I know most of the teachers I had didn't stay after 5 and many left before 4. There is technology today that does over 50% of the graying depending on the test. Integration with things like blackboard are doing what needs to be graded. Lesson planning depends on the course. Almost all of my math teachers through upper level math and dual credit math transferred the book onto the board. Minimal lesson planning. Other areas are going to have mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 01:21 PM
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I met a 25 year old teacher tonight. If I could meet a girl exactly like that when I'm 30 then I'd marry her. I'm not even sure that I believe in marriage, but if I could meet a girl like that again I think I could make it work. Teachers may possibly be the ideal career path for unicorns at least in my opinion. Plenty of time off in the summer and home in time to have dinner ready for me and look after kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 04:30 AM
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...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 03:12 AM
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I'd imagine that he's advocating for more women choosing STEM educations and careers. I see no issue with this. The problem is that women don't want to work in STEM fields. http://techpageone.dell.com/mobile/?id=14482#page_article Now should standards be lowered so more women will join? No. That's what /r/theredpill is against in this category. Lots of career paths (fireman, policemen, military off the top of my head) are or are being forced to lower their standards so more women can be apart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:41 AM
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Are we debating a field report or are we debating hypotheticals? Last time I checked we have ONE version of events. We can discuss what evidence that is available if you'd like. If you want to discuss something that's not available then find somebody else to do it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:08 AM
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2) My personal ideal would be less than two sexual partners (anything below the waist) each year after turning 16. Let's say I met her at 23 and we start dating until 25 and we get married. That formula would allow her to have 14 sexual partners by the time she met me. That will seem high by most red pill standards but my formula includes more activities than just sex. I think it's more than fair. Obviously 5 or below would be the target range but I would not consider her a slut until she surpas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:03 AM
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being an even decent-looking woman means you can have sex with a guy...literally every week It's amazing how many times I've seen blue pillers either try to refute this or flat out deny it's truth. You have gained respect from me if that matters to you. I know most blue pillers would be disgusted with my belief that respect is earned and not given, but you just earned some in my book. So, all that said, how is a woman supposed to lower her standards without riding the cock carousel? I would sugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:49 AM
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He didn't pout. He didn't storm off. He isn't petty. He isn't over sensitive. It could be argued that he is over opinionated. In turn I would argue that women typically wouldn't fuck a man without strong opinions. You might see his behavior as childish. So to satisfy you I will say that even one of those characteristics makes him childish by binary. I do see his behavior as calm and dominant. He allows her to follow his lead if she desires to continue the relationship. He offers two deals to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:14 AM
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Again my question has two answer choices: "yes" or "no". It's what's commonly referred to as a "yes or no question". My question is not open ended. I'm not asking for some spectrum of adult behavior. I'm asking for a binary. Is she acting like an adult or like a child? Again two options: "adult" or "child". Since you have shown you struggle with answering questions I'm going to help you out. I looked up characteristics of childish behavior: pouting when they don’t get their way, storming off, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 11:44 PM
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I don't deem this a good answer to the question I asked. I'm looking for "yes" or "no". Please respond with one of the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 11:31 PM
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She's an adult Is she acting like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 11:25 PM
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White knights typically hate most other men in my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 01:03 PM
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My father feels like it's his duty. He tried to raise me with this mentality so I assume that's exactly how he was raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 10:26 PM
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Your Empathizing Quotient is 25. Baron-Cohen (2003) suggests that this means "you have a lower than average ability for understanding how other people feel and responding appropriately". Your Systemizing Quotient is 22. Baron-Cohen (2003) suggests that this means "you have a lower than average ability for analysing and exploring a system".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 12:35 AM
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I only mentioned one girl who was not attractive or popular in that post, but I have plenty of stories about undesireables. Attractive did not necessarily mean popular at my school. The most popular girls were not all attractive by any means. I had two girls in my class who are trying to remain virginal. I've talked to death about one of them, it's in my history somewhere. The other was really bitchy. I've experienced the middle cute girls pretty well. This was my aiming point when I was fat. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/14 12:31 AM
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And from what I've seen, none of them will marry a non white guy. If it wasn't clear, I don't have problem with races or cultures. One of my best friends is Puerto Rican and I'm better for knowing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/14 12:14 AM
2

You would, tho. ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 11:24 PM
2

I started college today and just recently graduated high school. One girl (4) told me she would fuck alpha of school anywhere if he was interested. She fucked three different dudes in one night in the different encounters. Knew a girl who only dated Mexicans because she loves their culture. Knew a couple girls who aspire to be Kim Kardashian. Many called them "snicker lickers". One of them talked about going out to parties just to get laid. At that point I viewed women as little angels who only …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 11:22 PM
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Game is for pick up artists. /r/theredpill has their own version of game: be attractive, don't be unattractive. "Personality and looks are not mutually exclusive." But if you wish to understand this argument that some guys are having with you, I'll help you out. A 2/10 is playing a numbers game. If his game is strong enough he can and will bang hot enough women. It doesn't matter if A) you're not interested or B) you're hot enough to be considered attractive, because honey you don't matter. You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 10:51 PM
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I have two black roommates and I play a lot of rec basketball. Most of the black guys I know are not very red pill nor were they raised with red pill values. I think what it comes down to, is that they were raised to have good self confidence. That alone shouldn't get them in the door, but at least in the US they have two more things working for them: black men are seen as natural dark triads regardless of their personality types and black men are stereotyped to have big dicks.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:22 PM
1

What's #3?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 03:35 PM
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Hold frame, manufacture drama, and never apologize. No woman wants a yes man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 07:43 AM
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It's in the statistics section.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 05:59 PM
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This is why RPers don't come here. We are burdened to prove things that are either widely accepted or widely known and then once we do go dig up a link, BPers just criticize the link to no end. What's even the point? Him asking me to prove that water is wet is not debate nor discussion. I've now grouped him with la_sabotage in my personal ignore list to avoid these pointless back and fourths in the future. I went and found two links for two separate posts. As of this writing Banal has already at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 05:56 PM
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it’s true that the majority of waiters attend some sort of religious services About 3% of Americans wait until marriage to have sex (successfully) http://waitingtillmarriage.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 05:41 PM
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It is generally true that single women will want a man who is desirable and seen with other women. Part of this is because by her seeing him with other women, this gives her instant social proof that he is a good catch. A lot of this stems from biological roots. The male who has the most dominant character or personality is often the one that is chosen by females to allow the procreation because he will be more likely to protect her and her young. This happens in many species of animals. Of cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 05:25 PM
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We live in a society where men are discouraged from being virgins unless they are religious. This is widely accepted. If you disagree, the burden of proof should be on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 04:38 PM
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In having similar debates with bluepillers before, I've come across the argument that it doesn't really matter whether the relationship is causative or not (there's no evidence that men who sleep around are worse partners because they sleep around)--regardless of any intervening variables, it's just a statistically safer bet to marry a virgin than someone promiscuous. The issue with this thinking from a RP lens is that women don't want men with low partner counts. The argument here is that some …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 04:28 PM
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Male virgins who get married are typically very religious. Getting divorced when you're that religious is highly frowned upon. In this case I'd say the religion plays a bigger factor. Highly religious women exist, but women who sleep with few people are also in higher demand and have been for centuries. A woman would and should have ulterior motives in sleeping with few partners that a man would not necessarily have. In other words your argument has a flaw. It's like doing one experiment with tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 02:22 PM
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I don't mean to be harsh, but I don't care if you like women or men. It doesn't bother me that you like women. It doesn't bother me that you don't like men. I am merely trying to respond to your prompt. You do you. I'll do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 04:07 AM
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Why can't they both be true? AWALT is referring to the greatest common denominator, /r/theredpill doesn't use it to refer to all women. Usual sexual behavior is MF, FF is unusual. Deviant behavior is characterized as being unusual, not accepted, or both. I also find female bodies to be beautiful, so you'll get no argument from me here. Natural? Or comfortable? Like I said earlier I view female sexuality as quite fluid, so today you may not find men attractive but maybe in 5-10 years or maybe jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 03:36 AM
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AWALT is a generalization of the largest common denominator. TRP caters to the average guy trying to bed the average woman. NAWALT is used by TRP to show new comers that literally not all woman are like that. Newbies tend to get confused and this is to help clarify that some women do in fact possess the trait of "loyalty no matter the situation" for example. TBP uses NAWALT to try and instead say that the majority of women don't act that way. It's also a common form of concern trolling. I view f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 02:52 AM
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OP started it! ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 09:56 PM
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She's not your servant or your prostitute. You're a grown man who should take care of yourself or share responsibilities equally. You need to make enough money to get a butler and not a wife. Serving someone is not equivalent to love. I shave my own hair. I cook my own food. I stay in shape. I buy my own groceries. I clean up after myself. I manage my own budget. I do my own laundry. I'm also pretty good at getting myself off, 100% success rate. Why would I be in a relationship with somebody who…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 07:31 PM
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Do you really want a woman to serve you by cooking, cleaning, shopping, laundry, etc? I really want a woman who wants and desires to serve me. If she doesn't, next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 06:19 PM
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I once had a girl tell me she doesn't hang out with people when I asked her to come over. We had the same friend group... I don't think I've ever been more pissed of from a rejection than from that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 03:28 PM
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How do you know I haven't experienced those things? How do you know you're not normal? How do you know I haven't been diagnosed with ADHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 11:21 PM
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If that's what you choose to take from my last comment then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 11:10 PM
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I haven't had wifi this week, I really don't want to go look up better links on my phone. Your not going to convince me either way. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 11:02 PM
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There's plenty who share my opinion. Here's one: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2014/01/08/adhd-is-a-fake-disorder-claims-neurologist-turned-author/ Here's another: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/medicating/experts/exist.html You can find others by searching "ADHD isn't real."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 10:38 PM
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We try to avoid "key your car" and "poke holes in your condoms" crazy. We don't care about OCD for the most part. We advise against saying bipolar girls or girls with dissociative identity disorder and other things of that nature. This won't be a popular opinion, but I don't really think ADHD is a thing. Edit: looks like I've angered the addicts. My sister has an anxiety disorder, and she is so much work to put up with. I would not want to date a girl an anxiety disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 09:55 PM
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Well your best option is to follow the author's lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:11 AM
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If you want to know what it's like to be a man from a female perspective read this: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0143038702?pc_redir=1408373321&robot_redir=1 If you want to pretend like you care, continue arguing for arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:40 AM
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Some from the manosphere would go as far to say women who sleep around have mental issues. Not me personally, just something to think about though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 03:32 AM
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Women have a habit about talking about each other behind their backs. I've heard it from the horse's mouth. Women would talk about their boyfriends would say favorable things about her so they'd spread all kinds of hate against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 10:54 PM
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The alternative in this case is MGTOW. I have to put up with cattiness if I want to date women. I'm not attracted to her behavior in this case, I'm attracted to her body. I have and am often attracted by how pleasant women are to other people. The girl I often mention here as being of unicorn status in this sub is pleasant to everyone she meets. I next women with asshole traits or I teach them how to curb asshole behavior. I never put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 10:28 PM
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It's not hamstering. The man sees how hot she is, he doesn't care about other things. And before you start about this being hypocritical, I have met very few women who weren't willing to talk shit about a friend let alone somebody they openly don't like. Now if she is going further than typical female cattiness to the point where she is giving somebody suicidal thoughts I'd dump her. Many beta men will not because they don't have abundance mentality and will think they can't do better than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:51 PM
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When an obese person tells me they're happier being fat, I feel this. In my mind he is saying one of two things: I'm willingly ignorant of the issues that come with being fat or I'm a masochist. You missed my point, you're likely in a grey or purple area. A true blue piller is incel. It's not about just being dominant or not. It's being the 5'9 white guy who weighs 120 pounds and hasn't had a girl look at him for more than 5 seconds before laughing about how unattractive he is, and then that guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:44 PM
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Women see want they want to see. At TRP we call it hamstering. "He's nice once you get to know him." Sure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:27 PM
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So you're a red pill woman who doesn't want to identify with red pill ideologies. Despite what /r/thebluepill says we don't actually hate women. I suggest you head over to /r/redpillwomen if you don't think you're doing enough to keep your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:24 PM
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I don't like mocking people. Tough love is the closest I get to it. If that's true then you experienced first hand what the difference between what RP considers beta qualities and what you consider beta qualities are. I've said before that pure alphas don't exist, but pure betas do. Incel is what I would consider pure beta. To many RPers the idea that anybody would want or enjoy that life is so ludicrous that they get frustrated. When a man says that he's happier being blue pill, I feel this. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:19 PM
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You =/= everyone How about that guy who used to make fun of me for my weight and acne through middle school and early high school who happened to date two girls with slim waists and big boobs. Was he an asshole? His best friend was just as athletic, slim, and fit. He never made fun of me. I never saw him treat anybody badly. He dated the hottest girl at or school through high school. Was he an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:12 PM
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I will only speak for myself, but the only time I will participate in an action that would be considered mocking is when I'm trying to help somebody. When a fat dude asks me how I did it, I won't protect his feelings. I'll tell him he needs to lose weight first and foremost. I'll do the same right now for you, being a door mat is unhealthy behavior and it will bite you eventually. I'd bet my life on it. I wouldn't have changed if not for assholes telling me what I couldn't do. I personally look …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 09:04 PM
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I won't speak for others, but I've adopted a mentality that my word is my bond. So if I say I will do something I will do it. I wouldn't expect you to be attracted to somebody 20 years older than yourself. But to deny that you find men entering their prime as unattractive is ludicrous. 30+ years old is what I would consider an older man for women in their 20s. Would you turn down Channing Tatum? He's 34 years old. I bet he has the right level of confidence. Men like hot women. They don't like bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 08:53 PM
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If a woman was to openly mock a beta in front of me I would feel disgust. If I was dating that girl I'd dump her. Yet I've known plenty of women who stand by assholes while they make fun of betas in front of them. Most of us at /r/theredpill were betas at one point so it only makes sense that we wouldn't like people who associate with assholes. It doesn't matter that the asshole treats you good. Treating other's like dirt should be a deal breaker. The fact that your defending it makes you just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 08:33 PM
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If she lied about it, next. If she told me her true number and let's say it's 15 then I would communicate to her that her count is typically an issue for me but things are going well so if want to give the relationship a chance. If she reacts positively then I would give her a chance. If she reacts negatively, next. I don't plan on getting married until I hit 30 anyways so chances are her count won't be the last straw before time takes its toll. Some RPers would probably just next her or make he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 08:02 PM
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If you say so, keep dating girls who are promiscuous. It has no effect on me. Just as I will continue avoiding wifing up a promiscuous girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 07:33 PM
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A pencil sharpener that sharpens pencils too frequently becomes dull and useless. Any female 6 could walk in a bar and walk out within 20 minutes with a sexual partner. How many male 6s could do the same in 3 hours on a consent basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 07:21 PM
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I would imagine most of them have little idea what reddit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 07:16 PM
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I'm not making an assumption about women who work in retail. I'm making an assumption about middle+ class white woman whose interests include Twitter and coffee. How many of them do I have to meet before I decide that isn't my type? 15? Or should I not try to learn from my mistakes? This is what I was talking about earlier in regards to comprehension. You get all huffy over nothing because you read something that wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 07:14 PM
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That isn't a baseless generalization, I've met that woman at least 10 times. I even dated her once. Once is enough though, I have no desire to date that girl again. If your curious my former coffee addicted wage slave is getting married soon (she's 18) to her high school sweetheart before she goes to journalism school at one of the state's largest party schools while he goes to the military. You have heard this story before, I bet you could even write the ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 07:02 PM
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I'm six then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 06:56 PM
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Past is a good predictor of future behavior. I've already linked a good source of how her past can affect divorce rates in this thread if you care to see how much her past can affect things. A key that can open any luck is a master key. A lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock. This metaphor exists for a reason it may be hypocritical, but idgaf. Men and women are different. Women have a much easier time getting laid and also have a much higher chance at catching sexually transmitted…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 06:55 PM
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Mainly it's an outlet for me to get out any anger or bitterness. I avoid women who claim to be wage slaves all over Twitter while their moderately+ rich daddies pay for their expenses and their boyfriend pay for their meals. These girls work minimum wage jobs to pay for their Starbucks coffee addictions that is also one of their go to topics of conversation. If you live in the US I would expect you to know these women. They're fairly common. These are the women /r/theredpill refers to when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 06:36 PM
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com·pre·hen·sion/ˌkämpriˈhenCHən/ noun the action or capability of understanding something. Here's seven strategies to improve your comprehension: http://www.readingrockets.org/article/3479
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 06:23 PM
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Why can't I have my cake, eat it too, and remain skinny? Ideally a relationship material girl only sleeps with LTRs. A guy would much rather wife a girl who has slept with the same guy 1000 times than he would sleep with the girl who slept with 1000 guys one each. I don't discourage female sexuality, I discourage promiscuity and fickle actions. The real problem is that female sexuality has seemingly become synonymous with promiscuity which it doesn't have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 06:19 PM
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It depends. I had a class with a girl who's pushing 250, has had a few abortions, just graduated high school and her plan is to work her way up through fast food, she cheats on her boyfriend, her boyfriend is a neck beard red neck who thinks brushing his teeth is overrated, and she's bitchy. I consider her a slut, but that's not where I draw the line. She's a horrible and disgusting person who's not worth human interaction. In this same class I knew a girl whom a bunch of people refer to as "sni…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 05:51 PM
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Perhaps I should have clarified: Studies show that female virgins are less likely to divorce. Studies also show that women who wait longer to lose their virginity are also less likely to divorce. http://freenortherner.com/2013/06/21/sexonomics-odds-of-divorce/ I don't believe such studies exist for men, but your question is something that is actively discussed at /r/theredpill on a weekly basis. I do abstain somewhat, I avoid white trash girls and try to avoid wage slaves with coffee addictions.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 05:35 PM
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Manipulation comes in two forms offers and coercion. An offer allows the other party to make informed consent voluntarily. Coercion is when things like getting a girl drunk our even blackmailing her come into play. Not all manipulation is bad. Just because I take advantage of a situation doesn't mean that she has not gained anything nor does it even remotely mean that she didn't give consent. In my situation with the slutty girl if I was too sleep with her she would gain my validation even if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 05:19 PM
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Would it be creepy if Channing Tatum slept with slutty girls? Studies show that virgins divorce less often. Most virgins also wait until after marriage which is why I would not waist time on a virgin I'm not going to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 04:59 PM
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I know an 18 year old female virgin who is staying abstinent because of her religion. I have described her as being near unicorn status. She doesn't have a lot of female friends because women tend to view her as a competitor. One of her friends is one of the new age women. She is above average intelligence and has a nice ass. She's also a huge slut. Nobody likes this girl, the girl from above is I've of the few shoo tolerate her. She's constantly fishing for validation and sleeps around a lot. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 04:15 PM
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Why don't you go back and read the OP. I read that it hasn't been verified. Don't believe everything you see on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 04:20 PM
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Has that been verified or can I create an account by the name datruth99 with whole different version of events from his side?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 03:05 PM
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I don't know what to believe. Mack sounds like every lying bitter ex girlfriend that I've known. "He couldn't get it up"? Why stop there and not say "he had a small penis"? I don't doubt he hit her but her story seems a little fishy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 02:04 PM
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Yes there are. Funny how starting a fact can cause such a reaction when it doesn't paint women in a positive light. My original comment said that women are smarter than men on average but you must have glossed over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 04:20 AM
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Ha, employment*
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 03:50 AM
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I don't at all doubt that. I'm think male employment may drop to below 80% in the near future (next 30 years). Edit: clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 03:47 AM
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http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/health/2012/07/16/women-beat-men-on-iq-tests-for-first-time/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 03:34 AM
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Oh, absolutely it can be, in my opinion if course. I'm moderately above average and I've often thought that I was too smart for my own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 02:24 AM
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Everybody loves to make excuses for women. The article I linked doesn't list a geological location so I assume it's either worldwide or UK, most likely the latter. I'm from the US if you're curious. Women were not slaves yesterday. I would hope women end up passing men in these areas given the fact that they are given much mute options than men in regards to education. Women receive 4 times as many scholarships as men and more women leave with degrees than men. Obviously I would not expect women…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 02:10 AM
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Number of geniuses is insignificant to the argument that their are more male geniuses than female? There is also more men than women in these professions which is why I brought then up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 02:00 AM
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This is entirely accurate. There are also average to slightly above average women then men in regards to IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 01:57 AM
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Women passed men for higher average IQ recently. At the beginning of this chain I said that women are smarter than men on average. The better question is that now that you have committed to discrediting IQ scores of genders whether you will flipflop and state that IQ matters? Nobody is arguing that environment doesn't have some effect. What you seem to not understand is that like CFRP said genetics plays a much larger role when operating it a society of equal opportunity. And before you go spout…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 01:55 AM
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Are we supposed to debate your prediction about something that is absolutely not vital to RP theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 12:38 AM
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Pilots: http://thetruthabouttheprofession.weebly.com/professional-pilot-salaries.html Oh, and IQs: http://skeptics.stackexchange.com/questions/14190/are-men-smarter-than-women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 11:59 PM
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Eight men exist for every one woman with an IQ over 145. You're right about pilots though. One of my buddies had a pilot for a father and they were loaded. I didn't realize that most pilots aren't do lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 11:28 PM
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TRP actively advocates that men and women are different. It isn't. Men are disposable. Sure we've had great men build society, but how often do purple remember all the men buried inside the great wall after dying during its construction? What about the fact that men make up a majority of workplace deaths? Valuable men have value, the average man is not born with value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 08:56 PM
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Michelle is correct when she says that women are smarter the men. More women go to and graduate college then men. This suggests that the average woman is smarter than the average man. The issue TRP sees with that logic is that it fails to account for the fact that men make up the majority of high paying fields like doctors, engineers, and pilots. Eight genius men exist for every one genius woman. This may also help answer your question in the OP. TRP caters to the average man trying to get in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 08:40 PM
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Women tend to rate average men as unattractive, at least they do online. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ Basically an average man (6) would likely be rated around a 4. But there is a twist, the tv show brain games (http://m.youtube.com/?#/watch?v=5PKmFdrjxPg) had women rate a series of men. The least attractive man (5) was used as the face off a fake dating profile. He was given a 100,000 a year salary and suddenly women decided he was much more attractive, a coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 06:36 PM
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If you consider 2-3 years negligible or as being in the same age then yes it would be the norm. I consider 2+ years older to indicate that she is marrying somebody older than her self. She isn't marrying a 27 year old like her self, she is marrying a 29 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 05:51 PM
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albeit less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 05:34 PM
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Women typically marry a man that is older than them. This means that it is unusual for a woman to date a guy younger or even the same age albeit less so. The women (the majority) who marry a guy older than them are more attracted to him than somebody their age or younger. This means that she gives him a boost in sexual market value for being older. Around 30 years old a man experiences his peak assuming a few things: he still has his hair, he is still in shape, and he is at least moderately succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/14 04:31 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. If I can't get hard for her then I'd consider it involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 10:46 PM
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Watch the video, he doesn't say it like that. Again watch the video and then you will understand what's it's like to be incel. It's not that long, if you really care about understand incels, watch the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 10:43 PM
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Tell me how you really feel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 08:20 PM
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You seem to understand so this isn't necessarily directed at you. On TRP we are exclusively trying to sleep with women so we don't often talk about the downfalls of men because it has little relevance to sleeping with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 04:39 PM
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Yes and I doubt you would see a red pill man take offense to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:56 PM
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When TRP says a woman doesn't or can't love a man it's saying that a woman doesn't or can't love a man I'm the way he often expects her to love him. Many men think a woman's love is like that of their mothers and that's what they expect it of people they're dating. Many men grow up with such Disney and romanticized ideals of women that they think that a woman will never do them any wrong. Chris Rock does a bit about it that's available on YouTube, I'll find it if I have time. He says something a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:31 PM
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I started using Swype keyboard on my phone and it doesn't always recognize what I say. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:10 AM
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Ftfy is an acronym typically used on the internet that stands for "fixed that for you".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:08 AM
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A commonly misunderstood red pill tenet is the fact that women are incapable of loving their partners. Ftfy Edit: autocorrect issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 03:01 AM
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That first story didn't happen. It's so badly made up that I stopped reading afterwards. "What is twitter?" Yeah, there is no way a police officer, no matter how old, doesn't know what twitter is by now. She may have received the quoted threats, but there is no way a police officer took her seriously at all. I'm not familiar with the author but it seems like she likely writes a lot of feminist and click baity articles. Modern feminism is very anti-man, so it should be no surprise that her articl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 02:08 AM
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I misunderstood you. I didn't realize you were still referring to that quote. My anecdote was the percentages, I wasn't even talking about that quote anymore. They exist but they are invisible, these are the guys who end up being 30 year old virgins. You probably don't know a lot of these guys, and it's because they are invisible. They for sure don't make my statistics any more or less pointless than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 11:48 PM
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This is completely untrue. TRP advises men to not get married. It doesn't advise men to screw over women, that's your own personal fantasy of TRP. Spend a few days reading the side bar and you would know this. TRP also advises men who are married to try to fix their relationships first and foremost because of the fear of being divorce raped. If divorce is necessary so that the man can be happy, then TRP advises men to prepare for the divorce so that they won't be divorce raped. NO MAN IS GETTING…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 11:13 PM
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I was giving a personal anecdote to support my statement that people exist on a spectrum not binary. That is a truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 11:00 PM
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In this case I was referring to /r/thebluepill member types, so it would be things I've read. I don't have many blue pill friends anymore, but I would say that the quoted line of thinking is pretty common among elder people I know (not a lot of my friends are married yet). It's a spectrum. I'd say about 15% of men I know lean red. Another 15% is purple. Probably 30% lean blue. The last 40% are invisible so it doesn't really matter how they lean, and I would know as I used to be in this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 09:55 PM
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The sentiment on TRP is to not get married, but I just don't know how practical that is for those whom intend on having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:30 PM
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Blue pillers seem to see a bad marriage and think divorce, instead of learning and working to make the marriage stronger. Do you really believe an ideal era exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 07:12 PM
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In arranged marriages the two spouses are expected to learn to love each other, it's funny to me that in consenting marriages people like you seem to have the opposite expectation. In the 50s and earlier women were incentivized to try and make their marriages work, nowadays what is there to incentive women into staying married? Most women marry men with higher or equal incomes, when they get divorced the man was always "abusive", even if you have kids the legal system is set up in such a way tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/14 06:02 PM
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... isn't it obvious they are real characters?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 05:16 PM
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I love the show, it also has a bunch of RP truths if you want to get into those. I've been watching since it started, but I usually have nobody to talk to about it though :( Lizzy is probably one of my favorite actresses right now. BP me hates that she wouldn't give schmuchy Ethan a shot, RP me thinks it was her last real shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 04:47 PM
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In a locker room guys get get to learn from their (slightly) elders. They talk about things that aren't politically correct and they seek out each other's advice. /r/theredpill is very similar except there are much more freshman than there are seniors. I don't know, I'm not a mod. Many red pillers will validate any red pill concept for solidarity or some shit. Most veterans on the other hand are not loyal to TRP but instead to what works. If you want to read high quality red pill concepts go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 12:01 PM
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It's impossible though that it could be relationship problems though, right? Alright it's possible, but extremely unlikely right? I know we have little evidence on anything besides relationships, but just because we do have evidence potentially linking his issues with women to his suicide doesn't mean that's the cause, right? I just don't understand the blue pill mindset to avoid what's in front of you until every card is on the table. What is so bad about connecting the dots? I don't mean to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 05:51 AM
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PPD's mods are all BP. CPR seems pretty unbiased, but doesn't exactly advocate for red pill ideologies. The red pill ideology did not originate on reddit. /r/theredpill at this point serves only as a locker room. While the locker room is valuable it has obvious drawbacks. I reported that thread for two reasons. The TRP post was obviously a troll and asking for an opinion on a troll post has little to do with debate. When I saw that thread here I found it on /r/theredpill and reported it there to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 05:44 AM
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Neutral was not the only thing asked for though; you're forgetting that my response was also asked to be brief. I could write about what gets people worked up, but in reality these issues have very little relevance into what TRP is. Take from TRP what you want; most "blue pillers" typically seek out hate speech and are surprised when they find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 04:30 AM
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Do I really need to explain what a strong male role model is? It's a man who is successful in his financial and romantic endeavors. Am I? Game specifics are rarely discussed on TRP. If you want game specifics go to Seddit. Attitude against feminism aligns with conservative traditional values. TBP is not filled with blue pill men, its a sub for naturals and women to poorly mock and quote non politically correct ideas. A blue pill man is an incel. Incels use TRP to get laid and become better men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 03:46 AM
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That's the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:57 PM
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Just use flair, it's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:06 PM
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I would have it as a third category.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:01 PM
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His first divorce was in 1988.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 10:57 PM
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Why do you think he became depressed? Did you hear that in his most recent marriage he was sleeping in a separate room from his wife? I'd bet money his relationships with women caused a depression reinforced by 2 (with the potential of a 3rd) alimony payments each month. Why else would he be depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 10:18 PM
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An introduction to TRP. A shortish paragraph of neutral language including a short history and a statement of goals. TRP is an ideology used to help men learn what being a man is all about. Western men are growing up with increasingly fewer strong male role models from which young men can learn from. Because of this men all over the western world grow up having a limited understanding of both what a healthy relationship is and how to maintain one. TRP aims to teach these men what both are. TRP l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:47 PM
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"Why do you want to rob the bank when it’s already been burgled?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:18 PM
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A guide to what constitutes debate would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:39 PM
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I took some higher level art classes in high school. Met a few SJWs that way. I've met a bunch of the caricatures from that thread which leads me to believe either reddit doesn't go outside or when they do they have blinders on. I'll edit in some examples in a second: Women who don't like when you open doors for them. Met plenty of girls who act like its expected, but most do thank you. Taco bell shits are definitely a thing. I didn't think this was debatable. The friendzone is real. Been apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:31 PM
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Some may think she would be grateful to get an escape mechanism that she does what it takes to please her man. This is the logical thought process men will have. Besides it's my decision to bring her back, it's not necessarily manipulation on her part. Who said I'm not using her? You can't negotiate attraction though, so in this situation a healthy level of dread would be necessary. Staying in good physical shape is a given. "A man provides for his family."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:46 PM
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Being a provider=/= beta bucks Being a provider to a girl you're not fucking is beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 03:59 PM
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Looks matter much more over internet than in person. Status matters much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:07 AM
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Man this strikes home for me. The day that my mother stopped hitting me was the day I almost hit her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:08 AM
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AWALT ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 02:58 AM
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Factually, TRP thinks that Eastern women are more pleasant and raised more traditionally than Western women. I don't plan on leaving the States personally. I have considered Canada, but even though I hate so much about this country I can't imagine going somewhere else. Now as far as sex tourism goes, I have heard some good things about Thailand from my cousin. Apparently American money stretches extremely far there. I don't really find Asian women attractive, but supposedly Thailand is a decent …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 01:09 AM
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What would you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 12:18 AM
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It's interesting to me that so many BP/PPers have recently claimed that they aren't from America as I always saw TRP as mainly combatting western women. Does anybody have a link to a PPD demographics by location of BP/RP members?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 08:14 PM
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I dislike the "real men do" movement also. This thread is about an idealized society, in my idealized society women wear dresses. The women in my area are not very feminine. The women who do express their femininity typically wear dresses on occasion. Correlation doesn't equal causation, but a correlation does exist. I'll try to find it for you. Edit found it: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pressure-proof/201303/women-happiness-is-it-still-declining The government also defined the people at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:55 PM
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Oh there is a subset. Really all I want is somebody who picks up after themselves and occasionally others. It's what I do and I expect it out of any relationship romantic or platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:15 PM
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I like women who express their femininity and dresses are an uncommon sight in the area I live in. I disagree. Previous generations of women were happier than current generations according to studies. The current generation gets divorced much more often. Yes. As a former obese person yes I do think that fatshaming helps. They should feel bad enough to make a positive lifestyle choice and get healthy. The US was built on the idea that allowing everyone to have representation would lead to corrupt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:59 PM
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Absolutely, but the area I'm from its an uncommon sight to see a woman in a dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:54 PM
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I want to be in a relationship with a moderately rich girl who knows the value of a dollar. A girl who cooks and cleans because she wants to and not because she has to. Ideally she initiates sex a couple times a week. This woman is not a career woman and instead works part time jobs or has a job she can do online, maybe a writer. She is fit and works to maintain her body. She is pleasant and kind, but has a quick wit and can make and take jokes. But all this is just a dream of some unicorn, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:53 PM
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Ideally men would be encouraged to be men and women would be encouraged to be women. That doesn't mean that a woman is forced to stay at home in the kitchen, but instead is raised in a way in which this sounds like a good life to her. Women would wear dresses. Divorce would be considered taboo and instead of cutting your losses at this point husbands and wives would work together to fix their relationship. Cheaters are ostracized, but there are no winners of a divorce. Schools would be segregate…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 05:38 PM
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This is a fair argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:20 PM
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That's not what AWALT refers to. It's a term to remind betas that women are people too and have flaws. Women are hypergamous, nearly all of them. This is a scenario where AWALT would be used. And before you start, we don't care about attracting or describing the behavior of other men which is why we don't have an equivalent. Every time you bring this up all I can think about is the "feelz before realz" denomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 03:07 PM
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I've said before here that the MRA part of TRP should be removed, I would think that a majority of hateful comments come from the pussy pass and divorce rape threads. I spend more time reading /r/alreadyred nowadays. It's much higher quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 03:02 PM
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I didn't read the article, but if a woman tried following me home I would call the police and get a restraining order filed. That's some crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:59 PM
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Are people meant to be together monogamously for life? Are people meant to be anything? I'd argue we are meant to reproduce, outside of that I can't think of anything we are meant to do. Should polygamy and bigamy be legal? Yup. If it doesn't hurt anyone it should be legal imo. Probably wouldn't be a part of that lifestyle though. Should prostitution be legalized? Yup. Legal prostitution would improve the lives of johns and sex workers alike. It has also shown to lower the rape rates as less wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:34 AM
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BP attraction doesn't exist. Go to vimeo and search "Shy Guys: IRL". That is what a BP man is. A BP man is an incel. If you had spent the necessary time familiarizing yourself with the sidebar you would know enough to not have to ask this question. TRP has always maintained that a mix of alpha and beta is necessary for relationships. Chances are your guy is alpha enough in other ways to make up for his beta traits. If he isn't, then guess what TRP also accounts for this: TRP caters to the averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:27 AM
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You just don't get it. If he rails the girl then the movie is about him finally getting his dick sticky. There's plenty of movies that have that plot. We remember this movie because it dared to go deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:05 AM
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Lack of sex was never his problem, nor did he think that at any point in my opinion. What Lester lacked was happiness. The way I interpret it is that in the moment that she tells him that she is a virgin he realizes that sleeping with her would ruin her. He thinks to himself he can't be this girl's first, he would be taking advantage of her especially under these circumstances. The message of this film is the beauty that exists in everything around you that people just ignore and walk past with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 06:00 AM
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I don't know if you guys will find this interesting or not, but recently I got a job working in night life venues and concerts. Typically +-5 women will touch me inappropriately while on the job. Nearly +-10 will say inappropriate comments to me while on the job. I do view it as sexual harassment, it's quite annoying. Most of the women are pretty ugly but on a few occasions an 8 will try the same thing. I view catcalling in the same way. I am not at these venues to be harassed, women aren't walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 04:09 AM
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I doubt any of them were in my shoes at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 04:18 AM
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context...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:32 AM
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If a hot woman tried I would think "I'm about to get robbed and stabbed."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:24 AM
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Funny you have to insult me on a debate forum to try to argue a point. Why don't you go learn how to debate a point, grow a pair and use the red pill flair, and then come back and reply to this. Men would not be as trusting as women in this situation. If a man pulls up to a woman in a car, he wants to fuck her. If a man or woman pulls up to a man in a car the man is much more likely to be the victim of a crime than getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:21 AM
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I don't subscribe to vitaly, but I believe he only posts things that will draw reactions. So the women who have said no are likely edited out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:15 AM
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He didn't lie to her. He was standing 5 feet from the lambo and 10 feet from his car. He simply asked "Do you wanna go on a ride?". She said yes and when she realized he wasn't talking about the lambo she walked away. Go look up vitaly, it was posted in the last 48 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 01:12 AM
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This thread asked my opinion on single mothers. It did not ask for my opinion on dark triads who ditch their family. Also there is a proverb that comes into play here: "You can't trust a dog, but you can trust a dog to be a dog." Women, your actions do have consequences. I didn't say they did. It's funny to me how you seem to misinterpret or twist my words after every comment. I'm not saying anything that you don't see on the screen. Quit trying to read into something that isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 10:17 PM
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The particular video may be exclusive to China, but people picking up chicks in lambos and putting it on youtube is not. Vitaly goes around in a lambo everywhere and picks up chicks. He just put up a video the other day where he asked a girl if she wanted a ride near his lambo, she says yes and then he walks to the car behind his lambo which is just some suv. She walked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 10:08 PM
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Men who flock to TRP typically grew up without a strong male influence in their lives. My parents are not divorced but my father is very distant and also is the biggest white knight I know. He has no fight in him left. The most alpha presence in my life was my uncle who my father cut out of my life over my mother's actions. A majority of psychopaths are raised without a male influence by single mothers, I have a link somewhere I'll edit once I find it: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/12/17/o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 09:34 PM
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No tingle, we sometimes are unaware that we have a boner. I dropped 50 pounds of fat and have put 10 pounds of muscle on so both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 08:13 PM
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Depends on when the boner happens. Usually I get a half chub over something random or nothing at all and it becomes a mild inconvenience. Being fully hard by itself doesn't have too much of feeling. It's not a secret. Even when I'm not working out I probably look at myself in the mirror for about 2 minutes every single time I pass a mirror. I recently dropped my body fat percentage by about 5-10% so I like the way I look a lot more now. Nobody likes a pussy (man). Locker room talk can play a hug…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 07:47 PM
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OP put the link in a reddit log.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 05:12 PM
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Not the target audience, but I think in this way: "Would I help her if she was a man?" In this situation I wouldn't be much help (I'm garbage with cars) so if I'm on a busy Highway I'm driving away. If I'm in the boonies then I'll probably pull over and offer a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 10:57 PM
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You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 10:53 PM
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I don't date men, so he's out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 09:51 PM
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My mother was a stay at home wife for a while. During that time we (the kids) did all the cleaning. I cooked at least 3 nights a week for the whole family. Around 2 nights a week we kinda fended for ourselves which meant food like ramen. My dad brought in all the money through his job as a contractor and then was nagged about wanting to relax when he got home. He eventually started remodeling the home on weekends when he wasn't working. Then my mom went back to college. So my dad had to spend mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 06:45 PM
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You're right he has the hardest job in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 05:57 PM
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A woman should live her life before she meets me... She can have interests and hobbies and spend time doing those. I know plenty of women whose interests and hobbies are getting fucked up and social media... so preferably not that. She can have a job or career, but she must understand that jobs and careers are just means to an end. If she puts her career first, then I'm out. If she doesn't want a career I'd imagine that she's out gold digging. I'd have to be careful around such a woman. However,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 04:08 PM
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It's funny she chose Kant because Kant also believes that animals, infants, and the mentally challenged have no rights in a moral community because of their irrationality. So if you subscribe to both Kantian ethics and TRP you would believe that women have no rights in the moral community. I don't think I've seen many RP men who think women don't deserve rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:58 AM
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Well when he works half as much as you do while you have half your income to spend on yourself you might change your mind. Especially after divorcing for some reason. And what if you can't afford to pay him alimony? That's right you go to jail where you will likely lose your job and still be required to pay the same amount of alimony. Anyways I'm tired of this hypothetical, I'm off to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:28 AM
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I know a stay at home dad who seems to have a successful marriage with his brain surgeon wife. I haven't met her or even seen her but I know I would love to go into early retirement. Here's the deal with you; you are at least aware of TRP. So at the very least you can understand your actions and even try to spite us to prove us wrong. I know I'm stubborn enough to try proving people wrong. Most unaware women won't have close to the chance as you do. And he will be prepared. Luckily for him even …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 03:09 AM
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"A recent study conducted in the U.K. by accountancy firm Grant Thornton revealed that “falling out of love” and “growing apart” have now surpassed extramarital affairs as the number one reason for divorce. For the first time ever, women are openly admitting that they are bored with their marriages and are not afraid to do something about it. When asked why she decided to leave her husband, Lanie* age 28, says “He’s a good guy. I just wasn’t in love anymore. I’m still young. I wanted something m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:55 AM
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Then don't get married. Here's some examples from me: My former best friend's mother divorced her husband because he wasn't romantic enough. He was an engineer who helped her start a failing business that never missed a single one of his three kids sports games. He didn't change, she just got bored that she couldn't brag about any thing he did for her. Meanwhile she got fat and gets drunk a lot. Another former best friend's parents. Mom divorced dad because he got injured while working construct…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:44 AM
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If you're so worried about him changing then don't get married. I'm sure there's WGTOW movement. This way you can focus on your career even. Now if you want some real advice on how to prevent those situations then I'll try my best to hand it out. If he starts gaining weight tell him "You need to lose weight". Men aren't sensitive about this kind of shit. If he cheats on you its usually because he isn't getting enough from you, or he's a scumbag. Be intimate with him, and participate in sex. Blow…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:21 AM
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Married men are slightly more likely to cheat Ftfy Her hypothetical marriage didn't end in infidelity. It ended with her becoming bored of the man she married. Bringing up infidelity rates in marriage has no connection to this discussion. The man's only crime was changing over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 01:59 AM
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Source? (Men cheat more) Ha down voted for asking for a source. Ah, BlooPers make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 01:47 AM
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These aren't conflicting ideas, I really don't understand the confusion. I don't care if you have a successful career. I don't seek out cashiers but I don't go looking for high earning women either. Your resume is not as sexy as you think it is. Also what is wrong about getting off on being needed? It makes me feel useful instead of the uselessness that I've felt like the majority of my short life. Who gets off on feeling useless? "Years of loyal servitude"? Your hypothetical women is ditching h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 01:31 AM
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Everything is manipulation. Asking somebody to pass you the remote is manipulation. Manipulation comes in two commonly accepted forms from a ethical view: offers and coercion. Offers give a person a choice to be manipulation so long as they are voluntarily informed enough to consent a choice. Ex: I ask a girl to be FwBs. She says yes. It could be argued I'm manipulating her, but I voluntarily informed her and she gave consent. Coercion are commonly referred to as more manipulative. Ex: Getting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 11:37 PM
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Hypergamy refers to social status also. You married a musician which is a well known social proof advantage. Hypergamy refers to the idea that a woman is always WILLING to trade up. In your situation I'm assuming you guys are doing alright. Now for instance let's say that your husband breaks his back, gets a mountain of medical debt, gets depressed, and puts on weight while he's recovering. You're husband mat be thinking "she loves me she will never leave me". But those are obviously reasons to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 11:12 PM
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If a woman wants to withhold sex from her partner she needs to find a new partner. Dread game is a tool used to combat women who think that it's ok to withhold intimacy from their partner. These women will have sex around 1 a week max and just lay on their back like a dead fish. The view sex as a chore. Dread game is merely supposed to remind them that sex is part of a relationship. Why do you condemn men for having needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 08:15 PM
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I love it when attractive women approach me. Unfortunately it happens pretty rarely, when I get approached it's typically by women who are much older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 05:28 PM
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I see it as necessary. Women tend to become "comfortable" after a while. When she feels comfortable she sees you as coming from a place of scarcity. Without the abundance mindset she will lose attraction. No woman wants a man than nobody else wants. Having a boyfriend is often social proof and if he isn't a positive to her social proof she'll find a branch to swing away. I think a regular reminder that "I can get sex elsewhere" is healthy for the relationship. I don't advocate cheating, but this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 05:18 PM
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I'm motivated to find somebody who doesn't want to part with me till death.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:44 PM
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You're explanation is a little faulty, but it's not a bad starting point. You forget that TRP is mainly aimed at forming ONS, FWB, and plates for reformed incels. As such it would make more sense than you give us credit to stay in an alpha or positive dominant state. For LTR, TRP has maintained that you need to mix in some beta or positive submissive traits in order for the relationship to work. You're understanding of shit tests is also a tad limited. Shit tests don't merely exist between peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:35 PM
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Like separate bathrooms. Oh the injustice! I didn't think this was really a thing, shiiit. http://www.xojane.com/issues/crappy-system-why-separating-men-s-and-women-s-bathrooms-illogical http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2013/12/26/gender_neutral_bathrooms_all_bathrooms_should_be_open_to_all_users.html Do you want to know why we don't talk about the negative traits of men on TRP as much as we do women? It's because TRP is a sub for sexual strategy. Most of us don't want to fuck men, it's not ai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 03:35 PM
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Why do women think it's appropriate to define men? How about this, you're not a woman unless your 5'5, bangin with big tits all while weighing less than 140 pounds. Is that fair? No, and no a real man doesn't want to date "curvy" hambeasts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 06:18 AM
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Different =/= inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 10:33 PM
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In general: allowing your man to be a man, men have friends so don't try and get rid of his friends and don't limit his exposure to his friends, do something for your man every once in a while, initiate sex, support him when he makes decisions, if he sets boundaries don't cross them, laugh at his jokes, don't talk down to him, never become a unit, allow him to be himself while not revolving your self around him, if he is in a quiet mood be silent until he speaks up, and if he makes an effort to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 07:32 PM
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I've said before that I don't believe that MRA should be a part of TRP. I'd go as far to say that I wish that the MRA flair is removed from TRP. I see it as hypocritical to preach about getting fit and becoming a real man and then whine and complain about shit like /r/pussypass. Nobody respects a whiny bitch and no woman wants to fuck one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 06:33 PM
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I'll offer up Gatsby seeing as my name is a quote. Plenty of red and blue throughout. Really good soundtrack. Leo. Edit: I don't know if we want to stick to just films, but seeing as I just today finished The Office I feel that could also raise a few talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 04:44 PM
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This is a good argument. RP we've been going at this the wrong way all this time. What we really need to get out cult to focus on is eugenics. Only the most alpha men should reproduce. If you're bald get snipped. If you're under 6'3 get snipped. If you aren't white get snipped. If you don't have blond hair get snipped. If you have blue eyes, spread your seed. No fat chicks though, we don't need any more womym with condishuns. RP stop working to allow the 80% of men who don't get their share. Nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 05:21 AM
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The comment that you linked seemed to know a lot about the mating habits of many different species of apes. I can only assume he has learned all that he has through observation of the species mating habits, or at the very least reading about it. He/she tried to discredit the comment about social hierarchies by listing out a bunch of social hierarchies of those different species. It's interesting to me that he never once considered to observe the mating habits of human beings. Instead he rambles …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 03:17 AM
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I don't comment on things I don't have evidence to back up my arguments on. I'm usually too lazy to go and look up my links, but that's not the point. I have never personally said I'm open to being proven wrong either, if a day comes where I'm proven wrong I guess I'll find some way to cope. TRP's truths are backed up by evidence that is either widely anecdotal or based on scientific studies, and sometimes being a combination of the two. We don't form conclusions without evidence. It's a work in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/14 01:13 AM
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Seconded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 11:50 PM
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TRP has always stated that women are the gate keepers of sex. This means that a woman merely has to tell a man "we can have sex" and she will likely get laid. This is a large reason TRP is not open to the idea of an open relationship because the woman can much easier find a suiter than the man. This is also where the phrase "A key that can open any lock is a master key, but a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock". You're correct in saying that the most attractive women have the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 11:14 PM
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It's my understanding that BPers view this as debunking a TRP truth that either men and women aren't equal or that women are smarter than men. Men and women are obviously not equal. All you have to do is Google "average men vs women" and you will find little that is equal. Men and women are biologically different, look no further than hormones. Different does not mean worse contrary to popular BP belief. I don't wish to date men, if I truly hated women I would switch sides. The second argument i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 10:25 PM
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The harshest rejection was "I just don't hang out with people", but that was from my blue pill days. Usually it's just no or no thanks; they don't exactly make a scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 12:51 PM
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TRP is a numbers game. I have been turned down many times, this used to bother me... But then I realized that their are women out there who will say yes. It doesn't bother me much anymore. Lately I've been much more passive because of my living situation and have let women who are interested in me pursue me. This hasn't worked very well but my living situation will change a lot in a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 04:23 AM
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Well typically after the common core EOC student attendance drops through the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 03:02 AM
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I will give a personal anecdote. I went to a very good highschool. My highschool teaches more than common core. With common core implemented the high achieving students are limited to how far they can achieve. A good school like mine is held to the same standards as the poor inner city schools. The inner city is not getting smarter, they are bringing everyone down to their level. That's what equality means in the sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 01:49 PM
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Honestly I think the American education system is awful. Not awful for just boys, awful in general and it's only going to get worse with Common Core. The bar across the nation is being lowered and nobody seems to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 11:02 PM
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Little boys run around and want to play and be active. From the moment they turn 5 in America they are trained to sit and stay still for half of their conscious hours. If the primarily female teacher base can't break these kids they are force fed ADHD and ADD pills making these kids zombies. Then they go home and sit in front of the TV and play video games. The lunches are primarily frozen food with lots of preservatives served in very tiny proportions. Kids either end up buying snacks along sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 10:41 PM
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Idgaf. It's my belief. Well to be fair I'd much rather her being a lesbian than nearly anything else I consider sexually deviant. It would be hard to look at my daughter if she was into BDSM or bukake gangbangs. It's deviant whether you agree or not. de·vi·ant/ˈdēvēənt/ adjective departing from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behavior. Usual behavior is heterosexual relationships, departing from that is deviant. I wouldn't encourage her to deviate from the norm in mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 04:33 PM
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I view homosexuality as a choice. So I wouldn't encourage her towards a deviant relationship, but I'm not going to kick her out of my house if she starts going through a phase or decides that she is a lesbian. I don't have issues with homosexual people so it would not change our relationship that much if really at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 03:19 PM
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Teach her that femininity is a good and desired trait for women. I'll also get her involved in lots of extracurriculars whilst encouraging her o find one that she can get scholarships for. Incentivize good grades, punish poor grades. Early curfew (7 or 8 pm) until she's 16. Teach her how to cook. Just some simple things that I try to encourage with my younger sister. The breads already baked with her, but hopefully I can better shape my daughters into unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 02:37 PM
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The men on my grandmother's side of the family have hair. My great grandfather had hair til the day he died. I'm in no way worried about losing my hair,and if that day even happens I can pull off a shaved head. You guys are getting ridiculous, none of the males in my family are bald. None, zilch, zero. I am not going to go bald to satisfy your need for karma against those evil red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 02:14 PM
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Im not at all worried about the number of options I'll have by the time Im 35. Every man on both sides of my family has a full head of hair; unfortunately they all have full stomachs after all 4 meals they eat each day. Most couples I see involve an older man than the woman. I see very few with an older woman. My template is obviously rough and will be compromised if a unicorn comes around/is made. Maybe she's only 5 years young and I get married at 32. Maybe I don't get married. Regardless I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 03:01 AM
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I consider it negligible, you may not. We'll have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 01:02 AM
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Well I have little emotional attachment to my future wife at the moment. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:48 AM
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The best thing about the male biological clock is that it's usually reversible. " Using the male biological clock to describe a man's fertility as he ages is a bad choice of words. The phrase conjures up a false sense of finality. If you look at the percentage of men over age 50 with low testosterone, it's about 15 percent. In comparison, nearly 100 percent of women over age 50 have low estrogen." My risks are much, much smaller than female risks. I don't plan on having kids when I'm 60, probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:22 AM
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It was just something I came up with as a template. Obviously it's unlikely to happen that way to a tee. I guess I forget people aren't like me too often. I probably shouldn't expect student loans paid off until 30ish? Maybe later? I haven't looked too far into this as I won't have much student loans even while going to an out of state school. I should probably revise my template. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:15 AM
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Looks are most important, they are not the only trait of importance. Attraction cannot be negotiated. I have friends, if I'm marrying a woman it's for more than friendship. There is a romantic element that needs to be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 12:01 AM
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My fertility isn't at stake. I hope to be happily married in a "captain firstmate" relationship then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 11:50 PM
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There's a study that shows that women with lower partner counts divorce less. I might find it, but I have to cook dinner soon. http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x/abstract I don't desire a stay at home wife unless I end up making 6-7 figures. I'm 18 and I'm not considering marriage until I'm 30. I'm thinking in an ideal scenario I get married around 35 to a wife around 25. Hopefully she's been out of college long enough to pay off student loans, if she has lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 10:52 PM
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An expression attributed to fraudulent salesman from the old west. They would sell magic elixirs/snakeoil claiming that it could cure any ailment while traveling town to town. In this case PUA sell their advice saying things like "it will unlock Pandora's box" and you will magically get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 05:48 PM
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It's basically snakeoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 05:42 PM
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Never been to seddit, I tried PUA long before I discovered reddit and TRP and that didn't work for me. PUA try to profit off of weak men and that rubs me the wrong way. There is no "pandoras box" which was a pretty common PUA term when I tried it. I've found that trying to mold myself as being the most desirable man possible is the better way. I can get away with so much more by simply being desirable. TRP describes this as "a woman wouldn't say no to Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum". Why should the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 05:31 PM
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I've had worse happen to me and seen a lot worse happen to a particular friend, regardless I was poking fun at your point. Ugly people are still people. How many extremely attractive guys do you know who are creeps? I'm willing to bet none.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 03:38 PM
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Should I be free to live from freedom from harassment? "Hey you make me horny because I'm curvy (fat) and you're fit!" "Fuck off" "OMG STOP FATSHAMING ME"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 02:47 PM
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I like this idea, not sure how/if I will like it in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 01:33 AM
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If the man in question actually knew that she was not interested in him he would dump her. Chances are she doesn't view it as rape like your inferring it is, and chances are that he could find a woman that will return a kiss. I know for a fact that I would not tolerate if a girl I was dating viewed sexual advances as rape. Next, somebody is capable of loving me. If you truly believe that a woman refusing sexual advances to the man she is dating is a part of a healthy relationship I'm not sure wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 12:27 AM
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A woman is considered an adult at 18 years old. An adult can consent to sex with anybody she chooses. Disagree? No? Then shut up. This is such a stupid but not uncommon argument for you. You should be able to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 11:39 PM
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It could be funny, but it was you equated that. Not I. This thread asked for a PUA opinion. I provided my attempt at being a PUA coming from a period of being blue pill. After this period I returned to being blue pill. Regardless I think our definitions of funny are just fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 11:34 PM
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ex·clu·siv·i·ty noun \ˌeks-ˌklü-ˈsi-və-tē, iks-, -ˈzi-\ : the quality or state of being exclusive Hopefully some will see the way I live my life as being a success story that can drown out the crazies. Not everyone there is a woman hater, and I identify as RP because I believe in it. I, finding out just before I turned 18, wasted so much time being BP. I hate seeing others making the same mistake as I see myself in them. It reminds me of unhappy I was once. Our happiness matters, that's the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 11:12 PM
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This is not meant to be condescending, but do you know how IQ is measured? 100 is near the average IQ. In that post ignorant women (lower than 85) get deducted a point. Slightly below to average (85 to 100) get no point benefit. Average to slightly above average (101 to 120) gain a point. This is where I would draw the line and say women in this group are intelligent. You provided an article that shows that intelligent women gain a point in the dating marketplace. The next group of women are con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 10:42 PM
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I never brought up exclusivity, because idgaf. TRP has things it recommends, these are not exclusive to TRP. You're correct there. TRP advises to live a healthy active lifestyle, to not be a doormat. Only BPers would see this and take offense and start questioning the exclusivity of healthy behavior. Healthy behavior that is in fact advocated by TRP. I swear if there was a post about brushing your teeth on TRP you would start screaming out saying that that is not exclusive to TRP. No shit. Succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 10:24 PM
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As far as I know Then expand your knowlege, because if "as far as you know" only contains TRP strawmen you know very little about the ideology that you actively hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 07:20 PM
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Well if you're the girl you're referring to then yeah I could see where most wouldn't want such a girl. Ignorance isn't attractive no matter how "intelligent" you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 06:51 PM
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People inside TRP's echo chamber needed TRP's language to truly understand how to build their self esteem and self respect. People outside of TRP seem to look at this and think that it is pathetic. Just remember that TRP preaches to lift and get fit. Today I'm a pretty good looking muscular 180 pound man, and when I see people at the gym trying to lift or get fit for the first time I think positively about them. I don't go over and criticize how weak they are. It's called having humanity and som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 03:54 PM
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She's not terrified of math, she just doesn't want to be doing upper level math for the rest of her life. She could have easily taken AP Calc as a senior but instead she took a dual credit college algebra class. She finished that class with over a 95% and our teacher was a regular piece of shit. And if you're wondering I also have no desire to do upper level math or science for the rest of my life. She's an interesting case to me in regards to RP theory. She is what I would consider an ideal RP …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 02:57 AM
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I am as kind and more genuine today than I was before the red pill. I'm much clearer with my intentions than I ever was beforehand. You can discount that all you want, but the red pill does teach on how to become a better man no matter how much you disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 02:09 AM
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In my blue pill period I allowed people to use and abuse me while I was ready at a moment's notice to submit to their reality. Doing so allowed them to lose any respect they had for me which led to me saying things about them behind their backs. It makes me sick just thinking about it. I allowed a friend to pretend to be me while he insulted a much bigger guy than I was just for shits and giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 02:04 AM
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My natural frame was to be kind and genuine and to let people walk all over me. TRP taught me that my needs matter. If you see this as weaker than my natural frame then you're simply wromg. My goals couldn't be more personal and less conventional. I have stated on a few occasions that I'm quite bright and can easily get a good job through a STEM field, but that is not what I want. Instead I'm going for a dream job that has very little chance at working out. You don't know who I am so don't act l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 01:11 AM
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I discovered PUA around the time I was a freshman in high school. So I've ruined plenty of potential relationships trying to be a PUA. I was so bad at negging. This was brief phase of my life that I limited to Facebook girls that went to surrounding schools so I didn't really ruin any real relationships. Not holding frame is what has singlehandedly ruined more relationships than I can count. I lost a lot of friends in my most blue pill period, some healthy some unhealthy. Since TRP I've been abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 12:57 AM
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They aren't. Perhaps I should have separated that thought better. I can see how it looks like I meant it that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 11:27 PM
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I couldn't get through all of it. I don't know, I guess I just don't really care if you think we're a cult. If it makes you feel better to call us a cult please do. Just remember I have chosen my path and I could choose another if I wanted to. I am happier today (red pill) than I was yesterday (blue pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 10:43 PM
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I would argue able but not willing. I know a lot of women who are happy to be trophy wives. For example I know a girl whose sole goal in life is to marry a basketball player. She's a Kardashian wannabe. On the other side of this, I know a girl who is smarter than I in math which is my best subject, but is choosing to be a psychologist when her math abilities are just off the charts. She is brilliant but she doesn't want to work a career based on math. Just an anecdote, but there's not a lot of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 09:43 PM
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I have not read the book, but might have to see the movie. Looks like a red pill how to. I'm also a sucker for good soundtracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 04:33 AM
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This isn't at all exclusive to women. Look up Phil Fish or that CoD Dev that received death threats (him and family) because of a tuning update. Gamers are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 03:29 AM
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I think the original intent was "Be Proud You're A Man" but quite obviously the intent missed its mark a bit. A woman's femininity is highly desired within TRP, but unfortunately in our culture you cannot compliment a woman you desire. As complementing doesn't work, TRP does not advise it. I tend to think along the lines of a TRP phrase "would you do it for a guy friend". If so then I treat the woman accordingly. I don't often compliment men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 04:23 PM
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Sure if you view the 1st ammendment as more of a guideline than a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 08:41 PM
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Stickies are often only stickied when an influx of newcomers is happening. As an educator he tries to steer them to what he believes is most helpful. He doesn't post every thread nor does he have a large presence in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 08:01 PM
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Many of those comments are not only not massively upvoted, but some are actually downvoted into negatives! gasp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:58 PM
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This is a fair argument. A common phrase on TRP is take from TRP what you need and leave what you don't agree with. Some agree with all and some don't. I personally don't agree with the political nature being connected with TRP so I try to separate them in where I draw the lines of my personal TRP ideology. Ayn Rand once said that she judges herself based how her actions conincide with her moral beliefs. I do the same with TRP and encourage others to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:54 PM
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Well considering that the top post on TRP just today has over 200 posts already and that TRP has been around for years and there are likely millions of comments to choose from, then yes it would be considered cherry picking. Stay ignorant, you'll be easier to ignore that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:41 PM
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Out of context quotes are hardly representative of anything, although it is a shame that that fact even needs to be pointed out. Here have another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:29 PM
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Trying to shame people for downvoting you for cherry picking comments that fit your agenda is quite amusing. I feel no shame. I am what I am and TRP is what it is, but it's not your "highlight reel".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:23 PM
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He is not TRP. He is merely a man. He is not our God and he isn't our Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 07:15 PM
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It's quite easy to ignore when you don't go looking for it. Instead I enjoy posts from guys like gaylubeoil, field reports from former incels, rants from angry incels, and blue pill examples to remind me what I once was and what I never wish to be again. Also this question will be easily criticized when compared to extremist feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 06:37 PM
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I definitely agree the lack of empathy, but at the same time I've known many philosophical incels. There are guys out there are guys out there who would love to talk about things women talk about, the issue has always been that these women aren't interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 06:28 PM
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A buddy of mine's dad is a stay at home dad for his brain surgeon wife. He's living the life, spends a lot of his time volunteering and fixing up things. I'd love to be a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 01:59 PM
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Having a career is not the problem, even being the breadwinner is not always a problem. Putting her career before her man and/or her family is the problem. There is an attitude that exists with these women that can be summed up by a phrase I've seen a few times on /r/relationships: What is yours is ours and what is mine is mine. There are woman who exist that only use the supplementary income they earn from their careers on themselves. These women are undesirable. Woman who have a supplementary …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 03:13 AM
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I hate the MRA side of TRP and wish it was removed. I agree with many things involved with MRA but part of the red pill is swallowing the fact that we are given the short straw and adjusting to take advantage of the system to become happy. MRA are consistently unhappy and are whiners. Thew is no room for whining if you're a man. Nobody respects a whiny man and no woman wants to fuck one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 08:41 PM
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I'm with you, in 18 years I have only seen 1 happy functional marriage... and they are well off. Hard to tell where'd they would be without money.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 04:29 PM
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Here's the thing about female education. Going to college is expensive and I don't need somebody else's student loans to pay off. Furthermore, jobs and careers suck. If a woman loves her career more than a man why should I love her? I don't love my career more than her. It's merely a means to an ends. I don't understand the idealized nature of ending up a hollow, depressed, dried up career woman. If I wanted to date a man, I would date a man. Feminine men on the other hand, they irk me. Idgaf ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 01:46 PM
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This is something I really want to have in my house (HIMYM style rooftop area). The way I am with my future house is the way little girls are about their big fancy marriages. Not ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 02:35 AM
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Y'all could gain some RP insight by thoroughly reading this. But by reading the comments you'd rather argue small semantics. Tis a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 01:29 AM
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RP and you never skip leg day. This girl in your hypothetical is most likely dtf, but I'm not a shoulder to cry on for you and your boyfriends problems. My last girlfriend dumped a friend of mine for me (without me asking her to). I felt bad about that for awhile because he had a big case of oneitis for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 02:47 PM
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I'm not rooting for anything. Context clues have helped guess that the relationship will soon end. If you don't believe that then you're living in a fantasy world. Evil is just another Disney fantasy. People aren't binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:59 AM
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Very good! You understood my first sentence! One day you might get through the whole post! It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 09:26 PM
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Who said he wanted to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:50 PM
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Don't forget the woman hating neckbeard part :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:00 PM
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Unverified? He made a spreadsheet! What more proof do you need? Everybody you heard it here first. CleganeBowlHype has commanded that generalizations are not useful. At the next TRP clan meeting in the woods I'll make sure to bring up removing generalizations from our ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:57 PM
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A RP "fail" is simply called nexting. These situations don't often make it to LTRs. A RP LTR is happy and fruitful until it isn't. Then next. I'm not insecure. Plenty of fish in the sea. If my LTR doesn't want to fuck me, I'll simply find somebody who will. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:54 PM
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It's useful to generalize based off anecdotes, as we can learn from these examples to try and not repeat other's mistakes. So you guess correctly unless it's utility becomes obsolete that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:47 PM
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If I was in this relationship, I wouldn't have been in this relationship. Most RP would agree. I don't have to hamster anything. Disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:45 PM
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Fortunately the woman in this example likely won't be married much longer. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:19 PM
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An aware RP man would use tactics like dread game well before it got to the point of spreadsheeting it out. He would probably also end the relationship... Although in this instance marriage and shared property is complicating things. BP relationships are not the equal partner relationships often cited here. They are partnerships where the woman is on a pedestal. The pedestal makes her higher than the man. Does that make sense? Most of y'all who call yourselves BPers are very purple. Most of us R…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:03 PM
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RP relationships are typically characterized as being very fruitful in the bedroom. So by definition, no this would not happen in a red pill relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 05:42 PM
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Those of you who call yourselves BP. You're not. This is what BP looks like. Nobody should willingly want this fate; to go this insane because the person who you loved most won't return their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 05:38 PM
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I disagree. I spent entirely too much time thinking of others before I went red. Have you ever walked down a hallway or street and said hi to a member of the opposite sex that you thought you were friends with only for them to not even acknowledge your presence? Involuntary invisible because I never worked on myself and let this shit happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 01:45 PM
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Idgaf if you think I'm mature or not. My maturity has never been an issue in real life and you would be hard pressed to find an adult who finds me immature. I gave an anecdote which is my only mistake in this; I will refrain from doing that again. Any anecdote I give is immediately followed by "I know blank blank and blank who are completely opposite of that". For instance you gave examples of men leaving women even though the statistics clearly say that women divorce men twice as often. Your an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 02:47 AM
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TRP has always advocated a mix of beta and alpha traits when trying to maintain a LTR. You can continue to spout your willful ignorance as fact, but I've said that phrase nearly three times in the last week. I know that other RPers will say the same. Straw Men arguments are the worst. Furthurmore, this argument of yours is bad and you should feel bad. Clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 12:16 AM
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Fight fire with fire right? I don't come on here to insult people. I come on here to let out aggression and debate things that I can't really talk about with people. Why do you lead an RP lifestyle while dogging on RP? What part of that makes sense to you? Can you understand why I would be confused about how somebody is happy in a RP relationship yet despises the Red Pill? You attacked me. Don't spin this back on me. If you want to fight a man don't be surprised when he hits back. You don't thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 11:41 PM
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Orientation for my university and then homework for summer class at a local community college. Today's been a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:29 PM
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Alright I get it. You're bitter and like to throw out names and insults to help your argument. You had to move away from your friends and family, how awful. Nobody has ever had to do that before. And being a stay at home wife, sounds like the hardest job on the planet... As long as you don't include all those jobs men do that result in work place deaths. Must be hard not having to work while living the blue pill dream with your high school sweet heart. My broken heart please, my story was about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 06:02 PM
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TRP has always maintained that a mix of alpha and beta traits are necessary to help sustain a LTR. Even then your friend is a poor example because he's loaded. His wife could take half, or she could stay with him if he's meeting her needs. If he was broke she'd be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 12:22 PM
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No I found evidence I have like 3 different links in this thread. I'm just tired of looking up evidence, it's not simple trying to track something down that you don't even remember when you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 12:18 PM
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I understand the irony; still love Gatsby though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 12:17 PM
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That'd be all well and good if this was my only experience with woman acting like TRP describes, but it's not. It's not like I'm going to detail every time women act like TRP says... I'd never finish writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 12:02 PM
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I guess I won't unless you find a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:35 AM
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"However, if one spouse has the majority of the financial resources, the court often requires that spouse assist the economically dependent spouse with his or her fees and costs." http://www.peskindlaw.com/faqs/#7 Incredibly circular? I was giving your unsubstantiated guess some ground. Why don't you go find me a source that says that men don't try for custody which is a ridiculous notion in and of itself. I never said men don't seek custody, you did. The phrase "if that was the case" means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 03:12 AM
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Did you know that if he was to seek custody and lose he would have to pay the wife's legal fees? When custody is awarded to women 82% of the time I can see why men wouldn't want to try if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 02:14 AM
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*female brain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 01:52 AM
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It obviously has nothing to do with a judicial system biased against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 01:33 AM
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Some RPer could help me out here but I believe the statistics on divorce show that woman file for divorce 66% of the time and that of divorces caused by boredom are now more common than infidelity. I'll look up the stats when I get on a computer. http://health.howstuffworks.com/relationships/marriage/debunking-divorce-myths.htm#page=9 http://www.ellecanada.com/relationships/relationship-advice-the-real-reason-why-women-choose-divorce/a/50302#.U8RUw_u3N-E If my wife cheated on me I'd end it. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 09:41 PM
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Unconditional love is love that lasts through the difficult times. It's loyalty. It's not divorcing somebody because your bored. In fact, it's not divorce period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 09:13 PM
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What did you provide to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 08:04 PM
3

I love The Roots, I've been listening to When The People Cheer non stop since it came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 04:41 PM
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A perfect RPW in my eyes is at least an 8 on my subjective scale. She may not initially be into the things I'm into, but she cares enough about me to become interested in the things I'm interested in. Her notch count is her # minus her age plus 16 < 3. She stays fit, cooks, and cleans on occasion. She has long hair and pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 04:33 PM
2

I want to learn more about the people who willingly consent to being blue pill with knowledge of the red pill, so please forgive me for the personal questions I'm about to ask. How old are you? What's your height/weight? How many sexual (let's say anything below the waist) partners do you have on a yearly basis? How would you describe your income (low, middle, high)? Outside of MRA/antifeminism which three ideologies/terms/phrases/acronyms of TRP do you think are the most off base and why? What …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 04:25 PM
2

I believe it's generally accepted on TRP that omegas are below betas. I'm not real into greek, so I'm not sure tbh. Guys in the middle are just guys. They typically have a near equal amount of alpha and beta traits. In this scenario I would link them with the betas in most situations I probably wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 03:38 AM
3

A guy whose social life revolves around his girlfriend. This guy is whipped. His girlfriend calls and he comes running. He saves up his money to take his girlfriend to fancy restaurants or buy her flashy gifts. Basically a doormat with a wallet. Once the wallet is empty the girlfriend moves on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 02:07 AM
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I think women can be loyal, but in times of hardship not to a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 01:11 AM
1

Leaving out MRA/antifeminism aspects of TRP, what are three TRP commonly used terms/phrases/acronyms you disagree with and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 11:24 PM
7

The self, especially as distinct from the world and other selves. Should not kill her ego, should strengthen his. In psychoanalysis, the division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and is most in touch with external reality. Again should not kill her ego, but should be strengthened by the man. An exaggerated sense of self-importance; conceit. A woman should kill her ego by this definition... but so should the man. Appropriate pride in oneself; self-e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 04:46 AM
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This reads like you have been sitting and stewing over that post for two months trying to come up with a response. I didn't like the post when it came out because I agree to an extent to what you have said. I didn't lose weight for women; I lost weight because I was tired of being me and I wanted to be someone else. I sure as hell haven't worked to be smart for women. Not a single woman on earth finds my GPA sexy or attractive. My ACT score occasionally makes woman feel bad about themselves and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 03:34 AM
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That has to be a troll. Please tell me that's a troll and some guy doesn't really act like her boyfriend. This can't be real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 04:28 PM
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Our sub uses a reference from their movie. Our sub is not about their movie or their sexualities. The reference in the movie has nothing to do with gender or sexuality. There is no correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 02:31 AM
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The TRP idea you should focus on in Gatsby is not AFBB. As others have pointed out Tom was not a beta. He is old money, a polo player, and he once has Daisy convinced that she loved him. Unfortunately and later fortunately a woman's love is conditional. Gatsby is new money, a dark triad drug dealer, and he gave Daisy the tingles that Tom could not. His fatal flaw was wanting to repeat the past with Daisy in his huge mansion. Daisy wanted to run away to avoid conflict with Tom. Once Gatsby breaks…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:24 PM
1

You don't have to tell me, I got rid of all social media well before I found out about TRP, just not before some pretty bad cringe stories happened.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:49 PM
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Recently graduated senior here. Here are some general tips since you didn't leave much information about yourself. Cut your hair short, brush and floss your teeth, and get clothes that fit you. Join the football team or wrestling. Both sports won't cut you at most schools and will help you develop your body and give you more confidence. Do your homework and get good grades. This last tip is something I learned before TRP. Don't trust social media photos of girls you haven't met. They don't look …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:25 PM
1

When I first took the red pill I was already somewhat familiar with pickup artists so it was not a huge change in the way I acted. I joke around more and take less things seriously. PUA tend to make you pay for advice where they feed you a bunch of bull shit while every once in a while provide a good tip. I wasn't a PUA but I learned a couple things that were emailed to me. The biggest change came in my work ethic. I've always been smart enough to at least get a B+ without studying or doing work…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 05:17 PM
1

My post history on this alt is only 2 days long. If he knew my real account that would defeat the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/14 03:44 AM
2

Yes. All woman do not engage in AFBB relationships nor do they seek them out. TRP does not claim that in any way. Many, I would go as far to say most women will engage in BB relationships. Many women will allow some schmuck to buy her food and buy her little gifts without giving them anything other than platonic company. I know, I've been that guy. Now many women may engage in AF relationships. These are the women that are constantly saying things like "all men are asswholes". These women give u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 07:08 PM
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There are men that like her perhaps even for her short hair. These are not the same men that she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:39 PM
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Short hair is unattractive. As is the way she dresses, her hatred for cooking or cleaning, her feminist views, the way she treats people, the way she acts. The short hair by itself is not always an issue and I don't think like guys on rational male like short haired women have mental issues, but it is another red flag to go with her large collection. Now if you asking for your sake I would tell you straight up that very few women look good with short hair. Many look like men while others just lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:30 PM
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She's still in highschool, so she has time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:00 PM
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I am using an alternate because I finally got around to making an alternate for RP use after over 6 months lurking. It's advised to make an alternate if you're a red piller because of blue pill witch hunts. My main account would not be hard to dox which is a fear you have to live with if you simply frequent a forum of people who want to be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 04:15 PM
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AFBB doesn't equal TRP in the same way not every rectangle is a square AFBB does not sum up the whole of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 04:11 PM
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Incorrect. But according to AFBB, all women want is financial security from beta males while getting sexual gratification from alpha males on the side. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 03:54 PM
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The only way I can reply to this is from my experiences which are entirely subjective. I could easily be an anomaly or a liar. But I have a challenge for you. Think about all the people you know that are in relationships where the partnerships are equal or where the woman wears the pants. Now think about how many of the men in these relationships are truly happy? You have to look deeper than the surface, but when you do you will see that a lot of men aren't happy in these relationships but have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 07:12 AM
1

I would say that TRP is misanthropic but for good reason. TRP teaches you to value yourself and to take people and poor habits and hobbies off of the pedestal you have placed them on. By embracing a misanthrope persona you are actively removing things and people who are no better than you from the pedestals. I would even go as far as to characterize celebrating humanity as being a blue pill trait. It's also a trait I possess. For example, I love women. I will constantly be caught staring while a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:21 AM
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These things are not exclusive to the Red Pill Maybe in what you consider Blue and Red Pill behavior. I draw different boundary lines. Skip to the part where you take his opinion over yours because he has a penis and you just have qualifications and experience. "Captain and First Officer is a voluntarily lifestyle. You can’t effectively trick her into becoming a First Officer, and you can’t intimidate her into the role either. The only way to do this easily is to be a man she respects enough, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/14 05:01 AM
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