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social mediaanaIconda69/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 10:10 AM
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Frankly I don't respect psychology as a science anymore. While there are many good aspects about it, taken as a whole it's simply not trustworthy. (Assuming high competence and not malice, might be too charitable) the simplest explanation I can see for the way APA qualifies disorders is: "what we want outwardly to be seen as maladaptive behavior" and changes as societal norms change. There's even some thory to support it (varying expressions of hysteria and schizoidal symptoms in different socie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 07:24 AM
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I found a guy in the comments saying he would smile at the sight of cops beating up black republicans on the street. He got upvotes
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 07:56 PM
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Better do nothing, than offer patronizing speeches to black men about what they should do or else. Obama's speech from last month damaged his legacy as a role model for black men. I don't believe he wrote it.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/24 10:19 AM
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"We will control half the world's wealth" "We will hire men as soldiers" : ^)
/r/EverydayMisandry30/10/24 08:21 AM
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Love these bite-sized presentations. +1 for sources
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 08:43 AM
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She should be in prison.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 05:50 PM
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Brothers, let's examine our thinking. One cannot truly believe in masculinity as a behavioral pattern without thinking like a gender essentialist. We know "toxic masculinity" is basically a non-concept as explained by OP (especially in the last paragraph) and others in the comments. Same with "positive masculinity" which is almost always expressed as a wishlist of things society wants men to do for women and the elites, or positive qualities that have nothing to do with gender. Reject the transa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/24 07:32 AM
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In the end, Marxism was defeated not by nuclear warheads, but by nfighting between classes.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/10/24 10:10 AM
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You're right, sorry! n = (Z^2 * p * q) / E^2 Where: n = sample size Z = Z-score corresponding to the desired confidence level (1.96 for 95%) p = estimated proportion (0.5) q = 1 - p (0.5) E = margin of error (0.03) Plugging in the values: (For est. 35 million women the margin of error would be 0.03 (3%) at confidence level: 95%) n = (1.96^2 * 0.5 * 0.5) / 0.03^2 representative n ≈ 1060 (with a 3% margin of error at a 95% confidence level)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 12:52 PM
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Western, Educated, Industrial, Rich, Democracies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 11:39 AM
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Some feminists will performatively condemn TERFs, (no true Scotsman would ever...) while acting and thinking just like TERFs in all but that one exception. They are every bit as exclusionary and radical apart from that. What does that make them, ERFs? I know all identitarian movements by definition have to exclude and other, to protect the in-group, but in a movement that claims it's "for everybody" it feels particularly dishonest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/24 07:05 AM
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Are they? By definition most people aren't successful. Otherwise what would 'success' even mean, if not achieving something better than average people?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/24 06:07 PM
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Workplaces, homes, repair shops, hiking trails, shooting ranges...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/24 12:04 PM
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Women are still patronized and treated with less respect in many places. This is part of the hyperagency/hypoagency dynamic which harms both genders in different ways.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/24 10:51 AM
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Don't get discouraged, brother. I appreciate your contribution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 08:46 PM
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Therein lies your problem. While it's a good framework to understand society, intersectionality has already been weaponized against men. If someone identifies as intersectional, until proven otherwise I'd assume they just like to play victimhood olympics. But maybe I just had bad experiences with the people I interacted with. Just 2 c Edit: I don't know why you're catching downvotes :( you bring up many great points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 08:08 AM
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Ever since Halo 1 CE Multiplayer baby
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 06:07 PM
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Can you make a cultist renounce their faith and become an atheist? Like with all extremist ideologies, most of these people were never interested in truth, just in belonging and status. So when you try to make them see truth with scientific arguments, they will likely not change their views no matter the quality of your argumentation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/24 03:58 AM
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What red pill is great at, and we aren't (I'm sorry but it's true) is rhetoric. Our ideas are necessarily complicated, because our whole point is injecting nuance into feminism, and we keep steelmanning it so we don't end up as a hate movement. We're reactive to feminism. And most people don't give a shit about nuance. In contrast, Red Pill isn't even a social movement in the sense that it makes people come together and change the world, it's narcisstic in nature. It spreads socially, because re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/24 10:03 AM
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Thank you, this is insightful. What would that missing piece look like, in your opinion?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 06:21 PM
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Good point. Where I'm from feminism wasn't really a grassroots movement and was largely imported through academia over the last 30 years. The ideas came pre-packaged and found a fertile ground, applicability be damned. These people were obsessed with critical sociology and Frankfurt School. Most of it was, like you say, difficult to apply. At least except in political agitation. Very theoretical, more ideology than science, I don't think I saw even a pretense of data science or statistics in tho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 04:15 PM
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You're spitting facts bro. "We've finally elected a woman of color..." sounds like a victory but then the rest of the sentence is "...to authorize drone strikes against civilians, on behalf of an apartheid state!" Nothing has really changed. The system still mercilessly grinds the poor and the weak into chunks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 09:17 AM
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It's like they skipped to grasping for solutions without ever achieving class consciousness. Which isn't surprising, I'd bet a huge % of feminists don't engage with theory beyond a surface skim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 06:57 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 01:54 PM
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Well, it's kinda basic. Mirroring the tone of many awareness campaigns. Imagine a sequence of women of various class, age etc holding up the tools of their work and assertively saying "My body, my right". (we're setting up a bait & switch) Suddenly we see a young and scared 18 year old trooper holding a rifle. "My body?" he asks surprised, stressing 'my', and immediately the drill sargeant off screen yells "right-left right-left!" and we see a column of young boys marching into an amphibious ass…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/24 06:18 PM
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If what she claims was true, she wouldn't be allowed to attend a school, let alone publish a book like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 06:00 PM
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It will be hard to get lots of engagement on youtube with longform content unless you have excellent production quality. The reason Tin Men works so great is because his content is focused, easy to digest and most importantly, easy to share. Think about quick powerful ideas, and execute them as multiple shorts. IIRC the yt algo should still give extra attention to shorts. I've had a fun and simple concept for an awareness campaign about military draft, bouncing in my head for the last week. But …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/24 07:19 AM
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They can't boycott twitter (currently known as X), these people are attention addicts. It controls them
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 07:05 AM
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It reeks of ego boost fantasy "Yeah so I was just minding my business being so beautiful this married man asked for my snap (L.O.L, xoxo) but then I was such a sister to her (did I mention he liked my looks over hers?)"
/r/EverydayMisandry17/09/24 07:41 AM
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Which is why we should avoid gendered terms like "MGM" - if you phrase it like this, it goes straight to some people's "people I have no empathy for" bin and they immediately stop caring about it. It's almost comical how often the topic becomes "Do you support banning genital mutilation of infants?" "OMG YES STOP THIS BARBARIC PRACTICE" "Great, because thousands of male infants are mutilated each year and-" "ummm ackshually..."
/r/EverydayMisandry17/09/24 07:33 AM
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"I, a representative of the most privileged demographic in the modern world, would like now to explain my horrible oppression to these strawmen I just set up" "but what about literal fucking genital mutilation of babies" ">:("
/r/EverydayMisandry16/09/24 06:57 AM
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This is incredible! Thank you for all this hard work
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/24 07:51 AM
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Random thought, but maybe it has something to do with how men are socialized to compete with each other (see other men as adversaries). Add to it that gays are treated much worse than lesbians and it could explain some of the difference.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 07:49 AM
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Do we think that heterophobia from lesbians and bisexual women exists? No need to wonder, just observe their language. Look up "gold star lesbians"
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/24 07:27 AM
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I try not to use the term myself, because a) it's loaded with subtexts and implications that make discussion harder, rather than easier b) it's not useful to me for understanding why gendered domination occurs. These dynamics are sufficiently explained by (mostly) class and physiological differences, compounding over centuries until they become tradition. E.g. basic, small societies without a "warrior class" analog usually aren't patriarchal, and the stronger warrior class you have in a society,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 07:08 AM
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Whenever you see it, point out the origin (racist dogwhistle).
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 07:21 AM
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It wholly depends on the person handling the reports. I once reported actual illegal activity and got a 4-week temp, let me state that again, for reporting a person who was telling others to commit a crime with instructions and links to illegal sites. So you get all kind of people. Glad it worked this time
/r/EverydayMisandry09/09/24 07:14 AM
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Depends where you are. White supremacy doesn't exist in some parts of the world. Patriarchy doesn't exist in the way most feminists use the term, but something like it (harmful to both genders in different ways) exists in most developing countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/24 06:28 PM
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Menkampf goldmine right there boss!
/r/EverydayMisandry06/09/24 06:25 PM
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Join the army? They would be the most devout ideologues of the new state, marching at the front of every parade, kissing every portrait of the leader, singing patriotic songs with genuine tears in their eyes. We saw it in Soviet Russia, fanatics are people in desperate search of meaning, they don't care what meaning.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/08/24 10:10 AM
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Oh, sorry. Yeah I see his name a bunch, though not as often as Tate. Lots of bodyshaming jokes about his height, voice and penis. He's not as famous these days I think, dude was discussed all over reddit a few years ago
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 07:57 PM
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He is, I find it weird - he says a lot of dumb things on his twitter and youtube but it's mostly anti-woke, anti-marxist, anti-trans, anti-postmodernist talking points. I haven't seen him address feminism/masculism, though I haven't followed Peterson in a long while, ever since his head broke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 03:46 PM
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She went full "Here's what you think"
/r/EverydayMisandry28/08/24 04:50 PM
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Yeah. And let's not forget Ben Shapiro. I don't know a single person IRL or online who watches him, but he still gets pulled out of the closet to scare little children. The guy is laughing stock at this point, people care more about his sister. I wish there were more respected left wing thinkers speaking to the common man. Someone of Peterson's charisma and intellectual caliber, but on our side and without the mental illness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 04:46 PM
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So true. And people will never look at the real reasons. "They are in a far-right pipeline!" No, they are just forgotten. Any political capital you ignore can be tapped by your competitors. "Tate/Peterson/Musk/instert bogeyman is radicalizing them!11" Emancipation is not radicalization. It will happen with or without alt celebrities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 08:53 AM
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which lead to wild over policing and deliberate targeting of men, obvious especially in poor and minority communities too. As an outside observer to US politics, it's wild to me how institutional anti-black racism, poverty and misandry are strongly linked, but your left will do Olympic-level mental gymnastics to not make the connection. They are failing the foundational demographic for leftwing movements and catering to rich white women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 08:39 AM
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At this point we should be able to recognize true allies - genuinely egalitarian feminists (also known simply as egalitarians) are our great allies and we shouldn't alienate them. Most people at menslib would not be in that category, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 12:59 PM
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Touche!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 12:31 PM
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I don't think it's misandrist, but it has some bad connotations. I prefer "men/women are overrepresented in x"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 09:34 AM
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"asexual men don't exist" 20k likes
/r/EverydayMisandry01/08/24 07:44 AM
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She sounds like a disgusting person. I'm sorry you and your cat had to deal with that. How are you doing now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 07:32 AM
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As much as it pains me to say it here of all places, almost all evil people I've encountered were young men (I grew up in an area with lots of crime). They weren't raised properly or taught how to seek happiness and ended up broken, violent, cruel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 07:22 PM
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Perhaps, but do heal thyself, physician.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 09:43 AM
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I wish you all the best. But you need more compassion. The injustices at the state or culture level are real, though insidiously they make us think of other individuals as abstractions of ideas, and not as humans. I think it's okay to hate a state, or an ideology. But don't hate the members, who are in some sense victims and in another world could be your brother
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 06:24 AM
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You can be against radical islam without defending the genocide of Islamists. Can you truly not entertain the idea that even some Gazans are innocent and didn't deserve what happened to them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 05:43 AM
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What's your definition of genocide if I may ask?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 05:40 AM
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Imagine reading about someone being cleared of murder charges. And then someone comments "Damn it, that's going to make prosecuting real murders harder!" As if the success in the process of reaching justice could obstruct itself. 0 compassion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 05:34 AM
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2c about the first paragraph. While regret or shame are motivations we could (should?) all empathize with, I'd still call false accusers "lying evil manipulating" etc. If it's committed with malice and premeditation, 100% a morally reprehensible act. Surely all criminals have reasons and justifications which make sense in their heads esp. when rationalizing the crime after it's commited, those justifications having some value doesn't change the moral outcome. Just my intuition, not sure if good …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 05:15 AM
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They are at the apex of socio-political power and could literally improve the lives of oppressed women in 3rd world countries, if they wanted. But they don't. Because it was never about women, it was about power. Obligatory #notallfeminists, each fake movement has its own earnest believers who have the best intentions and actually perform the foundational myth
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 09:22 AM
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Sheltered. They want to be part of the cool adult club discussing problems, so they repeat whatever sounds most edgy and serious.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/24 08:34 AM
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Let's add Don't smoke next to people Keep your noise at a reasonable level
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 08:00 AM
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Perspectives like yours are valuable and welcome, few people can claim to have directly experienced living both as a woman and as a man. Thank you for sharing and welcome to the sub
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 03:49 PM
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Wait, FDS is being banned?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/24 08:12 AM
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:tinfoil hat on: Menslib is an elaborate radicalization funnel that takes men who could be here with us as brothers, and diverts them further away to the reactionary right. I'm only half joking because it really is doing that, just not by design.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 08:08 AM
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Pity the woman too, who is even more gullible. "Honey I'm not like those other men. I would never hurt you. Never."
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/24 09:34 AM
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A reply said "Uh both genders?" I also saw this in the damage control thread. Hysterical. The virtue mask slips momentarily, woopsie!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 09:11 AM
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Sorry, just a hunch based on n=1 When I was fat, women simply ignored me and never touched me. When I got in shape women I talked to would sometimes do things like suddenly touch my arm or place a hand on my chest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 08:26 AM
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Likely attractive men get abused and manipulated by women at a greater rate than other men. Pretty privilege is real, but we see the public upside and miss the hidden downsides Edit: dumb wording
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 07:39 AM
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Thank you for your advocacy!
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/24 08:25 AM
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The brother behind Tin Men is a treasure. And he has real talent
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/24 01:00 PM
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Right, that's a bigger difference. Still an adult.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 08:04 AM
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29 is old enough to be a CEO, govern a city, be a neurosurgeon, command men to death during war, pull people out of burning homes, race F1, and fly a rocket to fucking space. But not old enough to consent to Tobey McGuire. Society will declare her a victim - whether she likes it or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 07:54 AM
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They "teach" at all levels of education.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/24 07:38 AM
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We are a part-time, nighttime Saudi Arabia Love this phrase.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/24 06:21 AM
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Menslib is internalized misandry. Reject guilt, be free.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 06:38 AM
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Some of the things you wrote sound incredibly prejudiced. But I will reply in good faith. Thoughts on women as a whole? Normal, if slightly neotenic humans. Do you think about an all-male society or is that insane? Like globally? It is insane. If you fantasize about an all-x society, sit down and think long and hard about what events brought you to this philosophical precipice. Do you believe feminism has run it's course? do you still believe some areas need it more than others? In the west, mos…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 08:43 AM
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I think the point was (sorry if I misrepresented) is that if you magically replaced all Russians in power with women, nothing would change for the broader Russian society. The system is not tyrannical or authoritarian because the oligarchs are mostly men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/24 08:11 AM
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The study they're referencing was retracted years ago for a data analysis mistake. But the myth keeps going strong
/r/EverydayMisandry27/06/24 11:13 AM
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And I think we can safely say drafts are a type of slavery, to which men are subjected because of their sex.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/24 11:41 AM
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Haven't read it, what was the connection?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/24 11:39 AM
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"They were enslaved because they were BLACK" What is Barbary Slave Trade, Alex
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/24 09:14 AM
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Very insightful. I think a different way to look at this is to say that both men and women are highly motivated by status, and if being sexually desired confers status, this is what people will chase rather than the act itself. This is reflected in how people judge the sex others had: you shouldn't have as much sex as possible with just anyone, this will degrade your status (you get you slut shamed). But if you have sex just once, but with a celebrity, it's suddenly a huge deal. This is a part o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/24 08:42 AM
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Also the societal cost of misandry is lower, and it's never been easier for idiots to broadcast opinions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 01:52 PM
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For what?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 02:08 PM
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Many legal systems define rape as ~forced penetration (be a man or foreign object) or something similar. So in the case of forced to penetrate e.g. after drugging it would likely be prosecuted as sexual assault. That is if anyone believed the victim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 05:02 PM
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(that is: murder and rob defenseless monks, peasants and children) #BossGirl #RaidingAllDay
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/24 09:05 AM
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Could that be that some of them hate seeing feminity in other people? Especially feminity they cannot control? Also, my friend, I want you to know. You're 100%. Fuck the shallow trends in culture, they don't have a right to define what a man looks or behaves like. Each man does for himself.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/24 08:56 AM
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This... caricature is her overall belief of all men. Just an honest belief that 100% of men keep punching people and objects in adrenaline-induced rage. Life would look like GTA5
/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/24 08:48 AM
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Class overlord: Why do these low-class people keep worrying about class? (not saying we shouldn't worry about race)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 07:54 AM
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It's not like I'm going to doxx someone and travel half the planet to punch them
/r/EverydayMisandry13/06/24 07:34 AM
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It means that the manner of speaking coupled with the misandry made me fantasize about punching that guy in the face. It's a common ironic expression
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 10:35 PM
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I guess, respectfully, with some likelihood, he sounds sheltered and indeed, quite punchable, if I may say so, no offense.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/24 09:30 AM
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But we'd have to accept the premise that men are inherently violent/evil/asocial etc And that hurts advocacy in the long run
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 08:38 AM
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And we should let ourselves be angry. In a healthy way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 08:34 AM
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Seconding this. The coma marked the end of a great helper of people, and especially one who said things that resonated with alienated men. But pre-coma his stuff was pure gold if you're willing to power through some jungian mumbo jumbo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 08:30 AM
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All good points. Yeah, though it's a sparse one. What you call pure speculation I call deduction - we can make educated guesses how such a system would be designed, and can assume the people tasked with building it thought applied Murphy's Law, with backups and minimally fallible processes. It seems far harder to make a system that would never misfire, than one easily prevented from firing. But I'm not an expert. What reason would there be to make it difficult to disable by the nation's own mili…
/r/EverydayMisandry07/06/24 01:28 PM
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Context?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 07:52 AM
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What the hell is a 'man flu'
/r/EverydayMisandry07/06/24 07:25 AM
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I wouldn't trust publicly available information to tell me about systems designed to destroy the public. If it's true, I'll be pleasantly surprised, but I don't believe it. Or that systems designed by very clever people to be difficult to disable, will disable themselves automatically in the event something unexpected wipes out the staff. That wouldn't even be a Dead Hand system, just some kind of system. You make a great point about remaining women in the chain of command for IDF. No idea how m…
/r/EverydayMisandry07/06/24 07:19 AM
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You bring up many good points, but I have to address the term 'toxic masculinity' - I'm not going to convince anyone whether it exists or not because that's not possible. But maybe I can convince someone to stop using the term because it's loaded, and used to bludgeon good people in discussions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 04:08 PM
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The described event would a humanitarian disaster to be remembered in history books for centuries. Most water infrastructure would cease operating. If something broke, say a water source became contaminated, or a pipe burst, everyone reliant on it would have to somehow survive. Most transport and delivery services would cease operating. No bus, plane, train, or truck with food for 24h. Female drivers/pilots would heroically do what they can, but there just wouldn't be enough. Food and medicine s…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/24 12:34 PM
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"This male human is domesticated and obedient, but still needs to be taught proper manners!"
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/24 12:22 PM
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Theory - this comes from their bigoted view of trans men "not really being men" = not really dangerous like those terrible, terrible biological males. It's like our entire gender has become some kind of flanderized caricature in people's heads
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 09:34 PM
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On Reddit, I have seen this honest view you're describing just twice from self-admitted feminists. In hundreds of conversations. So in my experience, while such self-aware feminists exist, they are not the norm - at least among Reddit commenters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/24 09:26 PM
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I've seen nothing but kindness and thoughtful comments from you. Radicals can hug a cactus for all I care, their toxic opinion about you doesn't matter.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 09:12 PM
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Don't let them get you down, you are doing a lot of good and it's deeply appreciated, by many people in this community.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/06/24 08:56 PM
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I don't even expect modern young white rich women, probably the most pampered broad demographic in the history of the planet, to understand how much it hurts to be eaten alive. The only violence they've known is microaggressions. They literally cannot imagine how much a body can hurt.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/05/24 08:09 AM
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Marx is spinning in his grave so fast he could power a small factory. Marx: Let's tear down these structures of oppression. Intersectionalist thinkers: Acturally there are sociological structures of oppression in every group, and each person lands at a unique convergence of privilege and oppression. You can't get rid of this. Bourgeois radicals: See? I'm more victimized (and therefore holier) than thou, because I belong to x, y, z identities!! This is how we go from simple, powerful ideas to sta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/24 07:03 AM
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Never trust LLMs for numbers. They hallucinate a lot
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/24 08:51 AM
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So that person basically acknowledged a reality, and then admitted that the feeling of people choosing bear are detached from that reality. An inch away from self-awareness.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/05/24 07:25 AM
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It's a bad analogy because people are nothing like skittles, and you don't eat people. So what is the analogy even to? And if we had to keep the stupid analogy, at least make it fair. Why are the 9 unpoisoned skittles just neutral? They should be essential, just like some men are essential for modern society and infrastructure to not collapse. 1 skittle is poisoned and will make you sick for months. 6 skittles are not poisoned and do nothing. 3 skittles you have to eat or you will die in 24h. Ho…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/05/24 08:02 AM
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What a hero. And she's getting bullied for expressing basic human compassion.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/24 11:19 AM
6

Thank you for sharing this. I was feeling low after reading perhaps too many misandrist comments, worrying what hostile world my son will have to navigate. Seeing even one person like you brings back hope.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/05/24 07:33 PM
2

She wouldn't have kids in the first place, and if she somehow did they'd be better off with a bear.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 01:16 PM
20

Keep reporting it. Maybe we can get this sub banned
/r/EverydayMisandry02/05/24 08:12 PM
11

Please m'lady. But a crumb of attention. I dunked on other men, see?
/r/EverydayMisandry02/05/24 06:18 PM
144

Basically "It didn't happen and they deserved it anyway"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 08:54 PM
22

Such a callous move would hurt even more men. Protest the elites, not entire countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/24 10:40 PM
12

What a disgusting flock of peacocks punching down with a smile. All the women in that room would be dead in 72 hours if all men suddenly disappeared. I mean, most city people would die in an infrastructural collapse regardless of gender, but still.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/04/24 08:48 PM
17

Better, just draft these people instead. Let them live their ideals.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/24 08:06 AM
7

It was a long read but worth it, thank you for taking the time to share it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 08:00 PM
18

They won't. To the radicals black men are an end to a means.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 07:10 AM
4

It's impossible to measure, but intuition tells me consent and love in a main relationship are very important for happiness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 08:33 AM
10

How about a revolution instead?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/24 07:52 PM
3

They're not getting the Czech ammo soon enough, and they can't really recruit any more soldiers while Russia is conscripting another 100 000. I mean, they could try to recruit all those young, fit, childless women who escaped west, but they would rather lose the war. Besides, how many would willingly enlist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/24 08:27 AM
5

Ukraine seems fond of this luxury, even while they're losing the war
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/24 07:58 AM
11

Maybe I was unlucky, but when I check the comments under articles with lovely titles like "teacher (F38) had sex with student (14M)" it's mostly senseless jokes and misandrists arguing back and forth with MRAs.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/24 04:56 AM
15

"Hey women, remember that men modify their lives to account for our behaviour. From being enslaved during war to career decisions to social interactions to online behaviour, men make adjustments in every aspect of their lives because a woman, at some point, has given them a reason to."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 02:25 PM
5

Of course it's not, neither are many things we use therapy for. But at least the blame would be on a thing/situation and not on a person. The most dehumanizing belief of the current anti-incel sentiment is that it's a personal failing that leads to people becoming incels. When people can accept, that it's something beyond personal control, they have to also accept it's something wrong with society and how one adapts to it. Treat it as an instrumental goal towards later destigmatizing the issue c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 08:40 AM
36

"Young boys are getting manipulated by GRIFTERS!" "Why specifically are young men getting manipulated?" "Lol idk must be genetic"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 09:36 AM
3

We must have very different life experiences. I've noticed an incredible change in perceptions of autistic people both among people I meet in real life and online over the last 15 years. There is still a problem, but it's improving. Autism was added to the DSM-III in 1980. It takes a long time to destigmatize something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 09:13 AM
6

I'm merely answering the question with what I truly believe would get incels more empathy. No judgement. Many things that aren't medical conditions used to be in the DSM.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 09:09 AM
32

Unfortunately that doesn't help incels get more empathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 03:51 PM
35

You make it a part of the DSM-5.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 03:50 PM
12

Horshoe theory strikes again, I love how it keeps happenning
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/24 07:26 AM
26

I'm going to catch downvotes, but in some places in the world, some men have some privilege. But a grand universal Male Privilege™? Myth created to promote a siege mentality among feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/03/24 07:19 AM
5

That's a fair way to look at it, I'm glad we arrived at shared conclusions. Peace to you friend
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/24 04:35 PM
15

My friend, I believe that you have good intentions, but this is not the right way to approach the problem. All those things about racist undertones and history of circumcision etc have little in common with OP's body image issues. It's a deeply private matter that for some people takes a lot of time to properly process. Simply accepting an unpleasant situation is not always, well, simple. You have a different mental structure and value system, maybe for you it is easy to process. OP clearly arti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/24 02:31 PM
31

Suffering is just a thought too so why go all the way and not just dismiss suffering itself. You know things can be immaterial or 'thoughts' and still matter, right? Like money, law, love, freedom? Please abandon this argument it's impossible to defend it with dignity. And to answer your second assertion: Are all circumcized dicks the same? Is it possible that some operations didn't go as well as yours, and for example, some people lost nerve endings and find sex less stimulating? And finally th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/24 11:37 AM
24

I feel like this entire post can be dismissed out of hand since it's just a thought in my (and your) head.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/24 09:57 AM
42

If you dehumanize your ideological opponent, you feel more justified in attacking them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 09:37 AM
50

The number of women who think they're entitled to male attention and sex in that thread is insane. Isn't it a core idea of bodily autonomy to not have to date someone you're not attracted to?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/24 11:06 AM
1

I don't know, I abandoned mine, and it wasn't even a harmful one. People change views, I believe one day radical feminism will be a fringe position.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/24 07:30 AM
9

Of course, no excuses for them. But they might be easier to pull to the other side eventually.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 10:01 AM
7

That's beside the point. The point is they were not as viciously radicalized as some people think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 08:43 AM
7

I'm talking about it as much as I can without coming across as an ideologue. To my family, my friends, online, steering people's moral intuitions into a direction of fairness. I also make a conscious effort to build up my male friends, compliment them, take them to gym, talk about problems, play or create something together. Nothing flashy, but it feels right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/24 12:34 PM
13

Horshoe principle strikes again, extremists often find themselves strange bedfellows
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/24 01:25 PM
6

The brain is tabula rasa only for certain behaviours, which is obvious when you look at things like instincts in social animals and twin studies. That's not to say we should give up, but some patterns of misandry will be harder to defeat simply because they're partly biological.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/24 09:47 AM
18

Teach your daughters not to rape
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/24 11:48 AM
2

Interesting. I keep mistaking my n=1 for an accurate model of the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/24 03:33 AM
38

The right also hates you, "man up", "this is your duty", "grab the rifle and go kill those other men" and all that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/24 01:42 AM
2

Oh so these are not crimes? I guess it's time to do it to the male politicians who voted for it and see what happens, as a protest. Something tells me the laws would change in no time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 10:27 AM
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I agree and want to add that it's not just the left that does it, the right is all about purity and rules. I was a tradcon when I was younger and saw it happen in many offline spaces. Firebrand ideologues and quiet conformists did all they could to enforce The Values™, and in their minds I'm sure they had the best intentions. To them dissent was an external attack, and any ideological conflict led to a witch hunt. Ideological possession
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 09:33 AM
36

Your post is in essence a call for ideological purity (which leads to radicalization). A sub about true equality shouldn't have ideological purges, or it will soon become an echo chamber. It's necessary to call out bad ideas, but don't call mods to force the change in the direction you like. Besides, nothing is 'sneaking in'. These are opinions that have equal value to your own, from equal users of an open community. Leftism is not a monolith, or a line in the sand, it's a gradient. And to play …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 01:17 AM
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This. It would be a mistake to alienate women who are male advocates, or even curious visitors. Different perspectives are the best test for the values that are created here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 01:04 AM
11

Those are the problems of the state, and shouldn't be the responsibility of individuals, least of all one gender but not the other. Equality for everyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/24 10:10 PM
4

And not let a gender war obscure a class war. This is all a distraction while the rich get richer, and average incomes stagnate all over the 1st world countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/24 08:47 AM
16

All about social signaling and those whole love status games.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/24 08:50 AM
18

I think a charitable interpretation of this phrase is that it's a kind of an intuition pump for people who behave awkward around women or signal benevolent sexism. And in time it evolved into another victimhood cliché
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/24 08:57 AM
24

It's human nature and a cognitive bias we all have, that in itself is not malicious. But whether someone chooses to act maliciously based on those biases - that is the issue. It would be ironic to say this, and then complain that "all feminists use these narratives to justify acting maliciously". But some do, and some do not. I think we are justified in judging a movement without judging individuals, as long as we remember that important distinction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/23 10:38 AM
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It ruins their narrative and victimization complex. Without an enemy to hate and feel resentful towards, all that is left is treating each person like an individual. It's not just feminism, all ideologies rely on othering entire groups into dehumanized stereotypes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/23 09:18 AM
1

Nice necro, but I'll bite. I refuse to let that misandrist term define me. I'm free.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 07:46 PM
56

Great points. By saying "not like the other girls" they're saying "fall back in line or else" This is a classic case of enforcing conformity in a social group one identifies with. And like most such cases, it should be called out as misogyny and toxic feminism. "Boys should... Girls should..." Yeah take a hike. Girls and boys can be whatever they want to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/23 08:55 AM
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Low-quality bait. An angry dude wrote this 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:54 PM
12

My heart goes out to the black and brown men, brothers who have been used and mistreated for so many years, only to now be used to prop up other groups' victimhood. You were denied the justice that was your due in this "enlightened" world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 08:12 AM
1

"There is a trend in the population, so let's treat individual cases unfairly" How does this make sense to you
/r/MensRights11/10/23 07:43 AM
52

An actual call for genocide. 18.5K hearts.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:53 AM
0

Is value only economical for you? That's a very shallow and reductionist way to see people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:08 AM
2

I can't believe anyone could doubt it. Is this some blackpill shit? Everyone has value Even the most useless man would have intrinsic value as a thinking, feeling individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:09 PM
7

Are you actually advocating for aborting boys just because they're boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:09 PM
10

Also what one woman may consider a situationship, her partner might consider casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:21 AM
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Stop spreading bad science. The study you're referencing looked at just 500 people, was done locally, and was never replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:05 AM
5

Not sure what you mean by this kind of study? It's a very small sample, in one country, over a short time, with limited qualitative data - that's not representative enough to make any statement about men in general. Having studied sociology at uni and seeing what crap gets published in prestigious journals, I don't trust big social science "discoveries" - nobody should. Sure, a well-constructed, large-sample study that has been replicated more than once may be legit. This isn't it.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 05:54 PM
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Methods: A total of 515 patients were prospectively identified as having either a malignant primary brain tumor (N = 214), a solid tumor with no nervous system involvement (N = 193), or multiple sclerosis (N = 108) who were married at the time of diagnosis. Basic demographic information and data regarding marital status were compiled. Patients were followed prospectively from enrollment until death or study termination. You can dismiss small sample sizes like these out of hand. "Men do x" - we c…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 03:27 PM
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Some people condition themselves to take abuse every day and become insensitive to indignity and shame, even welcome it. It's a legit survival tactic for being in horrible conditions, but also how radicalized male feminists deal with their social status.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 07:40 AM
1

Pinky promise?
/r/MensRights18/09/23 10:59 AM
5

Ok, so I was imprecise by conflating the sexual revolution with feminism. Don't see how that makes me projecting, do you mind explaining your thought process? And in the quote it stands: "(...) has done for women is teach us to speak up for what we want in bed" implying women needed to be taught this. Now that is projection. You think I'm overinterpreting?
/r/MensRights18/09/23 10:25 AM
1

What made you think I was projecting?
/r/MensRights18/09/23 09:27 AM
2

Spot on. Whenever someone says (unacceptable) "radical x" is totally separate from (acceptable) "x" they're trying to manipulate you. The truth is there are no clear boundaries between the two, and most x'ers are to an extend radicalized. This is true for every ideology, including the "good" ones. And why do people try this manipulation? It's to shift responsibility from the broader movement to deal with their own extremist fringe.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 08:14 AM
7

So she just asserts that before feminism, women were incapable of communicating in bed. All of history, every country, every woman, until feminism rescued them. Even if this was remotely possible, you can't just say such things without solid evidence.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 07:52 AM
9

If you want male advocates to talk about things you want to talk about and prop up your socialist ideas... your plan is set up to fail. Make a video about things men want to talk about, and if they don't think why socialism can help them, try to understand why. Then you have a good video, and you're opening both your eyes and your viewers'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/23 08:15 AM
2

Those poor blokes. They couldn't even escape, had to fight or spend many years in prison. Meanwhile I see young Ukrainian girls on the street eating ice cream, laughing in groups, walking dogs. Primary victims of war.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 08:14 PM
4

Thank you, now I understand your position better. I think the comparison is still valid even if men who commit suicide are tortured and humiliated on a personal and not on an industrial scale - I see the tragedy of death as something personal first, and the systemic context as secondary. Right now a Holocaust's worth of men dies every decade, and some of it could be prevented if the masses become aware of the problem. If it is our duty to stop this tragedy, then no words should be sacred to us w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 01:25 PM
11

Why in particular do you find the comparison distasteful? Can you please explain your reasoning here? At ~700k suicides per year globally it's obviously not a matter of scale.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 12:02 PM
26

Remind me please how many men commit suicide each year? Are those people of lesser value to you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 09:57 AM
5

Absolutely heartless. Olivia who is a hero to nobody at all, taking cheap shots at a mentally ill man. What happened to empathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 09:45 AM
54

I know he's not very popular with left-wing people, but when Jordan Peterson cried a few times during interviews, his opponents cruelly ridiculed him for it. Don't remember the full context, I think in one case he was reacting to someone's tragic life story, another time just being vulnerable and sharing. To me it was simply raw emotion and in a way impressive - it shows how much you trust and emphatize with the person you talk to. And the criticism strikes me as weird, I don't see anything sham…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/23 03:10 PM
3

Forgot an /s there buddy
/r/MensRights01/09/23 10:48 AM
2

Hopefully this changes soon.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:33 AM
20

Unless it's a work safety issue, I'd be quite offended if my boss told me to shave. Is this a US thing? Rock that Gandalf beard every day baby
/r/MensRights31/08/23 07:03 AM
7

Honestly surprised people downvoted you for saying a reasonable thing
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:29 AM
3

Never heard the phrase IRL. Saw it first on plebbit
/r/MensRights27/08/23 08:02 AM
1

Anecdotal evidence doesn't let you generalize for half the world's population. You've let yourself become radicalized. Snap out of it. There are many great, compassionate and kind women, who are sympathetic to the MR cause.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:49 AM
3

Why is this patently false comment upvoted so much? Control your emotions, people. Don't become a male reflection of radfem.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:04 AM
18

"Why am I in a cheap retirement home and oh nobody visits poor me"
/r/MensRights25/08/23 08:55 AM
6

You're scared because you're unprepared. If you can escape, make an actionable plan to do just that. Take stock of your options, save some money, look up travel options. Research immigration policies until you find a country that could host you. When shit hits the fan, you will be ready.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 10:44 AM
1

Where would you escape if getting drafted became a real threat?
/r/MensRights24/08/23 07:37 AM
7

It's sneaky because it sounds positive. If you're enough, you don't need to struggle. But enough... for who? I don't want to be enough for anyone. I want to be the best I can be, for myself. And I reject any outside judgment on what I'm "supposed to be" for society.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 08:49 AM
5

Surprisingly hard question. There are many physiological things I enjoy about being a man, but to me being a man is mostly physiological.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 07:46 AM
3

Hey, it's the "use otherwise illegal language at home" guy. Career politician and pedophile worshipper. Truly, a male leader. Don't pay people like him any mind.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 01:37 PM
4

Create support networks. They can't coerce you into silence if other MRAs will hire you, recommend a trusted lawyer or just provide emotional support.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 12:05 PM
1

Beautifully said, thank you for writing this.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 07:49 PM
4

Absolutely agree, you expressed it better than I could.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 02:15 PM
8

Lol first time I see it too. Thanks mate.
/r/MensRights10/08/23 11:37 AM
85

6 years here and hoping for 60 more. Combination of: low-maintenance, pragmatic, sense of humor without a big ego raised in a stable, loving family with a role model father and mother internalized traditional values (v. religious catholic, but accepts my lack of belief), despises 3rd wave feminism and politics in general, high sense of self-worth (no attention-seeking behavior - here she needed a little help), I feel blessed to be married to her. Obv even the best marriage can end up broken by e…
/r/MensRights10/08/23 10:16 AM
18

They have more rights in most countries because they don't get drafted and have better formal support networks.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 10:19 PM
4

Ok, let's take this logic, apply it to other things/people our society treats as having limited agency, and see where that takes us. If the logic is sound, limited agency should consistently result in lenient treatment. Dogs that attacked people? Put to sleep or shot. Organizations that hurt people and get sued? Small ones pay huge fines. Big ones pay nothing. Teens that commit crimes? Boys 15+ - prison. Girls 15+ - slap on the wrist. Is this misogyny? Verdict: Nah, that doesn't work. Either you…
/r/MensRights05/08/23 08:51 AM
5

"I'm strong, I'm flourishing despite the trauma." It sounds so benign, but it sneakily implies that everyone else who's not dealing well with trauma is somehow inferior.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 08:49 AM
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Get ready to hear how it impacts women far more than men and therefore is tragic. Lots of bs office jobs are about to go (mine included lol)
/r/MensRights02/08/23 04:27 PM
7

- man who sent tens of thousands to get shot and ground into bloody mist, but died peacefully in exile
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:43 PM
1

There is no proof of grand conspiracy. It's just normal people being assholes to one another.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:12 PM
2

So yes, the common local male in our country is essentially the lowest lifeform. Even cats and dogs are treated much better than us. This is horrible. Imagine if those men simply stopped working for one week as a peaceful protest. There would be a total humanitarian crisis, and the government would be powerless to stop it. Maybe then something would change
/r/MensRights31/07/23 07:57 AM
3

Oppenheimer is apparently a bad movie because it doesn't mention the forceful relocation and horrible treatment of local workers at the plant and their families. Just something I read elsewhere on reddit - not sure if it's true
/r/MensRights31/07/23 07:52 AM
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It's not ground gained if it's wrapped in feminist rationalizations that distort the truth. Unless those are tangible effects like supporting rape victims financially, in that case any help is welcome.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 07:42 AM
12

What does this mean for a left wing men's advocate? It means that conservatives don't have a monopoly on efficient social structures.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/21 02:43 PM
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This is somehow a controversial idea, it's bewildering. And yet most people will agree drunk drivers should be punished even if they didn't cause an accident. People should own the risk inherent to drinking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/21 06:06 PM
1

Not a by-the-book recipe, but give it a shot. Put rapeseed oil on a saucepan. Wait until bubbles appear.Crush some garlic and put it into saucepan. Wait until it browns. Remove the garlic.Put ground pork meat into saucepan. Add a bit pepper. Fry until meat is white. Add your favorite vegetables and stir fry for a bit. I use a mix of onion, carrots and celery, but that's just personal preference. It's okay not to add anything but onion. Some people like to add a little sugar at this point. Add to…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 01:47 PM
9

Our culture places a lot of importance on looks, but do you trust this decadent, shitty culture to make such a personal judgement about you? Do you trust this culture to such a degree as to internalize this judgement and decide your own worth based on some arbitrary set of values? Of course, you don't. But it's a subtle lie, and all of us sometimes forget to snap out of it. This obsession with looks was created to sell celebrities, clothes and other crap to normal, perfectly content people. To c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 01:36 PM
2

This is the most wholesome thing I've read all day.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:50 AM
8

That's like asking how do you move your hand. I do it with my mind. Nobody knows "how", you just do it. But maybe I can explain it a little from personal experience. Let's say I'm angry at my father who used to beat me. My instinct and first reaction is to hate him and want to bash his face in. This anger flows from emotional wounds. When he beat me I felt pain, humiliation and helplessness. Now as an adult capable of self-reflection and emotional control, when I'm thinking about my unresolved a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 10:18 PM
7

I deal with this a lot. Forgive them, forgive yourself, let go. The feeling of letting go of your anger and hurt feelings is liberating. Some wounds take multiple attempts to fully forgive and forget, but each time you try, you make progress. In extreme cases only talking with the person who hurt you can help. But it's usually healthy and makes the relationship stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 08:31 PM
6

Extreme jealousy and overprotectiveness are signs of an insecure, bitchy man who wants to own you, not be with you. If he can control your looks, can you control his? If no, he can't tell you what to wear. If yes, that can also work, but now you can send him to the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 12:36 PM
4

He clearly cares about you, and you about him. Perhaps you could reach some sort of middle ground. One example that comes to mind is, when you have children, you get married. Make sure he understands how important this feeling of security is for women who want to have children, and that you're seriously planning to fully commit to this relationship. Having children seems like a reasonable and clear line. Obviously in this situation you would have to decide when you both want to actually have the…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/20 07:33 PM
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