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I kind of do smile at people, it doesn't matter if they are guys or not. I'll definitely smile at the shop assistant when I do a grocery shopping, if it's not busy then I usually have a short conversation with them. I don't give a damn if they are good-looing, fat or whatnot. On the street, if I am in a good mood myself, I'll smile at people too. I really don't care if they are guys or girls or how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:37 AM
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I don't know, when he was drunk he called me "his unicorn" a couple of times, which I thought made it almost certain he reads TRP.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/17 03:28 PM
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I did, actually.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/17 02:04 PM
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He's 5'6", I'm 5'8". Why does it even matter?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/17 08:27 PM
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What if you are a woman and tell that to a guy? I assure you, his reaction would be ten times worse.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 07:38 AM
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Is that really the only thing all you haters read from my (rather lengthy) post? I guess it's too hard for you to accept the fact that good-looking people generally date good-looking people. Maybe I should have added that he is younger than me, good two inches shorter, and I'm Caucasian while he is of Asian descent. Neither of these matter to me, nor do I think it is relevant, but if it makes you happy, there you go.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/17 03:31 AM
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In my country there is no thing such as "alimony", and it's really unusual for one partner to make ten times more than the other. Usually everyone makes more or less the same, so even if you divide things in half, noone feels they lost all that much. It's not my fault US sucks. The majority of developed countries can sort out these things better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 11:43 AM
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All those parasite women who spend their husbands' money on grocery shopping and kids' diapers. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 06:01 PM
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Nice job ignoring divorce rape Well, apart from everything else, WHO wrote the law? I assure you that the majority of it was decided solely by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 06:00 PM
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Oh darn, this sounds so familiar I could have written it myself. Especially this part: and basically said that I'm an exception I hear that all the time, then I ask the guy how many girls or women he has actually known in his life (not counting one night stands) and the answer is ZERO. Yet he is willing to believe whatever other dudes (who also know nothing about women but stereotypes) tell him.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/17 02:47 PM
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There aren't many "cool RP bachelors". They all get bitter in the end.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:29 AM
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I have Facebook and am on it every day, usually when work is slow. Lately my newsfeed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses, having babies, and other various accolades. I can't help but feel jealous by this Frankly, this part screams to me that the story was written by a frustrated male virgin rather than a girl. It's obviously based on stereotypes and is aimed to ridicule the main character. I assure you no woman would ever write anything like this. Even if facebook actua…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 05:02 PM
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What if she doesn't want kids?
/r/MGTOW06/05/17 03:32 AM
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I think it's the other way round, actually. Average people (and I'm not talking just about looks, but also average jobs, average income, lifestyle, hobbies etc.) have it easy to find partners, because most people ARE average. They have a lot of potential partners to choose from, and therefore a big probability of finding someone they match with. If you are unusual in any sense, either very attractive or unusually unattractive, or just leading a life that is far from average, it becomes more and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:55 PM
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That's pretty simple, all girls (regardless of whether they are actually attractive or not) get criticized and judged by the way they look, from the day they are born till they die. You are taught that your value depends on how pretty you are, and even if some day you make a choice not to care about looks, unconsciously you worry all the time. And noone really is perfect, even the prettiest girls, and prettiest girls are aware of their flaws, because they are constantly reminded of them by peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:33 PM
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I'm talking about guys I was attracted to. If I could actually date every guy I like, then the world would be such a cool place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:15 PM
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Every man I was attracted to was a nice, sensitive, non-dominant gentleman. Literally none of them ever went to the gym (they weren't fat or anything, just normal build). One of them was indeed arrogant, but I ditched him before we actually had sex. BUT TRP of course knows what you want better than you do. Don't even try questioning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:04 PM
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If you want such a relationship that's cool with me Actually, it's not cool with me. TRP teaches its followers to make women loose their confidence, to manipulate them and to use psychological abuse on them. I do feel the need to speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:52 PM
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What gives away a PUA (including the one in your video) is that they are really boring. It honestly feels like they are talking just to talk. They have not one interesting thing to say. Personally, it annoys me as hell. I don't mind talking to guys, even strangers on the street, but as long as they are honest and act natural. Even if they are shy, they look nervous talking to an unknown girl, it's still so, so much better and more fun than talking to a PUA robot who fakes confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:45 PM
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Definitely smart. Some people are saying it's good to be beautiful when you are young and wise when you are old, but I disagree. You can enjoy your youth plenty if you are smart. Beauty can make it even more so, but it's more of an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:22 PM
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Thing is, low intelligence would most likely mean you wouldn't feel the need to learn. You wouldn't realise how important it is, you'd get impatient soon and so on. Not to mention, knowledge itself isn't worth much unless you know how to use it, and intelligence is definitely needed for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:16 PM
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It is true. I know guys as young as 25 that I look at and think, "damn, they looked so hot just a few years ago, what happened???". Anyway, I dated a few older guys in my life. The thing is, when I think of guys older than 40, maybe 3% AT MOST are still good looking enough for a 20-something-year-old girl to be attracted to. Status, money etc. won't fix most cases, and if it can, it will be probably even less than 1%. Average man on the street has just no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 04:53 PM
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I absolutely second that. Maybe I would also add, when you have sex with someone for the first time it's always slightly awkward. But it feels much less awkward if you are actually comfortable with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 03:48 PM
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major flirt but also super shy How about some of these: must be super thin, but have big natural breasts must look perfect at all times, always wear professionaly looking make-up and elegant clothes, but can't be as shallow as to spending half a day in the mirror or being interested in fashion must be a virgin, but a very experienced one must not be interested in how much money her partner makes or think of spending her partner's money, but also has to give up her job when she gets a boyfriend S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 10:14 AM
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You didn't ask how people succeeded to get laid Actually, that's pretty much what I asked for (not in this exact wording, but I hoped it would be clear enough).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:49 PM
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Good for you, on the other hand, you didn't need to go on TRP for any of this. Just as you say, you mostly learned by dating more girls (getting experience), which happens to most people anyway. And it's not like you couldn't ever date anyone in the first place. But thanks for the reply anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:47 PM
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See there, if I asked for stories about how people passed Harvard's entrance exams, I wouldn't be interested on hearing stories from people who failed multiple times but learned to hate all examiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:40 PM
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I was asking for a proof that TRP does work, not that it doesn't. And I suppose TRP's goal is getting you more girls, not making guys whine about women day and night, right? (We already know it does the latter).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:32 PM
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Suppose it all depends on a person. Of course, TRPers feel they lack control, so they will look for submissive women. In general, that's what insecure guys do. I'd say, most guys, however (in Western countries), prefer a woman who is at least reasonably assertive, has her own opinions and views and so on. So, finding a guy in both cases is just a question of finding the one that likes your personality. As for keeping - that's whole different thing. I'd say submissive women have it much harder. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:59 PM
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will be my best female friend for the next 4 years and sex or a relationship would just ruin that Is it really so? I mean, that's the main reason why I don't want relationships with my male friends, yet if I (a girl) ever said that, I would instantly get bashed by guys really bad. Apparently, it's not a legit reason or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 11:09 PM
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If he did not want to be a father he should have not had sex. Or he should have worn a condom at the very least. Is it really that hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 10:42 AM
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I don't mind if he's short/shorter than me. It never really bothered me, as a matter of fact I tend not to notice unless maybe a guy is significantly shorter than me. But even then, I don't care. Frankly I don't get why everyone is so fussy about height. I want a partner, not someone who dominates me in every aspect, okay? For the same reason, I don't mind younger guys, I don't need them to make lots of money either. I do care whether they do something they like, though (people who do tend to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:38 AM
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I know quite a few musicians who had loads and loads of girls. Most of them act like real gentlemen, they aren't pushy, they are sensitive to girls' needs, sweet and extremely polite. They try to make advances at girls they like, sure, but it's not in an 'alpha' style TRP describes of anything. Talking, smiling, eye contact, gentle touch. Pretty simple. Some of them are really good-looking, and yes, it definitely helps. Not really bodybuilders, just naturally handsome. Plus some charm and charis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:21 AM
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Feminists don't sleep with sexists. No freaking way. Usually one sexist remark/behaviour and you can be sure a feminists won't ever talk to you again. Even more so, every woman in her cycle will know to stay away from the guy. Anyway, being so-called 'Chad' doesn't necessarily make you sexist. From my experience, it's the other way round, confident guys don't feel the need to treat women badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:11 AM
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Yeah, well, that too, but what I meant is, artists don't get the idea of monogamy. True both for guys and girls. Sleeping around is totally normal, and if you are in a relationship, cheating is not cheating as long as noone finds out. If they do, well, everyone does that, so no big deal. I'd love to see a redpiller dating a girl with this sort of mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 11:55 AM
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I've asked a similar question here before https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5x5fet/q4rpm_which_of_these_women_would_you_find_most/ And it seems like most guys fancy female artists. (I guess that's only because none of them has actually dated an artist.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:21 AM
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I'd say it depends. Yes, it is often hard to say how old someone is. When I look at my friends who are in their early 30s, I myself wouldn't ever guess if they were 20 or 30. Not everyone gets wrinkles when they turn 30, I mean, seriously. That's what you think when you are a teenager and only hang out with your classmates. As for whether age matters in social relations, it's different in different environments. I always had friends 20 and 30 years older than me, and at certain point I also star…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 07:19 PM
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Okay, then maybe I'm just weird. I never feel attracted to anyone unless I feel a connection and mutual understanding on a deep level. As a matter of fact, I did once give it a try and dated a guy who was objectively great (a Chad in every aspect, and I'm not exaggerating), but from a different world, so to speak. We did have sex twice, but I can't say I enjoyed it; if truth be told, my body hardly even reacted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 05:50 PM
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I would, if we work together or even just meet very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 03:22 PM
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compatibility is pretty useless in short term mating I completely disagree. If anything, it's the other way round. It's easier to overcome certain differences when you know each other long (not necessarily being in a relationship). When you just met and there is not immediate connection, I see no chance for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 02:32 PM
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I'm a girl, and whatever TRP says, I started feeling really physically attractive AFTER 25. Perhaps it's a question of confidence, which I lacked when I was younger. Perhaps the fact, that I was very serious about my education and simply didn't go out much when I was at school/uni. Perhaps the fact, that once I started doing interesting things in my life, I naturally started meeting like-minded people, who showed interest in me. Also, I used to be super skinny, and I sort of still am, but around…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 12:34 PM
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There is one thing that perhaps confuses men and leads to many rape cases: when she says no, don't push her. If a girl says 'no' repeatedly, yet you continue touching/kissing/etc., the mere fact that she doesn't punch you in your face does not equal consent. For one thing, sexual assault is an assault, so a girl might feel too scared and/or get paralyzed to even be ABLE to fight or resist. Unless a girl specifically says she wants to sleep with you OR at the very least is actively participating …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 12:22 PM
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so all of his friends and all of his family know What if they just don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:44 PM
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Simple, men don't have free servants available to them 24/7. You'd be upset if it was taken from you just as much as men are. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 08:51 AM
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From watching a lot of mainstream porn and the interviews with porn actresses before a scene, This could as well be followed by: I learned that all women like being deepthroated. Some can even have orgasm doing it. But my gf says she doesn't enjoy it. Why is she so weird? Stop watching porn, this is the first thing. Talk to girls about what they actually like. I like both being dominated and dominating. I'm neither sadist nor masochist, but I enjoy it as a game which has a high level of exciteme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 09:29 AM
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Not too big, not too small. I did have two partners who were rather small, and I probably wouldn't even pay that much attention to this fact, unless they were whining about it. They did seem to be unsecure, had low confidence etc. And this is what sucked, and was the reason we ultimately broke up (one of them was literally telling me he got too intimidated by me and couldn't even get it up. Geez). Also, I did have a boyfriend with a really huge one. And sex felt awful, because, well, basically i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/17 08:12 AM
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Hey, this is a very nice answer, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:29 PM
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I'm surprised that RPers would be attracted to that Me too, if truth be told. First of all, I was sure almost all of the answers would be "it doesn't matter what she does, I don't care". Seems like RP does care after all. And as for artists, I suppose it seems like a classical musicians would be gentle, sensitive and feminine. Maybe that's why it seems attractive to RP. You don't realise that's only one side of the story until you experience it yourself. And besides, I wouldn't trust an artist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:30 PM
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I'm assuming the looks remain constant for the different careers Yep, you understood my question just the way I hoped people would. Frankly, once I moved to one of world's fashion capitals, I realised models don't often look that good. Pretty much any girl can be a model, if she is tall and skinny. Sometimes being ugly is actually an advantage, because you are more memorable. But for some reason, people still tend to think being a model is a "cool" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:19 PM
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Artists sit around on the house and be like, "oh let me mix these colors and stroke this brush That's kind of why I added the "accomplished" adjective. ;) Artists do work hard, actually. And they travel a lot too, especially musicians, but not only musicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 03:14 PM
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Actually, the answers seem to vary quite a lot. Interesting. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:26 PM
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As a matter of fact, I agree with you, I did some runways and all they really care about is your measurements. I don't get why people (well, mostly guys) even get so excited about it, or why they find it glamorous or sexy or whatever. :/ I do like models posing for artistic photos, though. It does require some imagination, self body awareness, confidence, even acting skills. BTW, what if a girl is an artist but you are not so much into what she does? Can't you just treat it like it's her job? Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:19 PM
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Yes, I know this rhetorics. But if you're going to spend hours with somebody, maybe it DOES matter what she is like. Even if not a career itself, her life choices might say something about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:08 PM
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I wouldn't ever date first two guys. They look disgusting. Yuck. Even the third guy is a bit too muscular for me. I definitely would call him athletic, but I prefer guys who are just lean. No protruding veins like that please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:56 PM
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My comment: lol, looks like I've been dating Chads all my life without ever realising that. o_O
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:17 PM
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Whenever I feel a guy is trying to dominate me, I leave. I like my independence, I absolutely hate people trying to tell me what to do. As for sex, it's fine, as a sort of game. In my opinion, the reason why women are into bdsm is because they are just bored with unimaginative lovers. Bdsm is better than doing the same things countless times. And I like dominating in bed when I'm in a mood myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 05:57 PM
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I've recently had a discussion with a guy who sincerely believes that if a woman has labia minora not entirely hidden by labia majora, it means she had received too much oral sex in her life, and supposedly "that's why so many women in their mid-thirties have vaginoplasty" (I didn't even bother explaining the difference between vaginoplasty and labiaplasty). Also, quite a few guys I know believed that big breasts are a result of a workout (their argument being, "look at all those instagram model…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 05:22 AM
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It's got nothing to do with respect... It's a question of emotional closeness. And yes, you usually need to date for a while before you get there. It might be quicker if you knew someone before you started dating, but usually takes some time either way. I can't even see the point of having sex with someone you barely know and have no idea what she/he likes, with someone you don't feel completely safe and comfortable with etc. I know I wouldn't even enjoy it, I would just feel awkward all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 04:02 AM
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True not just for virgins, but guys with little experience too: acting awkward, having no confidence or faking confidence. Trying too hard, apologizing for everything. When you tease them playfully, they get all puzzled or even scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:41 AM
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Face and penis. I don't mind height at all, he can be shorter than me if he feels comfortable with that. Most women I know have similar thoughts on the matter. The obsession with height is more of a male thing than female, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 08:32 AM
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Beating women is the most unattractive thing I can imagine. But being aggressive in general, too. Practicing boxing or martial arts, being too muscular, all that totally puts me off. I don't just find these guys unattractive, I don't even want to hang out with them. I'm literally scared. Also, being misogynist. Treating me (or other women - this is super important!) like I'm worse, uninteresting, or even pointing out that when I do something differently than other people it's because I'm a girl.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 02:37 PM
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Yes I have, and I absolutely don't mind. Admittedly, I'm 5'8" myself, which means lots of guys I meet are shorter than me. I think that my height/slightly shorter/slightly taller is perfect, I mean, when I date, I want a partner, not someone who dominates over me in every aspect, so who even cares. I also think there is something sexy in avarage height guys dating really tall skinny models.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 09:44 AM
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I do know two people who had an online "affair", so to speak. They were really into each other, talked to each other for hours at a time. Then they met and realised that there is no physical attraction whatsoever, and became friends. Admittedly, they both are rather unattractive (physically. Really great people otherwise). So maybe that's the reason. Of course, that doesn't prove anything, but you see what I mean. Chemistry is more than just being able to get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 11:32 PM
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I think one of the main problems with interactions between men and women is that women DON'T usually take it for granted that guys want sex. That's why the so-called "friendzone" even exists. I'm personally super nice to 95% guys I meet, because I'm a nice person in general. I don't seriously flirt with them, though, untill they make it clear they are interested in me in a romantic way. I just don't. And I can imagine guys meeting girls like me, thinking "oh, she is nice, she must be into me", b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 12:11 PM
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ugly=feminine. handsome=masculine,not pretty guy wearing make up shit I don't really know where you got that. It's actually the opposite. An objectively "handsome" (masculine) guy can be actually quite ugly. Feminine guys are often really beautiful. Well, in general, women are prettier than men (sorry about that), so "feminine" will also be prettier than "masculine". And yes, those "feminine" guys, if they are indeed good looking, can be really popular. Call it a fetishism, or a preference, but,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 05:04 AM
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I'm a girl from Central Europe and I find absolutely nothing exotic about American guys. Exotic is something rare and unknown, unpredicted, in a way. However, American popculture is so omnipresent these days (like, Hollywood movies, TV series, music, celebrities etc.) that it lost its "exotic" appeal ages ago. And American guys are all pretty similar - rather shallow, overconfident for no reason (if not actually narcissistic), cheeky, pushy, more often than not have absolutely no regard for mann…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 03:22 AM
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Lots of women can't find them, though. They date for years and years only to discover that guys only want to date forever, not get engaged. And then this happens again and again. I know tens of women like that, and even more guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 08:42 PM
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Also, it's funny how TRP always says "NEVER GET MARRIED" (and many guys who don't even follow trp have the same view on the matter), then they blame women for not getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 08:34 PM
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I'm 30 and I still find gentle, feminine guys way more sexy than masculine macho types. (Not necessarily boys, though, you can get older and still be androgynous and super good-looking). On the other hand, I also don't find "alpha" behaviour attractive either. The gentler, more sensitive the guy is, the more chances he's got with me. Maybe it's not mainstream, but I definitely have friends my age or older who think the same. They end up dating normal dudes, because there just aren't many good-lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 07:04 PM
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Yeah, that's the thing. If I am busy with my stuff, I don't think about sex all that much. I'm much more preoccupied with my job, playing music, learning new things etc. When I am in a relationship, however, my libido sort of wakes up and I can have sex 5 times a day every day and it's great too. I suppose what many women miss more than sex anyway is the emotional aspect of a relationship. To be able to cuddle, and to be comforted, more than to have sex. And if you are the type who can care of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 05:59 PM
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See, I explained why it shouldn't make your dick happy. Imagine her crying over bad mark she got for her homework or making frienship bracelets from colourful strings. If you are still hard, then sorry, you are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 08:33 PM
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It is creepy. I don't care if, say, a 15 or 16-year-old girl looks like she is mature physically. It DOESN'T MEAN she is ready to have sex, even less so with older guys. She's still a child, she probably sleeps with her teddy bear and watches cartoons or these childish tv series for teens. She has a Disney-themed bedding and still plays with her barbie, when noone is looking. If you are older than 18 and it still turns you on, you really should consider getting some counseling. I don't care what…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 03:26 PM
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I always tell that to guys who say "there is no such thing as sexual harassment" and that women should be nothing but grateful for all the unwanted attention. The mistake they make is, they imagine themselves in a similar situation with an attractive girl making advances on them. They should imagine themselves in a similar situation with a gay guy making advances on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 01:30 AM
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I'm a girl and I definitely prefer guys with some feminine thing going on. Not drag queens or transsexuals, it has to be natural, but... Bo ningen This is so super hot, I can't even comment on that (they are both heterosexual guys, just in case you wondered). Also: This This And this I doubt any girl would say "no" to these guys. Anyway, I just hate muscular huge guys. I much prefer it if they are around my height (could be slightly taller, could be slightly shorter), thin, or just normal build.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 01:23 AM
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I think it's really simple. TRP guys are sociopaths who just don't care about anything but their own pleasure/wellbeing. They don't get the idea of being sensitive to other people's needs, they can't relate, they have no interest whatsoever in what other people think or feel (least of all, women). They lack sex, and they would do pretty much anything to get it, and so they assume everyone else does it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:08 PM
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First of all, as you have never been a woman, you don't know how it feels. Even attractive women have loads of inscurities about their bodies. The "you are perfect as you are" movement is just a movement, maybe helps a little bit, but the very reason it exists it because (most) women are body shamed pretty much all their lives. You are too fat, you are too skinny, you have freckles, you are ugly, your feet are too big, your breasts are too small etc. I'd say 99% of women have been through this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 07:48 PM
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It's not reading TRP that is bad itself. What's worrying is if a guy feels the need to read TRP, because it means there is something wrong with him. Even if, say, a guy is unattractive and/or socially awkward and he's looking for tips on relationships with women, I still can't imagine how he can read about treating women like scum and abusing them emotionally (and not so rarely, sexually) and feel that it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:12 PM
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100% agree. Maybe I should add, it's not just our partners (or, in OP's words, not just people we have sex with). It's a general rule for people we hang out or are friends with. They all can influence us immensely, but we influence them as well. In a relationship you spend most time with one person, so it's much bigger, but the mechanism is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 01:15 PM
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Well, if you meet the right person, it can be worth it. First of all, you get emotional support; thing is, different people need different kind of support, and that's why it's hard to find the right match. For me, I need someone who encourages and inspires, NOT try to control and dominate me like most guys do. Perhaps you are looking for something similar. Second, having a good lover can be also great. Hard to find it anymore, as most young guys grow up watching porn and have no idea about intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 12:53 PM
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This rule is ridiculous and I believe it works only in US. I've lived in several countries and never heard of it, except for on the internet. Personally, it takes at least several weeks for me to know the person well enough to have sex. I mean, unless you feel really comfortable with each other and have some basic idea what the other person likes, what's the point? It would be so awkward to sleep with someone you barely know. I don't think I would enjoy it the slightest bit. Sleeping on the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 11:05 AM
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In a way, that's true. Remember one thing though - women have more diverse views on to whether a guy is physically attractive or not. Plus, personality DOES count. The other thing is, attractive guys (again, I'm not talking just about looks), who naturally hang out with women more often and find it easier to talk to them know how to compliment girls without making them feel uncomfortable. Less attractive guys have no idea how to do it, say crazy stuff, act as though a girl is an alien or somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:03 PM
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Where are the shows that celebrate older men wanting to exclusively date younger women? Huh, like, pretty much every movie/show? https://www.theguardian.com/film/2015/may/21/maggie-gyllenhaal-too-old-hollywood
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 08:29 PM
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Yeah, that's exactly the way it is. Only super hot, 20-something (or even younger) girls. They don't even care what normal girls feel or think. I'd say, it's watching too much porn that's to blame. An average looking (or even above average looking) girl is pretty much invisible to terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 03:24 PM
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Hmm. I have a friend working int IT, she's not ugly or anything, and she dresses nicely (girly), but she isn't super attractive either. And she gets LOADS of attraction from IT nerds. Literally, all the time. I feel ever so sorry for her boyfriend who has to deal with it somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:47 PM
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Have you considered the possibility that the taste of your cum is disgusting and her exboyfriend's wasn't?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:42 AM
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Well, it's partly lie and partly true. Women realise how guys are sensitive about their sizes, and they usually don't want to hurt their feelings about it. And like many people mentioned before, it would sound super slutty to say "I like big dicks". On the other hand, you have to bear in mind that for women sex is not just about intercourse. There is a reason why sexologists talk about foreplay this much. Various body parts love being caressed, then there is emotional aspect, then the atmosphere…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:17 AM
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Actually, it's pretty simple - I don't have sex with guys unless they commit. And guess what - they DO commit. If a guy is really into you, he will do almost anything to have sex. Also, they know I would leave them if they ever cheated, so they don't (or at least they have to be super careful if they do. It's quite likely I would find out sooner or later). female; heterosexual; East Asia (but originally from Europe); not sure about economic class, I'm an artist and noone in my circle gives a dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/16 01:34 AM
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I can totally see what you mean. You can see guys all around the internet (not just red pill) complaining that women never take initiative, never plan dates, have no hobbies and passions etc. But if you DO actually have some passions, hobbies and ideas for dates, most guys will just find it boring, uninteresting or even will hate it that you have your own life (instead of being a ball of clay for them to mold).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:13 PM
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What personally annoys me most is that most guys think only they have the right to decide how we spend time together. Whenever I suggest we go somewhere/do something/see something, I always hear, "nah, that's boring, let's do something I want". I mean, so many guys complain they have to organize dates, but when there is someone who has her own ideas and opinions, they can't stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 08:54 PM
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I'm invisible to every woman to ever walk this earth So are most of women to men. women are only attracted to the top 20% of men in looks This statement is based on only one research, and not a very representative one either, as far as I can tell. And you should know perfectly well that most women don't pay that much attention to what a guy looks like anyway. If you have something else to offer, you'll be just as sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 03:56 AM
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Oh, it doesn't mean girls have high expectations, it just means girls' expectations vary. Which actually means you should approach them, because one of them might find you extremely attractive (even if, say, majority doesn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:31 AM
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I can kind of say that his features are regular and he might be called "handsome". But I just don't find him attractive. Nothing about his physical appearance turns me on. He looks boring, like hundreds of other guys you see every day on TV. I remember I had some (girl)friends who had Brad Pitt's posters on their walls and such, and I just couldn't get why they fancy him. I see so many guys that are WAY more interesting in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 01:16 AM
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I totally don't mind. If he is my height, it seems just right, slighly shorter is fine, slightly taller is also great. If he's too short, he might feel weird with me around, so I think it would be unadvisable, though I wouldn't personally mind. If he's too tall, I would probably tolerate, but tall definitely doesn't equal "attractive" to me. I never understand why women would pick guys just because of their height. I don't know any such women, btw. EDIT: I thought I would maybe add, I know loads…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:51 AM
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I prefer not too tall, although that's not so important. Can be shorter than me, I really wouldn't mind. And why would I not reject a man who played Superman? I don't see anything particularly cool about it. Superman movies are tacky. Personally I would be ashamed to admit I had anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:41 AM
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The other side of the story is, sometimes telling a guy you have a boyfriend is the only way to get rid of them. You say you are busy, you don't answer their questions, you tell them openly you are not interested, and they still won't leave you alone. Do you guys even imagine how annoying that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 12:32 AM
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I absolutely would reject him, I find this much muscles to be just disgusting, sorry. And no, I've never been into muscular men. When I was younger, I just didn't pay that much attention to what men looked like. I probably wouldn't mind muscular men that much at the time, but I wouldn't find it particularly attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:45 PM
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I think, in the end, probably the fact that I can look whatever I freaking want. I often wear dresses/skirts and guys don't usually do that (not that I would mind if they did).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 06:48 AM
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Well, you should give a girl some obvious sign that you are interested in her in a romantic/sexual way, the earlier the better. Women don't see people (that including guys, obviously) as sexual partners by default. If you only talk to a girl about tennis, she'll probably think you are interested in her views/experiences with tennis, and not in her. The exception to this rule is if she is extremely attracted to you. In that case, she'll be thinking something like, "okay, so he doesn't like me, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 06:46 AM
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I have very long hair (past my thigh), really healthy, I don't even ever get split ends. Yet some guys tell me I should cut them much shorter because I would look better or (instert some random reason). It's not just guys I'm in relationships, either. I don't really get why they feel entitled to tell me what I should do with my hairstyle, but OK. I suppose it's impossible to make everyone happy. Some guys absolutely love really long hair, some will be complaining. The same would be when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:03 AM
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Most researches think of evo-psych as a sort of a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 06:11 AM
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Women want to do paid work THAT. I mean, all these guys who say how women should love being full-time housewives, because it's the greatest thing in the world or something - why don't YOU stay all day at home and do the cleaning, shopping, care for the child etc. while your women provides? Thanks to the feminists you detest so much, it's possible and even accepted in most circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 10:34 PM
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The second one would be kind of OK, if he had shoulder-length wavy hair. Short hair is just so... boring (applies to both sexes). This is kind of what I imagine perfection to be: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a4/52/77/a452771d525dfe176bf6c31aadfe5272.jpg (Admittedly, I'm underweight myself, so possibly that's where it comes from.) And no, I'm actually 30, not 18. Moreover, the older I get, the more pronounced my taste in men gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 10:05 AM
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Nope, most of my partners were almost exactly as tall as I am, one of them being actually shorter. And in any case, this really is one of the last traits I care about. I just can't imagine myself looking at a guy and thinking, "wow, he is tall, I want him". What a rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:44 PM
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Well, I don't know, personally, muscles put me off, as well as really tall guys (I like slim, but not too muscly). I prefer men who have a slightly feminine face ("pretty" rather than "handsome" would be an accurate descrption too). Also, I've never yet been attracted to a guy who is not gentle and polite. Confident is important, but definitely not a douche. Look at some actors/musicians etc. Definitely not all of them look super masculine, yet they are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:25 PM
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Whatever I write, you will only comment "AWALT", so what's even the point? You're not even slightly interested in what I might have to say. Incidentally, I'm friends with one of your heroes, and I'm always puzzled why he even bothers sharing his liberal political/social views (including feminism), when his followers are one of the most right-winged groups you can imagine. I'm guessing that only puts most of the metalheads off, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 03:05 PM
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You shouldn't have wasted your time reading my post, or even worse, commenting on it. Here's a tip: next time you see a girl posting on the internet, copy&paste the following: "I hate all women and cannot imagine higher pleasure than insulting and humiliating them." That way you get the message across and can use the time you saved on something more productive, like, watching porn. You don't need to say "thank you".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 01:30 PM
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jealous of musicians who make noise and cruise through pussy while engineers who put human beings on another celestial body have a hard time of it Well, shouldn't putting human beings on another celestial body be enough of a prize itself? What does it even have to do with women? Do you mean to say, you only want to be an engineer in the hope of having more girls? That sounds really pathetic, if truth be told. but when I see a muscular guy with a bangin' woman, I get jealous What about girls, who…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 11:33 PM
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Thanks for your insightful reply. That includes appealing to people like you, who would be appalled by a lot of the private conversations I'm sure the nice sweet alphas you meet have Well, my post wasn't intended to go nearly that deep. Of course I guess/suspect most of this stuff. That's one of the reasons I don't get into affairs with musicians. Also, a while ago I wrote what I think about them as a group (https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5guq3h/i_know_quite_a_few_socalled_al…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:10 AM
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I'm actually shocked that a man with the opportunity to slay that much pussy would actually choose not to Do you mean to say, people in relationships stay faithful to each other just because they have no opportunities to cheat? Good to know (red pill) male's view on this matter. Hopefully, feminists and social justice warriors don't hate the fuck out of Anglosphere, Western culture, Christianity, and men I'm not going to get into discussion about feminism, but you might consider the possibility …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 01:09 AM
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sounds like you have a great life That's true. Admittedly, you don't make great money that way (you don't starve either, though). I never understood why would anyone do a job they don't even like just because it makes more money than something they like. I mean, the quality of life is completely different when you wake up every day and can't wait to start doing stuff. And my job involves lots of travelling, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 11:07 PM
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As a matter of fact, yes, I started doing that at some point. I get them a bottle of wine they like best or sweets they really love, or some other things I know they might enjoy. I also do some small favors they ask me for (and that are not at all related to my work). Just like friends do. (I suppose you are aware that being friends with musicians often means you get their music as a gift. Which is great, as I am above all else a fan of their work.) EDIT: Why, is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 10:24 PM
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Would Merzbow be good enough for you, when it comes to noise, then? Well I admit I don't know many guys who do heroin. But doing heroin doesn't equal making good music, quite the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:34 PM
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Thank you for this reply! I couldn't agree more. and the married ones all married highly accomplished women of similar ages This is so, so true. I'm not saying there are no musicians who would date much younger girls, but somehow this happens to the ones that seem to have some kind of insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:59 PM
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You can be a feminist or a toxic asshole Well, that's kind of the point of my post, that they could be toxic assholes, but they are not. Why? You can bite the heads off bats, drink their blood and burn the carcasses, and a lot of girls will think it's kinda cool As far as I can tell, this is what draws male fans more than female. But yeah, sure. Doing things out of the box will always make people curious, I don't think you need to be famous for that. It shows that you have a lot of courage, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:47 PM
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Well, I'm dealing with bands that tour around the world most of the time (I don't by any means want to boast, but to give you the idea) and that don't have to worry about labels, because either labels beg them to release their music or because they have their own successful labels. So maybe that's why we have a different perception. To give you one example (I was not very close and they don't exist anymore so I think it's ok), I know some guys from Sonic Youth, worked with one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:22 PM
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I guess you've never met a Noise rock musician Actually, you couldn't be more wrong. You are damn near close to what I actually do and the kind of people I hang around with. Also, no crust, but some extreme metal, yes, I know these guys. (Sorry, I don't want to give any names in public, respecting musicians' privacy is one of the most important things about my position). And I admit musicians are all really different. I tried to find some common traits that would fit the topic. But really, being…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:05 PM
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Unless they're a bassist of course! Hahaha, heard that one too. Don't worry, bassists are doing fine, as far as I can tell. ;) But! The fact is that vocalists are the most popular, always. It might seem obvious, as they usually get the most exposure, but there is something about their confidence/aura that makes them stand out, even off stage. Once you get used to hanging out with musicians a little bit, you can always tell when you meet a vocalist, even if it's very first time you come accross e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 07:22 PM
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Even with that, some girls get emotional Well, that's the actual reason why you shouldn't do that. Of course someone in the relationship will get emotional, especially when there is physical aspect involved. Anyone older than 10 should know that. Giving warnings won't give the trick, because it's in human nature that you can't fully control your feelings. So, in a way you are the naive one, to believe that you can stop girls liking just by saying "don't like me". And no, that's absolutely not wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 03:12 PM
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Can't you see that it's your kids you are supporting? You think they have fault if a divorce happens, then? Also, you can just openly admit that TRP objects divorce only of it's asked for by a woman. I suppose it would be ideal if women were not allowed to get a divorce, but men were entitled to leave them whenever they fancied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 08:43 PM
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I suppose there might be two reasons. One of them is, many guys (not just trp guys) do base their judgement on whether a girl is attractive (and therefore if they want to have sex with her) solely on her looks. And moreover, they have similar opinions on what is attractive and what is not. That's why they use their 1-10 attractiveness scale. I suppose it's hard for them to imagine that for other people (including many or even most women) attractiveness is much more subjective. Like, women wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 04:11 PM
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Have you ever considered that maybe some people are actually happy to have a family? Not everyone is the same, you know. Some will play with toys forever, some want to have a friendly person around who will take care of them if they get sick and things.
/r/MGTOW21/02/16 09:36 AM
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Okay, so I'm not saying OP really did that on purpose. Probably by reading TRP he believed it can actually work. Which unfortunately doesn't make it any less of a traumatic experience for the girl. In other words - yes, do as you please. But if you think it's fair, or that you don't have to feel guilty (unless you are devoid of all emotions, reduced to pleasing your penis narcissist), then you're wrong, sorry. And one of the question was - will this happen often? Yes, it will. No way to avoid it…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:28 AM
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I had a guy once treating me in a similar manner. I didn't actually cry in his presence, because I fought hard not to, but it took me five years to be able to have any kind of normal relationship again. So kid yourself and come here to be patted on the back as much as you want, but it won't make your actions towards fellow human beings any more fair. If you're going to play games, at least limit your opponents to women who are experienced enough to be aware how guys trick them and lie to get sex…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:01 AM
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You haven't told us anything about their personalities. Relying on stereotypes, Guy 1 is probably really cocky and slept with way too many girls to be considered for a LTR. And he's so much in love with himself he wouldn't be interested in having a partner anyway. I have several friends that would fit your description and they have this non-carish attitude, "if I don't have any money, I'll ask mom for some"; they don't feel the need to work hard, they don't understand how it feels when you can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 01:27 AM
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I think it's much simpler than oppressions and control, you name it. I have many absolutely brilliant female friends who were doing great in their careers. However, in their late 20's-early 30's most of them have a child. Form that moment on, they make it their priority to make the child/children happy. They just are not able to work 50 hours a week, go on delegations all the time, work all nights etc., and they don't want it, in any case. They prefer to read to their child rather than educate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 09:43 PM
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It all depends on the situation. I approach men pretty often, so I'll try to summarise my methods. If it's a bar or a party, I look them in the eyes and smile and usually that's enough. Occasionally (if they seem to be too shy to start a conversation), I say hello and ask a question somehow related to the situation, however, as neutral as possible. For instance, if it's a party at someone's house, I'll ask them whether they know the party organizer well and how they met and things like that. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 09:13 PM
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First of all, this is a common misconception of TRP that being an asshole will make you more attractive to girls. Trust me, it's not that simple. Of course, there might be certain group of women that will be drawn to a guy acting like a douche, but it's highly unlikely any of them will be of any "quality". But there are many more reasons not to be a manipulative jerk. Let's switch genders in your story. Say we have a woman in her late twenties. She got all the education she could, she's got a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 10:23 AM
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