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| 1 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.The advice in the comments is pretty sub-par. I’m a woman that doesn’t text back immediately, even if I’m in to someone or my best friend reaches out. Sometimes people just aren’t on their phones that often because they’re busy or doing their own thing. Don’t take it personally or over think it. Firstly, just ask for her number. Maybe mention it’s a better way to communicate or you’d like it to set up a time to hangout. When you get it, ask if she’d like to go do something with you. I find it’s … | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid itNo need to make unfair generalizations about women. Just giving my point of view. There’s never any need to get wrapped up in other peoples feelings about you or anyone else. If you’re not insecure things like that shouldn’t bother you is my point. No one likes feeling used but you shouldn’t be tethering your self worth to the response of a stranger. My point has been that ghosting isn’t really right but it shouldn’t matter. Why be upset over someone who doesn’t give you the time of day anyway? … | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid itAgain, not cowardly just a general lack of interest or care. Even like OP said, sometimes it’s protection from an uncomfortable situation. Also, who cares if you look like a jackass? Why base self-esteem or worth on what others think? If someone is so detrimentally hurt by not getting a text or call back from a relatively unknown person they shouldn’t be dating or putting their emotions in the hands of others early on. No one owes you their time but if you know you are worth someone’s time and e… | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid itThe self-esteem boost could very well be something people want out of ghosting but that would definitely be reserved for people who take joy out of hurting others. You are correct in that some people actively avoid conflict by ghosting but my point and take away was that no one owes anyone anything. Not me, you, or anyone else. Someone who is ghosted (I have been there as well) shouldn’t stake their worth or emotional stability on a reply from someone they went on a few dates with. If you’ve bee… | /r/seduction | 20/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Ghosting - why it happens and how to avoid itThe truth of the matter is people just don’t care. I’ve ghosted quite a few people and although it’s not something I’m proud of, it’s true. Saying ghosters are “cowards” is inaccurate. Unfortunately, especially in my case, I just haven’t cared enough to respond to someone I’m not interested in. I saw someone in this thread say you shouldn’t be so emotionally invested so early on and I couldn’t agree more. I don’t owe you any more of my time than you owe me. Not everyone works out and not getting… | /r/seduction | 20/11/20 07:24 PM |
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