anberia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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498	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? You’re acting like a friend to them because you don’t want to make them uncomfortable by approaching as a suitor. But it’s not their discomfort you’re avoiding, it’s yours.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 03:16 PM
1	How to be good at sex It sounds like she wants you to be more dominant. Try that out.	/r/seduction	06/04/21 07:31 PM
1	Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single forever I think I know the feeling you are experiencing. A screaming voice commanding you share yourself with others. Speak your truth. Get in the game. And the immediate shame, guilt, paralysis when you don’t know how to take the first step. Can make you feel like you are losing your mind. I’ve started talking to just about anyone that I come across. If I’m out walking and pass someone, I say something to the other person almost every time. It doesn’t matter if it’s some cringy comment about the weathe…	/r/seduction	21/03/21 07:42 PM
3	Struggling to make dates "man to woman" any tips? Keep getting "I felt a friends vibe" from girls. How to excite women sexually is a creepy ass question unless you’re talking about an individual. Be interesting, honest and confident. Like you would be (hopefully) in any interaction with anyone at any time. Some sort of orchestrated touching or “Fonz”move is just going to make you more off-putting. Why can’t you just accept their responses and move on? You’re sounding entitled. It’s normal to not get turned on by the vast majority of people you date.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 10:58 PM
2	How Having Dogs Can Help You With Understanding A Woman's Nonverbal Communication No disagreement, but it’s creepy that you chose as your example a woman in distress, implying some sort of attraction was present. Congratulations on being a nice person, I guess???	/r/seduction	15/03/21 10:36 PM
8	Live your life your way you wanna live it not the way you think other people do. You only live once ☝️ no FOMO just do it This is what I needed to see this morning. Thank you. I’m so sick of whiny, entitled guys seething with anger because they don’t know how to open their mouths and talk to women. I was ready to shut down the apps. Keep preaching, brother. Many, many guys need to realize this lesson.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 04:44 PM
0	I’ve slept with 13 men in my life time. I’m only 25. Whenever I think about it, I feel suicidal. That number is not high. I wish I had taken better advantage of those earlier years. (Even though I think my “number” was the same at that age.) The number isn’t a problem at all. The shame is.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/21 08:29 PM
4	Women Want Men Who Are Superior To Them Women are attracted to courage, something needed sometimes for ambition and success. It’s why we date bad boys with turbulent lives.	/r/seduction	12/03/21 05:44 PM
0	Women Want Men Who Are Superior To Them Yeah, there’s a power vacuum. Some competent person has to fill it.	/r/seduction	12/03/21 04:27 PM
13	A woman's POV I felt this way until I started initiating conversations way more often. Now guys will start talking to me all the time (though not usually the ones I’d seek out). Not sure what happened. I guess I became more approachable-looking? Maybe it’s true what they say about doing the thing you wish to see makes it show up in your world.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 09:33 PM
3	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off Dick won’t kill me, hon. I’ve raised two kids all alone and built a great career. I’m a beast. I get what you’re saying, though. I spent many years with Arabs from various middle eastern countries. When young, the future kind of looks like how you’re describing. I’m just saying it doesn’t have to be that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 04:38 PM
1	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off I’d encourage you to look into the power play/BDSM lifestyle. Exceptionally high empathy and “hyper-masculine traits” match perfectly there. Those same dynamics are found in vanilla relationships, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 04:30 PM
2	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off I think toxic masculinity is even worse in more modest cultures. I’ve been getting banged by a new guy every few weeks and it’s surprisingly rather fulfilling (in more ways than one).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 04:15 PM
12	You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-off I only date beasts and what you’re saying is only partly true. Strength is so hot. I’ve stepped over hundreds of nice guys to talk to Mr. Bravado or Mr. Stoic or Mr. Mysterious. You don’t have to be a jerk to be strong (although most young guys think that’s true). I want intelligence and emotional strength. If it’s superficial, no thanks. Younger women probably give the jerks too much of a chance because they haven’t yet figured out what they’re really looking for and that it’s a lost cause with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/21 04:10 PM
-3	Well... today I cold approached.... Just like dudes like to flex their swole muscles in the mirrors at the gym, girls like to do the same when it’s safe. Since her man was around, she could get a little seductive rush by making eyes and testing you. It’s not something most of us single women do regularly until we are well into our 40s and not so spooked by how guys can become.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 03:57 PM
1	Why do some guys seem “invisible” to women whilst others seem to magnetise them? Everyone has suffering. Your external world doesn’t need to collapse to have an inner conflict. You ever talked to someone who a perfect childhood and zero conflict ever? They’re insufferable to listen to. So. Boring. No depth to them. Live a few years on Earth and you’ll take your knocks. How you react to them is what makes you.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 03:10 AM
16	Blew it. It’s way more likely another dude has stepped (back) into the picture. Don’t assume it’s you. If you’re annoyed at feeling needy and can’t help yourself, try telling a chick she’s kind of got you spun. If you’re not in friend zone, it will make her very happy and you’ll know where you stand.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 02:43 AM
1	Why do some guys seem “invisible” to women whilst others seem to magnetise them? I’m talking about how you are after you’ve “met yourself”. After you’ve “walked through the dark night of the soul”. After you hit your breaking point and endured. Could be facing your mortality with a cancer diagnosis, or working yourself broken to help your family, or facing down addiction. It could have happened over decades or in a flash on a battlefield or prison yard. You come out of it with new humility, flexibility, wisdom and strength. If you know what you’re looking for, it’s pretty ob…	/r/seduction	03/03/21 02:36 AM
1	Why do some guys seem “invisible” to women whilst others seem to magnetise them? I am wildly drawn to something I call proven courage. It’s just something that some people gain after they have been through a tough challenge (internal or external). I can sense it. I crave pulling that memory out of him and making him claim it. Then claim me. Nothing hotter than that.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 12:41 AM
2	The key to BOUNDARIES! You simply didn’t connect. But it was a good lesson in what you don’t like. Just keep in the back of your mind that we usually see ugly traits in others what we find ugly about ourselves. Check yourself when you’re being self-absorbed.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 02:56 AM
2	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Bitches be frigid. You’re a war hero, bro. Own it.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 01:33 AM
1	Do you believe that everything that people do, is to attract the opposite sex? That opposite-sex attention is the only thing that matters in life? Lol. It’s so funny to be reminded of what we were like as kids. That mentality may be active in younger years, but it quickly fades. Life is about self actualisation and only part of that is about getting laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 01:32 AM